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Journaling, reading, doing my yoga stretches. Also, focusing on the little things help a lot. For example, this year I've taken more time to enjoy the beautiful autumn. The leaves, nature walks. Always makes me feel so much better and more grounded l🍁🙏🏻
I practice writing out 5 things I’m thankful for this particular day. With COVID taking away so many lives around I came to realize that life is too short. Every moment has to be enjoyed. I have goals that I move towards, but this day has to be the most happy day, just because it’s part of my journey. The practice mentioned earlier helped me pause and see many awesome people and beautiful things around me. I’m actually a really happy person and really know how to enjoy little everyday life moments!:)
Being poor for most of my life, especially during childhood, I can honestly tell you that having enough money that you don’t need to stress out to pay the electricity bill or buy food is absolutely the difference between sadness and happiness.
i think you're saying this because you're sorry for yourself- victim mentality. believe me, you have a wrong perception. I've been there, done that. please, if you want to change your life do something you love, what's your passion and give it to people. it'll change everything. blessings to you🙌🏻💝
In Brazil we have a saying: “money doesn’t buy happiness but allows you to be sad in Paris”. Just something I always thought it was funny, but you are right: that is nothing without health and love.
About secret 1#: I guess money doesn't equal happiness, but it makes "shortcuts", helps solving problems easier and is a main tool to achieve goals. Some examples like private healthcare, more transportation options, being able to get better education on variety of subjects, being able to invest more in hobbies, worrying less about retierment time, being able to pay for external work such as a weekly house cleaner so you can have extra time for yourself... I mean, in my country at least there are professions that you can't actually work at them and thrive without enough financial support from others or yourself such as arts, some healthcare professions(!) or most of sports. So money is not a direct happiness provider, but when you don't have enough you have much more things that would make you more anxious or regretfull.
I understand what you say, but these are problems that money can solve, it can't solve everything tho. Having money is much better than not having it, but some people are just so rotten inside that no matter how much money they have they will always feel like they don't have enough to be happy. That's how I see, money is a problem solver, not happiness itself.
Also money gives you chance to help others, relatives, and be happy out of making others happy. IMO if you do not know how to be happy, money do not really play role how you feel.
I remember seeing Jim Carrey say “Everybody should get rich and famous so they can see that it's not the answer.” It stuck with me. So important to work on getting to know yourself. I'm sure we've all experienced that moment where we think once I get X y z I'm going to feel happy and fulfilled. However, very often that's not the case.
@@duedate2811 very true.. But I also think that once you reach a certain level of wealth, it doesn't add to your level of happiness. And as the time goes by you very soon realise that the most valuable things in life can't be bought. Trust, true love, care, honesty, ability to notice the little things in life 💕
I've experienced this in my work. I've worked for some of the wealthiest people in the world for over 25 years and honestly I've seen so much misery, trauma, boredom, abuse and addiction. Everyone thinks they would be diferent if they had money but the truth it, you just need enough and you need to be able to know when enough really is enough. Gratitude and a passion for something that is meaningful or a hobby that isn't shopping is what makes people happy. And enough money to care for our health and some spare time to pursue our interests. 'I have enough' is something I've learnt to focus on.
Anna, I partnered up with a so-called wealthy man for ten years; he was a user. I let him use my knowledge experience and worked five years side by side in the hospitality business; he promised after five years, we would split the profits. He kept ignoring my request to get that in a written contract. I had all the red flags staring me in the face, which I ignored. There's more to my story; I won't go into now. But ladies, please don't go into business with anyone without a written contract. At first, I felt ashamed, but I'm a firm believer what goes around comes around. Thank you for your honesty, Anna. A woman like yourself is scarce. 💞
I used to work for a cleaning company and the biggest thing I noticed was when I dealt with someone wealthy they never tipped, when I dealt with someone lower income they never tipped and when I dealt with someone mid range they almost always tipped especially if they worked at a job that receives tips as well!
You don't have to be a millionaire, but having a small nest egg and being able to see something you like, a coat, a small trip away etc and think, 'I can afford to buy that' goes a long way when I think back to the days where we could not even use too much milk as we could not afford to buy any the next day. Security for me is more important than being rich.
So true for so many....like selling their soul to the devil, a Faustian bargain. Anyone can make a mistake and choose unwisely, but what keeps them there is the money esp if they signed a prenup...Sybil Francis PhD clinical psychologist
Money does not guarantee health and love, but being poor or average is an even bigger obstacle to those things. In the USA, proper health maintenance is unaffordable to most- you have to be at least upper middle class to have everything you need for optimal health (regular doctor appointments, therapy, gym memberships, nutritious fresh food, the time and space to de-stress). Same thing with love- couples experiencing financial stress are far more likely to divorce. Families without financial means have to work long shifts away from their kids and never see friends. Money doesn’t guarantee those things but it does increase your chances of having them by a lot
Financial stress does not always mean there isn't enough income. If one partner has a gambling problem and hogs all the resources that can cause a lot of financial stress. If one partner earns enough or both partners earn enough but one person is taking all financial decisions and not including the other partner in financial decisions even that causes a lot of financial stress. Many women are expected to unconditionally surrender their income to their husband and treated as work mules.
