What To Do To Be Successful | Jordan B Peterson
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If you are in your teens and twenties, consider yourself lucky to have found Dr. Peterson at this time in your life. No BS, just the straight dope.
im 19 and my friends call me crazy for listening to jordan peterson and others like david goggins
I'm 17 thank you
I found JBP during the darkest time in my life last year. The impact that he’s had on my life is astounding. I’m so thankful to have found him, and I hope to be able to pass his lessons onto my future kids.
@@finessinglife9257 What does goggins teach?
@@lucasliew7902 to stay hard! After listening to him he makes you want to go run and do something
Nothing will motivate me to exercise more than knowing that if I don't, my brain is not getting the oxygen it needs to stay healthy.
Vahva Fitness on YT,
I'm not being paid
As a thin asian girl, just look at some of these American walking heart attacks and you'll get motivated enough......
Whatever turns your crank
Frank Yu turning cranks can be good exercise, man 💪
Thuy Nguyen: man does not live by air alone, but by the God's truth.
As Johann Wolfgang von Goethe said, "there are none more enslaved, than those who falsely think they're free."
But since Peterson is employed licensed and accredited by the state, he won't address that. Psychology is the SCIENCE of validating the state oligarchy by Gaslighting the individual. He is just a political puppet, who engages in Political Abuse of Psychiatry to validate its power, while maintaining the delusion of liberty and democracy under government-dictated ultimatums called "elections."
He is like an inspirational speaker but without the bullshit.
Kshitij Kulshreshtha exactly
Psychonaut this man is known world class psychologist how make millions of dollars each , and help a lot of people on personal level ,, he suffers from chronic depression which he is very open about .. that doesn’t make him a clown , no one is perfect in this life , and at least he’s trying... now tell me what the hell did you do with your life ?
EXACTLY!!! I was just thinking that.
Psychonaut Him suffering from chronic depression has nothing to do with his message. His message has touched and helped possibly millions of people who are trying to sort their lives out. His lectures and books have been watched and read by millions around the world and have also changed the course of the lives of millions around the world. And then you come and call him a clown? I’m not here to defend the man cause to be honest his work speaks of itself so I’m not gonna go deeper into that. But I’m just baffled that after this man has dedicated almost all his life for the betterment of humanity some people like you are so filled with hate that the moment the man slips up they call him a clown. That’s very sad man I hope you really reevaluate the way you speak about people in general and I hope you could use your words in a way that is beneficial rather than degrading to anyone suffering from an actual problem.
Psychonaut First of all, it's a fallacy to conclude that because he has a pharmaceutical dependence that the things he says are invalid. Second, just because a field is a soft science doesn't mean it has no value.
If you actually listen to what he says, much of it is self-evident, particularly in this video. You're not arguing against anything he says, you've just decided that if a person is ever overwhelmed by a weakness, they are worthless.
The father that I never had. The advice that I always needed.
This is pretty much what my parents said about success to me growing up, repeatedly, endlessly. It became like background noise. Maybe it's because I'm getting older or Dr. Peterson's knack for clarity (likely both) but somehow I can hear and believe when he says it.
Please don't think this is to criticize my folks, lord knows they tried and still do...
if you dont have a good dad/role model then find one. jordan peterson is great
@abcd3625 My instinct is not to mock, but I feel really sad too. I feel sad that anyone has to grasp at Peterson as some father figure which he clearly isn't. He will never speak to most of his audience in person, never really give them time or attention, yet he is at the tip of their tongue as "the father" they never had. Wonder what their actual fathers feel about their sons and their sad attachment to Peterson. Maybe they should instead fix their relationship to their own father and give him a chance. Teach him to be a better father, a better role model.
naryainc you and abc should vent your irrational beliefs to councillors that can show you why you think that! Psycho you’re doing well take information from a pool of good individuals to avoid major bias! Jordan Peterson is just a guy who has studied and examined a lot. Yeah you might think he has a cult behind him and if that’s true I’m happy someone’s sticking up against the other growing cults. I wouldn’t even think cult is a appropriate word in this case and I would really suggest you read up on cults in history very deeply before throwing around such a vulgar term
It's ok. There will always be people who will want to mock an idea/way of thinking, or those who don't agree/believe. It doesn't diminish what is said [in this case what Peterson is teaching] & how those of us who do find value in what he says will use it.
