The 5 Signs Your Relationship Is Over | Mel Robbins
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How do you “know” if someone is right for you?
The simplest answer: Only you can decide that.
In this video, I share the 5 signs your relationship is unhealthy, or at best, not going to last. Don’t see yourself in these? That’s great!
But if you do, know that even though heartbreak is painful, the pain of regret and time wasted can be worse. You are worthy of an awesome, supportive, and loving relationship, so get to work on loving yourself first. 🧡
Bonus Sign #6: If you saw the title of this video and had a gut reaction, lean into that. Listen to what your intuition is telling you and do the work to prioritize yourself.
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A doctor once told me
*“Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. If a relationship doesn’t help you become a better person, ending it does. Find yourself again and you will find happiness”*
Thank you for sharing, so true too 😊
I love this so so true!
That's really a good piece of advice
My new motto:
If a relationship does not help you become a better person, ending it does.
Thanks for the Words of Wisdom
Sounds like cliché fortune cookie nonsense. While this might apply to someone, this is not reliable blanket advice.
5 signs
1. You don’t feel like you are yourself
2. You’re consistently questioning how you should communicate ?
3. Not knowing where you stand
4. You’re starting to get annoyed
5. You’re questioning whether or not you have the same values
Holy crap these are all true in my case.
Same here and I think I'm passed the denial stage with this marriage.. I'm a happy person normally but I feel so angry now al the time
Number 5 is the only one that matter in a relationship. The others are all inwards and only you are responsible for those, not anyone else. Conversation and collaboration is key here. Stop blaming and get to work or gtfo
My life story for the past 6 months. I had friends and family tell me I seemed miserable. Walking on egg shells. Dreaded coming home from work every day as she worked from home and she hated her job. Broke up with her last week. It was awful , but I had to. I was losing myself and what was important to me.
I can relate to all, time to move on.
4 out of 5 signs we had, we broke up 1 month ago, we had 5 year relationship. It still hurts so much but I have to be strong and I will get through this. I deserve someone who knows what he wants. I deserve better.
How do you feel now 2 months on? X god bless
@@marccowen9421 it’s been 4 months now, I feel much better. When I moved to his place in the Netherlands in January 2022, I gave up my job and being far from my family. I attended 2 Dutch classes, did the exam and processed the visa. With all the time, energy, effort and sacrifices I made, in the beginning of the break up it was really hard. It was the biggest heartbreak in my life because our goal was to get married. Now I’m working again, trying to build my career again. I’m letting it go, and feel at peace. Thanks for asking.
@@elvinagabriell3100 Aw vie that’s so good to hear that you are rebuilding your self and your happiness and letting it go. Peace is what you want and have. Cherish it. Things will work out. I promise 🙏 are you still in the Netherlands or back home now? Xx
@@marccowen9421 I’m back to Indonesia since we’re not together anymore, my residence permit in the Netherlands is withdrawn. I started working, being with family & friends here in Jakarta. Thank you 😊
Oh, really so sorry for that. I'm hear for you
For those who may be experiencing this means you most likely saw these things but found the one or two good things to hold onto. You most likely settled. It's time to let go.
Yeah this is what Ive been doing and its just not enough. Thanks for pointing it out.
Wow i needed to read this
@@kristinm4005 Welcome. We've all been there. Find the strength to let it go or not make this mistake in the future.
@@eyeopen Hope you find the strength to let go.
Yeah, I’m 35 years too late.
"You deserve someone that brings out the best in you" - This hit me hard...
It is everything. That is when you know you are home.
You deserve this? Sounds like entitlement and undue expectations with rules and compromises that only benefit you. You have to earn this, not just mystically be entitled to it.
You are 👍 great, all so true ✨💁🏼♀️🤩😊
most people get what they sow and people don't understand this.
No person can bring out the best in their partner 100% of the time every day of their lives. All relationships go thru seasons, conflicts come and go
The relationship might be over guys, but your life is just beginning!
So true!. New beginnings, new life for both parties.
Ppp
Yes
Amen
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Here’s the thing, you’re likely to feel one of these things in ANY relationship at one point or another. You can’t always trust your emotional state as truth, because feelings can change over time and sometimes it’s your perspective or things outside the relationship affecting how you feel
Precisely... but at some point in time, you need to talk about these things. The problem escalates when the other side does not offer much understanding or is unwilling to work on it.
