Dear elegant Anna, I’m almost 71, not looking to find a rich husband, but I just love your channel. Your message is so needed in this world; elevating behavior, being kind, being aware, treating others with class. Not all can afford plastic surgery, but we can all try to improve what we have been given, class isn’t just about being rich.
Dear Mrs Hargreaves, I love to see that there are more 65+ ladies who follow this channel. If life has taught me anything it is that there is no such thing as "too late" whether it's love, lifestyle, health imrpovement or improvement in general. We cannot go back to our 20-yo bodies, but we can always improve what we currently have to the best of our abilities. I wish you a wonderful year 2020.
@@debzter1039 College graduate here, and I've never heard that. But, it has been a long time since I went, as I am older than most of you, I suppose. Way to go lifting people up instead of tearing them down and making them feel like nothing, Debzter. Very classy. I'd think you'd be past "petty" by now, having been through college. But, that's clearly not the case.
@@hurricaneheide Don't fret. The only reason I remember the term is because I hated my economics class and dropped it for 3 straight semesters opting for something more interesting until finally, I was forced to sit thru it during my final semester (point being it was usually covered in beginning chapters so I had the pleasure of hearing my monotone professor drudge on about it several times). And why the previous commenter felt the need to condescendingly label the term while simultaneously pointing out the level of education one apparently need have had to do so...(?). Self affirmation maybe? Pay it no mind 😁
Nothing wrong with that! And it will probably be easier that way. It's a lot harder for people to drag you down or try to stop you when they don't even know you were doing something different in the first place. By the time it hits them, it'll be too late. :P
Yess this is very true,it’s shitty that there are people who will try and drag you down,or by trying to belittle you because they can’t find the strength to try and find a goal for them selves uggghh.
Don’t tell em, don’t listen to them! There’s something about negative energy others give to you, an evil eye if you will, that will keep holding everything back from happening for you! Set your goal, make your plan, achieve your goals and SHOW them! 👏🏻😘✨ you go girl!
One thing I have learned is to keep your business ideas and plans to yourself, I told a very close friend about my ideas for my own business and a week later they had started their own business in the same field as I was planning to, with no prior experience or a hobby within the said subject. This is a lesson learned, do not talk about you plans before you’ve pursued them!
Do implement your idea. People who steal other's idea don't go far in life , it may seem they are doing better in short term ,however, in the long term they don't passion and creativity to keep it going.
Oh my goodness this comment section is so supportive. I hadn’t seen any of your comments and I just want to say thank you to all of you for being so kind. I’m actually in the midst of training to be a personal trainer which is very exciting for me and I’m looking forward to seeing where it leads me!
4. Affluent People value their time. (Time is like a river,we cannot step in the same water twice) " Everytime you say YES to something You say NO to something else. " What a lovely quote! You are really such an Elegant inspiration to us dear Anna!
#7: You are the average of 5 people you spend most of your time with. If you have 4 broke friends, you will be the 5th. Thank you. I love your content.
@@farmgirl7891 You just don't worry about those rich people who are looking down on poor people. I believe there is a 5 letter word that refers to people like that. Snobs. But let's be positive here and not speak any negatives even about those types of people.. The idea is not having any negativity of any type. Maybe it reminds them of who somewhere they were, or might end up, and makes them feel uncomfortable. I And there you go...fear and insecurity. 2 negatives. Psshh.. Who needs that? One has just got to do what's right for them, their family, friends and community when or where possible. Sometimes that might mean starting to build your own group. Ttrying to help keep someone you love and care about from sinking into poverty. As you're learning and you're improving and you're gaining in knowledge or finances you can teach others how you did it. They can try it if it doesn't work for them they try something else that will work for them. But the ideas to motivate each other. Back to synergy. And we all have this Social Media communities, and TH-cam communities. We're here to help each other out and lift each other up no matter what rung of the ladder we're starting out on. We don't know how many people were on wrong number 5 or 8 who fell on hard times who may be on 1 or 2. There could be some that aren't even back on a rung yet. And that also will present some issues with people who just want to be judging/ picking on someone. Sometimes they just do that to keep others looking at other people instead of at themselves. But you can't think and worry about those things you need to put your time in on the things that are going to get you where you need to go. And believe it or not there are some people out there on the higher round who will lift the ones below them up. Worthy people help other worthy people no matter what wrong of the latter they're on. They will admire one another for their labor and tenacity. Just get into the field or interest that is in your heart and just start working and you'll get noticed. It might take 6 months, a year, 3 or 5, but someone will notice. Until then keep your chin up. 🙌
@@farmgirl7891 I’m in same situation as you are. Hopefully we pray and God grants us wisdom for success. Don’t worry about friends. You have more time to pray, God is your best friend! And he can grant the wisdom and resources needed to create success.
As soon as I sense someone lives in la la land, I cut them out of my life immediately. Especially men. Also don’t tell ppl your plans or dreams. Move in silence.
I also believe in keeping things to myself until I am absolutely sure about them. Talking about future plans too early just sets you up for discouragement and negative comments.
Dear Anna, I am 70 and was brought up with affluence. Everything you say is true. My affluent life included everything that you describe on your channel. The hardest part is networking, and this is a direct reflection of self-esteem. I always felt bad about being brought up with affluence, so I was not pro-active in maintaining my lifestyle, and I only *recently* figured out why this happened. I learned this lesson due to therapy and working on myself. And though I am single, retired and dating at 70 (yes, I attract high level men), and I work to improve my network. It is not something that I am entirely comfortable with, but it is necessary, and as someone who believes in my own self worth, and in continually learning and improving my life - it is bringing in positive results. I thank you so very much for your channel. It has been a very supportive part of my transformation and I am grateful! Keep up the important work.
I think many people struggle with networking and having true, genuine confidence. I struggle with self-esteem but good at faking confidence but i end up exhausted. I'd like to see more videos on building confidence and networking from Anna Bey.
Dear Anna Bey, I’m sure I speak for many of us elegant ladies and jet set ladies when I say we need more of these types of videos. 2020 is definitely a year of action for a lot of us, and you give us hope and motivation. Sincerely, A rising elegant lady ♥️
My mom taught me this very early. She’d say, “Tell me who you’re with and I’ll tell you who you are” it goes back to your closest circle (top 5) become your biggest influencers
Almost the same words for a Spanish saying. Dime con quién andas, y te diré quién eres: tell me with who are you going/walking, and I'll tell you who you are.
The Video is Inspiring and Educative. If had hung out with like minded people I wouldn't have learnt the HARD WAY.The video reminds me of a year when I was so broke that I could barely pay my bills. I remember the most important step in my life when I invested my last income with an experienced Forex trader who was recommended to me by a friend. It may seem a bit, but it took courage to know that investing was the right thing to do at the time. Today my small investment of just $ 300 generated over $ 80,000,After I kept Investing and reinvesting. To be successful, you must take a big step. It all starts here.
@@rossi2225 I had a similar experience to yours. My investment in forex trading saved me from financial burdens after losing my job. Forex trading is very profitable when you have a good Forex trader.
