If your woman does these, LEAVE HER!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 พ.ค. 2024
- If your woman does these, don't just stand by and get treated like dirt, LEAVE HER!
Some men find it real difficult to tell whether a woman is truly interested in them or not. In this video Jessica Opare Saforo gives you some serious 'keys' to help you save precious time. Simply put, you should leave her if she does the following!
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00:00 - Intro
01:31 - Number 1
02:53 - Number 2
03:50 - Number 3
04:54 - Number 5
05:56 - Number 6
06: 59 - Number 7
08:21 - Number 8
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if u find ur self in this channel, just break up with that girl
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Why bro . ?? Is it so ?
You just saved me 7 min, ty
Could have not agreed more
Suppose the cat 😸 the Best
"She's NOT your GIRL. It's just your turn," a Wiseman saying.
Nobody can be too busy not to respond. Everyone has their phone in their hands. There is no excuse.
I agree with this. Even people who say "I'm at work." It literally takes seconds to respond with SOMETHING. I see people texting back in meetings even.
Correct, often enough
Too busy thinking of other things not related to a relationship. Most of the time it’s resentment from not getting the attention they want. Then when an individual does get what they want, it’s too much. Best course of action, let the justices of Karma take control. It will happen and take its toll, exactly where it left off from the previous relationship.
Just left my girl for the same reason. People make time for who they want I don't care what they schedule look like. I refuse to give my all to a person and they only meeting me halfway
Same here sir can't deal with that mess anymore.
1. Takes long time to respond
2. Avoids dinner plans constantly
3. Calls you a friend before others
4. Tells you she's not ready
5. Not interested in a conversation
6. Not attentive to your serious talks
7. Blue ticks you regularly
8. Body language (not focused)
Thanks!
What does blue ticks mean!!!????
@@tisharobinson4389 WhatsApp blue ticks
Thank you!
Facts 💯💯
If you're the man and you're the one worried about whether she wants something long term, you are in the wrong relationship.
Red flag is when she never responds to texts because she was "away from her phone" but is, well, always on her phone during dates.
A message to all good men out there remember you are the prize not the other way round
1. She often takes her time in responding to your messages
2. She often cancels plans
3. She calls you a friend
4. She says she’s not ready for a serious relationship
5. You aaalways initiate contact
6. She goes vague when you try to talk about serious things (feelings, the relationship, next step, etc)
7. The reads your messages and doesn’t reply
8. Body language (she’s not present when you’re together, etc)
Can i ask you a question?
@@jasewoodruff6179 You didn't ask permission for the first question though
Guys basically abundance mindset. A girl that wants you will make time for you. And match your energy, if she’s not leave. I promise she’ll be left speechless.
Another tip gents...if a woman cancels on you but she is interested, in her text or call telling you she is sorry she cannot make it on the agreed day she will seek for alternatives. If she does not, move on
Number 1 is accurate. My BF and I text each other throughout the day though we are both busy at work. Messages do not get unread or responded to. Nobody is too busy for someone if they gave a crap.
Finally a woman that told the truth you are so right if you give a crap you are never to busy to respond in a timely manner.
I don’t chase women,I replace them.There are way to many women that are single that are looking for a proper relationship.
You got that right brother don't change them. Exchanged! Them! LoL!!!
The major problem that creates all these actions is Indecision, which happens when she has other options. So don't be in a relationship where you are tolerated be in a relationship where you are celebrated.
Thank you so much to frozen my heart and a bit heal my brain with your clarity... U got the answer she's trying to have but don't 'really
Relationships are a waste of time
If she spends all her money and expects you to pay her bills throw her away immediately
"Throw her away immediately" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love from Uganda 🇺🇬 bro MIKE MIKE, u made my day
I found out that my ex girlfriend wasn’t worth being with when I figured out why she was always broke. She has her own place and a car but has a Vudu account with nearly 500 movies on it. 😳I was like yeah this isn’t gonna work.
(1) This is one BEAUTIFULLY melanated SISTER!
(2) Fellas, don't take it personal when you find yourselves being rejected;just thank them for their conversation and keep it pushing!
Men have intuition just as women do...I know I could take a hint when I'm being disregarded repeatedly.
Facts ....
I stay far away from women I'm tired of being hurt
1- Busy and never get back to you.
2- If cancel plan repeatedly with you.
3- She introduce you as her friend.
