@@ParanormAlactiviti first job, first bank account, first travel all by yourself... and hundreds of mistakes! But it's okay, we learn from them and one day we'll look back giggling at the memories :)
Anna Bey is the best influencer/coach women can look up to. She carries the gift of true elegance, grace and beauty. Anna has been through ups and downs and is honest about her journey, unlike the "picture perfect" types, which only makes her more valuable. I am really fascinated by her spiritual and mental growth, and that is what life is all about. I have never been able to connect so much to any other social media persona. Anna, I wish you all the best and many more years of success. ❤ Thank you for opening up and sharing bits of your journey!
@@8888-o4z I agree! I absolutely love how Anna doesn’t show up as if “I woke up like this Flawless!” but she is very honest about the How (her process, her journey) how she evolved into this quintessential and phenomenal woman she is today. Embracing her flaws, past, mistakes and reinventing herself. I love how she stands out from many other “influencers” or coaches in this field. 💕
Anna appeals to women who are in the same boat she was in; and isn't it wonderful that someone puts on a lifeguard jacket and reaches out to help those who are where they just were.
@Pamsmith59 Anna appeals to those who appreciate class, and unfortunately, not everyone knows what class is in this day and age, so I understand it may be harder to spot. Of course, everyone would love to be in the same boat as her for obvious reasons. That requires work, and apparently, the women she appeals to appreciate elegance, education, evolving spiritually, growing as people, and nonetheless, having more to offer to the world. ❤️
It takes courage to publish a video like this, and I appreciate it. Even though my life wasn't nearly as dramatic, I still feel I can relate to you more now than before watching the video.
17 years is pretty long for the life of a dog. Apparently you were a very caring, nurturing and loving pet owner. They were blessed to have you in their lives. 👏🏾👍🏾
It takes a lot of guts to share your short comings on the internet! I don’t feel like you wasted your 20s, you did the best with what you knew at the time! You learned and you grew as a person!! I’m happy that you learned from you past experiences and it shaped you into the woman that you are today 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Looks like the old Anna who was so real and down to earth who really didn’t care about the the opinion of others rather being true to herself is finally Back ( hopefully for good ) ❤🙏🙏🙏
@@AnnaBeyOfficialOne must remember where they came from. If it weren't for your roots, you wouldn't have had the motivation of being where you are now; therefore, that time was not wasted - not in vain. It is good to humble one's self & be grateful for what the Lord provides us. He gives us what we want - not what we need. It is ok to be a brunette, too. One could be poor and be the wealthiest because they have faith. Being materialistic isn't everything.
@@denisseavila9083I think you got the saying mixed. God gives you what you need not what you want 🙏💟 Otherwise well said. Anna is an inspiration even to me as an elderly person. I didn't have daughters, however seeing her thrive is a joy. 😊
Anna Bey is so sympatico. I love her content. I am not that interested in "leveling up" or having beautiful clothes, I just LOVE Anna's zest for life and her appreciation of other people. This goes beyond being rich. What an inspiration!!
Leveling up is about becoming the best version of yourself that you want to become, not necessarily about wearing particular clothing or being wealthy. It can involve how you take care of your mind, your body, your relationships, your goals, your overall quality of life, and that will look different for everyone.
I found your channel at the age of 18, I'm 22 now and cannot imagine the turn my life could've taken if it wasn't for your advice and experience. Thank you so much Anna
I'm impressed you listened to her at such a young age. I can't get my 30 year old sister to see the beauty in this channel. But one does have to be ready to embrace elegance, I suppose.
Dear Anna, You moved me and gave me a lot of strength and motivation. My homeland is bleeding and is in a severe war that I wish would stop , recent divorced with 3 young children, danger of being fired from work, I totally needed your encouraging words. you are an inspiration amazing woman!!! thank you very much!!!
I'm sorry to hear you are going through such a tough time. If you think you will be fired from your job, maybe go and have a chat with your boss. Get feed back on how you are doing. You may be pleasntly suprised to learn they think you are doing ok. If they fire you and take on another person, they will have to train them up. Ask how you can improve in your role or add more value to the company. Is there a role/task you see needs doing? Maybe make a new job role out of it? Also, put some money aside regularly into investments if you can. You will need it when you are older in your 60/70/80's.
I think the biggest takeaway from your story for me is resiliency. A belief that what you want is possible to achieve and a determination to achieve it no matter how long it takes. I have learned a lot from watching your videos and appreciate you.
I discovered Anna Bey's channel in 2019. I love her vulnerability in this video. A crazy friend of mine would sign: 'To be old and wise, you have to be young and foolish.' 😊 Never let go of hope, hard work, putting one step in front of the other. Love the elegance and self development Anna communicates on. ❤
Hello Anna, I am a 19 year old girl from Bulgaria. When I first discovered your channel I thought you were born rich. And I started following you to learn how to be a class woman. Know I see that you were just a girl who loved having fun. And its amazing to see that you grew up and became a real woman. This video gives me so much hope that one day i will be as successful as you are ❤
I actually discovered you through a recommended video on TH-cam, which led to your blog. You inspired my level up journey & I've been following for the past six years. I revamped my wardrobe, changed careers, got out of an abusive relationship, etc. This year I had to take what I thought was a step back when I had to take a job driving, but I now see it as a way to relocate & use the time to develop other skills, better myself, etc. So I guess this rambling diatribe is a thank you for all you've taught me & for popping up in my feed all those years ago. When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.
How humble of you to share your experience to make everyone else’s life better. Sending my blessings to you. I always share your videos with my teenage daughter. Your advice is very helpful and much appreciated
I think people in their 20s are so focused on productivity and progress now, it's so different to when I was young in the 2000s and all we did was plan where to go out partying 😂 I can see it might help people make more progress when they're young but they could go easier on themselves and still be in a good place in their 30s-40s. Some life experience helps! I worry they put too much pressure on themselves. I got married at 28, qualified as a lawyer at 34, got divorced at 35 and now have a totally different life in my late 30s. You don't need to do it all in your 20s! Life often doesn't go how you plan it...