Forex trading is very profitable. When you have a professional forex trader who is good at what he does, your profits can increase by more than 100%. My investment in the forex Trading bought me the house of my dreams. To gain in Forex you need to be realistic! And don't be greedy.
True! Investing in Forex is very profitable. Last year I made over $ 45,000 of my long-term investment in forex trading. But like someone said up there Avoid greed!
Didn’t wanna take the time to comment saying “make more videoes like this” but hearing you say “otherwise I won’t be creating anymore” @ 18:20 scared me!! Make more videos like this!!
This is one of the best Videos you have ever made, my dear elegant Anna. I love it. You can trully motivate me! Thank you for that! I allways search in Net for selfimprooving Videos and this is the top one. More, please, more, please, more, please!
Same, but didn't know any specific content.. Good to know that staying away from drama is a rich habit, as it was one of my goals for 2019. And I will be continuing this in 2020. I also have found that self care has been a good habit in 2019 and again will continue with it in 2020. Thank you Anna for the great videos. :) :)
This motivated me to get out of "la la" land with starting photography. Now I have my own photography business - thanks for helping me not just be a dreamer.
I have done my beauty routine every single morning and night, for the last 13 years, always have loved organic food, no processed stuff and love to keep fit with moderate exercise...last 10 years, I have invested a lot in my mindset and self development, learned financial intelligence, but kept procrastinating often...but I started changing fast, as soon as I got clarity and purpose...and I'm not stopping. I look great for my age and feel like the best in life comes now! Never let yourself go, or take it for granted. Keep learning and take good care of yourself! The results will come, keep your high Standard.
Thank you Jana, it's very motivating to hear how self-care has worked for you. I'm now working on taking better care of myself to also improve my life.
Can we get more videos like this? Even in the midst of the pandemic, this has been one of my best years yet. I’ve lost weight, started investing, read about 20 books, traveled, and generally leveled myself up in numerous ways. No matter what happens, you can always be working on yourself.
Anna I watched this video last year, took the lessons to heart and truly upgraded my life! Despite a pandemic year, I successfully moved cities, underwent a career change, am now making six figures at a dream job, and my mental/physical health is better than it ever has been. Thank you so much! My fellow ladies, if you commit to Anna's teachings, they really do work!
I love this video. I’ve said my entire life there are people who are “sayers” and people who are “doers”. Can’t stand people that talk and talk and talk and never take steps to make it happen. Thank you for this!!
I love how she is supportive of other females, such a beautiful strong woman, I've learned so much from her ! Thank you and happy year everyone Let's all start taking action!
The pursuit of education, is the real core of Success. Taking classes of History of Religions, History of world revolutions, Finance classes, learing make you belong. Going to Museums, learn about music, go to concerts, know about composers.
The best teacher I ever had was an English teacher. 90% were Hispanics from middle to lower class. He always took the first 5 minutes of class to show us paintings and to play classical music. Once a week he would quiz us by showing slides of paintings or by playing piece by one of the great composers. We had to identify the artist/composer. To this day, I still can spot a Rembrandt, Seurat, Dali and I can appreciate classical music. All my kids went on to learn music and got to play at Carnegie Hall with their youth orchestras.
I’m currently reading a book called stillness is key. It’s talks about cancelling out the noise, appreciating stillness, and getting in touch with yourself. Totally recommend it! 😊
Hi Ladies on this thread Just discovered a book that addresses the importance of this and how it folds into prosperty and self improvement. "The Art of Living" by Bob Procter I bought on thriftbooks. com $14.32 free ship. Catch interview with him on u tube Inspire Nation with Michael Sandler regarding this. I found extremely helpful and hope will be of benefit to y'all. May we all reach our goals in 2020 🙂❤
Thank you beautiful Anna for bringing elegance back to women’s mindset. I’m an old lady and I remember when most women were elegant. My mother used to dress up nice and fix her hair EVERY DAY as a matter of routine. You are such a refreshing reminder of elegance and a blessing to women. Thank you. ❤️❤️
I can actually feel that energy of success and class coming from you in this video. Like everything speaks for itself the hairstyle, tone of voice , outfit and posture it's so motivating. This tells me how serious yet passionate you are about what you teach. ♥️
Definitely like this new direction of your channel: self improvement and elegance. I wasn't thrilled about the idea of taking advantage of rich men and almost left the channel, but now I'm glad I stayed. I love any information that helps me become more elegant and refined, yet self-sustaining and successful on my own. Yes, please continue with self-improvement ideas!
@@HIGHLANDER_ONLY_ONE True, but finding 'love' doesn't seem to be the primary reason for this particular channel. Love for money, yes. A loving partner, not so much.
What exactly were you trying to achieve by announcing your 'disapproval' of women benefitting financially from men? LOOOOOL. Why do you think your opinion is relevant???? Who do you think cares? What difference do you think you make here??? What difference do you make to anyone here??? Tens of thousands of subscribers who are here for financial social expansion - which is OUR RIGHT AND FREEDOM as human beings and you think you're breaking news by announcing your irrelevant opinion and disapproval. Get a grip.
@@ladyslick121 when anna herself likes the original comment but you come here saying her opinion is irrelevant and you start your sentence by saying shut up it means you have a lot to learn.. especially communication skills
2020 was an Olympic challenge mentally for me.The lesson learned was keep going,don't make exscuses,and realise I could be my own best friend or enemy! Thank you Anna!
Lizzy Liz it depends on the person’s facial features. It looks good on her but maybe not everyone (those with larger noses as it draws attention to the center of the face) so shouldn’t be a general statement
Studies prove that we are most influenced by the 7 people closest to us. Better to have none than even one negative one. I LOVE personal development stuff. More plz 👑
Never mind the pandemic, 2020 was a great year for me. I started working out and saving money, I started planning and really taking care of myself and my psyche. I have improved myself tremendously. Any trouble around makes me want to do better and use my time to the max, so that I don't think too much.
It looks like your house is very elegant would you mind teaching us how affluent people design their home in a minimalist way? Choices of color? Ow well house tour i guess?
Wow! Thank you for your inspirational video coachings. It's very realistic and truly you are an influencer. You are a gift. Please don't say you will not make any more videos, it's unfair for us🥰. With these, may I request that you make a video on how to achieve a cozy minimalist house as I plan to buy a small property that my nay sayers are so loud about. Thanks in advance and cheers to an "ACTION" filled 2020!
@@fredaamour4121 No. These content sections appear to be rife with women claiming to know what we all should or should not be doing... which, is somewhat ironic to me considering the nature of this channel.
@@aspenmontgomery409 I totally get you. But I hate it when these same women try to tell others what we can or can't do. As if being or wanting to be affluent equates to not having kids
I lost my dad on 2020...but instead of succumbing to sadness I started working as hard as I could, 3-4 jobs at a time. I kept focused and now I am about to achieve one of my long time dreams. I am starting to transform myself from inside and out. Somethung I still need to work on spending more quality time with my loved ones. Today's video has gotten me to think about my family and I thank you for this.
