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"No one's coming. It's up you. You're not a kid anymore. I''m dead serious about this. So many of you are waiting to be picked. By who?" Shit! Brutal truth. Just what I needed to hear.
Exactly. It's the difference between spending your days waiting for something to happen and making something happen. I am entirely guilty of the former.
Lets you and i have a webinar scheduled to address the Amway sitation in front of a large crowd of 10,000 people. It is up to the UPLINE TO TEACH WHAT TO DO. ROLE PLAYING IS VITALLY IMPORTANT. Did you remember that i sated they my sponsors and Direct Dist could not recruit only 8 prospects out of 200 propects. What does that tell you. We lost those prospects within the 24 hour to 48 hour time from. no time
What businesses have you tried and let us get on youtube and have a discussion? It is up to your upline to give you the proper training. I have a Barbers License, Pilots license fly twin engines airplanes, am a 3rd degree Black Belt in Karate, Have been on National TV on the Rosy Oddonell Show in Nov 2002, won dance competition with 21,000 people voting for me in Quicken Loans Arena in 2011 a trip to Disney World. What have you done in the business world and how much did you make? Let you and I go out and prospect for business and see what you do.
There are people listening to this, thinking of excuses why this won’t work instead of why it could. I have been using this for a few months already and it has helped me a lot!
You explained this really well! 😄 Thanks for the great points about when we will actually change rather than staying the same. I'll remember this for next time!
I wouldn't neccessarily say that thoughts are a choice, as those come and go, just like feelings - you cannot control your thoughts. Positive affirmations probably are a way to influence your thinking yes but what we think is not up to ourselves. It is not a choice. The only thing in our power is how we react to those thougts.
I learned about this two years ago, and I inspired my friend, she got promoted twice at her job. The only thing is , my procrastination is platinum level, so I did countdown and said 5 seconds later I'll count again. However this rule, saved me when I was ready to take my life.
Robbins you are the great. You are discussing the insights of the a lots of folks who are struggling to accomplish something significant in life, but whetherr they are constantly being trapped by their minds or don't have courage for terrifying something in life.
Considering you’re already lost 30 pounds, I’d say you’re doing pretty great with your weight loss! I’m around your age, height and starting weight, down to 145 now but it’s been hard af with the holidays. Do you have any weight loss tips that have helped you?
I’m probably one the laziest person in the world because I’ve been doing a lot of thinking instead of making things happen that even lead me to severe depression. I felt so hopeless for not being productive and thought I needed help from other people just to keep me going. Thank you! This is the best straightforward advice I need.
same! I went through a really hard decade where i was severely depressed and didnt *want* to change, so nothing ever did. when things were worse than ever, i had this weird moment of clarity where I thought “I don’t want to be like this anymore. I want to be happy.” and from then I really put in an effort to try all those ‘coping mechanisms’ that I brushed off as worthless or stupid, and I really looked at myself and what I wanted to do, and then I just... started doing those things that terrified me but I knew were good for me. I still lose motivation sometimes (hence why I’m here now lol), but now that theres something I want, a future that I really want to have, I havent gotten near as low in my mental health. Good luck to you, and I hope youre doing better now!
Gus Romana Lucero Nothing depresses you more than having an accumulation of problems that you never took action on because of hesitation. I KNOW THIS FROM EXPERIENCE!
I’m one minutes into this video and I just can’t believe I never came across this woman until the other day. Everything I’ve heard her say speaks so much to my soul. She’s brilliant.
What motivates me the most is my daily mantra: If I want to soar with the eagles I have to stop flocking with turkeys. Ciao from Little Italy 🇮🇹 Montréal
The best part of her conversation is that she actually lived and experienced bad times ... and she explains how hard it is to motivate ourselves to get moving and how to start overcoming our procrastination.
You explained this really well! 😄 Thanks for the great points about motivating ourselves and beating procrastination! I'll remember this for next time!
Point: 1:15 3 brain jobs 2:24 true change comes down to 5 second windows 3:26 5 second rule 5:12 all u need to know to change anything 7:22 greatest capacity to people 8:13 example of 5 second rule
I struggle with BPD. This was eye opening. I was headed toward yet another mental health crisis. The answer was so simple. Change one thing RIGHT Now. I left my difficult relationship, got my doctor to agree to change my medication and made a commitment to do yoga for an hour every day. Now I have a purpose driven life, no stress, and I lost almost 100 pounds.
So sorry you are bu polar iam sure my eldest son is too we are estranged because of him being violent with me don't stop getting help cuz its out there adjust meds with drs monitoring it
There is power in positive thinking !! I just got a job offer from a major IT company because I prayed and thought positive about the entire scenario. “ Be transformed by the renewal of your mind “ 🙏🏽
…and there is a name for it. I knew of this and have practiced it years ago… everything she is saying is so true. I went from not knowing to knowing. From being EXTREMELY indecisive to learning how to make quick decisions in all areas of life. Give yourself permission to learn this and master it. Whatever it is you don’t feel like doing, apply the rule and start seeing change.
I know of a relationship except who can help you bring your broken relationship within 48hrs he is from Texas and he help me and my lover get back after many years of separation
'When the student is ready, the teacher will come' could be Mel Robbins will come. Thank you Mel for your knowledge, immense experience and straight talking, it hits you in the butt and boots you into meaningful action that benefits 100%.
