10 Feminine Ways to Keep a Man's Interest *game changer*

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  • #feminineenergy #masculinity
    I think most of us can agree that modern dating is a mess and modern marriage is pretty much all but dead. Men and women have never been more in the dark regarding how to cultivate & maintain attraction and, more so, how to build a relationship/love that lasts. As women, we’re no longer taught how to properly attract and love a good man and men are not taught how to attract and love a good woman - now like how our grandparents were.
    And there are so many reasons for this very sad state of affairs but in this video, rather than focusing on the “why” (I’ll go over the “why” more in another video), I want to equip you with some tools that will help you rise above and succeed in the modern dating scene so you can find & keep love.
    I really hope you enjoy this video - please "like" the video & subscribe if you do and please comment your thoughts! I also have manually added in subtitles.
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    Chapters:
    Intro - 0:00-2:09
    Preface - 2:10-4:45
    I. Give him problems to solve 4:46-6:08
    II. Heart vs. accolades 6:09-8:51
    III. Don't try to compete with him 8:52-10:18
    IV. Be gentle yet firm with boundaries (respect) 10:19-14:03
    V. Faux femininity 14:04-15:09
    VI. Be wholesome 15:10-17:16
    VII. Feminine mystery 17:17-18:42
    VIII. Feminine quirks 18:43-19:23
    IX. Let yourself grimace 19:24-20:24
    X. Chivalry 20:25-22:29
    Bonus (mothering) - 22:30-23:08
    Outro - 23:09-23:39
    Background Music:
    Lily's Dance - Million Eyes
    There Will Be Rain - Million Eyes
    Mercy of the Wind - Million Eyes
    Haze - Million Eyes
    In your dreams - Million Eyes
    Corny Old Love Song - Franz Gordon
    Altostratus - Franz Gordon
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  • @toby-jeanne_almy
    @toby-jeanne_almy ปีที่แล้ว +1998

    Some folks forget that marriage is the STARTING line, not the finish line! Always improving ones self is critical to keeping the other person interested

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +156

      Yes! So important to remember. It’s important to be comfortable around your spouse but not too comfortable that you no longer try to seduce them/get them to desire you. This really helps to keep a marriage fresh & exciting

    • @EssandohandCo
      @EssandohandCo ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wowwwwww as a newlywed this is a whole word!!!

    • @PrincessMavenKittyDarkholme
      @PrincessMavenKittyDarkholme ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JasmyneTheodora I'm lesbian

    • @danielgeremew1465
      @danielgeremew1465 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@PrincessMavenKittyDarkholme dear sister pls turn to ur heart, it is unnatural

    • @PrincessMavenKittyDarkholme
      @PrincessMavenKittyDarkholme ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@danielgeremew1465 is that wrong

  • @leah38521
    @leah38521 ปีที่แล้ว +1340

    "The best way to influence your man is by praying for him" Agreed!!

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    "What it takes to get a man to bed is not the same as what it takes to get a man to the alter" . Edges snatched 😫

  • @AyuJogaComigo
    @AyuJogaComigo ปีที่แล้ว +157

    I can 100% agree on the "giving peace" part. When I met my husband, he always told me how his work would drain him out, both physically and mentally, and how I was the only person who gave him peace and a sense of calm.

    • @LA-cm9uo
      @LA-cm9uo ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How did you do it?

    • @LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer
      @LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@LA-cm9uoNobody can give anyone peace it’s about coming together and being peaceful together, so can I be peaceful with you in my company or am I better off avoiding you ? Hope this helps

    • @LA-cm9uo
      @LA-cm9uo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer thanks. i've been working on being more peaceful myself & by myself

  • @joyeffiong4240
    @joyeffiong4240 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    10 ways to keep your man interest
    * Give him problem to solve
    * He is attracted to your heart not accolades and accomplishment.
    * Don't try to compete with him
    * Be gentle yet firm with your boundaries
    * Don't appear feminine to beg a man
    * Be wholesome
    * Feminine mystery
    * Identify your unique feminine quirks
    * Don't make him think that you are more interested in him than you actually are.

    • @joyeffiong4240
      @joyeffiong4240 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Let him be chivelrous

    • @SH-vj2ce
      @SH-vj2ce ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you!