I love that you addressed this topic holistically, mentioning all aspects of our selves--body, mind, heart, and soul. Like an iceberg, it's too easy to look at the surface aspects and entirely miss the breadth and depth of the iceberg that supports the part that's visible.
4:06 You are completely correct about law of attraction. I am a living testimony of this. A few months ago, I deliberately started to change my thinking and the individuals I surround myself with. I believe God directed (rich) individuals to me, who are now helping me to better my life. I am so happy!!!!
@@kl-vh5pu Fear mongering is demonic. People are free to do what they find helpful, everyone came to learn in this life. The law of attraction is harmful for people who grow disconnected from reality, same as any belief taken to extreme. But telling someone that it's demonic is an equal madness. That's not what conscious ans spiritual people are living by.
‘Law of attraction’ or controlling reality with your intention or visualisation is witchcraft . Not sure who your God is but but it can not be the God of the bible, since practicing witchcraft is a mortal sin equivalent to committing a murder
Dear Anna, althought I’m already married ,with three grown up children I love to listen to you and to your precious advice . I really admire your elegance and generoty
Girl, I love you, you so focused to generously give knowledge to improve people life in so many aspects. You share everything you needed or learned. You are so filantrophic.
You might have just changed a dreamer's life. I appreciate your honest suggestions and analytical mind behind the topics considered most superficial and thus overlooked.
This hit home when you spoke about naysayers. I used to have a "friend" who would belittle my accomplishments and would discourage me from expanding my experiences. She was not successful and ended up bankrupt besides being a not nice person.
Kendra Bean its called KARMA. Whenever she denied you she was denying herself. She should've been happy for you, encouraging and help if necessary... I mean.. she forgot "what goes around comes around...
The awareness you teach are all those life lessons our busy mothers couldn't quite articulate. Looking forward to more wise content like this. Many thanks!
I have always had a tremendous singing voice. However, stage fright has always held me back. I am going to start singing again. I am going to overcome this!
It's all about your accountant and I found that out the last thing you want to do is go to one of those fly-by-night places that open once a year you might have to do some shopping around but when I found the right accounting without really knowing that it would make a difference I saw what a big difference it makes like thousands of dollars a year
Anna 😭 I paused this video when you first mentioned action taking. Then I went to scrub my skin, do my upgraded skincare routine and then came back to finish the video while I'm making a wig I had been procrastinating on 😂😂😂 Absolutely loved it.
This is excellent. I also observe that successful people have very structured days- this helps discipline and goals as there are too many demands/noise in their life otherwise to accomplish their personal/professional goals.
I am definitely one of those people that benefit from having a schedule. Having routines. And I get sort of out of sorts when somebody interferes or something comes up and knocks me off my center if that's what you want to call it. But I have learned to be flexible now I just expect the things can be unexpected. And just kind of go with the flow.
Somehow i feel that this lady is helping all ladies to raise the bar and her continuous education will definitely change the status of woman in the society. I liked your video coaching 👍
Wow this was more helpful than I thought it’d be. I really resonated with “ask yourself “WHY am I such a dreamer”” that really had me thinking. I always loved fantasizing about model projects and so on, and what projects I’d be working on if I HAD the money - but never thought to ask WHY am I just a dreamer with no action. This was the first step to finding some deep rooted conclusions. Thank you for this.
when the said "that 2020 is going to be the best year in our lives" I also loughed, but when I started thinking about it... actually I achieved a lot in this year, in matters of personal growth, spiritually and professionally ...Of course I was lucky to stay healthy. In this video Ana is talking about achieving our personal goals... so she is still right - in lots of ways - it's up to us... I wish you all the best... This too shall pass...
This is honestly one of the most inspiring videos I've seen by you. It's nice to see a beautifully groomed, classy, elegant, business-minded woman like you. Thank you for your advice. Let's keep our standards up.
I found this so inspirational and it really hit me because I am a dreamer and have fears about stepping outside my comfort zone but in 2020 I’m hoping I can take that step. Please do more motivational videos like this in the future 💕
Surrounding yourself with people who are what you want to be: I was a solid C student in high school and for my first 2 years of college. Then I decided that I wanted to make all A's and go to graduate school. Of course I studied like crazy 24/7. BUT - I also, in each class found the smartest person in that class, made friends with him/her and competed with him/her. It worked. Pick associates you are better than you so that you can learn from them. I gained the reputation as being a very intelligent, well educated person.
My dear elegant Anna: I am not used to comment youtube videos, but as I absoloutely love all your content and your whole image, I will make an exeption. I love how you make me feel when you say "dear elegant ladies". It make me feel as I already am one of them. I agree with you that self improvement is one of the most important things in everybody's life, as we want to become better persons and elevate ourself. So please, do more videos about that topic. I love each one of your videos and content, and I would love any that you will share with us.
This is one of the best videos of Ana! Whenever I feel sluggish, or a procrastinator/just in my La-la land, I watch this video and an energy of doing something surges through me! 😃☺ Thank you so much for your good content. 🥰 Do make more of these!
I realized one thing. It is that I am always surrounding myself with people that are more intelligent, better students, good habits and people that have proper manners and I realized that every year I grow in each field of my life
That's so truth a lot of people the believe on affirmation. Declaring is not enough we need action. My problem is I had been many years on surviving mode.
This was perfectly timed for my experience. I have been developing myself but found certain people around my now seem to be on a completely different frequency. I am soaring and they are stalling. Thank you for motivating me to put myself first and remove those who drag me down.
I can't describe how happy it makes me that most of these things I already do. I completely agree with this and I noticed so much self growth in a past months but I have a lot more goals to achieve
I cannot tell you (or maybe I don't need to) how many times people around me have brought me down, even my own family! My sister even tells me that I will be a failure in life because I will never succeed in anything. I have almost two degrees, I started working as front desk receptionist to earn something and she told I am a failure for that! I'm lucky I'm so stubborn not to listen to this stuff because people are EXTREMELY judgemental. That's why you should never share your goals with anyone 🤗
Claudia, I had two degrees at the time when I had to take an office job because the market was very bad for engineers and I couldn’t find a position in my field. In that job, they discovered my analytical skills and used me for other tasks. Fast forward 15 years and several engineering jobs later, I am now a Project Manager making a great salary. As long as you don’t let yourself get stuck in that office job and realize it is only a layover, don’t listen to others, not even family because family can really bring you down sometimes. Just remember your accomplishments and surround yourself with like minded people as yourself.
Anna, I love these self improvement videos! I think I've watched every one of your videos. You provide information that helps keep me motivated. I especially appreciated your comment in this video to ignore the nay-sayers. I am in a male dominated profession and am also an accredited academic, and I constantly am turned down for opportunities for which I am well- or over- qualified. You are inspiration to keep my head up and to keep moving forward.
Best lesson I learned from rich people is being polite, saying "hello, thank you, have a nice day, you welcome, can I help you and good bye". Some may say it but they don't mean it. Say it like you mean it. Smile.
