The 5 Signs Your Relationship Is Over | Mel Robbins

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  • @janemmanueldeguzman5855
    @janemmanueldeguzman5855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +807

    "You deserve someone that brings out the best in you" - This hit me hard...

    • @kelleyblack3420
      @kelleyblack3420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It is everything. That is when you know you are home.

    • @architectofdreams73
      @architectofdreams73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You deserve this? Sounds like entitlement and undue expectations with rules and compromises that only benefit you. You have to earn this, not just mystically be entitled to it.

    • @susanstebila8707
      @susanstebila8707 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are 👍 great, all so true ✨💁🏼‍♀️🤩😊

    • @adityasuresh6607
      @adityasuresh6607 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      most people get what they sow and people don't understand this.

    • @TheChihuahua83
      @TheChihuahua83 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No person can bring out the best in their partner 100% of the time every day of their lives. All relationships go thru seasons, conflicts come and go

  • @d0n315
    @d0n315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2210

    A doctor once told me
    *“Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. If a relationship doesn’t help you become a better person, ending it does. Find yourself again and you will find happiness”*

    • @orls9068
      @orls9068 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thank you for sharing, so true too 😊

    • @KrisDKatootz
      @KrisDKatootz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I love this so so true!

    • @ektasaikia7153
      @ektasaikia7153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's really a good piece of advice

    • @user-xg5mi5cb9p
      @user-xg5mi5cb9p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My new motto:
      If a relationship does not help you become a better person, ending it does.
      Thanks for the Words of Wisdom

    • @architectofdreams73
      @architectofdreams73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sounds like cliché fortune cookie nonsense. While this might apply to someone, this is not reliable blanket advice.

  • @Donaldhelmick
    @Donaldhelmick 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +105

    I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended few month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.

    • @LIAMNOAH-m7q
      @LIAMNOAH-m7q 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life

    • @Donaldhelmick
      @Donaldhelmick 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      f you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?

    • @LIAMNOAH-m7q
      @LIAMNOAH-m7q 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      His name is Fatherabulu, and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.

    • @Donaldhelmick
      @Donaldhelmick 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked him up, and I'm genuinely impressed.

  • @Dr.Yassine-As
    @Dr.Yassine-As ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Because you don't want to lose your lover, you stay in this toxic relationship but trust me you need someone who deserves you who loves you so much and understand you

  • @MrHydevsDrJekyll
    @MrHydevsDrJekyll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +511

    The best relationship is with yourself. That’s where it all starts

    • @allangilbert5865
      @allangilbert5865 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My wiener thinks so !

    • @maggyfernandez9125
      @maggyfernandez9125 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true

    • @silverlining6259
      @silverlining6259 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤ 💯

    • @maggyfernandez9125
      @maggyfernandez9125 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@silverlining6259 it's so funny married. 14yr. Second marriage we fight all the time. I moved to Florida from my health n granddaughters n my daughter 3years ago. If I knew my life was going to be like this with him in Florida I would have never left new York cause he i Florida I have no place to go if I leave ,in NY I have plenty of places I could have went it sucks

    • @SingularityFe
      @SingularityFe ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Until the toxic partner breaks the relationship you have with yourself

  • @jojopoeticstyle1224
    @jojopoeticstyle1224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1280

    5 signs
    1. You don’t feel like you are yourself
    2. You’re consistently questioning how you should communicate ?
    3. Not knowing where you stand
    4. You’re starting to get annoyed
    5. You’re questioning whether or not you have the same values

    • @tony9305
      @tony9305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Holy crap these are all true in my case.

    • @ProfKMasilela
      @ProfKMasilela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Same here and I think I'm passed the denial stage with this marriage.. I'm a happy person normally but I feel so angry now al the time

    • @architectofdreams73
      @architectofdreams73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Number 5 is the only one that matter in a relationship. The others are all inwards and only you are responsible for those, not anyone else. Conversation and collaboration is key here. Stop blaming and get to work or gtfo

    • @litedawg
      @litedawg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      My life story for the past 6 months. I had friends and family tell me I seemed miserable. Walking on egg shells. Dreaded coming home from work every day as she worked from home and she hated her job. Broke up with her last week. It was awful , but I had to. I was losing myself and what was important to me.

    • @Ms.Tee65
      @Ms.Tee65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I can relate to all, time to move on.

  • @fredseymour1224
    @fredseymour1224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4251

    The relationship might be over guys, but your life is just beginning!

  • @PlastiCityOf
    @PlastiCityOf ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This video hits hard. I feel every point. Now it’s just about being brave enough to end things.

  • @CherylMuir
    @CherylMuir 3 ปีที่แล้ว +793

    "Any relationship where you have to twist yourself into somebody that you're not in order to keep the peace, it only starts a war inside of you." ❤️

    • @paulkane5254
      @paulkane5254 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I recommend you to a man who can bring back your ex within 3three days without delay ❤️❤️❤️

    • @paulkane5254
      @paulkane5254 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯

    • @paulkane5254
      @paulkane5254 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What saap him***

    • @paulkane5254
      @paulkane5254 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @LeNoir2411
      @LeNoir2411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is what's going on with my friendship rn.. it feels like I'm the only one who reflects on my shortcomings and forced to do that while I've already been doing that.. while she do admits that she feels bad and hate herself, she keeps doing it, dismissing when i try to have a conversation about us.. i think she believes she's not at fault.. i love her so much.. she's the only reason I'm alive.. i got nobody else, literally.. but i am a piece of sht because I'm using her as an excuse to not die.. i don't wanna die.. but if our friendship is over ,i might really.. she's a good person really, but she also has her own inner battle ,the problem is ,she don't wanna face it and acknowledge it.. it's straining out relationship because i wanna change and be better for both of us but she don't want to bother and dwell deeper into her inner self .. i guess I'm just not good enough to bring out the best of her you know

  • @angelajones7918
    @angelajones7918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    Answered the question about my 15 year marriage. I dread when my husband comes home. We have nothing in common and I’m tired of pretending to like the things he enjoys just to keep the peace. I’m becoming more argumentative and standing up for myself more often.

    • @lisah9709
      @lisah9709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Same, except for 33 years of marriage.!

    • @Jamesgeeee
      @Jamesgeeee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      And you will feel like this until you get divorced! I stayed 3 years extra in my last relationship because I didn’t want to hurt her and not have the conversation. Guess what? I broke up with her. It was very peaceful, and no arguing, and 9 months later, we haven’t talked in 8 months. I wasted those 3 years of my life for someone who I don’t even talk to anymore. Never again

    • @pameladavenport2649
      @pameladavenport2649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hope yal.can work.thrunthings n find common ground n.have a revival be joined in spirit not flesh

    • @MortonLuvz2drum
      @MortonLuvz2drum ปีที่แล้ว

      Pretending. That's good to know. You just spent 15 years with the guy. But, I get it. I imagine you sitting there watching football, even though it sucks. What a waste of time. You don't need to argue. Go find something else to do. Or, click off the TV and jump on him like a cat. But, I can't give you good advice. I never re-married. I don't think I trust women at all anymore. Maybe because of the pretending? Well, that and the lying, drama induced, rage about nothing which always seemed to end up in my lap. Good luck.

    • @KikiNation1
      @KikiNation1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Feel the same with my wife.

  • @SarahOhio-t7u
    @SarahOhio-t7u 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my four-year relationship. My beloved partner chose to leave, leaving me with an enduring sense of loss. Despite my unwavering efforts to reconcile, I find myself struggling with frustration and an inability to imagine a future without him. Though I’ve tried to erase him from my thoughts, his absence continues to haunt me, compelling me to share my feelings here.

    • @BarbaraLinton-k1c
      @BarbaraLinton-k1c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Letting go of someone you deeply love is incredibly difficult. I was in a similar situation when my five-year relationship ended. I couldn't bring myself to let go and did everything in my power to get him back. In the end, I sought the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me reconnect with him.

    • @SarahOhio-t7u
      @SarahOhio-t7u 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That sounds intriguing! I'm curious how did you find this spiritual counselor, and what’s the best way for me to reach out?

    • @BarbaraLinton-k1c
      @BarbaraLinton-k1c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Meet Fatherabulu, a renowned spiritual counselor known for his remarkable ability to reunite ex partners.

