“If You Don’t Like It, Leave” Moments That Backfired
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I never thought I'd hear about someone trying to say "you can't quit" to a volunteer. Like..... what power to you think you have over someone literally donating their time and effort??
definition of self entitlement
Guy 1: Alright, I donated a good portion of money to you.
Guy 2: Alright but could I have like...
Guy 1:
Guy 2:
Guy 1:
Guy 2: more
I did such a double take! Are they nuts? 🤪😵 I'd just tell them to keep me on the rolls if it made them happy, but I was leaving and not looking back.🥳
“If you quit, you’re fired!”
Never offer your service and talent free of charge, I find these disgusting as teenagers could've earn good starting bucks for these, ending up having to waste time at something that won't bear fruit.
For the one about not finishing food:
I hope his friend’s mother realized that forcing kids to finish everything just sets them up for overeating in the future. If they’re full don’t force them to keep eating.
Youre 100% right and I know some people which are over wait becuse of it and never left something for later
Or they could just get food that they could finish, avoiding not finishing food?
@@eggggg00 That's actually not a bad idea.
Children shouldn't be FORCED to eat food when they're full. But another crucial thing is portion control. If you give someone a mammoth piece of meat, a mountain of mashed potatoes, and a heap of vegetables as well, don't be surprised when some people just can't eat it all.
@@HellqueenRoz Yeah. It's actually a good thing to control portions tho, it forms good habits and saves money in the long run lol
Totally. My mother and grandmother taught me this mentallity and it had many negative consequenced for me, the worst being an eating disorder, which, to be fair, had many other reasons behind, but that mentallity definitly had something to do with it.
"When someone walks out of your life, let them."
Need to remember this more often.
Yes quite...
Context is important though, if someone want to leave your life. Take a moment to reflect on your actions and behaviours. People don’t just want out over nothing without narcissism playing a massive part. Sometimes you need to be the one to wake up and say hey I’m wrong and I need to deal with it.
You can ask them to stick around and like the other person said you can figure out whether you're a bad person or not but don't force them to stay if they still choose to leave after you've tried explaining why they shouldn't then let them leave also some people are bad people and you should be glad that they're gone
Instructions unclear, whole family walked out on me.
@@troystaunton254 _"Context is important"_
Yeah, but if the problem is them, they should leave. If the problem is you, they should leave - at least until you are no longer the problem.
My abusive dad said if you don’t like the rules of this house than leave, we’ll see how you’re survive this country without me.
I left and here I am still alive and living my best life and doing much better. Still going to school and getting closer to my career goal.
Sometimes leaving is the answer to your problem, the world is scary but unsupportive and abusive family is scarier. Do what’s best for you. You’re alway number in your life, no one comes first but you.
“Sorry son, my needs come before yours”
@Jordan Bustle I be wondering also to siblings,mother,grandparents,uncles,aunts.
once i am more financially stable, i'm getting the f out of this house
@@jaymixo607
Good luck!
Way to go! I’m happy you stood up for yourself and I’m so glad you’re doing well!
My 7th grade math teacher was so demanding and was angry all the time. She faked to be nice to us when there were adults around, which highly upset me personally. There was this girl who always got on the teacher's nerves and would make her start yelling at us and remind us how useless we were. Her words actually caused some harm to a lot of my classmates and myself. We were children back then, and most of us had just moved to the US and we were barely getting used to this new country, so having a teacher ridicule you and not being able to have someone believing you because "she was so nice to your dad and I when we went to the parent meeting" was harsh for us. One time she gave us all after school detention because a girl (who didn't speak English at all at the time) couldn't understand a question. During detention, we weren't allowed to do anything but sit straight and look at the front. We were expected to do this until 5pm, when she would let us go one by one. We were, of course, very annoyed at this. Not a single person in the room liked the teacher, and being locked with her for two hours while she stared at us like we were some sort of criminals made us feel even more ridiculed than being told we were stupid. Ultimately, I asked if I could go to the restroom (I had a terrible infection as a child that almost ended my life, and the doctors told me that if I hold my pee too much I could cause myself harm. The teacher and friends knew this), to which she immediately declined. My friends' sudden gaze fell on me, then on her. I asked again, this time telling her "miss, I really cannot hold it in," again gaining a no from her. Then she said, "this is my classroom and what I say goes. If you don't like it, the door's unlocked." I did hesitate for a second, not wanting to get in trouble, but I ultimately stood up with my stuff and left the room. As I walked to the restroom, I heard the classroom's door open and close behind me. Turns out everyone decided to leave that hellhole.
I hate teachers like that don't let you use the bathroom, even if you have a serious condition. When i was in school i was scared to use the bathroom so i held it in and i would get UTI's.
Strange. I would look up the rules. Assumeing your in school still. Some schools have to let students go to the bathroom. Reguardless what the teacher,school says. Being that you have a proven medical condition,proven by the right doctor. As you can from your basic doctor,but a specialists to the condition. You have to get refferal from basic doctor to see a specialist at times. Although this can vary. I had once seen a student almost die in class because the teacher wouldn't let student drink a soda they brought in. For their diabeties. Student was feeling light headed and nausia prior. Both diabetic symptoms of low sugar. Student passed out. A friend knew of the condition and gave the shot. Teacher was fired and charged with something. Kids parents sued school. They wanted pre attemted murder.
@@AllenTax they're all just 7th grade students...
@@AllenTax they're junior high kids. Do you expect them to act like lawyers?
@@AllenTax true but a some teachers don't care if a student passes out in class.
I had a friend tell me to get out of their house and never come back. They saw me 5 years later and asked where I had been, i said you told me to leave and never come back. That is the last time I saw them.
Mike Hilbert Something similar happened to me. What did they expect, that we'd beg and plead for them to keep us in their lives?
It is simular concept of dissing a bully from school years and you get much better in life. Fnnd out you make more money,friends,better health than they do.
Cutting ties with toxic friends are always the best
oof. and im saying that in a congratulatory way
@@LevonBlueoak thats an amazing sentence and i just need you to know that lol
If you don’t like it, there’s the door!
That was literally the last thing my ex husband said to me before I called a divorce lawyer. Lol
Lmao nice
Nice
Haha
J Y
Seems this man tried to be Justin
@Parvika Singh pffffffffffffffffft
A good alternative title for this video could just as easily be "Don't Threaten Me With a Good Time."
Leaving: its a hell of a feeling
My feeling right now: I'm not as think as you drunk I am 😂😂😂
@@Ilikebunnies-metoo I like your profile pic it’s Lacie? Right? I love pandora hearts
@@Ilikebunnies-metoo And we all fell down
When the sun came up
Ahhh I love the PATD references😅
Never use the "if you don't like it, then leave" threat if you aren't prepared to handle the situation of everyone leaving. Kind of a good rule of thumb for any threat, really. Don't make the threat if you're not prepared to handle the consequences.
Never heard of calling a bluff
Don't let your mouth write checks your ass can't cash.
