How to isolate and not lose your darn mind! [CC]

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  • @FrostWhisker
    @FrostWhisker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +885

    She's really the best person to tell us how to do this, isn't she?

    • @tammysantana7200
      @tammysantana7200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I like having a good balance between seeing things not connected to the virus and thing connected to anything and everything else.

    • @Carlie12345
      @Carlie12345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She says things with humorous sarcasm that is truly the best. And her delivery is amazing!

  • @iambossbabe8111
    @iambossbabe8111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm almost aimless.
    Feeling tired of doing nothing..
    But I'm glad I saw you here😊
    Now, feeling alive again😅.

  • @gnomee9447
    @gnomee9447 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rewatching this and sharing it again to my social media. Absolute single best video on coping with isolation. I needed this.

  • @meghan-daisywhite-romeo5306
    @meghan-daisywhite-romeo5306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is so helpful I’m an introvert and a sickly human but now I’ve been told I have to stay inside I really don’t want to 😂😂 I left the house for the first time after 1 month after getting over covid 🥳

  • @alisonbarker3862
    @alisonbarker3862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great, just great. Hugs, Alison.

  • @laurastarbrook1308
    @laurastarbrook1308 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the advice, I love your videos ❤️ they keep me sane 💖

  • @Haghenveien
    @Haghenveien 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never thought I lived to see the day when I would find an advantage in having chronic fatigue but the day has come. In case of isolation you don't need to look constanly for things to do like those full of energy people that need to do seventy things before lunch and other seventy after. Nope, you do a couple things, three if you have a good day, and you're done. Much easier. ;-)

  • @kyraboschma8923
    @kyraboschma8923 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tents and Trees!!!

  • @sunnybugz
    @sunnybugz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've decided to learn Spanish and I'm looking for a resource to learn ASL (which I will likely be much, MUCH better at than Spanish)

  • @justabitofamug6989
    @justabitofamug6989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    "get dressed"
    *looks down at the onesie I've been wearing for the past 2 days* yeah that might be a good idea

    • @sophiekerr8964
      @sophiekerr8964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Let's see people brag about how long theyve worn something. Like me! I've worn the same top for a week. It's actually reversible so technically it's 2 tops lol

    • @TomlinfiglioLuigi
      @TomlinfiglioLuigi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Does it count as getting dressed if I change my pyjama every day?

    • @seaborgium919
      @seaborgium919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@TomlinfiglioLuigi She says this in the video! Yes! it does!

    • @lucylulusuperguru3487
      @lucylulusuperguru3487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Uh...you're in good company!

    • @elfinshell4758
      @elfinshell4758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Only 2 days? You’re doing well lol

  • @noahfarr2524
    @noahfarr2524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    It’s nice that we’re all together in this. I get nervous, and then I realise everyone is. It’s weird, and comforting.

    • @sophiekerr8964
      @sophiekerr8964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's so bizarre right now, but what you can do is search for the wholesome, even if it's something small. Take this as an example: my bf was delivering pizzas and he went to a house and there was a note clearly written by a child which read:" thanks for bringing me my food. Have a KitKat!" That just shows there is hope for humanity. Stay strong and keep your mental health in order, and know that this is only temporary.

    • @florindalucero3236
      @florindalucero3236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nailed it.

    • @kiwiequis4144
      @kiwiequis4144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s bizarre to chronically ill people who socially distance on their own to suddenly not being alone in social distancing, too! My cousins weirded out from everyone being home lmao

    • @larav.1865
      @larav.1865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, I get what you mean. It may suck for everyone, but there's solidarity in it, too.

  • @okkaida3146
    @okkaida3146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    Man we stan a self-isolation queen!

  • @justabitofamug6989
    @justabitofamug6989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    "touch a plant"
    *makes eye contact with my cacti*

    • @imomogencrab3505
      @imomogencrab3505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      😂

    • @rowan4308
      @rowan4308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Honestly me right now

    • @LadyAhro
      @LadyAhro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Pat it’s pot maybe? If not never fear, it’s practicing social distancing,

    • @grappleberrycorn
      @grappleberrycorn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      eye contact????????

    • @justabitofamug6989
      @justabitofamug6989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@grappleberrycorn yes

  • @joshuachoo7555
    @joshuachoo7555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Honestly, as someone marginalised on several fronts and who grapples with mental illness - I really feel like bloggers should be allowed to NOT have to deal with the virus in their every post. Some people just don't have the bandwidth to deal with it - and, as you say, the spaces created outside the current crisis are good resting spots.

    • @elenanojkovic2554
      @elenanojkovic2554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm from Rijeka, Croatia and we have a facebook group called "I love the city that flows" ("Rijeka" means "river" in Croatian, therefore, our city "flows". Also we get a LOT of rain so the slogan has two meanings; of course the original slogan is in Croatian too). Anyways, the group was so overflown by Corona posts that the admin decide to have a 10 day ban on any Corona-themed post or comment unless it's an emergency (for example, someone asking for help with groceries). It was super nice from him as the whole thing was getting tiring.

