a video to watch when you're sad.

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  • www.wholesomesimon.com
    I wanted to create a video encompassing everything I have learned/things that have helped me in the past year.
    It will get better. I promise.
    You have so much more life to live, so many more memories to have, so many more places to explore, and so many more people to meet.
    You have time.
    keep living.
    I love you so much for being here. Thank you for everything.
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  • @wholesomesimon
    @wholesomesimon  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7318

    This video blew up. I'm not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing that so many people searched for it.
    But I'm at least glad that these words could be there for you guys. Whatever you're going through know that it's temporary and that this too shall pass.
    If this video meant anything for you would truly appreciate any support on becoming a fulltime creator myself :)
    www.buymeacoffee.com/keepitwholesome
    Much love
    -Simon

    • @captinamerica4468
      @captinamerica4468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      thank you so much simon i was so sad and this video made me feel a lot better thank you so much :)

    • @captinamerica4468
      @captinamerica4468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @oryan yea im feeling better thx for the like

    • @Amandah00CLC
      @Amandah00CLC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Simon, this is a beautiful project! I love the way you broke a lifetime down for ppl. You should feel very proud of yourself & the person you are!

    • @DaOfficialPeach
      @DaOfficialPeach 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you

    • @theinfamouslemon
      @theinfamouslemon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you so much for creating this video 😊❤

  • @purplehyacinth__
    @purplehyacinth__ ปีที่แล้ว +16277

    It's crazy how a stranger can make you feel more like home than your own people:')

    • @S..ophia.
      @S..ophia. ปีที่แล้ว +58

      fr

    • @ijustwannaeatchipsalldayma4446
      @ijustwannaeatchipsalldayma4446 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      Felt…legit crying right now because of those people….life is just so tough and painful

    • @purplehyacinth__
      @purplehyacinth__ ปีที่แล้ว +94

      @@ijustwannaeatchipsalldayma4446 hey buddy hang in there! Better days are coming✿

    • @UniqueKwon
      @UniqueKwon ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ok

    • @anujawasnik3830
      @anujawasnik3830 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      And then leaves you unexpectedly

  • @SethShackleton
    @SethShackleton ปีที่แล้ว +5837

    For anyone reading this, I hope you're ok

  • @no-me1jy
    @no-me1jy 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +128

    "i'm proud of you for making it this far" made me shed tears idk why

  • @themysticmushroom_
    @themysticmushroom_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +426

    I won't lie, this probably saved my life.

    • @karlitapalacios-ws9zl
      @karlitapalacios-ws9zl หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Prob me, but i don't know if i am going to be here in the future, i am keep trying.

    • @Damiii9
      @Damiii9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@karlitapalacios-ws9zl keep trying dude, because it's life. life would be meaningless if we didn't have any problem. You're precious and your presence matters!❤

    • @ayyewalkdaplank
      @ayyewalkdaplank หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@karlitapalacios-ws9zl
      I'm pretty sure you can, though I have no idea who you are nor I have ever seen you, but still I believe in you. Hope you can get out of this bad mood and finally reach the peak of happiness. Keep pushing on.
      (I hope that helps, another person I give my energy to while hating myself)

    • @madsmitchell
      @madsmitchell หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      same.. ive had terrible thoughts..im holding on ;)

    • @wonuswife
      @wonuswife หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@karlitapalacios-ws9zlI'm so proud of you. I love you.

  • @sophiesoos
    @sophiesoos ปีที่แล้ว +13254

    I love you. Whoever is reading this... I love you and we´re gonna be okay

  • @himadrisharma6877
    @himadrisharma6877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8573

    I was feeling so sad today that I literally searched 'a video to watch when you are sad ' on TH-cam. I saw this video and all I want to say is thank you .I feel more positive now.
    Edit: it's been an year nd today I saw that my comment blew up. Tbh in this one year I've learned nd improved a lot! Reading all the replies left me sad as though I've recovered but still there are people who are sad nd could relate to what I felt an year ago.
    EVERYONE I JUST WANT TO SAY THAT BELIVE IN YOURSELF ik it isn't easy not even for me but YOU ARE MORE THAN WHAT YOU THINK i wish that everyone who commented is getting better each day .MUCH LOVE💗

    • @kalaanime3429
      @kalaanime3429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Same 😂

    • @raisunn
      @raisunn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Same here man exact words

    • @basicallyblobbity4226
      @basicallyblobbity4226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      .

    • @annaa-k2090
      @annaa-k2090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I did the same :) I feel a bit better

    • @ayushkay2134
      @ayushkay2134 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      If you were here i would have given you a hug

  • @crowdust_.
    @crowdust_. หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    when the “you matter” and the “im proud of you” is enough to make you cry.

  • @abhimanyukashyap4046
    @abhimanyukashyap4046 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    No one cares about how you feel until it turns into anger and suddenly you turn into a bad person. I am a kind of person who takes care of my loved ones no matter what situation I am in but I am the one who is always left alone.

    • @orielbrami7259
      @orielbrami7259 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yeah im that kind of person too its very difficuly for me to set boundreies with people but mwhen i do they make me feel left out and telling me im worthless and try to ruin my life becuse of this including my dysfunctional family members who say these dicourage me and beat me becuse of this and bieng lonely life is painful and lonely😢

    • @abhimanyukashyap4046
      @abhimanyukashyap4046 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@orielbrami7259 Don"t worry man. Just focus on yourself and your goals. The right people will understand us. Let the rest of em go.

    • @snowbirdspirit
      @snowbirdspirit 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Then people get mad at you when you suddenly aren’t there for them the way you used to be. I am the same way. I just went through the worst thing in my life and have been in complete darkness and isolation and depression and nobody reaches out to me or helps me out. When they all went through their darkness, I was there for them at the drop of a hat. I feel completely worthless to everyone around me, no matter how much they tell me they love me. Its actions. It’s never words. I hope you don’t feel the way I do though, and know that I, a stranger, has the same experience as giving so much but never getting anything back. You aren’t alone. Everyone says we’ll get through a hard time, but how do you get through it when you have nobody there to pick you up even if you’re surrounded by people? I’m starting to see it as I’ll just let it fester. I’m tired of trying to get through it. I hope you are on the other side of things now these days.

    • @abhimanyukashyap4046
      @abhimanyukashyap4046 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@snowbirdspirit I feel for you. Situations like this make me realise that people don't deserve us. The idea of good people only exists on social media. when it comes to real life, we gotta focus just on ourselves.

    • @snowbirdspirit
      @snowbirdspirit 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@abhimanyukashyap4046 I totally get that. You know, I think there truly are good people in real life too but man for some reason they are hard to come by. I think a lot of us good people hide and/or don’t show our real selves as much anymore cause all people wanna do is use us or abuse us somehow. We do exist though, which is better than nothing!

  • @KittyLuv333
    @KittyLuv333 ปีที่แล้ว +2969

    "You have so much time" I really needed that. Everyone says "lifes short" and "every day could be your last" and that really puts pressure on me

    • @mormyrustapirus6979
      @mormyrustapirus6979 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      yes, life in reality is long and prosperous and there are many many many chances throughout the course of it to go on different paths and try different things! :D

    • @historyianbrazilian4987
      @historyianbrazilian4987 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I kinda quit the internet a few weeks ago and use it very moderately, time has slowed down so much that I can't even imagine how much I'll change when I'm 15 (i'm 13). Life doesn't seem clear tho and I often fail so I was needing a video like this...

    • @mormyrustapirus6979
      @mormyrustapirus6979 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@historyianbrazilian4987 I'm 16 and I was around 14-15 when I made that same step as you, and oh boy has my life already changed for the better. If you're 13 and you've already made that jump, I'm very very excited for what's ahead of you. :) I can confidently say I've changed so much from the person I was when I was 13, even when I was 15, and while life is still confusing I'm finding with each new year, I gain clarity. It's okay not to know where you're going, just know that it's in the right direction and I believe in you.

    • @historyianbrazilian4987
      @historyianbrazilian4987 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@mormyrustapirus6979 Thank you! I've been relapsing back to my bad habits and using a lot of PC again, but I know I have much more potential than this and after this weekend I hope to start fresh again. Even If i fail sometimes in the start, I can't give up.

    • @mormyrustapirus6979
      @mormyrustapirus6979 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@historyianbrazilian4987 Yeah, each time we fall we can get back up! >:D

  • @madhuraa29
    @madhuraa29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4293

    I cried at the part when he said “I’m proud of you” because I didn’t hear anyone say that to me in such a long time

    • @bunnened...2913
      @bunnened...2913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      *hugs you softly*

    • @madhuraa29
      @madhuraa29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@bunnened...2913 aw 🥺

    • @bunnened...2913
      @bunnened...2913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      :)

    • @mr.beancouldbreakmyspleen643
      @mr.beancouldbreakmyspleen643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Same. I just wanted to say I’m proud of you too. I’m proud of all of us. I know that I don’t know any of you personally, but I know that we share similar feelings during bad moments. I’m sure you all have done incredible things and made positive impacts on people’s lives even though you may not be aware. I wish each and every one of you the best if luck 🍀 and I hope you’ll be on this planet for a long long time.