@@UnnamedBlues GFY
Never say it unless you'd rather they leave really
“If you don’t like it, then leave!”
“Ok”
“Very good, thank you for doing what I said.”
“whats more important, your job or your cat”
“my cat”
“correct”
if only
_“Very good, thank you for doing what I said.”_
"Truth is, I'm doing what you *_thought I wouldn't do_* and you *know* it. You're welcome anyways." lol
Boss: If you don’t like it, leave.
Employee: leaves
Boss: *surprise pikachu face*
"If you don't like it, don't buy it." - Patrick Soderlund
Two years later, Battlefield 5 is abandoned.
I was just thinking of this.
It's amazing how they squander a franchise that really difficult to fail because fps gamers are quite fanatical. But that what also happened last of us 2.
@@kos2919 More like TLOU2 is ass
"If you don't like my politics. Don't buy my book." Look what happened. This also goes with Disney Star Wars in a lot of ways.
@@kos2919 Yes because every fps gamer is “fanatical” lmao..
I don't remember who said it, but there's a somewhat famous saying. "Workers don't quit jobs, they quit bad managers."
There's a bit of truth to that.
@@jasondyrkacz8270 lots of truth
I've left many jobs with great managers. I think both are important
The ex's grandparents started giving our daughter beer at less than a year old. They were told to stop. Then we were told that it was their place and I couldn't tell them what to do in their home. We left immediately and now they have no contact at their home ever again.
You are a great parent for doing that
What grandparent gives their very young grandchild beer? We know that kids shouldn't be given any alcohol at all
My sister had a moment like this:
She worked at a local brewery/bar in my home town for over 2 years. She loved her coworkers and was chill with the owner.
Except one night after they closed, the owner accused my sister of stealing from the tip jar and the register. She knew it was a blatant lie, so she called him out on it. Owner told her either she "fork up the money that she took, or leave." Her and 10 other people quit on the spot, one didn't because she had just started working there not even a week.
Come to find out that the owner was in a heap of debt and owed some money to possibly shady people.
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There's a very basic concept in labour economics called "efficiency wages". The idea is if you pay people minimum wage and mistreat them, they'll have no intrinsic motivation to work harder than the bare minimum not to get fired. If/when they are fired, they won't care because they can find a job at least as if not more desirable. Paying higher than you absolutely have to in order to have a warm body in the position is called an "efficiency wage" in that it hopefully increases motivation and productivity. The evidence is not conclusive with some evidence in favour and others against efficiency wages being worth the extra cost. However, not paying efficiency wages has been shown to result in no employee loyalty. If you make work unpleasant, they'll go. If you are a manager and you didn't realise this before, you really shouldn't be a manager.
Totally. Like some shouldn't. Common work sense is lacking,to a view. Need to see all sides. To gain both profit and STABILITY. 😐
If There are wise managers they should say “I will see what I can do” That is correct way to keep your working force but if straight out say “If you don’t like it then leave” Big mistake, that will kill off any moral trust and people will leave immediately
Example. See: America
@@AllenTax “profits” are stolen wages
@@Rainart520
I want to agree with you, but then I think that most companies want to be profitable so they can stay in business. If the employees and employers agree to a pay amount and the employers meet that amount, how are wages being stolen? I’m seriously asking, maybe we’re using similar terms but different definitions? I’d rather be wrong and corrected when possible, over wrong and believing myself to be right.
Companies should share their profits with their employees when possible. It was thanks to those employees that a profit was even possible. Still, I don’t think that a company’s profits directly correlate to stolen wages and would love to know why you think such a thing.
I can't fathom the nerve of someone saying they can't accept a resignation for a volunteer position.
4:15 You can't call him the rudest little boy if you give him two options to obey, and he picks one.
At my first job, that I was at for three years, we had quick meetings every morning, where the district manager joined on Wednesdays. I was getting paid less after 3 years than others who were just starting, where my position was one up from theirs. Asked for a raise, way only offered an amount still lower than new people. District manager in one meeting said to everyone "if you aren't happy, leave. We don't want you here if you aren't happy". So I thought "you right fam" and so did 3/4 of the store as we all put in our two weeks notice.
Lol. This happen to me with a cousin. He pay me less than a guy who recently enter and do less (is a restaurant and i cook everything and the guy help me with aome stuff) so i ask for a rise and he say that if don't like it leave him.
It been only 2 week since i left and already loose a lot of costumer and ask me to return bc we are family xD
@@VdeBeltran i hope that u didn’t cave in and that ur family didn’t try to make u work for ur cousin again. If that of u did go back to working for ur cousin then u got the raise u deserve.
This happened to my mom. She was working over 30 years and new workers come in and they got more than she did. It should be manditory for pay increase to reflect to time seved for all.
@@VdeBeltran -- I wonder if they expect you to work for less or for free because you are "family". Now you have business experience and customers who miss you, so you are probably able to find a new job as a cook where you are appreciate.
@@VdeBeltran this happened to me as well. They had ME train the man who was going to replace me. They paid him way more than me. I was the only woman in the shop. TV repair. So when the mgr went to the bank, I gave the 15 in-house technitians. All of them men. We all got along great for years. The mgr fired me the next week. And I sued the company for discrimination. The mgr got a letter from the state saying pay up or else. The techs told him they weren't in that fight. It was his baby and he can solve it himself. They did end up paying me back wages to make up the difference between my salary and the other person's salary. Bravo on me.
Had a substitute teacher in 3rd grade get angry at my class for "not paying attention" - it was like 3-4 kids in a class of 28-30 and we're all 7-9 years old, c'mon lady - and she started yelling and called us "little assholes". Naturally some of us started crying, so she said if we're gonna cry we can just leave. So the entire class left. Some went to where they knew their next class was to tell the teachers there, some went to the principal, me and a couple other kids went to the nurse 'cause we just felt comfortable with her and wanted to tell an adult what happened. She promised to tell the principal and asked if we wanted to go home - of course we said yes. My dad picked me up and I told him what happened, he dropped me at home and said he had to run back to the school. Found out later my dad, another kid's parents, and the teachers and nurse that got told all had a meeting with the principal and got the sub banned from that school and in trouble with the school board.
Woo-hoooooo! That's what she gets! Karma is indeed a bitch! 😄😤✊
The one with the line "You need to decide what's more important, school or your job" really irks me. Reminds me of a situation with an old coworker at my work. He had worked there for years, but his dad got sick and needed constant care. So he put in to change his availability, and HR Denied it. They told him straight up "Taking care of your sick father is NOT a priority in your life, Serving (the store) IS". Needless to say he quit right then and there.
My dad asked to move in with me because claimed he couldn't afford to live on his own. I agreed but told him no one else was moving in with us.
Fast forward a few years. I'm talking to his "girlfriend" on the phone. She mentioned she has no permanent place to stay.
Me: "You can't live here."