4- She tell you that she's not ready for the relationship
5- You are the one who have to initiate contact. When you said you wanna take this relationship forward she laughs.
6- When you escalate she goes vague.
7- She blue text you.
8- Body language
Never heard of blue text... now I know the meaning...
Tip no.2 & 1. I've just dumped her less than 24 hours now. Today, I sent her clothes to her.
Men see these red flags but some still choose to stay and finally, it ends in premium tears.
No problem! When they introduce me as a friend, I don't say anything, I just roll with it, stop trying, and I introduce her as a friend to EVERYONE else, especially other women. Oh, she's just a friend.!
This is this real answer you have said. Turn the tables👻
1. Takes time to get back to you
2. Cancells plans repeatedly
3. Calls you a friend
4. Tells you she's not ready
5. You always initiate contact
6. When you escalate she goes fade
7. She blueticks you
8. Read her body language
Nobody is "that" busy and trust me I get busy. Everyone has their phones on them and see the messages almost instantly or not long after. It's all games. Facts.
I like her voice... I would listen to a book on tape from her
The world is alot more simiple when people just say what the want and feel, rather than leaving you to fill in the blanks.
I had a friend that I simped over for years. I did literally every red flag you stated because I was hoping for something to change. After taking some time to really address my own attachment issues, I told her I still care for her after 3-4 years, but I don't care to fight for it anymore. Walked away from that long term friendship. She tried calling me a few times to "pickup where we left off" before me standing my ground. I had to block her... She wants a bitch boy, she can find it elsewhere. Thanks for the video @GHANA. Really helps keep my life in perspective watching vids like yours.
If she only call you when she needs money..., RUN!!!🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️
dont need to run lmao, just tell her you're broke and she'll be the one running instead 😂
@@christophersoo 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@christophersoo 😂🤣
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The bottom line is this: 1) Ppl make time for "who & what" they want to make time for. 2) "Your time" is the only thing you really have of value, so don't let anyone waste it with child's play bc time is at a premium. 3) Last but not least, you have to believe that "you're a prize too", don't let anyone think that they're more important than you. Interest must be reciprocated, if it's not move on!!!
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I. Entirely agree with your comment so every time you meet one don't right away put them on a. Pedestal the only way you are going to know a. Person is that you both. Should aggre to spend time together.?
I. Entirely agree with your comment ,makes good sense to me.
The best weapon is, when you start talking to her, keep others on standby. This way, you will also keep yourself from becoming disappointed, it works!
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You know women are the only ones can get away with that, if a man does that, then he's a dog, he's a bad guy, he's wrong.
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"No Woman, No Cry"
-Bob Marley 😌
Nun woman, no cry 🤷
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If she is interested genuinely, she has to text you back within at least couple of hours. If she takes days and that too on more than three occasions, just stop texting. This is a clear message to you. Forget her and move on. Don't waste your time. Don't chase a mirage. Save your self from disappointment and disaster.
I know for a fact, women are next to their phones, 24/7. If you text, she gets a dopamine signal and she checks her texts immediately. You would be mistaken to believe that she hasn't seen that text 6 seconds after you sent it. Her choice not to respond is a perfect example of not being interested. Not responding in 24hrs means she's concerned about someone else and you're just another secondary on her relationship interests. Don't waste your time or money. Travel and see how women treat their men outside the USA and you will be astounded.
Bro, that's very true. The rudest attitude I ever got from a woman was when I got to the U S. I do not know why. However, there are few cool women as well.
This should have way more three likes . You ain’t ever lied.
Women in other countries treat men differently because they are treated differently..... in other countries, it's legal for a man to beat his wife with little to no consequences... only in america can a man be punished for physically abusing a woman.... that's why women in other countries "love, honor, cherish & obey" their men.... you can't do that in america so of course women outside the usa treat their male counterpart much better
@@jennymcloving9670 I need to tell you this. 95% of men in Africa don't beat their women. Not that it is legal to beat a woman. No. But the society does not really treat domestic violence very seriously when it happens. The reason being that families intervene and find a way to resolve it so the marriage doesn't break.
You will agree with me that divorce rate in Africa is very low compared to the U.S.
@@jennymcloving9670 this always gets brung up as a excuse. every time lmao no it isn't that they were just raised differently overseas vs the USA same goes in reverse for how women are raised in the USA vs Overseas lmao it isn't because of that Men get punished in Canada,Africa, and Russia even in The Ukraine for that it isn't because of what you just said now is that tru in the middle east yes because it is different rules. but to say its all overseas is delusional.