    • @Bessatra
      @Bessatra ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That last one

    • @joyeffiong4240
      @joyeffiong4240 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Bessatra what about it, I don't get.

    • @hotstreak9805
      @hotstreak9805 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I disagree with the first point - if you are intentionally creating problems that's a manipulative woman and a red flag

  • @mybee123
    @mybee123 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I was on vacation with him and I went down to the pool to get some work done and chill and I couldn't get this wodden folding chair to open cause I wasn't strong enough and I needed it to sit at the table to work comfortably.
    So I text him "I need help" expecting him to reply asking what I needed help with.
    I kid you not, I put the phone down, turned around and in less than 5 seconds he was standing right behind me after having sprinted downstairs when he read my text😂.
    Besides being startled by his sudden appearance I immediately realised how much a man enjoys coming to the rescue when he's genuinely invested in you. I really think I've found my future husband 🥰

  • @navijha122
    @navijha122 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    On the point of letting men be chivalrous, this reminds me of a quote from Uncle Iroh from ATLA where he says, "there is nothing wrong with letting people who love you help you," and I think this very much applies to us women in this context.

  • @empresslove0
    @empresslove0 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I love my man so much. We hold our masculine & feminine polarities so sweetly. We’re so in love & to be submissive to him is an honor.

  • @izzyborn8917
    @izzyborn8917 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    Honestly you’ve been such a game changer for me. I’m a 16 year old christain girl who has two very aggressive and strong willed parents. While I love them their ways of doing things and how a woman should act or a couple should behave never really jibes with me. I started watching your videos and immediately thought “I want to be her friend”. The way you think and act is so much like how I want to be, and following your example has been so heartening for me. I’ve never really had any role models but I’m proud to say your my first one :D

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Oh I am so honored to be a role model of yours! Thank you *so* much for these thoughtful words.

    • @juliai9960
      @juliai9960 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same!

    • @eleasy1976
      @eleasy1976 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I am a 17 year old Christian girl😁 and I can relate a lot! Even though I have no boyfriend, no one I am interested in, and not even close to being married, I have come to realize how important it is for young women to learn how to be a wife. It has motivated me to be on top of cleaning, be more responsible and prepare for being a home maker and wife some day. These days it seems crazy to think of a 16/17 year old girl wanting to learn to be a good wife but it is absolutely important. I have actually become more happy imagining my self being a wife when I have to do hard house work😂 imagining myself doing it for my imaginary, yet someday husband is very motivating…and strangely makes me feel closer to God.

    • @Whyamisohot19
      @Whyamisohot19 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@eleasy1976 and I’m 19 yrs old, I’ll be catching you in future :)

    • @missam3404
      @missam3404 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is so nice

  • @Melaniegallegos76
    @Melaniegallegos76 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    there's so much things women have to be aware of or things that we have to think of all the time . i don't want to write here about how women are different from men, how women have harder life than men and all this stuff, i always think of the things that are postitive and bring men and women closer together and both genders feel well together which can bring me to lots of things . i can start with walks and end up with bed experience and there i always telm my friends to use that new spanish fly which kicks you a lot

  • @buyi249
    @buyi249 ปีที่แล้ว +428

    Thank u Jasmyne for educating women on such crucial topics. Our true power is in our femininity as women, sadly most women try to be like men and think men are attracted to what us women are attracted to. If u ask a woman what qualities she has that can keep a man she will name things that are not at all what masculine men want. I love being a traditional woman, being a nurturing and feminine inspiration to my masculine husband makes him give me everything above and beyond what i need cause thats what true femininity does to masculine man.

  • @melancholicnitefise
    @melancholicnitefise ปีที่แล้ว +491

    You are so so wise. My mother’s a feminist and I wasn’t raised in a Christian home (I became a Christian two years ago) so I am expected to be constantly chasing academic/career-related success, when in reality, I just want to be laid-back and bask in my femininity, serving my future husband and raising children. You are like the wise big sister I never had

    • @audiannichealing
      @audiannichealing ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💚💛💙

    • @psb.shakira
      @psb.shakira ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I really agree & resonate with your perspective! Coincidentally, I also don’t have an older sister lol

    • @kiwiverde8592
      @kiwiverde8592 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      and then you get divorced and you don't have a career

    • @petrichor2973
      @petrichor2973 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@kiwiverde8592 exactly lmao these damn pick mes

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Go for your academic success serving a husband is never a good option... listen to your mother, then study and embrace all the things that you do with this energy a femine one... femenine energy is not related at being uneducated...