Her in an understanding voice: "Oh, I'm not asking that."
Me: "I know, but I'm telling you right now. No one else is moving in with us."
A month later Dad decided to move out so she could live with him. She nearly got him evicted for tearing up the place in a drunken rage. Isn't love grand?
It's pretty amazing
Love is grand… Divorce? 100 grand.
I spent over 20 years in the military and I have about a 100 stories like this. We were experiencing a critical shortage of pilot's that was only getting worse, so a commander got most of the pilots in a large theater room to discuss it. At one point the discussion turned to financial compensation and how it could be used to retain pilots longer. To which the said commander commented that if you're here for the money we don't need you. Over the next few weeks 40 or so pilots put in the notice, which was about a third of all the pilots.
Oh and then what? I like to hope he lost his posistion and replaced,but I assume not.
@@AllenTax it's the military, of course not. And this coming from a military brat
Back then airforce was one of the chillest corps in the armed forces. But now even the army eating from their budget.
And I think there are people that thank these guys "for their service"
Stupid military boot lickers
I see this in the Navy a lot. So much senior leadership, both enlisted and officer, will make shitty decisions and awful policies (retaliation for people taking leave to attend family funerals, punishing people for getting mugged or assaulted, glossing over sexual assaults, etc) and these same people are the ones saying "the military is based on redundancy, everyone is replaceable, if you don't like it then get out!" Not but a few months later they're bitching at people for not reenlisting and how retention problems are killing the Navy.
The last guy be like:
"The bylaws will decide your fate."
"I am the bylaws."
Not yet
It’s treason then.
*spins because it’s a good trick* AHHHHH!
@Ahsoka TaNO You are under arrest, my bylaw...
No, *I* am Spartacus!
Shortly after divorcing my father my mom got a job at a family owned restaurant she really liked the work and the ppl there but about 2 weeks in when it was a full house my cousin who was babysitting us (we were about 3 or 4) called her panicking because we were all throwing up and had mild fevers she couldn't get ahold of anyone else and she didn't know what was wrong my mom promptly asked to leave to check on us and would've been back in about 3 0 minutes if there weren't any problems
The owner an older gentleman got really pissed off because granted they were really busy and she'd be leaving them one short and started arguing with her he then said something that caused the entire staff to freeze
"Look! You are going to have to decide what's more important to you your job or your family!" Even his WIFE looked at him with disgust my mom stared at him for about a minute in disbelief took off her work apron and gave it to him and said without hesitation "My kids are first ALWAYS" And left
It turned out to not even be anything serious we'd found a can of expired frosting and ate the entire thing which gave us mild food poisoning
My mom talked to one of the hostesses about a month later and she told her not only had about half the staff quit the guys wife had lost all respect for him because of that one incident
Ew family but also you mad lads ate a whole can of icing
@@supremecrayonmuncher4159 We were 3
@@mysticfire5850 how did you even open the can then
@@supremecrayonmuncher4159 I'm assuming it was the kind with the plastic lid and a pull away tab?
A can if frosting doesn't mean a literal metal can of it?
I had a teacher say "If you plan to think in my class leave" Everyone got up and left. As I was the last to leave she asked "Where are you going?" I said "To the office and tell them what she said". She got scared then i said, "I like thinking, because life's too short to be a sheep". Not sure where I heard it from, but always like the saying, only time I ever got to use it
And then everyone returned and clapped
That last sentence was kinda cringe but I get you
The first one was very satisfying to me. Nobody deserves to work under those terrible conditions.
25:20 a few years back we went over some smallprints in the law and found out that underaged workers in training are not free to quit by themself, but need their parents permission to quit their job. Followed by the teacher saying that, I went loudly "So you are telling me we have slavery?" Confused look. "This contact requires him to do labor, and he is not free to quit. Someone else decides that. That means he is a slave, and the people who made the choise, in this case his parents, are his owners."
This is one of the greatest things in the world. People disagree with you, but they agree with your explanation and cannot tell you why they disagree, only that they do.
Oh yeah, kids have absolutely no rights. Basically slaves to their parents. It's really sad
WE SOMETHING FOR CHILDREN SOMETIMES WE BREAK
The point is not the subject at hand, that being slavery. The point is that the teacher disagreed with my understanding, yet agreed that all points towards it.
He agreed that the question was 2+2, yet disagreed when I answered 4. We went over the question again and found no error. He also couldn't explain why he wanted the answer 5, yet he stood by it.
@@josephschaefer9163 Yep. Pretty much.
My ex kept threatening to leave me and I'd had enough of his crap so I said "you know where the door is." He switched tactics then and said "you're not getting rid of me that easily." O_o
🤣
"The board won't accept your VOLUNTEER resignation"
Or what? They... Won't pay you? No seriously, OR WHAT?!
Seriously, there is nothing stopping a volunteer from just ghosting the organization. They never signed any formal contract, and there are no legal consequences on their end.
Not me but my brother.
Both of us attended what's called a 'production school' (basically a school that mixes classroom lessons with more practical work like culinary stuff, carpentery, plumbling etc.). My brother was taking computer classes and they got a new teacher, who was a bit of an oddball. She could be smiling and be really helpful and supportive towards you, then 5 minutes later scold you massively for the things she just approved.
Anyway, one afternoon while cleaning the room, my brother went to her and showed a text he just had received from his boss at the pizza shop he worked at. Boss was sick so my brother had to cover that shift. The teacher got really angry at him and wouldn't allow him to leave 10 minutes early (this was the only time it had happened). The entire class immidiately backed up my brother and yelled at the teacher for being unfair and said that my brother would risk getting fired if he didn't take the shift. Teacher said "Fine, leave it you're not happy with me." Everyone looked at each other, one gave a quick nod towards the door and the entire class left.
The day after, they went to our principal and explained the situation - the teacher was first let go with a warning, which she instantly fucked up by calling the principal all kinds of names. He contacted the old computer teacher, whom he knew didn't have a job (yet), said he could have his old job back and told the new teacher to pack up her stuff and get out.
Ugh, it's so cringe to see people think they have more power than they really have. Good thing yall got out of that quick.
@@yaboyechillpill3999 Bruh tell them to record her in class and get tell the most concerned / Karen parents you can get. That’s unprofessional conduct right there and she should get fired. It’s literally illegal to berate the students. No one should be a student to her. Speak up crush that tyrant.
@@yaboyechillpill3999 Nah that’s totally fine. Rant all you want this is what the internet’s for. You also might want to look for any written correspondence such as emails or etc. Anything that she says / writes that may indicate her abuse towards students should also be considered.
One with a bit of risk set a trap where you and your class just stand up and question her for her BS. If she gets super defensive and berates you guys you can just record that and use it as proof. Honestly I just really feel bad for your class since I know how shit teachers can be
@@yaboyechillpill3999 at that point I would have OBS running on startup. Right click icon tray > start recording
Never give an ultimatum where the "or else" option is more enticing.