I’m a over thinker and I’m trying to learn not to self sabatoge but it’s sooo hard
I think you're right. And its mostly about the degree of it and how long it lasts/how often it comes up. Most of these seem like to me it would be normal in the early stages where you are still figuring things out. And especially if its also your first relationship, but maybe later too. But if there is an overall bad feeling of it that comes up often, you most likely should leave
@@90charimI’m the exact same way, it’s hard :(
Well said. I think in American society are too quick to walk away from everything, especially with the prevalence of these youtube faux expert channels.
Because you don't want to lose your lover, you stay in this toxic relationship but trust me you need someone who deserves you who loves you so much and understand you
The best relationship is with yourself. That’s where it all starts
My wiener thinks so !
So true
❤ 💯
@@silverlining6259 it's so funny married. 14yr. Second marriage we fight all the time. I moved to Florida from my health n granddaughters n my daughter 3years ago. If I knew my life was going to be like this with him in Florida I would have never left new York cause he i Florida I have no place to go if I leave ,in NY I have plenty of places I could have went it sucks
Until the toxic partner breaks the relationship you have with yourself
Answered the question about my 15 year marriage. I dread when my husband comes home. We have nothing in common and I’m tired of pretending to like the things he enjoys just to keep the peace. I’m becoming more argumentative and standing up for myself more often.
Same, except for 33 years of marriage.!
And you will feel like this until you get divorced! I stayed 3 years extra in my last relationship because I didn’t want to hurt her and not have the conversation. Guess what? I broke up with her. It was very peaceful, and no arguing, and 9 months later, we haven’t talked in 8 months. I wasted those 3 years of my life for someone who I don’t even talk to anymore. Never again
Hope yal.can work.thrunthings n find common ground n.have a revival be joined in spirit not flesh
Pretending. That's good to know. You just spent 15 years with the guy. But, I get it. I imagine you sitting there watching football, even though it sucks. What a waste of time. You don't need to argue. Go find something else to do. Or, click off the TV and jump on him like a cat. But, I can't give you good advice. I never re-married. I don't think I trust women at all anymore. Maybe because of the pretending? Well, that and the lying, drama induced, rage about nothing which always seemed to end up in my lap. Good luck.
Feel the same with my wife.
My partner was cheating on me while we were leaving together for 2 years. Although there were so many some red flag, but she never stopped telling me how much she loved me and want to spend the rest of her life with me. So I kept on believing her lies and shoving the red flags. . Never knowing that she was having an affair with a guy that I know and they both kept it a secret. I got to find out when I open up to a very good business partner. How I have been noticing some red flags and he advised me on what to do and to find out for sure if she is being faithful. It was then that I realized that she was having an affair with this guy and they were secretly making future plans.. I was so heart broken by this but still grateful that I did the needful to actually find out. It is really such a painful thing how people plays with ones emotions.
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This is what's going on with my friendship rn.. it feels like I'm the only one who reflects on my shortcomings and forced to do that while I've already been doing that.. while she do admits that she feels bad and hate herself, she keeps doing it, dismissing when i try to have a conversation about us.. i think she believes she's not at fault.. i love her so much.. she's the only reason I'm alive.. i got nobody else, literally.. but i am a piece of sht because I'm using her as an excuse to not die.. i don't wanna die.. but if our friendship is over ,i might really.. she's a good person really, but she also has her own inner battle ,the problem is ,she don't wanna face it and acknowledge it.. it's straining out relationship because i wanna change and be better for both of us but she don't want to bother and dwell deeper into her inner self .. i guess I'm just not good enough to bring out the best of her you know
This was exactly my sentiment before and told myself "If you don't know where you stand, then YOU already KNOW where you stand".
This video hits hard. I feel every point. Now it’s just about being brave enough to end things.
Being with my ex narc for the past 6 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I got to know about my narc husband bad ways when I reach out to a private detective Metaspyhub@gmail. com for help he did a perfect work for me I can see everything he’s doing on his device.