    • @laurachapman2176
      @laurachapman2176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah I feel the same. I'm in a Star Trek: Deep Space Nine group that has had a ban on virus related content (based on their longstanding ban on any topics not directly related to the TV show) and it's been so nice to see those posts on my Facebook feed.

    • @anascarlet
      @anascarlet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No, why WOULD anyone have to post about the virus in EVERY post?! I'm tired of the virus just thinking about it.

    • @bluesassy30
      @bluesassy30 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joshua Choo yes!!

  • @colettelee1162
    @colettelee1162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    The Sims 4 is on sale for $5 until April 21st. Just sayin'

    • @noahfarr2524
      @noahfarr2524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Colette Lee ooo good point

    • @bluepencil1014
      @bluepencil1014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where can you find this?

    • @riankagill
      @riankagill 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bluepencil1014 on their website :)

    • @legoduckie
      @legoduckie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @nedwantshisbed
      @nedwantshisbed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i spent 20 pounds on that, also that is the queens birthday

  • @5Seed
    @5Seed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    J: you’ve been stuck in your house a while and are starting to feel like throttling..
    Me: the kids
    J: .. a cushion.
    Me: .......... yeh. Cushion.

  • @lprocks555
    @lprocks555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    I don't know if I'm being paranoid about vitamin D deficiency, but I would add: get some sunlight! Spend a few minutes in direct sunlight every other day. Feeling the warmth on my skin and a light breeze works wonders for my mood.

    • @rosalindgh
      @rosalindgh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm right there with you - I can't get out much even when the lockdown isn't in place due to my health, but I make an effort as the days get brighter to sit in the garden with my tea and take a breather while I soak in as much light as I can :)

    • @florindalucero3236
      @florindalucero3236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      We had strong sunshine yesterday here in Seattle, rare as hens teeth. I soaked it up like an hypothermic lizard.

    • @crazywoollady9325
      @crazywoollady9325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@florindalucero3236 Just had to comment to tell you how much I love your phrasing

    • @ronistitch6510
      @ronistitch6510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have a hamock i normly use when we go camping and i have just about managed to hang it on my balconey so i can read in there for and hour in the afternoon s

    • @felicitygee381
      @felicitygee381 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@florindalucero3236 "hypothermic lizard" 😎 awesome!👍

  • @maxwellhart3741
    @maxwellhart3741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I’m autistic, and here’s how I structure my to-do lists to work WITH my cognitive rigidity instead of against it. It’s designed to keep me from pushing myself too hard, or getting too upset if I don’t get through my whole to-do list. Probably also useful for anyone fighting a desire to be hyper-productive when stuck inside.
    List #1: stuff I MUST finish today. I try to keep this list short by working on my procrastination habit, but resting/self-care always go here so I can’t justify skipping them
    List #2: stuff I would LIKE to accomplish today but can afford to put off, listed in order of deadline. I often make tentative to-do’s a week at a time, and when I do that I can also plan when to do tasks in the event that I have to push them back (example: if I know Monday’s to-do list is pretty long and Wednesday’s is shorter, I can plan to push things I don’t finish on Monday to Wednesday)
    List #3: stretch goals. Things I’m not at all obligated to do, but will give an extra dose of accomplishment if I get through my to-do list and have more leftover time and energy than I predicted (for example, re-organizing my desk).

    • @lucylulusuperguru3487
      @lucylulusuperguru3487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This furthers my theory that everyone on the spectrum is simply differently brilliant.

    • @maxwellhart3741
      @maxwellhart3741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Adrienne Jernigan thats really kind of you to say :)
      I’m also going to school to be a clinical psychologist, so this kind of brain-hack is kinda my Thing lol

    • @TheReadingWren
      @TheReadingWren 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same! It really works for me because it helps me prioritise. That way I don't get distracted and spend all day doing something low priority then feel guilty about forgetting the important things.

    • @dylnpickl846
      @dylnpickl846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same. Also same with having to make proper resting/self care a priority task.

    • @lucylulusuperguru3487
      @lucylulusuperguru3487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@maxwellhart3741 having personal experience with this as you do this gives you a massive lead in being understanding and compassionate in your chosen field. Hats off to you!

  • @billyshakes1643
    @billyshakes1643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    As someone with severe social anxiety and agoraphobia (and is working on it woo!) I'm also a stay at home pro my main fear is losing the progress I've made so speaking with people helps me a lot.

    • @leilabarreto4973
      @leilabarreto4973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same here. Haven't related so much to a comment for a while. Severe social anxiety and mayor depression, I've been social distancing for 4 years now, so this is kind of my normal, natural state of being. But I'm struggling a lot because I really don't want to lose the progress I've made so far. So I usually offer myself to do groceries for my family so I don't go back to hermit mode again.

    • @SuviTuuliAllan
      @SuviTuuliAllan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hey, you're like me!