This 5 second decision is for real I am so glad I heard this yesterday and I'm watching it again. I will be 70 this year and very youthfull and full of energy . I've had more ups and downs in my life that most people would have jumped off a building I lost several properties, over 250k Cash when I was my 40s but found a way to get back on my feet it took about 13 years of saving, saving , saving and investing of what little of I could tuck away. And I didn't know I was using the 5 second decisions back then. And you are so right 5 seconds to just out of bed in the mornings I do , make my bed I've learned at 5 years old or my Father guided us .....Thank you for the reminder Miss Robbins....very very much Oh ! I'm back in a buisn. school at this time thanks to the 5 second rule decide , decide , decide NOW ...........
I do know what I need to do. Sometimes I do it, and sometimes I don't. The key is in your consistency or habits. Thank you. You're changing people's lives 5 seconds at a time!
I've been applying the 5 second rule to stop negative feelings from traumatic memories. It's inevitable to sometimes remember frustrating or annoying experiences, but it is definitely our decision to focus on what really matters.
Best conversation on this topic I have heard. Flip it. Switch out the anger to empathy. I will remember this tomorrow when I attend a funeral and see my brother from whom I have been estranged. Thanks.🧚♀️
That's how you know you're really confident. Confident enough to face adversities with an iron fist. The arena called life is fierce ! Nothing quaint about life ! Gotta take it on like a true Pioneer Woman , Gladiator or Mighty Mouse !...seriously :-)
That's what she's talking about when she says you talk yourself out of it. Apply the 5 second rule and lean into the challenge. There's always one step forward you can take. Good luck!
The fact that she has gone through the struggle and actually gave us part of the answer to fix our struggle is TRUE leadership. For the past 4 years I have become an entirely different person. Whether it was working out or being lazy else where. This video gave me an insight to look within myself and focus on that 5 seconds I take to make the decision to NOT do something. Thank you so much Ms. Mel Robbins.
I find the best thing to do is if it is something that is important to you then do it first thing in the morning. Have 4 goals first thing after waking up. For me it is drink coffee, eat breakfast, get my clothes ready to go biking, go biking. When you have 4 decisions first thing and nothing else matters right away, you will never skip the exercise. When I come home after biking and it is 7am on a weekend, I feel empowered and I got the exercise done so now...I start my day with momentum! The earlier I go, the less I hesitate and the excuses do not really show up just yet.
This is soo true!! For the last 2 weeks ive been trying to get up at 5:30am to go to the gym. And i would have this little talk with myself the night before. And as soon as that alarm sounds, my mind will talk me out of it!! And when i finally do wake up, i feel so guilty and mad at myself 😩😩😩 its beyond annoying. Will definitely try the 5 second rule tomorrow morning
My kitchen was so messy for days and I didn’t want to touch it at all.. after watching this, I went straight and clean it. The five second rules does really work!
We can truly never control what happens to us, but we can ALWAYS choose how to react. Taking 5 seconds to think about how we want to act or what we want to say can make a HUGE difference in how the situation plays out, ultimately affecting how we go about the rest of our day. Super valuable!
This thing about waiting to "feel like it" is really a true trap. It happens to me. I used to always feel like it and got everything done, but after I had a TIA stroke, I have never "felt like it" since. Some circuitry changed and I have to force myself into whatever, usually ironing! LOL! But once I get going, I just go till I'm done. Having a scheduled day with times to rest a bit and fairly frequent changes of action helps. I'm just a 'go till it's done' person, so it's easy to get bored to death and exhausted. It's better to break whatever it is I have to do into time increments and come back to it later. I have to give myself a variety of things to do in a circular schedule and then I don't get bored or exhausted. It's a better way to fight procrastination. Im going to try this 54321 trick and see if it won't help me cut thru my own excuses!
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When I first watched this...I cried. Because the Things she said are so true and made me realized how I sabotaged myself. Thank you for putting this out and give me push and knowledge that I really really needed
I thank you Tali Sharot for motivating my daughter when thing went really had for her. It was really so bad that she attempted committing murder until you invited Mrs Lyra Holt Dean for your TED show program. Am really so grateful for her finical assistance in my daughters life thank you so much once again.
@Lewis Hamilton I figured out Mrs Lyra Holt From a TED show hosted by Tali Sharot. She invited this particular woman and she introduced this fabulous type strategy for making money. It looked like a scam until we took the risk and tired it out and it worked
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I found this video during a process I’ve been going through of realizing that nobody is coming to save me and it’s up to me to do the things I need to do...the things I don’t want to do...the hard stuff. Hearing her say it still was powerful though.
I used to say that the best sleep I got was in the 9-minute intervals between hitting the "Snooze" button, but like Mel, my life had become a train wreck and not getting up and facing it was compounding my problems. It's now about 4 years since I heard her talk about the 5-sec rule, and since then I haven't once hit the "Snooze" button and I totally turned my life around. I am very happy to get the message again because I have drifted away from the 5-sec rule and my life has gotten comfortable and there are way too many things I want to accomplish that won't happen until I start applying the 5-sec rule in all areas of my life. Glad I found this on TH-cam.
