I like this young, independent, strong and intelligent lady. All her videos make a lot of sense. Her videos are oringinal and they're not scripted. She gives very genuine and valuable pieces of advice.
I just love jessica. I have recently lost my wife of 21 years and i made a promise that iwant no more relationships.recently i have met a wonderful lady and we love each other.shes such a blessing and i love her very much.with the grace of god she will be sixty and i will propose to her on her bday in December thank you jessiçà
Excellent advice and information, I was happily married for 32 years and I lost my wife to cancer in 2016.My wife met all your criteria and that is why we were able to weather any storm (with God's help of course) and have a fruitful marriage. Please continue your great work .
I wish every youngman unmarried can come across this valuable advice, I think Madam Jessy is heavenly sent ,her expressions are undoubtedly very important to anyone considering to have a meaningful and resourceful relationship and obviously marriage at the end...God bless your works ma'am
Yes, I married a woman like this, but I was the one who was not ready. I was not honest and I cheated on her so she moved on. She helped me realize I needed to mature and grow up and I am in the process of maturing and healing.
No one is perfect and even if shes smart or beautiful , everyone is subject to change , so I say marry someone who can accept and love you just like you accept and love them the same, good bad and in different as well as committed .... the 3 keys are communication , honesty and trust for a solid relationship.
The problem with a lot of marriages is that people fell in love with a personality before marriage but have to live with a character during marriage. The right character is key.
1. Intellectually stimulating ; 2. Emotionally consistent (not emotionally volatile). 3. Good empathiser. 4. Honest toward you and other persons and in every aspects of her life. 5. Someone who has ambition. 6. Interested in improving herself. 7. Not excessively jealous and petty. 8. She makes an effort on you. 9. She inspires you to be better. If she's this way, she's the one for everyone. So be ready to compete for her ;)
I'm a woman and watching this from Kenya and my oh my, it's on another level.You've dissected it so well and your accent reminds me of one of our own, Carol Mutoko.Good job, Jess!
Reality check ✅... but one thing is, your girl will not be All 9 but she can improve. Don’t go pushing a good woman away because Jessica says so. Peace ✌🏾
Please and please, don't ever be with a woman only to try changing her or hoping she will adjust.....It may never work out, if you're not going to first accept her the way she is, please let her be. People hardly change. This mentality of hoping for adjustment had led some of us to dating different women who will first pretend initially and, then return to default.
She appreciates the fact I love her with all my heart, and would die for her, and protect her honor will my life. The fact she don't take advantage of my love for her. She supports my ideas no matter what. She honestly cares for my well being to a great extent. She puts me 1st continually. She has a honest appreciation for things I do for her. She is a great person. She will put others in their place real quick. She is a top pistol shooter and has trophies. She smells good. She wants to do things together with me. Like fishing, racing. But wants me to go out and do things I want to do encourages me. Completely 100% trust worthy. I married her. 21 years ago.. I thank you for helping others...
I found you afer the death of Samuels...gotta say you are a blessing. Sadly, I'm older than you yet your wisdom in this regard is beyond my current talent.
Wow I just stumbled on this video searching for something else!! This is some amazing information of truth for men and women! With all humility I can humbly say I do all of these things.. I’ve been divorced for fourteen years now and I will be honest and I say I wasn’t this way before, but since I’ve been single I’ve found myself learning these things over the years. Here I am in my forties still single, but confident that I could provide these gifts if marriage was ever on the table in a future relationship!! Thank you ma’am for this wonderful reminder!!!?
This video is 100% on point - and I mean all the 9 signs! I'm actually blown away to see someone hitting these specific points all at the same time, because most other people hardly acknowledge that these things are crucial. (Most other people talk only about prayers and unconditional love that conquers all things :) ) If you're single and watching this, this blueprint will save your life in a big way.
This is really good. I’m on the third point and I’m already feeling you. I’ve always maintained that a partner that intellectually vibes and connects is such a crucial requirement for relationships/marriages that’ll thrive. And then comes honesty, which I say births all other sweet and vital qualities, such as faithfulness and loyalty, etc. Personally, the moment anybody lies to me, I get so detached and lose interest. Honesty is extremely imperative to me.