1982 jobs were scarce and I had no skills. I answered a newspaper ad that was vague about exactly what the job was, but had the line "no experience required ". The woman on the phone set up a time for an in-person interview, and repeated the line "are you SURE you have no sales experience? You are doing REALLY WELL in this conversation!" This made no sense then or now. I assume it was bait, and said to everyone. I show up to the address in a small business park at the interview time. What I find is a big room with 40 folding chairs and and a lot of other folks sitting or milling about. I was expecting a one-on-one interview. But OK, I am young and inexperienced, so I go with it. We all get asked to find a seat and presentation begins. A man starts speaking about dangers in the home from contaminants, bacteria, mold, dust being a major threat to human life. He goes on for at least 20 minutes about how our lives are in peril due to microscopic threats. Then he introduces the Rainbow vacuum cleaner (except he is very carefull not to call it a "vacuum cleaner" and uses some more impressive term) and spends the next 20 minutes selling us on how this is the greatest invention of the 20th century and how it will save mankind.
40 minutes in to it and there has been no job description or employment interview and I am getting impatient. I am starting to smell the stink of rotten multi level marketing. I was young and didn't know what a MLM was, but I was smart enough to know something was really wrong with the job if an employer has to "sell" the job like a snake oil salesman.
He finally starts talking about "demonstrating" and how great it is to connect a customer with a product that were previously unaware that they desperately in need of. I'm getting tired of it. I dont know how to properly leave. I am afraid I might get roped into something stupid because I am young, inexperienced, naiive and not bold enough to standup like an adult and refuse to be handed crap.
And then he pitched one slow and straight, dead center over home plate, it seemed to hover there in the very center of the stike zone waiting for me to swing...
"ANYBODY WHO IS NOT INTERESTED IN THE WORLD OF HIGH PRESSURE SALES CAN JUST WALK OUT THAT DOOR RIGHT NOW AND LEAVE THIS LIFE CHANGING OPPORTUNITY BEHIND!" and he paused for effect.
I think this may have been my first act as an adult MAN. I stood up. I shouted right back, "I CAME HERE FOR A JOB INTERVIEW!!! NOT TO BE PART OF YOUR SCAM!!! I fumbled my way out of my isle of folding chairs, bumping knees and trying not to step on feet, walked across the room and out the door to dead silence.
Three years later at the University of Washington a fellow student approaches me and says, "I know YOU! You're THAT guy!" He goes on to tell my story from his point of view, being another desperate jobless 18-year-old in the same crowd. He said the speaker looked like he would cry, and couldn't speak for a minute. He told me nobody signed up to sell Rainbow Cleaning Systems that day.
So I guess that is pretty much my lifetime service to humanity; I once saved a few fellow schmucks from the MLM experience.
I feel kind of bad for the sells man.
But good for you.
I had my sixth grade teacher lose her shit on her English class for not paying attention and she asked which would they prefer to be a bum that continues playing jokes or an educated person that contributes to society and the entire class unanimously chose the bum just to upset her more. And she cried leaving the classroom and we needed another teacher to finish the last 15 minutes in class.
Teacher who walks out of class? Grossly unprofessional.
I was once assigned to "learn" from a senior teacher about class management, by observing them. He spent a solid hour screeching and screaming at the class to "shut up" and "pay attention"... before storming out and resigning.
I took over... and the class were nice as pie - quiet, polite and interested.
Next day I was told, my services would not be required. I think the school went bankrupt a week later.
@@StefanTravis A school that goes bankrupt? Man that... that's unfortunate.
@@depressedbuttercat5318 With privately-run schools, especially language schools, it's very common.
I just counted all the places I worked for in the last 12 years. 5 out of 6 went bankrupt - plus 1 that closed between interview and hiring date.
Teaching English, you can see the world and have a lot of fun, but you'll never be rich, and almost all schools are run by idiots.
I had some teachers walk out, but they returned when they cooled down. We were BAD though. Truly we were. We were the kids that Jesus would have slapped. Lol
@@StefanTravis wtf is wrong with you? Do you not realize how stressful being a teacher is? Smh
"If you can't choose between my love and my obsession with pointing out exits, then...there's the door!"
I just recently heard someone claim that the military standard of shaving the entire head is totally not about humiliation and subservience. I know what they say about anecdotal evidence and all, but that story about a retired Marine being hassled like that feels like proof enough that it is indeed all about humiliation and subservience.
There are those that drink the kool-aid, and those that still know how to think for themselves.
Not entirely. You are invited to represent an organization. That organization has a standard of appearance. Remove this was the marines with short hair and clean faces. Do you wear a t-shirt and shorts with mismatched slippers to your customer facing office job? Or do you wear something suit like?
@@danamoore1788 another huge thing is gas masks. It's really hard to get an actual seal with hair running under the foam.
And sure, in a controlled environment, you can simply tie your hair back, or brush it out of the way before masking up but.
In combat, you sweat. You run. Throw in something like a sudden gas attack and you have to gear up in seconds?
Mistakes happen.
They had dudes practicing on m60s for years. Still had people putting the bolt in wrong when reassembling them. Solution? Redesign the bolt so you can't to that.
If a mistake can be made, it probably will be. Reduce the odds by deleting the potential for error.
@@blackwoodsecurity531 I was commenting on appearance. But yes you are right about mask seals. Not just the hold the mask back. But facial hair wrecks a seal. Part of why the military wants no facial hair or if you wish a mustache they are withing very tight guidelines.
In addition to the other comments here, it's also much easier to maintain hygiene when you have almost no hair. Less stink, less chances to catch lice.
A bit of a reverse:
One year in college, I took an Art & Design course in my second year. Shortly after the new term starts, they announce that they will be setting up a movie club. Which would've been alright by itself. Except they made it mandatory and you could get in trouble for not attending or not texting in advance that you were not coming. A lot of the students were not happy about this, because they were tired by the end of the day and wanted to go home. They played Four Lions on the first day which got some laughs but the other movies they chose were enough to send us to sleep. The one single movie they showed that was actually interesting was some Bob Marley documentary. It went on for over two hours and everyone was starting to get fidgety. We were not allowed to leave the room until the closing credits appeared. When it finally got to the credits, most people got ready to leave but the guy running the "movie club" went to the front of the room where the screen was to make an announcement. He told us that there was some additional footage of this documentary if some of us wanted to stay behind and watch it. Every damn student stampeded out of that classroom before you could take another breath.
I had a supervisor say the same "you need to decide between school and this job" thing to me at the end of a shift. A 15 hour a week part time job at Circuit City. He grossly over estimated how important the job was to me. He did not like it when I laughed in his face. He said we would talk about it on my next shift but I never went back.