    • @bunnened...2913
      @bunnened...2913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@mr.beancouldbreakmyspleen643
      I know, were all living beings.
      Weird or not.
      You'll never be the worst.
      Don't let yourself down like that! Even if you are different!
      Don't hurt yourself.
      You are a beautyful human
      And i wish you and everyone else luck!🍀!
      Ps; 🌈 i am very attracted to
      ♀️❤️👍

  • @bonniespruin6369
    @bonniespruin6369 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    I'm 59 and have 3 grown children. I'm not thinking of suicide, just trying to get through the day. Thank you.

    • @Therian..470
      @Therian..470 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      hey. I rlly want you to respond to this.
      I’m proud of you ! We are all in the same boat

    • @bonniespruin6369
      @bonniespruin6369 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Therian..470 Thanks. Yesterday, I found out I might have cancer and have to have a biopsy. I'm pretty scared. I'm having faith though.

    • @Therian..470
      @Therian..470 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@bonniespruin6369 oh my. I’m so sorry to hear about that. I will pray for you🤍

    • @bonniespruin6369
      @bonniespruin6369 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Therian..470 Thank you.

    • @sleepyhead1319
      @sleepyhead1319 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bonniespruin6369I hope you get through it💚

  • @Ilovesugargliders
    @Ilovesugargliders 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    I was literally crying and I still am

    • @karlitapalacios-ws9zl
      @karlitapalacios-ws9zl หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I want, but i can't

    • @SamieNGC
      @SamieNGC หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I hope you're fine now ❤

  • @kittyyoubetternotbedead8160
    @kittyyoubetternotbedead8160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3473

    I was actually on the verge of tears scrolling through tiktok to try and feel better but it didn't work. Thank you.

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  3 ปีที่แล้ว +283

      I love u sm

    • @kittyyoubetternotbedead8160
      @kittyyoubetternotbedead8160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@wholesomesimon ilyt 🤧💗

    • @Syd_aye7372
      @Syd_aye7372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Maybe delete tiktok for a while. It will benefit ur mental health:)

    • @nawshell9100
      @nawshell9100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Chris Bangolo from a fellow stay, it’s alright we all love you and you are an amazing person, please don’t let anything or anyone get in the way of your happiness 😁

    • @kittyyoubetternotbedead8160
      @kittyyoubetternotbedead8160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Syd_aye7372 thank you ! 🥺💖💖

  • @meenaatluri7187
    @meenaatluri7187 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1300

    It's been 3 years since you posted this, Simon. I've just been having the worst time lately, and I'm currently crying into my phone screen. Thanks for this.

    • @ConnorRoseFilm
      @ConnorRoseFilm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Keep going, keep fighting. Things will get better, one step at a time.

    • @stefanosmatheos5542
      @stefanosmatheos5542 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same bro

    • @ep11_x
      @ep11_x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      same ❤

    • @syiqin_
      @syiqin_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same 😢

    • @IzzieAb
      @IzzieAb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Me too. I just started crying I feel so alone and so sad

  • @addtea_
    @addtea_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    Whoever is reading this comment, I’m so proud of you. We’ll be ok, keep going.

    • @yamiletmm
      @yamiletmm 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You’ll be okay too! Keep going,
      I’m proud of you! :)

    • @Astro_Girl1408
      @Astro_Girl1408 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you

  • @The_mytuber
    @The_mytuber 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I have never opened up this to anybody. I am a 16 year old boy skinny, average looking,but does well in studies. I joined in a new school last year where I was lonely, irritated, annoyed,hated, humiliated, assaulted twice, surrounded by fake friends who take you for granted and absolutely senseless teachers who are completely out of modern day reality. All I got there was depression and loneliness.
    Fast forward one year gone now it is vacation I found it very peaceful and happy. Now this is ending and day after tomorrow I am going back to that hell hole.
    Sometimes I wonder about the Joker movie you know there is a quote Phoenix says
    People doesn't understand what it feels like to be the other guy
    Sometimes I wonder about it

  • @miaw_n_only
    @miaw_n_only ปีที่แล้ว +617

    “you don’t have to love it now but hold on to it” I think I’ll remember this line forever.

    • @JakeWolven
      @JakeWolven ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I was holding myself when he said this. Holding my life. That's the point i started sobbing.

    • @_Dusky_yummy
      @_Dusky_yummy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope so

  • @NadineAlleahDavid
    @NadineAlleahDavid 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    the “love you so much” at the end made me bawl. love u too and to everyone who’s here.

  • @Blobert143
    @Blobert143 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I just turned 12 recently but this video helped a lot. I've been going through suicidal thoughts as well as having a severely mental ill sister (my age) who I have to hide all my problems from so that way I can keep her here. I've also been struggling in school and most likely have undiagnosed ADD (my parents refuse to listen when I suggest that my problems focussing are the result of a mental disorder and not laziness). I tried to end it all a few months ago but ended up stopping myself knowing it would probably end in my sister doing it to. Thank you Simon. I needed this.

    • @TheNoobManager
      @TheNoobManager 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hey. I'm a stranger on the internet, but I hope it all works out man. It's alright. I hope you make through it.

    • @PaNdA-rq8cw
      @PaNdA-rq8cw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi I'm also 12 and just wanted to say
      Well done for staying strong especially in this point of your life where you are to young to be listened to I suggest you speak to a school pastoral manager as they can help. Stay strong =) - a person who wants you to stay safe

  • @raycross1783
    @raycross1783 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1402

    I am 75 years young. I stumbled on this video & watched it & have been reading comments posted. My heart breaks for you guys who are suffering & sad for whatever reason. Please consider yourselves hugged. It has inspired me to get out & talk to young people who lack a supportive environment & encourage them in their journey. Loving thoughts & special blessings to each of you.

    • @benberg7475
      @benberg7475 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      That is very sweet :)

    • @AS-fj9ws
      @AS-fj9ws 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Thank you😭

    • @ElizabethElfgrove
      @ElizabethElfgrove 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I’m 13, and my only friend has depression, and she hardly texts me and I hardly text her. I’m also developing depression, and I have very bad OCD and other disorders but especially OCD but I don’t wanna ask my parents for meds because they’ll think I’m overreacting. I’m homeschooled, one friend, behind in school, don’t have time to be in a normal school, and insecure. How did you do it? How did you get through life? Why is it so hard? I cry so hard and so much when it finally breaks through my wall, it’s always building up, and when my dad sees me cry he tells me to stop crying, that I’m just overreacting. My mom doesn’t know what to do and she can’t do anything without my dads permission. My brother doesn’t care. I feel like the only thing I can rely on to help me is Jesus, myself, and my animals. I feel so alone in this world. Like nobody cares, nothing’s happening and I can’t do anything about it. Sometimes everything gets to my head so much and I feel so much like giving up, that I almost throw up. I miss being little, when I didn’t comprehend anything, and when I didn’t have to worry about worry. Life sucks.

    • @gustavofring8086
      @gustavofring8086 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ElizabethElfgrove Don't worry life will get better maybe consider calling a mental health hotline (not sure what it's called) to speak to somebody or something okay? I care just make sure you take care of yourself I'm happy that you spoke out life sucks now but you will feel better it may feel like the end of the world and everything is crumbling around you but someday you'll in the future you''ll wake up and feel so happy to be alive the fact your breathing today is amazing your one in a million maybe even billion and god chose you for a reason. I'm 16 and I've felt alone all my life I met my girlfriend and felt like she was my everything most of my passion and drive came from her but now she's gone and I feel terrible my father left me and my 3 siblings with my mother at 10 but great things came after that and I'm just hoping after losing my girlfriend that something amazing will happen again. You have wonders you haven't yet discovered so please take care of yourself and don't hate your parents or anything their parents might have been the same way too.