  • @elvinagabriell3100
    @elvinagabriell3100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    4 out of 5 signs we had, we broke up 1 month ago, we had 5 year relationship. It still hurts so much but I have to be strong and I will get through this. I deserve someone who knows what he wants. I deserve better.

    • @marccowen9421
      @marccowen9421 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How do you feel now 2 months on? X god bless

    • @elvinagabriell3100
      @elvinagabriell3100 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @@marccowen9421 it’s been 4 months now, I feel much better. When I moved to his place in the Netherlands in January 2022, I gave up my job and being far from my family. I attended 2 Dutch classes, did the exam and processed the visa. With all the time, energy, effort and sacrifices I made, in the beginning of the break up it was really hard. It was the biggest heartbreak in my life because our goal was to get married. Now I’m working again, trying to build my career again. I’m letting it go, and feel at peace. Thanks for asking.

    • @marccowen9421
      @marccowen9421 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@elvinagabriell3100 Aw vie that’s so good to hear that you are rebuilding your self and your happiness and letting it go. Peace is what you want and have. Cherish it. Things will work out. I promise 🙏 are you still in the Netherlands or back home now? Xx

    • @elvinagabriell3100
      @elvinagabriell3100 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@marccowen9421 I’m back to Indonesia since we’re not together anymore, my residence permit in the Netherlands is withdrawn. I started working, being with family & friends here in Jakarta. Thank you 😊

    • @ELYONGLOBALNEWS
      @ELYONGLOBALNEWS ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh, really so sorry for that. I'm hear for you

  • @abijahjames621
    @abijahjames621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1188

    People cheat because they want something they can’t have. Doesn’t matter what their partner is like. They can be stunning inside and out. People get bored and then want to partake in something inappropriate to get a thrill by chasing someone else they know they shouldn’t. It’s like people who save up to buy a new car, are happy for a day, and then want to buy a new house. There will always be something more. There will always be something better. If you’re that kind of person, don’t be in a relationship. It’s super easy to not be in a relationship. It’s 2021. Screw a different person every day. It doesn’t matter. But don’t tell someone you love them and then chase after someone else. If you’re not happy, leave. That’s it. I really want to and thanks to *discreet phase resolution* for the phone evidence

    • @Karma-lc1bp
      @Karma-lc1bp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I HAVE SEEN OTHER PEOPLE HERE BUT TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU THERES ONLY ONE PERSON HERE THATS ACTUALLY CAPABLE OF GETTING SOMETHING LIKE THIS DONE AND THATS *discreet phase resolution* , HE IS ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING

    • @Karma-lc1bp
      @Karma-lc1bp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I HAVE SEEN OTHER PEOPLE HERE BUT TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU THERES ONLY ONE PERSON HERE THATS ACTUALLY CAPABLE OF GETTING SOMETHING LIKE THIS DONE AND THATS *discreet phase resolution* , HE IS ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING

    • @Karma-lc1bp
      @Karma-lc1bp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I HAVE SEEN OTHER PEOPLE HERE BUT TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU THERES ONLY ONE PERSON HERE THATS ACTUALLY CAPABLE OF GETTING SOMETHING LIKE THIS DONE AND THATS *discreet phase resolution* , HE IS ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING

    • @Karma-lc1bp
      @Karma-lc1bp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I HAVE SEEN OTHER PEOPLE HERE BUT TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU THERES ONLY ONE PERSON HERE THATS ACTUALLY CAPABLE OF GETTING SOMETHING LIKE THIS DONE AND THATS *discreet phase resolution* , HE IS ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING

    • @_zina9054
      @_zina9054 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      To give you another perspective, I use to cheat and I did it out of insecurity. I never felt pretty enough for him or never felt wanted , I would seek men and knowing they wanted me made feel better. It wasn't about the sex it was about how I felt about myself, this made it worst I started to fell dirty after time. My bf and I would fight and I would go sleep with someone to feel like I was still wanted. I take accountability for my actions and I acknowledge that what I did was wrong , I'm just aware of why I acted this way. I found Christ and was filled with his love a love no man can replace, ever since then I don't seek men to fill that void , I lost myself completely but it was never about the other person , yes their actions made me feel insecure but they are not responsible for how I feel I know now that when someone makes me feel un wanted I love myself enough to walk away I love myself enough to not care if they leave me , I accept it and move on , yes it's been hard but I don't use my body anymore. That's why I would cheat.

  • @opinionatorX
    @opinionatorX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    For those who may be experiencing this means you most likely saw these things but found the one or two good things to hold onto. You most likely settled. It's time to let go.

    • @kristinm4005
      @kristinm4005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yeah this is what Ive been doing and its just not enough. Thanks for pointing it out.

    • @eyeopen
      @eyeopen ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow i needed to read this

    • @opinionatorX
      @opinionatorX ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kristinm4005 Welcome. We've all been there. Find the strength to let it go or not make this mistake in the future.

    • @opinionatorX
      @opinionatorX ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@eyeopen Hope you find the strength to let go.

    • @lisawest1556
      @lisawest1556 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, I’m 35 years too late.

  • @luthfimuhammad2036
    @luthfimuhammad2036 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I'm at a rocky point at my relationship, and yet not a single one of those points apply, not one bit. Thank you for that, it makes me more determined to save it.

  • @dollyme03
    @dollyme03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This was exactly my sentiment before and told myself "If you don't know where you stand, then YOU already KNOW where you stand".

  • @speciallion1135
    @speciallion1135 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks for that, I have just subscribed. Thankfully, I was blessed to be married to my beloved wife for 32 years, she died last year & I am now a widower. I was so blessed, because with retrospection, I was able to see, just how much we helped each other grow to be the best in our lives. The crux in any relationship, is to be authentic 100%. particularly communication, but all things, really. The other thing, is to know thyself & not rely on anyone else to fix you.

  • @kingab6865
    @kingab6865 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    All accurate. I just got out of an unhealthy, long term relationship. I realized that I could no longer be myself around that person. I was walking on eggshells to keep peace . It was hard to make the decision because after being in a relationship for over 2 years and making plans for the future ,there was a sense of huge loss ... loss of dreams that never came to fruition . And as most relationships that last for long, there is an attachment. I think I knew sooner that it's not going to work but I was too attached and too invested. Love truly is blind. It sometimes takes time to see the red flags even when they're waiving in your face.

  • @roseying6198
    @roseying6198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    My partner was cheating on me while we were leaving together for 2 years. Although there were so many some red flag, but she never stopped telling me how much she loved me and want to spend the rest of her life with me. So I kept on believing her lies and shoving the red flags. . Never knowing that she was having an affair with a guy that I know and they both kept it a secret. I got to find out when I open up to a very good business partner. How I have been noticing some red flags and he advised me on what to do and to find out for sure if she is being faithful. It was then that I realized that she was having an affair with this guy and they were secretly making future plans.. I was so heart broken by this but still grateful that I did the needful to actually find out. It is really such a painful thing how people plays with ones emotions.

    • @phawtakhun3652
      @phawtakhun3652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So how did you get to find out?

    • @roseying6198
      @roseying6198 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I employed the help of a professional, who helped me to uncover everything. here is the cn below,

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  • @stephanie5471
    @stephanie5471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    I’ve become obsessed with checking on the relationship (searching the internet for answers to my questions compulsively).
    And the big one for me is: I shouldn’t be feeling this way. I should feel happy, warm and fuzzy, not anxious, sad and irritated.