I think one of the healthiest things anyone can do is to make peace with the past, and be able to laugh at yourself sometimes. I don’t have any regrets regarding the silly, wild, or even stupid things I did as a young adult. The things I would change (if I could) were the times I embarrassed others. I’m very sorry for that. My family are good, hard working people. They raised me well, and gave me opportunities that I know many others did not have. Sometimes I really lacked the maturity to take advantage of what I was offered.
I just turned 30 in June this year Anna, and sometimes I feel like I could write a book on my life from being a child to 25. My life only felt settled, better, calmer when I hit 25. Beforehand it was a shit-show - where I made bad decisions, learnt lessons but also made good decisions that I benefit from even today. This is life, a journey.
For someone who’s been watching your videos for a few years now, this happens to be my favorite video 🥹❤️. Very blunt and right on time🙂. May God continue to see you through your life’s journey🙏🏽. You’re an angel in human form🫶.
Wow! I love this new Anna! Thank you so much for sharing your journey! I loved how you emphasized hard work and action! I worked a 3-11 job, went to school from 8-12, studied and did life from 1-3pm and 12-2 am. Two masters degrees later, 40 years of working my butt off, taking the detours that were thrown in my path, I am enjoying a fun and healthy retirement. HOWEVER, now I’m at a place in my 60s that I want to do more. You inspired me to get off my butt and be resourceful and take action again. Looking forward to what comes next! Thanks Anna for the kick in the butt!
I'm 58, dropped down to part-time work last year, life is less stressful, but I now need something more. I like Anna's "keep the needle moving forward". I just need to set the direction in a few areas. Take a look at Life Wheels (google it under images) and it shows the different areas we all have in our lives eg health, family, money, hobbies and many more. I'm going to use that to set some goals and a new direction for the future. Good luck on your journey.
I think this is my favorite video you’ve made by far. I resonate with your story. It is crazy as we get older, our ways of thinking and living change drastically. Thank you for being transparent & genuine 💗
I am a girl doing bachelors in an elite university away from my parents. I have a test in 2 hours, didn't sleep properly since 3 days and I have prepared for the test, cuz the schedule is too busy. We even have regular classes before the test. The food here sucks . Still guys , let's not get hopeless , high society and your dreams are worth it.
Anna, you are so inspiring women who never gave up. Listening to this video brought tears into my eyes, most needed video. *Your parents must be very proud of you*
Omg I am Colombian I never thought Colombia had a big impact on you.That could be one of the reasons why I always feel connected with you , I been follow you for so many years… Thanks for sharing Anna. ❤
As a Colombian viewer, It made me really happy to hear that you had a great time in Colombia!💫 I love your content, your presence and sense of humor.your advise is truly valuable, thank you Anna💙
Oh Anna I too feel like I wasted my 20s but once I turned 31 this year I left that mindset behind because I realised I'm at a different level in my life that I wouldn't achieve if I didn't go through the things I did back then. I'm no longer afraid to start over because I know how powerful I am once I started my level up journey
I'm 58, my 20's were entry level jobs and having fun, but I felt a bit lost. I enjoyed my 30's as I got married at 28, had my own home and changed career in my 30's. Life was more settled. My 40's I slowed down a bit. My 50's were affected a bit by Covid, so many travel plans put on hold - grrrrr. But I'm now ready to get back into the saddle for more adventures - I'm hoping to go to Brazil next year into the Amazon forest. I studied Brazil in Geography at school, used to look at the map and think one day............... Enjoy your 30's. Keep fit and healthy, eat a good diet, keep putting money away for when you are older, it soon comes around, find a simple housework routine or get a cleaner in, plan lots of nice days out to look forward to - free if possible. Enjoy your life and as Anna says, keep moving the needle forward.
My advice to young women now that I am 69 is that a man is not a plan. I would work on yourself first and just like she said when you are ready, then your relationship will come along. I did just the opposite a man was always in the picture for me and it was disappointing so I had to start a career at the age of 29. I’m so happy I did. I enjoyed my career so much but I should’ve done it so much sooner had I not depended on a man.😮
My advice to young women is to not ignore seeking a husband and having children. They are what brings THE most joy in this short thing called life. At the end of one's life nobody says, "If only I'd spent more time at the office."
You can stay home if he maxes out your Roth IRA annually and deposits a monthly stipend into your HYSA. You don’t need a career to fund your retirement.
@@Pamsmith59Thank you for sharing this. You are one of the few who speak the truth in this confused world. One thing is to use every moment to work on yourself, just like Anna did. But to say that a man is not needed is different.
I'm the same age of Anna and also a mother of a young son. I'm still on the first 4 minutes of the video and I just couldn't help myself to comment on the idea of how safe it was back then(?) to travel alone. I might have watched too much crime documentaries and it freaks me out to even imagine how my son would someday travel the world alone. I hope everyone is safe during their own journey to find one-self. I'll continue watching xx
I think she was probably very street savy and made conscious choices about where she went. I did the same. Although I do look back now and think the world's a bit more dangerous now though🤷♀️
Sounds wonderful. I spent 2 weeks backpacking around some islands in the 90's, before the internet, when you got off the ferry and were greeted by locals with a brochure showing the room in their home to rent. It was all very spontaneous and adventurous. My fave was Tinos, we seemed to be the only tourists there.