Not a true statement. I am far from being upper class, I’m considered low middle class, and I have great health insurance, access to therapy through my job, and good food and gym membership. And I’m not alone. In the grand scheme of things, less than 50 million people in this country don’t have access to insurance, and while that’s one too many, it’s not even 1/3 of the US population. To say that you have to be upper class to have those things is just simply not true. It’s only true for a small percentage of people in a country that has about 330,000,000 people. It’s about 15% of the general population, and again, it shouldn’t be that way in the first place for anyone, but stats tell a different story.
I really like how you talk about "difficult topics" in a very diplomatic and lady like way. you should do a video about this too! it's so rare these days and I really enjoy listening to your opinions and advice. Thank you for your content, showing us how we could elevate ourselves. I think you have a good type of humor too.
I love how balanced you are in this video! Affluent or not it's all about surrounding yourself with quality people who help you be the best version of yourself! Spirituality is such a key component to feeling peace too!
I love Marie Kondo~ her book and the Japanese way of buying less is something that really resonated with me :) I don’t want to be rich if it means I only buy things I don’t appreciate. The dopamine always wears off, but I find myself still admiring and loving things I have that I really put thought into and I’m grateful for in my life. I think Anna also thinks this way, which is a big reason I watch her :) After watching this video it’s absolutely confirmed it.
My dad told me ones you don’t need to be rich to have class always treat every person around you with kindness and respect we are not worth less or more than any human being god made us all equal :)
Respecting others is good and we are equal in accord to law..other than than we all are in our own..so make sure you develop some appreciation for money since is the fuel to survival..and it makes a difference to have options and choices in our lives...it does it even for people who have no class or intelligence.
I'm agree..I know some rich people from my family who don't have manners and they are arrogant just because they have more money and cars then others. Money are coming and going, but their bad mannered character remain.
I agree with you Ana! I only have high quality people in my life now. They all might not be wealthy, however, they are super supportive of me doing things in my life that make me happy, help me level up and become a better version of myself and they never make me feel bad for doing it either. Thats what I look for in a husband, high quality mindset who lives in his beautiful madculine purpose 🥰 Thank you for this video! X
My guy learned something from his wealthy Godmother back in the day that he taught to me. "It's not what you make, it's what your bills are." Buy quality and live below your means. Minimize your debts as much as possible. (That last part was mine.) 😁
Thank you Anna for revealing the other side of the coin. My biggest take from this is to Stay true to thyself and be responsible for your own happiness.
This is so true. Due to the environment I lived in, I ended up going out with men (boys lol) who were way wealthier than myself. It caused a lot of discomfort on both sides, and once it was even the reason we broke up. My current partner apparently noticed my dislike for wealth (beyond my own) and pretended to be from a modest family. It was only once we had been together for many months that I slowly started to find inconsistencies and he admitted it. Safe to say, it really isn't the wealth (or lack thereof!) but about a person who is willing understand me and do sth like this for me.
Health is the most important of course and the last point is absolutely true! I also had to found out that when having not much to spend on, things become way more value because they are no certainty.
Right? I think her hair color is a cooler blonde color! I definitely listened to and loved the honest information in this video but definitely noticed her hair too
Socioeconomic background does not matter when it comes to character. There are unsavory, selfish, narcissistic, abusive, etc. people across each and every spectrum of existence. The key is achieving independence, discernment and taking your time.
It's amazing how I've witnessed your own personal growth in this channel. It's great to see you talking about these topics because ultimately the goal for anybody looking for affluence is to get happiness and stability.
Anna, your messages are well received this morning. Thank you! Balance of mental status is a must for ourselves and our partner's, in all realms and areas of our life. Additionally, your look today is very fresh, healthy, and as inspiring as your message.
I have been watching and observing your videos a lot, but I must say honestly..I see your videos this year filled with beautiful wisdom! A true elegance lady, the higher the class is, the more wisdom they have!. You inspire me a lot big sis 👍 One more thing to add, love does not always come from external factors. We will stop chasing external love when we love ourselves. 👍
I absolutely agree with your points! Having met different types of men with money, I can attest that there are scumbags, criminals and down right scheme making, weasels out there that we need to be extremely vigilant to stay away from. If caught in their world, it could just create a world of undeserved misery and stress for us. I also agree that there are nice, balanced ones who are generous and will care for you like the queen you are :)
As a daughter of a Narcissist, I can tell yo this: socipaths and narcissist gravitate towards this circles, so there is a lot of trauma and pain amongst them.
Perhaps it's easy to equate money with happiness, because money worries creates anxiety and unhappiness. Money security lessens the anxiety and unhappiness, but on its own Doesn't Create Happiness. Minimal anxiety and worry, and nurturing your soul is what creates happiness.
This video is spot on. You touched on so many key topics. We cannot find love and balance in others without first finding love, joy, and balance within ourselves.
Health is very important, but I love what you said about the importance of being fully present and mindset. Spirituality is so important for me and keeps me grounded. Love these! Thanks 💗
Work hard (studying/working) and build yourself a good job/business and you would get security and peace of mind, but always remember to enjoy your hard work in the best way.
