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What Is The Best Psychological Trick You Know? (r/AskReddit)
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"Do you want to take out the garbage or clean the living room?" No, thanks for asking. 😆
Damn, just realized that my grandparents always play this trick on me, and since I feel like I need to respect them, I say “Yes” lol
Haha the 'awkward pause' in a conversation thing is something ive learned to master awhile ago and man is it fun to do. When the other person realizes that you are completely comfortable in the situation and they arent makes them feel like they are the one that needs to say something
Simple kindness, like if you ask how a stranger is you can see they’re face light up, nobody expects it but is almost always welcome
Not always, some people hate this question because it puts a lot of pressure on some people to either (the welcomed) lie or (not welcomed) tell the truth.
I love your channel name!
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I think this has been unintentionally done to me. My friend has always been overly enthusiastic when we see each other at school in the morning and I’ve been enthusiastic too lately. Now greeting each other is a huge hug and going “omg hiiii” “hi bestie i missed u”
So i can say this works
Go watch "Why do Japanese train drivers point at everything?" its awesome
Crap, I left my garage open XD
oh hi arizona i live in you [i live in the state arizona]
is this a psychological trick to send me to a video that you want me to watch?
When your talking to someone, and you want them getting mad or something. Have a mirror facing them in the room. Their less likely to act up when they can see themselves.
No-one wants to see themselves be an asshole
It befuddles me how easy it is to get higher quality work at faster rates out of your employees just by acknowledging their effort and achievements and encouraging them, and how so very few companies actually follow through with it. And even when they do, it's lackluster and insincere.
Just... so weird.
i babysit a lot of kids and something i do is present them with two different tasks that need to get done (for example eat dinner and take a bath). normally they don’t wanna do either of those things if i tell them to, but if i ASK them which one THEY want to do first they almost always do whatever I’m asking. they feel more independent because I’ve given them a choice and I have clean, fed, happy kids in bed before their parents come home.
3:08 I've been doing this for months already. I always forget if I turned lights off/closed the door, so I look at the lights after I turn them off and say off. Then for doors, except closed/locked. Usually works well
8:07 I did this and I turned to see the guy I liked and he wasn’t doing it anymore I was like “...”
If you are in a competition or a game with your friends and your enemy does a good shot or whatever just be happy with them and give them a compliment. Either they get irritated and lose our they get encouraged and win and you lose and don't get it rubbed in your face. Works fine for me.
'One Small Favour'... I-Is that... a RuneScape reference?
Th- wh- bro it's literally a normal saying that was made way before runscape lmao.
Lucas Steele that quest made me wanna die
2:30 I shake my house's door every time I lock it and remember the sound of shaking because it's different every time.
I have 2.
On public transport, have a tissue in your pocket at all times regardless of whether or not you're sick. Sit as far away from entrance doors as you can but make sure you're easily visible to those entering. Every time someone enters, watch them without looking away, pull out your tissue and wipe your nose, or cough a few times. People will notice you more when you're watching them and avoid you and the area near you if they can because they don't want to catch something from you.
Even if people figure out you're faking it, it won't change anything because you could easily have the real thing at any time. Most people won't want to take the risk. This won't work well if it's busy though, it requires seats to be free away from you. If you're away from doors they have plenty of time to change target from a seat near you to a seat further away.
Secondly this is more of a self targeted psychological trick and it requires a good imagination and practice.
Let's say you're trying to lift something very heavy and you can't. It's just outside your range. Maybe you can pick it up but drop it before you can carry it. This isn't going to turn you into superman throwing cars around and stuff, it's only a small boost and is still limited to your physical ability.
Let's say you're lifting a bag and it's super heavy, you can't carry it. Grab the handles but don't lift, instead close your eyes, be calm and in as much detail as possible, imagine lifting an empty bag. Imagine how your muscles feel with the empty bag, how the handles feel on your hands as you lift it etc. Sync your imagination with lifting the heavy bag, every thought in your head needs to go to your light bag fantasy. Reality is irrelevant. You will feel the weight of the bag but ignore it, keep imagining the lighter bag. Maintain this state the whole time you're lifting it. If you allow reality to remind you how heavy the bag really is for even a second, you lose the boost and feel its full weight. Use every thought in your brain to maintain the fantasy so you don't have the resources left to spare a thought for reality. It will still feel heavy but suddenly it will be just about within your ability. You'll still be putting in maximum effort. When you are able to lift it, don't think about how useful this trick is or being amazed/surprised as that's reality seeping back in. You're totally just lifting a light bag etc.