    • @felicitygee381
      @felicitygee381 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh bother! I hadn't thought of that.

    • @gingersal8052
      @gingersal8052 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I so relate!

  • @eveescastle5866
    @eveescastle5866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I'm more of a homebody than the rest of my family, and I find having my family home more is driving me insane.
    It interrupts my routine because they take care of things I normally would and there is overall more clutter to clean up.

    • @Sophia-cd2ci
      @Sophia-cd2ci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      EveesCastle me too! I love my family to the ends of the earth, but my goodness I can’t wait for them to get out. I cant wait for isolation to be over so I can be alone again 😅

    • @morganw2492
      @morganw2492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes! My grandma is a big extrovert, and her craziness at not being able to go out is driving me crazy

  • @laulutar
    @laulutar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I definitely appreciate it when bloggers/vloggers/other content creators give me a chance to think of something other than the pandemic. Living in a pandemic is challenging enough as it is, so dealing with a few additional personal crises is even less fun than it would normally be. I'm definitely all for the "tips on how to cope" and "I'm here to give you something else to think about" content right now.

  • @Shindai
    @Shindai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    By golly, your handwriting is as gorgeous as I expected.

  • @varija02
    @varija02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    "Make sure that you wake up and go to sleep at healthy times"
    Yaaaaa......ummmmm... that's gonna be a problem...

    • @catmomlavender3036
      @catmomlavender3036 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've been doing this for almost 7 years now and it's tuff but also extremely important. Interestingly only figured out how about 3weeks ago. Liquid ZZZzzzQuil . 💜😛

    • @virgquest
      @virgquest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Varija Nateshkumar Whatever times are healthy for *you!* Doesn’t have to be the same schedule as anyone else.

    • @varija02
      @varija02 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@virgquest I don't know what times are healthy for me. Hahaha ❤️

  • @rosalindgh
    @rosalindgh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I needed this honestly, because whilst I am chronically ill and disabled, so I spend a lot of time at home, it's harder to do right now because I live with my parents and brother due to having no other option (yay, the economy is great), and honestly being around them this much is stressing me out, even though I love my family.
    Also, I know Jessica always looks great but honestly right now that is a stunning look, I am living for her hair, that looks like it took so much work and I appreciate it 💕

    • @genner-vincenthodgson5177
      @genner-vincenthodgson5177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's the same way for me! I always thought that having time to be completely away from people was just an emotional maintenance thing, but now I'm realizing it was a vital part of my life. I love my family, but being around them constantly with zero breaks for the past month has been really draining. I'm really glad I'm not the only one

    • @rosalindgh
      @rosalindgh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@genner-vincenthodgson5177 I'm also glad I'm not the only one 😅

  • @ameliaford4338
    @ameliaford4338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love that dress! It reminds me of spring, which whilst it is on our doorstep, we can't enjoy as much as we may like. All in all, I love it and it looks amazing on you!

  • @melaniemurphyofficial
    @melaniemurphyofficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    ADORE this video :) x

  • @bethanygreenwood8259
    @bethanygreenwood8259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    A massive YES to people providing content that has nothing to do with the virus.
    "touch a plant" 😂 best advice of all time 😂

  • @deathbright107
    @deathbright107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I love the no times tip. Working at home is hard. And going by time has never worked for me.

  • @Sophie_Cleverly
    @Sophie_Cleverly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    As a chronically ill author, this is basically my life! It always worries me that people seem to get the impression that I'm just effortlessly fine, when in fact I've worked really hard on all this stuff for years and years.

    • @tf7602
      @tf7602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just shows how much your work is paying off, that's great!
      You made the effort and maybe they will now understand it better, after having to cope with being homebound.

  • @chickenlittle7139
    @chickenlittle7139 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Yesterday it rained so I opened the windows in my room. When it would rain real hard, I would just sit, close my eyes and listen. It felt so good to melt into the soft sound of rain all around me. 10/10 would recommend.

    • @XSemperIdem5
      @XSemperIdem5 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love opening windows when it rains. Just have to rush to close them when it starts raining into my room 😂

  • @lozparker9025
    @lozparker9025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hi, have you tried " I love hue" it's a really calming and satisfying but not competitive ' game' and you get a grate sense of achievement from it. Thanks for keeping us all entertained and sane, ish. Stay safe everyone .

  • @zabm3502
    @zabm3502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I'm great at being alone at home and leaving the house rarely being chronically ill. I'm surprised by how much I'm affected by everyone else also isolating themselves. I live alone and not touching anyone for 3 weeks is really messing with my mind.

    • @jessm4101
      @jessm4101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I also rarely leave the house due to chronic illness so most of my life hasn’t changed but it’s still a very weird time. I live with my husband so I’m lucky to have that contact but I miss the interaction with my carers way more than I thought I would. Are you able to video call friends/family? That’s been helping my sanity.