🤔Some men were created to be celibate. Celibacy is their test in the world. Because they're sensitive and emotional and because they are dependent on people and human emotions of feelings of love and loyalty, celibacy is their test and celibacy is their answer. Celibacy is their blessing and celibacy they think is their curse. And whenever an intelligent and wise man goes into a relationship and seeks love and happiness in this world from a woman, he ends up suffering so much through other reasons that he ends up emotionally and mentally breaking down and becoming depressed and dependent upon a man emotionally physically and eventually sexually.
And many of them end up falling in love with younger boys after sexually being involved with an intelligent and emotional man who feels dishonoured and humiliated by the sexually serving their boyfriends and husbands.
The answer is very simple. Celibacy...
Purity. Piety. Chastity.
Although for a person who is mentally and emotionally depressed and spends all his life crying weeping and wailing and being sad, the greatest nightmare of that person is to be single and chaste. But if they could suffer that pain of celibacy for 3 to 5 years, then they would find such happiness and such fulfilment in their lives and they would never ever have to go through the long part of seeking sexual pleasure from a woman and then falling in love with a man and then becoming a criminal to keep that man and then becoming a murderer and a monster and a weak person who is dependent on another person's love and has to destroy the universe and every religion and every law just to justify themselves and they're sick sexual sexuality.
Although celibacy and Chastity is a word of fear and terror to men. These two words hold every honour, every friendship, every happiness, every power, every fulfilment, health happiness honour respect true friendships ultimate happiness and ultimate success in this world and the next for every single emotional and intelligent man.
No man in the world suffered because of celibacy. No man in the world ever suffered because of chastity. No man was ever famed because he was celibate. No man was ever tortured because he was chaste. No man was ever tortured and humiliated and assaulted because he was pious. No man was ever killed murdered or framed for being celibate and chaste and pure.
Celibacy will not kill you. You may think that celibacy and Chastity and the purity of the heart and thought might kill you but it will not. It will make you the best possible version of yourself. And never think that it is too late. Never think that you are too old or had too many sexual relationships and cannot become celibate and Chaste now. That is the greatest trick of the devil. Never ever back off from celibacy and Chastity -keep trying keep praying and keep praying and keep crying to God to give you the strength and the power and the ability to stay celibate and chaste no matter how old you are and no matter how many relationships you had.
My current situation with my ex boyfriend. Everything you have said. Its now 1week and 2 days of no contact. I dated him for 7 years
I have been completely played and can't understand why.
@user-eq4il1jy6c same here after 10 yrs but it is not you it's them. You literally think wtf did I ever do to this person to get this in return, but find peace in knowing the issue lies with them and their lack of empathy for another. Head up xx
@@hayley5684 doesn't seem to be getting any better. Am so hurt by the deceit.
All accurate. I just got out of an unhealthy, long term relationship. I realized that I could no longer be myself around that person. I was walking on eggshells to keep peace . It was hard to make the decision because after being in a relationship for over 2 years and making plans for the future ,there was a sense of huge loss ... loss of dreams that never came to fruition . And as most relationships that last for long, there is an attachment. I think I knew sooner that it's not going to work but I was too attached and too invested. Love truly is blind. It sometimes takes time to see the red flags even when they're waiving in your face.
People cheat because they want something they can’t have. Doesn’t matter what their partner is like. They can be stunning inside and out. People get bored and then want to partake in something inappropriate to get a thrill by chasing someone else they know they shouldn’t. It’s like people who save up to buy a new car, are happy for a day, and then want to buy a new house. There will always be something more. There will always be something better. If you’re that kind of person, don’t be in a relationship. It’s super easy to not be in a relationship. It’s 2021. Screw a different person every day. It doesn’t matter. But don’t tell someone you love them and then chase after someone else. If you’re not happy, leave. That’s it. I really want to and thanks to *discreet phase resolution* for the phone evidence
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To give you another perspective, I use to cheat and I did it out of insecurity. I never felt pretty enough for him or never felt wanted , I would seek men and knowing they wanted me made feel better. It wasn't about the sex it was about how I felt about myself, this made it worst I started to fell dirty after time. My bf and I would fight and I would go sleep with someone to feel like I was still wanted. I take accountability for my actions and I acknowledge that what I did was wrong , I'm just aware of why I acted this way. I found Christ and was filled with his love a love no man can replace, ever since then I don't seek men to fill that void , I lost myself completely but it was never about the other person , yes their actions made me feel insecure but they are not responsible for how I feel I know now that when someone makes me feel un wanted I love myself enough to walk away I love myself enough to not care if they leave me , I accept it and move on , yes it's been hard but I don't use my body anymore. That's why I would cheat.
