How to remain confident while sad.

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  • @soflou
    @soflou 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I relate to you so much about the perfecrionism and side quests. Right now qhen I'm sad I try to salvage my energy by watching motivational and aesthwtic vlogs like this.

  • @HonorViego
    @HonorViego 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Your cinematography/editing style is amazing, keep it up! your channel is gonna blow up if you stay consistent

  • @nottakenplease
    @nottakenplease 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    4:00 *why does this sound so relatable*
    anyway amazing video and editing

  • @brodarian
    @brodarian 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I really feel a connection with your videos and this one has really hit home especially right now in my life. I've been through a bunch of shit, and right now has been especially difficult for me but I still have been forcing myself to maintain a strong mindset and persevere through it. I've struggled my whole life with my self image, but even as I have improved upon myself in so many ways, I still feel like I'm just not enough and unfortunately-timed events keep trying to reassure this thought. i have been through a lot and my self talk has improved drastically, but starting college has really been a different beast both in my professional and personal life. I would disagree partially with this video when you talk about how striving for perfection will not help you resolve your problems. for me, striving for perfection whether school related or in the gym has always been the biggest confidence booster for me in times where my mood is consistently sad. maybe what i mean instead of perfection is being the perfect version of yourself, because the idea of perfection is just a made up idea that differs from person to person, and i would agree that only comparing yourself with the idea of a perfect human in your head could cause more harm then good, but having the discipline to try and improve upon myself has given me a sense of control over my life, which also makes me feel like I can have more control over my own happiness. Amazing video though, keep up the great work and good luck with all of the shit you have to do

    • @meiqiii
      @meiqiii  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      thx for the thoughtful comment! You make a good point tbh my perspective is always changing especially w the self-improvement stuff which I think can be a double-edged sword. Best of luck w ur college life💜

    • @Kewa_
      @Kewa_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤪🤪🤪🤪

  • @user-nh1sb3wk3y
    @user-nh1sb3wk3y 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    the effort you put into these videos. wowwww

    • @fatalaudios
      @fatalaudios 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      fr bro she just gained a new sub

  • @KNAQadri
    @KNAQadri 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    There are ups and downs in life there's no escaping it you just have to be grateful and keep going we could ALL be in a worse position...

  • @note414
    @note414 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Dude your videos are so W. I hope your channel grows as much as the amount of effort you put in, because you deserve it :)

  • @CrazTheWatcher
    @CrazTheWatcher 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’ve been watching these videos and you’ve given me such an awakening. Being in college at 19 as well I’ve been really taking a lot of your words to heart and genuinely just experiencing your perspective on life really calms me. Your cinematography in nature and the city, I love it all. Happy Early Birthday too! I also turn 20 in two months!

  • @ven_OT8
    @ven_OT8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    please please have a podcast on Spotify.. thank you so much for these

  • @dizzydussy
    @dizzydussy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just found u today and I absolutely feel in love with your vids… I wish I could fully express how they are making me feel… it’s very complex but… I guess u get what I mean. Thank u

  • @notyourjeffanymore
    @notyourjeffanymore 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm not gonna lie you are the girl version of @Ruff good quality content nice. I love watching ur self improvement vids especially to girls out there who in constant sadness or depression situation.

  • @_kira18_
    @_kira18_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really needed to watch this video, thank you very much

  • @Bleedingblades843
    @Bleedingblades843 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    bro i feel your pain right now, i'm in high school right now as a sophomore also stress as well. school sports ect. might good to trade school. but i hope you feel better soon :)

  • @tjskeyblade
    @tjskeyblade 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I did appreciate your being brave message😁 I did except that I got hurt. I got rejected actually my heartbroken understand what you are saying and I’m just trying to move on from that. i’m just clean myself. That’s all I can be and I did Burn out in college

  • @jinsatsu.neko.
    @jinsatsu.neko. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    why are you describing my life rn

  • @ootw2004
    @ootw2004 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is natural to be sad depressed etc but the issue is why ppl dont find the reasons for why they are that way and solve them. Instead we cope and hope for the better instead of actually fighting and fixing theses problem. Ive recognize that relationships and communications are on an all time low everyone is so much into themselves and their mental issues. Ppl should take control of their lifes and fixed themselves before they can form relationships with others.