I use to use something like the 5 second rule in my college days. I use to be painfully shy about talking to women, but the I would count 3...2...1. By the time i went to 1, i would say "hi". My friends thought I was some bold and confident guy. But I was trying not to be single for the rest of my love. It worked. I'm now married and have a family. So, no need to use it for that purpose. But never thought about using this rule in other aspects of my life until now. This makes sense.
What a happy wonderful story. Thank you for sharing your experience! It helped me to imagine the possibility that I too can have a life with a wife, family, confidence/courage/persistence, success and the like. Thank you.
This is the 3rd video on this topic I've seen by Mel in 24 hours. I've always wondered WHY can't I do...? I KNOW I should, but... NOW I KNOW WHY I ALWAYS PROCRASTINATED!!!!! I did the 5-4-3-2-1 this morning & got up & turned my alarm off the first go around. THANK YOU MEL!!!!!!!!!! I will appreciate your knowledge & wisdom forever.
Love this talk; it is realistic and motivational. You are going to feel what you feel; action yourself dreams despite that. You are making a huge impact to our lives, Mel. Thank you!
Thank you for watching Penny! 🙏 Hope you're subscribed...Here's the next video I recommend: "Why There's No Overnight Success" th-cam.com/video/4UtGHXkGCxk/w-d-xo.html
The thing is i don’t want to force my self to get out of bed, i want it to be naturally happen. Like “ wow what a beautiful morning, lets live!” Thats what i want.
JONES if I’m reading this correctly and taking it literally, it’s very important to reach out to friends or family right now. I’ve felt down like this and the most important thing is to talk to those who love you. Please do it right now.
I don’t force myself to get out of bed. I love my morning time in bed. Some days I get up early and some days I get up later. I love having that flexibility and doing what I feel. It’s more important to me to live in the moment acknowledging and honoring how I’m feeling.
I can totally relate to that thought, but to get to that point in the future, we will have to extend effort in the here and now. One of my other favourite coaches (apart from Mel Robbins of course) called Lisa Nichols says "There's no elevator to the top, there's nothing but stairs" (in the growth mindset, we want to learn and grow and put effort towards this, in the fixed mindset, we want things to come naturally - everyone has both parts, the question is not "if" but "where"). Wishing you all the best in achieving your dreams.
This hit me so hard hearing this tonight. Thank you for posting such a simple "stupid" rule. I'm going to try this tonight just going on my treadmill that I've been putting off.
I came across Mel on Twitter and I loved what she had to say. Pleasantly surprised to come across this video. Definitely someone worth listening to. She’s absolutely right, no one is coming to save you. I’m also in the process of being assessed to see whether or not I have ADHD, the ‘5 second rule’ really helps me.
My definite go to Mel for inspiration and knowledge how to change short and long term and even in five seconds. I works!!!! Thank you Mel Robbins. The song your daughter sings Pastime is awesome. She will climb in music with a mother encouraging her like you do for me.
I could listen to this charming and wise lady all day long... I do things, because I keep telling myself, that I have to do, but time after time excuses manages to step in. She is absolutely right and I'm glad she is sharing her experience, what a great learning curve this is! :) I can't wait to push myself more and try this 5sec rule :)
Hi!! 2 years ago I watched this video and I was like what a genius! So I started doing the 5 second routine- literally get out of bed the moment the alarm goes off (my hubby thinks I'm nuts but also is envious) and now over time I've trained myself to take 30 minute naps and use the 5 second rule to get up and over time its just become "normal". I apply your 5 second rules to many thing and always tell myself " don't talk yourself out of it!" Anyways. Just wanted to say thank you 🤍
OMG! You are the best! I wish I could explain how much difference you do to people life... but I can’t !!! I just can say THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK you!!! God bless you Mel 🙏🏻
One thing that really stood out to me about what she said within my own methods I've created, it's true we have the answers. We're always looking for a quick fix but throughout our lives and through other storms we were collecting data. Now is the time to use the tools. I will start applying her methods along with my own and I'm excited to see results. Thank you for sharing.
*You have control of your behavior and thoughts. I’ve finally come to understand this. It’s gold once applied. Takes practice… be patient and kind to yourself. You are your own parent.
Thank you Mel. As a mom of 3 that has suffered from severe depression for many years you're really helping me to think differently. I want to grow my TH-cam channel and I know doing that will also make me hold myself accountable. I will Have to get up, get dressed, clean the house ect. ❤😗
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Thank you for watching Wendy! 🙏 Hope you're subscribed to the channel...Here's the next video I recommend... "Why There's No Overnight Success" th-cam.com/video/4UtGHXkGCxk/w-d-xo.html
I really enjoyed one of her earliest videos in which she only mentions the 5 second rule at the end of the presentation ... and from there the thing goes viral ...
Brilliant content and interview. You got the most important aspect of what she has to share in this one video. How dense!!!! Gonna listen a few more times it's so rich.
This is the truest advice I have heard. I started applying it and realised I could get a lot done. I was convinced I wasn't a morning person but with this I realised I am an anytime person.
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"No one's coming. It's up you. You're not a kid anymore. I''m dead serious about this. So many of you are waiting to be picked. By who?" Shit! Brutal truth. Just what I needed to hear.