    • @lucylulusuperguru3487
      @lucylulusuperguru3487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm pretty much like you too...but I have been so happy to see my random grocery delivery ppl and have 3 seconds of idle chit chat through the screen in the front door that you'd think I was Charlie Sheen eyeballing a line of hookers after a week in the desert lol. I know...horrible metaphor, but sadly...presently pretty accurate.

    • @legendswarble2845
      @legendswarble2845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Honestly yeah. I've found the same thing. I think it's because I'm used to having people there when I am able to go out, but now I actually can't leave and see people even on the rare occasions when I'm physically able so it feels more isolating.

    • @tf7602
      @tf7602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I read that a thing you can do if you miss touch is to close your eyes, cover your face/cheeks with your hands and breath deeply a few times.
      Also self massaging shoulders and necks ist awesome or self massaging your feet.
      Just because you'll mostly feel better afterwards. Everyone abuses their necks and shoulders with bad posture and feet are usually neglected anyways.

    • @cherrybomb2600
      @cherrybomb2600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My girlfriend is in a wheelchair and has a dog and a cat. Maybe you can foster a companion animal? If it weren't for my cat cuddling me all night, I don't know what I'd do. I don't like living alone. My anxiety medicines aren't working. Then, I think, at least I'm not pregnant or have little kids to try and make happy!

  • @11sriver40
    @11sriver40 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    People are only now thinking of attacking cushions. I was at that point 3 weeks ago 😂😂

    • @kikoenjani7335
      @kikoenjani7335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ahead of the times, you were. #legend

  • @Hamster7678
    @Hamster7678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    the only thing im desperately missing at the moment is my favourite ramen place. im practically in withdrawal. lol, im glad im pretty used to being housebound so im not going mad. also my best friends were already on twitter ayyyy.
    my favourite thing to do is get on my phone, go to a03 and find a 500k story to spend the next 4 or so hours reading. or i'll craft and put on a twitch stream of someone else crafting (my fav person is a cosplayer! fawnina!)
    i watch soooo many documentaries as well, my top fav is alphaGo on deepmind's yt channel. keeping active since my dance classes were cancelled has been those '10 minute cardio dance' workouts. my fav conditioning workout is the 'sweaty betty ballet bootcamp enCORE' the one thing i do NOT watch is the news. nope i get enough news on my twitter feed i dont need to see asshole politicians talking about things they dont actually understand.

    • @nicoledorman8484
      @nicoledorman8484 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You lost me at reading a 500k fic on 4 hours! Speed reading queen!

  • @RoisinsReading
    @RoisinsReading 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I bought a vintage nightdress on Etsy from the 1950s to boost my mood

  • @bluuemoodd
    @bluuemoodd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It's 4 pm and I haven't washed my face since last night. I'm gonna go do that now.

    • @jillyfish72
      @jillyfish72 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Trinity Soria Today I have sunscreen, yes I went ‘outside’ to pick up a food parcel from my sons school, I should remove that... Yesterday; Same 🙂

  • @larryfroot
    @larryfroot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So refreshing to see a Spoonie helping out the normals. We do have a lot to give.

  • @katherinemorelle7115
    @katherinemorelle7115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m also in the “this is really no different from my normal life” boat. I’m definitely not good at following these guidelines though, even though I know I should. But, I’m still feeling better regardless- I think because unlike others, my life hasn’t been turned upside down. It’s the one time I feel better equipped to handle a situation than other people. I sometimes feel a little guilty that my mental health is actually doing better right now than it was before (especially when I know that so many millions of people have lost their jobs, and people are sick or dying). But the fact is, my mood is better. So much so that I’ve actually gotten a bit of sewing done.

  • @RachelG5627
    @RachelG5627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Jessica the quarantine queen

  • @kadamowicz68
    @kadamowicz68 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Tell me, does anyone else get nausea from noise with a migraine? If my kids yell it can actually make me barf🤢

  • @thegreywomanshop
    @thegreywomanshop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    @jessicakellgrenfozard thank you for this. It will be very helpful and I'm going to share it everywhere.

  • @charlie2.048
    @charlie2.048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Jessia: "Make sure you wake up and go to sleep at healthy times."
    Me, watching this video at 2:26am: ...

    • @calliehigley6608
      @calliehigley6608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haaa, I'm watching this at 2am too XD

    • @XSemperIdem5
      @XSemperIdem5 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm early, it's only 12:24am.

  • @rosemilkboba
    @rosemilkboba 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The "stand outside your door" one reminds me of when I worked in this cafe and they'd have me doing 10 hour shifts regularly and every now and again when it was quiet I'd just step outside the door for a sec and just stand there, and it made me feel infinitely more like a person again

  • @liz-tastic.
    @liz-tastic. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Um, people only going to the bathroom once a day that have the option to go more often, I'm concerned you're not hydrated enough... I definitely go at least 4-5 within an 8 hour period by drinking 2-3 liters of water just in my work day...

  • @tympani8135
    @tympani8135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Who else wants to see Jessica and Molly Burke do a collab?