This works because even when you consciously try to use your full strength on something, your brain prevents you from doing it. It always keeps energy spare and reduces your input without your knowledge in case of an emergency and to prevent muscle damage. You know how when you get an adrenaline rush, you're much faster and stronger than normal? That's partially why. That is your true strength your body reserves for an emergency. By trying to misdirect your conscious mind into thinking what you're lifting isn't as heavy as it is, it allows you to use a tiny bit more strength than normal. It's still not your true strength but a small portion of it, just that little bit extra putting that slightly too heavy bag into the just about possible zone.
Basically forcefully turn yourself into a simple minded idiot temporarily by distracting yourself as much as possible with a fantasy of lifting a light bag so you can forget how heavy the real bag is.
You've put a lot of thought into this
@@amberriche30 I just like talking. Got tired of trying to shorten paragraphs in high school. Being forced to do that every essay effected me negatively because now I can't bring myself to start the psychological torture. Shortening my essays was harder for me than writing them. I have too much to say and too short an attention span.
Also when I cut shit out I end up being too vague and people constantly misunderstand my comments. I'd rather people not read them at all than misunderstand what I'm trying to say. Longer comments encourage those people to skip my comment and those who stay are more likely to read it properly and understand what I'm trying to say.
It's a solution to a personal problem caused by a short attention span and my irritating essay requirements in schools. Other people always complained that 500 words was too much, I always complained about 500 words being the limit as I'd usually be 50 or so above whatever restriction there was. I understand why that was in place but it's still bloody irritating.
@@GothicGamer2012 Your my hero. I write short stories and have trouble with that as well.
@@amberriche30 I write long stories. Longest so far is nearly 300 a4 double sided lined pages. I have 3 others between 100-200. Further few around 60-80. There are about 20 all with different plots, stories and events though they all use different versions of the same characters because I suck with names and each character has grown on me as if they were real people. It's like a multiverse where different versions of you do different things in different situations and each world is also different.
They're all unfinished. :)
They're just hobbies to get ideas out of my head though, I'll probably never publish any of them. Been writing them for 10 years now, switching story whenever I'm in the mood. I'm emotionally invested in all of them despite having memory problems so looking at one page reminds me of the entire story's plot. Doesn't get confusing that way. I can't remember all of them right now but if I were to read a sentence from each page I could immediately tell you the entire thing, I wouldn't do that though.
You could say I went through some shit and they were and still are a coping mechanism. I might not be here today if I didn't have that outlet to get my feelings out. That said nobody is allowed to read them and I warn everyone getting to know me that doing so behind my back will immediately cause massive permanent damage to any relationship. It's a major betrayal of trust to me.
I know almost exactly what was going on in my life and what I felt like while writing during the time I wrote each part as my mood and thought processes were transfered to paper. If I was being bullied it would translate to epic fantasy fights with bad guys, if I was tired it would translate to relaxing in beautiful locations or casual chats between characters about events, if I was in a good mood it would translate to characters doing things productive such as strategising, being upset or angry would result in my main character having the same breakdown over a different made up issue, regret and guilt for my irl actions would have them apologising later on for theirs etc. I'd also take ideas from things I watched and mold them into usable content so I can tell I watched x movie around the time I wrote x paragraph and remember some memories connected emotionally to said paragraphs.
Also I can see my advancements in English. I used to make tons of spelling and grammatical errors without realising. Now I go back and read my oldest work and I spot errors every few lines I didn't notice at the time despite today not feeling like I've learned much at all, you never realise how much your writing changes as you improve gradually and I am thankful I did start at an early age so I did have this to visibly see myself improving. It made me feel less dumb because the proof that I am capable of learning and I'm only blind to my progress is literally written on paper and is a good confidence boost. I'm 22 and these stories are what you'd expect from someone in their mid teens but for the time being I don't see myself stopping. I'll probably always go back to them whenever shit happens in my life.
@@GothicGamer2012 we have a lot in common. Keep writing my friend. That main protagonist isn't going to karate chop himself lol
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Copy whatever someone says. They’ll either: Say something difficult to say, say something you might not want to say, say nothing, or keep talking to try to get you to stop
Look at people straight in the eye , dont keep looking in different places. We talk about shifty eyes for a reason. Its remarkably hard at first, but you soon get used to doing it. It makes a huge difference to how people perceive you.