I don't have a boyfriend, and I am not looking for one. But having elegance, grace and wisdom is my new goal. Not because I want to attract a man, but to be a better me.
I choose my friends and close ones based on their core values which lets me know how long a relationship will last with them. But first, you’ve to know your own values.
Always great content, especially in touching on the part about wealth being essentially meaningless if one is mentally or spiritually unbalanced. The difference is that the wealthy person likely has the time and resources to seek help in whichever way they choose (therapy, rehab, retreats, etc.) while someone without means or a support system typically has to fend for themselves.
That is exactly right ,if you don’t have your health you don’t have anything. I just had my 5 th spine surgery so I know that all I want is a pain free day ! Money helps to help you have comfort and it is really nice not have to worry about bills , but I am always recovering from pain.
Great video, Anna! A little closer to our hearts! I love your teachings from the other videos and learned a lot from them, but this one hit differently. Thank you! Hope to see more like this video in the future! Wish you all the best! Sabina
It’s true that many rich men have serious faults. However, women who are attracted to these types of men, may lack an awareness of the vulnerabilities that caused them to overlook these faults. ☕️
Money certainly doesn’t buy happiness but without it life is bladdy miserable!!!!! A little money helps to lighten the load. Agreed, health and love first but just a comfortable amount of money helps put a smile on everyone’s face.
Thanks you for this video. I used to chase material things but then I became a born again Christian. I still enjoy my luxury moments but appreciate simple things at the same time.
I think this episode is one of THE MOST IMPORTANT messages you have ever imparted on your audience. It made me like and respect your channel even more! You shared WISDOM dear. ❤️
I came across Bey’s channel by chance. I find her to be absolutely lovely and right on point always. I also appreciate that she’s honest about having gone for some cosmetic work herself and having learned her beautiful manners later in life. Refreshing.
Oh Anna, thank you for this… my sister called my attention to this video and it is very educative and eye opening, one must borrow a leaf from the realness of the message! Blessings…
I agree wth you Anna; I feel that one does not live with the money, one lives with the man and it's important to have the same hobbies and politics and so forth. Also, no abusive guy is worth any amount of money and, yes, some rich men are simply crooks!
I think having money, good health makes you happy. You don't have to have billions but having 1 million and live on the interests does help to be happy. Coz you can afford to travel and enjoy life.
Thank you for this video Anna. I am a mental health therapist and work with people from all walks of life. I couldn't agree more, that spiritual connection, staying in the present moment, and doing what you can with what you have (I would also argue gratitude can be quite helpful), is the way to find that inner peace and happiness. Money can help people acquire resources but without these insights of what's actually important in life, many people find themselves lost and searching for other things to fill that void. Really important video!
The first thing mentioned is the most important, from my own experience I can tell you how empty I feel right now that I have many of the things that in the past I just could dream to have. I'm trying with therapy and is starting to help. Money can't buy you the love of other people, and most importantly, it can't buy you self love, respect and self steem. You most cultivate those things in your life since the very beginning so you can enjoy the future abundance coming, otherwise is just empty...
Best wishes to you! I remember the thrill I got walking through the grocery store and knowing I could buy whatever I wanted at the grocery store :). After a while you just quit wanting to buy things.
This was an excellent video, Anna. Wisdom that’s much needed in the level up/femininity/hypergamous community. Very insightful and this gives a reality check!!!
So true anna about #4. Not all wealthy are having the time of their loves during expensive vacations. Most of them family members fight a lot during vacations which others think of as ideal but actually not.
I believe money is not the end goal but definitely an upgrade from a place of poverty. I've also learned from some rich people, that if you spend too much time investing in material wealth, you could feel trapped with those things. So imo, don't think wealth is the biggest thing you can achieve. It's just a tool only to be used to improve psychological and physical health
I wasn't going to comment but I love your dark red nails with that powder blue dress. The combination is absolutely gorgeous. Thank you for all your good work.
I really love this video! Great tips Anna, I can especially relate to the last tip! Learned it the hard way, but so glad I did. I feel more humble and grateful for what I have, and I also am very careful with what new «thing» that comes in my life. It always has to fill all my checkpoint and is never an action of impulse💃🏽
Fantastic share, Anna. I so agree with you in which one needs to cultivate spirituality, meditation and mindfulness as we search for financial upgrade. Otherwise, we will get to that level and feel that something is missing. Thank you for sharing these 5 tips. 💕
Great advice Anna , thanks for this xoxo 😘 we all need to hear this every once in a while, much love to you and thanks again for the tough love and realness of your teachings
This is one of my favourite videos by you Anna. Your words felt like it gave me some guidance and much needed mind adjustment. Btw you look absolutely stunning here ... 🥰
I agree with everything you say Anna. I have so many clothes and purses that I felt “isnt stylish” anymore. I had big busts my entire teenage and adult years that I had to get surgery to make them smaller. I treated myself to new shoes, lingerie and dresses but I decided to make the best out of my old clothes and enjoy them because I can fit in them. It brought me happiness ❤
If you're not wealthy doesn't mean you have love, either. I've been on both ends of the wealth spectrum, and rich is better; generally, the richer you are, the healthier you are.