    • @SyishBalkissoon
      @SyishBalkissoon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I have many fake friends and the one friend ive met hasn’t responded in like 2 weeks

  • @star_deluxely3004
    @star_deluxely3004 ปีที่แล้ว +1399

    Yes, I am under 20 and searched this video. It's 2:34 am and I'm currently crying because of the kind words I just heard

    • @randomshygirl
      @randomshygirl ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hey, Who ever you are Hope you get ok

    • @Hsnb3rg
      @Hsnb3rg ปีที่แล้ว

      Pathetic

    • @star_deluxely3004
      @star_deluxely3004 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@randomshygirl you too

    • @randomshygirl
      @randomshygirl ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@star_deluxely3004 ty

    • @elitacahyani
      @elitacahyani ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hi, im watching this at 2:59 am😂 hope u get better now

  • @depressedpebbles
    @depressedpebbles 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I just find it amazing how humans created art forms and now those art forms have helped people through their lives. Music, painting, films, someone came up with those and shared it with others. I legitimately think I would not be alive today without music. It's the one thing that has stayed consistent in my life. I can always rely on it. To the artists who have inspired, comforted, and saved others, keep making art. You never know how many people it may touch and change.
    -sincerely, a teen who's having a sucky day (but it won't always be like this)

    • @TrumpetGuy26
      @TrumpetGuy26 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      so true, I think I would've just given up on everything if it wasn't for music

  • @Skincare_snob
    @Skincare_snob 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "I'm proud of you" I broke into happy tears. I don't know what to say. He's more helpful then half the grown ups in the world

  • @cruxinterpretum5669
    @cruxinterpretum5669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +684

    I'm crying louder and louder with every word he says
    Well, at least I feel that I'm still alive

  • @diablothewolf2053
    @diablothewolf2053 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +787

    I literally was contemplating ending it today... this video saved my life. Thank you so much, Simon.

    • @skiivz
      @skiivz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

      hey, I’m a random stranger on the internet but you’re loved, you’re wanted in this world and you deserve to be here and be happy. I hope you’ll stay safe. Love you

    • @diablothewolf2053
      @diablothewolf2053 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      @skiivz Thank you so much! People like you and this youtuber rekindle my faith in humanity. I'm glad there are still good people out there!

    • @vaishnavisahu4130
      @vaishnavisahu4130 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      How you doing now ? Are you feeling better??

    • @diablothewolf2053
      @diablothewolf2053 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vaishnavisahu4130 I'm doing better than I was that day! Thank you so much for checking on me! How are you doing?

    • @DistractedTomfoolery
      @DistractedTomfoolery 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yeah, how is it? Trust me, I've been there bud. You can talk to me or any number of people in this comment section should you need to. Keep it going. You don't have to have some grand, crazy reason for living to the next day. It's your birthright to live, to experience the small things. Stay safe for me, alright dude?

  • @lynako2546
    @lynako2546 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m in pain. Nobody deserves to be hurt this way 😞😭

  • @TrumpetGuy26
    @TrumpetGuy26 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm 12, almost 13 at the time of writing this. I've come to this video a lot recently. I have Autism (potentially some type of anxiety disorder too) and have been battling with negative thoughts since I was quite young. I feel like I wasn't meant for this world sometimes, I'm surrounded by people who make me feel worse about myself and I can't escape it. Doesn't help that I'm too awkward to meet anyone. I also feel depressed about the current state of the whole world, like it could end at any moment. I've tried all the things that people say to do in order to get better but the thoughts keep coming back. This video helps me somewhat ground myself and thank you for that.

    • @Vam.16xoxo
      @Vam.16xoxo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Im 14 and i totally get how youre feeling. I feel bad about myself every single day. Looking at people acheving so much at my age just makes me feel worse about myself. i feel like this world around me is moving too fast. So fast, that i couldnt catch up with it. Ive been watching so many self confidence videos on youtude (Thewizardliz or Tam Kaur) but i still feel empty, useless, left behind, and not worth of anything. Just know that, there are people who feel exactly like you, youre not alone in this.
      I wish you the best and i love you.

    • @PaNdA-rq8cw
      @PaNdA-rq8cw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hello I'm also 12 and facing negative thoughts please stay strong
      I doubt you'll read this. this world does need you it needs everyone that's what makes society .
      You can talk to people I'm not going to say things will get better on their own because they won't please don't be like me to scared to speak out.

  • @LOSTSmallville01
    @LOSTSmallville01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +915

    Just seeing this. literally just typed in " a video to watch when youre sad" and this came up first. Thank you. I hope you have a good day.

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Glad you’re here :) love u

    • @froggii._.10
      @froggii._.10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same, a lot happened this year so far and all I needed was some motivation ty so much udk how much this helped me ❤️😭

    • @imquitetrash7969
      @imquitetrash7969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same I'm just depressed all the time with all the shi going on

    • @Stellahansen171
      @Stellahansen171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oml same I typed “watch this if ur sad”

    • @froggii._.10
      @froggii._.10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Stellahansen171 yeaaa sameeeee literally i was so sad, but now although things were rough, life turned around with a little encouragement

  • @m3lis54
    @m3lis54 ปีที่แล้ว +807

    it’s insane that a single video on TH-cam can make you feel more alive and worth something than anyone in your entire life

    • @corvim688
      @corvim688 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Hiiiiiiiii , it will be hard sometimes but every time it gets hard you know that you allready defeated this AND YOU DEFEATED, if you think you dont it just means you did, you will defeat again and again because you dont fall, hard things, they are NOTHING COMPARED TO YOU, just doing things its worth it, in moments we see that and it allways happen AMAZING THINGS it happen for everyone❤❤❤❤just wanted to tell that everyday you KICK HARD THINGS ASS ❤❤❤❤❤ YOU ARE SO SO SO MUCH BIGGER THAN HARD THINGS ❤❤ and will allways be WE ARE AMAZING FRIEND AND IF YOU THINK YOU ARENT IT JUST PROOVES YOU ARE YOU ARE INVREDIBLE AND GIVE ME PLEASURE TO LIVE IN THE SAME WORLD AS YOU, YOU INSPIRE ME AND I JUST KNOW. things heal even when looks like it Will never heal and i know because this EXACT THING happened tô me things sometimes looks impossible but no, good things are never impossible and looks like it never gets better but it Just means it are getting❤ sometimes looks like we Will never be able to be happy, like things Will never get normal, and i know because i passed trought this EXACT SAME THING and it hurts, hurts a lot, but it gets better and it heal, looks clichê and like a motivational text and because of that i didnt believed in it but if difficulty times dont happen good things dont happen and i saw that with my own eyes, i KNOW that you that are reading this is an AMAZING AND INCREDIBLE AND FULL OF LIGHT PERSON and IF you think you arent it Just prooves you are, fails dont define us, when we are in a dark pit that look hopeless we know that we are in a pit of goodness and we Will allways stand because even falling we Will never be on the ground and IF we are in the ground we know that we are never in the ground❤️❤️❤️ i Love you friend, and because of People like you that i know this world is FULL of good and good is the standard and Will allways be when you feel bad its Hard but distratc, watch a movie do something you like even if you dont want to it helps, people appears and allways appear even when looks like they will never do people just appear and i know because in my life happened that exact thing, people just appear. A LOT❤️❤️❤️ ❤️❤️❤️ I LOVE YOU

    • @corvim688
      @corvim688 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      we are alive and will allways be even when looks like we dont we will allways be, WE ARE ALIVE AND EXPERIENCENG AND WILL ALLWAYS BE. JJST ALLWAYS REMEMBER HOW SO SO SO SO AMAZING AND INCREDIBLE AND SO FULL OF HOPE AND GPOD THINGS YOH AFE ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @jif420
      @jif420 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That can be the power of social media. It can be used for good. The reason you felt something was because of another person. People can really help and make other people feel validated. Hard to find from my experience. Just hoping to finally find someone that really helps me become a better version of myself but ultimately that’s up to me

  • @balloonicornv1496
    @balloonicornv1496 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Thank you.
    Thank you.
    Thank you.
    I really needed this after the past few days I’ve had. This comment is my promise to never hurt myself on purpose ever again.
    And to whoever is reading this, I hope one day you can make that promise too. ❤

  • @Introvert__queen
    @Introvert__queen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Every day i watch this video to make myself feel good..... it's officially 1 year of watching this video and it's my first comment on your video after watching you since 1 year ..........if you are reading it i wanna thank you so much to make me feel good you are the only one that make me feel special .

  • @B0w3rs.G4ng
    @B0w3rs.G4ng ปีที่แล้ว +1630

    I’ve been crying for the past 20 minutes I wish there was more people in the world like you.

    • @marwakhodary7008
      @marwakhodary7008 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I have been crying for the past 3 hours non stop

    • @SmileyFace01
      @SmileyFace01 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@marwakhodary7008 Would you like to talk?
      I am here for you (or anybody else that wants me).