My wife is the opposite of EVERY ONE of these points. I searched for the signs before we got married, asked a thousand questions, conjured scenarios, and she played along very well. She loved my family, she was ambitious, she knew how to communicate, and she respected me. ALL OF THAT went out the window within 3 weeks of our wedding, and she became my greatest antagonist. Now her plea for reconciliation is overshadowed by the massive curtain of remorse and regret. To whomever is reading this, if you're in a relationship with a special someone, and you're thinking of taking things to the next level, I plead with you to take your time, ask all the questions, and don't be hasty. As humans, we're all fairly decent at presenting our best side to the world, while honesty takes a back seat, But the longer stay on the course, eventually the truth comes to light. I appreciate this video, I appreciate Jessica's channel, I think she is absolutely gorgeous inside and out, and I wish her many many successes in what she's pursuing. God bless you ma'am, greetings from Virginia, USA.
The best way to know some is to Investigate behind her from her close relatives and her friends, trust me, most wrong women are great pretenders! Forget about relationships and always do the opposite annoy her small and create distance to create value!
Hello Sir,I totally understand what you might be going through. But speaking about your wife like this,will not make her become a better person. Try to find out what went wrong and tackle this issue with love and prayers.
Point one is amazing. Unfortunately, it has always been a problem for me. Most people want an intellectual and outspoken lady until they meet one. Thank you Jess
This is the second video I’ve watched by Ms. Jessica OS. And thank The Most High being led to it. The wisdom you share helps me understand what to find in a good woman to marry one day. These 9 attributes in a woman are simply but also valuable and can help build a strong marriage. Thanks.
I love these videos. I'm, unfortunately, not watching them in any specific order, but picking up the gems as I go. Thanks for these. I guess there's still some hope for us in this relationship world.
Random facts, that is sooo sweet! Wishing you the same dear one. Even though we don't know each other we are still family... because blood makes us related, but LOVE makes us FAMILY. I'm so excited about the future life our heavenly father have in store for those who truly love him!! It promises to be the best life ever! I'll really love if you are a part of it!! Precious one, please read: JOHN 17:3, PSALM 37:29, REVELATION 21:3-4 and ISAIAH 65: 21-25. Please take care.. much much love!🙏🙏💪😊💕
Sis. This video is a master class for those who understand the time we are in. Everything you talk about is 100% correct. You are someone anyone can trust and rely upon. Thk you. Naija in your corner.I subscribed.
Hi Jessica I love this Chanel it open my eyes and wish she can come to South Africa and host a event or show were a lot of woman and man are In need for your knowledge
Jessy thanks so much I love you, you look so beautiful but I like seeing your eyes you can use both the sun glass , you always sound so eloquent God bless you more.
I'm African and I understand what you're insinuating with the "ambitious part of a woman" and vehemently agree with you on it, when a woman is ambitious the biggest benefactors are the kids, meaning because she spends more time with them than their father they learn from her "how not to be a mediocres". The African culture kills the ambitious drive in a woman thereby making her bring up less ambitious kids which also thereby makes mediocrity an extremely common traits in most Africans. Summary ; A woman's ambitious drive is tremendously important. A great deal of the advancement in the Western world is because their women are extremely ambitious thereby getting the kids(future leaders) not to settle for little but always desiring to develop themselves thereby making them drive towards achieving more. AFRICAN KIDS ARE VICTIMS OF THE MEDIOCRITY PUT INTO THE AFRICAN WOMAN VIA THE CRAZY AFRICAN CULTURE AND THIS WHY AFRICA IS A MEDIOCRE CONTINENT 🌍.
No king and queen nonsens! Thats for hollywood. You whant to be treat right! Input a output. Think abboud that one. Thats nice for children and after 12 years you wake them up! Reality shows the way. And they need that for there dificuld periode.😅 good luck
I really admire your great advise in matters that borders around Women~ you are really a great orator thus your Man is a lucky guy because there's No Sane Man who wouldn't wish to have a Beautiful Lady with Beautiful Brains like you dear Jessicah~ From Kenya!
I have learnt alot from you about relationship. You're simply awesome. These points are relationship saving medications to prevent heartbreak, set backs and unhappiness. Thank you so much for sharing.
GREAT VIDEO , ESPECIALLY ABOUT MEN DEMANDING THAT WOMEN HAVE AMBITION ALSO IS KEY TO WHAT MEN SHOULD LOOK FOR BECAUSE IT WILL TAKE 2 PAYCHECKS TO MAKE IT IN THESE TIMES.