Dearest Anna, I am 72 and I’m so amazed with the knowledge you have on how to achieve being a better person in every aspect of our lives. If people study what you are offering from your heart, they will naturally become a person of depth and richer in every aspect of their lives. I only wish you had been available when I was young making choices that determined how my life would be. You, precious Anna, teach girls/women the importance of educating themselves all through their life so they can have confidence speaking with anyone and can have their dream job. You speak about things that aren’t discussed often. It’s a very touchy subject but so very important. Hygiene!! Anna, if only all high schools could have a class with your videos for all the girls. There are some that don’t have anyone to help them and they stay in a shell. You, dear Anna, could help so many girls gain the confidence they need to survive, and even further. Thank you for sharing your hard earned confidence and every step for a wonderful life.
2020 was my best year this far :) I have less time seeing my friend and can focus on myself, I have new sense of self confidence, and I feel mentally tougher after 2020. Excited for 2021!! I totally love your video in these kind of topics Anna :)
Thank you Anna for this personal development angle. I love what you said about leveling-up being a "lifestyle transformation". That really struck a chord with me. I knew this in the back of my mind, but your saying it in this video gave me that extra little "kick" that I feel I was missing in my journey. Brava e grazie!🙏🏾💎👸🏾
You look so much younger when your hair is straight like this. You're beautiful and elegant indeed. Thank you for your amazing work, I admire you so much.
Dear elegant Anna, I’m almost 71, not looking to find a rich husband, but I just love your channel. Your message is so needed in this world; elevating behavior, being kind, being aware, treating others with class. Not all can afford plastic surgery, but we can all try to improve what we have been given, class isn’t just about being rich.
Laura, you cannot buy class.👩🏻💼🌻💜
Dear Mrs Hargreaves, I love to see that there are more 65+ ladies who follow this channel. If life has taught me anything it is that there is no such thing as "too late" whether it's love, lifestyle, health imrpovement or improvement in general. We cannot go back to our 20-yo bodies, but we can always improve what we currently have to the best of our abilities. I wish you a wonderful year 2020.
Absolutely agree!!! And, Anna, thank you! We love you! Your message is so valuable! Thank you, dear! Wish you all the best in 2020!
I agree with everyone above 🧡🧡🧡
I am trying to be fish so thanks for this channel! 😂😍😍😍
I love it so much when she says "my dear elegant ladies"
It makes me feel special 🥰
@Jan Merc ?
Well, I start suffering from impostor syndrom and wonder: "does that apply to me"?
@@jumafaro Miss Rodriegues, you elegant lady, are you aged 22-33?
@@stevechristie2569 no, I am 36.
@@jumafaro I'll make an exception for you
"Every time you say yes to something, you say no to something else." This is HUGE. Everyone needs to hear that. Thank you!!!
hurricaneheide - it’s called opportunity cost. It’s in college education materials.
@@debzter1039 College graduate here, and I've never heard that. But, it has been a long time since I went, as I am older than most of you, I suppose.
Way to go lifting people up instead of tearing them down and making them feel like nothing, Debzter. Very classy. I'd think you'd be past "petty" by now, having been through college. But, that's clearly not the case.
We learned that in high school:)
@@aureliabohnstedt4647 good for you!
@@hurricaneheide Don't fret. The only reason I remember the term is because I hated my economics class and dropped it for 3 straight semesters opting for something more interesting until finally, I was forced to sit thru it during my final semester (point being it was usually covered in beginning chapters so I had the pleasure of hearing my monotone professor drudge on about it several times).
And why the previous commenter felt the need to condescendingly label the term while simultaneously pointing out the level of education one apparently need have had to do so...(?).
Self affirmation maybe? Pay it no mind 😁
Anna isn't just teaching elegant ladies to attract wealthy powerful men, she is also teaching us to become wealthy and powerful ourselves. 😍🤩
She has a video telling women how to get rich men.....
The worst part is that rich men don't want her, what does she bring to the table? Nothing
I don't want just a rich man I want a financially stable man that is respectful, family-orientated and etcetera
@@aanyamallick7747 No you don’t, I know what you want, and you follow. Simple as that.
Yes. She always says the right things i enjoy hearing.
My goal this year is to stop telling people about my goals 😒.
Nothing wrong with that! And it will probably be easier that way. It's a lot harder for people to drag you down or try to stop you when they don't even know you were doing something different in the first place. By the time it hits them, it'll be too late. :P
Omg same!
Yes! Sometimes people will not be happy for you and direct negative energy towards you. We don’t need that
Yess this is very true,it’s shitty that there are people who will try and drag you down,or by trying to belittle you because they can’t find the strength to try and find a goal for them selves uggghh.
Don’t tell em, don’t listen to them! There’s something about negative energy others give to you, an evil eye if you will, that will keep holding everything back from happening for you! Set your goal, make your plan, achieve your goals and SHOW them! 👏🏻😘✨ you go girl!
One thing I have learned is to keep your business ideas and plans to yourself, I told a very close friend about my ideas for my own business and a week later they had started their own business in the same field as I was planning to, with no prior experience or a hobby within the said subject. This is a lesson learned, do not talk about you plans before you’ve pursued them!
Do implement your idea. People who steal other's idea don't go far in life , it may seem they are doing better in short term ,however, in the long term they don't passion and creativity to keep it going.
Poonam Kamboj Yea! Life and karma rectifies the situation all on its own.
Their is a lot of opportunities and you can still go out and make it happen. Love to all of you
Implement it, you'll likely win in the long run because of your experience and prior knowledge
Oh my goodness this comment section is so supportive. I hadn’t seen any of your comments and I just want to say thank you to all of you for being so kind. I’m actually in the midst of training to be a personal trainer which is very exciting for me and I’m looking forward to seeing where it leads me!
I love the saying: “You’re known by the company you keep”
Very true
Sherri so true.
You are my mentor. Thank you. I practice most of your suggestions. Have lost so called friends as a result. I have a great life.
cats my cat continued blessings
Sherri You can’t fly with the Eagles if you’re hanging out with turkeys. LOL
"How many successful people have you heard tell to other people 'you're dreaming too big', none right?" Love that
@@heathercrass703 Yeah! I was just quoting the video lol...
A lot!
4. Affluent People value their time.
(Time is like a river,we cannot step in the same water twice)
" Everytime you say YES to something
You say NO to something else. "
What a lovely quote!
You are really such an Elegant inspiration to us dear Anna!
#7: You are the average of 5 people you spend most of your time with. If you have 4 broke friends, you will be the 5th.
Thank you. I love your content.
Soooo true!!!!
Jackie Lipardo Great reminder! So true! Good luck in your journey💕
With if I have no friends and the rich people I wanna be friends with don’t like the poor?😢
@@farmgirl7891 You just don't worry about those rich people who are looking down on poor people. I believe there is a 5 letter word that refers to people like that. Snobs. But let's be positive here and not speak any negatives even about those types of people.. The idea is not having any negativity of any type.
Maybe it reminds them of who somewhere they were, or might end up, and makes them feel uncomfortable. I And there you go...fear and insecurity.
2 negatives. Psshh.. Who needs that? One has just got to do what's right for them, their family, friends and community when or where possible.
