How I Handle Ignorant Comments as a Disabled Parent

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @narkmoop
    @narkmoop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As someone who is a wheelchair user and eventually wants to have children, I have been loving all of what you've been sharing about the beginnings of parenthood. You are an amazing parent and this woman clearly is just ignorant!

  • @KJ-ol6ef
    @KJ-ol6ef 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m so anxious about people judging me, I’m due in 4 week and use a power chair. We already get weird comments from people asking if my husband is my carer. I dread having to go on public transport with my baby, mainly because of other people’s comments, I don’t know how to not get upset when people suggest that I shouldn’t have the full, happy life I do. It’s like they would prefer to see me more disabled than I am, that would somehow be easier for them to understand. Thanks for sharing your life online, I’m learning lots from your videos.

  • @ari-cowan
    @ari-cowan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    An important, timely, and superb video. How very fortunate that those twin young ones of yours have a mom like you and not someone crippled by the crushing and tragic afflictions of ignorance, arrogance, and stupidity. I'm thankful that you and your two wonderous babies are in the world. Press on.

  • @markhottman2652
    @markhottman2652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dani keep being the best mommy to those two baby girls as you can. 👍

  • @Tommieboy2009
    @Tommieboy2009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow...she seems more competent and able than most other people that do not have her "disadvantage".
    Some People should just shut up and swallow what they want to say...

  • @rkblehm1
    @rkblehm1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Simply awesome! So impressed by you and how you are handling the negativity. You are doing great and will continue doing so in the future. I hear there is going to be a movie made - good for you!!! Your kids have a fantastic mom and are very lucky to have you.

  • @ecologist_to_be
    @ecologist_to_be 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People can be SO rude. They assume disabled means unable to do anything at all. Your children are blessings and your husband is so lucky, her trying to say the babies are a burden is a disgusting attitude!
    I saw a comment else where saying how disabled people shouldn't work either as it costs employers too much money.
    And also heard how a disabled guy doctors chose to let him die as they had decided he had no quality of life!

  • @Glickan
    @Glickan ปีที่แล้ว

    Very important and inspiring video, keep sharing ❤

  • @camillechang7120
    @camillechang7120 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a great parent

  • @elizabethcox570
    @elizabethcox570 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know exactly what you mean I have Autism and mental illness and people say I should never be a parent and that is untrue and mean.

  • @camillechang7120
    @camillechang7120 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are not a burden

  • @alisha4012
    @alisha4012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like a guy but we're both disabled I have a learning disability which is not very visible but his is more visible and I'm concerned it won't work we haven't made it official we're still thinking about it We're not gonna make it official until we know it can work and we do want kids
    But I have a lot of questions about it can the government take your kids away when you're both disabled that is my main question I'm just distraught because I like him a lot

  • @mancman-bu4kz
    @mancman-bu4kz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't feel bad for you or your family I'm sure you all do great, as a parent with a high functioning autism child with adhd and severe behavioural issues it make my PI@@ boil all the stupid comments people make when know literally nothing....
    Good for you and not letting these morons get to you