I’ve been married 46 years and this is exactly how I’ve felt at least 40 of those years. Past annoyed.
Too , too long to feel that way .
You must be miserable.
My aunt had a friend that was like that for almost 50 years. She decided to divorce and be in peace for her last few years and her kids exploded cause of it. Kids can be selfish and ungrateful sometimes. Well the lady got divorced and lived around 15 years more in happiness with her self.
This is my worse nightmare
Next month will be 26yrs. Most of it filled with disrespectful behavior. Dealt with the nasty attitude, drama, and disrespectful to keep a two parent home for the kids. 1 school-age kid left and I just can't take it anymore. Made the dreaded consultation call....Looking forward to moving on!
I'm at a rocky point at my relationship, and yet not a single one of those points apply, not one bit. Thank you for that, it makes me more determined to save it.
Prefer not to say a relationship is over, say it is "complete". Some relationships are not meant to last forever 🖖
For a reason and a season?
@@Linda-bj3bb A general rule is: Do not worry because it is over; Smile because it happened. Also, sometimes 2 people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together. But know that you will not heal by going back to what broke you 🖖
True...
@@wisdom-for-all it's often good to try and fix what is broken. If you are successful great. If you not that's great too because then it's easier to discard the broken thing. At least you know that you have tried and it's impossible to mend it. 🎵 It's not over till its over🎶🎵why because often one person is not quite over the other person and the broken one needs closer.
@@wisdom-for-all there is nothing to smile at toxic relationships that end up being based on shitty Piper dreams, the start was selfish so was the end, no matter it's the husband or wife.
It's all want, want, want no one has patience anymore and some relations just don't have it in them rather most relations these days
1. You Dont Feel Like Yourself
2.Youre Constantly Questioning How to Communicate
3. You Think About How The Relationship is Going...No knowing where you stand
4. You're Starting to Get Annoyed
5. You're Questioning whether YOU have the Same Values
Thank you for summarizing for us Daisy!
So true finally left and never been happier. I am the old ME
You feel like Shit! You should feel good...happy.
I believe in a relationship it's important to have the same values in life. Very important to me.
@@sr0716 It's not complicated. If your happy. Stay. If your miserable. Leave. You deserve Happiness!
Absolutely love it!
My wife and I were married for more than 14 years and most of the time it was difficult and stressful!
I am a 56 year old man and I was physically abused and assaulted by my wife more than 3 times…
Verbal abuse was like walking in the park…most of it in front of our daughter.
My wife assaulted my daughter when she was 6 and a half years old.
I was waiting for my daughter to be older and now she is 14 and I started working on divorce!
Yes, I am not super healthy but even if I have a few good years to live without stress and drama, I will take a chance 😊
Congrats
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here , I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him .
Interesting , how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how can i get in touch with her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
No wonder so many songs were written about these issues
Comfort is the only issue when it comes to relationships. If you are uncomfortable then the relationship is over, or it never really started in the first place. The bottom-line is this; your relationship with your partner should feel like home.
It used to feel like home.
@@SingularityFe does she make you feel like an unwelcome guest?😳
I’ve become obsessed with checking on the relationship (searching the internet for answers to my questions compulsively).
And the big one for me is: I shouldn’t be feeling this way. I should feel happy, warm and fuzzy, not anxious, sad and irritated.