Yeah, Anna being real was REALLY funny, relatable & found myself laughing every few mins bc she was just being REAL. Do this again, Anna, this makes u a baddie. ♥️
Dear Anna, you have been accompanying me for 1 year now (I began the Journey last Oktober with Secrets of an elite woman, then the elegant stylist) and I am infinitely grateful that I found your offerings and can learn from you. And although I've only been on the Level-Up Journey for 1 year, I also notice that it's a process and only through trying things out can I gain experiences.. und have to stay patient, proactive und openminded. I'm also starting therapy now and I'm so excited to see how it will support me on the Level-Up Journey. Thank you for inspiring me to do this! ❤
Anna, you know the art of how to make someone feeling like he's exactly like you! In my case, inspiration is coming not only from noticing all the (similar) hardships I've been through, but also realizing that I've already saved so much time! Right now, I'm on my 20s and I've already started working on my level-up journey, investing in myself, using all the tools the internet provides us and building something on my own. So, if it's the case that the sooner you start, the further you'll go, the future is bright and promising and I can't wait for it to come!! ✨ Thanks for sharing your motivating story! It means a lot, because not everyone starts from the same point... And I'm glad to have someone to learn from!! ❤️
I remember wanting to get into therapy as just a thought in my head when I was younger, and following through your journey made me certainly want to get into therapy to fix what's needed. I'll get there when I have the money. Thank you, Anna ❤
Great post! In my twenties I was floundering as well and also had to re focus and move forward. I developed a mantra that I use to this day, several decades later: never make a bad situation worse.
I to used to escape into my horses. We owned several, but I also rode horses at the horse farm behind our house. I would get up at 4 a.m on the weekends starting in 3rd grade and go over to the farm where I : fed them, mucked out stalls, and exercised them. (there was about 15 head) I exercised the horses owned by the farm and the boarders horses. I did not make money. I did it for the joy of it. I would be there on weekends and after school. I showed jumpers and dressage. They horses were mostly Hanoverians, but other breeds as well. It was a beautiful time in my life. I got a paying part time job, but still did a lot at the farm. Though not getting up so early . I did this until I was about 17. Even at the age of 9 my mom never had to check on me because she knew where I was from dawn until dusk No helicopter parenting. Being away from home so much helped me to escape a verbally abusive step-father.
I'm so grateful for having the opportunity to crossed with your video. I'm recently divorce and I just realized that in the last years I was only prioritizing the concerns of my ex partner. My life wasn't a priority and I know that it was my fault. Now I'm slowly waking up for life. Thank you for making a such genuine video and sharing your journey. I hope this video can reach many women out there that need to hear you. Hugs from Spain ❤
What I love most about you is you are so honest about your mistakes turmoils, low points. It is such a confident thing to do because only when you're really over you can share those moments.
Hello Anna, I moved to NYC by myself and run into your blog, then TH-cam channel. You were one of a kind back then, I was so amazed by you that I purchased your first online course School of Affluent even though I was financially distressed. I remember watching it religiously and taking notes :) I feel like I grow up with you, I follow you for many years now and I really resonate your journey. Greetings from NYC !!
Anna, I have been following you a long time. We are about the same age and in some ways have shared similar aspects in our journey. I adore how you have tried to be very transparent and open about your growth, your intentions, your perspective and background. You are a beautiful person inside and out. ❤
Your editor snapped. The video is visually appealing. The story-telling was great and inspiring. I'm glad you mentioned Therapy as part of leveling up - very important and I'm happy everything worked out for you in the end.
Its great anna, i wasted my 20s in a different way .i gad the same story until i married at 19.married a narcissistic man and had my 5 blessing children.dont regret wasting ur 20s.. it was all lessons like for all of us❤
Same story here but 1 child with a narcissist and unfortunately she’s bi polar and a narcissist, just not a malignant one. All the best of blessings to you and your children!
Thank you for this, am actually at my lowest right now... I discovered your channel in 2020 and i love every video you post. Am glad I came across this video... You have no idea how much your videos have helped me mentally,build my confidence and motivated me. l hope that I'll be okay soon and achieve my goals one day! Much love from Kenya❤❤
When we do something because we want to, it's driven by passion, curiosity, and personal desire, which brings a sense of fulfillment and joy. It allows us to align our actions with our values, making the experience more meaningful and empowering
1:17 Cute Anna 😍 you can really see a shift of happiness in your body language an through your huge smile. How wonderful you found this friend and you found this place.
Thank you Anna... discovered your channel in 2020, I'm 21 btw. You helped me realize that anything is actually possible. Thank you for all that you do ❤
Wow! I have such an eerily story to yours. It stuck home so hard I’m almost in tears! I’m am still working towards my career but I have had many of these same obstacles, challenges, paths of learning, whatever you want to call it. Working on myself was most important and I’m finally in a healthy loving relationship, but working towards a solid career here in the U.S. is a challenge. Thank you so much for sharing this! ❤
Where were you when I was doing nutty stuff like you? I did go to therapy but not good therapists. 12 yrs later I understand why I do what I do. Thank you Anna for being so open about your past. It shows you are a very humane person.
Oscar Wilde put it so nicely: Experience is merely a name people gave to their mistakes. You are you thanks to those "mistakes" you made, you have learnt on them and have turned into a more experienced and self-confident woman. So be proud of yourself. And not everyone has the gut to share their mistakes or failures. Congratulations on that as well 👍👍👍👏👏👏 21.10.2024, 13:28
You are an inspiration for every woman that wants and chose to believe in herself. Sharing these personal things with all of us it means a lot: this is not about wasted time, is about what made you be the one you are today.
I love you! I started following you for fashion advice and learned so much more. Your 20's sound like what the rich dad in Rich Dad Poor Dad says you should do. You had incredible, fun, heartbreaking, life-changing experiences. You'd never be where you are if it weren't for where you came from.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey; it's truly inspiring and highlights realities of life - it's not all perfect and easy. It's normal to have struggles, to go through different phases in life, and there are cycles of successes and 'failures' (learning experiences). It's never too late to learn and try and change and level up. Thank you, Anna!
Your past made you the woman you are today! I feel like I wasted my 20's and 30's which I'm still building myself in my 40's. But I've learned so much and know who I am and what I want now. And what I don't. You are amazing ❤
Have been following ypu for years. Earlier you tried to 'look wealthy ' by following a carefully designed check listm after your recent pivot in life you have actually genuinely embodied the real wealthy 'look' / vibe mindset. I am so happy about that. I too took the same journey with you. I am jow able to understand what wealth money actually means to me and how i see it now , where is prioritize to spend it and with what mindset. Including offourse my choice when it comes to buying things. I am really happy about this process of being able to come into your own. Understanding yourself and being comfortable with who u are. I no longer seek perfection I just want to feel good. Whatever that means in that moment.
