Jordan Peterson | Learn and Let Go

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  • @rahulsinha8999
    @rahulsinha8999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    him crying broke me . Humble and a great free thinker .

    • @chosenundead3174
      @chosenundead3174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @stevenstrumpf7 you're just a cynical lying to yourself

    • @demetripapanicolaou4441
      @demetripapanicolaou4441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @stevenstrumpf7 Posing to be normal can definitely be an option. But why would Peterson pretend to be normal rather than just be normal? And how can you argue that he is being abnormal in this video.

    • @vesnadjordjevic28
      @vesnadjordjevic28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @stevenstrumpf7 I don't think that he is acting, in the last minutes of the video its pretty clear that he is suffering(how,why ,idk)but he looked overwhelmed for some reasons.. N its obvious that he's not the person that simulates ,he is always in deep thinking when he's giving the lectures.

    • @markheckerman7343
      @markheckerman7343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @stevenstrumpf7 no, he's not acting.

    • @ukedi
      @ukedi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You would know if he acting or not just if you listen , the topic he's talking about have a deep impact on his life I don't know ( how,why,when ) but its clear to me .
      He start drinking in young age and abuse him self .
      suffering form a lot of his own lectures topic is not just word.
      that's his life that he lived and shearing that with us .
      If you really want to know you will listen .

  • @litawi7869
    @litawi7869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +640

    This guy here...when the Universe brought him to me I was jobless, suicidal, and if not bad enough that I was living with my Mom, I was being kicked out. My life was completely empty. I’d lost my spiritual base, my circle of friends had dwindled down to what felt like nothingness, and I was full of shame of everything about who I was. I’m one of those people that made him shed tears at the end of this clip. [i haven’t met him yet,] I’m one of the ones that really listened to his wisdom on how to piece together my soul. Now I’ve just opened a beauty business, I treasure the few friends I have and i came to realize that I am cared for by many more than I thought, and there is so much in life to be grateful for. I have a purpose, Me being here matters. We all matter to each other even when we don’t realize it. I’m still listening and I’m more appreciative of all the little things than I’ve ever been. I look forward to what is to come, and to meeting someone I can binge on Jordan Peterson’s videos with!

    • @charlottehanna3860
      @charlottehanna3860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Congrats n love.

    • @cathymorgan8670
      @cathymorgan8670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I am so glad you found your truth and he is so genuine and cares very deeply ... He makes sense and anyone who dares to hate a man with such a beautiful soul .. IS JUST STUPID .. LOL ..

    • @subzero5853
      @subzero5853 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Im so happy for you, and Im so proud of you. That's an incredible thing you've accomplished. Dont let that boulder stop rolling, keep pushing forward. You have so much potential left within you

    • @lm2487
      @lm2487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      awesome testimony

    • @MD-dg2mq
      @MD-dg2mq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      My eyes teared up, best of luck sweet soul!

  • @thiswomens
    @thiswomens 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    He's a human for humanity.

  • @onemorejill9636
    @onemorejill9636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Will forever be gratefull for J Peterson, ha single handedly changed my life, told me truths that none told me and made me feel confident about myself, not enough money could ever pay what he gave me. And seeing he's so passionate what he's doing to the point he cries made me just fall into tears as well...

  • @Maureenscosmos
    @Maureenscosmos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Jordan Peterson for President

    • @dso-nx3jy
      @dso-nx3jy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some are too dumb to trust and some are too smart trust.... I listen to JP everyday with respect, but im not sure if i would want him to be president.

    • @wintertontoday
      @wintertontoday 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      President of the world? Because Australia needs him too.

    • @kateli1880
      @kateli1880 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      NO!! You totally missed Dr. P ‘s teachings and what he’s about.
      Presidents have to follow a script what that can and cannot say and follow certain schedules and laws. You would want to shut him up, cease the lectures and feed the snakes in the white house cage and kill him?

    • @wintertontoday
      @wintertontoday 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kateli1880 You are right, yes. I keep forgetting that sort of stuff, but you're right.

    • @Big-guy1981
      @Big-guy1981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You mean Prime Minister. He's Canadian!

  • @olivia-fy2vf
    @olivia-fy2vf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This man makes me love the internet

  • @BertoldSzekeres
    @BertoldSzekeres 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Who are you? You are the thing that transforms who you are. But also, you are who you are." That reminds me of the light being both a wave and a particle at the same time. Every person has their own wave function I guess.

  • @hannahchap9764
    @hannahchap9764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    JP has helped me improve my life. I believe in constant growth and learning.

  • @carolinasoulshine8949
    @carolinasoulshine8949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    my whole being is in love with Jordan Peterson

  • @sterlingsfinancialsolution3169
    @sterlingsfinancialsolution3169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Its refreshing to see him shed tears i have seen him cry in another emotional interview on valuetainment because you can see he is a strong man and its sets the narrative that it is ok for a strong man to have emotions and shed tears anytime he wants!

    • @SugaryPhoenixxx
      @SugaryPhoenixxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Something my dad always said was that "strong men are not afraid to cry". It was kind of profound to me even as a kid.