    • @weepingwillow591
      @weepingwillow591 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@SmileyFace01 hey do you have a min random stranger on the internet lol i haven’t been able to stop crying for like a half hour rn

    • @SmileyFace01
      @SmileyFace01 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@weepingwillow591 yes.. but TH-cam deleted my last message

    • @SmileyFace01
      @SmileyFace01 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wanted to move this conversation elsewhere.. but I can't send links or my name on discord or the message is just going to get deleted again.. :(

  • @Currry3
    @Currry3 ปีที่แล้ว +1790

    When he said I’m proud of you I burst out crying
    No one ever tells me that
    Thank you so much
    You guys are so sweet thank you even though I commented 2 months ago you guys are still messaging things and replying and I get to see it and it makes me happy enough to keep going
    I love you guys and thank you so much

    • @vionesa
      @vionesa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      but im proud of u too

    • @The-suit-guy
      @The-suit-guy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why are you crying

    • @corvim688
      @corvim688 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Hiiiiiiiii I AM DAMM PROUD OF YOU , it will be hard sometimes but every time it gets hard you know that you allready defeated this AND YOU DEFEATED, if you think you dont it just means you did, you will defeat again and again because you dont fall, hard things, they are NOTHING COMPARED TO YOU, just doing things its worth it, in moments we see that and it allways happen AMAZING THINGS it happen for everyone❤❤❤❤just wanted to tell that everyday you KICK HARD THINGS ASS ❤❤❤❤❤ YOU ARE SO SO SO MUCH BIGGER THAN HARD THINGS ❤❤ and will allways be WE ARE AMAZING FRIEND AND IF YOU THINK YOU ARENT IT JUST PROOVES YOU ARE YOU ARE INVREDIBLE AND GIVE ME PLEASURE TO LIVE IN THE SAME WORLD AS YOU, YOU INSPIRE ME AND I JUST KNOW. things heal even when looks like it Will never heal and i know because this EXACT THING happened tô me things sometimes looks impossible but no, good things are never impossible and looks like it never gets better but it Just means it are getting❤ sometimes looks like we Will never be able to be happy, like things Will never get normal, and i know because i passed trought this EXACT SAME THING and it hurts, hurts a lot, but it gets better and it heal, looks clichê and like a motivational text and because of that i didnt believed in it but if difficulty times dont happen good things dont happen and i saw that with my own eyes, i KNOW that you that are reading this is an AMAZING AND INCREDIBLE AND FULL OF LIGHT PERSON and IF you think you arent it Just prooves you are, fails dont define us, when we are in a dark pit that look hopeless we know that we are in a pit of goodness and we Will allways stand because even falling we Will never be on the ground and IF we are in the ground we know that we are never in the ground❤️❤️❤️ i Love you friend, and because of People like you that i know this world is FULL of good and good is the standard and Will allways be when you feel bad its Hard but distratc, watch a movie do something you like even if you dont want to it helps, people appears and allways appear even when looks like they will never do people just appear and i know because in my life happened that exact thing, people just appear. A LOT❤️❤️❤️ ❤️❤️❤️ I LOVE YOU

    • @corvim688
      @corvim688 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@vionesaWE ARE PROUD❤❤❤❤❤ YOU ARE AMAinggg

    • @ranasameh2365
      @ranasameh2365 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      same

  • @bonnie_the_superior
    @bonnie_the_superior 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks man. The pain just wont go away sometimes and this helps.

  • @ChrisHocutt-xz7lm
    @ChrisHocutt-xz7lm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Though this was posted about three years ago, I just wanted to say (because I just stumbled across this), I had an argument with a friend that I hold closer than a magnet. She brought me so much joy and made me feel loved. I’ve been feeling so down and depressed, this video made me cry for an hour. I realize that it’s people like you who we need more of. I love you Simon, and anyone else who watches this.

  • @lfury1185
    @lfury1185 ปีที่แล้ว +1673

    Holy fuck this made me cry....thank you, I didn't realize how much I needed this

    • @huntermeehan633
      @huntermeehan633 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too

    • @Zyunp
      @Zyunp ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same

    • @grownosis
      @grownosis ปีที่แล้ว +6

      please know that it's okay to release our emotions and to allow ourselves to feel vulnerable. Sometimes we don't realize how much we needed something until it comes along and touches our hearts. I'm glad that my words were able to resonate with you and provide some comfort in this moment. Remember that you are never alone, and that there are people who care about you and want to see you thrive. You are valued and appreciated, and you deserve to live a life that brings you joy and fulfillment. Keep shining your light, and don't be afraid to reach out for support when you need it. I'm here for you, and I'm sending you love and positive energy. 💜💡

    • @JadenHercules
      @JadenHercules ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, I nearly cried too and had to stop myself. lol

    • @grownosis
      @grownosis ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JadenHercules It's okay to feel emotions and allow yourself to be vulnerable.💜 Embrace your feelings and don't be afraid to face them head-on. It takes strength and courage to confront our emotions and work through them. You are not alone and if you ever need a friend, I'm here for you💡🌳

  • @aironicole6331
    @aironicole6331 ปีที่แล้ว +756

    hugs to everyone that are not feeling okay. let's all take the rest that we deserve :))

    • @heeate
      @heeate ปีที่แล้ว +5

      keep safe airo

    • @aironicole6331
      @aironicole6331 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@heeate hey, u too! take care of yourself okay?

    • @heeate
      @heeate ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aironicole6331 yep i luv u sm ^-^

    • @aironicole6331
      @aironicole6331 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@heeate i luv u too hun! ^^ hope u feel okay soon!

    • @aironicole6331
      @aironicole6331 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blinkarmystaymoa4910 it’s the words we all wish to hear, u also take care of yourself. we will all get through this! fighting!

  • @samsofficialaccount
    @samsofficialaccount 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I was crying today,mostly because i realized i had noone,i realized all of my friends are toxic,not a single one made me feel i’m worth something,today i found out that my closest friend i have,is no better then all my other,my family is no better,i felt alone,and cried and searched this up and this made me happier

  • @LydiAtheistLady
    @LydiAtheistLady 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I just typed into my search bar videos to watch when sad and this is making me cry. Not out of sadness but the beauty and positivity behind it. Also I think I needed to let the tears out. Thank You ❤

  • @user-ky9gx1pv3i
    @user-ky9gx1pv3i ปีที่แล้ว +994

    I’ve never cried so much. I just feel so empty. It’s sad that I need to search this up to feel beter but it worked I guess. This was the first time someone said that they are proud of me

    • @northfoxone
      @northfoxone ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Oh.. I'm proud of you. I really am. I mean it. I don't know you, but i want you to know that someone's going to be there for you, even though you might not know. I love you and everything that you are. Crying is okay and if I could hug you if you needed it I would. Life isn't short and you still have so much time left so don't cut it short.

    • @Cxasiy
      @Cxasiy ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😢 I don’t know you but ,I am proud of you for just getting up okay I am proud of you

    • @northfoxone
      @northfoxone ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't know you either, but I'll be there for you and I'll listen to every word you say when you need someone to talk to the most. I give my empty heart to you :) I love you and you should love yourself forever.

    • @Mr.Robert1
      @Mr.Robert1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Then what was said to you will wear off in no time. You will be sad again. You have a chemical imbalance causing depression. You and half the world most likely caused by chemicals in the food we eat, poison in the water we drink, garbage in the air we breathe, the world is going to hell in a handbasket. It's very hard to feel happy even if you have everything. I recommend a professional to speak to and think about some mild medication. Not a psychologist but a psychiatrist don't be ashamed that you need some meds the whole world is on something. The ones that are not are buying drugs of the street, medicating themselves and making things worse. Let me know what you decide to do I will be listening and watching your reply. I enjoy helping people for free.

    • @nithyashreegunasekaran1368
      @nithyashreegunasekaran1368 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i have my entrance exam in few days , after a long time i cried now....idk its not only the exam stress , its mix of watever happened in my life recently, the decisions i took . i always thot "wat possibly can go wrong?" i vl get a good life no matter wat ,also told this to many ppl but when i actually go thru a phase its hard but ik it vl get better. For u too , evrything vl get better eventually , its just a phase . we vl get thru it , learn from it , get stronger and move on to lead a better life ❤ i love you for holding on still, its okay if u didnt find the PURPOSE of your life yet , like me. HAPPINESS is the main key of life, keep smiling and go on...!

  • @TheCharredswine
    @TheCharredswine ปีที่แล้ว +2176

    I'm 37 years old. Going through the worst depression I've ever felt after the passing of my father. This video is extremely helpful. Thank you.

    • @shellyg5705
      @shellyg5705 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Biggest hug to you. I’m sorry

    • @moryazolay8422
      @moryazolay8422 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Hope you’re feeling better now, sending love and strength ❤

    • @erinsloan320
      @erinsloan320 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Love you brother, you’ll get through this.

    • @kiwigamergamer5887
      @kiwigamergamer5887 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I am very sorry to hear that, im sending my love to you

    • @ysos21
      @ysos21 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      it will get better. ily

  • @kylie7239
    @kylie7239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    I’ve been crying so much recently and got betrayed by all of my friends and no one cared. It feels so nice to hear these words again

    • @teachandfunnstuff3127
      @teachandfunnstuff3127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      . Its ok, these friends are fake friends. I rather have no friends than fake friends tbh

    • @lexingtonraine6385
      @lexingtonraine6385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I care. You will get through this, we will get through this together. If I could I would jump through this screen and give you my biggest hugs. You are so strong. I love you, I really do.