Sometimes that might mean starting to build your own group. Ttrying to help keep someone you love and care about from sinking into poverty. As you're learning and you're improving and you're gaining in knowledge or finances you can teach others how you did it. They can try it if it doesn't work for them they try something else that will work for them. But the ideas to motivate each other. Back to synergy.
And we all have this Social Media communities, and TH-cam communities.
We're here to help each other out and lift each other up no matter what rung of the ladder we're starting out on. We don't know how many people were on wrong number 5 or 8 who fell on hard times who may be on 1 or 2. There could be some that aren't even back on a rung yet.
And that also will present some issues with people who just want to be judging/ picking on someone. Sometimes they just do that to keep others looking at other people instead of at themselves.
But you can't think and worry about those things you need to put your time in on the things that are going to get you where you need to go. And believe it or not there are some people out there on the higher round who will lift the ones below them up. Worthy people help other worthy people no matter what wrong of the latter they're on. They will admire one another for their labor and tenacity. Just get into the field or interest that is in your heart and just start working and you'll get noticed. It might take 6 months, a year, 3 or 5, but someone will notice. Until then keep your chin up. 🙌
@@farmgirl7891 I’m in same situation as you are. Hopefully we pray and God grants us wisdom for success. Don’t worry about friends. You have more time to pray, God is your best friend! And he can grant the wisdom and resources needed to create success.
As soon as I sense someone lives in la la land, I cut them out of my life immediately. Especially men. Also don’t tell ppl your plans or dreams. Move in silence.
Why wouldn't you want people to know your plans or dreams in life ?
scarllettt Pisces hatersss
scarllettt Pisces the energy of haters and envy can jinks your plans and you get hit with the evil eye 👁
@@anonymousarab8226 i agree haha. Most people are negatrons. They will make u abandon ur dreams without u knowing it.
I also believe in keeping things to myself until I am absolutely sure about them. Talking about future plans too early just sets you up for discouragement and negative comments.
Dear Anna, I am 70 and was brought up with affluence. Everything you say is true. My affluent life included everything that you describe on your channel. The hardest part is networking, and this is a direct reflection of self-esteem. I always felt bad about being brought up with affluence, so I was not pro-active in maintaining my lifestyle, and I only *recently* figured out why this happened. I learned this lesson due to therapy and working on myself. And though I am single, retired and dating at 70 (yes, I attract high level men), and I work to improve my network. It is not something that I am entirely comfortable with, but it is necessary, and as someone who believes in my own self worth, and in continually learning and improving my life - it is bringing in positive results. I thank you so very much for your channel. It has been a very supportive part of my transformation and I am grateful! Keep up the important work.
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I think many people struggle with networking and having true, genuine confidence. I struggle with self-esteem but good at faking confidence but i end up exhausted. I'd like to see more videos on building confidence and networking from Anna Bey.
"There are certain type of people who are just dreamers." True! Let's all be doers this 2020!
Karina Molostova 👍
Dear Anna Bey,
I’m sure I speak for many of us elegant ladies and jet set ladies when I say we need more of these types of videos. 2020 is definitely a year of action for a lot of us, and you give us hope and motivation.
Sincerely,
A rising elegant lady ♥️
I second this🙋🏾♀️........ can we have another to move it to motion👩🏾⚖
❤️
Yess
Yes! Thank you! 2020 is our year ladies!🥂
Yes, please :)
Delete La La Land, cancel noise, develop laser sharp focus, maintain health and be with people whom you'd like to be like...thanks a ton, Anna :)
Guru Kirupa 🌹🌹🌹
There was an old saying in the U.S. during the 1940s---"Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are." True then, true now.
My mom taught me this very early. She’d say, “Tell me who you’re with and I’ll tell you who you are” it goes back to your closest circle (top 5) become your biggest influencers
It's also biblical
In Germany, too
It is still an active "saying" in the Kreyol community. And, still proves true.
Almost the same words for a Spanish saying.
Dime con quién andas, y te diré quién eres: tell me with who are you going/walking, and I'll tell you who you are.
I think affluent people also surround themselves with other affluent friends because of the same mind set, being open, not pushing down dreams,..
The old adage “birds of a feather, flock together “... absolutely...
The Video is Inspiring and Educative. If had hung out with like minded people I wouldn't have learnt the HARD WAY.The video reminds me of a year when I was so broke that I could barely pay my bills. I remember the most important step in my life when I invested my last income with an experienced Forex trader who was recommended to me by a friend. It may seem a bit, but it took courage to know that investing was the right thing to do at the time. Today my small investment of just $ 300 generated over $ 80,000,After I kept Investing and reinvesting. To be successful, you must take a big step. It all starts here.
@@rossi2225 I had a similar experience to yours. My investment in forex trading saved me from financial burdens after losing my job. Forex trading is very profitable when you have a good Forex trader.
Forex trading is very profitable. When you have a professional forex trader who is good at what he does, your profits can increase by more than 100%. My investment in the forex Trading bought me the house of my dreams. To gain in Forex you need to be realistic! And don't be greedy.
True! Investing in Forex is very profitable. Last year I made over $ 45,000 of my long-term investment in forex trading. But like someone said up there Avoid greed!
Anna: “2020 will be one of the best years of our lives”
Coronavirus: “Sure”
LOL, 3/27/2020, thought the same thing like DAMN... this is the BEST!!
Well, she's not a fortune-teller, she's one elegant lady, speaker, instructor, motivator
This was my goal too..."a new decade a new me " Corona sprayed sanitizer all over my plans
Was looking for this Lol.
But now we have all of this time in our home to practice applying our routines, honing our skills, and setting our foundation for our success!
Didn’t wanna take the time to comment saying “make more videoes like this” but hearing you say “otherwise I won’t be creating anymore” @ 18:20 scared me!! Make more videos like this!!
This is one of the best Videos you have ever made, my dear elegant Anna. I love it. You can trully motivate me! Thank you for that! I allways search in Net for selfimprooving Videos and this is the top one.
More, please, more, please, more, please!
Same, but didn't know any specific content.. Good to know that staying away from drama is a rich habit, as it was one of my goals for 2019. And I will be continuing this in 2020. I also have found that self care has been a good habit in 2019 and again will continue with it in 2020. Thank you Anna for the great videos. :) :)
Same! Great video
This motivated me to get out of "la la" land with starting photography. Now I have my own photography business - thanks for helping me not just be a dreamer.
I have done my beauty routine every single morning and night, for the last 13 years, always have loved organic food, no processed stuff and love to keep fit with moderate exercise...last 10 years, I have invested a lot in my mindset and self development, learned financial intelligence, but kept procrastinating often...but I started changing fast, as soon as I got clarity and purpose...and I'm not stopping. I look great for my age and feel like the best in life comes now! Never let yourself go, or take it for granted. Keep learning and take good care of yourself! The results will come, keep your high Standard.
Im so glad for you. Thank you for encouraging words :)
JanaHerde Live How old are you? You look really young!!
@@Diana72910 I just turned 40
Thank you Jana, it's very motivating to hear how self-care has worked for you. I'm now working on taking better care of myself to also improve my life.