If she likes you, you’ll know. If she doesn’t, she’ll leave you confused. It’s very simple.
+13239169169⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup.,
On number 1: the excuse is usually, "I'm such a terrible communicator and I'm so busy", but we all know that ain't it.
Number 2: SHE CAN'T ALWAYS BE THAT BUSY. Thank you very much
I found the best thing to do was always leave them !!! Then I didn't have to bother getting married, having children, meeting her relatives, putting up with her moods, spending money on her, etc. I have owned my own house since I was 30 yrs old so I would never have a relationship with a woman who had nothing !!! Every woman I ever knew was thousands of pounds in debt and lived in rented accommodation. So if anything went wrong she would take my house away from me !!!! No woman would ever let that happen, neither would I !!!!! Every woman I ever met wanted a free meal ticket and some mug to give her a house !!!! So the wise thing to do was......Stay Single !!!!! Nice informative videos !!!!!
Im a man now and i used to get shamed for refusing to chase a women. I also refuse to make any kind of first move. Some men are going to be reading this and they are going to be thinking "He's not man enough" but i have made the first move enough times to not want to make the first move anymore.
That's what self confidence does to a man
Keep that going. You don't lose anything, believe me. 1 year of women stress free and drama, and still counting. Peace and self enjoyment is the key for a calm life. Work for yourself and treat yourself with priority but after you treat God with priority first. Pray to Him and thank Him for everything daily 🙏🏼 God bless and He will take care of us!
Does true love really exist on this planet at all🤔?? Everyone is just busy playing games....🤦♂️🤦♂️
You're beautiful
Not in USA
@Bubble gum. True love is what The Heavenly Father does for us, despite us being in a fallen state due to The deception done through Adam and Eve. What the "world" calls love is a narcissistic clingy of constant supply with ur significant other, so the minute that goes away (breaks up /Distance) someone begins to get into their feelings(expectations not being met) an it's all down hill from there. We must reexamine all expectations when dealing with other human beings. Put ur trust in Christ, not man (other humans).
It's such a rarity nowadays, you'd be better off chasing gold in the rivers.
There is one person who you should pursue......you.....learn to love yourself first.....take as much time as you need.....there is no rush
The truth hurts. Laughing in my face was the best one.
This channel saved my life...dating nowadays is tough.
I feel like women don't realize that an indirect rejection is even more hurtful than just saying it straight, because it leaves a lot to your (now dark) imagination. Just say it ladies, it's better for everyone.
They can’t. They are unable to be accountable. It’s evolutionary
I bit of advice I read that has served me well in life! "Stop taking advice from women on what women like or want in a man! If women were truly honest about what they want in a relationship, bad boys would not be so successful with them." (The Basic Instruction Before Lovin Eve). Now do with that advice as you please.
Thats right and correct I. Aggre 100% with your comment that's something to to think about. Very good point.
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It’s easier to break up a relationship with bad boys while taking little responsibility.
It’s so much worse when a woman is hurting you because as a man you can’t hit her like you could a man so being in a toxic relationship where she really hurts you then calls you like nothing ever happened it’s so sick
Basically if she’s not putting you first, you aren’t. It’s not you, just move on. She wasn’t all that anyway. You’re just trying to save your dignity but you’ve already lost it by chasing someone that doesn’t want you 😂 but listen you still can have your dignity by ditching her. Move smarter and work on yourself. You da man.
Thank you Jessica for this. I'm a priest I will pass this message to my Youth Association. They need it 150% yes I mean 150%👍😊
"People love you when you on they mind.
A thought is love's currency"
True
RIP Mac Miller
If your girl calls you a friend, seriously walk away stop overthinking and watching these videos. She's trying to make you unsure which has truth in it...shes telling u there's another guy in the background.
When I was 18 I was dating this girl that would barely text me back... I noticed while we were on a date that her face was glued to her phone and furiously texting.... I realized that I was probably plan Z... one day I dropped her off to a hair appointment and never looked back. I was an idiot but u live and learn. And I learned how to spot a bunch of red flags from just dating her.
@Godswill Kamalu none of the above. Just sharing an old story
@Godswill Kamalu don't need help my guy. This was over 10 years ago
I'm only watching this video because your a beautiful black woman 😍.