Jess you're indeed a darling, my wonderful relationship coach. This is powerful clip. Making the right choice of wife is a tough decision. Thanks for the wonderful advice, so helpful
Im listening and learning. I made some key mistakes you mentioned with women. The confidence. The rush into relationship. And playing it cool.. I like how you go into details. Thanks. From the ATL
I have randomly watched your channel from time to time and each time I do it becomes clear to me how spot on and how important your voice is becoming to us out here. I wished you had been around some 23 years ago but hey it is never too late to learn something new. You words and advice as to the choices we make for our mates is encouraging. Thank you, it is good to hear from a woman's point of view and from someone that is not bad mouthing men as the enemy all the time. African men and women really need one another in order to grow and achieve what it is we are supposed to meet up with. Congratulations and please keep up the great work
This is apt, my boo clearly checks all of these and even more, there is obviously no need for any writing on the wall here. What needs to be done is super obvious.
Jess I’ve been loving you and what you do for sometime now. I feel we should be done with the adults more and concentrate on encouraging parents to raise better children. That solves a lot of problems in marriage and relationships. People are just not raised right and sometimes one has to take the burden to do that even after Marriage . It’s sad
I just love the quality of your videos. There are beautiful. There is a huge input of class and an elevated level of aesthetic. The sound quality is good. The colour presentation is top notch. Your voice tone is one that is not a drone of monotony that induces sleep. Your facial expressions are excellent. Your accent is squeaky clean and has no poor attitude which is common with "Made up" accents that a picked up on study tours of the US or UK. Your breathing... Lemme stop here!! (-:
@@JessicaOS Oh Yes. Trying to turn me into your critic. Oh yes. Let me put on that hat and I am sure you have done a good job on sealing all the peep holes. Of course, you are not perfect in that you don't delve too deep because of time limitations. Its all good,though. I am yet to see more content on the inappropriate man in a relationship. I like the part where you show the Ghana landscape and many other views that kill the monotony of TH-cam presentations.....
The ending of your no5 hits me.the venture part. God bless you so much..I was talking to my ex while we Wre dating about some spare money and how we should try a good business(pizza,shawarma and some pastries business) she ones worked dre and she always tell me how her boss makes a lot of money..but she was so reluctant for us doing the business.it was like I was the only one interested.but she wants hairs and a good life.you can imagine..
Hi Jessica. I think your videos are fantastic straight to the heart and concise. Please consider putting a book together on your views. Your checklists are quite great for decision making in things like this.
Hell yeah Jessy ! Another video, another thumb, your were rocking with what seems to be sophisticated utility vehicle, but mostly the context of the video was absolutely stunning. Hahaha i rather go with no petty one,,because I don't wanna gets no bald head, nor grey hair before my time.
@@JessicaOS Very informative video Jessica, totally agree with what you have expressed. Honestly though it's really hard to meet a genuine woman theses days...next to nonexistence. So many wolves in sheep clothing. All about material things, values and money straight up.We are now existing in a sad world...totally different generation.Where are the very few good women hiding ?
Jessica you are a life saver..this was a therapy session for me .I was guilty of leaving my now ex girlfriend but now I know It was for the good.. Thanks craving for more content like this
Actually i have been dating a person who is the opposite of these signs for 10yrs .The problem is my family loves her and they give me a hard time if i try to point it out.i guess i have to take complete control now and leave
Jessica, I’ve been through many many toxic and awful relationships and 6 months ago I met my girlfriend and we’ve now been together 2 months and it’s been the best relationship I’ve ever had. My gut feeling right from the start also told me married with two kids. But I’ve still been really contemplating on whether I should marry her or not when we’re older because it’s no doubt a huge decision. but she’s ticked every single one of your signs, especially the last one. She’s hugely into athletics and is soon to enter the Olympics and inspires me so much but at the same time she is completely obsessed with me and gets nervous around me which I find too funny. Thank you for the video Jessica, you may have started a family 😅
Jessica, I am Papua New Guinea 🇵🇬, a country in the South Pacific . I have been following your TH-cam Channel. I believe everything you say about the udeal woman to marry.
Thank you for this video, Jessica. Your wisdom and tips were beneficial, I found them useful, and your voice is relaxing to listen to. I also love the interior of your car, it suits you and looks amazing.