Literally ME. For my entire relationship. It's been almost a year and a half and the obsessive googling has only reduced in the last few months. I hate it. I don't think I've ever felt emotionally secure in this relationship for more than a couple weeks. I usually blame my anxiety but maybe it's actually a red flag I should be acting on
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I had the same situation. I was in a 5 year relationship with my ex and we had wonderful years and so many happy memories. Unfortunately at the end o the relationship I started to notice a lot of Thing changes with him. I had many suspicions that he was cheating on me . He never admitted to it and that’s the worst part , but he decided to end our relationship saying he didn’t love me anymore and he didn’t want us to ever go back. Now he says he’s trying to move on and I’m sure it’s with the girl he was cheating on me with. I just have that gut feeling. It’s a very tough time for me right now because our anniversary is tomorrow and I can’t stop thinking about our relationship. I’m having a rough time motivating myself .. I can’t find motivation 😞 thanks for the recommendation whose give me confidence for divorce Email: Cybermicheal1995@gmail.com Or Whatsapp on
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Thanks for that, I have just subscribed. Thankfully, I was blessed to be married to my beloved wife for 32 years, she died last year & I am now a widower. I was so blessed, because with retrospection, I was able to see, just how much we helped each other grow to be the best in our lives. The crux in any relationship, is to be authentic 100%. particularly communication, but all things, really. The other thing, is to know thyself & not rely on anyone else to fix you.
I love him, but getting mighty tired of doing things alone 80% of the time for seven years.. Im making my exit.. over being lonely - I'd rather start planning to be SINGLLEEE
Number 1 sign your relationship is over... clicking on this video. She nailed it from the get go, this video only needed to be 10 seconds long
i know my relationship isn’t over but i watched this video to see signs in the future
I disagree. I clicked to see what I could do if my marriage showed any of those signs.
Yes
Disagree, I am in a happy relationship and I watch these videos out of curiosity to know what to AVOID
@@adriannaa545 exactly
I'm 37 years old, handsome(by women's take), wise, and own two homes in Atlanta. If I as a man am supposed too give my life for my wife, me checking her phone is inconsequential. In marriage, you have no privacy. Any man that accepts less isn't a man. I'd rather be alone than be with a woman who thinks she can have a secret space in a marriage. Good video young bro but a wise man. The pride you take in your work is truly amazing and inspiring special thanks to all the team at *discreet phase resolution*
People cheat because they want something they can’t have. Doesn’t matter what their partner is like. They can be stunning inside and out. People get bored and then want to partake in something inappropriate to get a thrill by chasing someone else they know they shouldn’t. It’s like people who save up to buy a new car, are happy for a day, and then want to buy a new house. There will always be something more. There will always be something better. If you’re that kind of person, don’t be in a relationship. It’s super easy to not be in a relationship. It’s 2021. Screw a different person every day. It doesn’t matter. But don’t tell someone you love them and then chase after someone else. If you’re not happy, leave. That’s it. I really want to and thanks to *discreet phase resolution* for the phone evidence
I HAVE SEEN OTHER PEOPLE HERE BUT TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU THERES ONLY ONE PERSON HERE THATS ACTUALLY CAPABLE OF GETTING SOMETHING LIKE THIS DONE AND THATS *discreet phase resolution* , HE IS ABSOLUTELY OUTSTANDING
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This gave me a total relief about the decision to leave a relationship. I had been wondering if I made a wrong choice and hurting myself saying that I was already past 30 and not married yet. Thank you very much Mel!
I was already extremely pessimistic about the relationship I was in. Then I saw your video last night. 5/5 confirmation! You were spot on in very concrete terms. Extremely helpful. Thank you.
If being with a certain person makes you feel like you’ve lost yourself, that’s all you need to know that it’s over
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Rod Boy1 : Excellent point, and so true!! As Don Henley so aptly put it, “After all the bad luck and troubles we’ve been through; how I lost me, and you lost you
I just got dumped yesterday. I went the through whole relationship losing myself . I tried ending it because my insecurities were so bad. Months later after some self work, he ended it instead because he started mentally checking out
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Thank you so much for encouraging the whole world to do better and life, To make us stay positive and motivated in focus on our goals & dreams and stay away from negatively so we can prosper in life everyone on this video stay strong and safe May God bless you and your families. for relationship issue *discreet phase resolution*
There is no god. Religion is man-made.
“But clearly you need to hear it”
Now I felt that!
These are so wonderful. Especially “you don’t feel like yourself.” Some people might not immediately go there. ❤
This was my relationship with my ex. You should feel as comfortable and like yourself with your partner as you do with your friends.