Teachers: your class wont behave? I had a teacher in high school who would come in and immediately start her lessons. Noone would listen. She never raised her voice and she would call on people who were obviously not listening to her, to answer her questions. People would laugh. She just continued doing her thing every day. After about a month of this, people started listening to her. Out of curiosity. She was always so nice. So sweet to everyone, even when they made fun of her. She told us that if we wanted to listen, that was fine but not to disturb the others not listening. If they wanted to fail, that wasnt her business. She had tenure so she got paid regardless, as long as she taught her lessons every day like she was supposed to. Lol she trolled the entire class into getting good grades and listening to her by completely ignoring their bad behavior. She was a very good teacher and the only reason I know as much as I do about history. Lol thanks Ms. E. You're a ninja!
First one, I did that at school all the time cause I was tired of those people that would force me into the dirt, after I started I got to enjoy the walkway all the way to class
If you struggle with self image, smile every time you look in the mirror. It dosen't have to be a real smile, but over time (and it can be a long time) it will make you feel better about yourself. Something about the act of smiling, and seeing yourself smile, does positive things to your brain.
“And your next line will be...”
And your next line will be...
Nani?
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7:36 ooo dang, I hate asking people for sh*t (idk why..it’s just uncomfortable) and I always say this so they don’t think of me as a greedy or selfish, now I know why they always say yes...
If you confess to someone that doesnt know you or barely know you, you have a big chance that they will start to like you back
I do the pointing thing. Mostly for when I'm about to leave a self service checkout or a seat. To make sure I haven't forgotten anything. It works.
"Would you kindly" only works on people who don't play video games. If someone said to me I would immediately become suspicious.
When you are lying to someone, as long as you are confident in yourself they will most likely believe you. Especially if they have a low self esteem.
My friends always say the I fouled them and I want to avoid an argument so I just accept it
Lol
I'm going to try one of these
Thebad gammer yeah same
Which one
Any
If you forget someone's name just ask it. When they say their name say, "Oh, I meant your last name." Or just say, "Oh, I thought it was shithead, because you're a shithead."
Either way really.
Be a senior. Wear the senior shirt.
For the first two weeks you'll be on top of the world because everyone lower than you on the food chain will part like the red sea when you walk through a crowded Hallway/corridor.
5 years and that incident still amuses me
If someone asks you for something on the phone don’t answer. Remain silent. You won’t even have to say no. They will fill the silence with why you cannot do what is requested.
Idk, I think I'd just say "Hello?" And if they kept stalling, "Did you hear my question?" And if they kept ignoring it, "Ok can I call you right back, I think we have a bad connection." I like the advice to just keep it simple and say no without offering any explanation. Sidenote: I think declining a request without giving a reason is the best method also, because if you make an excuse, even if it's a reasonable excuse, you're setting a precedent where people (and you subconsciously) will be expected to give excuses for why you're declining, when you don't owe anyone such explanations. Setting that precedent can lead to an imbalance of power in the interpersonal dynamic - You make the person with the request someone you have to answer to. Of course, this doesn't apply if you absolutely have to give a reason because it's your boss or some other authority figure who requires a valid reason for noncompliance.
That "you're free to refuse" thing is meant to be a psychology trick? Explains why my boss keeps saying it when asking me to pick up a shift. I don't think it works on me lol cause I make plans in advance like we did before social media was all-consuming.
Learn or know supervisors, managers, elected officials, names. You dont need to know them personally, just mention their name or bring them up. Cops, nurses, low level staff behave or treat you differently because they are thinking of the manager, owner CEO sheriff not you... you can leverage this to get the response you want.
In a football league when I was about 13 or so I had no definitive position and whenever I was placed on the defensive line I would always position my slim body as if I would push off hitting the outer direction of the wider person in front of me. But instead push off inward and shove the person down and away as they couldn’t recover once they pushed off. Opposing coach betrayed these poor children for letting the smallest person through to sack the qb. Coach screamed blatantly to stack 2 against me. Made me proud tiny me needed to very large boys to try to stop me
3:08 _I want to do this but I'll forget to_
I wonder why public task setting works in group activities, but has an inverse reaction in personal goals like new year goals?
Do with caution, only if you are certain the offending person/people are not violent.
If someone is trying to harass you with nasty comments or childish intimidation tactics, don’t get angry, frightened or sad. Do not break eye contact either.