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thanx Kenji💓🐺😏😂 a jawline that slice bread? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That's a thing? Have I been living under a rock.
    1. Give masculine, problems to solve/ask for his help- express gratitude in his efforts and dedication.
    2. He is attracted to your heart, not accolades/Build with him- I want to have fun with my masculine, I'm too goofy and playful to be serious all the time.🥰
    3. Don't try to compete with him/ he has his friends and job for that- nurturing and peaceful oasis, for his day in the competitive world
    4. Be gentle yet firm, with your boundaries- respect yourself, and do not allow something that bothers you by staying silent. Address your standards calmly, with patience, and maturely. Release the anger.
    5. Do not appear feminine, to manipulate a man- true colors always come out eventually.
    6. Be wholesome - Not the same as nativity, but pure serene kindness while remaining humble in my wisdom w/o being such a know it all. Free spirit innocence, hee hee😸 Don't allow world to dirty me up
    7. Feminine mystery- Dressing modestly, and carrying myself like a slow opening gift.
    8. Identify my unique, feminine quirks- embrace and express my lightheartedness and prankster quirk
    9. Don't make him think, you are more impressed with him than you actually are- authentically express myself when it comes to my individual personality, my likes/dislikes (this I definitely know how to do)
    10. Allow him to be chivalrous - let him walk on the outside of you, hold doors open for me, give up their seat for me (my father and mother taught me, the importance of this) as an act of protection and provision.
    11. Do not mother him- offering solicited advice instead of interfering
    Dumplin' did all of these things for me💙🦁 all the time.

  • @realpristine
    @realpristine ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I’ve seen the way men reacted when I curse, shocked … almost disgusted lol
    I’ve stopped doing that since then 😅
    Thank you for the tips💛

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for watching!!

    • @justimani4
      @justimani4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@cake yah exactly not all men will immediately love you if you do whats in the video its vastly different for everyone

  • @faywillowstream
    @faywillowstream ปีที่แล้ว +118

    i need to heal my heart and my hormones - i’m very attracted to feminine men right now. which, would be fine, except being in my masculine is exhausting and hardening. i want to return to the femininity little me so easily expressed. 💗

    • @lindsaypeek63
      @lindsaypeek63 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Beautiful. I think many of us are ok this journey. I was stuck in my masculine and got burn out autoimmune hashimotos endometriosis etc. I know it’s related

    • @thebravebird
      @thebravebird ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The adrenaline, cortisol and testosterone breaks us down and definitely causes problems.

    • @redacted461
      @redacted461 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'll be praying for you ❤️

    • @faywillowstream
      @faywillowstream ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@redacted461 thank you 💗

  • @gbikamakanuchi8036
    @gbikamakanuchi8036 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am seeking to become a much more masculine man, and I’ve gain a new perspective on your side, and this truly feels so important for me to learn this. So I appreciate this Jasmyne

  • @tymaraaustin8927
    @tymaraaustin8927 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You are a God sent. Me and my partner are clashing so much because of me still removing some of these modern women traits. Your videos are helping me everyday and staying consistent and checking myself everyday is really helping.

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So glad you find these videos valuable. Another coming soon this weekend 💞

    • @ImmanuelisKing
      @ImmanuelisKing ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It takes a strong woman to be admit that. Good luck ! (:

  • @2trillavivv
    @2trillavivv ปีที่แล้ว +14

    agree, having sex early does blind you. i’ve done this and it turned out to be one of my most toxic relationships. promise myself i’ll wait next time

  • @6matylda
    @6matylda ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Recently, my bike broke down (the chain fell off) and my husband was very unhappy and condescending of me when I asked for his help. He said I should be able to do such things by myself, because what if it happens when noone is around. And very often my husband behaves in a disrespectful way towards me when I don't know how to do some "manly stuff" :( I wish I could be feminine in that way, but all I get is contempt :((

    • @Cindy99765
      @Cindy99765 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If he is behaving that way, what does the rest of your marriage look like? He doesn't seem like a caring person.