    • @PhantomRaven092
      @PhantomRaven092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's okay I had many friends and at the end I came out with only one true friend I cried but they helped me

    • @Gabbie_roblox
      @Gabbie_roblox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You got this don't give up now you still have a big life ahead. We are here for you:[

    • @raidamohammed4682
      @raidamohammed4682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same..... I got betrayed to I couldn't stop crying 😭😭😭😭

  • @katieha5541
    @katieha5541 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i started looking at my life now as if I was viewing it from the future where im 40, and feeling empathy for my kid self. One day this moment is going to be just a memory and im going to wish i could feel all the intense joy and pain I have now, again. Im going to wish i loved the people in my life and myself harder. Im going to miss all the little things i took for granted like community at school and learning things for the first time like friendship and love. Even though it’s so hard to feel hopeful and purposeful now, I’m going to try to appreciate these beautiful short moments before they’re just a memory.

  • @LimPrinceAngelo
    @LimPrinceAngelo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you man. This had me tearing up. Thank you i needed this thanks

  • @js.josippp
    @js.josippp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +282

    "Life is a mystery. You can try to understand it, but the best thing you can do is to just live it."
    -my father

    • @-3Jordan3-
      @-3Jordan3- 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That’s a great message! :)

    • @jif420
      @jif420 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I really like that quote. Thanks for sharing

  • @gi.chxewon5306
    @gi.chxewon5306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +421

    Now this made me start crying more, being loved by people who aren’t family is better than getting love from family, you feel even more loved because someone you barely even know cares about you.

    • @zayna.beiruthy
      @zayna.beiruthy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Uhmm I think he’s just saying it to make u feel better....I’m not sure he really means it

    • @person89
      @person89 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @picklesgamer76
      @picklesgamer76 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish it was like that for me, it never has. but I think only one does. because I think its this content creator! ( one of the best)😔

  • @Missummer
    @Missummer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The fact that the video said “A video to watch when your sad” and almost 3 million people clicked on it..

  • @atmgreedy7454
    @atmgreedy7454 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you brother ❤ I needed this probably more than I ever have my entire life.

  • @lily2445
    @lily2445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    I was crying my eyes out watching this. We need more people like you, thank you.

    • @teachandfunnstuff3127
      @teachandfunnstuff3127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ''If there isn't a good person in this world. Be a good person also be a nice person'' -Unknown

  • @claracarrion1300
    @claracarrion1300 ปีที่แล้ว +1439

    i am in a mental state worse than it’s ever been. life has gotten so complicated i really wanted to give up. i didn’t think i was strong enough to get through these things but hey, here i am. and so are you guys. thank you for this beautiful message; and to everyone going through difficult times, you aren’t alone. and it’ll get better❤

    • @UniqueKwon
      @UniqueKwon ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ok

    • @saras9270
      @saras9270 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      me right now. thank you ❤️

    • @vallagena_kisu
      @vallagena_kisu ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you 🙃

    • @Prince-dz6xm
      @Prince-dz6xm ปีที่แล้ว +4

      u r amazin frnd...proud of u....stay happy n healthy

    • @luenanda4432
      @luenanda4432 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much❤ love and hugs to you❤ how are you doing?

  • @kcajj
    @kcajj 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thank you man, a few hours ago i lost one of my 4 day old kittens, and its really messed me up because i feel like i could have done something to prevent it, but i wasnt able to. i just really need comfort so the fact that i saw this video really helped me.

  • @lilfloppi8991
    @lilfloppi8991 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s been rough for me lately, feeling like I can’t take it anymore. This, though being a video, helped through it and made me smile in awhile. Thank you

  • @TJ77.
    @TJ77. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +579

    as a 14 year old suffering with pretty bad mental illnesses and depression this video is so nice to come back to

    • @FabledBloom
      @FabledBloom 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Everything will be alright, I love you :)

    • @TJ77.
      @TJ77. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@FabledBloom I really hope so. I love you too *mwah*

    • @projkajeremic8833
      @projkajeremic8833 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I am 14 too and just no one understands😭

    • @TJ77.
      @TJ77. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@projkajeremic8833 for me people do kinda understand if I was you try and get some mental help from your school, it sound wierd but it has helped me a lot.

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      are you seeing someone (therapist) sweetie?

  • @anonymousanonymous-jm5bq
    @anonymousanonymous-jm5bq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +792

    I cried when you said "I'm proud of you". I can't even begin to start trying to describe what I've been going through recently but hearing someone say they're proud of me means so much. Thank you.

    • @nitrogaming4122
      @nitrogaming4122 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes same I've been going through a lot to so I agree with you and great video

    • @rajasreekarmakar3012
      @rajasreekarmakar3012 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nitrogaming4122 its gonna be ohk

    • @friedtoothbrush
      @friedtoothbrush ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤

    • @LiterallyNobody04
      @LiterallyNobody04 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t know tou stranger. But, I’m so proud of you

    • @isaiaswooden9254
      @isaiaswooden9254 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatever it is that you’re going through, you go this thing!

  • @ZoziHimself
    @ZoziHimself หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks my brother! I really needed this today, God bless you Simon. We love you for doing this man, it really means a lot.

  • @Leah_ashley
    @Leah_ashley 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I’m having a really hard time and this helped me a lot thank you so much for this and I wish you luck on everything I hope everyone watching this will better soon if anyones reading this I hope you fell better soon and get a very good life love Ashley.

  • @k0q4zalt76
    @k0q4zalt76 2 ปีที่แล้ว +842

    I was crying before I found this and now I’m crying even more, to have someone that makes sure people are ok is so kind. Thank you for making my day!
    EDIT: TYSM FOR THE LIKES HECK

    • @sagebellic5466
      @sagebellic5466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same, I didn’t expect someone to validate my feelings and thank me just for living that was beautiful.

    • @LeilaGrace125
      @LeilaGrace125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so glad that u exist its the 2nd time I've cried today

    • @Nurmikkoh
      @Nurmikkoh ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @hayleerichardson6258
      @hayleerichardson6258 ปีที่แล้ว

      ikr

    • @k0q4zalt76
      @k0q4zalt76 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WOAH WOAH WHAT THE LIKES

  • @shadowphoenix3544
    @shadowphoenix3544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    The most bitter parts of life makes the sweeter parts sweeter

  • @user-wx8ik8hd7f
    @user-wx8ik8hd7f หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much my cat died and I’m crying,a scratched couch is all I have left of her,thank you for making me feel better I’m still a kid I’m 11 and I can’t believe a stranger made me feel this way I owe you my happiness Simon.

  • @nicolah.6454
    @nicolah.6454 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +313

    "Keep waking up, keep fighting, keep laughing, keep smiling, keep crying, keep living" phew, definitely needed that today. Thank you

  • @abigailfranco1647
    @abigailfranco1647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    I’m so glad I found this.... I might only be 12 but I’m in so much pain and I want it to stop...I have mental breakdowns every day and cry myself to sleep every night. I don’t have someone to tell me, “It will get better.” So I watch this. I promise I’m not going to give up, I will try my best to find my purpose and my happiness. I want to have a reason and continue this life... thank you so much for spreading positivity, I will continue to try and see the beauty in this world, I really needed to hear this and know that I’m not alone. Thank you.

    • @cyberm3l82
      @cyberm3l82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Same :( hope we get better

    • @aL-ys1ze
      @aL-ys1ze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      It doesn't matter if you're young, everyone is bound to have their downs, but the thing is, we don't know which part in our life will we experience it! I used to have a lot of mental breakdowns back when I was 11-12 because of family problems but my parents disregarded my feelings because "I was too young to understand my emotions". I completely disagree with their statement because now that I'm 15, I see people younger than me experiencing the same situation and it makes me feel sad that grown-ups would just say we're too young to go through things. You're feelings are completely valid! I hope you're in a better situation now :) stay safe!!