    • @sharon8276
      @sharon8276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Literally ME. For my entire relationship. It's been almost a year and a half and the obsessive googling has only reduced in the last few months. I hate it. I don't think I've ever felt emotionally secure in this relationship for more than a couple weeks. I usually blame my anxiety but maybe it's actually a red flag I should be acting on

    • @smithwilliams545
      @smithwilliams545 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @derlkarl9853
      @derlkarl9853 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was hurt and heart broken when a very big problem occurred in my marriage seven months ago, between me and my wife . so terrible that she took the case to court to file a divorce. She said that she cannot continue to stay with me again, and she said "I don't love you anymore" So she took her things out of the house and made me and my children passed through several emotional pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back, after much begging, but all to no avail. and she confirmed it that she has made her decision, and she never wanted to see me again. So one evening, as i was coming back from work ,i meant an old friend of mine who asked of my wife .So i explained every thing to him, so he told me that the only way i can get my wife back, is to visit a prophet to know what is really behind this issue, because it has really worked for other people too. So i never believed in spell, but i had no other choice than to follow his advice. Then he gave me the Email address of the prophet. prophetehiagwina @gmail .com. So the next morning, i sent a mail to the address he gave to me, and the prophet respond the following day and assured me that i will get my wife back the next day. Hopefully I believed since my friend recommended me to him, ,so we discussed and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past 7 months, gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back. So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day ,with lots of love and joy, and she apologized on her mistake ,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day ,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before ,by the help of a prophet . So, i will advice you out there if you have any problem contact PROPHET EHIAGWINA, i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you.. Email him at: prophetehiagwina@ gmail. com or call/whatsapp +2348139182295
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    • @lisaylot5117
      @lisaylot5117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me at the moment crying in bed

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      @ushagiani7155 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @stanleymartins-o3s
    @stanleymartins-o3s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

    Interesting video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @emilyclark-m2g
      @emilyclark-m2g 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go,i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @stanleymartins-o3s
      @stanleymartins-o3s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @emilyclark-m2g
      @emilyclark-m2g 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @stanleymartins-o3s
      @stanleymartins-o3s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @SAsavior93
      @SAsavior93 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro it's difficult it's never easy at all I'm right now questioning if I should end it she dosent talk to me when we're in a disagreement and it's like I can't talk to her about are issues and everytime I bring it up she gose silent and it's like what I ask or to give me an explanation is all denied and I love her so much idk what to do because I love her and don't want to end it but at the same time nothing changes I'm stuck I'm conflicted

  • @AliceWarnock
    @AliceWarnock 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here , I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him .

    • @AliceWarnock
      @AliceWarnock 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Interesting , how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how can i get in touch with her?

    • @AliceWarnock
      @AliceWarnock 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @frankbrancatisano217
      @frankbrancatisano217 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No wonder so many songs were written about these issues

  • @joemac84
    @joemac84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Here’s the thing, you’re likely to feel one of these things in ANY relationship at one point or another. You can’t always trust your emotional state as truth, because feelings can change over time and sometimes it’s your perspective or things outside the relationship affecting how you feel

    • @McBrabus
      @McBrabus ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Precisely... but at some point in time, you need to talk about these things. The problem escalates when the other side does not offer much understanding or is unwilling to work on it.

    • @90charim
      @90charim ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I’m a over thinker and I’m trying to learn not to self sabatoge but it’s sooo hard

    • @zakosist
      @zakosist ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think you're right. And its mostly about the degree of it and how long it lasts/how often it comes up. Most of these seem like to me it would be normal in the early stages where you are still figuring things out. And especially if its also your first relationship, but maybe later too. But if there is an overall bad feeling of it that comes up often, you most likely should leave

    • @Dread7182
      @Dread7182 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@90charimI’m the exact same way, it’s hard :(

    • @erior9662
      @erior9662 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said. I think in American society are too quick to walk away from everything, especially with the prevalence of these youtube faux expert channels.

  • @KingKull1971
    @KingKull1971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Comfort is the only issue when it comes to relationships. If you are uncomfortable then the relationship is over, or it never really started in the first place. The bottom-line is this; your relationship with your partner should feel like home.

    • @SingularityFe
      @SingularityFe ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It used to feel like home.

    • @KingKull1971
      @KingKull1971 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SingularityFe does she make you feel like an unwelcome guest?😳

    • @renticat
      @renticat 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It used to feel like home but then maybe it's just them play pretending home scenario.

  • @cremebrulee9329
    @cremebrulee9329 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This gave me a total relief about the decision to leave a relationship. I had been wondering if I made a wrong choice and hurting myself saying that I was already past 30 and not married yet. Thank you very much Mel!

  • @elev8torguy130
    @elev8torguy130 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    #1 just hit me hard. I am in a solid marriage, yet I haven't been myself for 17.5 years. I've literally walked on eggshells, no been allowed to express my feelings, never talk about sex because sex means something different for the both of us.

    • @woodrowmagnus2535
      @woodrowmagnus2535 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What is sex?

    • @elev8torguy130
      @elev8torguy130 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @woodrowmagnus2535 sorry to hear this.

    • @talulatree5297
      @talulatree5297 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😢

    • @mariacorazonherndon8808
      @mariacorazonherndon8808 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh my God i feel you! I'm in the same situation right now! 💔😭

  • @BlueMagic334
    @BlueMagic334 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I bursted into tears at the end. The wake up call I needed.

    • @janetvedal9024
      @janetvedal9024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FINALLY GET MY DIVORCE HUSBAND BACK WITH HELP OF POWERFUL SPELL CASTER AFTER HE DIVORCE WITH ME

    • @janetvedal9024
      @janetvedal9024 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      His no +2348108264684 WhatsApp

    • @phebejimenez296
      @phebejimenez296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can relate 😭😭😭😭

    • @ElvisandAmy8
      @ElvisandAmy8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was confirmation for me . I feel like I want to wake up OUT of this now without feeling like I’m in this dreadful nightmare
      I’m so afraid of starting again on my own . I’m so afraid but I’m being pushed - it’s over - he wants it Over too and I’m so scared

  • @robertbrown8488
    @robertbrown8488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was already extremely pessimistic about the relationship I was in. Then I saw your video last night. 5/5 confirmation! You were spot on in very concrete terms. Extremely helpful. Thank you.

  • @TwoWheels4ever
    @TwoWheels4ever 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    Robin Williams the famed comic said before he self deleted himself that "the worst thing isn't being lonely. The worst thing is being with someone who makes you feel lonely"
    R.I.P
    Thank you for the laughs.

    • @usgalsen
      @usgalsen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Would it be possible he said it "after" he had "deleted himself"? 😂

    • @MuscleInc
      @MuscleInc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He didn't delete himself, he committed suicide.

  • @vova_rn
    @vova_rn ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Absolutely love it!
    My wife and I were married for more than 14 years and most of the time it was difficult and stressful!
    I am a 56 year old man and I was physically abused and assaulted by my wife more than 3 times…
    Verbal abuse was like walking in the park…most of it in front of our daughter.
    My wife assaulted my daughter when she was 6 and a half years old.
    I was waiting for my daughter to be older and now she is 14 and I started working on divorce!
    Yes, I am not super healthy but even if I have a few good years to live without stress and drama, I will take a chance 😊

    • @coolguy0719
      @coolguy0719 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Congrats

    • @mjaybee
      @mjaybee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When the woman is an abuser, you have no way out, and may even be blamed for your own abuse. Get a good lawyer.

  • @x-2954
    @x-2954 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +141

    Being with my ex narc for the past 6 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I got to know about my narc husband bad ways when I reach out to a private detective Metaspyhub@gmail. com for help he did a perfect work for me I can see everything he’s doing on his device.