    • @sophiekerr8964
      @sophiekerr8964 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Oh definitely. I'd love to see Molly try on vintage clothes or have a 50s makeup routine. That would be great!

    • @majesticgh0st
      @majesticgh0st 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omgerd yes

  • @kelseysmith8355
    @kelseysmith8355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hello, I hope you are doing well. 🌻Would you do a historical take on Princess Anne, she was Prince Phillips mother and seems to have had a facinating life. Out of the ordinary of royal expectations, overcame a lot and still gave generously.

  • @lydiachong1274
    @lydiachong1274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am a healthy person but I love having an excuse to stay at home. Yay.

  • @adriennefraser1517
    @adriennefraser1517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As someone who's newly on disability I've been struggling with isolation but thanks I needed this because I'm gonna be doing this for the next year. 💐

    • @lucylulusuperguru3487
      @lucylulusuperguru3487 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      From one Adrienne to another, you can do this...you'll get through just fine...just gotta muddle along and make the best of it that you can. :)

  • @Leelawadee7
    @Leelawadee7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Chronically (mostly mentally) ill, and quite used to not talking to people at a daily basis, and usually doesn't mind spending days without leaving my flat. Was put in forced isolation awaiting for my test results coming in, and I broke a mirror, ate most of my sleeping meds and drank a bottle of wine. Being forced to sit 36 hours inside by law was like being back at coercion again, except total lack of healthcare workers I could annoy. Really grateful the results came back negative, and it turns out I'm just allergic.
    I do hope most people handle it better than me.

  • @spookerredmenace3950
    @spookerredmenace3950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    always loved your accent! i have learned some sign from watching your videos from time to time lol but its as bad as my Spanish hahaha i like your 40s style hair, hope ye doing well my friend :D

  • @richardvelez3151
    @richardvelez3151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel that it's okay to not mention what we are currently going through in every aspect of media. Whether it's blog posts or YT videos or articles - it's healthy to give the mind a break, as you suggested.
    Escapism can be a stress relief. If someone writes or posts something that does not address or mention the current state of affairs, but is interesting or thought provoking, or silly & fun ... it's fine. We put too much upon ourselves already. A nice respite is always welcomed. And who knows, one may discover new people and experiences. I for one finally joined Instagram ( I know what took me so long ). But because of where the world is at, I opened myself to a new adventure. And I am so glad I did. I've connected with people whom I never would've known otherwise. Plus, it has sparked my creativity. I know it may seem difficult, but even in uncertain & scary times, you can allow yourself to feel grateful for an opportunity that brightens your day and life.
    Thank you for the video, Jessica! You have helped me so much. Your words, your content, this community - you have made such an impact on my life. For that, I will forever be ... grateful.
    Continue to stay safe and take care!
    Lovely as always! 👍🤟💝

  • @nenemaria-cornfieldsgarden
    @nenemaria-cornfieldsgarden 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hah, I'm also missing my bi-weekly car ride to the supermarket! Even being 95% housebound for years, that tiny bit of freedom once every couple of weeks makes a big difference. I can understand why people who are used to leaving the house at least once a day are finding it really hard.
    I think the other side of it for people that are used to being at home alone all the time, can find it really tough to suddenly have family/partner there all the time. I know my routine has been thrown right out the window since my partner has been home. It's not that I'm not enjoying him being there, it's just made it really hard to do all the little things I need to do in my day to keep my physical and mental health in order. I normally have a very strict sleep/health care/eating/work/rest etc routine and the last three weeks have been a blur of late nights, computer games and facetiming friends and family. I'm craving some normality now!

  • @YasmineGalenornOfficial
    @YasmineGalenornOfficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've worked from home for years (writer), and I also have been mostly kept home by my MCAS because...reactions to everything...but this sure has felt so different and odd. I think the thing I miss most is the 'sense' of normality.

  • @poppy7415
    @poppy7415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve been trying to get dressed to feel more productive and also I have managed to do 4 units from my online qualification that’s connected to my work which is a bonus.

  • @valentinabasso1404
    @valentinabasso1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I loved number 13! I'm from Italy and my city is in a complete lockdown since the last week of february, so...I used to make lists and lists and lists that never worked while previously I was able to accomplish any task written on that piece of paper....now I just stopped because the feeling of not being productve was putting me of and to be honest I feel like I do more without worrying too much about what I should or must do that day, so definetly stop writing kept me sane 😊

    • @ronistitch6510
      @ronistitch6510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Some times a tadar list is a nicer way around a tadar list is a list of things you have don rather then things you need to do

    • @valentinabasso1404
      @valentinabasso1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ronistitch6510 thank you for the tip! I will try and for sure it will raise my mood!

  • @carmenalvarez488
    @carmenalvarez488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You were isolating before it was cool 😆

  • @PhoebeFayRuthLouise
    @PhoebeFayRuthLouise 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pearls, white gloves, and barbells is the exercise motivation I’ve needed all my life!
    Also, baby panda videos bring me joy!