    • @letsplaykeks07
      @letsplaykeks07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      you got this guys

    • @abigailfranco1647
      @abigailfranco1647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@aL-ys1ze Thank you so much! ❤️

    • @mayacavolo
      @mayacavolo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      same, but everything will heal with time

  • @mikasa321
    @mikasa321 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was going through some family problems and it made me feel very upset, and this video made me cry even more

  • @alwaysfunnl8897
    @alwaysfunnl8897 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi, this is pretty late and I've just seen this, but it came exactly when I needed it. Life has been pretty tough and everyday just feels the same to me (Just keep smiling and keep everyone happy). I never knew how much I needed to hear these words and wish I heard it when I was younger. So thank you so much ❤️

  • @Leatherface2599
    @Leatherface2599 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2854

    100 reasons to stay alive:
    1. to make your parents proud
    2. to conquer your fears
    3. to see your family again
    4. to see your favourite artist live
    5. to listen to music again
    6. to experience a new culture
    7. to make new friends
    8. to inspire
    9. to have your own children
    10. to adopt your own pet
    11. to make yourself proud
    12. to meet your idols
    13. to laugh until you cry
    14. to feel tears of happiness
    15. to eat your favourite food
    16. to see your siblings grow
    17. to pass school
    18. to get tattoo
    19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
    20. to meet your internet friends
    21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve
    22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
    23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
    24. to see untouched snow in the morning
    25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
    26. to see stars light up the sky
    27. to read a book that changes your life
    28. to see the flowers in the spring
    29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
    30. to travel abroad
    31. to learn a new language
    32. to learn to draw
    33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
    34. Puppy kisses.
    35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
    36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
    37. Trampolines.
    38. Ice cream.
    39. Stargazing.
    40. Cloud watching.
    41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
    42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
    43. "I saw this and thought of you."
    44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, "I love you."
    45. The relief you feel after crying.
    46. Sunshine.
    47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
    48. Your future wedding.
    49. Your favorite candy bar.50. New clothes.
    51. Witty puns.
    52. Really good bread.
    53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
    54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
    55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can't stop smiling.
    56. The smell before and after it rains
    57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
    58. The feeling you get when you're dancing.
    59. The person (or people) that mean the most to vou. Stav alive for them.
    60. Trying out new hobbies
    61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
    62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
    63. You have to share vour voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
    64.Breakfast in bed.
    65. Getting a middle seat in the movie
    theater.
    66. Breakfast for dinner (because it's so much better at night than in the morning).
    67. Pray (if you are religious)
    68. Forgiveness.
    69. Water balloon fights.
    70. New books by your favorite authors.
    71. Fireflies.
    72. Birthdays.
    73. Realizing that someone loves you.
    74. Spending the day with someone you
    85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
    86. Someone's skin against yours.
    87. Holding hands.
    88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person's, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
    89. Singing off key with your best friends.
    90. Road trips.
    91. Spontaneous adventures.
    92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
    93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
    94. Thunderstorms.
    95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
    96. The taste of your favorite food.
    97. The child-like feeling you get on
    Christmas morning.
    98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
    99. Compliments and praise.
    100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realise you did it.
    I love you ❤

    • @CamouflageMaster
      @CamouflageMaster 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

      101. to help make a better life for tiny animals

    • @nikitag8378
      @nikitag8378 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Thank you for this

    • @Leatherface2599
      @Leatherface2599 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@nikitag8378 you’re welcome man ❤️❤️

    • @E_brooks.09
      @E_brooks.09 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Thank you ❤

    • @Francat
      @Francat 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Thank you!!! I struggle with mental health and sh and this made me smile thank you for putting in the effort to post this.

  • @nataliepowell4954
    @nataliepowell4954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    Me on the verge of tears before the video started and then he goes “ I’m here for you, I’m proud of you for making it this far, I’m sorry if you don’t get that enough, but I’m proud of you.” I am now bawling my eyes out.

    • @Bluelobter
      @Bluelobter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes yes yes me too. I cried so bad

    • @briallt
      @briallt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      me too

    • @uneatenpluto7239
      @uneatenpluto7239 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same i can’t stop rn

  • @alivar_sarkar32
    @alivar_sarkar32 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It was literally the only video that made me cry, not out of sadness, but tears of joy😭 Thank youuu

  • @will_solace_13
    @will_solace_13 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I needed this so much. I had an anxiety attack at school today, I had 4 homework assignments, and my moms on a church trip and I miss her. Thank you Simon, I love you and you have absolutely no idea how much this helped💗🫶

  • @Leon-jn4bx
    @Leon-jn4bx ปีที่แล้ว +278

    No joke I cried within the first minute. I'm just so thankful to hear someone say this.

    • @brack799
      @brack799 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i love u who ever you are, keep fighting stranger :)

    • @orielbrami7259
      @orielbrami7259 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah me too fr no one ever told me this

  • @skysailing1960
    @skysailing1960 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    Im 27. Lost my father a month ago in a car crash. Im only beginning to feel things now. But im still here. Still going. I hope I get to meet him soon. Life feels empty without you dad. I hope wherever you are, you are the happiest

    • @hexva2831
      @hexva2831 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hang in there man, keep your head up🙏

    • @kay-st8kj
      @kay-st8kj ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Keep your head up. youll be okay stay strong and remember everything gets better with time.

    • @mrducky2941
      @mrducky2941 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i hope you feel better

    • @Manishsingh-uw5mo
      @Manishsingh-uw5mo ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I never loved him that much, but he's the one I think of whenever I go to sleep. The regrets man, its like I made a mistake. I was not good to him. I am a mess now. A loser.

    • @nyla5065
      @nyla5065 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love you, Sky. Please keep going and take things one day at a time 🤗.

  • @ThatOneVRgirl233
    @ThatOneVRgirl233 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really appreciate people like you make videos like these just hoping that they'll make somebody feel better and I believe that that is your purpose and I want you to know how much better that made me feel because I've been going through a really hard time and I'm very grateful. ❤

  • @itdoomkiller
    @itdoomkiller 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    its crazy how a stranger can give u this much comfort, u truly are amazing

  • @jeeperpete99
    @jeeperpete99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3400

    Simon you said “…you’re probably under 20”.
    I’m 50.
    I needed this. Today.
    I searched for it.
    And found you.
    I sincerely feel better now.
    Thank you.

    • @theironmansmartaf2061
      @theironmansmartaf2061 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Do your best sir.

    • @heatherlorraine4346
      @heatherlorraine4346 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      I’m 41 and this changed my day ..my week I needed this ❤thank you Simon

    • @theironmansmartaf2061
      @theironmansmartaf2061 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@heatherlorraine4346 stay strong maam😤✌

    • @Duhh.Its_Ellie
      @Duhh.Its_Ellie ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Whatever your going through it will get better I promise

    • @h2oisgood888
      @h2oisgood888 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Excellent and Outstanding. NICE to hear.

  • @CATSDOGSYAAHHAHAHAH
    @CATSDOGSYAAHHAHAHAH 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +739

    i love you
    i love your smile
    i love your laugh
    i love your personality
    i love your hair (or lack thereof)
    i love you even if you have insecurities
    i love your accomplishments
    i love you even if you have failures
    i love your eyes
    i love your beauty
    i love your handwriting (or the way you communicate)
    i love the way you dance
    i love you on your happy days
    i love you on you even on sad days
    i love you on the days you feel lonely
    i love you on the days you feel helpless
    i love you on the days you feel like no one cares
    i love you on the days you feel forgotten
    i love you on the days you feel unmotivated
    i love you on the days you feel loved
    i love you on the days you feel sick
    i love you on the days you feel motivated
    i love you on the days you feel depressed
    i love you on the days you feel stresses
    i love you on the days you feel crazy
    i love you on the days you feel hopeful
    i love you on the days you feel cuddly
    i love you on the days you feel clingy
    i love you on the days you feel amazing
    i love you on the days you feel beautiful
    i love you on the days you feel like a failure
    i love you on the days you feel angry
    i love you on the days you feel aggressive
    i love you on the days you feel horrible
    i love you on the days you feel safe
    i love you on the days you feel unsafe
    i love you on the days you feel vulnerable
    i love you on the days you feel weird
    i love you on the days you feel ok
    i love you when you're healthy
    i love how you sing (or hum or feel the music)
    i love your taste in music
    i love your taste in movies
    i love your taste in tv shows
    i love the way you act
    i love you even if you cry
    i love you when you're kind
    i love you even if you you're mean
    i love you even if you're alone
    i love you even if you can't feel
    i love you even if you feel too much
    i love you even if you can't take life anymore
    i love you even if you feel like it's too much
    i love you when you're asleep
    i love you even if you have nightmares
    i love you when you have dreams
    i love how you believe
    i love you when you believe in yourself
    i love you even if you don't believe in yourself
    i love you even if you hate yourself
    i love you when you love yourself
    i love the way you think
    i love you even if you have problems
    i love your solutions
    i love how you support
    i love you even if you're in pain
    i love you even if you're hurt
    i love your promises
    i love your secrets
    i love your attitude
    i love you sass
    i love your creativity
    i love your voice (or lack thereof)
    i love you hand gestures
    i love your stories
    i love you even if you have wounds
    i love you even if you have scars
    i love your face
    i love your past
    i love your future
    i love your present
    i love your outfits
    i love your style
    i love your art
    i love your honesty
    i love you even if you lie
    i love you even if you're tired
    i love you when you're energetic
    i love how you look
    i love how you cook
    i love you when you're adventurous
    i love you even if you're scared
    i love your imperfections
    i love your perfections
    i love you even if you worry
    i love you when you talk (or communicate)
    i love your opinions
    i love you even if you have headache
    i love you even if you have a stomach ache
    i love you when you help others
    i love you when you're mature
    i love you even if you're immature
    i love you in the hard times
    i love you in the easy times
    i love you even if life isn't bright
    i love you when you're responsible
    i love you even if you're irresponsible
    i love you even if you fight
    i love you in your darkest moments
    i love you in your brightest moments
    i love your heart
    i love you in the day
    i love you in the night
    i love you at midnight
    i love you at 3 am
    i love you at all times
    i love you at your best
    i love even if your worst
    i love the little things you do
    i love all of you
    i love you when you're you
    i love 𝙮𝙤𝙪.
    From the stranger on the internet who loves you :)
    (Not mine but please spread it around, everyone deserves even just a little bit of love.)