    • @Arwaa.M.Jarrin
      @Arwaa.M.Jarrin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤔Some men were created to be celibate. Celibacy is their test in the world. Because they're sensitive and emotional and because they are dependent on people and human emotions of feelings of love and loyalty, celibacy is their test and celibacy is their answer. Celibacy is their blessing and celibacy they think is their curse. And whenever an intelligent and wise man goes into a relationship and seeks love and happiness in this world from a woman, he ends up suffering so much through other reasons that he ends up emotionally and mentally breaking down and becoming depressed and dependent upon a man emotionally physically and eventually sexually.
      And many of them end up falling in love with younger boys after sexually being involved with an intelligent and emotional man who feels dishonoured and humiliated by the sexually serving their boyfriends and husbands.
      The answer is very simple. Celibacy...
      Purity. Piety. Chastity.
      Although for a person who is mentally and emotionally depressed and spends all his life crying weeping and wailing and being sad, the greatest nightmare of that person is to be single and chaste. But if they could suffer that pain of celibacy for 3 to 5 years, then they would find such happiness and such fulfilment in their lives and they would never ever have to go through the long part of seeking sexual pleasure from a woman and then falling in love with a man and then becoming a criminal to keep that man and then becoming a murderer and a monster and a weak person who is dependent on another person's love and has to destroy the universe and every religion and every law just to justify themselves and they're sick sexual sexuality.
      Although celibacy and Chastity is a word of fear and terror to men. These two words hold every honour, every friendship, every happiness, every power, every fulfilment, health happiness honour respect true friendships ultimate happiness and ultimate success in this world and the next for every single emotional and intelligent man.
      No man in the world suffered because of celibacy. No man in the world ever suffered because of chastity. No man was ever famed because he was celibate. No man was ever tortured because he was chaste. No man was ever tortured and humiliated and assaulted because he was pious. No man was ever killed murdered or framed for being celibate and chaste and pure.
      Celibacy will not kill you. You may think that celibacy and Chastity and the purity of the heart and thought might kill you but it will not. It will make you the best possible version of yourself. And never think that it is too late. Never think that you are too old or had too many sexual relationships and cannot become celibate and Chaste now. That is the greatest trick of the devil. Never ever back off from celibacy and Chastity -keep trying keep praying and keep praying and keep crying to God to give you the strength and the power and the ability to stay celibate and chaste no matter how old you are and no matter how many relationships you had.

    • @novenanasimiyu9447
      @novenanasimiyu9447 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My current situation with my ex boyfriend. Everything you have said. Its now 1week and 2 days of no contact. I dated him for 7 years

    • @charlotterobinson7084
      @charlotterobinson7084 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true and its hard to define a relationship that you have had with a narc to a normal person as it just doesnt seem right no matter how you say it. I think the worst a narc does is the damage you have to live with after this and what defence mechanisms kick in when you move on. Its so mentally abusing. Good for you for walking away the biggest win is cutting off and letting go they cant cope with it. ❤

  • @pattylyons9645
    @pattylyons9645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This was my relationship with my ex. You should feel as comfortable and like yourself with your partner as you do with your friends.

    • @christianasenibo9507
      @christianasenibo9507 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely

    • @phillip1050
      @phillip1050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Patty such as actually happen to me also but i am happy i got over it. I hope learn from this video patty

    • @Brett580
      @Brett580 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Due to your comments you sounded like a brilliant and intelligent person. ...... How are your doing?

  • @Jessiesanders-f4r
    @Jessiesanders-f4r หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.

    • @user-el4cq5qg2j
      @user-el4cq5qg2j หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.

    • @Jessiesanders-f4r
      @Jessiesanders-f4r หลายเดือนก่อน

      Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.

    • @user-el4cq5qg2j
      @user-el4cq5qg2j หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you.
      I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.

    • @Jessiesanders-f4r
      @Jessiesanders-f4r หลายเดือนก่อน

      I promise you will not regret it.

    • @user-el4cq5qg2j
      @user-el4cq5qg2j หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤

  • @Tina-si1gz
    @Tina-si1gz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I’ve been married 46 years and this is exactly how I’ve felt at least 40 of those years. Past annoyed.

    • @amyproudfoot6611
      @amyproudfoot6611 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Too , too long to feel that way .

    • @Msterri4u
      @Msterri4u ปีที่แล้ว

      You must be miserable.

    • @heather4089
      @heather4089 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      My aunt had a friend that was like that for almost 50 years. She decided to divorce and be in peace for her last few years and her kids exploded cause of it. Kids can be selfish and ungrateful sometimes. Well the lady got divorced and lived around 15 years more in happiness with her self.

    • @jamaicaboy544
      @jamaicaboy544 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is my worse nightmare

    • @muhammadsteinberg
      @muhammadsteinberg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Next month will be 26yrs. Most of it filled with disrespectful behavior. Dealt with the nasty attitude, drama, and disrespectful to keep a two parent home for the kids. 1 school-age kid left and I just can't take it anymore. Made the dreaded consultation call....Looking forward to moving on!

  • @robertbook1719
    @robertbook1719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    Number 1 sign your relationship is over... clicking on this video. She nailed it from the get go, this video only needed to be 10 seconds long

    • @jaylac6908
      @jaylac6908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      i know my relationship isn’t over but i watched this video to see signs in the future

    • @random-miranda9205
      @random-miranda9205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I disagree. I clicked to see what I could do if my marriage showed any of those signs.

    • @melissahandgirl8060
      @melissahandgirl8060 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

    • @adriannaa545
      @adriannaa545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Disagree, I am in a happy relationship and I watch these videos out of curiosity to know what to AVOID

    • @cfaz6763
      @cfaz6763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@adriannaa545 exactly

  • @blueskies7035
    @blueskies7035 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "Chemistry is NOT compatibility." Wow... That is a brilliant and concise way to put it. I understood this, but didn't have the words. That realization, and stepping back, helped convince me to not step outside of my committed relationship, for a fling that had some sizzle but would have ended poorly.

    • @samanthabarnes070
      @samanthabarnes070 ปีที่แล้ว

      👆👆 Keep in touch with this powerful man from Thailand on his mobile phone, if you want to fix your relationship or marriage....❤

    • @olabalu6597
      @olabalu6597 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hopefully, you did not cheat. Else your current relationship would not be right for you

    • @samanthabarnes070
      @samanthabarnes070 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@olabalu6597☝️☝️☝️☝️

  • @moiramacintosh5169
    @moiramacintosh5169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm happy and at peace now ,I have found my true identity I can and I will live my life 🙏💗💓

  • @AleLau84
    @AleLau84 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I had to learn this lesson the hard way. I wish I had seen this video years ago. I'm glad it confirms I made the right decision all those years ago.

  • @ChristineCole-u3f
    @ChristineCole-u3f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Great video! Unfortunately, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, and I still love him deeply. I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my best efforts, I can't get him out of my mind. I really miss him.

    • @BarbaraLinton-k1c
      @BarbaraLinton-k1c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's incredibly hard to let go of someone you love. I was in a similar situation when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't let him go, so I did everything I could to get him back. I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who assisted me in reuniting with him.

    • @ChristineCole-u3f
      @ChristineCole-u3f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I reach him?

    • @BarbaraLinton-k1c
      @BarbaraLinton-k1c 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can help bring your ex back.

    • @ChristineCole-u3f
      @ChristineCole-u3f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and he seems impressive.

  • @sanaaakhtar
    @sanaaakhtar ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you so much for sharing this Mel! This was sooo important for me to hear! I’ve just left an emotionally abusive marriage…I just can’t stop questioning myself and doubting my decision and if things were ‘really that bad’…xxx

    • @ME00172
      @ME00172 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi

    • @awwwwan
      @awwwwan ปีที่แล้ว

      Sana Akhtar your ex must be a brown guy?

  • @arshpreetkaur3831
    @arshpreetkaur3831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    1 year of abuse, hundreds of youtube video advices and this is what i was looking for , it's soo clear , concise and relatable thankyou soo much mam❤️❤️

    • @akilekator2022
      @akilekator2022 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Arshpreet Kaur Thank you @paulcrackit on IG you’re a great person. For iCloud,google lock, location and WhatsApp tracking Via Alvinmarcelo77@gmail.com he’s honest.

    • @youniquechicboutique3493
      @youniquechicboutique3493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry you had to go through that situation but happy you are currently out of it

  • @wisdom-for-all
    @wisdom-for-all 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1534

    Prefer not to say a relationship is over, say it is "complete". Some relationships are not meant to last forever 🖖

    • @Linda-bj3bb
      @Linda-bj3bb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      For a reason and a season?

    • @wisdom-for-all
      @wisdom-for-all 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@Linda-bj3bb A general rule is: Do not worry because it is over; Smile because it happened. Also, sometimes 2 people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together. But know that you will not heal by going back to what broke you 🖖

    • @hadafoxer9563
      @hadafoxer9563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      True...

    • @Linda-bj3bb
      @Linda-bj3bb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@wisdom-for-all it's often good to try and fix what is broken. If you are successful great. If you not that's great too because then it's easier to discard the broken thing. At least you know that you have tried and it's impossible to mend it. 🎵 It's not over till its over🎶🎵why because often one person is not quite over the other person and the broken one needs closer.