  • @talmadgebresler9331
    @talmadgebresler9331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ego death is where you find happiness 😊

  • @kingfisher9553
    @kingfisher9553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have a picture of my late father on the wall next to my computer screen and as Jordan talks I look at my Dad and imagine him hearing this, too. I loved my Dad but he was so clueless about so much. He learned as he aged but he still had a long way to go when he died. He wouldn't have liked Jordan, because his framework was rigid as a means of protecting a very sensitive nature in a religious culture that was savage in a lot of ways. He couldn't see a way out of that culture because it also served him. He would have responded with furious defense to Jordan's assaults on his rigid framework. But I have always imagined that people can somehow be more wise after death. And in this particular picture of my father, here on the wall, he was in a playful, confident, open and loving frame of mind.

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do not say things that make you weak! This is great advice. Lying will make you weak and telling the truth will make you strong.

  • @Devusjdevusj
    @Devusjdevusj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a guy! Respect.

  • @MasterOfCope
    @MasterOfCope 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This man helped me realise who I am but also what I could become.

  • @NnaemekaAmamasi
    @NnaemekaAmamasi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Proffesor J. Peterson, i have enjoyed your class this evening. Thank you sir!

  • @julietarosales4871
    @julietarosales4871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you, Jordan Peterson .

  • @soniamilano3737
    @soniamilano3737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an amazing, insightful, caring intellectual individual. Here is someone who has actualised and has remained enlightened. Thankyou for your videos they are truly uplifting.

  • @ikawinner960
    @ikawinner960 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you dear Mr. Peterson

  • @tambaykaynero8815
    @tambaykaynero8815 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's not condemning playing video games instead he teaches us how to balance work and play routine
    He's so amazing
    He's just getting cooler and cooler

  • @fizabashir9809
    @fizabashir9809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you thank you thank you😢🙏

  • @JulzLight
    @JulzLight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful human being. ♡

  • @dojudodojudo5173
    @dojudodojudo5173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The first minute is like the story of my life. Still i remain thankful, i've got much going for me today.

  • @lordvoldemort4242
    @lordvoldemort4242 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jordan Peterson is such a honest and moral man.

  • @dannynehra6517
    @dannynehra6517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you, Dustin, for this beautiful compilation. Keep it up!
    I know Jordan would be delighted if he sees someone spreading words of wisdom. Cheers!

  • @vindicator2011
    @vindicator2011 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    A man for our current times

  • @RameshBaburbabu
    @RameshBaburbabu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    very nice compilation....... Awesome work .. keep up the good work ....I always enjoy JP clips, by this one pure gold ..

    • @DustinLarocque
      @DustinLarocque  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ramesh Babu I’m glad you enjoyed it!!

  • @NewWorldFungus
    @NewWorldFungus 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    His words are resounding to me. The hardest thing is implementing these ideas into everyday practice. Key word practice.

  • @enn4983
    @enn4983 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God is a big factor in changing us and consoling us. When I have my problem that is disturbing me, I take some time to quietly speak to him. So changing ourselves is important when necessary but turning to God in the process it even better. Jesus has told us to give him all our burdens. I praise you mighty Lord.

  • @Guts_3.7.
    @Guts_3.7. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    shit i started crying along with him at the end

  • @6alisk
    @6alisk 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a great guy Jordan Peterson is! So happy I found his videos

  • @TJ-kk5zf
    @TJ-kk5zf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    what has happened to him strangely haunts me everyday.

    • @hannahchap9764
      @hannahchap9764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      T J I just like his work. Yes, I am bothered also by his recent health issues, constantly looking for updates and deeply hoping he can fully recover.

    • @wobblebits
      @wobblebits 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Stay away from benzodiazepines. No safe dose really. Powerfully addictive and destructive.

    • @cathymorgan8670
      @cathymorgan8670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      His daughter has a channel that will give you a update

    • @NechamaGluck
      @NechamaGluck 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lolwutucrazy I know he suffered for a long time but i thought hes doing much better now?

  • @sagenosnibor9173
    @sagenosnibor9173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:16 Peterson is a BOSS how he subtly insults us, yet we continue to listen because we actually give a flip what he has to say LOL

  • @naturalisphilosophiae
    @naturalisphilosophiae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm NOT crying, YOU are crying!

  • @MichL_71
    @MichL_71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All of it, but from 12:10 😳🤕😭
    "When ppl share good news about their lives, ppl don't necessarily respond positively, they don't get encouragement, and ppl need so LITTLE encouragement, it's just unbelievable..."
    What a sad indictment.

  • @hb7202
    @hb7202 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a inspiration

  • @rajchandran
    @rajchandran 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Prof Peterson is amazing. 🙏🙏 From an Indic perspective, I find similarities in our scriptures and what he speaks. For example the split in personality is mentioned as two birds in a tree .. one constantly chittering -and the other silent, simply watching , judging

  • @sarazohar4923
    @sarazohar4923 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless this great gift of a man .I would love to touch his feet as a sign of my respect to his words .May G_d keep you healthy with the wife you love.

  • @hb7202
    @hb7202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He's like a new Jung

  • @SebiJupanu
    @SebiJupanu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    when tragedy befalls us, that's when we find how much truth he speaks

  • @mooalijasmine
    @mooalijasmine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Super Awesome synopsis!

  • @Balance-h
    @Balance-h 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A person constantly learn and change with time. Being true to self and forgiveness is the best wY to build life. Emptiness is reality and we learn from every experience. So suffering is a state of mind and over come. Enjoy and embrace everything including pain. Move on. If there is no answer then be that question. Don't put your self in a circle and try to fit in to it. Embrace life as it is. Just be happy to breath and see the sunlight. That's what life is. World is big. Be a free person.