Woah
She is amazing. Everything she is saying is directly from her mind, not reading from a cue card. My new role model.
I get the feeling that many might admire any elegant person who excludes them.
@@cherylbranche1532 - really? She isn’t excluding anyone. Take stock of your acquaintances, those that are toxic, leave them gently behind.
Definitely the queen of self-improvement.
We needed that.
Adriana tell me about yourself
Can we get more videos like this?
Even in the midst of the pandemic, this has been one of my best years yet. I’ve lost weight, started investing, read about 20 books, traveled, and generally leveled myself up in numerous ways.
No matter what happens, you can always be working on yourself.
Thrilled for you. You go, girl. x
That's encouraging Becka, and I second you on more videos on this subject, they are a great eye opener.
Travelled? How
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@@aishwaryarathod_ Within Canada, NOT internationally. It was during the summer, when restrictions were more relaxed.
“My dear elegant ladies” is that sentence that highlights my day 🤩
"Stuck in La La Land." I felt that in my bones. Excellent video.
Lol
Can relate, it's time to take action 🎉
La la. Land is such a good film
It hurts!! D;
So did I!
I agree, that's why I never say I'm on a "diet" because I consider it a lifestyle, something that I can maintain for the rest of my life.
I agree, I say I am on a hollistic lifestyle😎
Same!
YESSSS - this is precisely how it's supposed to be and why 90%+ of people 'dieting' fail
Anna I watched this video last year, took the lessons to heart and truly upgraded my life! Despite a pandemic year, I successfully moved cities, underwent a career change, am now making six figures at a dream job, and my mental/physical health is better than it ever has been. Thank you so much! My fellow ladies, if you commit to Anna's teachings, they really do work!
Wow, kudos to you! 👏🏾💐
I love this video. I’ve said my entire life there are people who are “sayers” and people who are “doers”. Can’t stand people that talk and talk and talk and never take steps to make it happen. Thank you for this!!
I love how she is supportive of other females, such a beautiful strong woman, I've learned so much from her !
Thank you and happy year everyone
Let's all start taking action!
Yes. Actually the last 6 letters of LAW OF ATTR”ACTION” is “ACTION”! 👍
I never realized that before, thanks for the eye opening fact!
Yes, many people remain stuck or regress.
The opposite of ATTRITION
Indeed!!
The pursuit of education, is the real core of Success. Taking classes of History of Religions, History of world revolutions, Finance classes, learing make you belong. Going to Museums, learn about music, go to concerts, know about composers.
The best teacher I ever had was an English teacher. 90% were Hispanics from middle to lower class. He always took the first 5 minutes of class to show us paintings and to play classical music. Once a week he would quiz us by showing slides of paintings or by playing piece by one of the great composers. We had to identify the artist/composer. To this day, I still can spot a Rembrandt, Seurat, Dali and I can appreciate classical music. All my kids went on to learn music and got to play at Carnegie Hall with their youth orchestras.
“Noise is not part of 2020” motto
I read this as the nose👃is not part of 2020😂😂😂
I liked that mantra too.
Mimi Madojutimi YES!!!! This.
I’m currently reading a book called stillness is key. It’s talks about cancelling out the noise, appreciating stillness, and getting in touch with yourself. Totally recommend it! 😊
Hi Ladies on this thread Just discovered a book that addresses the importance of this and how it folds into prosperty and self improvement. "The Art of Living" by Bob Procter I bought on thriftbooks. com $14.32 free ship. Catch interview with him on u tube Inspire Nation with Michael Sandler regarding this. I found extremely helpful and hope will be of benefit to y'all. May we all reach our goals in 2020 🙂❤
Thank you beautiful Anna for bringing elegance back to women’s mindset.
I’m an old lady and I remember when most women were elegant. My mother used to dress up nice and fix her hair EVERY DAY as a matter of routine.
You are such a refreshing reminder of elegance and a blessing to women. Thank you. ❤️❤️
I can actually feel that energy of success and class coming from you in this video. Like everything speaks for itself the hairstyle, tone of voice , outfit and posture it's so motivating. This tells me how serious yet passionate you are about what you teach.
♥️
"2020 is going to be one of the best years of our lives"
lol.
2020 has been one of my personal best years.
@@heidicheckettswest1091 Same
It is December 2020 as I watch this and that statement made me laugh! What a whirlwind of a crazy year 2020 has been!
I laughed
I feel almost guilty saying it, but 2020 was an amazing year for me personally.
Anna can u do a story time on a mistakes u made b4 u leveled up into high society?
@@abcxyz5994 yes!! Because I wonder if I'm making the same mistakes
Agreed that would be super interesting
Excellent suggestion ☺👌
Elegant ladies don’t do that(I guess)
@@Razan3bdullah y? Wouldn't they, they're still humans who learn from their mistakes?
Loved that she said *"biggest return on TIME investment."* 🔥💃
That's a wealthy mindset.
Affluent = Time management
Could you post the minute?
Definitely like this new direction of your channel: self improvement and elegance. I wasn't thrilled about the idea of taking advantage of rich men and almost left the channel, but now I'm glad I stayed. I love any information that helps me become more elegant and refined, yet self-sustaining and successful on my own. Yes, please continue with self-improvement ideas!
It's not taking advantage if you both love eachb other...
@@HIGHLANDER_ONLY_ONE True, but finding 'love' doesn't seem to be the primary reason for this particular channel. Love for money, yes. A loving partner, not so much.
What exactly were you trying to achieve by announcing your 'disapproval' of women benefitting financially from men? LOOOOOL. Why do you think your opinion is relevant???? Who do you think cares? What difference do you think you make here??? What difference do you make to anyone here??? Tens of thousands of subscribers who are here for financial social expansion - which is OUR RIGHT AND FREEDOM as human beings and you think you're breaking news by announcing your irrelevant opinion and disapproval. Get a grip.
Flowerrose121 be more classy with your wording. Haven’t you learned anything from this channel?
@@ladyslick121 when anna herself likes the original comment but you come here saying her opinion is irrelevant and you start your sentence by saying shut up it means you have a lot to learn.. especially communication skills
2020 was an Olympic challenge mentally for me.The lesson learned was keep going,don't make exscuses,and realise I could be my own best friend or enemy! Thank you Anna!
The hair looks better with both sides tucked behind the ears as opposed to the one side sweep. Brings out your facial features beautifully.
Lizzy Liz Agree :)
She looks beautiful either way
Nelli Nof I agree
Lizzy Liz it depends on the person’s facial features. It looks good on her but maybe not everyone (those with larger noses as it draws attention to the center of the face) so shouldn’t be a general statement
@@darkoshmarko agree. Anna has quite symmetrical face, so it works for her
We can never become lazy even after we have achieved our goals
Sandian BC this is a really bad habit I have and that I have to get rid of
Studies prove that we are most influenced by the 7 people closest to us.
Better to have none than even one negative one.
I LOVE personal development stuff. More plz 👑
Lazarus Live but what does it mean if you are mostly alone and at home? 👐🏼
What if your parents & siblings is one of your top 5 and their all negative.