The 9 points are great. I totally agree with all of them. However, one other thing. The woman should know her boundaries, just as the man need to know his. Case in point. Men have their lane and women have their lane. A man should not be bullied by his girl or wife, if he has not met her expectations with a task. If you ask him to plan an event but feel compelled to jump in because you think he is not capable of doing the job, you have just demasculated your man and micromanaged him. You may ask him to help do something o the computer, but due to the time it is taking him, you snatched the task from him and, in a condescending tone, told him he is taking too long, and you jump right in and take over the task. You've just demasculated your man. A woman should never devalue her man by thinking she has a right to step all over his manhood.
I'm 25 almost 26 though. I have this girl I love so much and I'm sure she loves me really much, we've been planning our lives together.... Do You think it's wise choice to engage her now? We are both not ready for marriage but we wanna keep tighter...... Her name is Jessica too ☺
I like this young, independent, strong and intelligent lady. All her videos make a lot of sense. Her videos are oringinal and they're not scripted. She gives very genuine and valuable pieces of advice.
I just love jessica. I have recently lost my wife of 21 years and i made a promise that iwant no more relationships.recently i have met a wonderful lady and we love each other.shes such a blessing and i love her very much.with the grace of god she will be sixty and i will propose to her on her bday in December thank you jessiçà
Jessica talks exactly like Caroline Mutuko...Kenyans reading this will relate. Hi Jessica, new subscriber here.
Excellent advice and information, I was happily married for 32 years and I lost my wife to cancer in 2016.My wife met all your criteria and that is why we were able to weather any storm (with God's help of course) and have a fruitful marriage. Please continue your great work .
I wish every youngman unmarried can come across this valuable advice, I think Madam Jessy is heavenly sent ,her expressions are undoubtedly very important to anyone considering to have a meaningful and resourceful relationship and obviously marriage at the end...God bless your works ma'am
Yes, I married a woman like this, but I was the one who was not ready. I was not honest and I cheated on her so she moved on. She helped me realize I needed to mature and grow up and I am in the process of maturing and healing.
You can do it good sir!I am rooting for you and you will be better cause you dealt with that trial!
@@Daykiss thank you. Much love.
Her vocabulary, diction and voice are just impeccable.
No one is perfect and even if shes smart or beautiful , everyone is subject to change , so I say marry someone who can accept and love you just like you accept and love them the same, good bad and in different as well as committed .... the 3 keys are communication , honesty and trust for a solid relationship.
The problem with a lot of marriages is that people fell in love with a personality before marriage but have to live with a character during marriage. The right character is key.
You communicate in Queen's English with so much ease and poise!👌❤️
Powerful!!
1. Intellectually stimulating ;
2. Emotionally consistent (not emotionally volatile).
3. Good empathiser.
4. Honest toward you and other persons and in every aspects of her life.
5. Someone who has ambition.
6. Interested in improving herself.
7. Not excessively jealous and petty.
8. She makes an effort on you.
9. She inspires you to be better.
If she's this way, she's the one for everyone. So be ready to compete for her ;)
I am all and more...Seek and search for me...
@@Womenswell022 I’m on the waiting list so. I hope I can get you.
@@veritevraie4433 lol...😁😁😁
I'm a woman and watching this from Kenya and my oh my, it's on another level.You've dissected it so well and your accent reminds me of one of our own, Carol Mutoko.Good job, Jess!
Reality check ✅... but one thing is, your girl will not be All 9 but she can improve. Don’t go pushing a good woman away because Jessica says so. Peace ✌🏾
But it if she wants to improve herself what if she doesn’t want that. We are tired of those drama
My sister, never assume if he/ she can improve or changed.... don't make an everlasting mistakes...it happens to osinachi and where is she now ??
It is true
Actually, Jessica gave this caveat much earlier into the video. If I remember well enough, she place more emphasis on more, not all of the 9 traits.
Please and please, don't ever be with a woman only to try changing her or hoping she will adjust.....It may never work out, if you're not going to first accept her the way she is, please let her be. People hardly change. This mentality of hoping for adjustment had led some of us to dating different women who will first pretend initially and, then return to default.
I definitely have a woman like this. It's just too soon to put a ring on it - we both know it - but she's definitely a keeper.
Thanks Jess, you have no idea how many lives you're improving (saving) for both men & women. Much love from Kenya 🇰🇪 ❤
Thank you for your genuine wisdom. It really confirms why my first marriage didnt work out. These standards are on point!