I found your story very interesting and helpful, especially for those ladies feeling lost and off, it’s important to let people know that life is roller coaster and all emotions must be welcomed in order to grow, mentally, physically and spiritually ❤ thanks for sharing.
You destroy yourself from an outside, but you rebuild yourself inside you learn in a hard way. I’m very proud of you though. Thank you for sharing your story and I hope a lot of the people are reading. These don’t judge too hard because of you. You will change the life or many SOULS !!❤✨🙏🏻☘️😇
I admire you so much for your determination. You travelled to soooo many countries!! You are the person I wish I was. Honestly I am Miss Comfort Zone and I am afraid of failure and that is why I haven't done the same. I am so sorry about Piggy and Ziggy. They are such sweet tiny babies. RIP
Maybe set a goal to go on one adventure / interesting country and get out of that comfort zone? :) It may even be something smaller like book into a hotel for a weekend in a nearby city you haven't been too and explore it. Or sign up for an evening class.
You really are the epitome of someone who worked their way up and didn't let anything stop them. Your story is incredible; to just see that you were willing to do no matter what to succeed in life, no excuses. Thank you for sharing this story. Also, did your marketing diploma teach you how to make these videos in terms of the visuals like adding the animated lightbulb and those clips from your post? I always wondered how TH-camrs learn how to make the physical videos.
Love your content, Anna! We’ve all had those cringe moments in our past. Thank you for your transparency, vulnerability and authenticity. You’ve done wonderfully in your life, no matter what path you needed to take. Thanks for the inspiration. 💜
This story is more special because you gave tid bits before and now sharing this is more of a story beautifully written and showing that growth is possible if you really desire it Thanks for sharing Anna ❤ I'm 19 but I've already made mistakes God help me to look to my present and future Like someone once said the proof of passion is pursuit 🎉
We all make mistakes, sweetheart. It is all part of the journey called life! You are not alone. There is no guidance to life. Being able to overcome them, learn and grow instead of dwell on them makes your journey even more valuable than any "perfect" one out there because it signifies growth and resilience. Don't let your past drag you down. You are worth becoming the best version of yourself! ❤
You didn’t waste your 20s baby. That’s what I used to say too. Those experiences shaped who we are today, no matter how much we judge what we did! In fact, I’ve recently reintegrated the age of 20 back into my life bc I judged her so hard,I lost that part of my soul. 💔 I’ve learned to appreciate her and love her and I love who I was, love who I am and love who I am becoming!❤❤❤
Like they say, youth is wasted on the young! I did the same as you, after three years in University i needed a brake. I up and moved to Tokyo. I didn't have a work visa and i didn't speak Japanese and… i had no money! I got two good jobs, teaching English and modeling in magazines ( the only place a 5’1” girl could model) Now when i look back ( this was before internet and even cell phones) i can't imagine i did that. I'm so glad i did, was a great experience at 19
That is amazing as Japan was definately vey exotic in those days and not many people went there. I'm 58, still not been, but will add it to the list :)
This doesn't sound to me like you wasted your 20s. You experienced both good and bad stuff and learned from it.
Well said. I couldn't agree more.
Agree! Anna spent her 20s travelling and getting to know the world. Inspiring :)
That so true, 20s are for making mistakes and learning from them
@@ParanormAlactiviti first job, first bank account, first travel all by yourself... and hundreds of mistakes! But it's okay, we learn from them and one day we'll look back giggling at the memories :)
Why didn't you go to college rather than using your looks to be famous? Most want to be models and snag a rich guy, unfortunately, we all get Old.
Anna, this sounds like you haven't wasted a day in your life. Thank you for sharing your story and being ever so inspiring.
Yes, it ws so inpiring.
i saw websites that *suluxy* that carry lv and chanel new collection! like exact blue print and looks like high quality too.
Girl, your life in your 20s is more adventurous than anything I’ll ever experience in my whole life!
Anna Bey is the best influencer/coach women can look up to. She carries the gift of true elegance, grace and beauty. Anna has been through ups and downs and is honest about her journey, unlike the "picture perfect" types, which only makes her more valuable. I am really fascinated by her spiritual and mental growth, and that is what life is all about. I have never been able to connect so much to any other social media persona.
Anna, I wish you all the best and many more years of success. ❤ Thank you for opening up and sharing bits of your journey!
Exactly, I couldn’t agree more.
@@8888-o4z I agree!
I absolutely love how Anna doesn’t show up as if “I woke up like this Flawless!” but she is very honest about the How (her process, her journey) how she evolved into this quintessential and phenomenal woman she is today. Embracing her flaws, past, mistakes and reinventing herself. I love how she stands out from many other “influencers” or coaches in this field.
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Anna appeals to women who are in the same boat she was in; and isn't it wonderful that someone puts on a lifeguard jacket and reaches out to help those who are where they just were.
@Pamsmith59 Anna appeals to those who appreciate class, and unfortunately, not everyone knows what class is in this day and age, so I understand it may be harder to spot. Of course, everyone would love to be in the same boat as her for obvious reasons. That requires work, and apparently, the women she appeals to appreciate elegance, education, evolving spiritually, growing as people, and nonetheless, having more to offer to the world. ❤️
i saw websites that *suluxy* that carry lv and chanel new collection! like exact blue print and looks like high quality too.
It takes courage to publish a video like this, and I appreciate it. Even though my life wasn't nearly as dramatic, I still feel I can relate to you more now than before watching the video.
My professor in college asked whom I admire I wrote Anna Bey, my first coach how to level up.
Oh my gosh, this is so sweet of you to say 🥺❤️🙏
@@AnnaBeyOfficialyou were my first experience with elegance and feminity ❤
It's really brought me so far
Honestly your 20s sounds like so much fun, be glad that you travelled and have those memories.