More self-improvement videos please.
Lazarus Live Oh crap. My love of tuna, naps and massages means I spend too much time with my cat? I am screwed. LOL
Never mind the pandemic, 2020 was a great year for me. I started working out and saving money, I started planning and really taking care of myself and my psyche. I have improved myself tremendously. Any trouble around makes me want to do better and use my time to the max, so that I don't think too much.
I really needed this !
Putting yourself and your life together is the key to success . Thank you for all the interesting content Anna !
Hiba Bekraoui yep! Definitely ☝️
keep up the intellectual aspect
It looks like your house is very elegant would you mind teaching us how affluent people design their home in a minimalist way? Choices of color? Ow well house tour i guess?
monster friendly I would love to see that!
I would love to see your home decoration! It's so classy, chic yet minimalistic.
Oh yea... elegant interior design...
Would love to see that...
I was also thinking that her decor was very nice.
Wow! Thank you for your inspirational video coachings. It's very realistic and truly you are an influencer. You are a gift. Please don't say you will not make any more videos, it's unfair for us🥰. With these, may I request that you make a video on how to achieve a cozy minimalist house as I plan to buy a small property that my nay sayers are so loud about. Thanks in advance and cheers to an "ACTION" filled 2020!
Everyone should be doing these things before they have children
DarkSession van Art the very best time to start this may have been 20+ years ago, the second best is today.
I've got children. So you're saying that I cant do these now? 😒
I agree 💯
@@fredaamour4121 No. These content sections appear to be rife with women claiming to know what we all should or should not be doing... which, is somewhat ironic to me considering the nature of this channel.
@@aspenmontgomery409 I totally get you. But I hate it when these same women try to tell others what we can or can't do. As if being or wanting to be affluent equates to not having kids
I lost my dad on 2020...but instead of succumbing to sadness I started working as hard as I could, 3-4 jobs at a time. I kept focused and now I am about to achieve one of my long time dreams. I am starting to transform myself from inside and out. Somethung I still need to work on spending more quality time with my loved ones. Today's video has gotten me to think about my family and I thank you for this.
I love that you addressed this topic holistically, mentioning all aspects of our selves--body, mind, heart, and soul. Like an iceberg, it's too easy to look at the surface aspects and entirely miss the breadth and depth of the iceberg that supports the part that's visible.
4:06 You are completely correct about law of attraction. I am a living testimony of this. A few months ago, I deliberately started to change my thinking and the individuals I surround myself with. I believe God directed (rich) individuals to me, who are now helping me to better my life. I am so happy!!!!
@@kl-vh5pu Hi! Thank you for insight on this. I appreciate it.
@@kl-vh5pu Fear mongering is demonic. People are free to do what they find helpful, everyone came to learn in this life. The law of attraction is harmful for people who grow disconnected from reality, same as any belief taken to extreme. But telling someone that it's demonic is an equal madness. That's not what conscious ans spiritual people are living by.
Congratd
‘Law of attraction’ or controlling reality with your intention or visualisation is witchcraft . Not sure who your God is but but it can not be the God of the bible, since practicing witchcraft is a mortal sin equivalent to committing a murder
@@hautecouture2228 Thank you for telling me this. I appreciate it.
Dear Anna, althought I’m already married ,with three grown up children I love to listen to you and to your precious advice . I really admire your elegance and generoty
Generosity
Girl, I love you, you so focused to generously give knowledge to improve people life in so many aspects. You share everything you needed or learned. You are so filantrophic.
You might have just changed a dreamer's life. I appreciate your honest suggestions and analytical mind behind the topics considered most superficial and thus overlooked.
This hit home when you spoke about naysayers. I used to have a "friend" who would belittle my accomplishments and would discourage me from expanding my experiences. She was not successful and ended up bankrupt besides being a not nice person.
Kendra Bean its called KARMA. Whenever she denied you she was denying herself. She should've been happy for you, encouraging and help if necessary... I mean.. she forgot "what goes around comes around...
Editing "dead weight" people is SO important.......
Kendra Bean I’ve allowed way too many people to belittle my dreams, I’ve learned if I do rather than talk what others say is of no consequence
Wow, that cardigan looks absolutely amazing on you! It makes you glow!!
Consciously Pure yeah seriously it looks like Chanel where is it from?
I was going to say the same thing.
The awareness you teach are all those life lessons our busy mothers couldn't quite articulate. Looking forward to more wise content like this.
Many thanks!
I have always had a tremendous singing voice. However, stage fright has always held me back. I am going to start singing again. I am going to overcome this!
I sing like a sick crow...but I don't let it stop me. Go for it!
@@shillandkillary2236 💜
Lorie Goetz how’s the singing going?
Do recordings without an audience.
Please sing! I'd love to sing & entertain but I have no talent for such. Hearing a beautiful voice is uplifting to us listeners.
The only thing I want to learn from rich people is how to avoid taxes😂
that part!
Debt
Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University 😊
Be rich 🤷🏾♀️ because the richer you are the less percentage of taxes you pay in the US.
It's all about your accountant and I found that out the last thing you want to do is go to one of those fly-by-night places that open once a year you might have to do some shopping around but when I found the right accounting without really knowing that it would make a difference I saw what a big difference it makes like thousands of dollars a year
Anna 😭
I paused this video when you first mentioned action taking. Then I went to scrub my skin, do my upgraded skincare routine and then came back to finish the video while I'm making a wig I had been procrastinating on 😂😂😂
Absolutely loved it.
Lmao 🤣
Don't scrub your skin, use a acid to exfoliate
This is excellent. I also observe that successful people have very structured days- this helps discipline and goals as there are too many demands/noise in their life otherwise to accomplish their personal/professional goals.
I am definitely one of those people that benefit from having a schedule. Having routines. And I get sort of out of sorts when somebody interferes or something comes up and knocks me off my center if that's what you want to call it. But I have learned to be flexible now I just expect the things can be unexpected. And just kind of go with the flow.
Somehow i feel that this lady is helping all ladies to raise the bar and her continuous education will definitely change the status of woman in the society. I liked your video coaching 👍
Me too!
I agree with you, Be happy :)
I'm binge watching you since yesterday and i dont even want to be an affluent i just like your perspective in life in general
Wow this was more helpful than I thought it’d be. I really resonated with “ask yourself “WHY am I such a dreamer”” that really had me thinking. I always loved fantasizing about model projects and so on, and what projects I’d be working on if I HAD the money - but never thought to ask WHY am I just a dreamer with no action. This was the first step to finding some deep rooted conclusions. Thank you for this.
when the said "that 2020 is going to be the best year in our lives" I also loughed, but when I started thinking about it... actually I achieved a lot in this year, in matters of personal growth, spiritually and professionally ...Of course I was lucky to stay healthy. In this video Ana is talking about achieving our personal goals... so she is still right - in lots of ways - it's up to us... I wish you all the best... This too shall pass...
This is honestly one of the most inspiring videos I've seen by you. It's nice to see a beautifully groomed, classy, elegant, business-minded woman like you. Thank you for your advice. Let's keep our standards up.