Life is spiritual. These aspects are important , but making sure she is the right one for you from a spiritual standpoint is %1
She appreciates the fact I love her with all my heart, and would die for her, and protect her honor will my life. The fact she don't take advantage of my love for her. She supports my ideas no matter what. She honestly cares for my well being to a great extent. She puts me 1st continually. She has a honest appreciation for things I do for her. She is a great person. She will put others in their place real quick. She is a top pistol shooter and has trophies. She smells good. She wants to do things together with me. Like fishing, racing. But wants me to go out and do things I want to do encourages me. Completely 100% trust worthy. I married her. 21 years ago..
I thank you for helping others...
I'm so happy my girl is all of these things! I am marrying her soon!
I found you afer the death of Samuels...gotta say you are a blessing. Sadly, I'm older than you yet your wisdom in this regard is beyond my current talent.
Thank you! May K.S. RIP!
Wow I just stumbled on this video searching for something else!! This is some amazing information of truth for men and women! With all humility I can humbly say I do all of these things.. I’ve been divorced for fourteen years now and I will be honest and I say I wasn’t this way before, but since I’ve been single I’ve found myself learning these things over the years. Here I am in my forties still single, but confident that I could provide these gifts if marriage was ever on the table in a future relationship!! Thank you ma’am for this wonderful reminder!!!?
😊😊😊
This video is 100% on point - and I mean all the 9 signs!
I'm actually blown away to see someone hitting these specific points all at the same time, because most other people hardly acknowledge that these things are crucial.
(Most other people talk only about prayers and unconditional love that conquers all things :) )
If you're single and watching this, this blueprint will save your life in a big way.
This is really good. I’m on the third point and I’m already feeling you. I’ve always maintained that a partner that intellectually vibes and connects is such a crucial requirement for relationships/marriages that’ll thrive. And then comes honesty, which I say births all other sweet and vital qualities, such as faithfulness and loyalty, etc. Personally, the moment anybody lies to me, I get so detached and lose interest. Honesty is extremely imperative to me.
My wife is the opposite of EVERY ONE of these points. I searched for the signs before we got married, asked a thousand questions, conjured scenarios, and she played along very well. She loved my family, she was ambitious, she knew how to communicate, and she respected me. ALL OF THAT went out the window within 3 weeks of our wedding, and she became my greatest antagonist. Now her plea for reconciliation is overshadowed by the massive curtain of remorse and regret. To whomever is reading this, if you're in a relationship with a special someone, and you're thinking of taking things to the next level, I plead with you to take your time, ask all the questions, and don't be hasty. As humans, we're all fairly decent at presenting our best side to the world, while honesty takes a back seat, But the longer stay on the course, eventually the truth comes to light. I appreciate this video, I appreciate Jessica's channel, I think she is absolutely gorgeous inside and out, and I wish her many many successes in what she's pursuing. God bless you ma'am, greetings from Virginia, USA.
Thanks for sharing Abe!
Me tooo that is so much so I am not going to right it
The best way to know some is to Investigate behind her from her close relatives and her friends, trust me, most wrong women are great pretenders! Forget about relationships and always do the opposite annoy her small and create distance to create value!
Hello Sir,I totally understand what you might be going through. But speaking about your wife like this,will not make her become a better person.
Try to find out what went wrong and tackle this issue with love and prayers.
Many of us need are victims of false advertising I hope the best for you my brother. Amen-
Your teaching is great; your car is so nice, I like the color of the seats inside , black on the outside.
Just wonder what makes you friendly and close to all of us, you are a blessing
Excellent! As a woman I should be the best and healthiest for my King! Good job, Jess!
Point one is amazing. Unfortunately, it has always been a problem for me. Most people want an intellectual and outspoken lady until they meet one. Thank you Jess
I tell you 🤣
Exactly my point…if she doesn’t do that, she’s dumb, and when she does, she’s always challenging you. It’s just messed up
Imperfect people looking for perfect match.
Her Looks and demeanour is like that of caroline mutoko of kenya 🇰🇪 😋 todays talk was lit💥💥💥
I agree
This is the second video I’ve watched by Ms. Jessica OS. And thank The Most High being led to it. The wisdom you share helps me understand what to find in a good woman to marry one day. These 9 attributes in a woman are simply but also valuable and can help build a strong marriage. Thanks.
I love these videos. I'm, unfortunately, not watching them in any specific order, but picking up the gems as I go. Thanks for these. I guess there's still some hope for us in this relationship world.