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Feels like a one way battle. While I’m cuffed in question on what and how to do things better. I gotta accept that it’s over because she gave up on me already.
If she gave up on you and you know u need to be remorseful for whatever u did or how u were, the question is, are u going to give up on you being better and showing her that? Or because u think she gave up already, are u going to do nothing if u want your woman back? Honestly, if u feel no remorse (not because it's over) and u don't think u need to change for yourself then u should just leave her alone because the only apology/remorse is the consistent changed behavior and that takes time u gotta stay seperated but still talk while u do this to see if u are actually progressing in your new mentality...Im not telling u what to do but I know my ex-spouse is living in delusion because he has committed an unforgivable act against me and he's talking about the future and things as though nothing happened and it's not over smh the man has not even tried to look at videos or any therapy he just what thinks he can do it with his own mind that he has now 🙁 that's why every time he says he's going to change its been 17 years and nothing has changed ...he has no remorse he just want to come back to this house to the family we created but I can't do that he has no remorse and he's not taking the time for therapy for his issues....I have been doing my own therapy by who I listen to online and Im a honest person with myself I didnt know exactly my issues but I know that its not just 1 person in the relationship that makes it the way it is its the combination of the 2 so Im changing not for him or us for me because I probably will not go back it's been 5 months and Im at peace so it probably is over for him unless he does what he's never done before and thats seek help...therapy is free online all u have to do when listening to the messages from authentic doctors and therapist videos on communication, trauma and healing etc is be honest with yourself when u hear things that u know are true about yourself or the way u do things and just take that in and make notes to try and change that...I don't know what u did but because u are commenting and watching this video it tells me u are in pain and u really want your woman...I hope it works out well for the both of u whatever that may be 🤗
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I love how to the point you are! It's not what I want to hear, but needed it- thank you.
This all revolves around communicating!
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I don't feel comfortable being me , feel like I'm constantly walking on eggshells , everytime I speak up makes the abuse worse .
Move out it’s so liberating
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"Chemistry is NOT compatibility." Wow... That is a brilliant and concise way to put it. I understood this, but didn't have the words. That realization, and stepping back, helped convince me to not step outside of my committed relationship, for a fling that had some sizzle but would have ended poorly.
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I’m going to have “the talk” tonight so we can say our goodbyes and have some closure. We both know it’s been done for a little while now and it’s better to go out amicably.
How did it go? I've tried to tell my partner many times but then we just go back to square 1.
@@katrinakaye7997 Same here. We've had short hour-long break-ups and always get back together. At some point we need to end this cycle. So hard when we still love each other so much.
@@chrisstange9198 omg, was it only 3 weeks ago that my partner and I broke up? Because shortly after I made this comment I finally ended things for good and he moved out. Much happier already and don't miss the relationship at all. I'm not sure what's going on with you, but do what your gut is telling you to do. That's what I did.
@@chrisstange9198 I replied to this but the comment must have not gone through. I actually ended up ending things for good with my partner and I feel so much better for it, surprisingly he also felt we were not a good fit. No regrets so far :)
This video brought me clarity on my thoughts and feelings over the past two years. Now I can concentrate on healing. and continue to love me! Thank you!
I’m single. Just validating why my ex and I are over.
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I feel all these signs. He’s a jerk, was all just something I built up in my head. I’ve never been treated so bad in my life.
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My God, the pain of ending a relationship is just horrendous. I have been in utter turmoil wondering if I am in love? Sometimes I am and sometimes not. The whole thing has triggered depression in me.
This is a normal part of grieving unfortunately that we need to go through after a break up but don't let that stop you from wasting anymore time on someone who isn't good for you or good to you. The pain will fade with time and work on yourself.
Same here. He loves me and is good to me, but I just don’t feel it. I keep wondering if my feelings will grow, but I’m so, so busy and can’t find enough time to spend with him. What will you do?
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All 5 here as well. Took 40+ years and just discovering that spouse is a narcissist. Too many of them in my life right now, but my spouse is the closest, and probably the most destructive. It's comforting to know that this isn't just my imagination, but what to do now. I point out the narcissistic behaviour more than I used to, but of course, it's always my fault.