17 years is pretty long for the life of a dog. Apparently you were a very caring, nurturing and loving pet owner. They were blessed to have you in their lives. 👏🏾👍🏾
It takes a lot of guts to share your short comings on the internet! I don’t feel like you wasted your 20s, you did the best with what you knew at the time! You learned and you grew as a person!! I’m happy that you learned from you past experiences and it shaped you into the woman that you are today 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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Lol she certainly left out a lot of Details 😂😂😂
Its because now the *suluxy* are higher quality than the original name brands! *COUGH CHANEL COUGH*
Looks like the old Anna who was so real and down to earth who really didn’t care about the the opinion of others rather being true to herself is finally Back ( hopefully for good ) ❤🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for being here ❤️
@@AnnaBeyOfficialOne must remember where they came from. If it weren't for your roots, you wouldn't have had the motivation of being where you are now; therefore, that time was not wasted - not in vain. It is good to humble one's self & be grateful for what the Lord provides us. He gives us what we want - not what we need. It is ok to be a brunette, too. One could be poor and be the wealthiest because they have faith. Being materialistic isn't everything.
@@WorkIssues yesssssssss I missed this Anna
@@denisseavila9083I think you got the saying mixed. God gives you what you need not what you want 🙏💟 Otherwise well said. Anna is an inspiration even to me as an elderly person. I didn't have daughters, however seeing her thrive is a joy. 😊
@@Rose-jz6ix Yes, you are right on my quote, thanks! Lol. Also, not all that glitters is gold.
Anna Bey is so sympatico. I love her content. I am not that interested in "leveling up" or having beautiful clothes, I just LOVE Anna's zest for life and her appreciation of other people. This goes beyond being rich. What an inspiration!!
Leveling up is about becoming the best version of yourself that you want to become, not necessarily about wearing particular clothing or being wealthy. It can involve how you take care of your mind, your body, your relationships, your goals, your overall quality of life, and that will look different for everyone.
I love the way you laugh at the past mistakes and troubles. You're very inspiring
I found your channel at the age of 18, I'm 22 now and cannot imagine the turn my life could've taken if it wasn't for your advice and experience. Thank you so much Anna
I'm impressed you listened to her at such a young age. I can't get my 30 year old sister to see the beauty in this channel. But one does have to be ready to embrace elegance, I suppose.
@@luuchie same girl same
Dear Anna, You moved me and gave me a lot of strength and motivation. My homeland is bleeding and is in a severe war that I wish would stop , recent divorced with 3 young children, danger of being fired from work, I totally needed your encouraging words. you are an inspiration amazing woman!!! thank you very much!!!
I'm sorry to hear you are going through such a tough time. If you think you will be fired from your job, maybe go and have a chat with your boss. Get feed back on how you are doing. You may be pleasntly suprised to learn they think you are doing ok. If they fire you and take on another person, they will have to train them up. Ask how you can improve in your role or add more value to the company. Is there a role/task you see needs doing? Maybe make a new job role out of it? Also, put some money aside regularly into investments if you can. You will need it when you are older in your 60/70/80's.
@@softsophisticate I will do that. Thank you very much for your support.♥
you LIVED! You loved learned and traveled. Anna. You're an inspiration!
For all the women out there, I would strongly recommend to read "The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden"
I cannot find the book
Did you mean Jennifer Arlington
It appears to only be available in e-book format on her independent website. Thanks for the recommendation, I will definitely check it out! 💗
I think the biggest takeaway from your story for me is resiliency. A belief that what you want is possible to achieve and a determination to achieve it no matter how long it takes. I have learned a lot from watching your videos and appreciate you.
I agree. It gave me that encouragement to keep getting up no matter how many failures I go through.
Yes! Resiliency is an incredibly good quality to have in life and Ana has it in spades.
On behalf of all 20something ladies here, thank you, I really needed to hear this story today, it is so inspiring!
I discovered Anna Bey's channel in 2019.
I love her vulnerability in this video.
A crazy friend of mine would sign: 'To be old and wise, you have to be young and foolish.' 😊
Never let go of hope, hard work, putting one step in front of the other.
Love the elegance and self development Anna communicates on. ❤
Hello Anna, I am a 19 year old girl from Bulgaria. When I first discovered your channel I thought you were born rich. And I started following you to learn how to be a class woman. Know I see that you were just a girl who loved having fun. And its amazing to see that you grew up and became a real woman. This video gives me so much hope that one day i will be as successful as you are ❤
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Don’t bet on it
A Colombian follower here, I'm glad you shared those insights about you.
I actually discovered you through a recommended video on TH-cam, which led to your blog. You inspired my level up journey & I've been following for the past six years. I revamped my wardrobe, changed careers, got out of an abusive relationship, etc. This year I had to take what I thought was a step back when I had to take a job driving, but I now see it as a way to relocate & use the time to develop other skills, better myself, etc. So I guess this rambling diatribe is a thank you for all you've taught me & for popping up in my feed all those years ago. When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.
Thank you so much for sharing your story, I’m so glad I was able to help. Comments like this I save and look back at when everything feels tough! ❤️
I LOVE THAT. "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear."
How humble of you to share your experience to make everyone else’s life better. Sending my blessings to you. I always share your videos with my teenage daughter. Your advice is very helpful and much appreciated
I think people in their 20s are so focused on productivity and progress now, it's so different to when I was young in the 2000s and all we did was plan where to go out partying 😂 I can see it might help people make more progress when they're young but they could go easier on themselves and still be in a good place in their 30s-40s. Some life experience helps! I worry they put too much pressure on themselves. I got married at 28, qualified as a lawyer at 34, got divorced at 35 and now have a totally different life in my late 30s. You don't need to do it all in your 20s! Life often doesn't go how you plan it...
I think one of the healthiest things anyone can do is to make peace with the past, and be able to laugh at yourself sometimes. I don’t have any regrets regarding the silly, wild, or even stupid things I did as a young adult. The things I would change (if I could) were the times I embarrassed others. I’m very sorry for that. My family are good, hard working people. They raised me well, and gave me opportunities that I know many others did not have. Sometimes I really lacked the maturity to take advantage of what I was offered.