Sister, you ROCK ! You know exactly what’s up and what men need instead of what they have been sold.
Jessica, I think I missed the first 2 minutes marveling at the interior of your ride...I gotta watch it again 😆
we are many..
OKKKKKK!!! See my comment above!! 😍
To the person reading this, Even though I don't know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer."✨🌹✨
God bless you too
OK, hear you
Random facts, that is sooo sweet! Wishing you the same dear one. Even though we don't know each other we are still family... because blood makes us related, but LOVE makes us FAMILY.
I'm so excited about the future life our heavenly father have in store for those who truly love him!! It promises to be the best life ever! I'll really love if you are a part of it!! Precious one, please read: JOHN 17:3, PSALM 37:29, REVELATION 21:3-4 and ISAIAH 65: 21-25.
Please take care.. much much love!🙏🙏💪😊💕
Feelings mutual 🤙🏾♥️
Wishing you same
Sis. This video is a master class for those who understand the time we are in. Everything you talk about is 100% correct. You are someone anyone can trust and rely upon. Thk you. Naija in your corner.I subscribed.
Thanks for the sub
Hi Jessica I love this Chanel it open my eyes and wish she can come to South Africa and host a event or show were a lot of woman and man are In need for your knowledge
Who knows?? I just might
Jessy thanks so much I love you, you look so beautiful but I like seeing your eyes you can use both the sun glass , you always sound so eloquent God bless you more.
Oh thank you!
Listening to you is golden. You have also found a way to push me into serious self development while looking for the woman you've just described.
I'm African and I understand what you're insinuating with the "ambitious part of a woman" and vehemently agree with you on it, when a woman is ambitious the biggest benefactors are the kids, meaning because she spends more time with them than their father they learn from her "how not to be a mediocres". The African culture kills the ambitious drive in a woman thereby making her bring up less ambitious kids which also thereby makes mediocrity an extremely common traits in most Africans.
Summary ; A woman's ambitious drive is tremendously important. A great deal of the advancement in the Western world is because their women are extremely ambitious thereby getting the kids(future leaders) not to settle for little but always desiring to develop themselves thereby making them drive towards achieving more.
AFRICAN KIDS ARE VICTIMS OF THE MEDIOCRITY PUT INTO THE AFRICAN WOMAN VIA THE CRAZY AFRICAN CULTURE AND THIS WHY AFRICA IS A MEDIOCRE CONTINENT 🌍.
You are amazing. always serving it as needed. Nairobi Fan no 1 says, Thank You Jes!
“#9 Inspires you to be a better person” this is so important and rare, when this is the case you know she’s a keeper
Jessica you're a very wise and intelligent young woman cz I enjoy your show so keep up the good work Vernon McBride
This is one of the best videos I've watched from Jessica. Quite educative.
With lots of love from Kenya.
They are people who want to change the world and they start with themselves and spread that kind of authenticity around. Played this part 3 times.
You've inspired me with your comprehensive content, they're eye-opening and life-changing. Keep it up, girl!
Nobody does it better than Jessica. Jessica, you are da bomb!
Another great inspiration for me again Jessica & I’m graceful for such acknowledgment. You’re a great woman Jessica & proud of you!
If she don’t treat you like a King even tho you treat her like a Queen , LEAVE.
Simple.
Very simple
Truth.
No king and queen nonsens! Thats for hollywood. You whant to be treat right! Input a output. Think abboud that one. Thats nice for children and after 12 years you wake them up! Reality shows the way. And they need that for there dificuld periode.😅 good luck
No one should treat anyone like a king or queen. That's stupid
Hello goodafternoon from Nairobi Kenya. I can't miss to watch you 😊
I have sent a message on your IG you haven't answered yet .I maybe you are busy please check
In reality you described the Proverbs 31 woman . You can't beat two people working together .
Virtuous woman😍
I really admire your great advise in matters that borders around Women~ you are really a great orator thus your Man is a lucky guy because there's No Sane Man who wouldn't wish to have a Beautiful Lady with Beautiful Brains like you dear Jessicah~ From Kenya!
Jess. U look like a great catch..smart , go getter, ambitious, biker girl ..wow that's a hand full for alot of guys..u inspired me🤫
I have learnt alot from you about relationship. You're simply awesome. These points are relationship saving medications to prevent heartbreak, set backs and unhappiness. Thank you so much for sharing.
