When Bad Gut Feelings About Kind People Turn Out To Be True...
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When the story began "Not a person but a dog" I feared for a moment that the dog was the one that turned out to be bad. But he was the purest boy!
When I read that for a sec I thought the poster was the dog
@@benjenstarkk The inside of your head must've been fun for a few seconds
Unpopular opinion: Not all dogs are good boys.
Some of them are in fact good girls.
Be careful too. I met an adorable doggo, but in the end it bit me in my face. I still have a clear scar, from that memory. And I have lost trust in dogs...
GedenWilbur You aren’t wrong. At all, really.
There's a saying in Korea that getting weird gut feeling is from ancestors above intensly clicking warning buttons for you
I like that, that's really cool. We don't really talk about our ancestors in my culture as far as I know (I'm kenyan) but I like to think they watch over and guide me
nice
Emergency meeting
It’s the movie audience screaming at you
Oh that is cool!
When someone’s description is “friends with everyone” that immediately sets off red flags. That person is acting.
100%
Do red flags means they’re a bad person or just something about them?
@@aisha5156 google
@@carpet498
Nah. I’m trying to ask what they think red flags mean, their opinion.
@@aisha5156 its like a warning sign,means you should be careful. It doesnt has to be bad,but it could
Imagine not trusting when a kid or pet doesn't like a newcomer.
I had two cats. Non fearing cats. The kind who guarded the "hearth".
One was testy.
When a newcomer came in and she greeted them, it was a good reaction.
If she hissed and the other one would greet them..... who was very friendly, btw, .....they still got to come in my house.
If the friendly one avoided them, ran away, or in the worst case scenario, hissed at them,..... that person was limited to time in my house( like 5 minutes) and would never again pass my thresh hold.
Only two people in 15 years have been banished:
One who wound up in prison for child molestation, and the other one for child molestation and robbery.
No offense to all those people who hate a person because their pet doesn't like them, but some pets just hate everyone except their owner.
@@asandwich6823 those not being in my case, of course. When the family's Golden Retriever goes ballistic, however...
Animals always know. Trust them.
@Michael Jordan my point exactly
okay but for real, that grandma that escaped her boyfriend is badass
Theres a new movie that reminds me of this: the good liar
im the 666th like
There's 666 likes you are cursed sry
@Ivan Dani75 Glad you beat me to it.
I laughed because I imagined her sitting there like a sweet old grandma in flowery dress and suddenly jumping around like a rabbit and running down the road
"Fortunately, my mom was fat."
THE WAY I CACKLED-
That one made me think of a quote I've read. "The more you weigh, the harder you are to kidnap. Stay safe and eat cake."
💜
Yo momma so fat, even the serial killers won't touch her.
RELIJ30N I was thinking to myself that this pretty much sounds like the plot to that movie “Disturbia” and then was hit with that line. Hahaha
@@matrixphijr actually, there have been serial killers in the past who specifically targeted overweight people. :(
“When you’re wearing rose colored glasses, all of the red flags just look like flags”
Every teenage girl dates guys while wearing rose coloured glasses
@@skttlz5410 thaaaats a bit of a stereotype
@@shelbyeades9002 hey hey, I know a lot of people I am not speaking on behalf of stereotype but experience
@@catalyst_8759 I think @Skttlz just means it’s more common among teenage girls. But that should be expected, since they have less experience and therefore can’t see the difference between a guy being quirky and an actual Red Flag.
But it is true that this can happen to anyone, regardless of age. And yea, it is kind of a generalization, although not unfounded.
Bojack Horseman?
if you can read someone's character through their eyes, you have a gift. I've judged people in my mom's workplace and pointed out people who have traitor eyes. She didn't believe me but years later, those same people got her out of her job. Envious people have aura. Nobody can hide it 100%.
sometimes you can easily be wrong tho, I have extremely sentitive eyes and I tend to look real angry, or my eyes will be almost bloodshot, or I simply look scary, when in reality i just forgot my glasses and the sun is hitting my eyes, and since i get tired easily it makes it worse because im breathing heavily and i end up looking like a real pervert
@@benis9965 eyes are the windows of the soul. I dont think ppl who have sharp intuition able to get someone's vibe wrong so easily. I think what og meant by "eyes" is ppl's aura or energy that they carried.
@@DankNG47 They might sound like a nutcase but truth is weirder than fiction.
I had this same gut feeling about some happy go lucky single mom at a walmart, whom I'd never seen, known, or spoken to beforehand. She asked me where the younger toys were so she could get something for her 6 year old and I pointed her in the right direction, feeling a sense of dread and the feeling of death in the air. Like if I said one wrong thing this lady would snap my neck.
Not 5 minutes after I get done browsing and head over to the dairy section, this lady's backed herself up against an isle rack beating down a group of 7 employees all by herself while the other customers just sit there and watch, most of them giving the group like a 30 foot gap of space in case something went flying.
When bad people try to act like innocent souls, it sends off an unmistakable feeling that someone might only be able to pin down as "Magic" or "Superstition", when in reality it's most likely a basic human instinct that we've lost touch with over time about knowing when something's amiss. We live in a world governed by rules and laws that prevents (for the most part) people just going ape-shit on others. So when those negative, hurtful, or murderous people tries to hide it, our instincts tip us off immediately and tell us to get away from them.
@@DankNG47 Try it one day. Walk down any given populated street in your town where there's plenty of people. Don't look at anyone, don't talk to anyone, just act normally and focus your direction to the other side of town. When you pass by someone and have to physically look backwards at them, knowing exactly where you want to go or what you need to do, that's the kind of person to watch out for.
The people who break your focus for no reason. The ones that force an instinctive double take.
@@darkstone_official_2427 thats so true
If someone is unliked by dogs and babies don’t trust them
Edit: apparently sometimes cats as well
Caeli Dogs love me, babies hate me. What do?
Pokemon Maniac Jak ur probably fine
dogs love me but babies are usually 50/50
*angry yoshikage kira noises*
Or kids
i’m glad my friends don’t call me jealous when i get a gut feeling.
You’re so lucky! I’ve had “friends” who just assumed I envied the people I disliked, which is ridiculous because I would never admit to not liking someone I was actually jealous of
@@hollywoodshopaholic yeah that logic is kinda wierd. Like why would I be jealous of someone I despite?
Another thing I don't get is the parents who hear their children express concerns and apparently decide that their child is anti-social & should be forced to spend time with the person to teach them a lesson about being friendly. That's weird. One reason I find it weird is I grew up at a time when it was drilled into children's heads that they should be wary of strangers (1980s and '90s; I turn 37 in May). While it is good to be wary of people you don't know, it's now documented that the majority of kidnappings and such happen with people the victim does know. In that case, while being friendly is good, you should also be wary and listen to your gut feelings. It's baffling to tell your children, "Don't talk to strangers or go with them because it's dangerous!" and then say something like, "Oh, you're being mean to that new girl! I know! Why don't you ask her if you can stay at her house tonight?" While typing this I realized the stranger thing doesn't apply to a lot of these cases because the relatives thought they knew the shady people well, but you get the idea.
same. i’m even more glad that they have the same gut feeling as me.
lucky
my bff's boyfriend was super off to me, he was always around her and when i say always, i mean *ALWAYS*. then a few months later my bff came to school with bruises, the air was knocked out of me when i saw her condition. i ran up and asked whats wrong but she refused to tell me, then i noticed her boyfriend glaring at me and her. i thought for a moment and came up with a test, i hugged her softly as to not put weight on her bruises. she hugged back, i looked over at her boyfriend again and he looked *furious*. i let go of her and she was grabbed harshly by her boyfriend, as he was gonna drag her away. she let out a yelp of pain and then my protective side kicked in and i shoved her boyfriend to the ground. he let go of her and she mouthed to me "he hurt me.." it was at that moment i was DONE. i lashed out at him yelling how nice and how much of a angel my bff is and how much of a asshole he was, she broke up with him on the spot and is so much better now.
You are a hero
If anyone dared to do that to any of my friends or family,i would beat the ever living crap out of them,curse them out using every curse i know even if its another language,stomp on them and the spit on them.I would go to their mothers,tell them what their child had done and find a way to contact any of their family members and do the same.If you mess or hurt my friends or family,i will make your life a living hell,i will do everything in my power to make sure you fail everything you try to do.Everything you do to them,i'll do 10 times worse to you.
@@luma16 you are an awesome person
If anyone thinks that aggression and fear is the way to "keep your partner in bay" then they are a dough or a psycho... Please stay away from both.
Bless u!! Smh at him
ellen degeneres has been giving me the creeps for years, everytime I managed to tell someone, they all are like; wtf no she is th sweetest person ever 🥴
Same, although I thought she was just fake and cringey and not necessarily a bad person, but then again I never intentionally consumed any of her media and I bet if I’d seen that interview with Mariah Carey (I think it was her?) Where she pressured her into confirming a pregnancy that she later lost to the entire world when she clearly didn’t want to I would have known she was a bitch all along
I don't know her very, but I once saw a few clips of her and she gives of a fairly bad aura dare I say
@@spaghetti5914 recent info has come out that’s proven Ellen is kinda the worst
@@emilybarclay8831 what info?