I also don't think people should confuse the wishing for good/ sage advice [that most people would wish to have known earlier] with wanting a tight/tighter relationship with a parent- not necessarily the same thing at all. There's so much more to a 'father figure/ relationship' than sound advice.
The more I listen to him, the more I realize that I have to improve my English first
I feel ya brother xD
He speaks very high level english
@@arogueburrito He does, and he makes all of our English better by listening to him. Thanks Jordan Peterson.
This is university level English there are very specific psychology terms that he is using that only about 5% of English speakers would actually know the meaning
@@raffcummins oh i see, sometimes i scroll down in comments to read other people's favourite line from the video that they had quoted and futher explained. That kinda helps lol.
The worst part about every Jordan Peterson video is when it ends
@abcd3625 oh cuz you’re so smert huh
Forever interrupted 😂🔥🐐
It's good that ends so people can actually go out and apply these principles. Many people will sit and watch an infinite string of videos if possible, yet nothing will change.
No. It's when there's a sudden ad popping out of nowhere.
@@scahsaint6249 ya that's a nice thought, but most people will just watch another one 😂
We can't wait for fresh content Dr. Peterson. Godspeed to your total health recovery.
Why ? What health problem does he have?
@@ivaldinissan3638I believe he was dependant on an antidepressant. It wasn't recovery from an addiction, but more so detox
@@arogueburrito Oh ok I hope he recovers quick too... Thanks!
@@ivaldinissan3638 theres a video of his daughter explaining it on yt
@@raymondmaglaris4149 Ok I will see it thanks again
1. IQ - Exercise (Aerobic + Anaerobic)
2. Conscientiousness (Orderliness and Industriousness)
a. Specify goals and vision that you actually value
- What would you want from your friendships?
- What would you want from your intimate relationship
- How would you like to structure your family
- What do you want for your career
- How are you going to use your time outside of your job
- How are you gonna regulate your mental and physical health + drug and alcohol use
b. Micro-habits (Schedule) - that make every day worth living and stick to it
- Set up the best possible day you could
- Responsibility + Reward
This is a great little recap post-video. Thank you.
Good outline. People also need to learn to expect sabotage and failure, not necessarily correlated. And success means different things to different people. Thanks
Thank you @Jacky
Thanks, champ!
Thanks man.
Whatever turns your crank, man
This always makes me laugh. I'm laughing so hard even now.
Hilarious
🤦♂️
@Psychonaut you've expressed your opinion on several people's comments, please leave me be. I'm not interested in engaging in this line of dialogue with you.
@Psychonaut it's actually not that logic, because to be a coach you don't have to be able to do something better, but you have to know how to do something better. Otherwise you wouldn't be coaching, you'd be acting instead. Coaches in sports for example aren't better than their players, they are usually worse but they know how to do it better. Same goes for doctors they know how to be live healthy does it mean they usually do? No. Also you could say even before Dr. Peterson gained public attention he was pretty successful already. He wasn't able to cope with the sudden attention very well, which doesn't devalue his life and isn't very uncommon either if you look at drug use across celebrities.
And you’re useless and horrible so you’ll only hit it with about 70% accuracy, but that beats the hell out of zero !
This guy is my hero
Real Truth 💪🏽
70% is genuinely amazing anyways considering most people only hit 35%
@@gregh5061 Yeah, when JP was saying to get 70/50% accuracy on your scheduled tasks, I was thinking "Whoa!! Those are incredible scores!" 😂 Glad to know I'm not the only one thinking that those percentages are fantastic
A hall of fame baseball player didn't get on base 60-70% of the time.
I liked very much this part:
"It's like you're a bad employee and a worse boss, and both of those work for you. You don't know what you wanna do, and when you tell yourself what to do, you don't do it anyways. You should fire yourself and find someone else to be..."