  • @autumnlevesque2210
    @autumnlevesque2210 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This has to be the best video I've found on this topic. I'm a pretty independent and confident girl, I know my values, I stay busy and productive, and I know I don't need a man. But as I'm starting to date someone I really like for my first time, I'm learning I need to fall back and let him be a man and embrace my femininity and the nature and beauty of the two working together in the way they were designed to. Thank you for the value you shared!

  • @Scintiilla
    @Scintiilla ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Thank you for giving us this treasure! Currently going through a breakup and reflecting and seeing how I've been a bit out of touch with my femininity and your videos have definitely helped. Can't wait for your upcoming videos ☺

  • @terri.schenk
    @terri.schenk ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I cannot relay clearly enough how impressed I am with the wisdom and grace that you so clearly have! I will be sharing your videos!

  • @DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL
    @DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Personally I’ve attracted healthy men when I’m not even thinking about how to attract them…
    I do, however, always have a vibrational match of what I want and that goes with everything
    For example I realized I get gifts so much because I’m always getting gifts like flowers for myself and other people see it

  • @prodbyamy
    @prodbyamy ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Thank you so much for educating us young women on the importance and power of the feminine energy. It’s something that has been lost 🙏🏻

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much for watching, I really appreciate it 🥹

    • @Yasmine-qd6nu
      @Yasmine-qd6nu ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg AR self. I love your videos!!!!

    • @kiwiverde8592
      @kiwiverde8592 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seriously, are you getting educated by TH-cam through videos of random people? the are a lot of crazy people that do videos

  • @rachewilliams2243
    @rachewilliams2243 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you so much Jasmyne for this video. I like how you addressed that being feminine doesn't mean not speaking up and setting boundaries. I think it's easy to not do that because of the fear of people thinking your confrontational but respect is key in any relationship that we have. (Im learning and praticing this as well). Great advice.

  • @loveio5292
    @loveio5292 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    everything in her is just beautiful, her skin is caramel and glowing .. her voice is like a disney character I love her

  • @staceyv2683
    @staceyv2683 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so glad I found you! These reminders and tips are always super helpful because you're right, no one ever teaches us these things. Thank you a million times over!

  • @xxxticktockbigclock1234
    @xxxticktockbigclock1234 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    As a man myself I can say that this is spot on.

  • @DevinJamalSims
    @DevinJamalSims ปีที่แล้ว +33

    As a young Christian man I’ll say this is great content for the young women out there !!!

  • @miltonsmith9658
    @miltonsmith9658 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Dear Jasmyne:
    When the stand for biblical feminity reaches it's peaks in unpopularity and personal discomfort, please know that the practical wisdom and timeless truths you're expressing not only glow like a fabulous gem that shimmers light into a darkened room, but that it's brilliant rays of life shine hope on to a dying world, whose embrace would reverse it's downward spiral. O, would that my estranged wife and I had operated more fully in these principles with ourselves and each other! It would have made a positive difference for our marriage and family. So please continue to give us more of this great content...
    Yours truly..

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much for taking the time to write such a kind message. 🥹

  • @juliettb1565
    @juliettb1565 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am so impressed with the way you carry yourself and the way you speak so softly and humbly. I will definitely be tuning in, more.

  • @SurrenderanceMitchell
    @SurrenderanceMitchell ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You're really right. A masculine man would always tell you he likes you

  • @ivyalicewamz
    @ivyalicewamz ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can't lie, this was the boost I needed.. you spoke of some things that really touched my like leading with my heart and grace.. God bless you sista 🥺😭😘❤️

  • @PrincesaDeDios74713
    @PrincesaDeDios74713 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for talking about toxic femininity. I tend to lean that way, agreeable to a fault. I've never heard anyone talk about it and I'm glad I have something to work on in myself to better my marriage

  • @kimberlyregina
    @kimberlyregina ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Some people cannot just be their selves because they are terrible people. It’s insane. I am soooooo happy to have married my best friend in life and very thankful to the creator the almighty for bribing us together.

  • @Diana_222
    @Diana_222 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Thanks for this. I’m 19 and single but it’s nice to hear advice for when the time comes. New subscriber 💗

  • @kirs1091
    @kirs1091 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I love your channel. I appreciate how polished and professional your videos are. You can tell you really consider what you are going to say down to the word.