  • @russelltewell3031
    @russelltewell3031 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I dont leave many comments, But when I read all the comments I find that I relate with all the accumulated emotion delivered by all these people. And I'm greatful during this tumultuous time. Jordan said once roughly that we need to pick up our suffering and bear it!. Not form a Damn mob because it justifies all pur worst qualities to do evil. Without consequence. When I look at the protest and those who use it to that exact end undermining the true purpose to insatiate their worst qualities. Sad day in the world. But we can be the kinda of people jordan believes we could be if we would adopt his principles.
    Not to offend anyone but those principles are strongly rooted in the word of God the holy bible. God bless you all.

  • @anetmichalska5922
    @anetmichalska5922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is a person how really care

  • @hopefull7904
    @hopefull7904 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don’t sacrifice who you could be for who you are

  • @crouchingwombathiddenquoll5641
    @crouchingwombathiddenquoll5641 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good bloke 👍

  • @Phantxmsayshi_
    @Phantxmsayshi_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a man.

  • @jorgecrowtatsrodriguez4793
    @jorgecrowtatsrodriguez4793 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    When he tears up I understand him more

  • @wishes8737
    @wishes8737 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    God I love this man

  • @asanvigyan9275
    @asanvigyan9275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    4:00 Two birds living together, each the friend of the other, perch upon the same tree. Of these two, one eats the sweet fruit of the tree, but the other simply looks on without eating. The two birds are the Jiva and Isvara, both existing in an individual compared to a tree. They exist together as the reflection and the original.
    - Mundaka Upanishad

  • @radmilagnjidic5310
    @radmilagnjidic5310 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    One word awesome.

  • @stantonwebb6032
    @stantonwebb6032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man might’ve revivified not just masculinity but Western values

  • @mr20barefoot
    @mr20barefoot 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    J.P. knows that when people share the good news in their life, it has an equivalent pain behind their transformation.... knowing or realizing that, i think it somehow hurts him without him conciously knowing even if he is glad on hearing the good news...

  • @markthorsby2875
    @markthorsby2875 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like the idea that you should not let your becoming be sacrificed for your being. This implies that becoming precedes being, but in what sense. I think there is a very deep insight here, but it runs counter to two and a half thousand years of philosophical tradition. Or so it would seem.

  • @tanyadreschel6040
    @tanyadreschel6040 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very interesting and you are extremely intelligent! Thank you

  • @junkjunk2493
    @junkjunk2493 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow great compilation ... thanks

  • @devanshusharma4568
    @devanshusharma4568 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's called love, what you do.

  • @VelvetJazz
    @VelvetJazz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jordan CARES.

  • @The1stDukeDroklar
    @The1stDukeDroklar 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry to interrupt but i need to get this to Mr. Peterson and any that will listen...
    I am extremely OCD and I have applied that to studying the Bible, it's root,s and it's origins in ancient myths as well as a myriad of other subjects.... for the better part of 55 years.
    The Bible is actually a very complex set of interconnected riddles. The wheels within wheels mentioned in Ezekiel's vision which have eyes all around the outside of the wheels... of the riddles. In other words, the riddles can be seen from many perspectives.
    I have unlocked the secrets of what is called the "scroll with writing on both sides" in the Bible. The person that unlocks that... is supposed to be the Christ of the second coming.... according to the Bible.
    I have mountains of evidence that what i claim is true. However, in this day n age of so much bullsheet out there... very few even look into what i say. Furthermore, the churches do not want to hear it because the priests are quite comfortable with things the way they are. They do not want to believe in anything that disrupts their meal ticket and sense of superiority over the parishioners. Also, they do not want to think about anything that disturbs their "blind faith" in Dogma... which is hiding the truth from them.
    Most people.... and i do not mean this as a put-down.. it's simply the truth... do not have the attention span to actually look into what i claim.
    Anyone can see this truth... if they actually listen and are not simply looking to disprove it rather than listening with an OPEN MIND. Most people's minds are closed... as they are too mentally lazy (one of the 7 deadly sins... mental sloth).
    I can explain scientifically the Miracles of Christ... as well as prove everything else within the Bible by using it's own scriptures. But not like you have EVER heard before.... hence why the scroll is sealed and I have opened it and can read it! Which according to revelations in the Bible... that makes me the Lamb/Lion Christ of the "end times".
    Miracles of Jesus:
    ------------------------------
    Walking on Water:
    ------------------------------
    1- Jesus lived in Egypt from the ages of 13-30. The Egyptians knew from the mummification process, that the human body is made of mostly water.
    2- The fleshy bottoms of your feet are made of "mostly water". So it is a RIDDLE! The answer to this Riddle is... EVERYBODY walks on water and therefore it is TRUE that Jesus could walk on water... GET IT?
    -------------------------------------------------
    Healing the Deaf and the Blind:
    -------------------------------------------------
    1- Have you ever seen the so-called "miracles" in this "light" before? No you have not.
    2- Have you ever heard the miracles in this way before? NO you have not.
    3- Then could you not say in a philosophical way... i just cured the Blind and the Deaf? Yes, and anyone with an honest and open mind would have to admit that.
    --------------------------------------------
    Lucifer: the Bringer of Light
    --------------------------------------------
    1- Nowhere in the Bible does it associate Lucifer with an evil Angel. That was done by the Catholics around 500 years ago.
    2- The name "Lucifer" in Latin means... The Bringer of Light! Or Light Bearer!
    2.1- In Greek it is "Phosphorus" .... another burning Light source.
    2.3- Eosphorus and Hesperos (Hesperus) were the gods of the star "morning and evening Star" of Venus. They were originally regarded as two distinct divinities--the first, whose name means "Dawn-Bringer," was the god of the dawn-star, while the second, "Evening," was the star of dusk. (Note my Alias of LucYfYre and the title i use... Arch of Twilight... twilight is when you can see the "morning and evening Star... ARCH Angel... Get it?)
    3- Have i not just shed "New Light" on these riddles in the Bible? Yes, i have. I also have many, far more profound and disturbing answers to riddles... than these samplers.
    4- Could it not be said that i just brought light... where there used to be darkness (the darkness of confusion because of a lack of understanding) on these things? Yes, and it cannot be denied by any intelligent and intellectually honest person. You could call the truth of what i say as being "self-evident"
    5- Since i have shed Light on these things... could i not be called... the Bringer of Light? Yes... i can be called that and it would be fitting.
    -------------------
    Conclusion:
    -------------------
    I AM who I claim to be. The ONE that is prophesied to unlock the mysteries of the Bible. Note that these prophecies are older than 2000 years as the bible used the ancient "Holy Scrolls" to form the Bible by the Roman Emperor Constantine.
    The reason the Scroll has writing on both sides is:
    1- The riddles have hidden meanings and Jesus and others said they are speaking in code. "SO those with eyes... may not see. So those with ears... may not hear".
    2- It also has writing on both sides because the DogMa has "TWISTED" the understanding of these hidden riddles... like twisting a towel that has writing on it. In the twisted tube shape.. the writing appears to be all around the tube and hence... writing on both sides.
    🔥⚡😈LucYfYre👼⚡🔥
    Arch of Twilight
    The Bringer of Light... in the Darkness