Thanks for the tips Jessica,i'm a big fan of you all the way from Dar es salaam,Tanzania. I always appriciate your contents to the maximum
GREAT VIDEO , ESPECIALLY ABOUT MEN DEMANDING THAT WOMEN HAVE AMBITION ALSO IS KEY TO WHAT MEN SHOULD LOOK FOR BECAUSE IT WILL TAKE 2 PAYCHECKS TO MAKE IT IN THESE TIMES.
Happy to the one who has you as a wife. Very intelligent lady.
*If she’s someone who genuinely supports your growth and challenges you to be better, she’s definitely the one to consider for marriage.*
Number 1 classic woman I really admire you, great content
Thank you! 😊
Jess you're indeed a darling, my wonderful relationship coach. This is powerful clip. Making the right choice of wife is a tough decision. Thanks for the wonderful advice, so helpful
Dear Jessica I really love your contents because of you encouraging in so many ways
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏽😇🌹she has ALL the qualities that you have expressed in your video clip here my dear...thank you for your work and vision ❤👍🏾👍🏾
Wow my girl have all these qualities! 🙌🏿
Im listening and learning. I made some key mistakes you mentioned with women. The confidence. The rush into relationship. And playing it cool.. I like how you go into details. Thanks. From the ATL
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Bravo!!! This is awesome. You actually spoke my mind. I'm so happy and impressed.
I have randomly watched your channel from time to time and each time I do it becomes clear to me how spot on and how important your voice is becoming to us out here. I wished you had been around some 23 years ago but hey it is never too late to learn something new. You words and advice as to the choices we make for our mates is encouraging. Thank you, it is good to hear from a woman's point of view and from someone that is not bad mouthing men as the enemy all the time. African men and women really need one another in order to grow and achieve what it is we are supposed to meet up with. Congratulations and please keep up the great work
This is apt, my boo clearly checks all of these and even more, there is obviously no need for any writing on the wall here. What needs to be done is super obvious.
Jess I’ve been loving you and what you do for sometime now. I feel we should be done with the adults more and concentrate on encouraging parents to raise better children. That solves a lot of problems in marriage and relationships. People are just not raised right and sometimes one has to take the burden to do that even after Marriage . It’s sad
I just love the quality of your videos.
There are beautiful. There is a huge input of class and an elevated level of aesthetic. The sound quality is good. The colour presentation is top notch.
Your voice tone is one that is not a drone of monotony that induces sleep. Your facial expressions are excellent. Your accent is squeaky clean and has no poor attitude which is common with "Made up" accents that a picked up on study tours of the US or UK.
Your breathing... Lemme stop here!! (-:
🤣🤣🤣 Michael you've got me laughing
@@JessicaOS I couldnt hold back. Your quality alone is exceptional and quite griping.... I can write an entire volume.... Seriously!
@@Leergreen i appreciate the feedback. I'd love to hear what you think i can do better as well. ..If ever. Sending hearts 💕 your way.
@@JessicaOS Oh Yes. Trying to turn me into your critic. Oh yes. Let me put on that hat and I am sure you have done a good job on sealing all the peep holes.
Of course, you are not perfect in that you don't delve too deep because of time limitations. Its all good,though.
I am yet to see more content on the inappropriate man in a relationship. I like the part where you show the Ghana landscape and many other views that kill the monotony of TH-cam presentations.....
@@Leergreen well noted. So it would be great to see more of Ghana.
The ending of your no5 hits me.the venture part.
God bless you so much..I was talking to my ex while we Wre dating about some spare money and how we should try a good business(pizza,shawarma and some pastries business) she ones worked dre and she always tell me how her boss makes a lot of money..but she was so reluctant for us doing the business.it was like I was the only one interested.but she wants hairs and a good life.you can imagine..
You Born and brought up in UK 🇬🇧 I believe Good English, Good shoot, Good Camera angles while on motion.
No, she's from Ghana.
Wish I watched this one a few years back, I would have dodged a bullet. Thanks Jess
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Hi Jessica. I think your videos are fantastic straight to the heart and concise. Please consider putting a book together on your views. Your checklists are quite great for decision making in things like this.
Hell yeah Jessy ! Another video, another thumb, your were rocking with what seems to be sophisticated utility vehicle, but mostly the context of the video was absolutely stunning. Hahaha i rather go with no petty one,,because I don't wanna gets no bald head, nor grey hair before my time.