@@ES11777 a lot of info has come out about her treating staff like shit, manipulating people (the Maria Carey incident was fucking foul and I despise her for that alone) and genuinely being the opposite of the happy kind fake mask she wears like most talk show hosts do
The “yo mama so fat she survived...” joke was hilarious😂😂😩😩
I let out the ugliest snort of laughter at that. 😂
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I’ve always looked younger than my age, so when I was 14, I really looked like 11 or 12.
My first week of H.S. In JROTC, there was a handsome senior that all the girls would gush over. I don’t remember the exact situation (this was in 1994), but a few girls including myself were standing around this dude (we may have been collecting an assignment from him or something). All the other girls looked their age and were way more in his league. I stood there quietly, while all the other girls were hardcore flirting and trying to get his attention.
He spots me and B-lines to meet me with this predatory smile and a look in his eyes. I instantly got a gut feeling.
He was very handsome, but all of that went away when I got that gut feeling.
He said something sweet to me, but all I heard was “Well, you’d be an easy one to take advantage of.”
The other girls continued to gush over him, but all my red flags were up.
Few years later I find out that he had been arrested for raping a girl.
My gut feeling has gotten me out of so many bad situations. Always listen to your gut.
My inner goddess has saved me many times by jumping up and down and waving her red flags.
Tree Hugger woah.... WELP REMBER KIDS JUST CAUSE THEY ARE HOT DOESNT MEAN THEY WONT KILL YOU
Me too. I always trust my instincts. When I decide to ignore them that has been when things have gone wrong.
So your 40
deadby juke Will be in a few months.
It's the opposite thing with my husband. He gives everyone this bad feeling when they first meet him, because he has a social communication disorder, and his body language is off. People get that uncanny valley feeling from him. He's constantly getting stopped by the police, security guards, etc. who think he's "acting suspicious." He's actually the sweetest and most helpful person when you get to know him.
On the contrary, everyone liked my best friend's boyfriend except my husband, who didn't want anything to do with him. Which I thought was weird, given how my husband is like a puppy eager to be friends with anyone... Turns out the dude later murdered a woman, and raped her child next to her while she died from her injuries.
that's one of the most heartbreaking things I've ever read
JESUS!
If someone you know has the nature of a gentle and friendly puppy dog, and they don't like someone for seemingly no reason, then that's a red flag and you need to get the fuck away from the person that he doesn't like
Your husbands intuition was on point.
The last two lines I usually visualize when reading,those lines gives me goosebumps visualizing it.
In high school my group of friends met another girl who immediately gave me icky feelings. My friends asked why I always left when she came around, I said "she's clearly like 30 and I don't trust her". Turns out, she was like 35 and an undercover cop....
Yoooo that's fucking wild crazy bitches for real
Did you think she looked 30 or acted like she’s 30 or both?
Isn't that the plot of Orphan?
@@Phoebe5448 Pretty sure she was a psyco murderer who was adopted, not an undercover cop doing a drug bust, but 🤷♀️
@@alaah4183 I didn't know how she acted honestly. I never spent much time with her. She looked like she was in her 30s. This was 15+ years ago, but I want to say it was mostly how she held herself and her face. She had the face of a soccer mom. Pretty woman, but wasn't high school looking.
that's why i trust my dog, so whenever she hates someone, i know i shouldnt trust them
Actually, trust your pets in general!
madulks
Animals (especially dogs) can tell wether a person has good intentions or not.
Animals are 10/10 at detecting good and bad people.
Your dog picks up on changes in YOU when YOUR intuition is picking up on the subtle clues to not trust someone. Can't take personal credit for that observation, but have witnessed nervous dog owners (afraid their dogs will bite) whose dogs are defensively aggressive with *everyone* which just feeds back into that unfortunate loop. I'm sure dogs smell chemical changes in us that to them signal danger.
that saddens me as many dogs hate me, lol. I remember friends' dogs would always try to attack me. I don't think I had bad intentions with none of my friends, so idk about that, but then again I don't have a pet so I don't know how that works, but it always made me worried why are my friends' dogs so angry, like they're trying to protect them from me? :(
Thought this one weird guy at school was like a serial killer or something, I was wrong, we are now best friends
Lmao that’s qt
Hahahah
not for long
that's not really gut instinct, more like fear of the unknown
its normal to become wary of people who seem to behave weirdly
but sadly some of those people are just introverts
@@spaghetti5914 gut instincts do exist, it's an instinct after all, but yep, sadly as an introvert i get weird looks sometimes, for doing nothing, just a weird movement or something
When I was 8 I got a new teacher. She seemed kind but there was something about her that just wasn't right. Everyone else thought she was lovely. One day when I went to the toilet, it see 2 pairs of feet in the stall next to me. I look over it and see the teacher with an 11 year old student. The teacher was trying to kiss him and the boy was trying to break free. I recorded the video and showed it to the principal and he immediately fired her. They showed the video I recorded and said that's why she got fired
She should have been arrested
@@cheriremily9360 she is
@@user-lu2ow2yi3z good! People need to know it's not only man that can be predators to chidlre.
Incredibly smart to know to record that when you were 8! Good on you
Thank you. Thank goodness your school let the kids hold their phones.
"I don't want to" should be a valid excuse to not want to hang out with someone.
I have the reverse of this. We lived on a street that was a circle with one way in and one way out with lots of kids around so my parents would let us have free reign in the circle (our house was close to the way in/out and they could see if we left.) An older guy would, without fail, walk around the circle every day for at least two hours with a very nice walking stick and talk to the kids. We all thought he was weird and that he lingered to long talking to us all. One day I guess he noticed he was making us kinda uncomfortable and went to our house that evening after we'd gone inside for the night. Turns out he was a vet with PTSD, he was in the Navy and somehow survived the sinking of his ship in the ocean for almost two days before they found him and 99% of his squad had died. He walked to help ease his mind, and apparently talking with the kids helped him too since his adult children lived in another state.
After that day we spent as long as we could talking with him and learning about his life. He always made sure all the kids around were doing okay and would stand watch if strangers came into the circle just in case. It's been a decade or so now, but I like to think he's still around walking that circle.
I hope he’s okay now
Whenever you said “I have the reverse of this” I thought that you were the evil one 😂
I hope he’s ok though
@@osielcardenas2869 xDD okay, fair enough. I totally see it now 😂
Me too. I probably won't ever find out though, sadly. If he is still out there I'd guess he would be in his late 80's. I've never been back in my old neighborhood long enough to see if he's still around
@@beckelmore8448 You should go back sometime soon and thank him for what he did
Didn't like my friends' boyfriend (they both dated the same guy)
"But he's so cute and sweet, he goes to church"
He got arrested for sex trafficking sooo
@@Badartist888 This had nothing to do with Poly. They just dated the same guy.
But I honestly don't trust poly at all. Personally I just don't see how you can claim to love multiple at the same time. If someone suggested I share my husband, I would probably literally kill them.
That got dark real quick! Good instincts btw
@@margaridabaldini
I mean, he got arrested like five years after but still. He seemed shady lol
well its common to think that only good people go to church, but the truth is most of the time people go to the church because they are fucked and trying to get help
BlackRose Wow sexist a bit??
I get called a bitch when I’m weary of someone I meet and get a feeling about because I’m vocal about it, but I always turn out to be right 🤷🏻♀️ the nicest people can also be the weirdest with bad intentions.
I loved the ending to the last story. You can tell that the person truly belongs in that profession with how empathetic they are.
Yeah , that was so wholesome. So glad the person was not actually bad and they got the help they needed.
damn the person who told the narcotics addict story is an absolute comrade, this is how every addict should be treated
Yes
Even thought he did good, I feel two people should be responsible for hiring and dismissal not just him
addicts should be held accountable for their actions but, where possible, should be treated with compassion as their entire brain function has been hijacked by a compulsion that is so strong most people would have no way to imagine. Obviously you can't steal medicine etc. it's breaking the law, could harm those who need it - but that person is not just taking things from others for their own gain; they physically feel like they will die or live in a version of pain or hell without it and they lack the mental strength or motivation or support to find an alternative at the time. Treating these people like scum only makes them feel worse about themselves and *more* likely to keep abusing drugs. They need love, patience, understanding, other options and lots of these things.
Should've gone to jail. When people's lives are at stake you can't be soft on a crime like that.
It worries me that this has 420 likes
Someone trying to be everyone's friend is no one's friend.
or they just have a constant pressure to be liked by everyone because they can’t love themselves so they need the validation.
idiot sandwich *me*
@@idiotsandwich7878 exactly. And that's what makes them no one's friend. They are motivated by this narcissistic need for validation, not by genuine interest or feelings of sympathy towards someone. Those people are superficial, disloyal and manipulative. Also, could be manipulated to "fit in" and therefore can't be trusted.
@@darinaangelova2882 personally I think they can try to be everyone's friend and have genuine feelings of friendly affection towards others while some may seek validation it's not truthfully a narcissistic need it can be ofc but usually it's from more personal problems that cause the want of being loved by others (ex: their parents abuse/neglect them they will want love from their peers since they lost it as a birthright)
@@darinaangelova2882 What? most of the people with the "I want everyone to like me" mentality have low self steam. Tons of teenagers try to "fit in" and pretend to like things they actually don't to not be socially excluded, the fuck you talking about?