    • @rizwantahir7116
      @rizwantahir7116 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@wisdom-for-all there is nothing to smile at toxic relationships that end up being based on shitty Piper dreams, the start was selfish so was the end, no matter it's the husband or wife.
      It's all want, want, want no one has patience anymore and some relations just don't have it in them rather most relations these days

  • @dahenry8888
    @dahenry8888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +849

    1. You Dont Feel Like Yourself
    2.Youre Constantly Questioning How to Communicate
    3. You Think About How The Relationship is Going...No knowing where you stand
    4. You're Starting to Get Annoyed
    5. You're Questioning whether YOU have the Same Values

    • @joymae
      @joymae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Thank you for summarizing for us Daisy!

    • @lizhullen5857
      @lizhullen5857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      So true finally left and never been happier. I am the old ME

    • @crystalanamericaninsicily
      @crystalanamericaninsicily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You feel like Shit! You should feel good...happy.

    • @sr0716
      @sr0716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I believe in a relationship it's important to have the same values in life. Very important to me.

    • @crystalanamericaninsicily
      @crystalanamericaninsicily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@sr0716 It's not complicated. If your happy. Stay. If your miserable. Leave. You deserve Happiness!

  • @song4mozart
    @song4mozart ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, Mel. All 5 are in play here, and he tries to gaslight me by saying I'm "spiraling" when I bring things up. He doesn't like "confrontation," and says im only trying to break up, and his words and actions don't match. Live and learn. :)

    • @song4mozart
      @song4mozart ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Update: After 3 years of dating, I broke up with him shortly after this post, and I am so happy. I wish him well, but he was not the one for me.

  • @loriayres4948
    @loriayres4948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I can’t tell you how this is helping me in excepting the fact that our marriage really is over. I appreciate your direct style I know I will return again and again for your helpful advice

    • @Brett580
      @Brett580 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      While watching this video I came across your lovely profile. Lori, how are you doing?

  • @gempraised7350
    @gempraised7350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Any relationship where you have to twist yourself in order to keep the peace.
    You will start a war inside of you.
    Very eye opening.

  • @patricemarie2960
    @patricemarie2960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Your gut feelings never lie to you. There is a comfortable peace, and comfort being with the right partner, or good, and loyal friend! ...... Poor relationships are saturated with excessive .... mostly passive .... competitive stress, and compulsory needs! ..... That's not friendly ..... that's harmful! .....

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  • @Jennyfenty-n1b
    @Jennyfenty-n1b 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

    • @Mia1827
      @Mia1827 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

    • @Jennyfenty-n1b
      @Jennyfenty-n1b 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @Jennyfenty-n1b
      @Jennyfenty-n1b 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @Mia1827
      @Mia1827 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @Mia1827
      @Mia1827 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

  • @-ZOMB
    @-ZOMB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Feels like a one way battle. While I’m cuffed in question on what and how to do things better. I gotta accept that it’s over because she gave up on me already.

    • @lala5061
      @lala5061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If she gave up on you and you know u need to be remorseful for whatever u did or how u were, the question is, are u going to give up on you being better and showing her that? Or because u think she gave up already, are u going to do nothing if u want your woman back? Honestly, if u feel no remorse (not because it's over) and u don't think u need to change for yourself then u should just leave her alone because the only apology/remorse is the consistent changed behavior and that takes time u gotta stay seperated but still talk while u do this to see if u are actually progressing in your new mentality...Im not telling u what to do but I know my ex-spouse is living in delusion because he has committed an unforgivable act against me and he's talking about the future and things as though nothing happened and it's not over smh the man has not even tried to look at videos or any therapy he just what thinks he can do it with his own mind that he has now 🙁 that's why every time he says he's going to change its been 17 years and nothing has changed ...he has no remorse he just want to come back to this house to the family we created but I can't do that he has no remorse and he's not taking the time for therapy for his issues....I have been doing my own therapy by who I listen to online and Im a honest person with myself I didnt know exactly my issues but I know that its not just 1 person in the relationship that makes it the way it is its the combination of the 2 so Im changing not for him or us for me because I probably will not go back it's been 5 months and Im at peace so it probably is over for him unless he does what he's never done before and thats seek help...therapy is free online all u have to do when listening to the messages from authentic doctors and therapist videos on communication, trauma and healing etc is be honest with yourself when u hear things that u know are true about yourself or the way u do things and just take that in and make notes to try and change that...I don't know what u did but because u are commenting and watching this video it tells me u are in pain and u really want your woman...I hope it works out well for the both of u whatever that may be 🤗

  • @jasonwilson3727
    @jasonwilson3727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    I'm 37 years old, handsome(by women's take), wise, and own two homes in Atlanta. If I as a man am supposed too give my life for my wife, me checking her phone is inconsequential. In marriage, you have no privacy. Any man that accepts less isn't a man. I'd rather be alone than be with a woman who thinks she can have a secret space in a marriage. Good video young bro but a wise man. The pride you take in your work is truly amazing and inspiring special thanks to all the team at *discreet phase resolution*

    • @abijahjames621
      @abijahjames621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      People cheat because they want something they can’t have. Doesn’t matter what their partner is like. They can be stunning inside and out. People get bored and then want to partake in something inappropriate to get a thrill by chasing someone else they know they shouldn’t. It’s like people who save up to buy a new car, are happy for a day, and then want to buy a new house. There will always be something more. There will always be something better. If you’re that kind of person, don’t be in a relationship. It’s super easy to not be in a relationship. It’s 2021. Screw a different person every day. It doesn’t matter. But don’t tell someone you love them and then chase after someone else. If you’re not happy, leave. That’s it. I really want to and thanks to *discreet phase resolution* for the phone evidence

    • @dawngargano9790
      @dawngargano9790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I HAVE SEEN OTHER PEOPLE HERE BUT TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU THERES ONLY ONE PERSON HERE THATS ACTUALLY CAPABLE OF GETTING SOMETHING LIKE THIS DONE AND THATS *discreet phase resolution* , HE IS ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING

    • @dawngargano9790
      @dawngargano9790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I HAVE SEEN OTHER PEOPLE HERE BUT TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU THERES ONLY ONE PERSON HERE THATS ACTUALLY CAPABLE OF GETTING SOMETHING LIKE THIS DONE AND THATS *discreet phase resolution* , HE IS ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING

    • @dawngargano9790
      @dawngargano9790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I HAVE SEEN OTHER PEOPLE HERE BUT TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU THERES ONLY ONE PERSON HERE THATS ACTUALLY CAPABLE OF GETTING SOMETHING LIKE THIS DONE AND THATS *discreet phase resolution* , HE IS ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING

    • @neshyaayu7158
      @neshyaayu7158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Person agree

  • @phoenixmode6909
    @phoenixmode6909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Wow. All of these signs were there. For a decade, maybe. After 36 years and three kids, I saw all of these. Thank you, Mel. This is confirmation that I did the right thing by calling it, telling him my why (we'd already had multiple attempts over the last 20 years trying to 'fix' it, to no avail), by leaving physically (Is already checked out mentally and emotionally anyway) , and by finally filing for divorce. I'm finally beginning to feel like the real me now. I've got "me" back. I'm moving forward and growing more. I'm actually happy, relaxed and excited for the future. Thanks Mel! 🌻❤️

    • @mariaandy6084
      @mariaandy6084 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want to testify how doctor ojiezele help me get my ex back contact him now+2348064539246

    • @lioydwilliams1850
      @lioydwilliams1850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Laurie Smith, you deserve better

    • @MsAldil
      @MsAldil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How are you now

    • @standground7956
      @standground7956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MsAldil She most likely won’t tell the truth, she can’t admit that the grass wasn’t greener. 36 years and three kids, it’s tough for her in the market. She’ll say she’s happily single or just letting some guy who’s not her husband, have his way with her.

    • @williamconrad6561
      @williamconrad6561 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow. Just throw away 36 years. Good luck in the dating market. You will need it. Who would want to wife that up?!

  • @TheStylefanic
    @TheStylefanic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I feel all these signs. He’s a jerk, was all just something I built up in my head. I’ve never been treated so bad in my life.

    • @cindyhill4864
      @cindyhill4864 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Get out as soon as you can. Good luck.

