Examine Yourself | Jordan B Peterson

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  • When you find that you’ve fallen off the path, examine yourself for presuppositions and action patterns that do not serve you well.
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  • @mariaelenarodriguez6188
    @mariaelenarodriguez6188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    JBP, how are you? I really miss you. Hope you, your lovely wife, your children all are well. From Mexico.

    • @bahaanaldo
      @bahaanaldo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Go to his daughter's Instagram/Twitter. She posts updates. He's been doing much better it seems.

    • @bahaanaldo
      @bahaanaldo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Go to his daughter's Instagram/Twitter. She posts updates. He's been doing much better it seems.

    • @davindersingh475
      @davindersingh475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God bless you jordan peterson.

    • @invictus_They-Them_Nazi_Hunter
      @invictus_They-Them_Nazi_Hunter 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's ruined enough lives, mine included.

    • @azimislam8388
      @azimislam8388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@invictus_They-Them_Nazi_Hunter troll.

  • @VinnyBarbarino29
    @VinnyBarbarino29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Having a bad day listen to J.P. Having a good day listen to J.P.

    • @dinagsengupta7941
      @dinagsengupta7941 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Psychonaut care to explain why?

    • @desmonides
      @desmonides 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dinag Sengupta listen to JP and it’ll become self-evident

    • @nagsterthegangster3548
      @nagsterthegangster3548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Starting off your day? JP. lol

    • @giftfromyoutube
      @giftfromyoutube ปีที่แล้ว

      Yh. If you put it like that, then that's the way it is. Nice.

    • @mrsound9888
      @mrsound9888 ปีที่แล้ว

      As snoop dogg said… JP everyday

  • @thaddiusglunt2424
    @thaddiusglunt2424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I feel as though I went to Hell and came out a different man last year. I examined myself a lot while I was down there. I had no choice, really, as I was completely alone for most of the year. Especially the first 6 months. Not only was I alone, no girlfriend, no friends, no family in my state (and even then, not the best relations with them), but I felt as though I couldn't even fall back on hedonism to save me--which is what saved me when I was depressed as an adolescent. This was a deeper pain somehow that could not be escaped; and drinking only amplified it.
    Most of my transformation occurred in the first 6 months. I lost the love of my life and came to realize that it was primarily my fault. I realized how much time I've wasted on pleasing myself instead of pursuing meaningful goals, thus squandering my potential. Nihilism wasn't going to fix my problems anymore. And if I didnt have Jordan's book and lectures, among other great books, I might not have come out of that Hell. Ever.
    I'm irredeemably indebted to you, Dr. Peterson. Sometimes I think the world doesn't even deserve a role model like you--with how you are disparaged at times--but Lord knows we need some light.

    • @anewagora
      @anewagora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful, this reads as if you experienced dissolution of the deepest suffering, and ego. Maybe even trauma. Reminds me of how I've described my own burning transformative experiences.
      Hedonism is the dirtiest trick played on people. Pursue pleasure and your tolerance goes up, ensuring that nothing is pleasurable anymore. If pleasure is your god, suddenly your world becomes godless. That is the space of closing in, with no escape from reality until you surrender to it, surrender to experiencing Now, as it is. Sounds like you reached that point. You would probably really like When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron :)

    • @thaddiusglunt2424
      @thaddiusglunt2424 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anewagora I've got a bunch of other books I need to read through first, as they were lent to me, but I will check that one out eventually. What's it about?

    • @anewagora
      @anewagora 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@thaddiusglunt2424 It's about when things fall apart. The title hits it directly. Here's a quote:
      “To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man's-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.”
      You can also search around Pema Chodron's videos if you want to get pieces of her philosophy and descriptive style. It's uniquely able to cut through white noise and make our basic reality very clear. Good luck my dude.

    • @thaddiusglunt2424
      @thaddiusglunt2424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Psychonaut Ouch.

    • @thaddiusglunt2424
      @thaddiusglunt2424 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Psychonaut Damn. Guess you showed me. =/

  • @davebeech236
    @davebeech236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    May the eternal blessings of the Divine be showered upon Dr Peterson and his family. He has done more to bring me back from my own personal Hell than anyone or anything else in the world.

    • @dancer1
      @dancer1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Psychonaut what fuck you. His wife had cancer and was dying

    • @Viroh
      @Viroh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dancer1 Seems like the person you replied to got deleted. Ignorant people are ignorant, some people say don´t feed the trolls. I can´t stand stupidity and false accusations so I would have called this fool out also. Good day sir.