  • @PeachHeadzAddiction
    @PeachHeadzAddiction 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Jokes on you, I lost my mind a LONG TIME AGO 😂😂💙

  • @_galaxydrifter_
    @_galaxydrifter_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I legit laughed at 1:05, for those of you who have been living extremely healthy lives up until now...I feel like social isolation has been my norm since moving home in 2019. Colorado had public transportation and now Im in a comparatively inaccessible state. I have had roadblocks to getting my drivers license including depression, epilepsy, and finally by the time I was getting close to taking the test, the pandemic shut down the dmv. Trying not to feel internalized ableism around the fact Im turning 25 in may and dont have a drivers license and have never had a job.

    • @catmomlavender3036
      @catmomlavender3036 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So similar to my daughters experience. She is 22 , could not take her test and I did try to remind her that it gave her more time to practice driving. (I don't know if that even helps her but she rarely attempts to try much, I assume it took a great deal of effort to want to test her anxietygets the best of her)
      I hope you dont lose momentum. 😉Stay safe , from California.

    • @lucylulusuperguru3487
      @lucylulusuperguru3487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Got my license at 16, then lost it at 17 for 2yrs due to epilepsy popping up out of nowhere...finally got driving privileges back ,went away to college where I knew no one, epilepsy flared....lost ability to drive for another 2yrs. You haven't LIVED til you've been the freshman college student away from home and unable to drive. Don't beat yourself up. Things happen when they are meant to...it took me til the age of 30 before I even had an inkling of what I was doing in life. Concentrate on things that make you happy or hold your interest and find a way to make money at it.

    • @_galaxydrifter_
      @_galaxydrifter_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lucylulusuperguru3487 Thank you for sharing your experience and perspective; I appreciate it!

    • @lucylulusuperguru3487
      @lucylulusuperguru3487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@_galaxydrifter_ you will find your groove when you are meant to hun. Just hang in there. It took me a long time to really realize that, ya know, for some of us, our "timelines" for certain things in life are simply not meant to be the same as everyone else's. For me, personally, everything that many ppl expect earlier on in life normally...simply took me longer. Don't throw your hands up in frustration, as is easy to do, just keep chugging along chipping away towards your goals. Make those goals REALISTIC for you and whatever circumstances you're dealing with...but have those goals and don't let anyone tell ya no. I cannot tell you how much wasted time and struggle I put myself through trying to have a life similar to "everyone else". When you learn to let go of trying to fit some mold you start making one of your own...and life gets much more simpler and less frustrating. Some of us aren't meant to be ordinary doll...so do your extraordinary as only you can. It's really easy to get in your own way trying to live up to standards that you're not meant to...it does NOT mean that you are meant to fail in life. A different life doesn't have to be a bad one or an unsuccessful one either. Best of luck to you Kayden!

    • @_galaxydrifter_
      @_galaxydrifter_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lucylulusuperguru3487 Thank you! My family was discussing birthdays this morning. I dont know if Im imagining it but I could feel the disgust from my dad that Im turning 25 and am still living with and dependent on them.. but maybe Im extrapolating too much from one expletive because of past conversations around that. Followed by unsolicited advice from my mother, whos a bookerkeeper, that I learn bookkeeping because I may be able to find a way to make income through it online even though my background is conservation biology. I started Rev a couple months ago but my dad dragged me down because Im not earning enough to pay for insurance or pay off my loans.

  • @IllyDragonfly
    @IllyDragonfly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girl, every video I fall in love with your perfect outfits and different hairdos! T.T They are majestic and I barely feel in the mood to brush my hair and wear clothes different from sassy goth t-shirts and leggings! But I do admit I'm wearing much more eyeshadow now that I have to wear a mask on my nose and mouth every time I leave for a needed errand. I salute you for your dedication.

  • @JesReally
    @JesReally 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My fiancé says you used “benching” right 😂
    Thanks for you lovely beautiful energy during this hard time

  • @ohh5178
    @ohh5178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can we all just appreciate how smooth the intro was??

  • @hannahfairall2473
    @hannahfairall2473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is exactly what I needed thank u xxx

  • @_ugh.gh0st_608
    @_ugh.gh0st_608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When I’m doing school work I do it lesson by lesson while video calling my friends

  • @nymeria941
    @nymeria941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Fancy Lady Penelope" is my new favorite Jessica-ism

  • @KarenMichelleLane
    @KarenMichelleLane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cushion Throttling is a time honored tradition in my household. It is the #1 sanity maintenance activity for us.

  • @pvdm709
    @pvdm709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes, I would love to have more “Corona free” stuff, also on fb and tv. I stopped watching tv for most things and even news mails go in the bin unread

  • @katierushworth5984
    @katierushworth5984 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would really suggest love nikki! Lots of of cute outfits!