There was this girl I just didn’t like- the first time she met me she immediately ruffled my hair, I’m fine with ppl touching my hair, but not complete strangers. She seemed nice enough but I was just irked for some reason, then as time progressed, she started trying to wiggle her way into my friend group. She was rude and insensitive, everyone had to bend to her will or else she’d whine and get upset. I talked to my friends about it and they all agreed that they didn’t like her, so every time she complained or whined about something having to do with us, we’d tell her she should just leave if she doesn’t like it. Eventually she stopped trying to hang out with us.
I’m just confused how I immediately didn’t like, a good while before she started bulldozing her way into are circle
What people should know is, that a person that's genuinly jelous about someone will rarely and almost never admit it. Or show signs that might reveal their jelousy. As this is often considered a shame or weakness in ones own mind. Admitting jelousy is so not fun that people avoids it like the plague.
So when someone has a bad vibe about someone and seems to wanna talk about it, especially since it comes off more as a warning and them being worried rather than the need for gosippy or having cruel/mean intentions or wanting to backtalk. Listen to them.
I used to have a dog named Sam (he died a few years ago) and Sam was a big German shepherd and he was super protective. If he didn't like you he would bite you and bark at you and keep you away from me. I would bring my guy friends home and Sam hated all of them. Except my now boyfriend. When my SO and I were just friends, Sam LOVED him, he would rub against him and lay near him and just love him, but my SO is allergic to fur but he still showed Sam affection. Sam would only do that to me. When I saw that and my SO went inside I looked at Sam and said "You like him huh" and I KID YOU NOT SAM SMILED AND LAYED DOWN! He would NEVER lay down if someone was at home he didn't trust. Sam gave his seal of approval. Sadly Sam never saw my boyfriend and I together like how we are now but I like to think Sam is still watching from doggy heaven.
Update: HI, I remembered this comment recently and I wanted to say my bf and I have been together for 7 years now, both of us are 20 and we are getting married March 2025! It's been 4 years since I wrote the og comment but I wanted to say Sam was right! I still miss him but I'm sure he's happy to see my partner and I are getting married.
Jem Mignault awwww what a good boi
he's watching over you guys i guarantee it
Love💖
Yea the first day I met my husband's dog, she wouldn't leave my sight and he was so confused because she wasn't even that way with his sis and she didn't know me. Now she's always in my spot on the bed, or she comes to cuddle with me instead of him lol. I guess she knew I would eventually become her mom lol.
The seal of approval has been given
I'm a dogsitter, and I fully believe in only sitting for dogs that trust me/dogs that I trust. Every one of my customers has been so surprised by the fact that their pooches *always* open up to me super quickly and become totally relaxed around me. I've been told, on multiple occasions, that I have some sort of supernatural "gift" with animals (it even happens with bugs, lol). I think it's the fact that the dogs can sense how much I love them. I'm the kind of person who would run into a burning building to save a stranger's pet. Dogs, and other animals, have a way of knowing a person's heart. It's beautiful how they express that to us.
It’s annoying being called jealous and a hater because I feel bad energy from a person. And I’m always right so they should listen.
fr though, i always turn out to be right and my best friend still wont listen if i say i get a bad feeling about someone
@@jimbones3378 "Stop being so jealous! You're acting like a jerk. Why don't you just like that person like everyone else?" and bla bla bla. Honestly, I would slap the shit outta that person who tells me that. Friend/family or not.
MaaaaN......telllll me about it!
Ikr.you are this and that and at the end i am right(it's okay when iam not right)
My family dosn't do that and we all listen to instincts
For example a few weeks ago there was a huge storm that shut off my towns power for 2 days
That day we were taking a walk and knew it would rain soon and I was nervous so I wanted to go home
We did and 5 minutes later huge storm
My instinct my saved me and my family
One time this lady at a coffee shop asked if I wanted to see her dogs in her van. I said yes because I was only 8. Turns out there were actually puppies in the van :)
Is this a sign for help?
JAJAJJAAJ NO DW I'M GOOD @@Dyslexiella
Everyone loves my coworker. I loved my coworker. He drove me home and was cool, until he made me feel bad. He’d get mad if I didn’t want what he suggested for lunch or if I refused his offer to drive me home (I live 5 min walk away). He wasn’t obsessed with me he’d just be low key mad and annoying. He interrupted and made fun of the way I stood when I was training a new employee in a way that put me on the spot, “...that’s how I stand?” Him: *scoffs at me* “no it’s not.”
At that point I felt bad as if I made him mad, but I didn’t do anything. Now I just hate him. No one else sees his asholeness. He jokes about my bf being poor when he doesn’t even know him, all his jokes put me down. My gut feeling on him makes me never want to be in the same room as him, but everyone still loves his social a$$.
Sounds like he has childhood issues
Sounds like a narcissist
Why does he care if _your_ boyfriend is poor? It's none of his business. Ignore that fool.
"The bigger the smile, the sharper the knife."
Rule of acquisition #48
Nah It's the sharper the smile, the sharper the knife. Big smiles means they're emotional, while sharp smiles means they got away with 3 murders in one day.
if they had killed people prior wouldn't the knife be blunter from using it to kill those people as well
@@squiddies6896 not if you're skilled enough to avoid bone and other parts that wont give much resistance.
@@mik3191 Why have I never heard this expression? I like it! Got any others?
LOL Ferengi. I hope I spelled that right.
I have a cat who has loved absolutely e v e r y o n e I've ever seen him with - like, he even loves the vet AFTER the vet gives him his shots, he's that much of a snugglewhore (yes, snugglewhore, because he will demand pets and attention just like an excited dog would) - except for one person. That one person turned out to be a complete shitstain of a person, so, y'know. 10/10 my cat knows what's up.
You know, this story is wholesome in a way... Tell your sweet cat that my cats and I say Hi.😁
I have a one eyed cat
I swear our furry lovelies really do know what's up! Never trust a person your pet hates. I found that out the hard way!
Likewise, every one i've known that actually hates act and actively wish for harm upon them turned out to be terrible people. At this point i migh aswell use it as an asshole detector. "Do you like cat?"
Oh no!!!! My sister's cat HATES me. I've known and loved the little cat since we were teenagers. Legitimately hurts my feelings 😂
This got kind of long, sorry.
My mom was married to a seemingly good man for 5 years. He scared me for seemingly no reason the whole time. Like, if I went to get breakfast and he was sitting in the kitchen, I would go back to my room until he was gone. None of my 3 siblings liked him either, but my mom was always like "No he's actually really nice. You guys just haven't given him a chance."
Anyway, one day my mom shows up at my dad's(her ex husband's) house near tears because she can't spend one more night with that guy. See, he was actually emotionally and physically abusive, insulting her all the time and getting violent when she tried to stand up for herself.
She apologized to us, her 4 children, because she thought we might miss him, but we were all like "No. Good riddance." He wanted a picture perfect family and a pretty little wife to wait on him hand and foot. Seriously, fuck that guy. If I ever see him again, I'd sooner spit on his face than talk to him, and I'll never forgive him for just how deeply he hurt my mom.
Having Asperger's, my parents paid close attention to me whenever I told them someone didn't "feel" right to me. When you have a social disability it can be very difficult to read people and often you get taken advantage of because of that. My parents knew this so when I said I felt weird or uncomfortable around someone, they listened and encouraged me to listen to that feeling, even if it turned out to be wrong since they rather I be honest about feeling unsafe regardless.
I wonder if somehow our gut feelings can be stronger because of that
I have a chihuahua so I can't really trust her judgement for she hates everyone and everything.
Same! My chihuahua mix just barks at everyone, even me!
sees snowflake *demon dog intensifies*
Why would anyone do that to themselves? Gives you anxiety if a dog keeps jumping and barking like you have an intruder every 12 minutes 😳
My sister in-law has a female Chihuahua named Sandy that would bear teeth and sound rabid to anyone that wasn't her momma. Sandy and their other dog, who had problems jumping on people, both got professional training from a dog-trainer in the area and now they are both completely docile and generally great dogs. They aren't docile in the shock-until-they-stop manner either (which is f***in terrible that people do that), they both really are content dogs now.
I highly recommend training services!
Does she at least love Taco Bell?
I once met my best friend's boyfriend and told him "your smile is almost nice enough to cover the putrid scent of betrayal", he cheated on her like a month later.
Cat like
damn
what a line
Imagine if he wasn't actually a bad person though. That's kind of my issue with gut instincts. It's okay to back away from people that you get bad gut feelings from but just straight up insulting or telling them they're untrustworthy based on something that isn't 100% could severely hurt them if they're actually innocent and I just don't think it's worth it. I'll be sure to use that insult in past tense form if I ever catch anyone really popular and happy-go-lucky doing something terrible though lol.
@@tixels3733 exactly
"This job is one where a gut feeling decides someone's fate."
Holy shit, that's a powerful thing to end off on
Got a bad feeling when a girl i barely knew kept asking if i wanted to do a sleepover, i was a very quiet nerdy kid whos only friend happened to be book characters and so although i got the worst vibe from her- i agreed out of desperation to join her friend group of girls who didnt give me that vibe.