    • @dancer1
      @dancer1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Viroh yeah it was someone else I believe

    • @dancer1
      @dancer1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Viroh good day :)

  • @damianrodriguez211
    @damianrodriguez211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can listen to this man talk any day hes amazing

  • @davidl9155
    @davidl9155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I like how he engages with his students

  • @anewagora
    @anewagora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I spent a long, long time aiming for the path and seeing my life almost destroyed by the people around me. Started in childhood with a dysfunctional family. But long story short, I've responded to those disasters so much and struggled to stand for my moral values that I have come through the other side- understanding what is missing. Understanding what the world isn't ready for. "Mass chronic apathy" of others is the most significant problem, second to it a toxic attachment to creating conflict in desperate desire to be the hero, the victim, or someone sensational. If we continue on in isolation, we will continue to devalue other human beings. If you devalue others, you will do the same to yourself. I'm extremely fortunate to have made my breakthroughs, let go of the dreams not possible in this world, and come out of it with a few real friends.

    • @gmchessplay9043
      @gmchessplay9043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen to that brother. What you do to others you are ultimately doing to yourself. Iv reached points of such heightened inapathy that I forgot I was even human. With this Covid-19 stuff I’m able to slow down and really connect with myself. When I tell you I was disconnected, I mean literally I operated solely on what my mind told me to do, didn’t matter what my body wanted. We have a limited time here on earth, why not increase that time, 30,40,50,100 years, so we don’t feel so rushed to do everything? So we don’t end up with shows like 90 day fiancé, and just absolute disgusting bullshit. And people make money off of portraying the worst of humanity, as opposed to the best of humanity, it’s utterly sad. I don’t mean to sound nihilistic because I’m not but man we can do better. People think Elon Musk or Jeff Bezos are 1 in a billion individuals but that’s simply because they aren’t around bright forward thinking people. There are millions of Elon’s and Bezos in the world, go make the world a better place.

    • @anewagora
      @anewagora 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gmchessplay9043 Thanks for your in-depth response. People often mistake the problem and the solution- this is addiction at the root. They stay trapped, never curious enough to even try experiencing more fully what they are avoiding. Not considering, they could always go back to the cocoon. It's just too easy to fall asleep, waking up is a repeat process.

    • @emadaldougleh6927
      @emadaldougleh6927 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jordan Peterson is a human still tho

  • @souljacem
    @souljacem 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a great man. Beautiful speech.

  • @TheShootist
    @TheShootist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    ♫ bring back, bring back, oh bring back my Lobster to me" ♫

  • @MrRizo23
    @MrRizo23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Me as a kid: I'm scared of the dark, leave the bathroom light on (etc.)
    My mom or Dad: Don't worry, there aren't any monsters in the dark here.
    JP: Well there could be though, can't know for sure, but that is where monsters like to hide. Well Goodnight.
    Me: :O

    • @Psycholosopher
      @Psycholosopher 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And now I have a nightlight

  • @Robert_H_Brown
    @Robert_H_Brown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Jordan Peterson

  • @gprendiville1811
    @gprendiville1811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How are you Prof Peterson? How’s your wife? My apologies if I’m not up to date with any news. Stay safe. Stay strong. Thanks for throwing so much light into my life.

    • @dylanmistry9357
      @dylanmistry9357 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey. Hes doing a lot better albeit still in a lot of pain. Check out his IG.

  • @TheXelsky
    @TheXelsky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so relevant right now

  • @Godfather48hrs
    @Godfather48hrs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A Brilliant Man!

  • @joestewart2298
    @joestewart2298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a male therapist, who I haven’t talk to in a while, BUT Jordan peterson DAMN.

  • @jojojorisjhjosef
    @jojojorisjhjosef 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    As a brilliant man once said: "XYZ, examine your zipper".

    • @johnnyvinchenzo
      @johnnyvinchenzo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you my friend. Love this.

  • @ifthebeltiscrackedor
    @ifthebeltiscrackedor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That thing with the cat's teeth shaped for us is something you said said that I often think about. Thank you for the upload. I hope you are well in this Zombie apocalypse.

  • @Polski_patriot
    @Polski_patriot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is actually true

  • @Matthew-ob7vb
    @Matthew-ob7vb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Poetic

  • @EdwinRiveraTheOneThatGotAway
    @EdwinRiveraTheOneThatGotAway 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    SUPA'!Thanks.

  • @NoEsHumano
    @NoEsHumano 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uncle Peterson !

  • @fiendeng
    @fiendeng 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Its as if a psychologist can only be prescribed per the society in question.

    • @TJ-kk5zf
      @TJ-kk5zf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same for grammarians

    • @fiendeng
      @fiendeng 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TJ-kk5zf what's a grammarian ?

    • @TJ-kk5zf
      @TJ-kk5zf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly

    • @EdwinRiveraTheOneThatGotAway
      @EdwinRiveraTheOneThatGotAway 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TJ-kk5zf PhaQue

    • @TJ-kk5zf
      @TJ-kk5zf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@EdwinRiveraTheOneThatGotAway nothAnzAzol

  • @emadaldougleh6927
    @emadaldougleh6927 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whenever i see what kind of person Jordan Peterson the legend is...i realize that I'm really not even close to okay as what he said one time...