I just turned 30 in June this year Anna, and sometimes I feel like I could write a book on my life from being a child to 25. My life only felt settled, better, calmer when I hit 25. Beforehand it was a shit-show - where I made bad decisions, learnt lessons but also made good decisions that I benefit from even today. This is life, a journey.
For someone who’s been watching your videos for a few years now, this happens to be my favorite video 🥹❤️. Very blunt and right on time🙂.
May God continue to see you through your life’s journey🙏🏽. You’re an angel in human form🫶.
Wow! I love this new Anna! Thank you so much for sharing your journey! I loved how you emphasized hard work and action! I worked a 3-11 job, went to school from 8-12, studied and did life from 1-3pm and 12-2 am. Two masters degrees later, 40 years of working my butt off, taking the detours that were thrown in my path, I am enjoying a fun and healthy retirement. HOWEVER, now I’m at a place in my 60s that I want to do more. You inspired me to get off my butt and be resourceful and take action again. Looking forward to what comes next! Thanks Anna for the kick in the butt!
I'm 58, dropped down to part-time work last year, life is less stressful, but I now need something more. I like Anna's "keep the needle moving forward". I just need to set the direction in a few areas. Take a look at Life Wheels (google it under images) and it shows the different areas we all have in our lives eg health, family, money, hobbies and many more. I'm going to use that to set some goals and a new direction for the future. Good luck on your journey.
This was one of my favourite videos of yours! I'm so happy to see an even more authentic version of you!
Colombia with friends to London alone must have been quite a changeeee
I think this is my favorite video you’ve made by far. I resonate with your story. It is crazy as we get older, our ways of thinking and living change drastically. Thank you for being transparent & genuine 💗
I am a girl doing bachelors in an elite university away from my parents. I have a test in 2 hours, didn't sleep properly since 3 days and I have prepared for the test, cuz the schedule is too busy. We even have regular classes before the test. The food here sucks . Still guys , let's not get hopeless , high society and your dreams are worth it.
Anna, you are so inspiring women who never gave up. Listening to this video brought tears into my eyes, most needed video.
*Your parents must be very proud of you*
Omg I am Colombian I never thought Colombia had a big impact on you.That could be one of the reasons why I always feel connected with you , I been follow you for so many years…
Thanks for sharing Anna. ❤
As a Colombian viewer, It made me really happy to hear that you had a great time in Colombia!💫
I love your content, your presence and sense of humor.your advise is truly valuable, thank you Anna💙
Oh Anna I too feel like I wasted my 20s but once I turned 31 this year I left that mindset behind because I realised I'm at a different level in my life that I wouldn't achieve if I didn't go through the things I did back then. I'm no longer afraid to start over because I know how powerful I am once I started my level up journey
I'm 58, my 20's were entry level jobs and having fun, but I felt a bit lost. I enjoyed my 30's as I got married at 28, had my own home and changed career in my 30's. Life was more settled. My 40's I slowed down a bit. My 50's were affected a bit by Covid, so many travel plans put on hold - grrrrr. But I'm now ready to get back into the saddle for more adventures - I'm hoping to go to Brazil next year into the Amazon forest. I studied Brazil in Geography at school, used to look at the map and think one day...............
Enjoy your 30's. Keep fit and healthy, eat a good diet, keep putting money away for when you are older, it soon comes around, find a simple housework routine or get a cleaner in, plan lots of nice days out to look forward to - free if possible.
Enjoy your life and as Anna says, keep moving the needle forward.
My advice to young women now that I am 69 is that a man is not a plan. I would work on yourself first and just like she said when you are ready, then your relationship will come along. I did just the opposite a man was always in the picture for me and it was disappointing so I had to start a career at the age of 29. I’m so happy I did. I enjoyed my career so much but I should’ve done it so much sooner had I not depended on a man.😮
My advice to young women is to not ignore seeking a husband and having children. They are what brings THE most joy in this short thing called life. At the end of one's life nobody says, "If only I'd spent more time at the office."
You can stay home if he maxes out your Roth IRA annually and deposits a monthly stipend into your HYSA. You don’t need a career to fund your retirement.
@@Pamsmith59Thank you for sharing this. You are one of the few who speak the truth in this confused world. One thing is to use every moment to work on yourself, just like Anna did. But to say that a man is not needed is different.
Your honesty is admirable. Your intelligence, charm, elegance, beauty, and kindness come through the screen brilliantly 🌸
I'm the same age of Anna and also a mother of a young son. I'm still on the first 4 minutes of the video and I just couldn't help myself to comment on the idea of how safe it was back then(?) to travel alone. I might have watched too much crime documentaries and it freaks me out to even imagine how my son would someday travel the world alone. I hope everyone is safe during their own journey to find one-self. I'll continue watching xx
Interesting, I had the same thought about not being safe to travel alone in the world today. Especially as a young woman.
I think she was probably very street savy and made conscious choices about where she went. I did the same. Although I do look back now and think the world's a bit more dangerous now though🤷♀️
You’ve helped me so much! I enjoy your videos and thank you for sharing your story. 💕
I’m so glad to hear that!
Your authentic, silly, genuine self makes your attractive Anna
I can say we have some things in common. I never wanted to be in a 9 to 5 job ,and spent years in greece ,just enjoying life.
Sounds wonderful. I spent 2 weeks backpacking around some islands in the 90's, before the internet, when you got off the ferry and were greeted by locals with a brochure showing the room in their home to rent. It was all very spontaneous and adventurous. My fave was Tinos, we seemed to be the only tourists there.
I always loved your message from way back because you were honest. You spoke of elegance when no one else did. You deserve every success! .
the most authentic TH-camr that exist. I appreciate your honesty and valuable content always!