Day of, she comes by and we go to the shop for some snacks and stuff, i was playing with my saved up allowance, and being an anxious bad-feeling person- she walked all over me, convinced me to buy her some makeup with the promise of payback through other shopping trips on her, spent 100 quid in the end. Girl stayed over, mostly ignored me, complained about my anime posters and lack of nerdiness. Next day she leaves, all chill now right?
Nope.
Went back to clean up my room and found the various trinkets i liked to collect were missing, one of my moms old antique pot dolls, and 20 quid from my money jar atleast also gone. I got the blame for it since my mom isnt exactly forgiving and had to watch that girl switch schools the next week. I never got my stuff or money back. I never got that introduction to the friend group. Ive never trusted anyone else to get that close to me since. I was a 12 year old girl who knew too little to follow my bad feeling. Rip
How old are u now?
@@DK-gl3ih 17 now lol, had 5 years to remember how she did me over lol
Wow, what a horrible bitch. I've been there too. Cut out the toxic people from your life and you'll be much happier!! :)
These kind of girls grow up to be gold diggers.
@@danishbutter1847 No. Those kinds grow up to be criminals. She had already started.
Why do people always say whenever you get a gut feeling about someone that you're just jealous or paranoid. For example when I was 9 I just got a weird vibe from my new teacher I told my friends about it and they just said I was being paranoid and my trust issues were getting the best of me. A few days later she decided it would be a good idea if she punched me round the back of my head and was fired immediately. No one believed me when I said something was off until this incident.
Same
Bruh its just gut feeling why would they immediately belive you
@@ougintoga7195 it wasn't that they didn't believe me that upsets me it's that more often than not they immediately just write it off as nothing, call you paranoid/insane and make you feel stupid for even saying it.
@@izzy9286 It''s just a gut feeling no need to feel stupid because they call a gut feeling paranoia. If a person you trust is called sus by some other person you trust you dont immediately say sus too right? Unless youre pesimisstic I guess.
And if a gut feeling isnt revealed to be true, its just paranoia in the end so its not too far off.
Wtf why would a teacher punch a student? Or hit or slap or touch or anything? What the heck
Clicked just to make this comment:
Thumbnail: "Gut feeling about someone everyone liked."
Also Thumbnail: *Picture of someone that absolutely nobody likes*
Fucking Umbridge, man
Umbridge...ugh...
Slytherin, Ministry of Magic, Filch: ......
Would Umbridge make it as #1 on a "Fictional Characters that NOBODY likes" list? I've read the book and watched the movie. She was worse in the book, wasn't she...
@@101Volts Yep.
When I was in college, I worked at a restaurant with a handsome, intelligent young man who was almost universally admired. Someone (I cannot for the life of me remember who) who did not work there told me that he had beaten his girlfriend up more than once, and I just didn't believe it. He later did something that showed his real personality, and afterwards, I totally believed it.
This has nothing to do with a gut feeling. You didn't have one, and you were simply told what he did.
My mom had a gut feeling about this guy I was dating. Saying something was off because my daughter hated him. My daughter never said why she didn't like him but was losing her hair due to stress. One night when we were at his place I walked in to his room where she was to find him holding a fist to her face and my daughter had a black eye and bloody mouth. Always listen to the gut feelings of those who care about you.
Wow. U still went out with a guy even tho ur MOM AND DAUGHTER didn’t like him?! You seriously need to get ur suit together! If ur daughter doesn’t like him as well as your own mother u need to rethink ur relationship.
@@Karrambide 1: it was the first relationship I had been in since my daughter had been born. So far "her not liking him" was chalked up by everyone besides my mom as he being jealous. When she started losing her hair was 3 days before I found out he was abusing her. 2: my mom doesn't like everyone. Including you. So before u jump to conclusions maybe get all your facts bitch.
@@Karrambide also my daughter loved him before we started dating. So for all I knew until there was PROOF I thought it was jealousy like everyone was saying.
Did you sue the bastard? How's your dughter?
The fact that you noticed your daughter's distress and didn't act up on it until you caught him red-handed is very concerning .
I always had a weird feeling about my mom's boyfriend. He seemed nice at first but after some time he showed his real face. He randomly screamed at me, pushed me, hurt me physically and mentally. He also managed to get my mom on his side and I basically was kicked out of my family.
Then he cheated on my mom and since 3 months I have to see a therapist because he messed me up mentally.
I guess I was always right about him.
Wait what happened between you and your mom? (if you don't mind me asking)
I took this seriously until I saw the profile pic lol. No offense but I hope you're doing better!
Edit: Gosh I feel like a horrible person for this comment. Yikes. How are you?
@@aiiello You're an asshole
Love how you made the edit after I called you out
As hard as truth may seem, it's better than lies. If your mom knew what he did and stood by him, she's an acompplice, not a victim, and you should stay away from her as much as possible.
I'm sorry for you..
"He was a good guy. Went to church twice on Saturdays and once on Wednesdays" Say no more.
How does someone spend all their money on pot? You can only get so high.
@@sheablack311 Either that, or they need a better paying job ;)
Sundays*
@@richrosegold610 what do you mean "sundays"
@@shintheloser It should be went to church twice on Sundays rather than Saturdays
I'm used to being called overly-sensitive to things but three of the times I got bad feelings about specific people, I turned out to be right. So, there are three were people I've known since I was 6 and I'd always had bad feelings about them, but never knew why. One was the brother of friends of my family's, one was the husband of another family we know, and one is the oldest brother of my best friend. I'd always gotten weird vibes from them all, and never really felt comfortable sleeping over at my friend's house. Within the last year I've learned the first guy molested kids, the second one raped one of his daughters, and my best friend's brother did the same to her and possibly her other brother. Saddest thing about this whole story is none of them have gotten in trouble, and all three of the guys were very close friends of our family for years.
Moral of the story is always trust your gut. I've had many other times gut feelings have saved me from terrible situations. I hope y'all stay safe out there :)
Lord, did your family ever know smh? Justice needs to be served!
@@yurishaa.9337 yeah, thankfully my best friend's brother is going to jail and one of the other guys is there already
@@ashanddoodles13 great! nice to hear :D
If we knew the true number of se,xual predators out there, we'd be shocked. We'd likely never leave the house. So, so, so, SO many families just let predators run roughshod over children. I don't know why they do it. It's a weird complicit state of being. It's very sick.
I had one the other way around, haha. One of our high school teachers seemed very mean when we first got her. She was very stict and, honestly, scary. Everyone was kind if afraid of her lol, and nobody really liked her. But for some reason I immediately gravitated towards her. I had an inexplicably good feeling about her, I liked her even though I couldn't very well explain why. Well, after a year or so, everyone came to realize that she was in fact pretty great... :)
She ended up becoming my favourite teacher. That woman was amazing, and she taught me so much. She's one of the reasons I discovered my passion. I will never forget her.
This is a common tactic by teachers “don’t smile until Easter” it basically gets kids to behave start strict then you can relax a little later
the father died scared and miserable? thats horrid. he didn't deserve that,...
Fuck Umbridge
Fuck that woman and the cousin who took her side instade he took the women's side over his old mom
I felt a bit disgusted withthe family as well cause seems like they accepted him back after all the shit he did/let happen. I would ban this spineless pos out of the family, including from his mother who deserves better.
@@biazacha I agree with you
Yes, and I've had sort of the opposite. A guy who acted like a jerk the first time I met him. He is my husband's family, so I decided to give him a chance. Turns out he's a really caring guy, he was just angry bc one of the other people at the family gathering said something awful about his son, who has autism. I had a gut feeling he wasn't as bad as he seemed and I was right. Now we get along great, and he and his wife are my favorite of the group.
Ya whoever says something awful about that young gentleman (The man's son) is messin wif da fam AND THEY GONNA PAY
Sort of? That is literally the opposite
Ableism is never okay. Shame on those people who said the mean things.
This story is so wholesome
That made my day 👁🐽👁
Yeah I think.
It was this one girl in elementary. Her name was like Hannah or something that started with an H. Everyone liked her and she often picked on me or kicked me and claimed it to be on accident when anyone saw.
She was 'so nice' that they believed her.
It made me realize how stupid teachers and students are in elementary.
They should've realized she was no good because it happened almost every other day.
That last one had such a wholesome ending. I’m glad that the medic’s gut feeling was pushed aside in this case; otherwise, the addict might not have gotten the help he needed.
That being said, always trust your gut.
when I was 11 my sister had a boyfriend i could never look at him in his face he scared me his eyes terrified me her previous boyfriend made me cry when they got married cause i knew "he was not a good man" ended up cheating on her, but this boyfriend i couldn't even look at. everyone just thought I was a dramatic kid. he ended up beating her to near death and then killing her
That's horrible, hope you and your family are doing fine ❤️
@@nabilasyifa5644 we are still healing but getting better everyday thank you
Project Golu Dang, I hope everyone atleast trusts you when you say someone’s bad news after this. I’m kinda surprised that there aren’t any of those EvErT tHiNg HaPpEnS fOr A rEaSoN people in the replies.
@@queenofcute72 same, lol my family brings their new partners over for me to "assess" now. I'm saying lol but they really do
Wait he *KILLED* her ?!?!!???!
Found this out myself using my “I’ve been on electronic devices since I was 4” skill.