Rather you should keep eye contact, and smile or laugh; make a witty comment. This tactic screws with the bully’s mind, makes them look foolish and invokes a sense you can’t be F’d with.
Most bullies are cowards who are desperate to spread misery so they feel superior, or because they lack the emotional intelligence to deal with their own baggage.
But once again, use this tactic with caution. Only use it when you are certain the person or people aren’t violent. Violent people will attack, it’s best to stay silent and do nothing in that situation. The regular losers will become humiliated and eventually leave you alone because they can’t take the hit to their ego.
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The japanese train one, i do this by accident a lot, if i feel im going to forget something i ask someone to tell me not to forget it and usually when i forget it, i remeber it because im guessing the correlation of seeing the person and me asking them to tell me makes it so they dont end up telling me anyway
Appeal to someone's emotions, the more powerful the emotion the more effective it becomes. You will win every argument and debate, even if you are wrong. Can also manipulate people extremely easily, but I have very rarely taken advantage of this one since I feel it's a bit immoral. It's easy to say "I wouldn't fall for something like that!" but if you learn to do it subtly and probe what effects an individual the most, they will fall for it. Appealing to someone's conscience is another one that makes manipulation extremely easy. If you can figure out what someone views as moral, it's extremely easy to frame something that appeals to their morality, no matter how fucked up it is. Again this is one I have very rarely used because it feels, ironically enough, immoral to me. I am sure I have fallen victim to these as well, but seeing as I have used them myself, I have learned to keep an eye out, so I think it's probably less than the average person. It's also why I come across as "cold" and "uncaring" to many people.
Psychopaths have no sense of morality which is why they will take advantage of these tactics and use them to their fullest extent to get whatever they want, which is why they are so dangerous.
I must be really stupid because I didn't get some of these. (no, I wasn't the person who down voted).
Firstly: the walk towards someone but look the other way... What other way? To their right? To your left? The other way from looking straight ahead is looking backwards ( do I look backwards? My backwards or theirs?).
Then, the 5 second rule one. You need to work out but instead are having Ben & Jerry's ice cream. What does counting backwards accomplish? You're already eating the ice cream. How does counting backwards short-circuit the excuses. Now, if it said BEFORE reaching for the ice cream count backwards. That I can see working.
I'm really not stupid just too analytical. (Who am I kidding, I'm stupid).
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look away from where the other person is looking, and the 5 second one is just for getting up your lazy ass to do something. The ice cream example would probably be to count from 5, then put the ice cream away and start im assuming. This would work very well in the other example provided about waking up instead of hitting snooze.
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i do the yawn thing lol
Nice one there Atlas! Not gonna fool me!
I do not often make eye contact with my big bosses at work because of this I can easily leave without getting asked where I am going. I just say something simple like morning and quickly go change. they forget my existence so much now that my team leader can easily send me home if our team is mostly gone and she does not want me to be sent to a different one. even my work counselor has admitted that he tends to forget about me because I don't make trouble and ask little of him.
But won't this hurt you're chances of progressing in the company?
@@amberriche30I am afraid there is no chance of progressing, to begin with, unless I want a job that filthier and more heavy physically. I am not of their company, I am 'borrowed' from a company that helps people with minor disabilities get a job but most companies just want us because of the bag of money that comes with us. My own company did question me on taking a more leading role but I did not feel adult enough for that yet.
Sorry to hear that and you sound pretty adult to me so next time if you want to just go for it 👍
@@amberriche30 I will if it means i will be dealing with people who are on the same grounds with me.
1:36 that’s why you live in canada
Omg I've done the crowd thing
But if they're being crap to you over the internet & you tell them you have something in their teeth, they'll wonder how you know.
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11:16 Username checks out
being an attractive women. You can manipulate a lot of men with that trick.
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also will try these tricks when i can😃👍
Heres a psychological trick to get people to do anything you want them too
Tell them you'll give them money
Amateur hour over here. Money's not where it's at anymore. Get with the times
@@amberriche30 no u
@@Mushbeary Now, now, no need to get defensive. Don't worry, everybody makes this mistake at first. Just stick with me kid and you'll be going places. (Cheesy smirk while running a hand over my hair to make sure its in place)
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I know what you are what am i.
This video has been posted so many times by different people
Ok Boomers
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Do a trick and I'll give you a treat 😁😎
If you tell someone not to do something, they are obligated to do that thing.
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Fith comment lol hi
10th comment 2nd dislike
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