    • @thomasdouglas5701
      @thomasdouglas5701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello Connie. How are you? Its nice to meet you, and I wish to get in touch with you.

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You look so beautiful and happy on your photo. How could anybody dare to treat you badly??? They should fear losing you. I bet that you bring the sun to all who meet you. (Hope that this comment from a Sister helps you never to tangle yourself with a man who so clearly did not deserve you. I also got clear how much value any woman brings to a man's life. Wow! Total change of perspective.)

    • @thomasdouglas5701
      @thomasdouglas5701 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Michael-bf1dt Hey Michael. How are you? Greetings from LA

    • @lioydwilliams1850
      @lioydwilliams1850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Connie Smothers, you are so beautiful,you deserve better

  • @j.m9189
    @j.m9189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh no Mel, I am just watching .I have been happily single for 6 years and it's been the best decision I had taken since my last relationship ended in 2014.I just wanted to work out on myself ,purge , love me and do what I want .I sleep like a baby, I roll in my bed, nobody snoring, nobody scratching me with long toenails.This woman is good.Oneday maybe I will find someone new .

  • @makinglovelast
    @makinglovelast 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    These are so wonderful. Especially “you don’t feel like yourself.” Some people might not immediately go there. ❤

  • @проф-и7л
    @проф-и7л 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just wanted to say thank you for sharing this. Because you're right. The worst thing that you can feel is hopelessness. And I hope that someone who is on the verge of losing hope finds firm tech recovery and realizes that as long as you're still alive and breathing, there's a chance, there's HOPE that the future is brighter then the present day.

  • @craig3714
    @craig3714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I don't feel comfortable being me , feel like I'm constantly walking on eggshells , everytime I speak up makes the abuse worse .

    • @hulkgreen6786
      @hulkgreen6786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Move out it’s so liberating

    • @miss8122
      @miss8122 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      why didn't you guys go somewhere together,im in a similar situation my bf wants to enjoy life without me why not do things together and have fun?

    • @myrasmama
      @myrasmama 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get out girl! Make your plan...

    • @janetvedal9024
      @janetvedal9024 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every problem have a solution, Life is all about happiness
      Let's me recommend you to someone who helped me get back my lover without delay

    • @janetvedal9024
      @janetvedal9024 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Text on WhatsApp for directives

  • @babbaruff1045
    @babbaruff1045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    My God, the pain of ending a relationship is just horrendous. I have been in utter turmoil wondering if I am in love? Sometimes I am and sometimes not. The whole thing has triggered depression in me.

    • @samia6888
      @samia6888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This is a normal part of grieving unfortunately that we need to go through after a break up but don't let that stop you from wasting anymore time on someone who isn't good for you or good to you. The pain will fade with time and work on yourself.

    • @Mistical1982
      @Mistical1982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same here. He loves me and is good to me, but I just don’t feel it. I keep wondering if my feelings will grow, but I’m so, so busy and can’t find enough time to spend with him. What will you do?

    • @karenkopittke1555
      @karenkopittke1555 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mistical1982
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    • @karenkopittke1555
      @karenkopittke1555 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mistical1982
      Whstapp him

    • @karenkopittke1555
      @karenkopittke1555 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mistical1982
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  • @Cal157
    @Cal157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Listening to this and admitting I have 4 and she has the other sign is frightening. Such a difficult decision but 1 I have to make to actually keen my sanity.

  • @tomisinojo2661
    @tomisinojo2661 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing this. You will never know how many people you have helped with this.

  • @rdb0819
    @rdb0819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    If being with a certain person makes you feel like you’ve lost yourself, that’s all you need to know that it’s over

    • @crystalanamericaninsicily
      @crystalanamericaninsicily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes. You should feel like you Found yourself!

    • @gregorycarlson6632
      @gregorycarlson6632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Rod Boy1 : Excellent point, and so true!! As Don Henley so aptly put it, “After all the bad luck and troubles we’ve been through; how I lost me, and you lost you

    • @brandonyafanaro9710
      @brandonyafanaro9710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I just got dumped yesterday. I went the through whole relationship losing myself . I tried ending it because my insecurities were so bad. Months later after some self work, he ended it instead because he started mentally checking out

    • @gregorycarlson6632
      @gregorycarlson6632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brandonyafanaro9710 Sorry that happened to you Brandon.

    • @crystalanamericaninsicily
      @crystalanamericaninsicily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@brandonyafanaro9710 Don't ignore the Red flags. Don't think things are going to get better...they usually get worse.

  • @whitemagnolia4684
    @whitemagnolia4684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    totally agree, but i need to say here that trauma can put unnecessary thoughts and fears in your head and you need to be able to recognize when it's your trauma talking and adress this with your partner. from there you can see if you are both willing to work on the relationship. I am watching this to make sure I'm not delusional for believing I have found a good partner for me, not because I'm thinking about breaking up.

    • @kikikarrie4158
      @kikikarrie4158 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are u know. Im having same thoughts with i

  • @childrensmagicalworldkidsw8278
    @childrensmagicalworldkidsw8278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Spot on ! I already knew my relationship was over but clicked on the video as always curious what Mel is going to say! You could not be more right here !

  • @noellealissa2206
    @noellealissa2206 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spot On! but so true. "Remember you deserve somone that brings out the best in you!!!" . Thanks I needed to hear this!❤🎉

  • @krispeashey6874
    @krispeashey6874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    She is correct on all points my ex turned into a different person then the one i fell in love witj

    • @harryjemes5435
      @harryjemes5435 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you heard of harry jemes him help me have a good relationship you can contact him on WhatsApp +234) )907896-6955

    • @222-q7w
      @222-q7w 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sure but it takes two two make and
      break.

    • @janetvedal9024
      @janetvedal9024 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every problem have a solution, Life is all about happiness
      Let me recommend you to someone who helped me get back my lover without delay

    • @janetvedal9024
      @janetvedal9024 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Text on WhatsApp for directives

    • @janetvedal9024
      @janetvedal9024 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @andrewgage6942
    @andrewgage6942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I've only been cheated on, relationships never lasted, been single for years, don't miss relationships and the stress that went with it

    • @koma7778
      @koma7778 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you cheat yourself?

  • @WarrickRanger
    @WarrickRanger ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m going to have “the talk” tonight so we can say our goodbyes and have some closure. We both know it’s been done for a little while now and it’s better to go out amicably.

    • @katrinakaye7997
      @katrinakaye7997 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How did it go? I've tried to tell my partner many times but then we just go back to square 1.

    • @chrisstange9198
      @chrisstange9198 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@katrinakaye7997 Same here. We've had short hour-long break-ups and always get back together. At some point we need to end this cycle. So hard when we still love each other so much.

    • @katrinakaye7997
      @katrinakaye7997 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chrisstange9198 omg, was it only 3 weeks ago that my partner and I broke up? Because shortly after I made this comment I finally ended things for good and he moved out. Much happier already and don't miss the relationship at all. I'm not sure what's going on with you, but do what your gut is telling you to do. That's what I did.

    • @katrinakaye7997
      @katrinakaye7997 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chrisstange9198 I replied to this but the comment must have not gone through. I actually ended up ending things for good with my partner and I feel so much better for it, surprisingly he also felt we were not a good fit. No regrets so far :)

  • @NiaDinero
    @NiaDinero 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Needed this! I deserve someone who brings out the best in me

  • @shanmugapriyamohan6481
    @shanmugapriyamohan6481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    Remember, the next time you get in a relationship, you deserve someone who brings out the best in you ❤️

    • @boseehimen785
      @boseehimen785 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I Know of a powerful man he can help you in any situation,he fix broken relationship, make you rich
      And more of it.
      He helped me regain my relationship back without any delay.

    • @boseehimen785
      @boseehimen785 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      WhatsApp him now

    • @boseehimen785
      @boseehimen785 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      +234,7049,285,941

    • @johnmajor5586
      @johnmajor5586 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      .

    • @johnmajor5586
      @johnmajor5586 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi my relationship is fixed back

  • @StrongFrances
    @StrongFrances ปีที่แล้ว +5

    All 5 here as well. Took 40+ years and just discovering that spouse is a narcissist. Too many of them in my life right now, but my spouse is the closest, and probably the most destructive. It's comforting to know that this isn't just my imagination, but what to do now. I point out the narcissistic behaviour more than I used to, but of course, it's always my fault.

