Rejection, Jealousy, and Revenge | The Murder of Ryan Poston
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911 Call: • 911 call: 'I killed my...
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This 911 operator deserves a medal she is so cool and unbothered. Doesn't skip a beat, asks all the right questions.
My same exact thoughts as I listened to her. I was trying to figure out what could be going on through her mind. She’s probably heard so many stories like this and how they usually turn out. She knows so she knew the right things to ask.
exactly! i hear so many bad 911 calls this one was so good kudos out to her
I loved when she repeated that she shot him again after "shooting him in self defense"??!
She was almost a little annoyed lol. “I killed my boyfriend in self defense” you heard the operator sigh, like ugh not this again before she started asking questions…
A lot of times they get more relevant info then the police do 😮
The way the operator says "So you shot him instead of calling 9-1-1?" was so chilling. You can hear it throw her off as she scrambles for a different sympathetic angle. Ugh...
That poor man.
@@advena996 my comment was in reference to her shooting him multiple times after he was already on the ground incapacitated but still alive. The creepy part was that she said she shot him "to put him out of his misery" like a sick animal.
If this were an actual DV situation where the victim shot their aggressor, I would certainly be more understanding about them shooting or even killing in self defense.
@@onlyinsomniac yeah I agree that's insane.
@@advena996 Why would you be relentlessly pursuing your abuser? The "self -defense" story doesn't fly when YOU'RE the stalker. I think you're crazy. You have some issues related to being a victim of DV. Your statement doesn't say much about this case - but it says a lot about you.
Also when she asked her about being slammed into the couch and not having injuries
@Hulda's Journey • idk about the US but here i don't think it would raise much questions that in panic someone made sure the other party can't hurt them anymore (by death), you're in panic and not thinking things through (but if you would, still a lot of abusers get the victim at the end, so..), i mean if they survive and say they never abused you and you can't prove it, you get attempted murder instead? not much better
the question was asked because she said she killed him to put him out of his misery, not in panic or to defend, which is completely different. she literally killed him (if that was true) because she judged that paramedics can't help him anymore, that's not self defense that's murder lol
This dispatcher deserves an award. She got to the bottom of everything in 2 minutes and worded it in the best possible way for the future jury. Amazing.
That 911 operator did the interrogation and got the full confession all by herself. 🕵🏼♀️ Quite the detective she is lol.
Right?! Give that lady a raise.
When she said "He threw you into the couch but you don't have any injuries?"😆
@SuperMeatballs14 and the "so instead of calling 911 you continued to shoot him"
The fact that she just made the executive decision to keep shooting him bc she "knew he was gonna die" is absolutely shocking to me
It's sick 😫 she wanted him dead
she’s so sick
Yes! you can’t even shoot a dog like that, it’s illegal, you have to make a reasonable effort to take it to the vet
Cold blooded murderer.
Her actions were definitely not normal. I’m just thankful that she has never been able to get out to do more with that mind set. It’s absolutely unthinkable to think that was normal or even close to self defense. My fiancé’s ex wife is on husband number 5 and she scares us how she acts (we only deal with her because of his 10 year old son).
I just love that her re-trial ended up with her getting life in prison. Man if that’s not great karma, I don’t know what it is.
Exactly my thought, 40 was way too less for someone without remorse. She have her whole life to laugh behind bars, and I hope everyday is miserable.
Her parole eligibility went from 34 years to 20 years though so she could only be in prison 20 years…
agreed. unrelated, April Beth Pitzer. she is still missing. adding the name and comment to get the name out and raise awareness
@@kkroplinBecause she is a wahmen🙄
@sydneybowman1903 Life doesn't seem to be life in this case. She has to serve 20 years, and then she's eligible to go in front of the parole board. The year will be 2032. She deserves straight life. No eligibility for parole!
My 22 yr old daughter was murdered on 8/27/22 and it’s still unsolved. When you bury your child you are unable to move on and people don’t understand that. You will do anything to hold onto the slightest thing that reminds you of them.
I’m glad they have closure and know his killer is in prison but it will never fill that empty void that is in your very soul when your child is removed from this planet before you 🥲
Thank you for giving these victims a voice ❤
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I am deeply sorry. My mother lost my brother five years ago. He was also murdered so I get everything you’ve expressed
I am so sorry for your loss. You are incredibly strong as is your love for your daughter! 🤍🫶🏼
So sorry for your loss 🤍
I’m so sorry for your loss. I sincerely hope that the case gets solved and that you and your family get the answers and the justice you need. 🌹🕯️🙏🏼
Can you believe in her moment of ABSOLUTE DISTRESS, speaking with the 911 operator she pauses and says 'I can hear myself echoing in the background ma'am!'? LOL 16:48
I'm not sure why you LOL'd because that's not funny at all.