You are describing woman of integrity (Virtuous woman).My dream girl.
Exactly
Am in Nairobi Kenya,thanks Jessica for the great teachings
I am john nyembo in canada. I wana talk to you. On watsappp
Jessica God is really using you to talk to a lots of people. Thank you so so much.
Love the Lexus 😍. Great stuff but I’m waiting for bike videos your promised me?🐥😌
😂 LoL
Coming soon!
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Very informative video Jessica, totally agree with what you have expressed. Honestly though it's really hard to meet a genuine woman theses days...next to nonexistence. So many wolves in sheep clothing. All about material things, values and money straight up.We are now existing in a sad world...totally different generation.Where are the very few good women hiding ?
Always wowing me with the quality of your videos. Keep up the good work.
Your voice is easy to listen to, we appreciate your knowledge
Great points 👌🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Love must not be a stressful thing, just find a good partner based on these and more (if you have extras). Great video Jessica 👏❤️
Love itself is not stressful, it's only an emotion. It's the other shenanigans that come along with it.
Exactly 👌👌👌👌👌
Jessica you are a life saver..this was a therapy session for me .I was guilty of leaving my now ex girlfriend but now I know It was for the good.. Thanks craving for more content like this
Hi Jessica, I'm a first timer.
Thanks for all your tips.
They're so apt.👌
Wow! It's the intro for me. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Many thanks Jess. You keep raising the bar with your content. Thank you again.
This is great and I'm excited I watched this.
Thank you Jess, peace!
#word
Respect to you Jessica. Very informative and inspiring video
im inspired and moved by your words, keep your ministry strong Amen
Since I found your channel I cant get enough of your content. kudos!
Thanks alot Jessica....i leanrt a lot from you ....you really have experience in this your job....kudos
Actually i have been dating a person who is the opposite of these signs for 10yrs .The problem is my family loves her and they give me a hard time if i try to point it out.i guess i have to take complete control now and leave
Waw! Just waw! This is me just smiling all through, that's me you are describing sis. Wow! All 9
Jessica, I’ve been through many many toxic and awful relationships and 6 months ago I met my girlfriend and we’ve now been together 2 months and it’s been the best relationship I’ve ever had. My gut feeling right from the start also told me married with two kids. But I’ve still been really contemplating on whether I should marry her or not when we’re older because it’s no doubt a huge decision. but she’s ticked every single one of your signs, especially the last one. She’s hugely into athletics and is soon to enter the Olympics and inspires me so much but at the same time she is completely obsessed with me and gets nervous around me which I find too funny. Thank you for the video Jessica, you may have started a family 😅
Jessica,
I am Papua New Guinea 🇵🇬, a country in the South Pacific . I have been following your TH-cam Channel. I believe everything you say about the udeal woman to marry.
Thank you for this video, Jessica. Your wisdom and tips were beneficial, I found them useful, and your voice is relaxing to listen to. I also love the interior of your car, it suits you and looks amazing.
The 9 points are great. I totally agree with all of them. However, one other thing. The woman should know her boundaries, just as the man need to know his. Case in point. Men have their lane and women have their lane. A man should not be bullied by his girl or wife, if he has not met her expectations with a task. If you ask him to plan an event but feel compelled to jump in because you think he is not capable of doing the job, you have just demasculated your man and micromanaged him. You may ask him to help do something o the computer, but due to the time it is taking him, you snatched the task from him and, in a condescending tone, told him he is taking too long, and you jump right in and take over the task. You've just demasculated your man. A woman should never devalue her man by thinking she has a right to step all over his manhood.
Gal the interior of that car 👌. Great content as always
I like her😌..she's a good example of how our women should carry themselves, much respect to u my sister✊🏽💯
Great Subject Empress Jess, Liking the interior of Your press to Start Automobile ....
I'm 25 almost 26 though. I have this girl I love so much and I'm sure she loves me really much, we've been planning our lives together.... Do You think it's wise choice to engage her now? We are both not ready for marriage but we wanna keep tighter...... Her name is Jessica too ☺
And all these apply to guys as well.
Wonderful piece
Hey Jess, you are doing a great job.
And you also need someone by the other seat beside you.
Hahahahaha
maybe it will be you, try harder
This video came in handy just at the right time... Thanks Jessica... much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤️
As a woman, I agree with everything she said in this video.