My sister was driving my family back from a visit to the zoo.. me and my dad had been looking at the animals taking pictures and generally wandering around enjoying ourselves. She was pissed off we didnt stay with her and her kid the whole trip.. But to be fair me and my dad LOVE zoos.. So its kind of a tradition that we wander around cause we want to see EVERYTHING.. take pictures and enjoy the animals. We got into a fight and she pulled into a rest stop on the motorway and was like "if you dont want to be with us you can get out"... To her surprise I pulled out my phone. Called uber right infront of her and got out the car... Uber guy came like 10mins later and I was home 20mins before they were. after we had over-took them on the motorway.. Tipped the uber guy and made a tea... SHE. WAS. PISSED.. Apparently she felt bad turned around and went back to the service station to pick me up but I had already left lmao..
I used this on myself a couple of times. When I was in a job a little similar to the first story (only it had a better pay), a few states away from the only person who ever loved me for who I am despite our differences (my MOM), very stressed out, unhappy, unfulfilled, surrrounded by people who didn't care about me and only wanted to stab my back, it suddenly dawned on me that... if I don't like it, I should just quit it. I threw aside all the fears, worries about money (I had none at the bank), lack of new job etc, and just quit. Things fell into place, a good friend paid for my moving away ($500), I got back to my mom (it's just me and her, there's no one else left), she was so so happy to have me back and she actually never wanted me to go. It was really a lightbulb moment when I realized, "what the hell am I doing here in a place I hate with toxic people that I couldn't care less about, when there's someone who truly loves me and cares for me very ready for me to just come back?!"
I quit the next day.
I think managers and the like sometimes forget how much they need their employees, especially if they're already down to a skeleton crew.
I still remember in middle school a lot of people said they weren’t coming back to the high school part of our school(cause they weren’t nice to our grade the entire time we were there) and all of the staff were smug and said they would be right back and I shit you not LITERALLY everyone who said they weren’t coming back did not come back
"she then capped it off by saying she was the teacher and if we wanted to think in her classroom, well there was the door"
wow she really said the quiet part LOUD about how the school system is, huh? 💀
My family has a Thai restaurant (disclaimer - I married into a Thai family), and no one EVER steals tips. But then it's a family operation, and everyone has each others' backs.
My mom keeps saying that, I'm trying to save up so the next time she says it her emotion punch bag can leave
Good luck, keep safe.
Ditto here. Good luck 🍀
Goodluck to you, soldier. Have a great life!
I was given the, "The company has to come first," response when I was 19 and kept having to drop classes because my shift changed. Then I went to my professors and asked if I could change to the same class at different times (before online school), and was told, "As far as we're concerned, school has to come first." I reminded the professors that unlike school, which was COSTING me money, with no guarantee it would benefit me financially down the road, the company was PAYING me. Fast forward nearly 30 years and I'm in a leadership role at that same company making 2X more money than my friend with 3 degrees, including a master's, who asked me back then, "When are you going to get back to school and make something of yourself?"
I used to work for Amazon as a delivery driver. And whenever we'd bring up a grievance regarding our nonsensical route or our poorly maintained trucks. The manager would respond with if you don't like it you can leave.
Fast forward a few days and we get fresh snow fall right before the Christmas season. Most of the trucks had little to no tread left on the tires. Something that we had mentioned months before the first snowfall of the season. When we brought it up again we once again were met with, if you don't like it you can leave. So, most of us did. The few that stuck around, totaled almost half of our work trucks.
With most apparently occurring before they even left the parking lot.
On this side of the world, random inspections of vehicles on the road are a thing, and especially for commercial delivery trucks and vans of all types. Find one with bald tyres belonging to a particular company or business? Suddenly, they decide to do an inspection of EVERY vehicle on site. All tyres unsafe would equal roughly a thousand dollars fine for each vehicle, plus they're all red-stickered and banned from the road until everything is fixed.
I feel like the totaling didn't have too much to do with the snow, just sending a message.
I had a professor say that I had to choose work or school because I left an event which was part of a program which was required in order to graduate (and which was one of many events that you could choose to attend) I wish I told him that while that may be all well and good for him, since school was his job, and all of these other people have mommy and daddy to pay their bills, But I have to pay rent, and get gas in my car, and buy my overpriced textbooks. So since I lived in the real world I had to try and do both. But I didn’t. I just chickened out, nodded my head apologetically, and left.
Man. Life sucks lol
Why lash out at your classmate's financial situations? Unless they did something to you
For the first 20 years of my life, my abusive father told me that if I didn't like living under his house, that I could leave anytime I wanted. But between 18 and 20, My mother and I saved up enough money to buy her a car in secret and kept it at a friend's house, another cash store to move out with, and had been planning what we were taking with us and leaving behind. When the day came, needless to say my father was furious. Which goes against his claim that we (mother, me and one sibling) were ruining / had ruined his life. He should have been jumping for joy of that was true. Now he lives in a dumpster fire of a house, junk cars everywhere, and trashed yard, while I live in a very nice house, with a very nice yard, and four, clean, paid off vehicles. He has been trying for the last 20 years to weasel his way back into my life with the intent of moving in with me. That's not happening, and I don't speak to him.
Factories like in the first story really don’t understand what long-term planning truly is. Hostess is a textbook example of what happens when you ignore maintenance for too long.
Is that why Twinkies vanished for a while? Or was that a publicity stunt?
@@FerreTrip Nah, not a stunt, the company changed hands like what, two times? Bunch of layoffs. It was a hot mess. This is also what happens when management really doesn't understand the concept of lean manufacturing, and instead makes sure that the maintenance staff doesn't have the parts on hand necessary to fix the machines when they break, so the repairs then cost more and take longer.
"It highlighted how bad the generational dysfunction was in my family and how it was expected to just overlook bad behaviour and people please for everyone else's comfort."
Wow...Yeah I have to pay more attention to this.
24:38 “Do not cite the Deep Magic to me Witch. I was there when it was written.”
My school wouldn't help me with my bullying situation. I was depressed, anxiety ridden, and terrified of telling people my interests at barely 13 years old, as well as not being able to do the things I wanted (digital art and game design). They said "if you don't like it here, leave."
I have now started grade 10 at my new school and I'm doing so much better, and now both of my elective classes are things I couldn't do at my old school. It's a total win situation apart from leaving my old friends behind.
Had a similar situation when I was at Walmart.
And sure enough they back off if you leave when they tell you to leave. Catches them off guard every time and they’re always so short staffed they can’t fire you either.
I worked at two places (I teach at 2 schools) because my boss said it's okay (the other workplace doesn't even care I work in multiple places, as long as I get my job done). So one day, almost out of the blue, my boss suddenly asked, which one is more important, this one or that one... And I must picked ONLY ONE...
Now for 6 days, I work 3 days alternately, so it's more or less same work hours... But the other place paid me double the amount, not including various benefits, and clear contracts and guaranteed pay raise each year (how much is depending on work performance)...
It's a no brainer on which one should I pick... So I gave my boss my resignation letter not long after.