    • @petekdemircioglu
      @petekdemircioglu ปีที่แล้ว

      Same Here. But We live in a Middle eastern Narco terror dictatorship where all men are severely Narcissitic and psychopathic and misogony and gender based Violence is the norm. He is the best and least of these you can find among 40 million animals. He accepted to see a psychiatrist at least for his narcissism. So I will give it one more chance if he sticks to theraphy. Men beat burn and forbid their wives from working Here. Mine is Narcissistic and emotionally abusive. And We have been put on a lot of stress by these psychopaths.

  • @danielcastillo4537
    @danielcastillo4537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    How come we don't always know when love begins but we always know when it ends.- Steve Martin

  • @jennifergroeneweg8727
    @jennifergroeneweg8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love how to the point you are! It's not what I want to hear, but needed it- thank you.

  • @hannarodrigez4863
    @hannarodrigez4863 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Honestly I thought my boyfriend and I were over soon but while watching this video I realized I overreacted over a small discussion.
    Relationships are hard work but sometimes the work is worth it

    • @emelielarsson3042
      @emelielarsson3042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes!
      Reeeal hard work.

    • @dominus6695
      @dominus6695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@emelielarsson3042 and it's really hard if the other person only sees their viewpoint and tries to bend and manipulate you into what they want FROM you instead of letting you be you xD

  • @natik-f8x
    @natik-f8x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey ppl, I'm a retired computer/IT person, Yet I still find *top phase resolution* so informative and straight forward. Thanks for your advise and helping the people...........Great work and love watching.

  • @Georgia-Vic
    @Georgia-Vic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Mel!... I'm currently single.My last relationship was 4 years ago, I've grown and i am healthy now! These words of wisdom I'm cataloging so that I'll be ready when I meet the right Lady for me!😐

  • @foreignlovedreams
    @foreignlovedreams 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you very much for this smart video. Highly appreciated your input. It is so easy to justify reasons you should stay in a relationship and not say goodbye. But everything ends in life. You are lucky if a relationship lasts until one or both of you pass away.
    Generally, however, there comes a time when you need to let go of a relationship because it isn’t working for you anymore and it isn’t making you happy.
    It’s essential to move on and end a relationship that is no longer serving you or making your soul happy. Recognize red flags, accept that you deserve better, and let go of your current partner and the relationship.
    It takes time to move on, but let yourself feel and grieve and just be.
    Remember that you are enough. You deserve love. And the right person is out there for you.

  • @Kitsunetim
    @Kitsunetim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    3:50, whenever I go out alone and going where ever I feel like, I felt free and happier.

  • @YuliiaZoabi
    @YuliiaZoabi 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    *_Perry moskva_* , ngl..you've been a positive impact in my previous relationship. Had a bunch of an eye opener when I discovered your channel. I confidently say my EQ has increased exponentially ever since I found your channel. Thank you for all the knowledge you give to men and women out here. You a real one 💯.

  • @kendrathompson5207
    @kendrathompson5207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Sign number 6 When you ideas about home cleanliness are widely different

    • @hilly8705
      @hilly8705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is so real!!

  • @carotari4491
    @carotari4491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    2021 is being single ...am done with relationship I need to work on myself and make my parents proud

    • @MariaCurry
      @MariaCurry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i honestly dont think you should make anyone else proud than yourself

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love u
      I like u am single 👄💋💏💑💑🙋😍😍❤❤❤🌹🌹

    • @rachelmoeketsane5599
      @rachelmoeketsane5599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U go girl..

  • @2legit2Kwit
    @2legit2Kwit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I’m single. Just validating why my ex and I are over.

    • @johncathy4086
      @johncathy4086 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will just want to share my experience with the entire world on how i got my wife back and saved my marriage… I was married for 5 years with 2 kids and i have been living happily with my family until things started getting ugly with me and my wife that leads us to fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that my wife filed for divorce… I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me cause i loved him with all my heart and didn't want to loose my wife but everything just didn't work out… She moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster called Dr Anthony , Who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try it because I was desperate and left with no choice… He did the spell for me and things really work out as he promise and my wife have a change of mind and come back home to stay with me and the kids. And promise never to hurt me again. we are living happily together all because of the help of Dr Anthony. If you are in need of help you can contact Dr Anthony for any kinds of spell, like good luck spell and Reading and many more on WhatsApp ‪+2...3..4..8..1..4..3..2..7..9..4..7..8‬, and he's into herbal medicine for any kinds of diseases or virus...

    • @victoriawilliams743
      @victoriawilliams743 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know about the rhadjah-temple, he is a great born sorcerer, he have been into this spellcast work since over 30years because he was born a sorcerer, his gods have never failed him and I am a living withness and I strongly believe,he also cast spell for different purposes like......
      1- if you want your ex back.
      2- you want to be promoted in your office.
      3- if you always have bad dream.
      4-You want women/men to run after you.
      5-you want to be rich.
      6- if you want a child.
      7- you want to tie your husband or wife to be yours forever.
      8- if you need financial assistance
      9-herbal care
      10- if you are unable to satisfy your wife sex desire due to low erection
      11- if your menstruation refuse to flow.
      12- if your work refuse to pay.
      13- did your family deny you of your right?
      14- let people obey my words and do as I command.
      15- case solve.
      16-failing marriage..
      I advice you if you have any problem you can call or text him with this number.....(213) 493-7210

    • @Dime.Society
      @Dime.Society 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too, I checked every box. It’s done, I’m happy. It’s like a sigh of relief.

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am single 2 😍❤

    • @W42PZ
      @W42PZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johncathy4086 💯🔔🔚

  • @BrianYator
    @BrianYator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Never had someone point out my exact problems. For a second, I thought I was going crazy, especially it being my first attempt at a serious relationship. Thank you for this one Madam! Ending it it is.

  • @k8tina
    @k8tina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I wish I had known all of these signs earlier 😕 because my marriage would have ended before things got so life threatening bad. On a positive note (if there is one), he moved out & got court ordered psychiatric help; the kids & I are surviving & slowly thriving; and I was able to help a girlfriend avoid a similar fate/outcome with her (ex) husband. These 5 Signs are very important and Thank you to Mel Robbins for sharing these with your followers!

    • @angelinacarlson7628
      @angelinacarlson7628 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      After a year of Broken marriage, my lover left me with one kid, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Aisha which i met online who brought my Lover back to me. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about Dr Aisha Some people testified that she brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,with any kinds of sickness, she is the best spell caster that can help you with any kind of problems like cure disease, Reading, Win court case spell, get Visa spell, get a job spell, promotion spell ,Lupus , HIV cure etc...you can inbox her on WhatsApp
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  • @kcollins3451
    @kcollins3451 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This video is dead accurate. I felt all of those things about my wife for years. I felt my duty was to keep it together until our children had grown and then eventually, I faced the truth and moved on.
    Such a relief!

    • @Dorismom
      @Dorismom ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A friend of mine referred me to Dr Baba dada the man that fixed my broken relationship without any effects I really appreciate you Baba dada the great spell caster

    • @danrunner84
      @danrunner84 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Daughter graduates high school in a month. I stayed for her. Mission complete. Time to take care of myself.

  • @faithpopcorn966
    @faithpopcorn966 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

  • @heidihurn9828
    @heidihurn9828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I love being single and will never get involved with anybody again x

    • @squeezerD
      @squeezerD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The way the dating is now a days man stay far away from marriage and good thing too. They will be happier and have a lot of savings in the end.

    • @harryjemes5435
      @harryjemes5435 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you heard of harry jemes him help me have a good relationship you can contact him on WhatsApp +234) )907896-6955

    • @nnamudifrank3608
      @nnamudifrank3608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not even with me?

    • @bighizacosmetics
      @bighizacosmetics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too! I am so done with relationships!

    • @heidihurn9828
      @heidihurn9828 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bighizacosmetics your so much better off don’t need a man happier now than i have ever been no crap to put up with x

  • @brando81
    @brando81 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damn, those 5 points have been the cornerstone of my marriage for the last 20 yrs. Been married 22.