I found this so inspirational and it really hit me because I am a dreamer and have fears about stepping outside my comfort zone but in 2020 I’m hoping I can take that step. Please do more motivational videos like this in the future 💕
Sabah Same!!
L.t. M we need to break the habit!
@@sabah3858 Totally, let's do this :)
"Every time you say yes to something, you say no to something else" I'll keep this. Thank you, Anna!
Surrounding yourself with people who are what you want to be: I was a solid C student in high school and for my first 2 years of college. Then I decided that I wanted to make all A's and go to graduate school. Of course I studied like crazy 24/7. BUT - I also, in each class found the smartest person in that class, made friends with him/her and competed with him/her. It worked. Pick associates you are better than you so that you can learn from them. I gained the reputation as being a very intelligent, well educated person.
Yes to personal development content! I really like the part with “blocking the noise” , staying focused, and spending your time wisely 🙏
My dear elegant Anna: I am not used to comment youtube videos, but as I absoloutely love all your content and your whole image, I will make an exeption. I love how you make me feel when you say "dear elegant ladies". It make me feel as I already am one of them. I agree with you that self improvement is one of the most important things in everybody's life, as we want to become better persons and elevate ourself. So please, do more videos about that topic. I love each one of your videos and content, and I would love any that you will share with us.
This is one of the best videos of Ana! Whenever I feel sluggish, or a procrastinator/just in my La-la land, I watch this video and an energy of doing something surges through me! 😃☺ Thank you so much for your good content. 🥰 Do make more of these!
I realized one thing. It is that I am always surrounding myself with people that are more intelligent, better students, good habits and people that have proper manners and I realized that every year I grow in each field of my life
That's so truth a lot of people the believe on affirmation. Declaring is not enough we need action. My problem is I had been many years on surviving mode.
This was perfectly timed for my experience. I have been developing myself but found certain people around my now seem to be on a completely different frequency. I am soaring and they are stalling. Thank you for motivating me to put myself first and remove those who drag me down.
I can't describe how happy it makes me that most of these things I already do. I completely agree with this and I noticed so much self growth in a past months but I have a lot more goals to achieve
I am really fascinated with you as a person as a whole . How well-educated in the matter of psychological aspects . How clever you are ! in general .
I cannot tell you (or maybe I don't need to) how many times people around me have brought me down, even my own family! My sister even tells me that I will be a failure in life because I will never succeed in anything. I have almost two degrees, I started working as front desk receptionist to earn something and she told I am a failure for that! I'm lucky I'm so stubborn not to listen to this stuff because people are EXTREMELY judgemental. That's why you should never share your goals with anyone 🤗
Maybe u should distance yourself from her for some years...
I did, I distanced myself from her and the rest of negative family ... and it was the best thing I ever did ...
You need to distance yourself from her. Sounds like she is protecting her insecurities on to you. What is SHE doing with her life
Miss Chirco, you are a high achiever. Very few people have 2 degrees or have a face or demeanour worthy of the reception desk. I want to know you.
Claudia, I had two degrees at the time when I had to take an office job because the market was very bad for engineers and I couldn’t find a position in my field. In that job, they discovered my analytical skills and used me for other tasks. Fast forward 15 years and several engineering jobs later, I am now a Project Manager making a great salary. As long as you don’t let yourself get stuck in that office job and realize it is only a layover, don’t listen to others, not even family because family can really bring you down sometimes. Just remember your accomplishments and surround yourself with like minded people as yourself.
I love how passionate you get about this topic
I know now, after years of believing I couldn’t, now I know I can. Keep faith with YOURSELF. Honestly, that’s the best advice I have ever heard.
Anna, I love these self improvement videos! I think I've watched every one of your videos. You provide information that helps keep me motivated. I especially appreciated your comment in this video to ignore the nay-sayers. I am in a male dominated profession and am also an accredited academic, and I constantly am turned down for opportunities for which I am well- or over- qualified. You are inspiration to keep my head up and to keep moving forward.
Best lesson I learned from rich people is being polite, saying "hello, thank you, have a nice day, you welcome, can I help you and good bye". Some may say it but they don't mean it. Say it like you mean it. Smile.
Jandice Barov
It’s “you’re welcome” 🙂
Even poor people do that.
"Can I help you?" sounds like customer service or sales rep speak.
lol its usually poor people who speak so sweet like that.
With you on our side, this will be the best year ever! Thank you so much for your positive influence on our lifes 💗 Please never stop!
Dearest Anna, I am 72 and I’m so amazed with the knowledge you have on how to achieve being a better person in every aspect of our lives. If people study what you are offering from your heart, they will naturally become a person of depth and richer in every aspect of their lives. I only wish you had been available when I was young making choices that determined how my life would be. You, precious Anna, teach girls/women the importance of educating themselves all through their life so they can have confidence speaking with anyone and can have their dream job. You speak about things that aren’t discussed often. It’s a very touchy subject but so very important. Hygiene!!
Anna, if only all high schools could have a class with your videos for all the girls. There are some that don’t have anyone to help them and they stay in a shell. You, dear Anna, could help so many girls gain the confidence they need to survive, and even further. Thank you for sharing your hard earned confidence and every step for a wonderful life.
What you said about dreamers/doers is exactly what I needed to hear today and is so spot on true!
"my dear elegant Ladies". So lovely to hear that. Love your channel, Anna
I’m in love with your jacket!
Elina MS omg yes. How beautiful! I’m sure it cost a million dollars but it’s so beautiful
Reerei Dia I can be as dramatic as I want.
It's Chanel
Chaima Bouaziz Yeah I know but Thank you for your response.
@@chaimabouaziz5218 it is Zara.
I love the saying "every time you say yes to something, you say no to something else"
I would love to see more videos like these. Improvement isn't always tangible but the results can be seen
I literally liked the video before even watching it. That’s how much I support you that’s it’s just second nature for me now
I love topics like this, and I'd like to see more.
These videos are having an amazing impact on my life. I appreciate everything you are doing. I hope to be able to take your classes soon.
You are truly inspiration Anna !
It's like having an older sister who is guiding me towards a better life and lifestyle.
I'd love more videos on emotional and personal development. It's essential in life and never ends.
Saving this video to watch every day this year. I needed that.
2020 was my best year this far :) I have less time seeing my friend and can focus on myself, I have new sense of self confidence, and I feel mentally tougher after 2020. Excited for 2021!! I totally love your video in these kind of topics Anna :)
Your videos are THE MOST inspiring videos ever! Even with the coronavirus going on, we can take action! Thank you Anna!
Thank you Anna for this personal development angle. I love what you said about leveling-up being a "lifestyle transformation". That really struck a chord with me. I knew this in the back of my mind, but your saying it in this video gave me that extra little "kick" that I feel I was missing in my journey. Brava e grazie!🙏🏾💎👸🏾
“Action, action and action” love it!
Channels Aristotle's "it is by our actions that we are happy or unhappy."
You look so much younger when your hair is straight like this. You're beautiful and elegant indeed.
Thank you for your amazing work, I admire you so much.