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You got to just try forget confidence

hi, thank you for your honesty about your experiences. I feel you, there is this phase in my life that I'm going through right now and I find it hard to be hopeful, I can't really see a point in anything that life is. It felt senseless and I got into this position where I was questioning myself in all situations, like what is the point of it all? what are we trying so hard for? what is so important about being fulfilled at heart, it's such a struggle to get there. I questioned myself so hard, I don't see a point in anything anymore. The first step for me here was to see that there's a problem going on here and acknowledge my behavior, only then can I redirect where my thoughts go. It's not easy but I must take responsibility of what I do to myself because at the end of the day, I'm all I've got. Thank you.

omg such a beautiful video (the message and the cinematic footages). love it!! it help me a lot, thanks🤍

Genshin impact background music lol

Aaa i wish u could go more out in nature but i hate the cold and it rains almost every day 😭

What?! I thought I was the only one lol. I feel like ur narrating my life. I’ve had social anxiety for as long as I could remember. I was and still am the weird quiet girl. Idk why but I also have a problem with drawing attention to myself. Like every detail is so accurate? Like even raising my hand to ask for something like getting a tissue or wtv makes me kinda of idk self conscious? Like what if they cant hear me and I have to like embarrassingly repeat myself. And being labeled as “the quiet kid” made me feel like I had to be quiet all the time or they’d point that out or think im weird. AND I ALSO HAVE A REALLY LOW SELF ESTEEM. I feel like inferior to some of the people I want to be friends with so I kinda hold myself back? I still am scared to say something because I feel like people are going to judge what I’m going to say or get mad at me for something. I’m also really really awkward. I worry about what people will think about me if I say or do something. Because of that I feel like I miss out on a lot of opportunities. I freak out on the smallest things and I’ll worry about it for years till I can forget about it. I dont think anything im saying rn makes sense but its just a nutshell of idk what. I have trouble with reciprocating someone elses energy and I feel like I’m chore to talk to kinda? I feel bad so I try to distance myself. but I’m trying to do better! Thanks for this btw! I’m trying to better myself this year and overcome my social anxiety, this really helps. ❤

your videos really help a lot please upload more often 🫶🏻

9:06 - 9:28 hits diff and im finna try that more

One thing that has helped me a lot is putting my phone away at random times, like when I’m in the train or something. Just taking in my surroundings, listening to other people, all that. Also, for doing something hard, i can recommend knitting (or anything else really where you get a product that you can hold in your hands ig) because you‘ll feel very accomplished afterwards and you can the results are so real, it‘s hard to not feel alive :)

Thank you for making this video. I’m currently in the process of willing to try to make a change and it seems so hard and unreachable. This video made me rethink about my negative thoughts. It really made me happy to see that someone with the same problem as me actually made a progress.

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thanks for your healing video. today is the worst day I've ever had. I feel drained and exhausted but your video do cheer me up. luv u

you're so pretty. i was scrolling youtube and i saw your video, you're pretttyyyy

You look like Lia from Itzy ❤😊😮

I glad that yt recommend me your video cause i just needed it

Thank you for this video, it literally made me cry. I really think we all need to realise that living is something extraordinary even when you struggle...

I am in my first year of highschool, its been really stressing... As my half yearly is going on and i just was lost in ny thoughts and feelling heavy, my maths exam is tommorow and been stressing. watching this really made me feel a little more motivated and perhaps happy :)

Thank you for making videos like these… watching your vids was a coincidence, I had a shitty attitude towards myself and to my tasks and studies… sometimes it felt like i’m on the edge, but sometimes i’m just laying pn my bed… I don’t know what to do so I’m now listening to your words, tearing up… I always thought I matured in some cases but still I’m still immature and just suffer frok my own doing… ugh.. 😢

What the helllll how are you not famous yet ??? 🤯🤯🤯

In class I raise my hand and all that, but I‘m scared to talk to strangers and classmates.