  • @elenakraeva1260
    @elenakraeva1260 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bravo, *Perry Moskva* -I'm so glad you're out there fighting these scumbags. We must do everything in our power to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable scammers. You're a true hero, my brother

  • @nataliepil1921
    @nataliepil1921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    yes, I can say that it has been a while since I started feeling emotionally drained after having constant episodes of questioning (how to communicate). It felt like everything I was gonna say would end up as a misunderstanding so I closed and isolated myself for some time. I felt like it was the n2 and the n4. When at first you both put a lot of effort into smth and then you end up seeing that you are doing more than the person you are with that is when the pain and realization hits. And when it does hit you change the way you treat them.

  • @manocapital
    @manocapital 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Theses signs are problems many relationships encounter at one point or another but however they don't necessarily mean your relationship is over! It's not over if you're willing to be patient, remain positive, educate yourselves and work on your relationship! Thank you.

    • @zakosist
      @zakosist ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think you are partially right. But sometimes people are just incompatible, or maybe some people are naturally better of as single and needed to find that out with experience. If someones partner is outright abusive, that should never be excused and its not the person being abused who should work on themself (within the relationship) then. You should just get out. If you try to work on it, but the problems still feels ongoing over time, you should get out. All relationships have good and bad times, but it should be mostly good. Compromises will always be needed some of the time, but there should never be a constant thing that you cannot be yourself

    • @laurawalker546
      @laurawalker546 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is true, but these are truly 5 warning signs that should shift to become more healthy again. Feelings are fluid and change...

    • @v.l.c3979
      @v.l.c3979 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! 👏 It's like people nowadays so quick to give up on their relationship i mean nobody is perfect. No relationship will be perfect.....

  • @nunya9797
    @nunya9797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m in a great relationship now but this video opened my eyes to my last relationship ending. I felt all 5 signs in that relationship and I felt so guilty for ending it but I know it was the right thing to do. I am treated so much better. Another strange sign I noticed is that I could never remember my exes birthday lol maybe I never cared enough or what. I knew when my current boyfriends birthday was before we were even official. So glad I’m not feeling any of these signs in my current relationship!

  • @shanielle7915
    @shanielle7915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I've been in a relationship w/ a man 20 years older than me since I was like 17. It's been a long 11 years and we just had a son 2 years ago (not married) This video speaks volumes because I've honestly lost myself in him.... Just praying that I gain the strength to get out of this torturous cycle before its too late.

    • @raegen5618
      @raegen5618 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here. I'm praying for strength for both of us.

    • @julioconsuegra1351
      @julioconsuegra1351 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do not wait any longer, it will get worst..remember when one door close another gets open.
      There are a lot of fishes in the ocean.

  • @babybubbles2
    @babybubbles2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    About to end my 8 year relationship. I feel bad but he’s super emotionally involved and I’m just done. Thank you for this

    • @clarkanderson534
      @clarkanderson534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really that's not cool?

    • @shanandkris1344
      @shanandkris1344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I've been in a relationship for 7 years and he doesn't communicate with me at all, I get no response. Feels as if I'm talking to a brick wall. I feel stagnant, only thing is we have a child together. I just want the best for my son right now

    • @Claudia-yc8xk
      @Claudia-yc8xk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A year on, how are you coping ? Im in the same situation as you and im struggling so much.

    • @fluffy6299AJ
      @fluffy6299AJ ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@Shan and Kris it's statistically proven that a broken relationship affects the child more than a divorcee and tttwo different homes. What's best is happy parents who can provide for the xchild and show them love without being depressed over a broken relationship. It's best to end things and explain what happened. It'll be okay, but also, it's best for your son to end things if it's getting irritable. He deserves to see true love. You'll find true love. Iirll be okay.

  • @DemiBernice
    @DemiBernice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wow. My relationship is actually stable and legit. I'm just overreacting.

    • @jerrypeter6478
      @jerrypeter6478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello, beautiful woman with a beautiful smile,how are you doing,how's your family,how's the weather over there oh my god you are looking very beautiful,your beauty is making me going crazy right now,I want to know more about you

    • @DemiBernice
      @DemiBernice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@jerrypeter6478 fuck off

    • @emilyb1438
      @emilyb1438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me. Too. But it’s just beginning (of the committed part), and it’s only my second relationship. So I’m questioning EVERYTHING. First was a decade ago, so I have not a clue how to go about this. But I do know this. When I’m not questioning everything and overreacting, it’s FUN.

    • @katrinakaye7997
      @katrinakaye7997 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don't second guess yourself. If you're questioning it over and over, there is something wrong. Pay attention to how you truly feel, and be honest with yourself.

  • @audreyc2940
    @audreyc2940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Still hard as hell to finish a relation. The hardest thing in life. Because you cant stop loving a person you imagine havingnchildren with and everything

    • @hulkgreen6786
      @hulkgreen6786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If they are being idiotic you put them in their place and slam the door on their faces ,put your foot down

    • @angelinacarlson7628
      @angelinacarlson7628 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      After a year of Broken marriage, my lover left me with one kid, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Aisha which i met online who brought my Lover back to me. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about Dr Aisha Some people testified that she brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,with any kinds of sickness, she is the best spell caster that can help you with any kind of problems like cure disease, Reading, Win court case spell, get Visa spell, get a job spell, promotion spell ,Lupus , HIV cure etc...you can inbox her on WhatsApp
      +2348109103934 or email Dr.aishaafricaspellcaster2020@gmail.com

    • @W42PZ
      @W42PZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angelinacarlson7628 💯🔔🔚

  • @soulful_poetry
    @soulful_poetry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How can we form an everlasting relationship?
    Dear aunt Mel can you please suggest some signs that we can see before getting into any relationship

    • @Candeekissez
      @Candeekissez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Trust your gut. Love yourself first. Can you be happy just by being by yourself? If not, then learn how to before getting into a relationship. Can you trust them? Have you ever caught them in a lie? Learn how to have a healthy disagreement and learn how to find a win/win outcome. I know I''m not Aunt Mel, but I've been around a while and been there, done that, a few times.

    • @soulful_poetry
      @soulful_poetry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Candeekissez thank you very much dear🥰
      It's really helpful 😇

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I
      Love .. love .. u u u u so so much forever really i like u am single 😍😍💑💑💑❤❤❤❤🌹🌷🌷🌷🌹

  • @debyorkshirelass9674
    @debyorkshirelass9674 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You just described everything I was thinking, I'm worth more thank you 😊

  • @Андрей-Воробей-и6л
    @Андрей-Воробей-и6л 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for your full focus on the job instead of focusing on proving yourself to others. You always tried harder to be better Techies backdoor and now your success speaks out louder. Thank you for a hard work. I’m sure it was worth it all. There is no doubt that you are the most deserving of all that should be given a shout out

  • @whatsmaname9219
    @whatsmaname9219 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I love him, but getting mighty tired of doing things alone 80% of the time for seven years.. Im making my exit.. over being lonely - I'd rather start planning to be SINGLLEEE

    • @KittenCute-j4d
      @KittenCute-j4d หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's what I'm doing now, did you make it out???

  • @shiringaouir3172
    @shiringaouir3172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thanks it really helped me , I just left an abusive relationship

    • @diamondgarcia9409
      @diamondgarcia9409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations

    • @shiringaouir3172
      @shiringaouir3172 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Diamond Garcia thank you

    • @InnerCoreAri
      @InnerCoreAri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Proud of you!

    • @shiringaouir3172
      @shiringaouir3172 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Inner Core Ari thank you so much , it wasn’t easy 👍

    • @InnerCoreAri
      @InnerCoreAri 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shiringaouir3172 I bet not! But you did it, and that's huge :)

  • @Drumcentric
    @Drumcentric 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I felt 1,2,3 and 5 and she felt number 4. But to be on the end of number 4 when you’re feeling all 4 is horrible however some hard discipline, rational thinking and allowing your thoughts to be present helps a lot. But don’t allow them to change your mood. You must continue with rational thinking even if you feel horrible with it

    • @tsunami8248
      @tsunami8248 ปีที่แล้ว

      Interesting you were able to get a response from her. My partner would ridicule me if I'd ever try to make him aware of our problems with this video. Too much truth? Idk