Ain't she tho😍
Yes sir👑
Haha
For your information ll black 🖤 🖤 women are beautiful
Best dating advise ever! "Never take women serious"
That's facts😂
guys remember to take all relationship advice with a grain of salt...every relationship is unique so in the end you need to make the best decision you can
Your comment is ACTUAL AND FACTUAL 💯 THE ABSOLUTE BEST ADVICE 1 COULD GIVE..👍🏾👍🏾✌🏿
7 things if woman do leave her...
1...she takes her time to getting back to you like she dosnt rply or reoly after many times......
2....if she cancel plan repdely what you ask her to dinner or meet means she is not intrested....
3....she calls you a friend....
4.... If she tells you she not ready for relationship......
5..... This is only you to initiate contact....
6... When u accelate or take steps to forward she fades away reject or dont coopreate....
7.... She bluetiks you means dont reply in chats.....
If she disrespect you and argue all the time...walk away
I ain't waiting 24 hours for a reply from any woman not even if she was President of the USA
😂😂Me too King🤞🏽
I’m surprised this need to be said. People should have a level of self respect not to tolerate these things.
It's all about respect! If she doesn't respect you, she won't love you!!
Respect is earned not given
Focus on womens actions not words
Women will just drag you down the rabbit hole. Its best to to focus on yourself. Its 2020 people. This is not the the 90s and below. I encourage all of the men here to focus on themselves.
Facts bro that’s sum real shit females will definitely claim they love you one day then the next they act like they don’t know you
what abt marriage
If a woman doesn't get back to you within 24 hours and not in hospital after you contact her and doesn't show up for two dates stop talking to her. If she really was interested she will contact you . Otherwise she is only wasting your time. There are lots of other woman who be interested in dating you.
You just saved me.
These are all the qualities of my lady...
Did you get rid of her your not alone
The ultimate mode is prayer mode, simply stay prayed up. When the devil want to destroy you, he will send you a woman, when God want to bless you, He will send you a wife.
And vice versa.
The same God who created marrige can make it work. Pray and fast consistently God will lead you to the right person.
Fool.
Well said!!!
@@TriciaRP yes and Vice Versa
Popped Up In My Recommendation.
God Is Showing Me A Sign.
Thank you so much Auset. I just got my heart crushed by a young woman who just happened to have been through previous trauma that wasn't fully communicated to me so I could handle it accordingly. I accepted her back after she cheated with a random man , came up missing for 4 days. Now she's left again without no response for the last month and a half. All I did was a man is reflect on my wrongs and take accountability, apologize, check in concerning about her and still no response from her. After chest and stomach pains for 30+ days I have concluded,,,,FORGET THIS🤣 I'm a great guy, a great father, loving, caring, fit, spiritual etc... ♥️🖤💚
Love to hear it!
Sounds like you was dealing with a Female Covert Narcissist , espacially the part were you said you was dealing with chest and stomach pains 30+ , same thing am feeling too
Thanks 4 exposing time thieves
In this generation, you don't need to waste time with anyone. If a female want to be with you, she would create time. You hundred percent right. What I want to share with some dude's is, never force yourself on a female. She would hurt your feelings and you can hurt yourself.. It's not a do or die.
You opened my eyes
I deleted her number
It was always only in my head
Thank you Jessica 🤧
If a woman likes you... It'll be too obvious.... You'll just know... It'll mostly creep you out in fact... Especially when you don't like her as much...
Attention! Interest! Overdoing things! Regard!
It'll show ... Trust me...
You will know,like he said,it will be to the point where she's almost boarding annoying/ obsessed.
And it will usually be with the women in your rotation who you like the least lol
The way I hear your advice I understand why many relationship does not last... may the lord have mercy on us 🙏
Your relationship advice should be more on the wrong doing of a man or a woman. I see you really make women look like monsters
@@chavalaedwards9049 totally agree !!
Too true! Also...
When her only compliment to you is "You're a nice guy".
When she asks for money, early in the relationship.
A history of abuse and abusive relationships.
Alot of sneaky sisters hate you but a lot of brothers love you because you exposes a women's tricks.
Love the reminder " Tricks " R 4 Kids
If your woman don’t appreciate shit you do! LEAVE HER 💯
If a women takes forever to respond to you, but is always on the phone while on a date it’s a red🚩 pull back or discontinue
Goodluck to my younger bretheren on the dating scene... My biggest tip is: Look after your future first and ignore dating until you notice someone with more passion than you in the direction you're headed in life.
