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How To See New Romantic Partners More Clearly
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 พ.ค. 2023
- Do you have a pattern of choosing romantic partners that end up being different than you thought they were? This video will help you to see new romantic partners more clearly.
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If you have a pattern or theme of seeing new romantic partners as wonderful or perfect, then this video can help you to more realistically and subtly see who and how the new romantic partner really is.
Noah with the sauce
Such good videos. 10 years later and I'm still working on feeling this pain, as he describes. So simple, yet such a journey. Thank you.
Your advise is life changing and so practical. Thank you
It’s nice seeing you again Noah :)
Seconded!
I’m pretty sure I used to watch your videos to ease panic attacks many years ago. I’m glad you’re still making videos!
Also great to see the progression. The videos 10 years ago were technical, precise, and very clean. These are more genuine and you can tell he's comfortable being himself. It's inspiring!
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Thank you Noah this was incredibly insightful and valuable. I read a book once that changed my life that said, the ideal relationship is two people entering to give, not to get. And that's stuck with me as my ideal. This video helped me for formulate what's in the way of me being the giver, not needing another. I'm happy to see I'm on the path of releasing the last energies in the way. Best of luck to all the givers finding their way back home 💚
Thank you, Noah! Your videos have helped me tremendously. You are a great teacher/therapist/mentor!
:) You're so welcome Amy!
You have the purest gift of rapid alignment to the key that unlocks the shadow of our souls . I have taken 1:1 sessions in the past and the speed at which you hit the core of the issue / problem is laser sharp . You are a gifted grounded no bullshit mirror that will help others find freedom from their repeated cycles when they are ready . Thank you for being You 🙏
Wow. Thank you for the beautiful reflection. You're very welcome :)
I feel better just listening to your voice, so calm and reassuring and wise clear words and explaination. Really helping me to understand and get it xxx
Priceless! 3 days in and believe me my outlook has changed drastically! Powerful stuff Noah. Thank you so much! ❤
Wonderful! You're welcome!
Thank you. I needed this.
You're welcome Sara
You’re very intelligent. Yeah I always hope their the one perfect match for me but they never are so the problem is me having that hope and expectation.
This video is very insightful, interesting, and helpful. Thank you, Noah. 🐇🌺
You're welcome!
I'm glad the new video is up. I'm keep watching your videos whenever I feel depressed while studying. Thank you. Wish me luck for the exam on next saturday!
고마워요 노아.
Loved this video, your explanations were really clear. One fear I've noticed recently is the fear of being alone when I'm 60 when my parent's would likely pass away. I'm only 24 so a long way off, but the reason is because I can see myself not having any social contact at all for the last 25 years of my life when they pass (i'm assuming I'll live to 85 so fingers crossed lol). I have 2 friends right now and my parents and that's all of my social contact. I can see myself not seeing those 2 friends anywhere near as much in a few years when they both get married and have kids. I find it difficult to think of things to say during conversations so making new friends is hard. I only still have those 2 because we basically grew up together and they're used to me not saying anything. I can see the the same thing happening when trying to find a romantic partner. I just wouldn't be able to think of anything to say so I would never find a partner because I would be too boring and silent. That would leave me with just my parents for social contact for the rest of my life. I'm an only child, so when they die I wouldn't even have brothers or sisters that would visit. Right now I'm actually fine when I'm alone. I'm alone most of the time and I enjoy it. I've been alone for weeks and months and I enjoy it. But when I'm 55 or 60 when they die, it's the idea of being alone for such a prolonged period, not weeks or months, but decades. Even then though I do think I would be fine, it's just slightly disconcerting to think about lol.
I hear you. A lot can change in that amount of time :)
@@NoahElkrief Thanks Noah :)
Thank you Noah for another beautiful video. 🙏🏼 If you are single what chance in hell do the rest of us have ??🤣
Joking aside as someone who was married for over 20 years, my experience is that if you go into a relationship feeling unworthy or unloved or lonely, it is likely that you will continue to feel it in the relationship as you will probably choose someone who reinforces this belief for you.
I don’t think it is possible on the level of form to find people who don’t have the spectrum of qualities - good and bad- The very nature of 3D world is duality and that’s what makes it feel lacking, judgy and tricky. It is also that which makes it so beautiful and so much fun. So as long as we hang around there, these things will continue to exist and any relationship will probably trigger that bottomless pit of pain that we carry from many lifetimes. The pain/pleasure cycle continues.
Its like being in a movie. Can be wonderful, can also be a nightmare, unlikely to be a continuous RomCom which is what most people (including myself) hope for.
Even this is actually beautiful and perfect when we see it for what it is.
To truly connect with that deeper love my experience was to go higher and connect with unity consciousness, really seeing our oneness and everyone and everything as extensions of myself. From this space everyone is beautiful and perfect and lovable and I could be in a relationship with everyone/ anyone. The paradox is, from this space I don’t even feel the need for a special relationship. It’s only when Im not in that space and feel separate and lacking that I do.
Catch 22.
Maybe when two really conscious people connect beyond the 3D level of form that’s where the magic happens!
Big hugs and so much love with all my heart!
Keep drinking that water and have a beautiful week (glass just gets bigger!!🤣)
Madhuri
Wish I had enough courage to attract a partner first. 😢
I put the 100th Like 😊
It would feel really good to have a good friend in your potential lifelong love partner. My father was the strong authoritative type who provided for us but was emotionally unpredictable- therefore I feel like I knew him not. It’s very hard for me to feel like I’m seeing eye to eye with any love interest… what does this say about me? I really would need to do the work on myself. I’ve been on a few occasions where it wouldn’t be considered dating, but getting to know the persons, and after months of phone calls and texts and coffee sit downs , one guy was so calm to the point where he felt like home, and another guy’s easy going manner made me want to cuddle and sleep for days. These guys were the total opposite of my father’s haughty personality. So, I found calmness within myself and now I call myself home. And realized maybe I’m not looking to find a man after all. I like being single 😮! There are lots of people we can like, but to feel chemistry for or love, it would have to be a miracle from God for me. Thanks Noah for sharing… it mighty take me days or months for me to get to know my father in the way you describe. Wish me luck!
Good luck!
@@NoahElkrief you are the best! Thank you 🙏
Thank you, Noah! I see a lot of similar qualities between my father and my previous partners. It means I am projecting my father on my partners. Since I did not like those qualities in my father, I wont like them in my partner either and such relationships won't be happy and fulfilling. Did I understand it right?
If your partners often similar qualities to your father, it means you are still looking for your father to give you the love, kindness, safety that you never got from him. You look for someone similar to him because you want to experience the satisfaction of the father desire that was never fulfilled. So, you would need to resolve whatever feels painful/unmet with your father in order to start being attracted to partners who have unique qualities.
That was so deeeep
Why does it seem like all women are taken ? 😢
I imagine it's because you felt your mother didn't have time and space for you. But there could be many possible reasons why you feel this way.