  • @charlotte8659
    @charlotte8659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whatever turns your crank, man

  • @LeaLittleDanishGirl
    @LeaLittleDanishGirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    9:07 Love this! 😂👍
    10:51

  • @mikebrisebois
    @mikebrisebois 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    People who say this man is controversial and dangerous are on the dark side of morality

  • @atharvdawolf398
    @atharvdawolf398 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In short be yourself don't try to copy anyone. Shake your self reflection and catch 🎣 it

  • @subzero5853
    @subzero5853 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn, just wow. I used to watch Rick and Morty a lot and almost looked up to Rick, not cos of the things he did, but just for his intellect and ability to make any situation favourable for him. But after this video, its so sad watching him waste his life away. He creates so many incredible inventions and goes on so many cool adventures, but he only does it because he's succumbed to the meaninglessness of life. With all that power, all that knowledge, and no end goal in mind, its such a waste of potential.
    This isn't just about Rick. Its about the caricature of an incredibly smart person believing that life is meaningless, and the belief that that realization means that they see through life's facade and have somehow "beat" life at its own game. But I understand now that thats not the case. Its in fact losing at life, because to win at life would be to adopt responsiblity and find meaning - even if everything is inherently meaningless. People like that waste so much potential and its so heartbreaking to watch, because the solution is just within reach.
    "Have a goal. It doesn't matter what that goal is, just pick a damn goal and strive for it, and you will find meaning" (I'm paraphrasing slightly)
    I really hope people stop looking up to people like Rick. Most people see him as a monster, but a lot (like myself in the past) admired him, dazzled by his intellect and wit. We were so wrong

    • @booognish
      @booognish 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      subzero How about not looking up to or being dazzled by fictional cartoon characters at all?

    • @subzero5853
      @subzero5853 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@booognish Good stories convey ideas that are rooted in reality. To dismiss them all as merely "fiction" is closing your mind off to so many interesting perspectives. It's not rick that I was "dazzled" by, he did some terrible things. It was the idea of Rick that I looked up to, the idea that if your smart enough and you believe life is meaningless, you can get out of anything and you've essentially "beaten" life. But now I see how that idea is wrong, you don't beat life by seeing through its facade, you beat life by surrendering to it, adopting responsibility and making the most out of it.
      I love TV and movies because they contain so many amazing ideas. I hope you don't continue with the mindset of "stories are stories and there's nothing in them but entertainment", because you're missing out on so much