Even then still, you don't have to date. Just enjoy your exploits together and succeed together.
Sage advice!
Wow I love her dark skin she is beautiful.
Don't waste time on a girl who doesn't like u from the begining who doest put an effort to Initiate a communicate.. Just move on and get the right one. No time to waste.
When you get someone’s number and you guys are getting to know eachother but this person im talking about takes hours to respond, dont text them anymore wait to see if they text u first then continue to talk to them, if they dont hit u up first let it go and find someone else.
Her voice and eyes what a combination
Out of all the things you said in this video. If a man does these types of things to a woman, they say we are Playing Games...... But when a woman does these same things its called not being interested... 💯
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@@ejbenton8814 thats just real talk man..
No lies detected 💯
@@shawndamiller330 Thank You Shawnda. 🌷
Brothers don't go out here seeking . Before you seek first evaluate and correct yourself so when you are "seeking" a partner you more so attractive what is needed in your current state . Elevate and attract don't search and be desperate
The problem is you only find out this after you've got married and had children, after which it's too late. Don't waste your time on women. Do me myself and I. They really are not worth it.
Speaking facts 💯
Jessica, I’m a bit worried about those candles under your bookshelf behind you. Please don’t go out and forget about them, maybe you should move them to a place where there is nothing directly above them. All the best.
Thanks. Well noted
Her eyes , her skin colour. That's beauty.
Yeah!!
A lot of times they truly are in love with you, then they self-sabotage because of different reasons. Low self-esteem, trauma bonded, insecure, depression, or anxiety. (Anxiety is a form of depression )... It's something she has to fix within herself. It's not our responsibility. This can go for a man or woman
I’m dealing with a women with these same mental challenges. I tried my hardest, read about depression and anxiety, processed, took advice and all to no avail. I broke up with her because I felt I wasn’t being treated right. I rethought everything and tried to get her back and she’s not with it. We still talked and made love a couple of times but ultimately she couldn’t get over the fact that I left and feels I’ll do it again. It doesn’t help she’s super bad so guys will definitely be gasin her up and giving her a false sense of entitlement, with will I believe not allow her to address her issues. I wish I wouldn’t have left and tried harder, but maybe not. Sometimes you have to break your own heart to save your soul 💯💔💪🏾
Tip- Don't invest real feelings for someone untill they prove to you that,they deserve it...
(Just take these like a timepass, just like how women do with men)
If she takes away ur peace of mind run! do no try to rationalise why, just run!!!
It's nice to have the intelligent perspective of a woman. But, fellas, y'all should know this already 🤷🏽♂️
Thank you sister I completely agree with you! Love and respect from the Gambia ✌
I can vouch for all your points out of experience. Thanks for this. This is important for well meaning men.
If she lets you pay for everything, ditch her asap.
Definitely true
If you walk up to her and she doesn't recognize you and says......oh it's you, I didn't recognize you without your wallet.....is a bad sign....
I like that a woman is out here helping us out. I met someone online, we chatted heavy..exchanged numbers. But one day I came to the conclusion that I was always initiating contact. I put her on ice. I feel so much lighter now. 💯
Thank you sister, that wars really heartwarming. I'm going through it and when I think of calling a quit something will came up saying try again.
Thank you Jessica…. You are really a blessing to we guys
24hrs is a lot. Ppl Carry phones more than they carry babies. If they go to toilet, grab coffee, stretch etc they can answer/acknoledge within an hour or two.
You know how to solve this problem?Don't date or pursue women.There way too confusing and most are irritating. Let them come to you and then set your own rules.
You hit the nail right on the head!
Like a boss it’s so easy ladies makes them self
I just discovered Jessica and my Gawd where have I been all these years!!!!
Thank you so much for sharing this information in your videos... I have been dealing with so much unnecessary BS. I'm a good person but these videos have really opened my eyes.
My Ex actually calls me a lot but the girl I wanna move on with does everything you just said, I think I should just be alone. thanks for this.
Peak confusion bruv, it sucks...
Your ex realized she lost the current one is about to lose...
A woman in Ghana giving men advice about bad women. I guess women really are the same everywhere in the world
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Wow! Just watching this now! Congrats on your 600k subscribers. Keep on keeping on with these great lessons.