  • @expired_rosin
    @expired_rosin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Chuck everything in a box and hide it"
    Stop calling me out. It's what I literally did to the dried clothes 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

  • @mouseluva
    @mouseluva 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For those who want to see new content that isn't about The Virus, I recommend sewing TH-cam! It's not really changed except there's more of it and people are doing more stash busting tips and things :)

  • @justabitofamug6989
    @justabitofamug6989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Okay yes... I know my room is a mess. This video feels like it's just calling me out at this point

  • @lanatherana157
    @lanatherana157 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jessica saving my sanity once again! 👏♥️

  • @elizabethholloway1949
    @elizabethholloway1949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can't exercise that much because of my ankles dislocating so I'm taking it steady

  • @natashaball7797
    @natashaball7797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this video, well done Jessica!!! :)

  • @ekl1457
    @ekl1457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been marking the days by getting dressed during my normal work week - Monday to Friday - and living in pj's in the weekend - this is what I would have done anyway. Even though technically it's Easter Holidays!

  • @Limowrreck
    @Limowrreck 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I couldn't keep a schedule, keep my house tidy, get dressed or do self care BEFORE all this. At this point, it feels like a matter of time before I die alone in my onesie amidst my towers of washing up and piles of STUFF that are accumulating around me.

  • @crazywoollady9325
    @crazywoollady9325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm disabled and not far from you. I can't get any grocery delivery (been fully booked for a month) and have no family and friends in this country (I'm American) who can get things for me. I can't seem to sign up for the government's priority grocery delivery scheme either (talked about in your last video). Any suggestions? I have a lot of difficulty leaving my house even under the best of circumstances, nevermind when I'm having to visit lots of shops because things are still unavailable. I was in the middle of the process of obtaining a carer, disability payments, etc. when all this started and now everything has been postponed. Which is understandable ofc, but means I don't have enough help and I'm not sure what to do. I'm low income, but the food bank doesn't have much right now. More people need it and less people are donating. I'd love any suggestions if you have them. That applies to anyone reading this. My daughter and I will be out of food in a couple days so I need to figure out something. I do have a little bit of money to buy food if I can figure out how to get it delivered to me, but I don't have enough money to afford those fancy meal delivery boxes or take out.
    Oh, I forgot to say... I'm also at increased risk for covid-19, which means going to the shops is pretty dangerous right now.
    If anyone reading this knows of any support groups that would be helpful too. Non profits, but also like online groups where people might be sharing suggestions. I can't be the only one in this situation right now. I'd love to know what others are doing, share stories, and see if I can brainstorm something that might work for me. At least for the next little while.

    • @serenamaria6989
      @serenamaria6989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm not local to you but this may be a good place to look, if you haven't already.
      new.brighton-hove.gov.uk/coronavirus-covid-19/help-residents-access-food-deliveries
      Otherwise if you're on Facebook check for any local community groups, they will definitely have useful information. Best of luck.

    • @crazywoollady9325
      @crazywoollady9325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@serenamaria6989 Thank you! I'm about an hour from Brighton, which is "not far" by American standards but not exactly close by British standards lol I'll check my local equivalent though. Great idea! :)

    • @alisonbarker3862
      @alisonbarker3862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope that you soon find a solution, soon. You don't deserve for life to be this hard. Neighbours?

    • @serenamaria6989
      @serenamaria6989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I should have thought of that really as I live only a 5/10 minute drive to the next council area, lol! Hopefully your local one will have helpful information & links to people who can help you out.

  • @stephanieoregan
    @stephanieoregan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I paused the video to say OMG JESSICA I LOVE YOUR DRESS!!!!

  • @kimhigdon844
    @kimhigdon844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve been on lockdown at home since March 16(except a few trips out to my sisters home to celebrate my birthday) and going stir crazy is a real thing :(

  • @scarlett453
    @scarlett453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    15:16 lol that is the exact same mobile game I am playing whilst watching, what are the chances of that?

  • @hea1617
    @hea1617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for making this!!! Always good to get more ideas of things to do!!!
    Edit: a fun phone game to play is words with friends!!! Check it out it's super cool

  • @AuthorMorganLee
    @AuthorMorganLee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Do I have to get up and get dressed? 😩 *sigh.* okay

  • @matewis222
    @matewis222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice - going to try them out, just for fun. Because why not 🍁🍂💐

  • @chaoscryptid
    @chaoscryptid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with this. In a brilliant video by How to ADHD she mentioned that the hallway/break function is called 'transition time', and without transition time it is very difficutl for neurodivergent people to adjust to new tasks (but everyone needs transition time, just ND people need it more)

  • @rory2374
    @rory2374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My schedule didn’t really change because of this. All I did was go to school and I’d occasionally go to restaurants. I’m already a pro at not going anywhere.

  • @anyawillowfan
    @anyawillowfan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for making this video, I have been mostly housebound for 9 years and it's so good to see a video about staying inside from someone who isn't 'healthy' I mean, it's good that they are finally accepting that staying at home also effects our mental health, but a lot of it includes ableist messages.
    As for making content that isn't about coronavirus I am all for it. I'm so glad most Sims players are continuing to post as allows me to enjoy something completely unrelated to the current crisis.