    • @booognish
      @booognish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      subzero I get it, and I love Rick and Morty. Just good that you’re looking more towards real people for influence and inspiration, in my opinion. Fiction is great, and I wouldn’t be who I am today without some of it, (although more so stories themselves rather than specific characters) but I’ve seen people deconstruct characters from tv shows and pretend that they can offer meaningful lessons in psychology and personality, citing emotional reactions of others in response to the character, basically ignoring the fact that they’re all paid actors reading a script/animated cartoons with paid voice actors. I guess “Charisma on Command” is the most notorious example. I just find it to be well edited but useless nonsense and occasionally even having a potentially negative affect on viewers seeking something found on a much more relevant and scientific level in videos like Professor Peterson’s... There’s an unbearable plague of “self help/motivational ‘gurus’” spreading on TH-cam and I pictured in my head someone giving a pseudo academic lecture on Rick as if it’s not a cartoon with inter dimensional space travel and anti pickle serum.. There’s definite emotional/psychological depth to the stories, but as you’ve come to realize, it’s a bit depression inducing to read to much into. The main theme is nihilism, and the universe in which they exist repeatedly justifies and reinforces Ricks philosophy. Which is basically why I made my comment, because it’s not that Ricks philosophy is “wrong”, it’s perfectly pragmatic and logical when you have access to alternate dimensions and whatnot. Worst case scenario you scan alternative timelines and zap in just in time to bury the recently deceased bodies of yourself, taking their place before anyone can see, and in time for dinner. But if I decide life is meaningless and drunk drive myself into a vegetative state, there’s no auto activated contingency plan or council of ricks to save the day. The only thing you can “get out of”, with the view that life is meaningless, are the moral boundaries of religion, and the expectations/institutions of society. Commit “sins” with no fear or emotional toll, drop out of school and do heroin on the street, abandon your children, never get married, never work, die young and cease to exist.
      The real challenge is to balance the likely reality that the only meaning in life is created and embraced by yourself. It’s not about an afterlife, faith, or worship. It’s about your passion, your own meaning, your true will. Then you end up like me, 28 years old, father to two children with a girl I barely knew, desperately trying to make it work, feeling consistently unprepared with the weight of every decision multiplied by a lot, spending large chunks of time lying awake at night trying to envision a positive future, and having lost the familiar comfort of a nihilistic view.. Once you create a life it kinda overtakes that, whether or not my death is me ceasing to exist in a meaningless fizzle, my little girls and their mom are out in the world. The only perspective I can inhabit is the present, so I gotta be a good father for them, which involves at the very least a begrudging embrace of the constructs of society: work, housing, marriage and whatnot.. Now I’m a lot more Jerry than I am Rick and it’s wiggity whack, hence why I’m writing insanely long comments on a TH-cam video.

    • @booognish
      @booognish 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      subzero subzero subzero tl;dr , there’s really no “beating” life. You are most likely going to have to see through the facade either way, acknowledge and accept the likelihood of a “meaningless” reality, and make decisions based on personal desires and relevant circumstances. Some people are not built to fit within the socially constructed bounds of modern life. If they “beat” life by surrendering to responsibilities and “making the most” of the incompatible societal structure they’re existing in.... until they murder their family and then kill themselves. ANYWAY, yes, surrendering to the monotonous bullshit of day to day life, fake smiles, feigned interest, voluntary enslavement to your job and eventually marriage/family... I naturally grew to crave that, working to put myself closer to it, (better job, into work early, working overtime, buying a home, drastic reduction in alcohol/nicotine intake, scraps of free time spent almost exclusively with kids and their mom..)
      and acceptance that my life now has meaning, and therefore every remotely serious decision or action now has meaning attached to it. FUCK it’s some heavy shit... I would assign a significance to my story like you did with Rick, and learn from it..

    • @subzero5853
      @subzero5853 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@booognish Wow, thats really insightful. Ya TV and movies have helped me so much, but your so right, the decisions the characters make and their beliefs that make sense in their fictional world do not necessarily translate well into the real world. Everything just makes so much sense in fiction, thier worlds are all so interesting and clear, but also simpler, in a way. Your definately right about using real people as more definitive role models, but its also see value in pondering ideas that aren't necessarily applicable to the world now. Mainly because its interesting and it works the imaginative/creative part of your mind, and it can lead to epiphanies and new ideas that can be applicable today. Additionally, the world is always changing. For example, its plausible that there can be multiple universes out there. Travelling between them is a completely different story, however, what if multiple universes exist, and someone from another multiverse travelled here. We'd need new ideas to help wrap our head around that. Ideas that were never applicable to the real world before that point.
      But your right in saying that with more responsiblity comes higher priorities, higher than pondering over fictional worlds. I'm not at that stage in my life yet (marraige and a job), but I never want to lose the ability to imagine/create ideas that stem from fiction. Its like how the universe began, if theres enough chaos, enough random meaninglessness, order will emerge. I believe that truly amazing ideas can form out of the thousands of dumb fictional what ifs that play out in your head.
      It's so great that your adopting responsibility and that you got out of the comfort of nihilism. Your family needs that, society needs that. Nihilism is not helpful as a belief, but its extremely helpful as a stepping stone. I believe that in order to construct your own meaning, you must first accept that theres no predetermined meaning. Only then, with the deconstruction of everything, can you build it back up the way you want it to be and gain valuable beliefs that you can live by. But you gotta build it back up and search for your meaning, you can't just break it down and leave it. I do hope that you find happiness though. Its amazing that your pulling so much weight trying to make it work for your family and society, but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't be happy. Easier said than done, I know. I choose movies, TV and music for my quick sources of happiness, but I don't believe its sustainable (cos what happens after the TV show/song ends). I am trying to find unconditional happiness from within me. I've achieved it at certain points, and it made everything around me so much better.
      I've found that the world feels kinder if your happy.

  • @francisforrester8407
    @francisforrester8407 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think this is our Nietzsche

  • @chrysalis72
    @chrysalis72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had anego death when betrayed by my son and not unexpectedly my ex husband. I always knew he would leave me but my son killed my soul it was so sad and unfair but his dad wouldn't allow him both parents. Npd.