Had to pause the video to say... that is such a gorgeous red nail polish color! It looks a bit different from the one you usually wear (or is it lighting?). Would you mind sharing what brand/color it is?
About 23 years ago, I went to this seminar where a very wealthy man was speaking. He was describing that one day he was looking at his marble floors and marble walls of his mansion and he was feeling so empty and lost, he had it all, multiple cars, a wife, children, everything that money could buy but he couldn't be more empty and lost. This is why we must cultivate our mind and heart first ladies and be fulfilled within ourselves, because when we do this, we'll attract a man who has done the same.
I have watched some of your videos and I have to say there is a lot of value in them......much more than o thought......your channel is not about style....but working on the inside of us...
Anna I can honestly say you saved lives with this one, and it is not the first time either.... the BAD APPLES...... GOLDEN CAGES.... BAD CHARACTER TRAITS..... CRIMINAL AFFLUENT MEN..... More absolutely sterling content for those who want to pay attention to their lives long term and short term.
Thank you for watching! ❤️how do you keep grounded and present? And to learn, which 10 things tell you have class, then watch this video next th-cam.com/video/VMJR087l6UM/w-d-xo.html
Journaling, reading, doing my yoga stretches. Also, focusing on the little things help a lot.
For example, this year I've taken more time to enjoy the beautiful autumn. The leaves, nature walks. Always makes me feel so much better and more grounded l🍁🙏🏻
please subtitles in spanish 👌👌
I love you Anna your videos helped me a lot but recently is like u repeating your self
I practice writing out 5 things I’m thankful for this particular day. With COVID taking away so many lives around I came to realize that life is too short. Every moment has to be enjoyed. I have goals that I move towards, but this day has to be the most happy day, just because it’s part of my journey. The practice mentioned earlier helped me pause and see many awesome people and beautiful things around me. I’m actually a really happy person and really know how to enjoy little everyday life moments!:)
If a man doesn’t love God more than you he can’t love you properly.
Being poor for most of my life, especially during childhood, I can honestly tell you that having enough money that you don’t need to stress out to pay the electricity bill or buy food is absolutely the difference between sadness and happiness.
🙌🏼yes.
Speak on it!
Yeah i would take sadness over stress every day
i think you're saying this because you're sorry for yourself- victim mentality. believe me, you have a wrong perception. I've been there, done that. please, if you want to change your life do something you love, what's your passion and give it to people. it'll change everything. blessings to you🙌🏻💝
@@user-jv8vt5se9w You're so right!
Money doesn't change people, it reveals them.
Hello 👋.....How are you doing today???????
Hi 👋 Bohemia, can I please ask you a question?
@@ericksonwall7369 Hi, may I ask you and Charlie Wayne a question?
"Money unlocks characters jailed by poverty", literally just read this on another comment section and I thought is was very apt 👌.
@@Sexxxyism Yes what is your question?
In Brazil we have a saying: “money doesn’t buy happiness but allows you to be sad in Paris”.
Just something I always thought it was funny, but you are right: that is nothing without health and love.
I love that saying. Thank you for sharing so I could learn something new!
In France they say Id rather cry in the back of a porsche than cry in a bycicle
@@ConstructionKing-e5o you are welcome ☺️
@@ritaj7080 oh I like it 🤣 thanks for sharing! 💖
Never saw a fellow Brazilian elegant lady in here. De onde tu é? Que milagre mds
About secret 1#: I guess money doesn't equal happiness, but it makes "shortcuts", helps solving problems easier and is a main tool to achieve goals. Some examples like private healthcare, more transportation options, being able to get better education on variety of subjects, being able to invest more in hobbies, worrying less about retierment time, being able to pay for external work such as a weekly house cleaner so you can have extra time for yourself... I mean, in my country at least there are professions that you can't actually work at them and thrive without enough financial support from others or yourself such as arts, some healthcare professions(!) or most of sports.
So money is not a direct happiness provider, but when you don't have enough you have much more things that would make you more anxious or regretfull.
i can pay for therapy to be happy 😭😭
Plus you can travel! I think the very best education for anyone is to be able to travel to different countries!
@@jlina exactly that too. and through learning new things can sometimes bring you to happiness.
I understand what you say, but these are problems that money can solve, it can't solve everything tho. Having money is much better than not having it, but some people are just so rotten inside that no matter how much money they have they will always feel like they don't have enough to be happy. That's how I see, money is a problem solver, not happiness itself.
Also money gives you chance to help others, relatives, and be happy out of making others happy. IMO if you do not know how to be happy, money do not really play role how you feel.
I remember seeing Jim Carrey say “Everybody should get rich and famous so they can see that it's not the answer.” It stuck with me.
So important to work on getting to know yourself.
I'm sure we've all experienced that moment where we think once I get X y z I'm going to feel happy and fulfilled. However, very often that's not the case.
Omg I remember that too! It never left my mind since.