When Ryan’s dad said he sometimes puts on Ryan’s clothes to feel close to him :( When my dad died I would wear his old hoodies just so I could feel like a part of him was with me. This case is so sad and I hope Ryan’s family is healing
My brother died 2 years ago today and I’m sitting here watching Kendall Ray in his hoodie… I think about him and miss him EVERY day. People are punished for the crime of murder, I wish people could be punished for the hell all of their loved ones have to suffer for years to come.
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I do the same thing with my dad's clothes. I have his leather jackets which are really thick for motorcycle riding and they're huge but I love smelling them. I wear his flannels and I have his t-shirts his backpack and his work bag. They still smell like him. He passed away on Father's day 2018.
Same ❤
My mom passed away from cancer and its coming up to a year now since she's been gone. I wear her pajama/night robe and jackets to feel close to her.
Domestic violence against men needs to be talked about more in this society. Women and men suffer from this and it should be treated as such, with the same matter. This case almost makes me cry.
But men need to start doing that treating it as serious and majority of men are in power to do so because some men who complain don’t they use it as a tactic to crap on women who go through domestic abuse instead of law enforcement and ppl in the field even therapist of men started taking it serious then others would if men who call out other men who don’t take it serious and hold them accountable I’m sure it would be a thing that would be taken serious
@@Inkbkank.2029 Or everyone should stand up for domestic violence regardless of gender.
Absolutely, sick of the comment defending the women. He was the victim
@@haileyparsons3844 cry
@@haileyparsons3844 and it’s always the ppl with dog photos talking the most shit i promise u I don’t care 🤷🏾♀️ or give a fuck
The detail about him being alive until the last gun shot makes me a little sick. That would wreck me even more if I was his parent. I hope she never gets out.
She literally looks crazy. And the fact that she thinks this is all a game or a joke. Is just appalling. No one gives af about you or your life behind bars. Her behavior thru all this is sickening. It's about the great soul she brutally murdered. RIP to Ryan, and my condolences to his family and friends.
Seriously that first mugshot is just chilling. She looks completely and utterly insane.
@@Phoenix-mh5eo She's insane? She's out of control is she?
@@Qunilliousuh yeah are you suggesting shes sane? She looks sounds and behaves completely fucking nuts.
I mean. If it walks like a duck acts like a duck… 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
@@Phoenix-mh5eoright?? Her face is the perfect example of, "And I'd do it again!"
She seems psychotic, and scary
It’s absolutely inhumane to leave the family in charge of cleaning up after the murder of their loved one. I found out this was an actual thing when my best friend lost her partner. She had to clean up the entire scene and his apartment while grieving and it breaks my heart to know that people have to go through that. You should never have to go through that. Ever.
My best friend lost her brother and their family was let with the bathroom. It was fucking horrific, the grief I feel and I wasn’t even there. I can only imagine how these folks feel, it’s inhumane, we can’t keep allowing it 😭
IKR?! There are services that will do it for you but it costs a ton of money. I think I'll take more debt than a lifetime of trauma. It's heartbreaking.
😢😢😢
I agree. It’s so heartless to the victim and their loved ones. The police department should send a team over to do it themselves when their loved ones aren’t there. I don’t understand how they can put the family and their friends through that amount of pain. It’s just horrible and so sad to experience.
It is awful… my best friend shot himself when he was 19… his mother had to clean it. It was a shotgun too. My friend helped and I’ll never forget him hyperventilating and telling me about a bucket full of bloody water. I wish I’d never known. Then the funeral was open casket… I just don’t understand.
From a mom who has experienced the tragic death of a son.... There is absolutely no closure.
I’m so sorry 😞
You are absolutely right! My grandmother outlived both her boys..
I'm sorry for your loss.
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sending love
as someone who has BPD: these cases are so frustrating. I would never EVER kill someone and it sucks that we get tied to people like this. It's honestly scary the no remorse she had, she sounds like a psychopath.
My mom had bpd and if anything, she would hurt herself before someone else. She was an amazing person and I’m sure you are too! People do not understand the trauma someone goes through to get BPD. I wish you well!!
@@rachelwyatt6030 Thank you! this meant alot to me and the community that struggles with BPD. Sending love to your mom
I work in mental health, I hate hearing this as well. You are more likely to be hurt by someone vs you hurting them
Absolutely! I've got BPD as well and when I got to that part of the video it just disgusted me even more.. There's so many people I've met with it in my therapy program that are wonderful people just suffering from a ton of trauma, not a violent psycho like this woman. Wishing you well on your mental health journey.