Yeah, Anna being real was REALLY funny, relatable & found myself laughing every few mins bc she was just being REAL. Do this again, Anna, this makes u a baddie. ♥️
Dear Anna, you have been accompanying me for 1 year now (I began the Journey last Oktober with Secrets of an elite woman, then the elegant stylist) and I am infinitely grateful that I found your offerings and can learn from you. And although I've only been on the Level-Up Journey for 1 year, I also notice that it's a process and only through trying things out can I gain experiences.. und have to stay patient, proactive und openminded. I'm also starting therapy now and I'm so excited to see how it will support me on the Level-Up Journey. Thank you for inspiring me to do this! ❤
I remember when I came across your videos by chance. You are one of the biggest reasons for my great development. Thank you Anna! ❤
Lessons learned are never time wasted.
You are lovely.
Anna, you know the art of how to make someone feeling like he's exactly like you! In my case, inspiration is coming not only from noticing all the (similar) hardships I've been through, but also realizing that I've already saved so much time! Right now, I'm on my 20s and I've already started working on my level-up journey, investing in myself, using all the tools the internet provides us and building something on my own. So, if it's the case that the sooner you start, the further you'll go, the future is bright and promising and I can't wait for it to come!! ✨
Thanks for sharing your motivating story! It means a lot, because not everyone starts from the same point... And I'm glad to have someone to learn from!! ❤️
I remember wanting to get into therapy as just a thought in my head when I was younger, and following through your journey made me certainly want to get into therapy to fix what's needed. I'll get there when I have the money. Thank you, Anna ❤
Great post! In my twenties I was floundering as well and also had to re focus and move forward. I developed a mantra that I use to this day, several decades later: never make a bad situation worse.
That is a great one. A bit similar to Anna's "keep the needle moving forward" - ie in a more positive direction.
I love these kinds of videos where you take us through your journey. It feels very nice to know somebody's story.
I to used to escape into my horses. We owned several, but I also rode horses at the horse farm behind our house. I would get up at 4 a.m on the weekends starting in 3rd grade and go over to the farm where I : fed them, mucked out stalls, and exercised them. (there was about 15 head) I exercised the horses owned by the farm and the boarders horses. I did not make money. I did it for the joy of it. I would be there on weekends and after school. I showed jumpers and dressage. They horses were mostly Hanoverians, but other breeds as well. It was a beautiful time in my life. I got a paying part time job, but still did a lot at the farm. Though not getting up so early . I did this until I was about 17. Even at the age of 9 my mom never had to check on me because she knew where I was from dawn until dusk No helicopter parenting. Being away from home so much helped me to escape a verbally abusive step-father.
I'm so grateful for having the opportunity to crossed with your video. I'm recently divorce and I just realized that in the last years I was only prioritizing the concerns of my ex partner. My life wasn't a priority and I know that it was my fault. Now I'm slowly waking up for life. Thank you for making a such genuine video and sharing your journey. I hope this video can reach many women out there that need to hear you. Hugs from Spain ❤
What I love most about you is you are so honest about your mistakes turmoils, low points. It is such a confident thing to do because only when you're really over you can share those moments.
Hello Anna,
I moved to NYC by myself and run into your blog, then TH-cam channel. You were one of a kind back then, I was so amazed by you that I purchased your first online course School of Affluent even though I was financially distressed.
I remember watching it religiously and taking notes :)
I feel like I grow up with you, I follow you for many years now and I really resonate your journey.
Greetings from NYC !!
Anna, I have been following you a long time. We are about the same age and in some ways have shared similar aspects in our journey. I adore how you have tried to be very transparent and open about your growth, your intentions, your perspective and background. You are a beautiful person inside and out. ❤
Your editor snapped. The video is visually appealing. The story-telling was great and inspiring. I'm glad you mentioned Therapy as part of leveling up - very important and I'm happy everything worked out for you in the end.
Its great anna, i wasted my 20s in a different way .i gad the same story until i married at 19.married a narcissistic man and had my 5 blessing children.dont regret wasting ur 20s.. it was all lessons like for all of us❤
Same story here but 1 child with a narcissist and unfortunately she’s bi polar and a narcissist, just not a malignant one. All the best of blessings to you and your children!
Thank you for this, am actually at my lowest right now... I discovered your channel in 2020 and i love every video you post. Am glad I came across this video...
You have no idea how much your videos have helped me mentally,build my confidence and motivated me. l hope that I'll be okay soon and achieve my goals one day!
Much love from Kenya❤❤
Finish and Estonian…! No wonder you’re so gorgeous
I’ve been watching you for years. You’ve definitely helped me, but I still have those damn anger that will not go away.
express it
Go to therapy. She is right. Work this anger through. Its gonna chance your life ! ❤
@@happygoluckystar8069 thank you
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love you girl, been with you since 2018 and you just get better and better. truly inspiring.
@17:20 , I shed a tear , sending hug to you Anna
When we do something because we want to, it's driven by passion, curiosity, and personal desire, which brings a sense of fulfillment and joy. It allows us to align our actions with our values, making the experience more meaningful and empowering
1:17 Cute Anna 😍 you can really see a shift of happiness in your body language an through your huge smile. How wonderful you found this friend and you found this place.
Don’t feel bad at all! They weren’t wasted, it was a time of immense learning and lessons. ❤
Anna bey you are one of those creator that really speaks the truth. You are an inspiration, thank you for sharing this
Thank you Anna... discovered your channel in 2020, I'm 21 btw. You helped me realize that anything is actually possible. Thank you for all that you do ❤
Okay but can we just appreciate how honest, self aware and humble you are !!! Lovveeee so much your content Anna a true gem !💕
Wow! I have such an eerily story to yours. It stuck home so hard I’m almost in tears! I’m am still working towards my career but I have had many of these same obstacles, challenges, paths of learning, whatever you want to call it. Working on myself was most important and I’m finally in a healthy loving relationship, but working towards a solid career here in the U.S. is a challenge. Thank you so much for sharing this! ❤
Where were you when I was doing nutty stuff like you? I did go to therapy but not good therapists. 12 yrs later I understand why I do what I do. Thank you Anna for being so open about your past. It shows you are a very humane person.
what a fascinating story, and it hasn't been even 3 min yet ...I love it
Oscar Wilde put it so nicely: Experience is merely a name people gave to their mistakes. You are you thanks to those "mistakes" you made, you have learnt on them and have turned into a more experienced and self-confident woman. So be proud of yourself. And not everyone has the gut to share their mistakes or failures. Congratulations on that as well 👍👍👍👏👏👏 21.10.2024, 13:28
You are an inspiration for every woman that wants and chose to believe in herself. Sharing these personal things with all of us it means a lot: this is not about wasted time, is about what made you be the one you are today.