Wealth is the ability to fully experience life.
@@duedate2811 very true.. But I also think that once you reach a certain level of wealth, it doesn't add to your level of happiness. And as the time goes by you very soon realise that the most valuable things in life can't be bought. Trust, true love, care, honesty, ability to notice the little things in life 💕
I want to be rich but not famous.
How simply but how beautifully put. Your words made me teary for it's so true....thanks
I've experienced this in my work. I've worked for some of the wealthiest people in the world for over 25 years and honestly I've seen so much misery, trauma, boredom, abuse and addiction. Everyone thinks they would be diferent if they had money but the truth it, you just need enough and you need to be able to know when enough really is enough. Gratitude and a passion for something that is meaningful or a hobby that isn't shopping is what makes people happy. And enough money to care for our health and some spare time to pursue our interests. 'I have enough' is something I've learnt to focus on.
Hello 👋.....How are you doing today???????
Beware Erickson Wall and Charlie Wayne. They are selling something. Charlie Wayne even got a "highlighted reply."
Well said!! I agree.
@@TheNaidaLynn Okay, but who gives Charlie Wayne the Highlighted Reply? Is it Anna. What the heck are these guys selling?
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Anna, I partnered up with a so-called wealthy man for ten years; he was a user. I let him use my knowledge experience and worked five years side by side in the hospitality business; he promised after five years, we would split the profits. He kept ignoring my request to get that in a written contract. I had all the red flags staring me in the face, which I ignored. There's more to my story; I won't go into now.
But ladies, please don't go into business with anyone without a written contract. At first, I felt ashamed, but I'm a firm believer what goes around comes around. Thank you for your honesty, Anna. A woman like yourself is scarce. 💞
I used to work for a cleaning company and the biggest thing I noticed was when I dealt with someone wealthy they never tipped, when I dealt with someone lower income they never tipped and when I dealt with someone mid range they almost always tipped especially if they worked at a job that receives tips as well!
"Health is wealth".
Also agree with all the points. Thank you ❤️
You don't have to be a millionaire, but having a small nest egg and being able to see something you like, a coat, a small trip away etc and think, 'I can afford to buy that' goes a long way when I think back to the days where we could not even use too much milk as we could not afford to buy any the next day. Security for me is more important than being rich.
True
I agree, I like being stable and comfortable
Same here. 😊
I had a mentor who said ,"if you marry for only money that you will end up earning every penny of that money."
So true for so many....like selling their soul to the devil, a Faustian bargain. Anyone can make a mistake and choose unwisely, but what keeps them there is the money esp if they signed a prenup...Sybil Francis PhD clinical psychologist
Plenty of people are unhappily married with little money; the divorce rate is 50%.
Money does not guarantee health and love, but being poor or average is an even bigger obstacle to those things. In the USA, proper health maintenance is unaffordable to most- you have to be at least upper middle class to have everything you need for optimal health (regular doctor appointments, therapy, gym memberships, nutritious fresh food, the time and space to de-stress). Same thing with love- couples experiencing financial stress are far more likely to divorce. Families without financial means have to work long shifts away from their kids and never see friends. Money doesn’t guarantee those things but it does increase your chances of having them by a lot
"Lack of money is the root of all evil"!!
This is what "affluent" people can never understand..
Financial stress does not always mean there isn't enough income. If one partner has a gambling problem and hogs all the resources that can cause a lot of financial stress. If one partner earns enough or both partners earn enough but one person is taking all financial decisions and not including the other partner in financial decisions even that causes a lot of financial stress. Many women are expected to unconditionally surrender their income to their husband and treated as work mules.
Not a true statement. I am far from being upper class, I’m considered low middle class, and I have great health insurance, access to therapy through my job, and good food and gym membership. And I’m not alone. In the grand scheme of things, less than 50 million people in this country don’t have access to insurance, and while that’s one too many, it’s not even 1/3 of the US population. To say that you have to be upper class to have those things is just simply not true. It’s only true for a small percentage of people in a country that has about 330,000,000 people. It’s about 15% of the general population, and again, it shouldn’t be that way in the first place for anyone, but stats tell a different story.
@@BacchizAdventures very true! Income and affluence are not the same thing. Ability to manage your money is critical
I really like how you talk about "difficult topics" in a very diplomatic and lady like way. you should do a video about this too! it's so rare these days and I really enjoy listening to your opinions and advice. Thank you for your content, showing us how we could elevate ourselves. I think you have a good type of humor too.
I love how balanced you are in this video! Affluent or not it's all about surrounding yourself with quality people who help you be the best version of yourself! Spirituality is such a key component to feeling peace too!
I love Marie Kondo~ her book and the Japanese way of buying less is something that really resonated with me :) I don’t want to be rich if it means I only buy things I don’t appreciate. The dopamine always wears off, but I find myself still admiring and loving things I have that I really put thought into and I’m grateful for in my life. I think Anna also thinks this way, which is a big reason I watch her :) After watching this video it’s absolutely confirmed it.
Less is more ✨
My dad told me ones you don’t need to be rich to have class always treat every person around you with kindness and respect we are not worth less or more than any human being god made us all equal :)
Hi 👋 Sandra, can I please ask you a question?