Thank you for this. I have BPD and it’s such a stigma because you get tied with people like this. I would never ever think of hurting someone else. In my opinion, BPD has absolutely nothing to do with sociopathy and psychopathy
The photo of Ryan and Shayna at 11:39 is sooo chilling. You can tell they were mentally in two different spaces. He looks exhausted; almost like he just wants her away from him. She looks like she has her prized possession. Poor doggy looks confudado. May Ryan rest in eternal love. 😢❤
Can we just take a moment to appreciate all the charity and selfless work Kendall does? It warms my heart.
Yes, we can.
Yes! Kendall is a major asset to the true crime community!
Thats why we love Kendall. She cares
@@Mschwabplayssims I love her too! She's my favorite true crime speaker.
She’s so inspiring!
Something that I’m surprised you didn’t mention was that she first told the 911 operator that he beat her up… and then later in the call when the operator asked her if she had any injuries, she said she has none.
What kind of supernatural being doesn’t have ANY injuries after being beaten up?!
Have you seen that movie the xmen? Wolverine also has the power to heal injuries very quickly
I don’t know if the video mentions this but she used to injure herself when having fights with Ryan and go to his neighbors claiming he injured Shayna. Well only one neighbor believed her and she even testified for Shayna. The other neighbors caught Shayna injuring herself. The one neighbor testified as if she believed Ryan harmed Shayna. Several neighbors caught her outside injuring herself. Glad she’s where she belongs but the sentence wasn’t stiff enough.
Apparently, Amber Heard also has this superpower.
Especially when it's a grown man vs a 110lbs vvoman...yet ZERO injuries? Nope🤣
Don't forget x23🥲
I watched a clip of one of Ryan’s sisters speaking at the trial in another video. She had a stuffed bear made, and the shirt the bear is wearing is the one Ryan wore when he passed, and in the bears hand is a button recording so when she presses it, it plays his voicemail. My heart SHATTERED watching that. 😭
We also lost our brilliant and handsome son Ryan, but in 2014. He was 26. I’m still not really ready to talk about it because we lost another son, Joshua, in 2019 to complications with his paranoid schizophrenia, the worst illness anyone can have. This was my first episode with you and I got through it! Subbed, too.
i'm sorry for your loss 😢
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That's heartbreaking 💔 I'm so sorry for your losses.
My cousin had paranoid schizophrenia and it's soul braking for those with it. It a truely horrendous illness. My cousin passed away a few years ago.
I’m am so sorry for ur losses 😢 I lost my daughter to suicide in 2017. I do understand the pain of losing a child. It is unbearable and unrelenting. One thing I tell people is it never gets easier…only softer ✝️🙏💔🕊️ Edit: My daughter was only 28
... :( .. May all these sweet souls rest in peace
The 911 operator seemed like she was so annoyed when Shayna said "I killed my bf in self defense." The way she responded with "Ok, where ya at" as if her past 10 callers, all had the same emergency. 🤣
Right !! this comment made my day 😂😂😂😂
Nah fr she was like “mmkay anyways” 🤣
Lmao yes!! I heard that too. I was like you can hear her rolling her eyes as she responds.
I noticed that too
That was literally my first thought as well lmao
Happy 10years Kendall! It’s actually so beautiful that your daughter was born on that day. Thank you for all the love, time, and effort, you put into every single one of your videos!
Thank you! It was also my 12 year anniversary with my husband! 😭❤️
That’s amazing!🥹 What’s a special day for you all to share❣️
That’s crazy 😂❤
That’s insane! It’s also my birthday…. Random not actually related at all lol. But cool for me!
@Emmy Cash actually I find that pretty cool too for ya.
She says she was forced into that position. WOW. This whole case is insane so sad that he had lost his life to this monster she honestly needs to get help.
I always feel a little skeptisism when someone says 'but he would never be violent towards his partner, he's such a nice, respectful person'. 'I've never seen him be violent, there's no way he was physically abusive with his partner' because I know several men who are extremely nice and respectful and never get angry but behind doors they're a completely different person with their partners and do in fact, hit their wives/girlfriends, you just never would imagine it because they are so nice and calm around others.
I agree.
since Shayna was just a girlfriend and possibly not the first he'd dated, there would've been a pattern of abuse that they could've pieced together...if her claims were true. But there were nothing. Note that the police didn't take his people's word for it, they investigated every claim made and found nothing working with her story.