I clicked on this video because the thumbnail was beautiful and I was not disappointed❤

I just found ur channel and your videos really help me tysm :') i srsly need to ask tho, how do you cut the front pieces of your hair 😭 did u cut it yourself or at a salon cuz ur hair is absolute goalsss 🤩🤩

Can you please suggest some buddhist mantras 😊

Can you please suggest some buddhist mantras 😊

I went through that phase to I said how I didn't like school and I didn't want to see people again i said i wanted it to end and I told myself I'd never make friends again .What made me get through it well I didn't do much I just assumed I needed a friend to get through highschool so I really wanted it and fixated myself on that I realised if I never really made a friend I'd probably never get through school or get through social groups. It got to point maybe like in year 9 I was just staying near my locker and I was just talking to the guys in my science class and it got me through that thankfully a friend came talked from me a girl i interacted in class i probably wouldn't have friends especially the fact i had only really 2 friends that stood by me and they left absences. Now I don't have her I moved I'm not affected it just hurt and if I'd have to think at highschool I'd probably not have much to think about. What you really said helped me to care again I know I've been hurt a lot and the quiet ones get all the pain they say. 💜I hope you heal creator.

Yes can relate!

man this is so real… i always have thoughts that spiral out of control for some reason and it holds me back from putting myself out there while also beating myself up once i do initiate something. the quiet label thing helped me realize how i also had to fit into some sort of expectation. i feel like a couple years ago, i was seen as the weird kid since i didn’t have any social media while everyone else did and was on the trends. it made some sort of insecurity in me so now i don’t feel like i’m worthy enough to talk to people. it put me into a mindset where i see people in higher level which sets up an imaginary barrier. i really hate it and i wish i was able to stop filtering out and thinking too much about what i say. every time i swear i only with for close friends 🥲 it’s so hard for me to open up about myself and even express things like this. whenever i’m in a social setting, i swear my brain shuts off and it honestly makes me mad. why am i like thisssss. but i also feel like no one cares about what i say you know? so that also stops me from speaking out… it’s the worst to have someone talk over you sorry i was kinda rambling wait why am i even apologizing AGH. me and my people pleaser brain feeling like an inconvenience everywhere. is this a first child kind of thing? okay byebye if u read it!! and good luck 💕

even the beauty and purity in her words make you feel more alive and present ❤

frrr, i get sick easily and when i need to cough in class i tried to hold it in or drink water to make the urge disappear since i don't other ppls attention 😭😭 i was also always the last one to hand in text papers (at the end of class) since i was too shy to walk up to the teacher when the others are concentrating :C

OMGGG THIS IS SO MEE, MY CLASSMATES LABELED ME AS A NONCHALANT THAT'S WHY I DON'T TRY TO INTERACT WELL BECAUSE I AM A "NONCHALANT"

Im gonna turn 28 this year Im scared

After traveling to Japan my sleep schedule got ruined...My sleep is not restorative...so my depression returned

1:51 I’ve felt like this for the past 2 years it’s been rough

in my case, it was def the community around me and the fact that school was 7-8 hours for 5 days a week, forcing me to be in social settings for a long period of time, and also my low af self esteem. i've only discovered this when I entered college: but i have a really low social battery and that's still true to this day at 21, but i've been learning to accept it and made sure I can grow in my social abilities despite not being like "everyone else". but in grade school, ur around the same pool of people for 12 years, and growing up, that's all you know about the world. it sucks too since as an introvert, that pool of people you know is way smaller and you're left to think that this is all what the world has to offer. it's draining to think you're the odd one out, not to mention that school forces you to be social and my social capacity only lasts 4 hours a day. when i got into college and learnt to drive, i started my healing journey and did a lot of exploring. my social anxiety did NAWT go away just overnight, and it took so many days of crying to myself after every failed social attempt, picking myself back up again, journaling, therapy, and just finding more "social" hobbies like dance class (which btw was a hard af choice bc walking into a dance class by urself is like super terrifying but i do not regret that decision at all). 4 years later after highschool, and im still feeling it. social anxiety does NOT go away unfortunately, but it gets SO MUCH easier to deal with. i think the thing im scared of the most is being different from people to the point that we don't click or being too different that they think im 'weird'. reminding myself that there's 8 billion people in the world and so many personalities, cultures, interests, etc. so it doesn't matter what kind of person u are. ive gotten more confident just talking to random strangers who pass by u to class, making small talk with cashiers in a cafe, and now even volunteering to speak up during class discussions (this is still scary ngl LOL). now im about to be a public speaker to 200+ students and it's crazy how life just takes a turn like that very long comment, but i just wanted to share my healing journey bc i feel like that's what my entire college experience has been 💕if you've gotten this far, thanks for reading