Preach
Exactly. It's the difference between spending your days waiting for something to happen and making something happen. I am entirely guilty of the former.
Lets you and i have a webinar scheduled to address the Amway sitation in front of a large crowd of 10,000 people. It is up to the UPLINE TO TEACH WHAT TO DO. ROLE PLAYING IS VITALLY IMPORTANT. Did you remember that i sated they my sponsors and Direct Dist could not recruit only 8 prospects out of 200 propects. What does that tell you. We lost those prospects within the 24 hour to 48 hour time from. no time
wake up call! Too bad I didnt hear this 40 years ago
What businesses have you tried and let us get on youtube and have a discussion? It is up to your upline to give you the proper training. I have a Barbers License, Pilots license fly twin engines airplanes, am a 3rd degree Black Belt in Karate, Have been on National TV on the Rosy Oddonell Show in Nov 2002, won dance competition with 21,000 people voting for me in Quicken Loans Arena in 2011 a trip to Disney World. What have you done in the business world and how much did you make? Let you and I go out and prospect for business and see what you do.
Mel, girl, it’s not stupid. It’s genius! Simple is best. Thank you for sharing this beautiful knowledge.
There are people listening to this, thinking of excuses why this won’t work instead of why it could. I have been using this for a few months already and it has helped me a lot!
Mel Robbins taught me how to disregard my feelings and start doing things I need to do. That has been life-changing for me.
How? I want to learn more, please share more!
Same!!!@@mariammelkumyan1705
Not a good idea to disregard your feelings imo
@@Zar2244I agree. Feelings are there for a reason!
No one will change until the pain of staying the same is worse than the pain of changing.
You explained this really well! 😄
Thanks for the great points about when we will actually change rather than staying the same.
I'll remember this for next time!
So true..
Tony Robbins said that in his book a long time ago. Very true.
so true! I had to hit rock rock bottum before I really got myself together seriously!
12 Step wisdom as well
"Your feelings aren't a choice, your behavior and your thoughts are a choice."
Exactly. It's about how you react in regards to how you feel.
I wouldn't neccessarily say that thoughts are a choice, as those come and go, just like feelings - you cannot control your thoughts. Positive affirmations probably are a way to influence your thinking yes but what we think is not up to ourselves. It is not a choice. The only thing in our power is how we react to those thougts.
You Can change your feelings by changing your thoughts & actions.
She looks better without glasses.
@@elle7322 Sure... but when these thoughts come to the mind you decide if you want to keep them or not.
So true:)
Holy hell, my masters assignment is 5 days overdue, too scared to touch it, watched this and 2 hours later I've finished it. 5 second rule; amazing!
Congrats
Congrats
Absolutely!
let's become friends on TH-cam 🤩
So proud of you, stay on the line!!!
Amazing!! So proud of you!!!!
I learned about this two years ago, and I inspired my friend, she got promoted twice at her job. The only thing is , my procrastination is platinum level, so I did countdown and said 5 seconds later I'll count again. However this rule, saved me when I was ready to take my life.
PRAISE GOD
So glad you're still here. Be gentle with yourself
I am glad you decided to stay. Thank you for sharing this. 🌞✌️
I'm happy it helped you saved your life. It truly touch my heart.
I happy you’re still here. 😊
Robbins you are the great. You are discussing the insights of the a lots of folks who are struggling to accomplish something significant in life, but whetherr they are constantly being trapped by their minds or don't have courage for terrifying something in life.
I always say self discipline IS loving yourself. Self discipline is self love!
yeah dear, how are you doing,please can will talk in private
Beautiful
I love this and will start referring to self disapline as such🥰💖
love it
Considering you’re already lost 30 pounds, I’d say you’re doing pretty great with your weight loss! I’m around your age, height and starting weight, down to 145 now but it’s been hard af with the holidays.
Do you have any weight loss tips that have helped you?
I didn't even finish watching this video, cause I used the 5-second rule and went back studying! #stopprocrastinating
How your experience about 5 second rule
Vaira V'Nathan I love that.
Vaira V'Nathan there you go. It’s actually working
LOL! IKR!
when did you write this comment then?
"Waiting to be picked... by who?!?!" SUUUCH good advice!
thanks Lindsay!
Its fab advise ¬¬
yeah right
From my future self
(I know its stupid i used to think like that )
Now im so happy to watch these videos
Everyone is waiting for Jesus lol 😂
I’m probably one the laziest person in the world because I’ve been doing a lot of thinking instead of making things happen that even lead me to severe depression. I felt so hopeless for not being productive and thought I needed help from other people just to keep me going. Thank you! This is the best straightforward advice I need.
Thanks Gus!
me too but from this day i will try this method and change
Gus Romana Lucero how are things going now?
same! I went through a really hard decade where i was severely depressed and didnt *want* to change, so nothing ever did. when things were worse than ever, i had this weird moment of clarity where I thought “I don’t want to be like this anymore. I want to be happy.” and from then I really put in an effort to try all those ‘coping mechanisms’ that I brushed off as worthless or stupid, and I really looked at myself and what I wanted to do, and then I just... started doing those things that terrified me but I knew were good for me. I still lose motivation sometimes (hence why I’m here now lol), but now that theres something I want, a future that I really want to have, I havent gotten near as low in my mental health. Good luck to you, and I hope youre doing better now!