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World is ending and people are still agonizing over petty things and whether to reproduce or not....lol
my heart needs to except what my brain already knows 💔
I hope my friend watches this. I care about her so much. I want to see her happy.
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It’s over . It hurts . I’m terrified . I’m scared. I’m still in the same home … but I know he wants it over too . He doesn’t have to say it - I feel it - I’m so afraid of taking this leap .
She literally just told every girl under 30 that she should leave. Almost every single young woman has ALL of these doubts and they inevitably self sabotage the relationship. Except for number 5.
GIRL you literally described my whole experience one by one
I really really needed to hear this, thank you. I was losing myself. It hurts but this is the right road
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I'm sorry you had to go through that situation but happy you are currently out of it
Any relationship where you have to twist yourself in order to keep the peace.
You will start a war inside of you.
Very eye opening.
This never gets old.. 100% on point.
What a blessing, Mel, to find your video on the Five Signs appear in my queue. You cite such obvious evidence, yet we all persist in distorting ourselves to fit others' expectations of whom we are supposed to be, what we are supposed to do, and with whom we are supposed to be with. I'm currently in a thirty year marriage and have been struggling with each of these five aspects for decades. Thank you for your insights and fine work. (Also, your production values are exquisite)
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Wow. My relationship is actually stable and legit. I'm just overreacting.
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Me. Too. But it’s just beginning (of the committed part), and it’s only my second relationship. So I’m questioning EVERYTHING. First was a decade ago, so I have not a clue how to go about this. But I do know this. When I’m not questioning everything and overreacting, it’s FUN.
Don't second guess yourself. If you're questioning it over and over, there is something wrong. Pay attention to how you truly feel, and be honest with yourself.
yes, I can say that it has been a while since I started feeling emotionally drained after having constant episodes of questioning (how to communicate). It felt like everything I was gonna say would end up as a misunderstanding so I closed and isolated myself for some time. I felt like it was the n2 and the n4. When at first you both put a lot of effort into smth and then you end up seeing that you are doing more than the person you are with that is when the pain and realization hits. And when it does hit you change the way you treat them.
Thank you so much for sharing this Mel! This was sooo important for me to hear! I’ve just left an emotionally abusive marriage…I just can’t stop questioning myself and doubting my decision and if things were ‘really that bad’…xxx
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3:30 really was spot on for me, the whole video makes me feel so relieved and happy to have made the right decision. Thanks, time to move on 🙂
Thank you for sharing this. You will never know how many people you have helped with this.
Thank you Mel!... I'm currently single.My last relationship was 4 years ago, I've grown and i am healthy now! These words of wisdom I'm cataloging so that I'll be ready when I meet the right Lady for me!😐
Honestly I thought my boyfriend and I were over soon but while watching this video I realized I overreacted over a small discussion.
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@@emelielarsson3042 and it's really hard if the other person only sees their viewpoint and tries to bend and manipulate you into what they want FROM you instead of letting you be you xD
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The exact thing I'm going through right now 😭😭 it really hurts
Wow. All of these signs were there. For a decade, maybe. After 36 years and three kids, I saw all of these. Thank you, Mel. This is confirmation that I did the right thing by calling it, telling him my why (we'd already had multiple attempts over the last 20 years trying to 'fix' it, to no avail), by leaving physically (Is already checked out mentally and emotionally anyway) , and by finally filing for divorce. I'm finally beginning to feel like the real me now. I've got "me" back. I'm moving forward and growing more. I'm actually happy, relaxed and excited for the future. Thanks Mel! 🌻❤️
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@@MsAldil She most likely won’t tell the truth, she can’t admit that the grass wasn’t greener. 36 years and three kids, it’s tough for her in the market. She’ll say she’s happily single or just letting some guy who’s not her husband, have his way with her.
Wow. Just throw away 36 years. Good luck in the dating market. You will need it. Who would want to wife that up?!
I can’t tell you how this is helping me in excepting the fact that our marriage really is over. I appreciate your direct style I know I will return again and again for your helpful advice
While watching this video I came across your lovely profile. Lori, how are you doing?
The last bit, "You deserve to be in a happy, loving relationship."
Thank you 😌 I hope I can find it one day, because it's not what I currently have.