Respecting others is good and we are equal in accord to law..other than than we all are in our own..so make sure you develop some appreciation for money since is the fuel to survival..and it makes a difference to have options and choices in our lives...it does it even for people who have no class or intelligence.
I'm agree..I know some rich people from my family who don't have manners and they are arrogant just because they have more money and cars then others. Money are coming and going, but their bad mannered character remain.
I agree with you Ana! I only have high quality people in my life now. They all might not be wealthy, however, they are super supportive of me doing things in my life that make me happy, help me level up and become a better version of myself and they never make me feel bad for doing it either. Thats what I look for in a husband, high quality mindset who lives in his beautiful madculine purpose 🥰 Thank you for this video! X
My guy learned something from his wealthy Godmother back in the day that he taught to me. "It's not what you make, it's what your bills are." Buy quality and live below your means. Minimize your debts as much as possible. (That last part was mine.) 😁
Financial security is so important to give the freedom for greater things like love, friendship, health and spiritual growth as a human being.
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Your visuals are so lovely!!! And you are more articulate too. I love the progress I am seeing.
Thanks Anna for being frank, I lost my mum 6 years ago and its good to have a mentor and coach replacing her.
Am a big fan!
I love your emphasis on not focusing on superficiality-the opposite of what most think is a key part of achieving an affluent life
Hi 👋 Jennifer, can I please ask you a question?
Thank you Anna for revealing the other side of the coin. My biggest take from this is to Stay true to thyself and be responsible for your own happiness.
This is so true. Due to the environment I lived in, I ended up going out with men (boys lol) who were way wealthier than myself. It caused a lot of discomfort on both sides, and once it was even the reason we broke up. My current partner apparently noticed my dislike for wealth (beyond my own) and pretended to be from a modest family. It was only once we had been together for many months that I slowly started to find inconsistencies and he admitted it. Safe to say, it really isn't the wealth (or lack thereof!) but about a person who is willing understand me and do sth like this for me.
Health is the most important of course and the last point is absolutely true! I also had to found out that when having not much to spend on, things become way more value because they are no certainty.
Anna, your hair looks so good💯
Right? I think her hair color is a cooler blonde color! I definitely listened to and loved the honest information in this video but definitely noticed her hair too
Socioeconomic background does not matter when it comes to character. There are unsavory, selfish, narcissistic, abusive, etc. people across each and every spectrum of existence. The key is achieving independence, discernment and taking your time.
It's amazing how I've witnessed your own personal growth in this channel. It's great to see you talking about these topics because ultimately the goal for anybody looking for affluence is to get happiness and stability.
I just enjoyed the experiences, but it was back in the day when I had no idea what leveling up was!
Anna, your messages are well received this morning. Thank you! Balance of mental status is a must for ourselves and our partner's, in all realms and areas of our life.
Additionally, your look today is very fresh, healthy, and as inspiring as your message.
Hello 👋.....How are you doing today???????
Hi 👋 Carol, can I please ask you a question?
@@charliearthur1134 What's up with this "Can I please ask you a question?" business.
@@Sexxxyism lol I didn't know that some men are hitting on ladies here
I love how you always greet us with " My dear elegant ladies"❤
I am commenting again.
This is so far the best and the most honest video of yours. Loving it.
I have been watching and observing your videos a lot, but I must say honestly..I see your videos this year filled with beautiful wisdom! A true elegance lady, the higher the class is, the more wisdom they have!. You inspire me a lot big sis 👍
One more thing to add, love does not always come from external factors. We will stop chasing external love when we love ourselves. 👍
I absolutely agree with your points! Having met different types of men with money, I can attest that there are scumbags, criminals and down right scheme making, weasels out there that we need to be extremely vigilant to stay away from. If caught in their world, it could just create a world of undeserved misery and stress for us. I also agree that there are nice, balanced ones who are generous and will care for you like the queen you are :)
As a daughter of a Narcissist, I can tell yo this: socipaths and narcissist gravitate towards this circles, so there is a lot of trauma and pain amongst them.
Perhaps it's easy to equate money with happiness, because money worries creates anxiety and unhappiness. Money security lessens the anxiety and unhappiness, but on its own Doesn't Create Happiness. Minimal anxiety and worry, and nurturing your soul is what creates happiness.
That's right!
You need to put your money in different savings and no one should know about how much money you have or where you save the money.
This video is spot on. You touched on so many key topics. We cannot find love and balance in others without first finding love, joy, and balance within ourselves.
Hi 👋 Cambria, can I please ask you a question?
Thank you for mentioning pets as a source of love..their love is pure and the best guide, model and standard for other relationships
Love how realistic you are ! Bringing some of us back down to earth when maybe we don't see the reality of these things
Health and our love ones 👏🏻🧁 the motor to make all the wealth we want 🥳
I totally agree
Wealth in money is differed then wealth family’s health
Absolutely agree! Being healthy, happy and loved are the most important things in life.