I should point out, if you work somewhere that holds these kind of pre-shift meetings (like at 5:43), and said meetings are mandatory (whether stated or implied through negative consequences for not attending or for being "late" to them) US labor law requires you be PAID to attend these. On a five day work week, that means an extra 1.25 hours of pay. Not much, but if they are going to chew you out daily, remember they have to pay you for the privilege of being able to tell at you like that.
Employers: But we want to tell our employees that they're shit without paying them.
"Frick Walmart." I want that on a t-shirt to wear to work. Yes, THAT work.
absolute madlad.
When I needed new glasses when in high school, I made an appointment for an eye exam , my dad told me not to come home with wire frame glasses. I came home with wire frame glasses and he blew up. I said I don't know why you are upset about my glasses, you did not pay for them, I DID! he shut his mouth and looked so embarrassed at how silly he acted,
Who does he think he is? Joan Crawford?
@@cassiopeia36 My dad passed away in1996. Growing up he was verbally abusive to all 4 of us older kids when little sister came along 3 days after my 15th birthday, he had sorted mellowed out of that Even so my little sister does not believe what our oldest sister and I say about how he treated us.
I've never in my life heard that you can't quit a volunteer position without approval, like you're a volunteer there of your own free will xD
Teacher here. I say that infamous line on a regular basis to my classes if they get too unruly, but amazingly, no-one has ever taken up the offer. End of the year once, informal chat, a student asked about it, and I told the entire class I was deadly serious! I told them I personally don't mind if they don't study; they'll just get a bad grade and get heck from their parents (private school), whereas I'll have proof as to why they got such low grades.
They asked what would happen if everyone walked out. I told them that student A, B, C would not leave as they actually wanted to learn something. The class looked at these students, and they just nodded in agreement. Class asked what would happen if 90% walked out. I just said I would just teach the other 10% who stayed, and those 10% would probably be grateful that the distraction is gone. Again, they all looked at student A, B, C and they were vocal on how true that statement was.
It was at this point that the students realized that if they did walk out of my class, it wouldn't be as funny as they thought, and that I was actually pretty cool in giving them a choice to study or not.
I silently wish that some students would be brave enough to walk out.....
Had a boss who didn’t like me and had a fragile ego. He tried telling me I wasn’t doing my part one day, even though we were heavily understaffed due to a mass exodus of employees who had enough of boss’s shit. After explaining to him I do 2 employees worth of work everyday, he gave me the “either you pull your weight, or find somewhere else to work”. After work that day, I applied to 20 different jobs, and got a new job that pays almost double what I was making at my old job within 24 hours of my boss telling me that. I immediately went to my old job after getting my new job to tell my boss that I found a better paying job in 24 hours and I’m putting in my 2 weeks. Most satisfying 2 weeks I’ve worked
if i tried to quit a job and they told me i needed _approval_ to quit, my first response would be "what are you gonna do, fire me?"
Edit 2 electric boogaloo: removed edit and added electric boogaloo joke
Hah! [I] Should've looked downpost before writing almost the exact same thing! :)
@@josepherhardt164 sorry, I looked down before posting this and didnt see your comment. I tried to find it now and still don't see it, it must be buried. I'll edit the comment.
@@DezAmmySel What? NO! You got here first, it's your comment, keep it! :)
Ah, I see where my comment could have been misinterpreted. Fixed it.
@@josepherhardt164 ohhhhhhhhhhh
My teacher from Africa said G_d doesn’t answer prayers for animals and send a student to the office for fighting him on it. (Private school) He said if anyone else wants to take the students side they can go to the office too. The the class was separated boys and girls. Every boy in the grade and I think two others got up and went to the office. Nothing was done to us. He was pretty mad.
Why did you censor God
@@annonomus1439 because some Christians get offended as it could be seen as "taking the Lord's name in vain" or some other bullshit
@@mcstriker nah bro, we don’t. I don’t know why the hell he did tho
@@dominickwest7558 I said some. I didn't say all, most Christians, such as yourself I presume, are normal people who don't get pissed at trivial shit. No idea why he did though
Oh. Was hopeing most or all students leave.
3:44, When I was three my mom told me "If you don't like it don't eat it." My response was "May I go play." My father said "No" and once again I opened my mouth and said the following "But, she said if I don't like it I don't have to eat it. Can I go play?" After that, my dad glared at my mom for giving me free rein of being picky.
Your father was mad at your mom for giving you a loophole to exploit.
I swear I had the teacher in the 16:46 story. Mr. Head (his actual name) was my 9th grade history teacher, and I swear they're talking about him. He also kicked some students out of my class, and then threw a textbook at them when he confronted them after class, and in a effort to get our attention once at the start of class, slammed the door so hard the Exit sign broke of its mounting and for at least a decade just hung there by its wires. It still worked so it wasn't a necessity to replace it, and since the mounting broke it couldn't be re-hung. He was a real piece of work.
Lmao there was a Mr. Head at Chichester high too lol
Throw a book at me and my service dog, I press charges for assault.
that one nickleback concert where chad said "you guys wanna hear some rock and roll or you wanna go home?" and you can hear the audience shout a faint "go home!"
That's actually a mixed concert and nickel back was one of the guest band
When I was 13 years old, our regular music teacher went on maternity leave and then decided she was not coming back. Until then, music class had been skipped or periodically taught by another teacher (it varied). After the music teacher quit, she was replaced with a professional classical musician who was obviously desperate for a job since he made it very clear from the start that 1) he hated kids; 2) he really hated us in particular; and 3) he hated teaching. He was condescending, rude, perpetually angry, and just downright nasty. We all despised him. To make matters worse - if possible - he acted like we should have a college-level grasp on the subject of music, especially classical music.
Finally, one day he just lost it and screamed at us, "If you don't want to learn, then just leave!" We looked each other in surprise. Really? My friends and I got our stuff and began to leave. Everyone else followed. He was stunned. The principal found us outside the classroom while the "teacher" threw a fit inside it. We almost got in trouble, but we all told our parents what happened. We never saw that so-called teacher again. He was replaced with a very nice, very easygoing guy who liked our kinds of music, but who taught us absolutely nothing. Oh, well. I moved out of town that summer and the school (a small, private school run by a church) finally closed a few years later.
Disney Star Wars.
They told the fans to leave... and they did.
Likewise Disney Star Trek.
Did they? Seems like it’s going pretty well with all their new series.
@@neatoburrito9045 The Bad Batch? It is okey, but many fans swore off SW after the shitty movies.
@@ItamarO93 and the Mandalorian!
@@neatoburrito9045 It is good, but all roads lead to the Disney Trilogy, so all roads lead to a shitty story that kills everything good about Star Wars and makes no sense.
9:23 Reminds me of how my cousin/adoptive sister left my parents' custody. She was 17ish, and had been regularly running away from home, staying on her own a few nights, and then arranging a meeting with my parents and her therapist to negotiate conditions of coming back home. She'd done this a few times, and each time her conditions were manipulative and unreasonable, but my parents wanted her to be safe so they'd try to find a compromise. But this time, they were finally sick of this tactic, and when she gave her conditions, my parents said "it sounds like you don't really want to come back, then".