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you so much. I do try to plan my videos out thoroughly, I really don’t want to lead anyone astray 💕

  • @raquel_loves_her_dog
    @raquel_loves_her_dog ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love your channel so much. You're like the place to go for modern wives 👏 you put everything into perspective so gracefully. Can't wait for the next video!

  • @NnalueIfeoma
    @NnalueIfeoma ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thank you Jasmyne for sharing this.
    This will help a lot of persons both married and single.

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for saying this and for watching 🙏💖

  • @jbb8261
    @jbb8261 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I can confirm all of these. I practiced them before I met my husband/when I met him and value them even more to keep up my part in our marriage ❤

  • @claudettedupont
    @claudettedupont ปีที่แล้ว +18

    So so good! ESP the toxic femininity and letting things slide with our boundaries! Thank you

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! And thank you for watching!

  • @thestarinhereyes2
    @thestarinhereyes2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It’s always so peaceful and safe everytime I watch your videos 🥹💚 thank you!

  • @MsLoyal100
    @MsLoyal100 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Been binging your videos! Absolutely love this channel and your overall message that I aim to embody ❤

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ohhh thank you so much. I’ll be uploading more often up until mid December when bebe arrives so please stay tuned!

  • @its.graceaudrey
    @its.graceaudrey ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This video speaks louder especially after your testimony. I pray God continues to shift our beliefs and pains as loving and caring beliefs to be able to attract masculine men and live balanced relationships.

    • @audiannichealing
      @audiannichealing ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💞💕💟

    • @blossom1290
      @blossom1290 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pray for those masculine men to be caring as well

  • @heatherk9862
    @heatherk9862 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you for this. I love being feminine and I feel this opened my eyes a lot. It’s exhausting how society pushes you to be so masculine.

    • @blossom1290
      @blossom1290 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish they would take down negative social medias and keep the positive ones

  • @haleytruslow7200
    @haleytruslow7200 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am adding “a jawline that cuts bread” to my list 😂😂

  • @verycherry4459
    @verycherry4459 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is my first video I came across with you and I subscribed immediately. So many others just reiterate what everyone else is saying but you have a fresh perspective and new information. Thank you. Be blessed.

  • @juliannaslyfe
    @juliannaslyfe ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear Jasmyne,
    Thank you so much for these videos. Due to my home I have been forced to grow up quickly and while I’m still in high school the end goal for me is a strong Christian husband. In my past relationship I was on the same level of masculine energy as him which I do believe strongly ended our relationship. Now I have been forced to realize how much I was in my masculine and not okay. Your videos have helped so much and I deeply appreciate them

  • @jg1681
    @jg1681 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Yay a new video! Thank you Jasmyne. Yesterday my crush asked me out and this video will really help.

  • @serenamorrr7921
    @serenamorrr7921 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I get so excited when I get upload notifications from you !!!!!!! Thanks so much for the education and words of wisdom.

  • @theparttimehomemaker
    @theparttimehomemaker ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your channel is a gem for single women- your subscribers are so lucky!

  • @lilliaberry5415
    @lilliaberry5415 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you so much Jasmyne 💕 I love how you explain it so well. Will surely implement them👌

  • @norawalsh6980
    @norawalsh6980 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Than you Jasmine! I'm trying to detox myself of the toxic femeninity world we are in and you give de advices I wish my mother ever gave to me. You are a help and a figure I can look up to ♥️

  • @Rere.44
    @Rere.44 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you very much for awakening the features of true femininity in us, which the new standards of our time has almost eliminated.You also have a very calm and convincing style of dialogue, I love you very much and support everything you offer

  • @jacquelintibbs4455
    @jacquelintibbs4455 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am in the middle of learning this even though I’ve been married for 8 years. Thank you for this!

  • @agatawokulska8600
    @agatawokulska8600 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely beautiful! 🌸
    Thank you so so much for these 😊🧡 Such an abundance of inspiration 🥰

  • @leah3355
    @leah3355 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're my comfort youtuber to watch it's so calming to watch all of your videos Thank you so much ☺️

  • @ms-yh4xj
    @ms-yh4xj ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I think all of these are nice tips, but I truly believe that if he genuinely likes you he‘ll be interested for a long time. just be yourself, it‘s really that simple.