Health is very important, but I love what you said about the importance of being fully present and mindset. Spirituality is so important for me and keeps me grounded. Love these! Thanks 💗
Work hard (studying/working) and build yourself a good job/business and you would get security and peace of mind, but always remember to enjoy your hard work in the best way.
Recently found your channel thanks to YT algorithms. Thank you from Vancouver Island, it’s a breath of fresh air hearing you speak my language.
I don't have a boyfriend, and I am not looking for one. But having elegance, grace and wisdom is my new goal. Not because I want to attract a man, but to be a better me.
I choose my friends and close ones based on their core values which lets me know how long a relationship will last with them. But first, you’ve to know your own values.
Always great content, especially in touching on the part about wealth being essentially meaningless if one is mentally or spiritually unbalanced. The difference is that the wealthy person likely has the time and resources to seek help in whichever way they choose (therapy, rehab, retreats, etc.) while someone without means or a support system typically has to fend for themselves.
That is exactly right ,if you don’t have your health you don’t have anything. I just had my 5 th spine surgery so I know that all I want is a pain free day ! Money helps to help you have comfort and it is really nice not have to worry about bills , but I am always recovering from pain.
OMG i get you ..a pain free day is something i havent expérienced in years ..
Hi 👋 Carlsen, can I please ask you a question?
@@charliearthur1134 yes. Ask 💋
Great video, Anna! A little closer to our hearts! I love your teachings from the other videos and learned a lot from them, but this one hit differently. Thank you! Hope to see more like this video in the future! Wish you all the best! Sabina
Thank you, Anna, for your sincerity. I am so impressed by the wisdom and depth of your character.
Loads of Love from India ❤️🇮🇳
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It’s true that many rich men have serious faults. However, women who are attracted to these types of men, may lack an awareness of the vulnerabilities that caused them to overlook these faults. ☕️
..or they lack boundaries...which a healthy women should have
Yes, that's what really is important: Health and our loved ones. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. You're truly grounded and affluent.
Money certainly doesn’t buy happiness but without it life is bladdy miserable!!!!! A little money helps to lighten the load. Agreed, health and love first but just a comfortable amount of money helps put a smile on everyone’s face.
Hello 👋.....How are you doing today???????
Hi 👋 Dear, can I please ask you a question?
Thanks you for this video. I used to chase material things but then I became a born again Christian. I still enjoy my luxury moments but appreciate simple things at the same time.
Wow, ma'am may God bless u 🙏 ❤ 💖
This must have been one of your best videos, Anna ! All the best.
I think this episode is one of THE MOST IMPORTANT messages you have ever imparted on your audience. It made me like and respect your channel even more! You shared WISDOM dear. ❤️
I came across Bey’s channel by chance. I find her to be absolutely lovely and right on point always. I also appreciate that she’s honest about having gone for some cosmetic work herself and having learned her beautiful manners later in life. Refreshing.
You said so many truths in this video!!! I don’t know how many women are aware of this! Excellent video 🥂
Oh Anna, thank you for this… my sister called my attention to this video and it is very educative and eye opening, one must borrow a leaf from the realness of the message! Blessings…
Anna is a example to every woman
She always look simple but flawlessly beautiful
Lots of love from Nepal ❤️💖
I agree wth you Anna; I feel that one does not live with the money, one lives with the man and it's important to have the same hobbies and politics and so forth. Also, no abusive guy is worth any amount of money and, yes, some rich men are simply crooks!
I think having money, good health makes you happy. You don't have to have billions but having 1 million and live on the interests does help to be happy. Coz you can afford to travel and enjoy life.
Totally agree. Money helps in everything, but it should not be your greatest love.
Being truly Loved, having Good Health and comfortable wealth is true happiness
@@catherinele1580 agree
Hi 👋 Joy, can I please ask you a question?
@@charliearthur1134 Again really. This is the third person he has asked this question. What a con artist.
Your hair looks beautiful, shiny and healthy. Do you have any hair products recommendations? Great video as always 🥰
Please post a video on *Hairstyles for Workplace* , Anna💜 Love from India 🇮🇳 Waiting for your podcast comeback 🤗💕
yes please!!
Thank you for this video Anna. I am a mental health therapist and work with people from all walks of life. I couldn't agree more, that spiritual connection, staying in the present moment, and doing what you can with what you have (I would also argue gratitude can be quite helpful), is the way to find that inner peace and happiness. Money can help people acquire resources but without these insights of what's actually important in life, many people find themselves lost and searching for other things to fill that void. Really important video!
Preach to Anna for her authenticity, honesty and the knowledge she shares 💕 Bless you and have a wonderful life ❤️
The first thing mentioned is the most important, from my own experience I can tell you how empty I feel right now that I have many of the things that in the past I just could dream to have. I'm trying with therapy and is starting to help. Money can't buy you the love of other people, and most importantly, it can't buy you self love, respect and self steem. You most cultivate those things in your life since the very beginning so you can enjoy the future abundance coming, otherwise is just empty...
Best wishes to you! I remember the thrill I got walking through the grocery store and knowing I could buy whatever I wanted at the grocery store :). After a while you just quit wanting to buy things.