My mom was one of those types she said you can either eat everything on your plate or you can not be fed next time. It was 4 years before I ever ate another plate of her food
Happened at my old job. They told us if we didn't like it, we can leave. All the hardworking people left and got better jobs. Lol. They are still cycling through people as far as I know.
Worked at a new grocery store a few months back.
I worked with the owner at a other job, opened that store and built the store from the ground up with a fresh picked crew , took the job because last time I worked with him he was a great manager , I didn’t know that he changed and not in a good way, after we opened started breathing down everyone’s necks and relying on cameras way to much. Only went to the floor to call us out if we didn’t look like we were working , does this for 4 months and everyone starts to quit . I ask for more hours , multiple times to try and be a good worker , in return he gives me 2 weeks and a threaten to fire me , . Decided I had enough so in secret applied for another Job, waited till I got the for sure green light that I got it and scheduled my orientation after a few days of my most recent shift at grocery store. Time skip to after shift and I go into his office to clock out tell him and his wife at the last minute “oh yea , I quit “ in the most causal voice I could. Completely catch them off guard , when asked why , told them “you said if you don’t. Like the hours and how I run the store then. Leave , so I decided to leave even after I worked my ass off to get more hours from him which he promised but never delivered , and he. Knew what I needed the money for which was for rent , bills etc which got me more mad. Got my check and never went back.
Note to all supervisors and managers reading this: , just because your a supervisor or a manager doesn’t mean you get to be an asshole when you feel like it , that’s how you loose employees . And don’t make promises you can’t keep, you either do the promise the whole way or don’t at all. And above all dont fuck with someone’s paycheck, that’s how you get those below you and above you not to trust you.
The fire department I worked at had insanely low morale due to a complete lack of leadership, nepotism, favoritism, lack of camaraderie and extremely low pay due to astronomically high pension contribution rates (talking 22 percent of each paycheck going to pension and that was after taxes, health insurance and union dues).
The fire service generally liked to self stylize as being paramilitary so you can imagine how the complaints went over. Worse is this in a part of Florida that is more culturally southern while south Florida is more northern, so there was an even bigger chip on the shoulder of administration/the older good old boys of the department when much better systems and pay were pointed to of comparably sized departments down south. “If you don’t like it you can go on down to Miami”, etc was a fairly common sentiment. Well, that’s exactly what’s been happening. They used to lose pretty significant amounts of firefighters to other departments in the state which paid better, making it a stepping stone department. Over the part 5-6 years however, they’ve begun to hemorrhage personnel to even entire other industries. It sucked working there so bad multiple people have just decided to quit being firefighters to run landscaping businesses etc.
A kid in my theater class vandalized a seat in the theater by carving into it with a pencil. The teacher knew who it was and we all confirmed it, but she demanded a confession directly from him. He wouldn't. So she said, "Okay, unless the person who did it confesses, I will drop everyone in the class a letter grade." We all clamored that it was unfair to punish all of us academically for a behavior issue in one student, especially since she fucking KNEW WHO IT WAS. "If you don't like it, leave." I don't remember a single person who stayed. I called my mom and we reported the teacher for abusing her power against the students. Grades are not to be used for punishment, they are to inform the district of how well the student understands the subject.
The whole "you can't quit" thing always confuses me. Do they not realize that people will just stop showing up after they quit? That's how it works.
I’ve had abusive theater/dance directors and producers who would pull this with us, and we would all file out of the theater at once. We were allowed to to do this when our paychecks were late or if they bounced, or under certain other conditions.
At my grandparents’ church when I was little, a woman got up and started screaming about how terrible her life was and how she can’t see why anyone believes in god and she fell on her knees and yelled “If you don’t like this side of Christianity then you can get out!” And everyone filed out while a couple of friends comforted her. It was one of the scariest moments of my childhood.
Today on s.hit that never happened 😂
Boss: "If you don't like it, you can leave"
All the guys on this reddit: *"Aight Imma head out"*
I worked at a company where the CEO always said to "vote with your feet". He wasn't talking about his company directly, but simply if you don't like the place you were working, that company or any other company, you shouldn't be afraid to leave. Any company that is at all well managed will figure out pretty quick they have a problem and take steps to correct them - and if they don't, well the marketplace will bury them sooner or later. But many companies are too big to try to fix by calling problems to someone's attention. So spend time trying to fix a company if you think it's worth it, but be willing to cut your losses and walk away. It was a pretty good company until it got bought out - then I voted with my feet.
Military cycling story reminds me of an exchange from NCIS:
"I'm in investigator with NCIS. I don't have to salute you, or "sir" you, or show you any kind of military courtesy. But you already knew that, didn't you?"
head teacher in assembly: if u dont like the rules then leave
every student in the hall: gets up and walks out
I actually do not think the "You need to decide which is more important, your school or your job." Is the worst. Because one place I worked. They sold running of their warehouse to a logistics company. Any employee that stayed had to transfer over. This meant benefits dropped to zero and all had to be re-earned as though you were a new employee. Pay was cut 50% and in six months would be cut 50% again as a concession to stepping down the pay. One guy who went through all this gets a call at work. His daughter is sick and they want him to come take her to the hospital. The managers stopped him on his way out and told him. "You have to choose your priorities. Your family or your job."
It was not me but I was out a week later. I hope those guys burn in hell.
Just had this happen at my own job. I work in a hospital kitchen that is falling apart at the seams. I'm talking 9 or 10 people left in 3 months. Awesome woman who was a cook got cussed out by a customer for something she had no control over. I was the only one who stood up for her, and was the one who consoled her in the back room of my coffee area upstairs. She walked out that day, but decided to come back until she could find another job because she was a mother. She does and puts in her 2 weeks. Our head chef decides to go on a power trip, telling us that we didn't have to be here if we don't want to be. She talks to him in private saying it felt targeted at her and she felt unsafe. He said his life doesn't revolve around her, so she walked out a second time. We're screwed but I couldn't be prouder of her.
Sister cousins. Love it. I have sister friends, but my parents never adopted them. They just stayed forever. Lol
Pro-tip to anyone who works with massage therapists: never, ever, EVER tell our clients to get on the table. That is OUR job to do after we've done intake. It's nearly impossible to do a proper intake and assessment with a person whose face is already in the cradle. Also, starting sessions early is a terrible idea. It sets a precedent that you might not always be able to follow, and it shows that you're willing to be lax about boundaries. Clients will never fully trust you if you cannot begin and end your sessions ON TIME.
lmao My step brother and i lived with his mom and her fiance for 3 months and it was miserable. rent was always late, (even tho we lived in a paid off TRAILER and rent was just for the plot of land), we rarely had food in the house, the house was always disgusting unless i cleaned, they always smoked in the house even though i said not to bc im predisposed to lung cancer. it was hell. Finally, after my brother and i asked where the $600 a month we were paying to her was going if not towards rent and food, she, her friend, and her fiance all started screaming at us. Her ratty ass fiance who doesn't work or contribute to the house said "we let you live here, if you don't like it, LEAVE!" so i rescheduled the moving truck that i hadn't told them about for the next morning, my brother and i left, and the last i heard they didn't have internet and they were 5 months behind on rent :)
Had a boss try to make me pick between helping my disabled mom on Christmas or keeping my theater job. Then he asked ME if I was making HIM an ultimatum. I lost it and walked out. I cussed him out in front of 2 busses of kids I just helped at 7 am after getting home at 1am the night before. This was just before the release of The Last Jedi. He had a staff of all new people because everyone experienced left because the theater shut down over the summer for renovations. I hope he went through hell.