I love you! I started following you for fashion advice and learned so much more. Your 20's sound like what the rich dad in Rich Dad Poor Dad says you should do. You had incredible, fun, heartbreaking, life-changing experiences. You'd never be where you are if it weren't for where you came from.
so honest. so generous. so insightful.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey; it's truly inspiring and highlights realities of life - it's not all perfect and easy. It's normal to have struggles, to go through different phases in life, and there are cycles of successes and 'failures' (learning experiences). It's never too late to learn and try and change and level up. Thank you, Anna!
Your past made you the woman you are today! I feel like I wasted my 20's and 30's which I'm still building myself in my 40's. But I've learned so much and know who I am and what I want now. And what I don't. You are amazing ❤
I love this playful/authentic side of you!! Very inspiring 🤩❤️
Have been following ypu for years. Earlier you tried to 'look wealthy ' by following a carefully designed check listm after your recent pivot in life you have actually genuinely embodied the real wealthy 'look' / vibe mindset.
I am so happy about that.
I too took the same journey with you. I am jow able to understand what wealth money actually means to me and how i see it now , where is prioritize to spend it and with what mindset. Including offourse my choice when it comes to buying things.
I am really happy about this process of being able to come into your own. Understanding yourself and being comfortable with who u are. I no longer seek perfection
I just want to feel good. Whatever that means in that moment.
I found your story very interesting and helpful, especially for those ladies feeling lost and off, it’s important to let people know that life is roller coaster and all emotions must be welcomed in order to grow, mentally, physically and spiritually ❤ thanks for sharing.
You destroy yourself from an outside, but you rebuild yourself inside you learn in a hard way. I’m very proud of you though. Thank you for sharing your story and I hope a lot of the people are reading. These don’t judge too hard because of you. You will change the life or many SOULS !!❤✨🙏🏻☘️😇
I admire you so much for your determination. You travelled to soooo many countries!! You are the person I wish I was. Honestly I am Miss Comfort Zone and I am afraid of failure and that is why I haven't done the same.
I am so sorry about Piggy and Ziggy. They are such sweet tiny babies. RIP
Maybe set a goal to go on one adventure / interesting country and get out of that comfort zone? :) It may even be something smaller like book into a hotel for a weekend in a nearby city you haven't been too and explore it. Or sign up for an evening class.
@@softsophisticate That's a solid plan. Thank you :)
You really are the epitome of someone who worked their way up and didn't let anything stop them. Your story is incredible; to just see that you were willing to do no matter what to succeed in life, no excuses. Thank you for sharing this story. Also, did your marketing diploma teach you how to make these videos in terms of the visuals like adding the animated lightbulb and those clips from your post? I always wondered how TH-camrs learn how to make the physical videos.
Love your content, Anna! We’ve all had those cringe moments in our past. Thank you for your transparency, vulnerability and authenticity. You’ve done wonderfully in your life, no matter what path you needed to take. Thanks for the inspiration. 💜
I don't think you wasted your twenties. Subbed for many years now. THANK YOU for inspiring me.
I adore your authenticity, Anna. So proud of you 👏 ❤. Kisses from New York 😘
That’s so impressive, Anna. Kudos to you 🎉 been following you for years, love your transparency and natural energy ❤
Feeling like there’s a lot to learn for manifestation? just read a book about it, I recommend feminine ancient blessings
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I remember Jet Set Babe! Particularly a post you wrote about fasting. Changed my life!
This story is more special because you gave tid bits before and now sharing this is more of a story beautifully written and showing that growth is possible if you really desire it
Thanks for sharing Anna ❤
I'm 19 but I've already made mistakes God help me to look to my present and future
Like someone once said the proof of passion is pursuit 🎉
We all make mistakes, sweetheart. It is all part of the journey called life! You are not alone. There is no guidance to life. Being able to overcome them, learn and grow instead of dwell on them makes your journey even more valuable than any "perfect" one out there because it signifies growth and resilience. Don't let your past drag you down. You are worth becoming the best version of yourself! ❤
I love the transparency you showed us in this video, Anna! Perhaps my favorite video of yours thus far.
Thank you, Anna... the elder sister we never had. ♥
Very inspiring. Many of us need that "aha!" Moment where we gain the insight necessary for change.
Beautiful looks always helps ❤
You didn’t waste your 20s baby. That’s what I used to say too. Those experiences shaped who we are today, no matter how much we judge what we did!
In fact, I’ve recently reintegrated the age of 20 back into my life bc I judged her so hard,I lost that part of my soul. 💔
I’ve learned to appreciate her and love her and I love who I was, love who I am and love who I am becoming!❤❤❤
I love your story! You have been one of the most influential leading women I have followed over the years. My life is the better for it!! 19:06 ❤
Love Anna Bey's honesty. And so happy she found true love. Her elegance videos? eh....but she is an intriguing and beautiful personality.
Like they say, youth is wasted on the young! I did the same as you, after three years in University i needed a brake. I up and moved to Tokyo. I didn't have a work visa and i didn't speak Japanese and… i had no money! I got two good jobs, teaching English and modeling in magazines ( the only place a 5’1” girl could model) Now when i look back ( this was before internet and even cell phones) i can't imagine i did that. I'm so glad i did, was a great experience at 19
That is amazing as Japan was definately vey exotic in those days and not many people went there. I'm 58, still not been, but will add it to the list :)