Gus Romana Lucero Nothing depresses you more than having an accumulation of problems that you never took action on because of hesitation. I KNOW THIS FROM EXPERIENCE!
I’m one minutes into this video and I just can’t believe I never came across this woman until the other day. Everything I’ve heard her say speaks so much to my soul. She’s brilliant.
Get up and do the things you said you would, talk the way you said you would. Go deep inside and figure it out. So powerful.
It's not the stupidest thing. It's the most brilliant thing. Simplicity is the most genius 🙏🏼
Thanks Dejenny
wow
Dr phil says that the simplistic answer is usually the right one.
Keep it simple, that's right!
My mother would say often “simplicity is the secret to success “. I quote her a lot.
Every family has one person who break the odds and achieve remarkable success. Thank your Self because its you reading this 🙏♥
Yes, her 5 seconds work on me three years ago. I am mentally stronger and don't be afraid anymore now.
Awesome!
What motivates me the most is my daily mantra:
If I want to soar with the eagles I have to stop flocking with turkeys.
Ciao from Little Italy 🇮🇹 Montréal
9:45 "...I'm changing myself 5 seconds at a time" Such a powerful statement. Thank you for this tool which I will apply in my life now.
thanks for watching!
The best part of her conversation is that she actually lived and experienced bad times ... and she explains how hard it is to motivate ourselves to get moving and how to start overcoming our procrastination.
agreed, thanks for watching Nancy!
true
You explained this really well! 😄
Thanks for the great points about motivating ourselves and beating procrastination!
I'll remember this for next time!
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1:15 3 brain jobs
2:24 true change comes down to 5 second windows
3:26 5 second rule
5:12 all u need to know to change anything
7:22 greatest capacity to people
8:13 example of 5 second rule
you're amazing! thank you so much
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WHERE does she deliver what the TITLE says she's going to deliver -- the 2 words??!?
@@douglasivison4439I think the 2 word thing is “self discipline”
I struggle with BPD. This was eye opening. I was headed toward yet another mental health crisis. The answer was so simple. Change one thing RIGHT Now. I left my difficult relationship, got my doctor to agree to change my medication and made a commitment to do yoga for an hour every day. Now I have a purpose driven life, no stress, and I lost almost 100 pounds.
Incredible
So sorry you are bu polar iam sure my eldest son is too we are estranged because of him being violent with me don't stop getting help cuz its out there adjust meds with drs monitoring it
@MARIANSCATLIFFE it's not bipolar, it's borderline personality disorder. Different condition
@@clairevandenberg8204 great job. You're doing amazing
@@MARIANSCATLIFFE BPD is Borderline Personality Disorder . It shares some symptoms with being bipolar, but they are different conditions.
There is power in positive thinking !! I just got a job offer from a major IT company because I prayed and thought positive about the entire scenario. “ Be transformed by the renewal of your mind “ 🙏🏽
“You’re never gonna feel ready”
Agreed. If you wait until you are, you will wait a long time... or ever.
…and there is a name for it. I knew of this and have practiced it years ago… everything she is saying is so true. I went from not knowing to knowing. From being EXTREMELY indecisive to learning how to make quick decisions in all areas of life. Give yourself permission to learn this and master it. Whatever it is you don’t feel like doing, apply the rule and start seeing change.
I know of a relationship except who can help you bring your broken relationship within 48hrs he is from Texas and he help me and my lover get back after many years of separation
Text him would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!
He is indeed problem a problem solve
WOMAN I APPRECIATE YOU SHARING YOUR WISDOM
'When the student is ready, the teacher will come' could be Mel Robbins will come. Thank you Mel for your knowledge, immense experience and straight talking, it hits you in the butt and boots you into meaningful action that benefits 100%.
thanks for watching Jacqueline!
When times get hard I watch your videos and you swing me into action. Take care, be safe from London UK@@BehindtheBrand
This 5 second decision is for real I am so glad I heard this yesterday and I'm watching it again. I will be 70 this year and very youthfull and full of energy . I've had more ups and downs in my life that most people would have jumped off a building I lost several properties, over 250k Cash when I was my 40s but found a way to get back on my feet it took about 13 years of saving, saving , saving and investing of what little of I could tuck away. And I didn't know I was using the 5 second decisions back then. And you are so right 5 seconds to just out of bed in the mornings I do , make my bed I've learned at 5 years old or my Father guided us .....Thank you for the reminder Miss Robbins....very very much Oh ! I'm back in a buisn. school at this time thanks to the 5 second rule decide , decide , decide NOW ...........
Behind every feeling is a thought that is driving the feeling. If we get in touch with our thoughts, then we can control our feelings.
You can't control how you feel.
But
When feelings rise up you can choose to act however you want despite them.
Thank you so much♡♡♡♡
thank you for watching
I do know what I need to do. Sometimes I do it, and sometimes I don't. The key is in your consistency or habits. Thank you. You're changing people's lives 5 seconds at a time!
Mel Robbins you are SO AMAZING!!!! These videos and your process has literally changed my entire life. I cannot thank you enough
thanks for being part of the channel Dana!