    • @Generalbluethunder
      @Generalbluethunder 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Thank you 🥺

    • @vinesleafy3438
      @vinesleafy3438 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Thank u ❤️

    • @afrienflari4494
      @afrienflari4494 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      I wish someone would say this to me irl🥺

    • @c0sm1c.01
      @c0sm1c.01 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      this made me smile when my parents are fighting. Thank you. 🙏🏽

    • @ishratjahan5295
      @ishratjahan5295 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you ❤
      Edit: I saw this comment when I was vulnerable. By reading this comment it uplifted my mood instantly . Today was one of the bad day for my sister. She was so depressed and sad. I was so worried about her. Then I worte this to her. She was crying in happiness. She said, "sis you are the reason why I survive in this world. You are making me feel so special(and many things). "
      Thank you to the person who wrote this beautiful comment.

  • @Arwenisactuallyerin
    @Arwenisactuallyerin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really needed this I literally found this while In a mental breakdown from stuff that has happened over the course of 2 years.
    Even though are still strangers online you all are my best friends ❤

  • @user-iq9yo1cv5x
    @user-iq9yo1cv5x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thx for making this video because I am usually happy but I break myself down and down until there is nothing left

  • @booktales1687
    @booktales1687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +549

    I really needed to hear this today. I’ve been feeling really lost lately and this is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I got u always ❤️ keep going!

    • @ChuckE.Cheesegirl
      @ChuckE.Cheesegirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wholesomesimon I know this will probably sound stupid. But I have been working on this animatronic toy for a year now and I think he will stop working. I have tried so hard to fix him, I got him to talk but he keeps contorting his face. I know you probably don't know anything about robotics. its just really upsetting me. Especially, since I took him apart and got him semi-working, I don't want to loose all that progress, I don't want him to diminish. I don't know the solution, and I don't know if he'll just stop working completely when I test him. I do know the problem and I do think he'll make it, but how can I be so sure? I've cried multiply times over this, and I can't get to feeling any better. Its even worse since he's a big humannoid robot, I feel more intimidated. I know you can't solve the problem, but what do you recommend?

    • @aadithc4389
      @aadithc4389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ChuckE.Cheesegirl take a break , do what you enjoy. Just find people who might know about robotics and try and see what you can find on the internet. Even if that doesn't work, think about what you learnt from it, and what projects you might wanna take on next. Failure is part of life, just gotta learn from it and move on. Dont get caught up in the little things, just enjoy life and everything else will fall into place.

    • @ChuckE.Cheesegirl
      @ChuckE.Cheesegirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aadithc4389 thank you so much for the postive advice, it really means alot that you responded to me. :)

    • @Julia_equestrian
      @Julia_equestrian 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @erinmari3253
    @erinmari3253 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    i’d be lying if i said i didn’t tear up because of this video
    i really needed this
    thank you simon

    • @taehyungfamily
      @taehyungfamily ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sam thing here! teared up 1 minute in

  • @StellarVariety
    @StellarVariety 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm absolutely numbed out mentally. But this put me on the verge of tears. I was giving up on myself, feeling I wasn't good enough, but as you said, I can't love it now, but I'll hold onto it.
    Thank you so much Simon.

  • @elysiapickering
    @elysiapickering 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God this had got me crying. This honestly beautiful. Thank you

  • @fkwalex4168
    @fkwalex4168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    when he said “i’m proud of you” i started ballin

  • @GDMEpic
    @GDMEpic ปีที่แล้ว +554

    Thank you. I didn't know how much I needed this. As a failing high school student who seems to not exist to anyone, and has multiple mental issues that cause panic attacks and anxiety, I thank you for making this video. You may just be some random stranger online, but for me it has been far too long since I have heard someone say "I'm proud of you." Thank you for making my day, and maybe even my whole week, better.

    • @youcantreversebob9786
      @youcantreversebob9786 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Ey man ur not alone we got this bro, listen whoever u are just remember ur not alone. Stay blessed my friend❤🙏

    • @afloatcashew6828
      @afloatcashew6828 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same bro, we'll get through it together

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      been feeling this way as well i believe we’re all gonna be okay in the end and it’s okay to feel sadness i hope everything is well for you and you know you are never alone :)

    • @zaararahaman5743
      @zaararahaman5743 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @GDM Epic as someone who is going through the same problems and everything seems to fall apart, I can feel what you're going through. But everything will get better hopefully. 🫂

    • @FaustHaidee
      @FaustHaidee ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We’re in this together and we’ll get out of this together❤️ stay strong friend💪

  • @rd74409
    @rd74409 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cried while listening to you ....needed this....THANKYOU kind stranger

  • @zxorizonn_3111
    @zxorizonn_3111 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    for the past few years it has become like a routine for me to keep coming back to this whenever im really low, and it always bring me comfort when i am sad. thank you so much.

  • @rocketengineer.
    @rocketengineer. ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I will not say "don't cry". Just love crying. Realize that: your tears make you relax, prove that you are still feeling something, you are still alive... If you are reading this, you are living. Thanks for you're alive 💜

    • @sourcandy69
      @sourcandy69 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      please do not tell this to men. will turn the majority of them into monsters, and the remaining into male humans, not men.

    • @natashaing4999
      @natashaing4999 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s good to cry.

    • @rocketengineer.
      @rocketengineer. หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@natashaing4999 i am shocked. i had a very bad day. and you found this comment after almost a year. i watched the video again. i am totally better now. i owe this to you. thank u so much 🫂

    • @rocketengineer.
      @rocketengineer. หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@natashaing4999 i am shocked. i had a very bad day. and you found this comment after almost a year. i watched the video again. i am totally better now. i owe this to you. thank u so much 🫂

  • @mahroshatanveer2180
    @mahroshatanveer2180 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    "I'm proud of you"
    No one has ever said this to me. You have no idea how much I cried while watching this.

  • @Shinobu_0154
    @Shinobu_0154 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This really made me cry more of how sweet this is and I still am going through a tough time…

  • @faith_nichelle
    @faith_nichelle หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve been struggling really bad lately. I feel alone all the time, uncared for and unloved. This made me feel a bit better. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

  • @rollio1678
    @rollio1678 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    I turn 21 this year, I'm surprised I've made it this far after all that I've been through, a decade of mental and physical abuse, surrounded by drugs, alcohol and guns, my mom's divorce, her abusive partner, being blamed for my mothers actions because "I could have done something, she's my mom so she's my responsibility" I was 13 when that was said to me. And then her mental state rapidly declined, she started having manic episodes yelling about shadow demons, I was moved away from school, the one place I felt safe surprisingly, forced to live with my grandparents, watched as she destroyed herself, me being the only one who still tried to help her, she says she loves me and I don't say anything back one night, the next.... She's dead, struck by a truck. That was in April of 2021, barely finished high school, then my grandad dies in a car accident. And then before I know it my sister is being screamed at and compared to my mom constantly by my grandma. She leaves, and I'm forced to become my grandmas care taker with the family not wanting me to do anything else. Even though her son lives only a minute down the road I'm the one that has to look after her. And in the middle of all of this COVID happens, my anxiety, depression, ADHD, and trauma make it all worse, I've had to grapple with my own sexuality and gender identity knowing where I'm at I'm not supported. And it's all so much, Im so tired of it, of all the hate and violence and yelling, i escape the worst of it only to see the world is just as fucked up and I feel hopeless. And yet I'm also the sole reason my sister is still alive, she tells me that I was the one that got her through that hell, I'm the reason my best friend didn't commit suicide when he had the gun up to his head, my mom told me I was the reason she was able to survive through all the stuff she went through. I can't afford to die cause other people need me but I've barely focused on myself I worry about people hating me for wanting to exist and I just feel exhausted. If there's any reason I still continue it's because of my friends and the people who care about me, the ones that actually care, the ones who I've apparently helped immensely. Thank you for this video it helped me keep going, it made me feel for a little bit that things weren't hopeless, that I will be happy one day. So, thank you.