Story #1: That sounds a lot like this one manufacturing job I worked back in the early 00s. I lasted there 6 years. Over that time, they went slowly downhill. Relying more on temps, not hiring temps on permanently after their 90 days. Barely paid above minimum wage. They went out of business within a year of my leaving.
11:37 my dad was pretty into WoW back in the day, and he met this guy who would always try to hide the screwed up loot rules until the end. So my dad decided to just start randomly joining his raids and asking what the loot rules were.
I was a team lead and told my manager we had an issue between the day and the night shift we needed to nip before it got bad.
My manager looks me in the eye and says, ‘if anybody doesn’t want to be here, I’ll help them out the door’.
Sooo, fast forward about six months. He screws me over (long story, but includes firing one of my employees without bothering to tell me), screws over one of his own crew (another long story) and we both leave within a week of each other.
I tell HR, they can fix this, or they were going to lose everybody at that location.
I was patted on the head and that was the end of over a decade of working there.
Long story short, they lost everybody. The only two people left are waiting for retirement, everyone else is gone and they’re having to fly people from all over the US to work there… nobody wants to stay at that location because it is such a terrible culture.
Not a "if you don't like it, you can leave", but this reminded me of the last day I worked at my last job. My then 4yo son got sick (diarrhea. Vomiting) and I needed to get him. My boss told me that if I left to get my kid, she'd put me on graveyard shifts. I had lost my sanity doing graveyards and trying to be a father for a few years before. Additionally, ai was 1 week out of recovery from fallong off a step ladder, throwing my trick knee out and breaking my kneecap. Between the potential impending doom of the loss of my shift and still dealing with the trauma of my injury, I just quit. Her response was to try and convince me that money was more important than my sick kid, which angered me enough that I solidified my choice from an action of panic to one of spite.
"It's always when you're not there that something exciting happens."
I have a very good example of this from when I was in high school (11th grade). I went on a field trip with my AP European History class to the Philadelphia Art Museum, which coincidentally was the same day as the only hands-on lab we had in Chemistry class. I say only because apparently, one of my classmates set a bar of magnesium on fire, which resulted in the fire alarm going off and the school being evacuated.
like literally dude if i don’t like something i’m not gonna stay for it “ okay good bye”
I’m allowed to leave class whenever I want because of my PTSD (my school has some hole in the rules regarding that, not sure why). One day, there was a substitute in math that was trying to teach us something we had already learned the previous week. The students tried to explain this to her, but she wasn’t having it. Eventually, she snapped and screamed “If you do not think my class has value, then LEAVE!” As her face turned red. I left. That didn’t go over well lol.
Homeschooling is good
@@ohioanempire What?
@Kageyama’s Milk it removes complications
You have/had PTSD? As in Post-traumatic stress disorder?
Honestly in school I was that kid who didn’t give a fuck about homework, because half the time the teacher would mark me down for not doing it their way even tho I got the right answer, so I never did homework or notes but still aced the quizzes and tests my own way, and generally didn’t speak in class at all, to the point where the nurse asked me if I was depressed because as she put it, I was too quiet
Used to live with a couple who smoked weed, did coke and drank hard - they would either be having a screaming match until 4am or partying until 4am. I complained and they said " If you don't like it, leave."
I had a new place secured with the keys in my hand 3 days later. Took me an hour to pack everything up ready to move out. I waited until they were both at work ... and fucking left.
They were blowing up my phone the next day, I just said "You said I could leave, so I did." I changed my phone number and they never bothered me again.
Whenever politics get brought up
Me: *aight ima head out*
Politics and religion are the topics that I really dislike to be brought up on the internet. Even if the people that originally brought up the topic are respecting each other’s opinions and actually having a discussion (although I can’t really remember anything like that ever happening, but who knows), there will eventually be that one asshole that will burn any potential civil discussions to the ground because their views are the best and anything that goes against that automatically makes it wrong.
@@adrianposkonka8331 that is because those people mix the two. They think they're religion is better than everyone else's so all their views must be. It's so immature.
@@michelewalburn4376 I follow a simple rule in life. I don't give a shit about a persons ethnicity, sexuality, way of life, or beliefs (both religious and political), because who am I to be telling people how to live their lives.
The only time when I'll actually see any of these aspects as my problem is when it either leads to harm being done to others (e.g. children of antivax parents), or if they're being an asshole about it (an atheist who will cut into a conversation about religion exclaiming that religion is wrong and that they're idiots, or a vegan that calls you a murderer for ordering a hamburger).
I honestly don't understand how some people think such behaviour is acceptable.
In my country people go to political rallies bringing their children along. Some political parties are actively influencing high schoolers, even making them going to protests even when they have no clue what the protest is all about. Shit went south when the protest turn to riot and those kids are arrested.
not talking aboutz poltics is extremly dangerous and dictators love it. this is how you get al that couruption, and injustice and your poltics and yes you have them affect my life directly and in all materes from how much i pay for my water to mmedical bills and so force. not talking about poltics gets people killed every day and that might sound out of porportion but it is not.
Ugh these are giving me flashbacks to my first job. Loved the people I worked with but management and ownership treated everyone like crap, we were vastly underpaid and understaffed, and therefore overworked and exhausted. There just weren’t many, if any, comparable positions open anywhere else. We were all miserable and felt trapped, and we kind of were. So no mass exodus situation but as soon as a position opened up somewhere else I jumped at the chance. Felt bad leaving everyone else behind but my mental health is sooooo much better at the new job. Closer to home, better pay, better hours, and most importantly, the staff is highly valued and treated with respect. Wish I could’ve brought the rest of my team with me- most of them are still stuck at the old place.
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I resonate with the one about the sister being toxic and the family expecting her to just overlook it. You should never overlook or enable bad behavior because if do then it will just keep happening. Like with raising kids, if you let bad behavior go unpunished then it will keep happening, as they learn that it yields no negative consequences. The unfortunate reality of the world is that most people don't change for the better unless if faced with those consequences.
They're the lucky ones.
Some employers love taking advantage of their employees, who are the reason for companies success.
Power to the people. Don't take any bullshit from inconsiderate employers.