There was this guy who goes to the church I used to go to (don’t go anymore I’m pagan)
And everyone adored him, he was charismatic, he was charming, he told everyone the same story every Sunday and Wednesday about how he turned his life around after a woman dragged him down.
True story?
He was 21 and made a 15 year old girl have sex with him, she became pregnant, he pushed her to the ground and threw his entire body weight on her stomach.
She’s now in a mental institution after being sexually assaulted and not to mention a two hundred pound man pummelling her into the ground.
But no, she ruined his life, and he’s an angel.
Beat his ass in a lot at night.
Omg!! That's horrible! I feel nauseous.....
I was raised in church. Every damn one of them is full of perverted narcissists.
Wow...
Also pagan. First i come across another one on a "normal" video
There was a teacher back when I was around 13 that everyone liked. He seemed a bit creepy to me but no one else saw it. At the end of the year, he got arrested and it was revealed he had been sleeping with a student (who would have been around 13 also) for over a year.
My mom’s boyfriend. Everyone loved him, my grandparents, my uncles, my brothers. (He always bought everyone elaborate gifts which is probably why my brothers liked him) ANYWAY I told my mom and my grandparents that there was something off about him, and they brushed it off. It got to a point I told my mom I didn’t want to be at her house if he was there. (I was 12-13 at the time and had the right to choose which parent I lived with) he ended up moving in with my mom and I would go over maybe once a week, sure enough a few years later I was there for a week and he stole my Visa and ordered a crap ton of stuff online that I couldn’t afford. It screwed up my credit and I was struggling to pay my rent. My mom still married him, you can bet your ass I wasn’t at that wedding
WTF. He ruined your credit score, _didn't_ pay it off, and your Mom still married him? That would've been a clear red flag to me.
Your mom is weak, choosing a man over her child. SMH I hope he ruins her credit too.
In middle school, my geometry teacher was the young chill teacher everyone liked, except my friend and I, and we made it very clear. He would give us extra credit all the time, teach well, give us food parties if we faked a computer run classroom for the principal evaluation, was the one students went to for advice, easy A, brought his toddler daughter to class, etc. My friend and I had this guy feeling about him and everyone thought we weird, especially when I told people it was strange he had a Snapchat and was friends with the (8th graders) in our class( mainly females). Turns out two years later, he was found to have been in a sexual relationship with a minor( middle school into high school), when his wife found out about her, they got in an argument and he slit her throat, thankfully she didn't die, but he is in prison now.
I hope this story doesn't discourage teachers to be chill and friendly as well. I had a male teacher when I was in elementary also was cool and popular that always told off bullies when they insulted me..
@@porcupinesauce3872 there's a difference between being chill and friendly, and being a creep who's breaking professional lines.
Ive had the sweetest teacher, yet she never added anyone on social media because it was inappropriate. Which it is. I've had a teacher who was also nice and as soon as he gave his social media out, things spiraled out of control, people confessing their feelings or trying to hang out outside of school hours.
Very unprofessional, being friendly and chill is a good way to be a teacher. Just don't cross a line, you could lose your job for it too.
@@itsanon9343 then wouldn't the kids be creeps in those situations? lol.
I wasn't in the day and age where kids had phones and social media.
and honestly I think does it really cross a border when now that's the form of communication?
whenever u have queries for homework , or theories u don't understand it's the most easiest and best way through online contacts.
or what if the kids are stuck in an abusive situation at home? or problems they cannot disclose at school / student care they cant share there? like friend problems etc;
I think the teacher should be able to contact kids but responsibly.
I'm lucky to have parents that were caring enough and was relatively not abusive.
and for my teacher I wasn't really talking about the teachers at school because they were mostly non chalant towards me and a few even bullied me along with the other kids. but I also had a bad habit of borrowing things and not returning them, not doing homework and spoiled brat moments.
the male teacher was at a student care I used to always like to comb his hair and style it to look good. and hug his arm and leg and he never once touched me physically back. one of my fondest memories is with him. he was also known as pretty attractive back then.
I think it's good to maintain that "safe" feeling teachers can provide when u know they have strict regulations and guidelines to follow. but then I think of the other teachers that were also too strict and I think rules can be flexible a bit when it's at the benefit of the child as well.
porcupine Sauce
You do realize that’s why the school has set up emails and websites so the students can contact the teacher, responsibly.
There’s no real excuse to use other platforms to contact teachers when theirs one that already gets the job done.
Also yes, In this case. The children are creeps but again, they’re children. These teens let hormones and emotions take over rational thoughts. While adults should know better.
Also their is consequences for the students as well. Just not as fatal as the adult one.
I had an orchestra teacher like that. His fiancé died like the day before their wedding in a car accident. It was middle school. He had anger issues. When we didn’t play right or just ticked him off enough, he’d get really angry and yell LOUDLY. Other times, he was cool and we played games on Fridays, and he had generally friendly vibe when he wasn’t mad, esp with the kids he liked. If he didn’t like you, he wouldn’t be super nice to you. If he did, he would be super friendly, and it was mainly the girls. Including me. We didn’t realize it then, I’m kind of fully realizing just now, but that man was a predator. He’d invite me and my friend group into his classroom during lunchtime, and say we were his favorite students. A lot of kids including me said he was our favorite teacher. On multiple occasions he’d carry girls and put them into the trash can as a joke. The rest of the class laughed along, but I’m sure some kids got the vibe. He also had a FB Messenger group and had the students added and it was pretty active. Of course there were plenty of times he’d yell at us and made some kids cry, so eventually some kid reported him for anger issues, thank god. He tried to stay in touch with us as we went into high school, but the chat died down and eventually he went to personal messaging. He and I messaged occasionally because your girl STILL DID NOT REALIZE what was happening. I said I wanted to travel. He said you should come to my state half jokingly, half serious. That’s when I was like wait a second. Took me long enough. My friend, a boy, from orchestra talked about it w me a few years later. He said he was definitely a creep, and that’s when it came full circle. I blocked him just this year when I realized he was still on my FB, he had found my IG and still liked my photos, hadn’t been active for a year to notice. 😰
My now ex stepfather. He was a church deacon, the school superintendent, Mr. all American, and very charming. Everyone in the town knew him and LOVED and respected him. When he was dating my mom, I instantly disliked him and would not be alone in the room with him. He seemed perv-y and when no one was looking would stare at me in a weird sexually inappropriate way (I was 17). Well my mom married him and he creeped me out so much I slept with my bedroom door locked. He also started saying sexual things to me when my mom was gone to work or shopping so I started hardly ever going home. I stayed with my friends all the time. I told some people how I felt about him and how gross he was but no one believed me and told me I was jealous that my mom didn't spend as much time with me or that she wasn't still with my dad, all that BS.
Fast forward a year and a half. My mom found a journal he was keeping in secret. It had his big gambling debts listed, photos of me that he had stolen from a big box of photos I had in my room AND sexually explicit stuff he wrote about me as well as other teen girls. She confronted him. He told her if she ever told anyone he would kill her and that he could get away with it because he had everyone fooled and they loved him. She divorced him and we never told anyone what happened and moved to another town (my college town). We were terrified of him because he was psychotic. No one knew except us. My mom apologized over and over for bringing him into our lives and dismissing my suspicions.
i really wanna slap your step father
@@user-uq9oh4yg2z Fuck that. Kick the asses of everyone who was fooled. Cause they are the dicks.(except for mom) To have many people tell you that it's not serious will make a kid think they are what's wrong. Imagine if OP didn't have that feeling. Or it went away cause people told her to not worry about it
That really ticks me off when people never believe what you say and only defend the other person without giving a moments consideration about what you said. And then they wonder why you don't open up to them or trust them
@@onyxstyx9552 I think the mom is the worst, how could you not even stop and consider that that person could hurt your child?
@@missherrera7018 makes sense but being alone without anyone to love(romantically) does that to you. I'm saying this from a kid's perspective, but I'm pretty sure it's hard taking care of a kid and pursuing your own love life. Plus, some kids don't like the change and will say bad things about the new person to get them out of the house. This could have been what OP's mom thought was happening.
Everyone: Always trust your gut feeling.
Me: **gut feeling always turns out to be wrong**
Someone fix my gut feeling y'all, it got coded wrong.
It could be you have anxiety issues. Sometimes if mine is off for no reason, I realize it’s my anxiety disorder and take my anti anxiety medication to help me.
I’m so so glad that the last guy was able to turn his life around. Thank you to the medic who helped him to be rehabilitated. I’m glad all these stories had happy endings too ^^
This is why the ol' saying: "To good to be true" exists. It's a classic phrase of telling you not believe with your eyes alone, always use your head and listen to your gut/instincts.
That's a deceptive saying, though, *if* you interpret it the other way. Many sad "down on their luck" people take the saying WAY too seriously, to the point where little good happens for them.
The saying is actually spelled "too good to be true."
In case you’re in danger, and you’re like me and weigh 100 pounds, just remember you have teeth and claws. Never underestimate the power you can do with teeth and claws.
There's a friend of mine who's had her natural nails cut into almost half-inch talons since like sixth grade. She graduated a year ago, and needless to say she never got bullied, despite being of the type that tends to get targeted.
*nails** you furry
@@arieldesjar and his profile is a sad *furry*
I always use my nails
I bit a bully I had in 2nd grade and I think I made him bleed....