5...4...3...2...1 let's go! Level up! Level up! Level up! Level up! Level up! - Ciara
Thank you Mel Robbins for this!
The trick is self discipline. One step at a time. Depression is a different story but in general, just self discipline.
Absolutely 100% relatable! Stop procrastinating and just do it!
thanks for watching, was this the first video on my channel you've watched?
@@BehindtheBrand Yup. I was actually. Love it :)
Y-E-S MEL . . . " 5 " SECOND
WINDOW'S. TOTALLY GET IT !!
I've been applying the 5 second rule to stop negative feelings from traumatic memories. It's inevitable to sometimes remember frustrating or annoying experiences, but it is definitely our decision to focus on what really matters.
Thanks J
Truth bombs dropping all over the place! Thank you!
She's not exaggerating, this trick is incredibly effective
Coding in Flow 👊🎯
I second that
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Trueee
Very true!
"Transformation can only take place immediately; the revolution is now, not tomorrow." Jiddu Krishnamurti
Excellent work! Simplicity is the highest level of sophistication!
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Best conversation on this topic I have heard. Flip it. Switch out the anger to empathy. I will remember this tomorrow when I attend a funeral and see my brother from whom I have been estranged. Thanks.🧚♀️
Thank you Jojo, sending good thoughts your way as you're dealing with difficult things
“Most of us know what we need to do”. But we also know the battle that will ensue and sometimes that battle is just too fierce.
That's how you know you're really confident. Confident enough to face adversities with an iron fist. The arena called life is fierce ! Nothing quaint about life ! Gotta take it on like a true Pioneer Woman , Gladiator or Mighty Mouse !...seriously :-)
That's what she's talking about when she says you talk yourself out of it. Apply the 5 second rule and lean into the challenge. There's always one step forward you can take. Good luck!
D C aaah it made so much sense with your additional words. Thanks!
Well said.
The fact that she has gone through the struggle and actually gave us part of the answer to fix our struggle is TRUE leadership. For the past 4 years I have become an entirely different person. Whether it was working out or being lazy else where. This video gave me an insight to look within myself and focus on that 5 seconds I take to make the decision to NOT do something. Thank you so much Ms. Mel Robbins.
I find the best thing to do is if it is something that is important to you then do it first thing in the morning. Have 4 goals first thing after waking up. For me it is drink coffee, eat breakfast, get my clothes ready to go biking, go biking. When you have 4 decisions first thing and nothing else matters right away, you will never skip the exercise. When I come home after biking and it is 7am on a weekend, I feel empowered and I got the exercise done so now...I start my day with momentum! The earlier I go, the less I hesitate and the excuses do not really show up just yet.
I always apply the 5 sec rule to skip ads 😂
funny
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Hahaha
Haha! That's a good rule
Me too!!! 💫
This is soo true!! For the last 2 weeks ive been trying to get up at 5:30am to go to the gym. And i would have this little talk with myself the night before. And as soon as that alarm sounds, my mind will talk me out of it!! And when i finally do wake up, i feel so guilty and mad at myself 😩😩😩 its beyond annoying.
Will definitely try the 5 second rule tomorrow morning
Did it work?
AllergicRants yess! Tried it this morning
Did you continue to wake up early?
Dimpy she is sleeping 😂
I know how you feel 😁the same happens to me.
Loved everything about this. Comfortability is deceiving, if you’re comfortable too long you’re not growing!
My kitchen was so messy for days and I didn’t want to touch it at all.. after watching this, I went straight and clean it. The five second rules does really work!
We can truly never control what happens to us, but we can ALWAYS choose how to react. Taking 5 seconds to think about how we want to act or what we want to say can make a HUGE difference in how the situation plays out, ultimately affecting how we go about the rest of our day. Super valuable!
Think like a man of action, and act like a man of thought.
Are you Hala from LinkedIn? lol. You're everywhere!
So much wisdom, reality, brutal truth in a way that is inspiring. Thank you!
thank you
This actually works!. The 5 second!. It changed my life. Thank you so much Mel.
This thing about waiting to "feel like it" is really a true trap. It happens to me. I used to always feel like it and got everything done, but after I had a TIA stroke, I have never "felt like it" since. Some circuitry changed and I have to force myself into whatever, usually ironing! LOL! But once I get going, I just go till I'm done. Having a scheduled day with times to rest a bit and fairly frequent changes of action helps. I'm just a 'go till it's done' person, so it's easy to get bored to death and exhausted. It's better to break whatever it is I have to do into time increments and come back to it later. I have to give myself a variety of things to do in a circular schedule and then I don't get bored or exhausted. It's a better way to fight procrastination. Im going to try this 54321 trick and see if it won't help me cut thru my own excuses!
This video is such a blessing to all. I achieved success after I practiced the steps below.
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You were very lucky that you used to always feel like it. Most people don't.
When I first watched this...I cried. Because the Things she said are so true and made me realized how I sabotaged myself. Thank you for putting this out and give me push and knowledge that I really really needed
Thank you for watching Esther! 🙏 Here's the next video I recommend... "Why There's No Overnight Success" th-cam.com/video/4UtGHXkGCxk/w-d-xo.html
Im almost 3 weeks into my fitness journey....I started to have self doubt and listened to this. I needed to hear this!