But what if you want to make it better
Oh no Mel, I am just watching .I have been happily single for 6 years and it's been the best decision I had taken since my last relationship ended in 2014.I just wanted to work out on myself ,purge , love me and do what I want .I sleep like a baby, I roll in my bed, nobody snoring, nobody scratching me with long toenails.This woman is good.Oneday maybe I will find someone new .
I had to learn this lesson the hard way. I wish I had seen this video years ago. I'm glad it confirms I made the right decision all those years ago.
Sign 1 is so important and telling. Something I never thought about.
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Spot on ! I already knew my relationship was over but clicked on the video as always curious what Mel is going to say! You could not be more right here !
#7 When they become physically repulsive to you.
Wow yes that should do it!
Lmaoo currently going through this!
Lol. Been married 37 years. Best 21 years of my life. Yeah you read it right. I got married at 21. The years before that were great.
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Damn, those 5 points have been the cornerstone of my marriage for the last 20 yrs. Been married 22.
This only applies to a new relationship. The pain of experiencing these things in a (very) long term relationship, is devastating.
did that for 14 years before the opportunity came up for me to leave and i did
I would think most of them are more normal and not necessarily a warning sign in a new relationship, and especially if its also your first relationship (maybe later too). After all you are in the process of figuring things out and it just makes sense to not always know exactly how to behave, or where the relationship is standing quite yet. But they should come over time. I think the overall feeling you have about the relationship is what matters, if you often get a bad feeling about it its probably time to leave.
But regardless of how long a relationship has lasted, leave if you are not happy
@@zakosist Marriage take a LOT of work. Sometimes all that work isn't enough. My original post was emphasizing that a marriage that has wilted away over many years, is more devastating b/c you have much more invested in the relationship: your life, children, grandchildren, etc.
It's a very different dynamic, to end a relationship after many years. You can't compare a young relationship to one that has been around for 40+ decades.
totally agree, but i need to say here that trauma can put unnecessary thoughts and fears in your head and you need to be able to recognize when it's your trauma talking and adress this with your partner. from there you can see if you are both willing to work on the relationship. I am watching this to make sure I'm not delusional for believing I have found a good partner for me, not because I'm thinking about breaking up.
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Listening to this and admitting I have 4 and she has the other sign is frightening. Such a difficult decision but 1 I have to make to actually keen my sanity.
Yep! I’m done!!
Looking forward to being me and not feeling like shit about myself and how he treats me.
Still hard as hell to finish a relation. The hardest thing in life. Because you cant stop loving a person you imagine havingnchildren with and everything
If they are being idiotic you put them in their place and slam the door on their faces ,put your foot down
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5 signs your relationship is over by ME.
1. You constantly fail to understand eachother
2. Highlighting your mistakes and not your achievements
3. Little to no communication. Happy to sit in separate rooms a lot when you’re both finished work.
4. No interest in sex
5. Fighting over nothing
THE END.... WALK AWAY....
Yes
Yikes - 5/5 :(
Her list is more for newer relationships. Yours is after you’ve been with the person for a while...
How about start over or bring back the spark
@@mightyobserver12 I broke up with him and he begged me to not give up on him so I didn’t. He completely changed from that day to this. He has fully committed, moved in with me, cuddles me and talks!!!! He didn’t communicate before and now he talks all the time. I don’t think he had experience with relationships much so I gently guided him through what it was that I needed and he responded really positively. Right now I’m the happiest girl, all because he started making an effort. Sex is mind blowing( but it always was) and now we have all the other aspects of our relationship getting stronger and stronger. He is a cyclist and I went with him a few times and I loved it. The problem was I couldn’t keep up. So he bought me an ebike and now we go together. He said his biggest dream was that we would cycle together. So yes, this whole relationship which I thought had no chance, is working well but I put that down to two people wanting to make it work, really listening to eachother and making the effort to change what is not good. I’m falling in love with this guy 🤷🏼♀️
Hey, thanks for this insightful video! Recognizing the signs when a relationship is over is tough, but it's crucial to prioritize our own happiness and growth. Loving ourselves first sets the stage for an amazing, supportive, and fulfilling relationship down the road. Time to invest in our own awesomeness