*that was an interesting day...*
When I was a junior in high school, I met this guy (who was a year older) through a mutual friend. Right off the bat I felt uneasy around him. His vibe felt really aggressive and I always felt the need to stand far away from him. My friends all seemed to like him though so I did my best to just put a smile on my face whenever he was around.
Prom season came and he asked me if I wanted to go with him and he gave me a necklace as a present. My heart sank and I felt my face become pale but I did my best to tell him nicely that I wasn’t interested in him like that, and that I had to work on that day (I really did I didn’t lie about that)
After he graduated, he and I lost contact and I never thought about him again after that. Towards the end of my senior year, I saw a local news story about a guy who tried to attack his girlfriend with a knife because she refused to sleep with him, and the guy from high school’s mugshot appeared on my TV screen.
Thankfully, the girl got out unharmed. In fact, she actually bodied him was able to pin him down long enough for the police to get to his house
That 18 year old girl affair with foster dad and killing her foster mom story sounds familiar (True Crime Story).
When I was in middle school, this new girl really wanted to become friends with me. I got a bad vibe, but my mom felt bad for her and forced me to hang out with her. Cut to two years of emotional abuse, physical abuse, and manipulation where my only escape from this chick was play practice. I ended up joining as many clubs as possible to get away from her. After I tried to defy her and she forced all of her friends to stop talking to me to “teach me a lesson”, I finally found some new friends and got the hell away. Had to continue going to school with her until I moved away, but at least my mom completely trusts my instincts now.
It's horrible when parents force you to befriend someone you don't like, i happen to have a similar experience with a girl in my school, my mom made me invite her to my birthdays because our moms are friends, dispite her being horrible to me. It wasn't as bad as what you've been through but to this day i regret not talking back and being so passive.
Always be suspicious of someone pushing to become friends with you. If it's not organic, it's worth a second guess.
I have a feeling that most people don’t enjoy being burned horrifically, getting their limbs cut off, and doing double sided homework.
Same
Hemet Chan doesn’t like double sided homework Any schoolwork that’s double sided sucks. I love the relief that I get when I turn a test over and it’s one sided
Do you need help with your homework, kid? I suck at math, but I'm fairly good at everything else if I haven't had a recent seizure.
@La Doña Manposa vigilis
What?!!!!!?
@@elenavilela326 I see the kid EVERYWHERE (sorry I don't know the gender) complaining about homework. I was offering help, if they need it, they can ask on the thread. I'm good at most subject's, and willing to help, just not so great when I'm having a seizure storm.
I liked the stories about the dogs who knew which people were bad.
I have a friend who is always right when it comes to judging people, I remember one time when we were hanging out, her older sister walks over with her boyfriend and looks at my friend with a straight face and says “well (blank) is he ok? Or is something off?” My friend smiled at her older sister and said yes and the three of us laughed while the boyfriend just had a confused look on his face.
The sister and the boyfriend are happily married now with twin daughters
"She let Cruella Deville shine through"
My head: CrUeLa DeViL, CrUeLa DeViL, iF sHe DoEsEnT sCaRe YoU, nO eViL tHiNg WiLl-
Dammit, her theme song from my childhood 😅
@YourFamilyDoge yeah. Lock the door dammit- Really, making clothes outta flippin dalmatians??? Thats sick.
@YourFamilyDoge ikr
I recently spotted an albino dalmation. It was the least i could do.
@@yestfmf lol
@@Sapphireskittles Someone years ago told me that the Chinese used to make fur coats out of Rottweiler puppies.
The reason this happens is you are only aware of very little brain activity so you're brain picks up thing's that you aren't aware but you just get a bad feeling. Very interesting thing
"Lizard brain" is all about self-preservation. Pay attention.
I've had the opposite reaction once. First day in a new school we met a teacher who was exceptionally boring, a bit stern and quite a bit strange, but i had the gut feeling he was a nice person. Everyone instantly disliked him tho and basically bullied him for most of the year. He turned out to be one of the nicest and most understanding teachers we had and was definitely sad from the way his class behaved towards him. At the end of the year everyone started to realize that he actually wasn't that bad and they had just been mean for no reason. They apologized to him.
There was this girl that I met on my university course through a mutual friend. Within 5 minutes of hanging around her I had a gut feeling that something was “off” about her despite the fact she seemed confident, funny, sociable and friendly. She was also very popular, well liked by her peers and highly talented. I kept replaying the interaction in my head for days to figure out what about her had made my spidey senses tingle, to no avail. I assume I must’ve been paranoid or imagining things so I move on. By chance over the next few months we ended up collaborating on various music projects. I was a cellist and she was a violinist, one time we both took part in an ensemble that premiered a composition written by a mutual friend at a local gig. This was when alarm bells really started to go off. The entire evening, whenever she was not talking to someone, she was staring at her phone with her head in her lap or twiddling her hair or playing with her nails and giving off a very bad vibe. I wasn’t getting an “I’m feeling anxious and uncomfortable and I need to be alone” vibe from her and instead a “I fucking hate the world, any asshole who dares to talk to me will be added to my enemy list” one. She would alternate between this and being surprisingly upbeat and charming during the evening. At one point she went into the toilet and came out like 10 seconds later without flushing the toilet. I had to use it afterwards and thought I could smell drugs but dismissed it. Later on whilst backstage, in the presence of many musicians we didn’t know who were also performing that night, she burped REALLY loudly and exaggeratedly and everyone stopped and looked at her briefly. She was so nonchalant about it despite the fact it was so obviously inappropriate. Despite all this, we had some really good conversations and began to bond so we exchanged numbers and began texting each other over the next few days. It was fun and good natured initially and we had good chemistry, but then she would alternate between being easygoing and friendly to extremely blunt, cold, insensitive and condescending at the drop of a hat. It was really confusing. At times it felt like I was walking on eggshells. She very enthusiastically invited me to go to a concert with her but the entire time she had that same “don’t talk to me vibe” and looked as if I had dragged her there myself. The penny dropped when I noticed that whenever she went to the toilet she would come back with almost a different personality. She would go from being introverted and cold to extroverted, euphoric, manic and condescending and critical of everything and everyone. Also, one time I saw her in the corridor and her facial muscles were twitching and she seemed completely out of it mentally. Turns out she was a drug abuser who had personality disorders including NPD, BPD and a long list of mental illnesses. She had tried to kill herself multiple times in the past and had been admitted to a psychiatric hospital many times. I learned from past boyfriends that she was incredibly abusive, toxic, unpredictable and a massive bully. I still don’t know what it was I picked up on during our first encounter before the big red flags started to reveal themselves, but I do find it very fascinating.
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ALWAYS trust your animals if they’re acting unusual around someone, chances are that they know something is up with a person/environment.
They are not stupid, most of the time they are very smart and know what’s up.
Yeah no, quite often, it happens that animals either run away or are aggressive towards genuinely innocent people. But definitely take into consideration their instincts
yes! i had a friend who was a little off (didn’t notice at the time) and my beloved shih tzu, thor, who loved everyone, until he met my friend
thor is a small, shy but friendly lil guy, but when this friend came around, his body language was defensive, giving a kinda scary side-eye, and growling (id never heard thor growl prior)
yea... this friend reeks of narcissistic traits
i love thor
"most of the time they are very smart and know what's up"
Me: Looks over to my cat just to see her dumbass run into my bedroom door
So dats why barnabys just staring at me for hours on end cuz im sketchy
@@cryptozoologish you have a smart shih tzu baby💖💕
I'll always remember this one because of how sudden and fucking insane it was. It was my first semester at college, and in America, almost every college does the bullshit orientation week at the beginning to situate everyone and help build connections between you and your floor mates, only to find out people will eventually go their own way. Well, there was this one guy, and I won't give his name or the school I attended.. But I just had a bad feeling about him when I first met him, I didn't see anything in him, he was a haircut so-to-speak. He wore cowboy boots, sunglasses, and a curved brim hat, typical Midwestern drugstore cowboy. Anyway, everybody was cool with him, I lived in an all guys cube in an on campus residential hall. He got along with almost everybody except me, he just didn't like me for some reason, he'd crack wise with me and he was just super aggressive, so I just avoided talking to him, easy enough. I'm a laid back guy and I don't have time for negative people. Well fast forward a few months into the semester and he gets kicked out of the dorms. At first I thought it was over something stupid like drinking in the dorms or something, but as it turns out, he was in a fraternity on campus, and he got caught raping an unconscious female at one of the parties. I haven't seen him on campus at all, so I assume he got expelled as well. But I'll never forget that. I just couldn't find it in myself to like this guy, had a bad feeling about him from the get-go, and it turns out he's one of the worst kinds of people. Super crazy. Sometimes you have to trust your gut.
The first comment I've seen that took place in college! I had a sad experience too surrounding a gut feeling I had of someone in orientation week, but not nearly as horrible as what that poor girl had to suffer through.
One of the worst cases I've ever heard of "bad gut feelings turn out to be true" is the case of Colleen Stan.