  • @note414
    @note414 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ong I just watched every video u made so far, they're just so enthralling. Really good job :D

  • @AnnaStoller
    @AnnaStoller 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    9:20 There is zero virtue in struggle and hurdles. It is just baggage that nobody really wants. It all leads back to genetics

  • @AC-ke2wg
    @AC-ke2wg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro I’m also an April and ENTP combo this is crazyyyyy

  • @drtraboro4007
    @drtraboro4007 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m also 19 and I still haven’t dated. But life goes on and on and on and on and on and on and on

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks a lot for sharing.
    Have a good day. ❤

  • @afrofaeries
    @afrofaeries 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God loves you all, and if you don’t believe in God, then the Universe loves you all ❤❤❤

  • @LofiTraxxx
    @LofiTraxxx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a good video thanks :)

  • @AdnaneAl
    @AdnaneAl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im just like you

  • @AdnaneAl
    @AdnaneAl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like boxing and kickboxing

  • @AdnaneAl
    @AdnaneAl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And do wight lifting too

  • @AdnaneAl
    @AdnaneAl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I never dated someone

  • @tjskeyblade
    @tjskeyblade 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I do want to travel

  • @KingDroza.
    @KingDroza. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Build a relationship with God, don’t waste you time with this materialistic society and culture. Seriously wish I knew about God when I was 19, I was so pessimistic and now I’m 23 going to be 24 and I really feel as my relationship with God has given me a more optimistic outlook on life and keep me strong. So try going to church! Lol💪🏽

    • @Vytius
      @Vytius 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How did you built your faith? I almost completely lost faith in this world when philosophy entered the back of my mind because i now see through the lies put on by extravagant rich relgious leaders, repeatable dogmatic preaches, prayers amount to nothing, and all the absurdness mess of suffering and unfairness in life. The universe or space is too unimagnibly big that i wonder of we have significance at all.

    • @elakkiyarajeevan269
      @elakkiyarajeevan269 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@Vytius​​⁠ hey, I relate to you. I would like to have faith and I’m actually almost convinced that there is a creator but I’m also convinced that God is not ‘all-loving’ mostly because of all the suffering and evil that exists. Sure, we can always come up with explanations such as that it is all part of the divine plan that we, mere humans can never comprehend or that it’s necessary for our free will and so on. But none of them are satisfactory. So, what’s the point of having faith in such God?

  • @Hello-i7j2e
    @Hello-i7j2e 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The music close to the end was beautiful. What is the name of the song?

  • @Dr-Tehnix
    @Dr-Tehnix 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you need someone to talk to, or take a walk with?

  • @khayaashley5962
    @khayaashley5962 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    imma put this briefly an don't take this the wrong Way
    your too intelligent to be dumb in by which i mean your too socially aware an that is a hard thing to accept
    the more dumb you are the more you will learn an grow don't overthink social interactions until after said social interaction

  • @vissy.
    @vissy. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow

  • @omarherrera.digmaster
    @omarherrera.digmaster 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Eres de ascendencia japonesa?

  • @johnsonbra2004
    @johnsonbra2004 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just don't do drugs alcohol

  • @mcgeufer
    @mcgeufer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What exactly do you study?
    You seem a bit too reflected and honest with your self. But perhaps it's a cultural thing, hard to tell for me.

  • @ArtanisTheEvil
    @ArtanisTheEvil 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    song in background name at 10 min?

    • @meiqiii
      @meiqiii  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      dzivia-- flower maiden (it's such a beautiful song ik)

  • @jeremyl9515
    @jeremyl9515 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    how could youuuuu be so mature young one! add oil yo 🦀

  • @AdnaneAl
    @AdnaneAl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Its adnane 8856 Without the space between the numbers