    • @latinaalma1947
      @latinaalma1947 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      TWo choices, to die as a person, to never grow to,turn inward to a private hell or to move forward but give up the most precious thing I had to that date. I sacrificed that most precious, not easily, not without despair and the deepest regret of my life . I told myself HIS life would be better for me going. I made a life then like I could never have imagined before..of purpose, of fulfillment, of love. I remade myself into a proper grounded intelligent and better being with much work. THen 45 years later I found instead of giving my sacrificial son a better life I instead put him in grievous harm from a source that had not even existed when I left him. He is now wounded at his very core to the degree that there is nothing I can do to save him, nothing, though I have saved so many others. The irony of THAT, that my most precious in the world can now never be whole and that I chose myself to save myself not knowing that saving myself is what would condemn HIM, is hard to bear. Yet I do know that had I stayed he would have been destroyed anyway and me along WITH him, does not make it easier to bear. One life saved and one life ruined or two lives ruined together,which choice would I MAKE had I known the future? I cannot say. SYbil Francis PhD academic and practising psychologist

    • @chrysalis72
      @chrysalis72 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@latinaalma1947 i had no choice my son wants to stay with him and i have tried to explain and give him resources to help, i cant take a 17 Yr old boy and force him out of the cult and it doesnt help nobody understands what im talking about. Im a broken woman at his devotion to a monster he even helped them terrorise me for brownie points. All I hear seeing him is his fathers put downs slipped into conversation like hes doing me a favour. Dont wear those clothes like you have money when everyone knows you dont. That was yesterday. Will he ever realise.

    • @latinaalma1947
      @latinaalma1947 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chrysalis72 Things may change, things dont remain static forever, nor do people.....try to be as positive with yourself as you can....so if he sees for himself what is happening you will have grown and made your life better. Lead by example....hard to reason with a 17 yr old.
      I know my son now sees me as a positive role model bec he can see for himself I have built a happy satisfying life....yours will too one day...be the person you want to be so he can grow into the person he will want to be...you will show him it CAN be done when he recognizes later he wants that for himself.....

  • @lotuselegance7101
    @lotuselegance7101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I book in Hostels twice a year 2stay humble

  • @amberchaba1148
    @amberchaba1148 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im definatly dying. 👌

  • @geronimolives6926
    @geronimolives6926 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there a compilation of his teachings that would not be to advanced or intimidating for the average 5th or 6th grade kid? At least Junior high School.

  • @lavoxii
    @lavoxii 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is anyone here can explain what the “ego death” (“everything is collapsed” ) he said, but why in some explanations, it sounds ego death is a good thing to have?

    • @DustinLarocque
      @DustinLarocque  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can look at ego death as the loss of your subjective identity. The ego is an image/idea of who you are but it doesn't exist outside of your own mind. There may come a point in your life when this idea of "you" collapses and it may seem as though you have no identity. There was this person who you once were and now you aren't that person anymore. You may try to go back to being that person again but life has changed so you can't go back. That's an ego death and now you have found the self. You can stay in that state but from there you typically build a new ego. To say something is good or bad is to make a judgment. If you are looking to change your life or transform your personality then it is likely a good thing to experience.

  • @piotr780
    @piotr780 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    After which material this (3:40) have happened?

  • @henryblazer20
    @henryblazer20 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes he talks so smart that I can’t follow what he means

    • @coolangelhouse
      @coolangelhouse 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Henry Petty keep listening and you will understand slowly slowly

  • @billymills4238
    @billymills4238 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    what video is this from?

  • @lobintool
    @lobintool 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if let go and I'm not caught?

  • @Jsamul1
    @Jsamul1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jesus loves you.

  • @unknown-2486
    @unknown-2486 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Like a GrandFather. ;-;

  • @stuckbarry4163
    @stuckbarry4163 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hazmat suits. Really wish they sold hazmat suits right now.

  • @DestxnyAngel
    @DestxnyAngel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does he study astrology?

  • @obduliaaguilar5301
    @obduliaaguilar5301 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍🏽

  • @inilashremot1058
    @inilashremot1058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +861

    He's like this gardener who is helping flowers reach the sunlight. Without having to carry even one.

    • @stevejyd
      @stevejyd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Beautiful

    • @neonlights___3521
      @neonlights___3521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love this ❤️

    • @robertlorenz2492
      @robertlorenz2492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Inilash Remot that’s beautiful

    • @f.h.6916
      @f.h.6916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What a lovely way to describe him, very accurately put

    • @wilfredv1930
      @wilfredv1930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lovely comment

  • @Lukeskywanka
    @Lukeskywanka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +926

    Father that some of us never had...

    • @g32.recitales
      @g32.recitales 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I have a father, but he never taught me what Jordan keeps teaching me... and that's sad... I don't want to be like that to my son.

    • @dizur3052
      @dizur3052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@OneLifeTime.x so did you find god first or? And by god do you mean the biblical god or? I'm just curious

    • @OneLifeTime.x
      @OneLifeTime.x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dizur3052 well, on that... I felt internal connection to greater things all my life... Didn't know it was called God cause those who were with God in religion were not nice. The term By God I meant like my goodness, good Lord, you know?...

    • @dizur3052
      @dizur3052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@OneLifeTime.x perfect lol I just wondered how your god would have stood up against Peterson's ideas of gods if it was the Christian god you spoke of is all lol

    • @dizur3052
      @dizur3052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Btw do you sing too bruv? Your pretty slick with the gat🤔

  • @lexiemaep7930
    @lexiemaep7930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I was in a 17 year relationship with a narcissist. He had an affair with my twin for 17 years of the relationship and I didn't find out until the end. It was hard but I forgave them and I went from being codependent, depressive, and agoraphobic to independent, confident, happy, and self reliant in 2 years. This guy has helped. Meditation and water fasting has also helped. It is possible to recreate yourself but the hardest part is letting go of the old self. Embrace the change don't fear it! The old self was not serving me or helping me. I am finally happy and healthy. Changing my self talk and my paradigm was difficult, changing my friend circle was hard. But I'm so glad I changed. My ex was abusive on every level and even broke my nose twice and fractured my skull leading to severe migraines at a rate of 7 per month, but now that I'm away from him the migraines have gone down to 1 per month and some months zero! Yay. I'm just so happy to be away from him.