i don’t want today. and i most definitely don’t want tomorrow. i want yesterday back.

Really really liked your video! It's so beautifully made and honestly the only thing that could make it better is a crispy mic. Im subscribing!

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This video found me exactly when i needed it...thank you so muchhh, im falling in love with your videography ahhh, every shot gave me a sense of comfort which i didnt know i could get through a yt video (i hope it made sense lol)....coudnt relate more to all the things you talked aboutt...thank youuu...truly eye-opening...keep goinggg

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🥞 First mentality: Remember that you have a life to attend to 🥞 Second mentality: No more bullshit *Practical Tips* 🍸 Have a domino habit. → One Habit Leads To Another 🍸 Create an environment for focus 🍸 Reset your mind and body 🍸 Find moments of ma → genuine peaceful moments of life that is so valuable 🍸 Find an activity that forces you to focus

Thank you, sunnie. Your video made my feel relaxed

As I quiet kid myself, people always ask me “why are you so quiet?” “Can you talk?” “Do you speak English?” Like of course I speak English😂

5:57 I’ve never woken up to snow I’ve only seen snow 4 times

For me the thing that stunted my social growth was covid, it happened at such an odd time and I felt like ever since I got back I haven’t been able to talk to others the same way, even though I was already the quiet kid before that

Nice color in this video❤

I love this❤

You are still very young girl. You don't need to rush things, society is pushing everyone into relationships, marriage to ruin everyone's happiness, this is modern life, the more I see it the more I understand, that relationships are pointless in this time and age, if your heart can take 1000 rejections good for you I guess, but not all of us gonna keep up like this, Basically my only life advice for you is just to focus on yourself, find hobbies or something that might connect you with other people, and maybe that way you might find someone who is right for you, because blindly looking and trying until it works isn't gonna help. Another thing don't listen to what society is saying, because many minds are poisoned because of society for example crossdressing, crossdressing for women it's okay, well I can understand that if a woman is pretty and she gets a lot of attention and in these cases there are some stalkers or rapists who want to assault women so dressing manly ussually solves this problem that I can understand, but when man dresses up as a woman it's a problem society thinks they are gay or unhealthy not masculine enough, I just hate society for their double standards, most male crossdressers are straight and have their own families some of them hide it, some of them do it openly, If I was a crossdresser I would still retain my manly energy, not that I have that many, and I would never dress too flashy, because that would attract a lot of unwanted attention My woman persona her name would be Lira she would wear high heels black stockings blue long dress, black face mask with cat whiskers and of course underwear can't go without underwear also since my manly persona is not very confident, my woman persona would be very confident in herself total opposite of my true persona. I'm 29 years soon to be in my thirties never dated or married anyone my chances to date are already zero. I have already faced the fact that I might never find someone who would understand me and simply be with me through difficult times, if that is the case then living single seems to be better choice nowadays, it hurts, but it would hurt even more if the person is not compatible and you have to break up with the person, break up and rejection is painful.

I was literally so lost from few days because I was feeling left out in school and i was so scared of facing my thoughts but in the middle of the video I face my fucking thoughts for 5 sec and then for next 30 min I was thinking in my brain until that particular stupid thought goes away

This video is honestly so good, positive, constructive, real if one may say. Honestly great work, everything from the advice to the videography/editing/music choice is splendid! Honestly beutifull.