Ikr, it was so funny. The best part is the little smirk at his own joke, so heartwhelming lol
How do i do that? What if it gets worse while trying to become someone else
Well i dont like my current self either. So, how bad would it be anyway. I think answered my own question. Idk what im doing here
@@genevieverenaud2537 heart warming*
@@gregh5061 No i wanted to say heartwhelming, but thanks for trying to expand my vocabulary ;)
For every two minutes he talks, a normal professor would have taken an hour. What a class to be in.
Faaaacts
"Its no joke, man!"
Whenever he's says that...I rewind the video to make I didn't miss anything 👌🏾
@@SparqXL facts
@Jacob Alanheimer how can you tell that?
Are you perhaps self reflecting?
My questions are not rhetorical. We are all waiting for your answers.
I'd buy a tshirt like that
How does this guy remember all this stuff, it's like he's got 20 chrome tabs open in his brain
Hahaha and probably a few of them are 'incognito'
Sho Real TV Hip Hop Media 😂😅
it's because he genuinely understands his content yk - it is clear that he naturally thinks about this stuff alot, meaning that when he is lecturing he isn;'t 'memorising' in the traditional sense, but instead just speaking in flow about his interests / thoughts that he has had.
@@ShoRealTV I don't think he watches porn
@@archivedaccount2049 The key to that is "in flow." Even when you know a whole lot about a great many things, you don't start to look really SMART until you can connect all those things together and move between them seamlessly. I had a huge issue with that in my youth until it "clicked" for me that I had to connect things together in a sort of loose mental network. Then I went from looking crazy to looking smart, almost overnight, and tbh after 20+ years I am still not used to it and think I just look crazy all the time. I still expect everyone to respond to me the same way they did when I was 20 and didn't know squat about squat.
Literally to the 1% who's reading this, God bless you, may all your dreams come true, may you be successful in all spheres of life, stay safe and have a wonderful day :)
Thanks. Go's bless you too
Same to you, man. God Bless you. :)
Just made my day somehow:)
Fuck god
You as well my friend, God bless!
Man if my college classes would’ve been all like this I never would’ve missed or slept through a single class... now I’m watching other people’s college classes and learning more than I ever did in any of mine
True, my classes are all dry bullshit from recycled slides from 10 years ago. The professors really don't give a shit. Wish Jordan Peterson was my professor
And now they basically kicked him out of the classroom. Unbelievable.
Jordan Peterson resonates a lot with the sorts of people who slept through their classes
@@PsychedelicAnxiety yea, I believe he resonates with people that actually wanted to get something out of their classes, something truly valuable
When I watch these videos I always think about the students in the class and if they knew how lucky they were on that moment to witness such knowledge being displayed and described right before their eyes
I have heard the same lecture times and times again, never get enough
@Psychonaut actually my life is still a mess, but its heading up, i think
Yeah, I never get enough of JP either. Damn, maybe I'm addicted to these lectures... JP, help!
Me too. It's like masturbating to the idea of being productive without being productive. It feels horrible
@@ruslanuchan8880 True
I heard this clip before, and I have to say that I needed to hear it again. What he said about schedules really hit home..
I think I've seen this clip 4 or 5 times. It still helps me because I tend to stray from the path of the righteous man.
The fact that you are actively working on yourself, keeping yourself on the line proves that you are on the path. Don’t sell yourself short man.
Keep watching it over n over as well as other positive videos as well. I would recommend cutting out pessimistic n negative vids,people and thoughts n just fill up your life with motivated positive n optimistic people,vids n thought process. Best wishes for u
Oh wow I've found myself a twin!
We all do, Kemosabee. That you can recognize and Hear it, is a Blessing, Your Soul knows the rest . Keep tuned.