Eeewwww
Idk why, but when I was in middle school, as the outcast that I was I would sit alone at times,
and during those times, the PE teacher would approach me
Its weird, because he would ask me why I wasn't with the other girls, and he wasn't really clingy, sometimes he would stay through the whole hour but there were others wher we would leave, which seemed really innocent, normal "I want to keep company to this alone kid" behavior. I saw nothing predatory in his speech
Yet for some reason, the way he looked at me always felt EXTREMELY uncomfortable and I would get slightly aggressive without intent when with him and talk in a passive agressive way, something that I generally NEVER do
I hope nothing bad has happened and its just my imagination, but yea it was really weird, and it seems like I am not the only one who found him creepy, but a friend of my sister who used to attend the school 10 years ago said that he was creepy too
and the school kicked him out, but didn't have him arrested for a major felony?
@@spaghetti5914 This has happened to me as well. I was the outcast as well, and the PE teachers were always my favorites because they would try to make me feel included or just sit and talk. But there was this PE teacher in high school that gave a very bad feeling from the first time we met, I thought it was just me because he was very nice. Fast forward to the middle of the year, he started showing his true colors and was super sexist and all the girls would avoid being alone with him...even some of the boys said that he was weird with them sometimes...
Being raised in Brooklyn, I have an enhanced BS detector. When I meet someone and that detector goes off...i always trust it even when I get ridiculed. I just sit and wait for everything to play out. Never been wrong yet.
Good for you!
The Dog story absolutely resonates. I had a mustang/pony mix that I raised. She loved to mug for attention, but hated my ex enough to stalk him across the pasture the one time he was out there with me. That should have been my warning .
On a related note, she loved my husband.
When I was about the age of 5 or 6 my cousin got a new boyfriend. He was the type of guy who would always smile and be annoyingly perfect. I would always insult him. He just gave me a bad gut feeling. My parents used to scold me for being rude to him and I tried to explain why. It went on like that until I got a little older and I learned to shut my mouth in certain situations. His stare still gives me creeps ...to this day. Time passed and they got an apartment together. My cousin broke up with him because he abused her. Turns out he raped more than12 kids in a different country. We found out after they broke up. This shit keeps me awake at night.
I bet your parents don't say shit now
Maybe you can make this better. There is a kind of therapy where you talk abt it while watching a light move left and right... trains your brain to process it. Or sth else - im worried bc that sounds like a fucking nighzmare. If you cant sleep at nighz, watch compilations of cute dogs etc. (I know sounds ridiculous and naive but it helps me when i spiral into disturbing thoughts at night). Anyways hope you doing good.
what how many year old is that ex bf of your cousin when he did that damn
Cousin*
That one guy that chose the girlfriend over his parents deserves to be shunned from the family.
Lots of marriage vows say, "forsaking all others, keep thee only unto her"...
Then lots of marriage vows are crap
01denese That means you don't go sleeping around with other women, not that you cut off all contact with anyone else in your life.
No why continue the pain when you can heal and grow from it
he was probably scared of her
When I was really small there was this mall a long ride away which I loved to go to any chance I got
One day my mom and grandma wanted to take me but for some reason I just really didn't want to go. No amount of convincing would make me.
I fell back asleep and after awhile my mom woke me up and turned on the news. There was a mass shooting at the mall
I sort of have a story here:
So, a 6th grade teacher who I had for a month or two (as like an extra class) really creeped me out for whatever reason. This was probably my overactive brain making things up, but I'm not entirely sure. The first time I spoke to him was when I was looking for his classroom; at the time he was standing beside the door to the room, which happened to be at the end of the hall. I can't say why this freaked me out as much as it did, but I got a weird vibe from the whole thing. I didn't mind the class (English-related if I remember right) but always felt uncomfortable around this teacher. All my friends - and everyone else as far as I can tell - loved him. He was very laid-back and chill, allowed talking in his class, etc., classic likeable teacher. He was quiet and not super approachable, but not strict, so students liked him. I got the distinct feeling that he didn't like me, though. To this day (couple years later), I have no idea why I felt so weird around him, but I've kept my distance since. The whole thing just made me uneasy.
Story time:
There was a cafe near where I live that was run by this lovely polish woman. She poured her heart and soul into the cafe and everyone loved it; it became a sort of hub for the local childminders and such because it had a kids play area in the back. The food was good and it was really cosy.
But the woman was struggling to keep it running smoothly so she employed this guy. He was sweet and charming and a great chef and everybody thought he was just the best. But not my brother. I’ve always been taught to not base people on first impressions so i buried any gut feelings I may have had an I liked the guy, but my brother despised him. We’d go the the cafe a lot and my brother would hate it, constantly complain and whine about not liking the food. The chef guy caught on and would try to be extra friendly, and impress my brother: do card tricks and stuff like that. We all thought my brother was weird for disliking the guy.
Then one day it gets out that the cafe had to close for a bit due to a substantial funds loss. Turns out the chef guy was a conman, he stole half the cafe’s money and ditched.
Luckily the polish woman reopened, but I’ve always trusted my brother’s gut feelings on new people. My brother now loves that cafe and we go there all the time.
Sorry for how long it is, thanks for reading :)
We all wish for a brother like that.lucky you.
I met a serial killer once. I knew it the moment we locked eyes. Everything I learned about him afterwards just confirmed what I already knew. No one knew his real name, he just went by a nickname. No one knew where he was from or what the last town he'd been in was. He was a drifter, worked construction, drove a pickup truck, had been dishonorably discharged from the military. He was very charming, had everyone else fooled. If you wanted to create a profile of a serial killer, this guy fit it perfectly. And I knew from his eyes. Ice cold, with no soul behind them. I almost blurted out, "Oh, my God, you're a serial killer!", but self-preservation kicked in.
Do you know his name?
Kyla AJ M No one did. The people I asked about him only knew his nickname, Sarge or something. But they all agreed he was a great guy. Sure he is. You know literally nothing about him, but you know he's a great guy.
So you're saying he's never been caught or proved to be a serial killer, you just feel that he is?
good 'ol Sarge
This sounds like r/quityourbullshit dude. Where's your proof? Your examples? Evidence?
I’ve learned to trust my gut feeling. Back when I was a teen I was with a friend, we ran into an old school friend (male) at the mall. He was with 2 people we didn’t know. They gave me the creeps. I felt physically sick when they came up to us. They asked if we wanted to go with them and “hang out” and normally would have done so but this time I felt apprehensive. I said “no thanks” a couple days later I see the school friends picture on the news. The night before I saw him at the mall he and the people he was with had held up a store and killed the young lady that worked there. God knows that they would have done to us had we gone with them.
My gut feelings are always ducking right. My female cousin and I just never were very close, but she moved to my city and of course, nearby to me as I was her only relative there. Well flash-forward, she dated a "handsome, rich and polite boy" and pretty much let him move in. I downright got the hibbie jibbies from him and I warned her to dump him. She didn't listen, and married him _months_ later. Time before she got pregnant, I told her she could still get out of this mess, she flipped me off, and I said : *"When your fairytale comes crashing upon you and there's a gun aimed at your head, you better come back to me **_crawling and begging for my forgiveness_** "* Guess what? A kid later, her perfect husband just vanished one day and there were angry drug dealers sending threats and demanding where the bastard had gone with the money and "merchandise". To appease them a bit, I advised her to tell them all info on him and sell all her property and give them the money so they would just leave her alone. And no, it isn't US or any other first-world country, so it's just never worth to involve the law and cops in your issues.
The one about the medic on drugs was honestly pretty heart-warming and shows you we shouldn't just lock up people who are addicted, but try and help them.
Just one question:
Why is the thumbnail a picture of the devil
When this gets views, this is going to be the top comment. I hope
Pengo_PlayzI thx
Sorry for being out of the loop but who is that?
@@SmoothieXXL
Dolarous Umbridge. The single most hated character from the Harry Potter series. So much so that there was once a question on Twitter that said if you were in a room with Voldemort, Bellatrix Lestrange, and Umbridge and had a gun with only two bullets, who would you shoot? Most people said umbridge twice
Conspire The Storyteller Ahh okay thanks for replying.
6:31 omfg that’s the Lisa Knoefel case. I went to middle school with the daughter who walked in on her mother getting stabbed. I remember hearing the 911 call as a kid and recognizing her voice. My skin crawled
Happens to me really often. Almost everytime the people say that I am crazy and stupid, sometimes cut ties with me. It is really satisfying when I find out months/years after that I was right.
There was a coach at my school that seemed to be popular with his students, athletes, whatever you call people a coach coaches-not an athlete, so I don't know. Didn't hear a bad word about him (though to be fair, didn't hear too many words about him either way), but occasionally ran into him in the hallways. He had kinda a surfer-dude attitude, but for me it always came across as a little fake, a little creepy. Never was able to put my finger on why, and being a (then-undiagnosed) Aspie, my senses about such things can sometimes be a bit wack.
Then he was discovered to be sexting a female student, a warrant went out for his arrest, he fled like 75 miles into a middle-of-nowhere small town out of a Western, and then he was caught when he sexted the same student again.
So autism powers for the win I guess.
Wowww
I might be neurodivergent too and my intuition is pretty darn great
We are a lil weird, but at least we safe I guess
As someone with Asperger's Syndrome who was not diagnosed until age 39, my sixth sense has gone off many times.
I was diagnosed with autism and Asperger's at age 8 and I have a very strong sixth sense. My family is very spiritually connected, and I always see glimpses into the future for some reason, can read minds sometimes by complete accident if I like the person, and have a strong sense of red flags now. I just turned 21.