    • @nagsterthegangster3548
      @nagsterthegangster3548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Im proud of you

    • @iggypeabody62
      @iggypeabody62 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you for YOU, you are beautiful.

    • @mirrandamaya
      @mirrandamaya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This is the best news ..good for u...it is not easy to change certain aspects of ourselves... let alone forgive like that 👍🏼😘

    • @lexiemaep7930
      @lexiemaep7930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@nagsterthegangster3548 ❤thank you! I honestly barely recognize the new me lol. When I think back to who I was in the marriage and after it ended I'm surprised. I had zero self esteem from the emotional/ psychological abuse and what I can only describe as PTSD from the physical abuse. But today, I have no anxiety, no depression, a healthy self esteem, I am happy being single. I'm loving life! Lol. I feel like I was released from prison lol.

    • @dre4505
      @dre4505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lexiemaep7930 bless you

  • @letsgetit32
    @letsgetit32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    The world needs more of him

    • @stevepidge
      @stevepidge 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No, it needs more of you and me.

    • @Adnilas
      @Adnilas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He’s workin on that haha

    • @AngusStewart01
      @AngusStewart01 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn Right

  • @abrantie
    @abrantie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    Only God knows what emotions was triggered in him whiles he spoke at the final minute. We miss u Jordan, praying for u

    • @cathymorgan8670
      @cathymorgan8670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I pray for him and his family daily ... I feel his meaning is so very valuable to so many ... He has a message people could benefit from hearing ...

    • @lm2487
      @lm2487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Jordan is a great man. He is almost too smart for his own good. Many times he has said that he is prone to depression. With depression comes the tendency to cry very easily. I see that in many of his talks. I feel that the benzo addiction that has been reported is only part of his difficulty. Depression is a big part.

    • @royaltykonceptz
      @royaltykonceptz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What happened to him???

    • @AnnaLVajda
      @AnnaLVajda 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He's intense he lectures like that because he really cares and he gets undue criticism which is hard on him too sometimes but since he knows he is supposed to be helping he neglects his own need for support sometimes. Wish we could do more for him.

    • @emisama7800
      @emisama7800 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think he is fine being criticized it only affirms the opponent is listening and got the message but is struggling with accepting for now. It’s great because he isn’t here to argue but make mindful so how others react is not his problem but glad you get noticed for them. Not him. Also I hope he will play more with kids. That will help him lighten his deepness.

  • @geronimolives6926
    @geronimolives6926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    His way of explaining these things without insulting people's intelligence or putting them on the defense is done with confidence and strength. Too often now it's either arrogance or weakness.

  • @wintertontoday
    @wintertontoday 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    He is the loveliest, most loving, quality intellectual of this generation. 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

    • @shirleyman7612
      @shirleyman7612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Very well-said!!!👍👍👍Agree💯

    • @AnnabellaRedwood
      @AnnabellaRedwood 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is one of the biggest blessings we have. I couldn't agree with you more. 💕

  • @robertbruce262
    @robertbruce262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    I wish Jordan Peterson had been around when I was twenty.

    • @KennethSee
      @KennethSee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I found him at 27 and wish it was earlier too.

    • @maggiecarlos7622
      @maggiecarlos7622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@KennethSee you're totally blessed Kenneth...I found JP at 60 and my life is changing 😊😊. Thanks to JP I still learn each day. You go for it Kenneth See .

    • @thompsontravels1627
      @thompsontravels1627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Don’t wish you had seen him at 20, be so grateful and happy that he was born into this world and you can witness his power 😊✌🏼

    • @hollygrace6814
      @hollygrace6814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ive had him since i was 20 and i am very grateful

    • @okami425
      @okami425 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can relate. I’m glad I’ve found him now in my earlier twenties. He’s had a profound effect on my life. This man inspires me.

  • @sebsebseb1905
    @sebsebseb1905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    To me he is the closest thing we get to see a living saint, tell me the way he helps a great number of people is not a miracle in itself and he does this everytime someone is watching his videos and changes his life for the good and he doesn't even has to be there, his miracle will go on forever healing souls long after he is gone, how is that not a miracle? I praise you, saint.

    • @miriamchampness497
      @miriamchampness497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, yes, and again yes!

    • @sherlockinsomniac
      @sherlockinsomniac 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Patron saint of meninists everywhere. We'll build statues of him and sacrifice lobsters at their feet. And whenever a feminist tweets about equity, we all pray three hail jordans.

    • @sebsebseb1905
      @sebsebseb1905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sherlockinsomniac sacrifice the lobster in you :))))))

    • @wintertontoday
      @wintertontoday 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed 100% and if not, he is surely a Godly man.

    • @BreezeLeg-mo4jh
      @BreezeLeg-mo4jh 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good comparison

  • @davidbouchard5451
    @davidbouchard5451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    you know, i’ve tried to hate this dude for his political spats and news around him, but i don’t think it’s possible to hate this man and know him, even just a little bit beyond headlines.
    like, there’s also something so incredibly honorable and noble about worrying about bettering how people are before worrying about who people are.
    he’s a true physician of the mind, first and foremost, it seems.