We are working on it. Nobody is perfect 24/7
But that doesnt mean we shouldnt try for it 💪👌
I noticed myself getting dumber and less focused in the last few months. Working a terrible job that gave me so much anxiety/stress I started smoking.. but this man's words... this man's words is what I needed to try and stand straight. Look at myself and at life more critically and start working on things now not to be sorry tomorrow. Thanks for posting this video. I'll try to come back here to post my progress.
Thank you very much.
Wishing you all the best. Don't be too hard on yourself.
it's been a year. How are you now?
I was the same way and ended up quitting my job after over 2 years because I was sick of it. Started smoking more again then the isolation event in 2020 happened and have been a shut in since. These videos really help to pick me up again
Straight facts, no fluff, he’s the teacher we always needed!
Just don't forget the number one most important goal in life: Having a clean room.
On a more serious note, the world will welcome Dr. Peterson back when he's recovered and ready to offer us more wisdom. Thank you for helping us out, and best wishes to you in return.
he is getting okay though, he stated in his daughter's podcast that he is getting better, heck, even continued to writing and editing his current book.
What if i dont have a room? I'll clean the bathroom instead 😂
Well. He is back now. Fully!
The relationship between physical health and cognitive skills is somewhat self-evident, and still really easy to miss if you want to miss it :D . I think I'll start exercising.
Have a value goal that transcends you and what failure looks like. Keep what is in control under control including scheduling. Do all to increase the probability of success. Have faith and Hope
Providing value is one thing and providing amusements is another thing . The latter is which MOST of the companies provide today. Take FB for example; about 25% of the population uses it,and is advertised as tool for communication. Yet not ONE NOBEL LAUREATE. sure, it sometimes provides incredible value. But it only does it when it matches with THEIR business ethics
What’s yours?
Faith and hope 😂😂😂. I try hard work instead. I've been a company man for a couple places that just don't give a shit and use you up. Do HUGE hours like 84 hour weeks and the best response they give you is trying to rip off your paycheck to under 80 hours a week so they can get out of a 10 dollar daily meal allowance. Not that you can even BUY a McDonald's meal for that.
How blessed is the cameraman filming and receiving the wisdom LIVE!
I've watched a few of his videos and really all hes doing is explaing life to young people with stats to back it up .
But at 68 and having the experience I've had in life this if by far the most worthwhile piece of free information I've ever heard .
I agree 100% on the schedule approach but I'm gonna put it out there right away: video games for only 15min will not work
Watching this as an 18 yo just gives me so much clarity and advantage over my peers, I feel. I am already taking notes and will actually start implementing all this and see where it leads me!
I was the same way when I discovered him at 17, just know that even though you are ahead it can still be easy to fall behind over time. Having wisdom and acting wise are not the same thing, as I learned the hard way.
Can you elaborate on thinking you had wisdom? I’m 17 aswell and I just want to know because I’m implementing these into my life yk
Hope you're doing well Mr. Peterson. your videos never fail to get me thinking, you've been a great influence on my life.
ANAEROBIC AND AEROBIC
lol
What
ARABIC
It's Greek!
Rougly speaking!
anaerobic anaerobic. shit...anaerobic and aerobic.
Love how I heard all of this amazing advice AFTER I just finished my finals. Nice.
I've heard this before but always find new knowledge when I come back to videos with him speaking.
I keep coming back to this video, and I really don't think JBP has a more consice and packed video than this. I say that having watched the vast majority of his lecture, interviews and podcasts.
Truly a treasure!
This lecture is just one of the best, sums it it up in 11min. Our prayers for your quick recovery PROFESSOR J.P 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thanks again for this clip (whoever is posting it). I got myself into the habit of always watching one of those before I get myself to work for uni. It's been incredibly helpful motivation wise and productivity wise.
Not a clickbait.
That’s maybe the most useful practical video speech of Peterson.
Must be watched and rewatched.
So much respect for Dr. Peterson.. He’s a wealth of knowledge
The amount of logic this man has, I feel like I’m listening to wisdom itself speak
- Word .
That's what happens when you study in school and don't mess around
Dr. Peterson is incredible, great thinker and communicator.
As a business owner when he says "you're a bad employee and a worse boss but you work for yourself so those things work out for you" that is me spot on.