    • @proverbs31university
      @proverbs31university ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s a feminist idea it’s not biological especially if you’re not feminine

  • @melissaleigh3013
    @melissaleigh3013 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am loving this new femininity movement… im happy i found you

  • @z.s.r.h
    @z.s.r.h ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i feel like crying. my mom was very emotionally unstable for a long time and treated my dad and my brother and i really badly growing up. she was angry and loud so often, and though i naturally do not have that in my nature, i did not grow up knowing how to be feminine. a family friend of our's mom was so similar to how i want to be growing up, and still today. i love my mom and she's a different person today but it doesn't help me now in navigating my marriage.

  • @adipoem
    @adipoem ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such great advice. I hope TH-cam doesn't cancel it.

  • @ily2yy
    @ily2yy ปีที่แล้ว +48

    she is so well spoken, Miss Jasmyne can you make a video about how to speak like a lady but still be firm in situations when you need to.. thank you

    • @kaylingardner_
      @kaylingardner_ ปีที่แล้ว +11

      yes please this!!! i need help with this so bad. as a teen in today’s society i follow a lot of what other people do. :(

    • @alanaaga3890
      @alanaaga3890 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!

  • @raeofsunshine144
    @raeofsunshine144 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Can you talk about where you met your husband and how you had the conversation about saving yourself for marriage? I also am saving myself and it’s not easy to find a man with those values so I’d love to hear where you met.

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +20

      We were both already Orthodox Christian when we began dating so chastity was already a value for us 💕 If you find a Christian man, there’s no having to worry about that conversation thankfully

  • @thegamegabon
    @thegamegabon 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for the video Jasmyne. As a man that has seen some of the toxicity of current dating it is nice to hear a mature view for the rest of us that truly want a healthy relationship. One point I want to re-emphasize it. "Peace" is extremely important for some of us. Especially if we're trying to take our life to the next level for us and our family. We will work harder, endure bullshit from the outside and grind through long term plans as long as we have peace waiting for us at home 🙂. Typical story of the miner or soldier looking at a picture of his wife before heading back to the field. The reverse to that is the man that stops by a bar after work to have his moment of peace because he knows he's gonna get into something when he gets home

  • @Rebel_sincedayone
    @Rebel_sincedayone 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Some men are out here wasting women’s child bearing years then leaving them once the woman turns 30. Some give you a promise ring, get a place together and split the bills until he’s financially stable on his own and leaves. This didn’t happen to me but I’ve noticed this behavior quite a lot with couples.

  • @annagrace1159
    @annagrace1159 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nailed it!
    💅unpacked this topic perfectly dear!🙏🏽💯
    God BLESS

  • @marriagerestorationreconci4672
    @marriagerestorationreconci4672 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That was so true and so sweetly put. I love your videos teaching the art of feminity 😊

  • @bellastone-le9eb
    @bellastone-le9eb ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are so helpful. In the first video I was made aware of how many mistakes I’ve been making and need to correct and work on. I realized how manny of these mistakes have been affecting my life and relationships. I’ve had to act strong and tough from my background but I’ve found that’s not the way and now I realize what I’ve been doing wrong. Thank you so much for these insightful videos. 💕🌸

  • @EmilyKWolfe
    @EmilyKWolfe ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Jasmyne, can you talk more about how you balance being a feminine Christian wife while also running your own business (being a businesswoman)? I’m struggling with finding balance between wanting to be a “homemaker” while also wanting to have some sort of job outside the home.

    • @deenaccount8994
      @deenaccount8994 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @dayliz it makes sense but just for more context, do you guys live together? If that’s the case then the years before having children should be more focused on you and your self and being as feminine as possible.
      Maybe you can balance working and being feminine, after all of the working do things that ignite that energy, take a nice bath with flowers and candles, do something as feminine to almost remind you of who you are as a woman.

    • @iambrittanywoods
      @iambrittanywoods ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m praying for clarity on this very thing. I currently work, but I am really feeling a strong desire to tend to my home more. Everything seems all over the place.