I thank you Tali Sharot for motivating my daughter when thing went really had for her.
It was really so bad that she attempted committing murder until you invited Mrs Lyra Holt Dean for your TED show program.
Am really so grateful for her finical assistance in my daughters life thank you so much once again.
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She invited this particular woman and she introduced this fabulous type strategy for making money.
It looked like a scam until we took the risk and tired it out and it worked
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@Lewis Hamilton Sure
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sounds like a scam, but this video with Mel Robbins is good
I found this video during a process I’ve been going through of realizing that nobody is coming to save me and it’s up to me to do the things I need to do...the things I don’t want to do...the hard stuff. Hearing her say it still was powerful though.
Michael Wilson congrats!
That's what she means when she talks about 'the power of you'. The answer to our problems is within ourselves.
How are you doing
My mother just made me watch this and I'm grateful for it. I'm definitely going to do this tomorrow! Best advice ever!
Hope you enjoy it!
This is a high functioning woman to begin with, but she did get out of a miserable rut. I applaud her ability to make these changes.
Hello how are you doing today hope you're safe over there ?
I love how all of her videos just makes so much sense. It’s impossible to skip pass a Mel video ... thank you 😊 for the motivation!
Thanks Nia!
She sometimes sounds like Mrs. Incredible.
Omg yes! The first time I listened to her audio book I looked up if she was the voice for mrs. Incredible! I love her
Daria 😅😅😅😅so true 👍
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Sure is incredible haha
Agree!
This is what I freaking needed to hear! I've been in such a rut as of late, need to remember this 5 sec rule!
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Sound, honest & Excellent advice. Everyone can benefit from the 5 second rule!
I used to say that the best sleep I got was in the 9-minute intervals between hitting the "Snooze" button, but like Mel, my life had become a train wreck and not getting up and facing it was compounding my problems. It's now about 4 years since I heard her talk about the 5-sec rule, and since then I haven't once hit the "Snooze" button and I totally turned my life around. I am very happy to get the message again because I have drifted away from the 5-sec rule and my life has gotten comfortable and there are way too many things I want to accomplish that won't happen until I start applying the 5-sec rule in all areas of my life. Glad I found this on TH-cam.
I use to use something like the 5 second rule in my college days. I use to be painfully shy about talking to women, but the I would count 3...2...1. By the time i went to 1, i would say "hi". My friends thought I was some bold and confident guy. But I was trying not to be single for the rest of my love. It worked. I'm now married and have a family. So, no need to use it for that purpose. But never thought about using this rule in other aspects of my life until now. This makes sense.
Ive used this to get out of bed but not to meet people, cool that you met people using this
I hope this happens for me as well
What a happy wonderful story. Thank you for sharing your experience! It helped me to imagine the possibility that I too can have a life with a wife, family, confidence/courage/persistence, success and the like. Thank you.
@@wowster762 x
This is the 3rd video on this topic I've seen by Mel in 24 hours. I've always wondered WHY can't I do...? I KNOW I should, but... NOW I KNOW WHY I ALWAYS PROCRASTINATED!!!!! I did the 5-4-3-2-1 this morning & got up & turned my alarm off the first go around. THANK YOU MEL!!!!!!!!!! I will appreciate your knowledge & wisdom forever.
Jennie Post Way to go Jennie! Hope you’re subscribed and find more gems here!!
How are you doing
Love this talk; it is realistic and motivational. You are going to feel what you feel; action yourself dreams despite that. You are making a huge impact to our lives, Mel. Thank you!
Thank you for watching Penny! 🙏 Hope you're subscribed...Here's the next video I recommend: "Why There's No Overnight Success" th-cam.com/video/4UtGHXkGCxk/w-d-xo.html
The thing is i don’t want to force my self to get out of bed, i want it to be naturally happen.
Like “ wow what a beautiful morning, lets live!” Thats what i want.
You've got to do what's best for you
JONES if I’m reading this correctly and taking it literally, it’s very important to reach out to friends or family right now. I’ve felt down like this and the most important thing is to talk to those who love you. Please do it right now.
Same. Life isn't fun
I don’t force myself to get out of bed. I love my morning time in bed. Some days I get up early and some days I get up later. I love having that flexibility and doing what I feel. It’s more important to me to live in the moment acknowledging and honoring how I’m feeling.
I can totally relate to that thought, but to get to that point in the future, we will have to extend effort in the here and now. One of my other favourite coaches (apart from Mel Robbins of course) called Lisa Nichols says "There's no elevator to the top, there's nothing but stairs" (in the growth mindset, we want to learn and grow and put effort towards this, in the fixed mindset, we want things to come naturally - everyone has both parts, the question is not "if" but "where"). Wishing you all the best in achieving your dreams.
Love Mel Robbins. She makes so much sense and her advice is easy to implement in everyday life.
thanks Claire
This hit me so hard hearing this tonight. Thank you for posting such a simple "stupid" rule. I'm going to try this tonight just going on my treadmill that I've been putting off.
Casey Huggins 👊 get it!!