It takes a grounded, matured and wise person to enjoy wealth without getting destroyed by the illusion it creates.
This was an excellent video, Anna. Wisdom that’s much needed in the level up/femininity/hypergamous community. Very insightful and this gives a reality check!!!
Hi 👋 Rose, can I please ask you a question?
@@charliearthur1134 Wasting your time, Chuck.
This has to be the most important and interesting video you've made. Thank you! X
So true anna about #4. Not all wealthy are having the time of their loves during expensive vacations. Most of them family members fight a lot during vacations which others think of as ideal but actually not.
I have been both rich & poor. These lessons are true for both.
Well done Anna, now you are talking.
Now I have respect for you, giving this message to the ladies out there.
I believe money is not the end goal but definitely an upgrade from a place of poverty. I've also learned from some rich people, that if you spend too much time investing in material wealth, you could feel trapped with those things. So imo, don't think wealth is the biggest thing you can achieve. It's just a tool only to be used to improve psychological and physical health
I wasn't going to comment but I love your dark red nails with that powder blue dress. The combination is absolutely gorgeous. Thank you for all your good work.
I really love this video! Great tips Anna, I can especially relate to the last tip! Learned it the hard way, but so glad I did. I feel more humble and grateful for what I have, and I also am very careful with what new «thing» that comes in my life. It always has to fill all my checkpoint and is never an action of impulse💃🏽
WITHOUT CHRIST YOU THINK LIKE ANNA.
Waiting 😊
I was waiting for this video. And you teach the best thing that Hunger for rich people is not always a cool thing. Thanks for this Anna 🌸
Amazing video my dear! It's so great to see how mature and balanced your message is. This is such a positive message! Well done!
Fantastic share, Anna. I so agree with you in which one needs to cultivate spirituality, meditation and mindfulness as we search for financial upgrade. Otherwise, we will get to that level and feel that something is missing. Thank you for sharing these 5 tips. 💕
Hi 👋 Neda, can I please ask you a question?
@@charliearthur1134 Sure... go ahead.
@@NedaPeeff THANKS, ok Neda but I don't think you will be okay talking publicly. I suggest we talk about it on Email. ✉️✉️🌹
@@NedaPeeff What do you think? 🙏🌹🌹
@@charliearthur1134 Feel free to ask here so that Anna or I can reply accordingly! 🙂
I’m so grateful for a human being like you to ignite knowledge in this world.. it’s truly amazing 🤩 thank you!
Great advice Anna , thanks for this xoxo 😘 we all need to hear this every once in a while, much love to you and thanks again for the tough love and realness of your teachings
This is one of my favourite videos by you Anna. Your words felt like it gave me some guidance and much needed mind adjustment. Btw you look absolutely stunning here ... 🥰
Health is important but love and morality, having a good character, are more important.
Anna, this is one of your best videos! I really enjoyed it! Thank you! I agree 100% with you!
"Money buys everything, includying true love." (Nelson Rodrigues, Brazilian writer)
Thats true. I dont think i could fall in love with a handsome but poor guy. Being poor is a deal breaker.
Living in a material world and I'm a material girl🤣..
I agree with everything you say Anna. I have so many clothes and purses that I felt “isnt stylish” anymore. I had big busts my entire teenage and adult years that I had to get surgery to make them smaller. I treated myself to new shoes, lingerie and dresses but I decided to make the best out of my old clothes and enjoy them because I can fit in them. It brought me happiness ❤
If you're not wealthy doesn't mean you have love, either. I've been on both ends of the wealth spectrum, and rich is better; generally, the richer you are, the healthier you are.
You NAILED it, Anna. Thank you so much for your sharing. Love you and admire you. You start the best welcome of my November.
Had to pause the video to say... that is such a gorgeous red nail polish color! It looks a bit different from the one you usually wear (or is it lighting?). Would you mind sharing what brand/color it is?
Hi 👋 Rebecca, can I please ask you a question?
I have personally loved all your videos but this particular one by far is my favourite! And yes nothing can ever be more important than health
About 23 years ago, I went to this seminar where a very wealthy man was speaking. He was describing that one day he was looking at his marble floors and marble walls of his mansion and he was feeling so empty and lost, he had it all, multiple cars, a wife, children, everything that money could buy but he couldn't be more empty and lost. This is why we must cultivate our mind and heart first ladies and be fulfilled within ourselves, because when we do this, we'll attract a man who has done the same.
I have watched some of your videos and I have to say there is a lot of value in them......much more than o thought......your channel is not about style....but working on the inside of us...
Thank you Anna Bey,iam learning alot from your channel, I love your contents from Kenya ❤️
One of the best videos so far! IOVED IT
Anna I can honestly say you saved lives with this one, and it is not the first time either.... the BAD APPLES...... GOLDEN CAGES.... BAD CHARACTER TRAITS..... CRIMINAL AFFLUENT MEN..... More absolutely sterling content for those who want to pay attention to their lives long term and short term.
This has been a great video, if not the best so far, thank you
Ladies in the love category, always remember to love yourself ❤️
Hi Anna, Whatever FLOATS your boat is the expression!