Everybody says, if he is my
teacher. I will go to school.
Well, who the hell disagrees?
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👏PETERSON UNIVERSITY
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This man has taught so much. Thank you Mr. Peterson, it all makes a little more sense.
Man i wish i have him as my teacher. Why don’t this world have more people like him? May God bless him with a long and healthy life.
I started to listen Jordan P when I was doing my 1st year at Uni this guy literally helped me a lot mentally.🤞🏻
I mean this 10 minutes is like to learn something that normally you would learn in years or decades. Everybody should watch this like in every month...keep up the motivation!
THHANKYOU you sir really made my day
This is internet gold! - absolutely full of gems, each sentence uttered contains insight and value - it is dismaying to think the class don't hang on every word but instead appear largely disinterested. Their loss; our gain. Thanks for recording and double thanks for posting :-)
This could be really his most bare -knuckle dad talk of all.😣 love it!!!!
I've been watching a similar part of this clip for years, more than 50 times I'd say. It really helped me achieve further success in my life, and I'll watch it again whenever I begin to procrastinate.
It's nice to see it without all the "motivational" music and irrelevant clips. Just listening to the man speak is enough
This is something I really needed to hear right now
I’m 20 in university I have goals, friends,I’m talking care of myself, and I’m looking for a wife so I can start a family. Sounds good to me.
Ezekiel Brown 👍🙌🌠
👍🏼👍🏼
Word of advice as a 38 year old. Be VERY WARY of wasting your time trying to find s white girl to marry. They'll wasye YEARS of your life and few intend on staying, some even calculating the divorce money they'd get around the time you move in together. Seriously. Try anything but white girls otherwise you'll end up 38 and still single. Earning big money and owning a house and a few cars MEANS NOTHING if you get the sense you're never going to have kids.
Link Knight Thats really silly if you think all American women are influenced under the same, mainstream anti-marriage culture.
@@niccolom4556 Statistics show that too.
This is pure gold! It actually summarize the best of the best 100 self help / psychology books
This is and will always be so very important, thank you for sharing this!
This is the sort of advice and education that I wish I had from my father, but also in life itself during my formative years. I'm thirty-seven years old and feel aimless despite my small accomplishments. Perhaps, this is what needs to be taught more often in our schools - which is not the case.
I, as a sovereign individual, always have goals. Sometimes the goals push my gifts to the upward limit, but it's worth it.
I am grateful to TH-cam for recommending his video on 'wasting time' two years ago. It really did change my life. ❤❤
Make a schedule and set it up so you enjoy the activities that are set. Very powerful
Creating a prison for yourself out of guilt and desire to change never lasts very long from experience.
Another good one is recognizing moments of temptation, stepping back and embody the feeling present, really makes it seem small and easier to overcome.
“You don’t know what to do and when you tell yourself what to do, you don’t do it anyway”
I laughed my ass off 😂
damn i needed to hear this. im slowly gaining weight and still eating trash food. im already 330 pounds and i need to stick to my exercise. what ill do is workout consistently for like 3 or 4 days in a row and then stop working out for months until i feel so shitty and miserable about my decline that i workout again for 3 days. Thank you for Jordan Peterson!
I'm here to improve my English and learn about life with the great Jordan Peterson. Thank you from Fortaleza, Brazil.
Thank you ,sir. You've helped me turn things around for the Good. Best wishes for you from Darjeeling 😇
Idk why but I love when he says “well you can ask yourself that”
6:54 This part is so, so key to succeeding in life. So many people let their fear of failure hold them back from achieving their dreams.
TRUE. Lots of failure is part of the path to success.
The way that he doesn't blame you and forces you to accept who you are, I've never heard anything like it. I was always taught that being afraid of big assignments meant I was lazy and needed to shape up, and that social life is just fun that takes away from studying. Furthest from the fucking truth
Great video, those students are dam lucky to have a lecturer like JP. - This feels like sage advice in this current climate. Goals have certainly helped my mental health recently, and at least given me some structure to move forward with. I’d Recommend the future authoring program 👍
His articulation is amazing
"So these are the things you need to be successful
Step 1: IQ"
*closes laptop *
😂😂
Well, you were smart enough to save some time, anyways
Hahaha
Welcome back - Gosh you have been such an inspiring person in my life 💖
Just an old upload.