  • @YZ450f24
    @YZ450f24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When was this video recorded

  • @TJ-kk5zf
    @TJ-kk5zf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    you left us just when we needed you most

  • @nonnabundy6949
    @nonnabundy6949 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    my girl is awesome!

  • @christiansallows8599
    @christiansallows8599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I find it so amazing when some of you choose to pick holes in his analogies. 'Yeah, but, some people do rob banks during the day.' He establishes these ideas to bolster his points on a whim. You are missing the entire message through trying to spot his foibles. It is inconceivable that there are people who would even bother to write a response that is so vacuous and asinine.

  • @cece3194
    @cece3194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mine was a dinosaur in the fog that I could only see his glowing eyes! 🦖

  • @ques9927
    @ques9927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Most times when people obtain this kind of descriptive articulate eloquent speech is usually when men have got to 80 but this guy is far too advanced for his age"

    • @siddhantparikh3260
      @siddhantparikh3260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It seems like you're quoting from somewhere. Where is it from? (If it's quoted from somewhere, that is.)

  • @nosequiters
    @nosequiters 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1:36 genius idea all I nee to do is rob the bank at night because nobodys there

  • @CyberBandits475
    @CyberBandits475 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    2:47

  • @joedavis4150
    @joedavis4150 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ... Dr. Peterson, please explain how drugs can help deal with these states of being. It is nothing to sweep under the rug.

  • @pratikpatil428
    @pratikpatil428 ปีที่แล้ว

    5:15 why he said "if you are Lucky"?
    Do you need to be lucky to come from that state?

  • @BestForexAcademy
    @BestForexAcademy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍👍👍👍💛🧡❣️♥️

  • @Farmingtoon
    @Farmingtoon ปีที่แล้ว

    3:48 jbp

  • @christinesprague2845
    @christinesprague2845 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you deal with someone close in your life that only listens to your complaints to defend themselves?

  • @kevinmcgeever7340
    @kevinmcgeever7340 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you a Meyerist?

  • @Powered-up3
    @Powered-up3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought I was a bit sociopathic or narcissistic but im not sure I want to be a good person maybe im just confused hopefully that’s what it is

  • @stephaniedescoteaux4759
    @stephaniedescoteaux4759 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know.... The day monsters have all day to create havoc and loss and grief. They plan in the evening and sleep soundly at night.

  • @awkwardzoltar3529
    @awkwardzoltar3529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m disgusted by how much I’m starting to like Jordan Peterson, just because I try to not like anyone too much because I know I’ll see something I won’t like. Welp, that’s the magic of the internet you don’t ever have to get that close. I just don’t like the concept of idolizing.

    • @vladislavno
      @vladislavno 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get help baby. You’re sick.

    • @awkwardzoltar3529
      @awkwardzoltar3529 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vladislavno I don’t remember writing this. I guess I meant I’ll never truly know this person and they will never truly know me. It’s all cold meaningless in away but yet people will still be hopeless enthralled by a person that only lives in the mind’s eye and never in their reality. People will only see a copy of a filtered image in their head and not an actual person. That’s why I don’t understand idolization, because to a certain point it just a socially acceptable madness.

  • @bobbyharrity9460
    @bobbyharrity9460 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maybe this is why the Puritans were so successfully

  • @austinlange4622
    @austinlange4622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    what cat is he talking about

    • @floridaman8136
      @floridaman8136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I searched it up and couldn’t find anything😂

    • @TheShootist
      @TheShootist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@floridaman8136 +Austin Lange Rule #12 Always pet a cat when you encounter one on the street?

    • @austinlange4622
      @austinlange4622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol thanks guys.

    • @ifthebeltiscrackedor
      @ifthebeltiscrackedor 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Smilodon

    • @spiketrademark1099
      @spiketrademark1099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sabretooth

  • @shaatiusmani6211
    @shaatiusmani6211 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No wonder why the people in ur comment section are so articulated.

  • @valeriaramirez2586
    @valeriaramirez2586 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need phylogeny therapy

  • @edh2246
    @edh2246 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does this channel benefit Jordan Peterson, or are you just “clipping” his material?

  • @mervinrobateau5128
    @mervinrobateau5128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well, criminals do get up in the morning and rob banks. Can't do that at night.

  • @vishvnaik2756
    @vishvnaik2756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I believe the Bhagvad Gita 📖 and Jordan Peterson will better you, I , and the world 🌍. 🟣🍀🌱🙏🏻💯🌎📚🍀🟣 #jonsnow

  • @ifthebeltiscrackedor
    @ifthebeltiscrackedor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Don't forget to charge up on vitamin D.

  • @user-ge8fn4jr5q
    @user-ge8fn4jr5q 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    this guy talks a lot about evolution. But he has clearly no idea on how it works and how slow it goes.... So many assumptions and mistakes...