You go girl 👊🏻! 5,4,3,2,1... 🚀
How are you doing
Love her! The wisdom & confidence
Agreed.
I came across Mel on Twitter and I loved what she had to say. Pleasantly surprised to come across this video. Definitely someone worth listening to. She’s absolutely right, no one is coming to save you. I’m also in the process of being assessed to see whether or not I have ADHD, the ‘5 second rule’ really helps me.
thanks Bonnie
My definite go to Mel for inspiration and knowledge how to change short and long term and even in five seconds. I works!!!! Thank you Mel Robbins. The song your daughter sings Pastime is awesome. She will climb in music with a mother encouraging her like you do for me.
I could listen to this charming and wise lady all day long... I do things, because I keep telling myself, that I have to do, but time after time excuses manages to step in. She is absolutely right and I'm glad she is sharing her experience, what a great learning curve this is! :)
I can't wait to push myself more and try this 5sec rule :)
She has helped me so very very much to change my negative habits and attitudes.
Hi!! 2 years ago I watched this video and I was like what a genius! So I started doing the 5 second routine- literally get out of bed the moment the alarm goes off (my hubby thinks I'm nuts but also is envious) and now over time I've trained myself to take 30 minute naps and use the 5 second rule to get up and over time its just become "normal". I apply your 5 second rules to many thing and always tell myself " don't talk yourself out of it!" Anyways. Just wanted to say thank you 🤍
OMG! You are the best! I wish I could explain how much difference you do to people life... but I can’t !!! I just can say THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK you!!! God bless you Mel 🙏🏻
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Love Mel’s message. She reminds me of my auntie. And she’s 100% right.
Yeah, she was great IRL
I remember that I used that trick to go out of bed when I was a young teenager. I did not recognise, until now, that this is actually a powerful tool.
One thing that really stood out to me about what she said within my own methods I've created, it's true we have the answers. We're always looking for a quick fix but throughout our lives and through other storms we were collecting data. Now is the time to use the tools. I will start applying her methods along with my own and I'm excited to see results.
Thank you for sharing.
She is my true inspiration.. She has changed my life... Thankyu so much mel... I wish i had found you earlier...
thank you! hope you find more vids you like on my channel!!
Same here! I now present around the world thanks to Mel!
*You have control of your behavior and thoughts.
I’ve finally come to understand this. It’s gold once applied. Takes practice… be patient and kind to yourself. You are your own parent.
thanks for watching!
I tried it this morning, it’s like a light switch turned on. That’s amazing, I’ll definitely do this daily.
Thanks for watching JB
She makes a great point about tools for execution - to take action based on instinct.
Thank you Mel. As a mom of 3 that has suffered from severe depression for many years you're really helping me to think differently. I want to grow my TH-cam channel and I know doing that will also make me hold myself accountable. I will Have to get up, get dressed, clean the house ect. ❤😗
Thanks for watching Carri!
Carri's 3RingCircus Come on Carri you can do it, get your ass up and start growing your channel. One love one life ✌️❤️
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@@brainiacbeats THANK YOU! I have come SO FAR in the past year ❤
🦋that’s why it’s so important to stop second guessing yourself
how are you doing
Thank you for who you are Mel!! You’re changing my life!
Thank you for watching Wendy! 🙏 Hope you're subscribed to the channel...Here's the next video I recommend... "Why There's No Overnight Success" th-cam.com/video/4UtGHXkGCxk/w-d-xo.html
You are the most amazing talk show host ever. We miss seeing you everyday. But just remember God has a bigger plan for you. Lots of love
Jodi Lockett 💕
This woman is a God send God bless you Mel
Thank you for your words
Helped majorly with my perspective and awareness
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This "stupid thing". I absolutely LOVE it! Mel is my new inspiration :)
she's honest and her voice is easy to listen to. Very refreshing
I really enjoyed one of her earliest videos in which she only mentions the 5 second rule at the end of the presentation ... and from there the thing goes viral ...
same me too!! 2019! here I come :)
Haha it's awesome
What she’s teaching us, is the power of acting. I feel it’s related with procrastination
yep, agree
This is so true! I heard Mel Robbins say this last year and have been practicing this exercise and it definitely works !
thanks for watching
Brilliant content and interview. You got the most important aspect of what she has to share in this one video. How dense!!!! Gonna listen a few more times it's so rich.
thanks Matt
Action = positive reaction. Always.
Action cures all.
Don't be lazy and cure your anxiety ❤
wish it was laziness. that I could work with.
😂😂😂
being Stuck is not laziness. it’s a glitch in your personal matrix.
red pill or blue 👍
I WONT WAIT ANYMORE. I WONT LET MYSELF FALL FOR MY EXCUSES AGAIN. I WILL CHANGE NOW AND I WILL WORK TOWARDS MY GOAL!
Thankyou Mel Robbins, this 5 second rule will change my worry issues. It couldn't have been received at a better moment, brilliant tool, blessings.
You're very welcome
This is the truest advice I have heard. I started applying it and realised I could get a lot done. I was convinced I wasn't a morning person but with this I realised I am an anytime person.
Thanks for watching Isabella!
imagine sharing such a life changing idea. wow. God bless her
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I loved it, I need this 5 second rule in my life. This will be something I apply to my life.