    • @leoluna319
      @leoluna319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      David, I appreciate you for sharing this. It's a big deal to be able to look past someone's political viewpoint & actually open yourself up to learning from that person's mind. A rare trait among people on this day & age. 👍

    • @Robert-xn3dc
      @Robert-xn3dc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The awesome thing about this David is it seems to me to be exactly what he is talking about as far as moving forward beyond ways of thinking to better ourselves. I think it is a lower level of consciousness to simply think there are two political sides and that everyone on your side is correct and everyone not on your side is incorrect vice versa, and unfortunately the media seems to in many ways be trapped in this lower level of consciousness, however if we truly want to reach our full potential as people we really need to move beyond this way of thinking.

    • @psilocybemusashi
      @psilocybemusashi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      omg you must be a liberal. i am so sorry for you.

    • @quantumreality2009
      @quantumreality2009 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are correct....he comes across as true wisdom and actual life science and observations of the human dynamic.....he maybe “politically “ on the other side of the spectrum (if that even exist) but at the end his purpose is genuinely and consistently “color blind” awareness of rationality as essential for having a good life and being a good person.....

    • @falonsfox2585
      @falonsfox2585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@psilocybemusashi That's a shitty way to react to someone extending an olive branch. And it shows you're not really absorbing what Peterson is saying.

  • @lifeisgood070
    @lifeisgood070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    He's got a big vision for sure and the ability and potential to put it into motion. It's inspiring to watch.

  • @charlottehanna3860
    @charlottehanna3860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Dr. Peterson. Whatever is going on with your health, please know that this, too, shall pass. Take care of yourself. The whole World needs you. Please be strong for yourself and us. Much love to you always, Dear One. You are precious.

    • @easterlee2143
      @easterlee2143 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear Charlotte, He is back on his channel now, with better health. Hope you see this! :)

  • @seppyteppy
    @seppyteppy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    “AYO THATS MY GUY PETERSON THO!!!”
    But for real, his teachings really shifted my perspective to the point where it clicked as a complete version of me. Just like a chaotic sculpture art peice where its a bunh of seemingly unrelated things until you look it from the right perspective that “clicks” it all into place a complete and unmistakable form of something meaningful.

    • @sandhya797
      @sandhya797 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where can I get a full lecture of this?

  • @ktp3791
    @ktp3791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Under Yeshua , Jordan Peterson is the greatest public speaker to ever walk the Earth.

    • @AEHudg
      @AEHudg 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chill.. My mans Malcolm X tho

    • @ktp3791
      @ktp3791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AEHudg , Malcolm x as are many others great powerful speakers with something very important to say but the articulate and concise way that Jordan speaks on many subjects including the Bible is why I day that ...

  • @babeabang
    @babeabang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I am muslim and love his thougts so much. It transformed me a lot. God bless you Jordan Peterson

  • @mellowyellow532
    @mellowyellow532 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Ahhhhh, I've listened to him now for about 3 years but really got into him just maybe 4-6 months ago I was very sceptical in the beginning, without really listening to him I simply assumed he was overrated. But no. No. Not at all. I am actually now gonna print out a picture of this man's face and pin it on my wall, and I am really not the type of person to do such things usually.

  • @lindsayobrien7950
    @lindsayobrien7950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    When this man cries I have hope in humanity❤️

  • @giustinosuarez8711
    @giustinosuarez8711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Im cleaning my room so I’m listening to each of Jordan’s videos in the background to maintain motivation.

    • @subhadravm9973
      @subhadravm9973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I began cleaning up my house about a month ago. Not bragging, but i have come a long way since then. My priorities are in better order now. I finally have a decent five-year plan, and it's the lockdown that's stopping me right now from doing much more.
      God bless Dr. Peterson.

  • @Danyboy97
    @Danyboy97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I just want to meet Jordan Peterson one day and tell him “ Sir you played a big role in my life and I really want to thank u for what today I am”.

    • @adinamazzucco
      @adinamazzucco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too..reading his book watching his videos and doing his self authoring program triggered huge changes in my life two years ago. I've come so far and give him much credit.

    • @Danyboy97
      @Danyboy97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Adina Mazzucco he speaks from the core of his heart and that matters a lot. His speech is synchronised and always make sense

    • @cathymorgan8670
      @cathymorgan8670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You could write him a email .. Or send a message .. He will read it .. When he needs to feel he has been helping other .. That's all his wants is to help others to have better more meaningful lives .... And if we get lucky find happiness ... he is funny too ...

    • @Danyboy97
      @Danyboy97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cathy Morgan yeah I certainly would email him.

    • @Ahmetfusta
      @Ahmetfusta 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You know what you should do that would probably make him even happier? Walk up to the mirror and say all those things to yourself. He might have ignited a spark but YOU are the one that helped YOU most. Be proud of yourself, YOU did this! and keep that positive energy going to improve even more. You could hit rock bottom again tomorrow but never forget today and how you got yourself back up.

  • @nabealhachoud7115
    @nabealhachoud7115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This man saves souls more than all politicians combined

    • @lightbeforethetunnel
      @lightbeforethetunnel 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Politics is set up so only people who care about themselves only *can* make it far enough to have any real power. Someone with a conscience can't make it anywhere near the top in politics.

  • @rylandbrown8874
    @rylandbrown8874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You can tell this man is in his field of PASSION by the last minute of this video. Just watching that sparked mine. Thank you Jordan B Peterson 🙏