One of my friends has Aspergers and unfortunately I always feel that she doesn’t get red flag warnings enough. She has married a coworker she met at their previous employment but he’s about 9 or 10 years older than her. And he doesn’t look young, he looks much older than her. She kind of has always looked younger than her age.
Anyways, he’s always given me a creepy vibe. But, literally I’m the only one that seems to feel that way. My other friends are all okay with him and her brother and family are too.
I don’t think he’s a psycho or anything but I can’t shake the feeling that he might not really be completely honest with her or something. I just can’t trust him.
But, I guess maybe that’s what best friends do.
To be honest, I don’t fully trust my other best friend’s husband either, but it’s in a different way. I just feel my other friend’s husband can be a little egotistical and sometimes that causes him to disregard others. But, it’s kind of minor. Overall they definitely care about each other and are good for one another.
I think I do trust my third friend’s husband though. He just is calm and rational and he obviously cares for my friend.
But yeah, I am glad to hear people trust their gut.
Like I said, the one guy one of my friends is married to, it has been years and nothing bad has happened but I’ve tried for years now to ignore my gut feeling on him but never have been able to get rid of it. I treat him nicely and friendly but I just never fully trust him. And I guess as an adult it is unfortunate because once your best friend is married to someone you get the heebie jeebies feeling around there’s not much you can do about that, lol. You just try to ignore it and hang out with your friends at a house get together or whatever.
Anyways, I do do my best to never put my friend down and always encourage and support her.
i sort of dated this guy and fell in love with him, all the while being paranoid that something was wrong with him. with a history of anxiety, i told myself it was just worries. after many events where he contemptously tried humiliating me and when he eventually broke it off, i could for sure say that my gut feeling was right, and he was a bad guy. because i had been in love with him and he broke it off, obviously nobody believed me when i said there was something eerie about him, like, he seemed like he hurt people for pleasure. it was brushed off by my friends as me not being able to handle rejection. i even started to believe what they were saying! fast forward a year or so, he sexually assaults me and afterwards tries ruining my reputation and isolates me from my friend group. during the assault, i was seriously afraid what he'd be willing to do, because he laughed in my face when i kicked him and hit him and told him to stop, so in the moment i just denied what was happening and tried saving myself. like, he was choking me to the point where i was about to pass out. i was afraid as hell what he was going to do if i told anyone, so i just convinced myself we'd just had sex and that i wanted it. i completely forgot how terrorized i'd really been. one day when my best friend was speaking fondly of him, the memories came back and i just snapped and told her the story. for so long i'd swallowed every story of how charming he was, and everybody excusing his shitty behaviour. it felt like a personal attack that people still liked him, despite him messing with me for years. i'd completely repressed it though. but when he was buttering up my best friend and charming her senses away, i felt he'd gone too far. so out of the blue, i told the story, and it felt like it was recurring to me word by word. it was just as new to me as it was to my friend. only then somebody started believing me that i'd been right back then about him.
Geeez I’m so sorry .... he sounds narcissistic psychotic and all kinds of dangerous ... happy that u are out of that situation and in saftey again .. Oml
Holy shit I hope things are doing better
Damn I would believe my friend right away and if he comes again I would be watching him and you, for your safety sorry to say this but those ‘friends’ are trash I hope that they realize and won’t do it again stay safe angel💜💪
Oh honey i am so sorry and can relate
My ex fiancee use to choke me and pull out my hair then make jokes about it. He's one of those out doorsy out going extrovert types so people liked him, and when he did make a fuck up his friend group blamed me and said "dave is gonna be dave". They were just excusing his shitty behaviour. I learned alot from that, and to also watch who my relationships ( platonic or romantic) hang around because the saying is true. Birds of a feather flock together. Sending you lots of prayer and love.
when i was 5 or 6 my parents had this friend that i was scared of for some reason. he ended up drugging my parents and trying to kidnap me and my mom a few months later
This reminds me of the time I worked at this one place... I started on the same day as this one guy and we got along because we bonded over being the new hire. For some reason, one of the older staff did not like him and it was obvious to me. She's one of the oldest staff there and would always avoid him or act civil but never friendly when he was around. Little did I know majority of the older staff had bad vibe about him but they hid it pretty well because we were close as we were only a couple of years apart in age while the other younger staff was about five years older than him.
He was arrested for drug possession - not at work, I found out from my manager who was tasked to check it I was involved in drugs as well and yes, I took a drug test and I was cleared, there was never a problem, it was a formality. The guy went to jail. It suddenly make sense why the supervisor tried really hard to keep our schedule opposite of each other. I shared maybe three shifts with him a month. The supervisor admitted he was worried the guy would corrupt me because he had a feeling I was a good kid (19 at the time) and wanted to make sure I was okay. No one even acted surprised when the guy was arrested.
Another two new hire came in after that and no one had a problem with us "new kids" getting along so it really was just that guy.
I had a fur kid (A Lab) named Brownie and he was the friendliest thing ever, my mum had a domestic help who used to help her around the house and brownie never got along with her, her mere presence about a few yards away made him growl , we got rid of her soon after and we found out the Domestic help and her husband beat up some poor old lady they were working for and stole all her jewellery!! Fortunately the old lady had just fainted and they presumed her dead and went away!! They were arrested soon after !! I miss that fur kid and wish dogs lived forever!!
He was the goodest boy. Infinite treat for him in dog heaven.
Dogs are so pure they just know who is good who is bad ❤️
My dog is my child btw I also have a Labrador retriever
lmao i don't know where you're from but this took me a few reads to understand cos i don't understand phrases like 'fur kid' or 'domestic help'/
@@entertain7us148 I'm assuming she's South Asian. The name "brownie" is just like my mom's dog's name, and the domestic help reminds me of India too LOL
Good for dear Brownie 🥰 Please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of your dear Brownie 😭
When I was a small child, I met a girl at my new school. I immediately didn’t like her, but I didn’t have a reason. She was incredibly popular and was in the “rich, hot, and popular” clique. Our parents were friends so we ended up hanging out a lot for the next few years. Eventually I gave into my instincts and stopped spending time with her. Flash forward to 9th grade, she’s been dropped from the clique because she wasn’t “cool enough” for them or something. She gets outed as a huge homophobe and racist, and eventually gets expelled for snorting pills in the school bathroom. Guess I had a reason to hate her guts
There’s this handsome guy i’ve seen in my phone. He definitely has looks and brains, he’s super talented too! But the exact first time i saw his face, i just thought that he’s bad news. His face looks so wrong yet so handsome. I can’t even see his face but all my friends said that he’s the sweetest guy they’ve ever met. Well, turns out he got into a scandal and yadda yadda yadda. I’m pretty sure you can guess who is he now...
No girl tell me who
@@rayali9854 Jared Leto.
I was a sophomore, he was a junior. Everyone and I mean EVERYONE LOVED HIM. All the teachers, all the students, even college recruits who’d visit our school. He was the wholesome, committed relationship type. People barely knew me, but we were associates so it was weird when he’d occasionally message me and push having a “no-strings attached” relationship where He’d offer to pick me up and “cuddle” at his house.
Tldr; he seemed super sweet but occasionally harassed me for sexual relations.
That last one is actually pretty nice, we get to see it so rarely. You got an intuitive feeling about someone, and you’re right, they’ve been doing some bad shit. They recognize that it’s bad, however, and are kinda scared of what they are. After a while, and the nevertheless appropriate consequences, he gets his life back on track (and helps others in similar situations). It’s really quite inspiring
I have this issue with my mother's boyfriends. The first one she had after she and my dad broke it off I instantly recognized as douche, and I was right, though it was out of a lack of emotional control. The second one was a nice guy, but he got arrested when he and a buddy of his broke a couple of traffic laws. My Step-dad (BF#3) I dislike to an extent, and when we met I knew something was up. Turns out, he has trust issues because his ex cheated on him for the entire time they were together, and he has anger issues like my dad, but he's trying.
The lesson? I have a sixth sense for this shit, and my mom attracts guys who can't control their temper.
Edit: Bf#3 was also a douche. He tried and decided it was easier to try and abuse my mom. Didn't end well for him, as now he can't show his face around here. Latest guy though? He's actually pretty chill. Best any of her relationships have gone since my dad
Yikes, i hope your family gets better
BS. Your mom is just unable to keep her legs shut.
@@pinkimietz3243 Why the hostility
@@1800betterinblack he's right though
@@abdullahbinjahed6900 you don't even know her. Let her live a life that is none of your business. What the hell is wrong with people on the internet?
I also know a creep who is a sexual harasser, but everyone thinks he's a literal angel (even his nickname is "Angel"), so I just keep it to myself.
You should consider telling someone.
@@eagillum I told only one person, obviously she didn't believe me and thinks I'm a liar
Tell someone before he hurts someone. Please.
@@georgewbush9326 they didn’t believe the person
One person I remember for me... dream. I had a bad feeling about him from the start and I can sometimes tell a persons entire character in a second. It doesn’t always happen and sometimes I don’t know everything but I at least get a feeling. I also am sometimes able to tell why a person is doing something and know exactly what they’re planning and stuff like that. That’s the reason I hate my stepmom but I can’t explain it to anyone because i would be called crazy.
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