    • @mrmagicalmonz2015
      @mrmagicalmonz2015 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Stay Strong, cause we are here for you

    • @inualbero
      @inualbero ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I don't know who you are, probably I don't live in your country, I don't speak your language but I hope all the best for you, and I want to tell you to stay strong, to not give up, 'cause one day it will be worth. Keep living, for your friends, for people who cares about you and FOR YOU. Hoping you the best bro

    • @kekmaster1064
      @kekmaster1064 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Keep up , king !

    • @nickzhao2156
      @nickzhao2156 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      stay strong bro, you got a good heart

    • @sofiasheko
      @sofiasheko ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are great person. I’m appreciate you for everything what you’ve done. I love you, keep going!❤

  • @_long.live.ryanne_4836
    @_long.live.ryanne_4836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    I may or may not be only 11... I really needed this... ❤️

    • @Nora-tc2pn
      @Nora-tc2pn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      •_ Ćražy_Wøłf _• I’m 11 too.. and this was amazing..

    • @kingofdeaths8163
      @kingofdeaths8163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm 12 and I also needed this many times... this really helped me)

    • @noneri
      @noneri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      aww keep going kiddo. there were times, even when i was eleven, where i didn't see a reason to keep living. but i did and i couldn't be more thankful that i did. keep running, and know that someone out there loves you no matter what you think of yourself.

    • @ieatbloxburggirlsforbreakf9031
      @ieatbloxburggirlsforbreakf9031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Im 10...

    • @BobBob-gc8vp
      @BobBob-gc8vp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I’m an egg

  • @yenn0418
    @yenn0418 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “i’m proud of you” made me tear up fast

  • @vanshikategta8849
    @vanshikategta8849 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You're video is really a blessing who is sad or feeling lonely out there

  • @amber678
    @amber678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    I’m so glad I found this video. I’ve been struggling so much lately, and have thought about things like death. I’ve been going through heartbreak but nobody understands how much I love him. It’s been almost a year and I don’t know why I’m still stuck on him. I know I’m young, but I’m still in so much pain.

    • @emranao4394
      @emranao4394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Your life matters. One person isn't equal for your life. Even tho if he doesn't respond to you eventually you'll find THE ONE. Don't worry it's ok 🍀

    • @kaylarose7486
      @kaylarose7486 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hi. I hear you Amber. Truly. I’d love to chat with you if you’d like someone to open up to❤️

    • @cartifwaeh
      @cartifwaeh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I've been struggling with the same problem these past few days

    • @fizzbizz6015
      @fizzbizz6015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm not stuck on a person but I've thought about things like dying since the age of 6 and still am but I promise you can make it through it, you don't have to forget, you can just take baby steps when you're comfortable and get closer and closer to at least being alright

    • @samscenefordummies8706
      @samscenefordummies8706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      been struggling with the same exact issue. if anyone wants to talk about our mutual problem, maybe we could make a group chat somewhere or something?

  • @RazzoGaming
    @RazzoGaming ปีที่แล้ว +326

    Surprised seeing so many people are touched by the "I'm proud of you", including me. To the ones reading this, I hope you heal from whatever has broken you and you come out of it stronger! Have faith and everything will be alright in the end.

    • @alexcool79
      @alexcool79 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Bro who everyone who is sad and writing comments are really giving me motivation because I was thinking that I was only human who was sad in this world.

    • @_adelinaaa_
      @_adelinaaa_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The sad part is I broke myself, and I don't know how to heal from my mistakes. It hurts

    • @RazzoGaming
      @RazzoGaming ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@_adelinaaa_ just give it time, do something that'll help you grow. Eat healthy, workout, go out, have fun, prioritize your mental health over everything else. Time heals everything! Good luck to you❤️

    • @_adelinaaa_
      @_adelinaaa_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RazzoGaming thanks ❤️❤️

    • @GReyn
      @GReyn ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@_adelinaaa_ honestly, same.. i kinda has a part in breaking my own life..

  • @symbolsfool
    @symbolsfool 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i needed this, i needed this more than anything. Thank you. Thank you

  • @lilianfowler7988
    @lilianfowler7988 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you, Dear One, thank you so much. I am in my 60's and have always struggled.
    As I get older, I cannot do as much once did. It frightens me the cannot. It is worth it. Keep going.

  • @homeandaway11310
    @homeandaway11310 ปีที่แล้ว +399

    When you said “I’m proud of you” my heart melted, my parents hated me and no one has ever said that to me; thank you ☺️

    • @raspberrypie3003
      @raspberrypie3003 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same🙂

    • @Izzy-
      @Izzy- ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My friends hate me, my parents hate me, no one likes me. The constant comparison of myself with everyone just suck. I can't cry in front of my friends, parents or even my brother (I'm literally crying writing this comment since it's midnight and everyone is asleep).
      Idk why my friends don't talk to me anymore, i sit alone during lunch, people are mean to me, my mom thinks I'm incapable of everything, my dad don't have any emo talk with me. Earlier when i used to cry in front of my parents, they used to console me. Now it's just an act of sympathy in front of them. my mom favours my brother. Sometime due to frustration i used to break down in front of my friends and i got to know they made fun of this. Now i don't cry in front of anyone. I'm lonely, i just want to cry endlessly in my mom's lap. I want to share my problems. I want them to understand that i can't be good at everything. Mummy papa would you love me if i ace my all classes, if i learn all chores, if i got into good engineering college ? Papa do you know i have anxiety during my test and exams? Yk why because I'm scared of disappointing you. Friends do you know what I've been enduring from last 2yrs?
      Why asian parents can't be little loving?
      Why my friends leave me behind all alone in class? I also want to have lunch and talk with you guys.
      I'm not that bad. I'm nice to everyone. I'm sad please don't leave me alone. I'm just 17, idk what i can do to make you'll happy?

    • @jeremysantoso1325
      @jeremysantoso1325 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Izzy- all though I may not know what you're going through, once you stop living for others and become a version of yourself that you're truly proud of then you'll be happy. If you base your happiness on what other people think of you, you will always be dissatisfied. I believe that you're a wonderful person and that one day you'll have friends that are there for you, heck I'm here for you, although I'm just a random stranger I hope I can be a positive outlook on your life.

    • @yashraut3494
      @yashraut3494 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Izzy- ​ buddy, my story was same as you..actually worse. Right now I’m 22. I had friends whom I literally helped like they were my brothers..but they always disrespect me, they call me loser, boomer. They don’t call me to go out. They don’t take me seriously either! I know how good I’m, but still people don’t friend me..they choose fakers as friends.
      But you know what, Last 2 months have changed me, I started doing things I love..in my own way. I don’t care about people now. I don’t think about what people will say. I tell myself everyday that I’m the best and I don’t give a f about others..believe me this works try doing it..it is not superiority complex or ego..it is self respect and self love buddy..be friend of yourself..you will automatically attract people like you..stay positive..cuz Time Changes ❤️

    • @Izzy-
      @Izzy- ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeremysantoso1325 thank you, you don't know how these positive message helped me today too. Today i cried too much after locking myself in room that now my eyes hurt so much. My parents don't seem to understand that I'm going through such a sensitive phase rn. The constant yelling and some slaps won't help me. I'm frustrated they can't see this. My mommy take side of my brother and that piss me so much. 24/7 yelling and man if i answered back I'm the ungrateful brat, disgrace to family.
      And all they want is me sealing my lips in front of them. You know what my brother told me ? ACC to him my reply to them is the reason they don't love me and that's why he gets more love.
      Yk why my friends hate me because I'm... idk because i can't seem to recall when i insulted them or talk to rudely.
      Today i felt I'm the worst human in the world.
      Today i stopped talking to my "friends" and from now i won't talk with my family too. Because they don't appreciate what they have
      I'm sorry but i don't know where to dump all my frustrations.
      You're too kind. I feel bad you must be here because you too were having a bad day
      Jeremy good luck for tomorrow and best wishes for today. You made me smile today ;)

  • @jonaebaskin675
    @jonaebaskin675 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    This video made me cry bc life is so tough. All the emotions we feel and lessons we have to learn can really get to you.

    • @mormyrustapirus6979
      @mormyrustapirus6979 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It certainly is tough. But hey, we're all in it together. :)

    • @heeate
      @heeate ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i cried too. virtual hugs

    • @ambikadas10
      @ambikadas10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Iam crying too but life is tough so the best we can do is not be tough on ourselves :)

    • @onelsen610
      @onelsen610 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just admit Top G cheated on you

    • @UniqueKwon
      @UniqueKwon ปีที่แล้ว

      ok

  • @Jade-rx1is
    @Jade-rx1is 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i come back to this video everytime i start feeling numb again. it helps a lot.
    thankyou.

  • @professional_overthinker1o1
    @professional_overthinker1o1 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I come back here every month when I hit the rock bottom, today was one of those days. I had a blade in my hand and yet somehow I made it here. I cannot express how safe you have made me feel.