    • @carolinpurayidom4570
      @carolinpurayidom4570 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can be a homely wife while running a business like when its just you and him be that homely wife ( if you have the energy to.) or in your home be that (although I do reccomend sharing household duties). But out of that be a boss woman i guess

    • @leansipperr5494
      @leansipperr5494 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it's impossible to be an extremely established businesswoman and a good homemaker at the same time, but it's definitely possible to find balance with a small business, especially if it's related to femininity/motherhood like a baby clothing business for example

  • @theonlybessie
    @theonlybessie ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I absolutely admire how you & your husband had a friendship before marriage.
    Thus, could you please make a video on platonic relationships between men & women?
    We live in a world where "friends with benefits" is the talk of the day & people of opposite genders don't know how to truly be friends for the predominant thinking that one party wants something from the other.
    Also, could you please make a video on maturity? Everyone talks about it but what are the true qualities a mature woman possesses?💜

    • @Sahara333
      @Sahara333 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree! That would be a good topic because I see soo many people say men and women can’t be friends, someone always catches feelings. This has led me to be uncomfortable with having male friendships. Most of the male friendships I’ve had, the friend ends up liking me, even one friend that was married and I had to set him straight and cut him off.

    • @legendaryclarity
      @legendaryclarity ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello, I would recommend Pastor R C Blakes Jr. youtube channel for those things.

    • @legendaryclarity
      @legendaryclarity ปีที่แล้ว

      And the late Dr. Myles Munroe

    • @theonlybessie
      @theonlybessie ปีที่แล้ว

      @legendaryclarity6273 Hello!
      Thank you very much for your recommendations! I will definitely make research accordingly.

  • @empresslove0
    @empresslove0 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When I say I’m submissive to a man so many woman SHAKE in anger but honestly it’s the best thing I could have done. The Independent woman lifestyle burnt me out!!!! I choose to be soft, submissive & need a man. Man needs woman & woman needs man. 🤍 We have the best calm communication even when our perspectives are different & it makes me so grateful. 🥺🤍

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for sharing your perspective on this!

  • @noyemisarkisian7842
    @noyemisarkisian7842 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    There's a downside to wholesomeness though, if you don't partake in the activities that most do (getting drunk, high, have random relations or dress a certain way) you're often left out. Maybe it's because I'm still a university student idk but I feel invisible because of the way I am. Have no one to talk to about it either.

    • @DearGeneva2011
      @DearGeneva2011 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I was the same way and always called myself an "old soul". Be okay with being left out of that. Nothing good comes of it and even if you partake in it you won'tbe happy with yourself. Find friends in other ways like a book club, church, or doing other activities you enjoy.

    • @LadyVioIa
      @LadyVioIa ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Being “left out” is much more preferable to “being included”, if “being included” means you have to downgrade yourself to acting like a wild animal lol. Like DearGeneva suggested, find some worthwhile activities and friends that will impact you positively. ❤

    • @rachelwertheim2815
      @rachelwertheim2815 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey I know this comment is old but you’re not missing out on anything. The reason I clicked on this video is actually because I HAVE had random relations, been doing drugs/getting drunk and I recently found a man who is very masculine wanting to provide for me. The main issue he has with me: I was too accessible and reckless. Be wholesome, stay wholesome. It’s worth it. Don’t end up in the same pit I did ❤

  • @misswednesday299
    @misswednesday299 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your videos always put a smile on my face, Jasmyne!

  • @taniavillicana9780
    @taniavillicana9780 ปีที่แล้ว

    “A jawline that can slice bread”
    So happy I came across your videos ❤

  • @margaridaguerreiro802
    @margaridaguerreiro802 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am the girl who when asked if anything's wrong, always answers "nothing". Even if I'm not fine. I have trouble opening up and showing my vulnerability sometimes. I hope someday it becomes easier.

  • @danika9448
    @danika9448 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Jasmine, you are so eloquent and share such wise words in this video ☺️

  • @universalsubliminals1174
    @universalsubliminals1174 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    thank you for this!! could you maybe talk about HOW to gently set boundaries? what are some things to say if something makes you uncomfortable? i'm an insane people pleaser and can be a pushover if i don't want to say no and hurt someone's feelings

  • @lucykabi8339
    @lucykabi8339 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's my first time listening to your content and I love it
    It's refreshing not hearing the toxic feminity being preached around

  • @Abmarp
    @Abmarp ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like point 9. That’s something I’m going to work on.
    I’m glad to learn something.