Link Knight (don’t ruin this big moment of theirs 🤫) 😂
Nice, excercise is so important for mental health. Glad you mentioned.
Awesome content Jordan !
I watch n learn alot from you and i am grateful you put your videos on youtube !
I think its likely for every critic, you have thousands to millions of civilized ppl quietly learning from you.
We miss you Dr. Peterson
"then you don't know when you fail" that hit me right to my solar plexus
Listening to this man gives me motivation and shines a light on what I should do moving forward to be successful
This is a Wonderful lecture and the most appreciated Listen of my Mr. Peterson library. A good one to come across from time to time. Thank you sir, for saying it straight.
.. and for saying it out loud. . Hip.Hip.Hooray!
"You're useless and horrible so you probably hit it with about 70% accuracy but that beats the hell out of zero."
That's enough motivation for me to do something productive. Simple, honest, harsh but on point.
10:20 in other words, work harder than last time.
Get well Dr. JP. Hope to see you back soon.
Thank you Doc, I needed that to motivate and encourage me today. I'm facing a big professionnal challenge and have to pull me by the bootstrap to get to work.
"The best possible day I can have...practically speaking..."
You don't want to set goals, because you don't want to set conditions for failures 🤯
thank you for constantly being a source of positivity and pragmatism
This is loaded. Helped me with life outlook on how I should approach things
"You can work on micro-habits" to be more industrious. I need to identify my positive micro-habits.
just turned 19 and that cognitive decline thing is gonna save my life lol, fuck lifting to be hot im lifting to not be more dumb than i already am
For listening to him this whole quarantine
Im not hurt anymore when he mention iq
I gradually accept that
Thanks for your Good wishes and Advice.
so youre like a bad employee and a worse boss AT THE SAME TIME . SO YOU JUST FIRE YOURSELF ANYWAYS.
Donald Trump are you listening!?
* WORSE...
P 1: Your breath is the WORST!
P 2: Your breath is even WORSE.
P 1: I like that you know the difference between worst, and worse, so I'm willing to let the breath thing slide for now.
P 1: ...but take a fucking bath or something
@@georgebotelho288 Twas a typo dear sir.
@@vishaln1903 My ex girlfriend ate up all my patience with regard to the distinction between worse, worst, and worse, and now I can't help but correct everyone anytime I see/hear it.🧐
I'd fire myself, but, I can't find someone else to do the job.
I do not feel less smart than almost 20 years ago, I actually understand and learn stuff better and faster now that I'm almost 40, than when I was 20. Interesting though.
I think it' your experience that help you in connecting the dots
He is the man shouting out the truth with grace, maximum accuracy, minimum contamination and bias.
One of the best motivational speakers!!!
1:19 i started breathing deeper after hearing this 😂😂
The definition of lack of conscientiousness: "You're a bad employee and a worse boss"
I love listening to these after a night of heavy drinking and fucking my life up. I feel like it helps me get back on track.
What a brilliant mind. Thank you Dr Peterson
...Then all you've got left is misery and suffering - that's a bad.... that's a bad deal.
-JBP
"Make a DAMN schedule"
Fix this DAMN DOOR!!
Clean your DAMN room!
ERADICATE THE damn SPECIES
You motivate me Jordan. Thank you for all the videos.
This really important and really good. Thanks for uploading it!
Useful tips for not letting your IQ decline. Would learning a couple of languages help too?
Jp’s first line: “I’ll tell you what it is that you need to do to be successful”
Title of this video: “what to do to be successful”
I've seen this same recording multiple times over the past year or two (perhaps on other channels). At this time of viewing, this particular video has 243,904 views. How it doesn't have 243,904,000 views is beyond me.
this always speaks to my soul