  • @Abi-gw2el
    @Abi-gw2el 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s too late Jessica. I’d already lost it before lockdown started....

  • @KindCountsDeb3773
    @KindCountsDeb3773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lazy : not good for you in the long run. Me : check.

  • @emilierei717
    @emilierei717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much Jessica!
    If there’s one person I trust with giving me advice on this subject, it’s probably you!

  • @deathbright107
    @deathbright107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Also, to answer the question about needing something else then the virus yes. We need more stuff. Different things to read to watch. Like how to handle isolation is great. It deals with the virus yes, but it's also somehow different. It's nice to hear something else.

  • @snopeasnopea
    @snopeasnopea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you for the advice! i was diagnosed with severe adult onset asthma a year ago and my new medication has made me extra vulnerable to illnesses. obviously a respiratory illness is something i don’t want to catch. i’ve been going insane in the house cuz i have some mental illnesses and these tips seem like they’re gonna help! stay safe ♥️

  • @Flareontoast
    @Flareontoast 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    looking amazing as always, Jess! We could all use these tips.
    My partner and my workout is playing Just Dance :D I also play Minecraft and try to draw? ...artblock.
    I don't go out that much, actually. But I do miss university somehow. I also miss random going out to get a nice drink like a milkshake or bubble tea.

  • @codieflo3776
    @codieflo3776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've recently recovered from the virus, and now I've been outside on the trampoline with my sister and we baked a cake with our mom, we're having fun :)

    • @sleepypsori7747
      @sleepypsori7747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your strong buddy
      Stay safe and have a great day or whatever it is
      Glad your having fun enjoy your cake

    • @codieflo3776
      @codieflo3776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sleepypsori7747 Thank you, being ill was hard, but I can imagine it wasn't nearly as bad as those who ended up in hospital with it, so it could have been worse

  • @pixiecakes1765
    @pixiecakes1765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You only to to the bathroom once an hour? I go every 20 minutes...

    • @cinnamonbun2251
      @cinnamonbun2251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You uh... might want to look into that... the normal amount of times to urinate in a day is 6 or 7, although 4-10 can still be healthy

    • @pixiecakes1765
      @pixiecakes1765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cinnamonbun2251 it's part of incontinence. I had vaginal/bladder injuries and such when I pushed a baby out. Like my urethra is poking out (they think it happened because I pushed wrong but no body really knows), and my bladder sucks doing the whole bladder thing. I'll keep my other incontinence issues mum since it can be tmi.

    • @felicitygee381
      @felicitygee381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pixiecakes1765 ahh, the old 'how to answer comments about continence and yet still knowing where the line is to stop' chestnut.... Sigh 😉

    • @pixiecakes1765
      @pixiecakes1765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@felicitygee381 it really is a fine line of giving just enough need to know information and over sharing 😬

  • @mossmartinez6355
    @mossmartinez6355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are the exact person to tell us how to cope with this distancing! It does make my day more enjoyable washing-up and putting on clean clothes ! It's easy to stay in your pj. all day but that's not for me.🇱🇷🌈💗😎

  • @AmberSatchwell
    @AmberSatchwell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do you have a hair tutorial for this look lovely? Trying to get more adventurous with my vintage looks while stuck inside! Hope you're all doing well ❤

  • @suemarsh9857
    @suemarsh9857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍🏾 only just started following you so I’m binge watching lol. Stay safe.

  • @pblack19141
    @pblack19141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jessica, Thank You for this list of things one can do while in isolation. My biggest issue is getting dressed everyday. Most of the week is flip flopped between wearing one of my maxi dresses, or staying in my jammies. Even when I do get dressed, I feel half dressed because I do not have any makeup. I got this great idea to dispose of all of my makeup that was expired and replace it with new. It seemed to be the right thing to do at the time. However, I disposed of all of it at the same time. Argh. I am on a fixed income. This means that I only have a very small amount available after paying the bills. I have to decide weather I should use what little buffer for my prescription copays or makeup. Usually I hope to have enough for both but it is not realistic. So I get dressed most days brush my hair and put it in a bun. Sorry to have had this turn into a 'woe is me' post. It is not my intention to have done so. On the bright side, my dresses hide my foot and ankle braces as well as my ever there black lace up sneakers. I will try to try some of the other suggestions. I am hoping that getting back to my previous activities that do not include going out. I cannot believe that I cannot wait to actually go to my Dr's appointments, just to be outside again😉 be well. Stay upbeat.

  • @robinleakedate2101
    @robinleakedate2101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I decided to learn BSL in lockdown. I'm doing an online course, watching stuff on BBC IPlayer with with language turned on and watching TH-cam videos with signing in.

  • @MoonDancerArt
    @MoonDancerArt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You just made my day!
    Happy Good Friday btw