  • @christinapeebles361
    @christinapeebles361 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You're so well worded! Thank you for the advice

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much and thank you so much for listening

  • @Waterlily321
    @Waterlily321 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you, this was so beautifully said! you are so sweet, it felt as if my big sister was giving me advice. I was even taking notes lol.

  • @kelliezee
    @kelliezee ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My ex used to get extremely aggressive when I let myself grimace, I'm so disappointed i chose to argue instead of respecting my boundaries and moving on.

  • @smile4cla
    @smile4cla 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've just started my journey towards connecting with my femininity. My husband is not as masculine as I would like, so I'm hoping that as I embrace my femininity that he will become the masculine man that I crave.

  • @opabinnier
    @opabinnier ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope all women (and men) will watch your channel because our society needs that to happen; you are expressive and level-headed and speak the truth. I am very happy you found your way to the Orthodox Church which is your true home. (Being born into the Orthodox faith is just one of the undeserved blessings which have always surrounded me and given me strength... I grieve for all those who have not been so fortunate- I cannot understand how such a life can be endured.)

  • @mahimatripathi5234
    @mahimatripathi5234 ปีที่แล้ว

    So beautifully put! Thank you for this video

  • @Riah_Raine
    @Riah_Raine ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing video as always, thank you so much for what you do; this is a message the world needs right now and I love that God has given you the boldness to speak that message.

  • @earthq3945
    @earthq3945 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wordtt! Dropping universal principle gems!!!

  • @shoshanas5251
    @shoshanas5251 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You can already see the trait of men being attracted to sweetness & wholesomeness at a very young age. My oldest boy always gravitated towards the sweet & demure types as young as 3. One day, he told me a certain Andy was cute. I thought Andy was a boy. Then his preschool teachers told me that he and Andy actually have a thing. He would always save her a seat & are always playing together. I realized my boy already has a “crush”. Couple years later, similar type of girl. He has a different smile (his dimples would come out) when I mention that girl’s name. He likes petite frame, quiet and innocent-looking ones. There are more outspoken girls in his class and one particular girl would approach him. This girl liked giving hugs and my son would stand there frozen. I asked him one time what he thought of that girl and he just nonchalantly answered, “she’s okay”. I didn’t see his dimples.

  • @Chrissynysc
    @Chrissynysc ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a breath of fresh air.... thank you.

  • @DominiqueFrancon
    @DominiqueFrancon ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Jasmyne, this video is a masterpiece. Brava! This is so educational, down to earth and factual. I am inspired by this beautiful video.

    • @JasmyneTheodora
      @JasmyneTheodora  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How thoughtful 🥹🥹 thank you endlessly for saying this

  • @jillgreene9225
    @jillgreene9225 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful TH-cam....I'M passing this ON!!! Listened 5 times....will refer back to this as well🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Judith-ye7pk
    @Judith-ye7pk ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank YOU for this video, it was so wonderful. I really needed everything you said in this video💗🌸

  • @cnbri30
    @cnbri30 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So well-spoken. It’s delightful.

  • @leansipperr5494
    @leansipperr5494 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    in a time where modernity became destructive instead of helpful, I really appreciate your effort in reminding people the basics; our natural essence and healthy traditional practices.

  • @littlefaithbigblessings
    @littlefaithbigblessings 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed to hear this. Felt like you were speaking directly to me.

  • @Spongebobsmom
    @Spongebobsmom ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Jasmyne I love your hair and makeup! I always struggle trying to get my type 4 hair to look the way I want when it’s down. Also, your makeup is so light and natural but still so pretty. Can we get a hair and makeup tutorial?

    • @Somfrobeauty
      @Somfrobeauty ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thissss!!! Please we really need this

  • @fariannagreen
    @fariannagreen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😊 Apuntando más para cuando llegue el momento 😍 ... Thx sis💓

  • @kayevabella
    @kayevabella ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this was so beautiful, your elegance and poise resonated so much! I especially enjoyed your discussion on feminine mystery. That alone is a game changer piece of advice. :) thank you for a lovely video!

  • @sinead6759
    @sinead6759 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this, really great advice and I needed to hear this at this moment! you're so pretty btw!💗

  • @elizabethadewunmi347
    @elizabethadewunmi347 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is beautiful
    Well done and thank you ❤️