100%
I'm dealing with this on a smaller degree. To everyone else, my husband is a quiet, shy, almost meek guy. At home he yells constantly, is derogatory, and has punched several holes in walls.
Obviously this girl is crazy and guilty, but that doesn't mean Ryan was perfect.
@@allyfally2810 Exactly. Also, sorry to hear that you're going through that. Someone very close to me went through that and even got hit twice and she's still with him because she can't leave yet. Nobody would ever suspect her husband of being like that.
Yup! Precisely
Biggest issue, STOP keeping the people you don’t want to be with around. If you still are sleeping together, hanging around together. Clean break, trauma bonds can be deadly! She didn’t care if she hurt him, all she cared about is he would never be able to love another
Exactly. He was a gas lighter and fucken manipulater and those are forms of abuse. He was 28 dating a fucken 19 year old. That was already the first red flag. Then he strings her along, brings her around his family, constantly breaks ups with her and then dates a pageant woman right after and he met the pageant woman through Facebook exactly how he met Shayna. Come one dude. I went through this same kind of situation I just didn’t kill the asshole.
This doesn't apply to psychopaths. No matter what they are deadly.
It does apply to anyone, psycho or not. Clean break and distance added will absolutely keep you safer than "being a good person" and feeling sorry for the clinger. It feeds their sick need for attention from you and feeds into the cycle. Distance and a clean break will save your life. The person will have to move on.
Exactly… parents also don’t see how important it is to teach their kids to be comfortable being alone, be happy with themselves… so many of us have to learn it as adults after bad relationships. I know that’s just a small piece of it, but it’s so important.
@@rosemadder5547 those parents that put relationship pressure on their kids “when are you gonna settle down, meet someone and have me some grandkids” that is an awful thing to do to your kids!
Just ask if they’re happy. If they’re happy then be happy for them, much better than helping them get away from a narcissist they felt pushed by you to date!
I have 3 adult children and their happiness is my number one priority, not their lives and the way it will affect mine like grandkids. I would never pressure my kids to take major steps in their lives like that. My only married child doesn’t want kids. I am fine with that and happy she knows herself enough to make that decision. People who don’t want kids or even marriage should never feel pressured to do so for their parents. It’s gross, get your own life and quit living through your kids!
The fact that he was sitting at the table would indicate that he wasn't attacking her when he was shot. From the pictures of where he was sitting when he was shot he wouldn't have been blocking her ability to escape. Her behavior in the interrogation room is incredibly bizarre.
I really like how his family stayed close after his parents divorced. so nice to see to hear that his biological father and step father got along.
The part about a psychologist diagnosing her with BPD (borderline-personality disorder) makes me sad. There's already so much stigma around people who suffer with that disorder which is usually caused by childhood trauma. It doesn't mean we're abusive, manipulative, or murderers.
I started reading your comment and was worried it would be something slamming those with BPD. So glad you didn’t. Thank god someone can acknowledge the stigma and that a disorder doesn’t mean a monster. Thank. You.
But she has BPD, right? Her being like that doesn't mean that everyone is like her. As I understand it, her unmanaged psychological disorder is part of what made her what she is. Idk, should the diagnosis change anything about the trial? Because either it shouldn't, and the only importance of the diagnosis is that it should be managed outside of the court (by a therapist). Or it should, and that would mean she's barely responsible for her actions AND, which sounds terrible to me, that people with BPD should be treated as if they all have less power over their own actions than those without - etc., etc., and that's a snowball of horrible conclusions which... look like a catch 22?
How do you judge how much responsibility was of their own will, and how much was of their disorder? I don't know.
It does though. The BPD diagnosis is thrown at non-violent people where for them CPTSD would be heaps more helpful starting point on the journey if healing. Much more compassionate one as well.
BPD and the rest of the personality disorders should be reserved for people with convoluted distortions in the formation and functioning of personality. Not gentle folks dealing with childhood trauma.
I'm bipolar and I relate to this.
I’m confused by BPD though. I can see how shayna has many of the symptoms, but I thought those with BPD feel intense empathy? Shayna seems to be lacking any. Maybe she has more than one diagnosis?
FINALLY an effective 911 dispatcher. RIP Ryan 🙏🏽 He seemed amazing 😢
Agreed 💜💜
He sure did ❤
And WHAT did the dispatcher get done??
“I… I killed my boyfriend 😭”
Dispatcher: …*sigh* “mmmk.. where are ya at..”
She’s seen and heard it all 😂
Lmao was looking for this comment 😂
There was deff an eye roll with thag sign like “here we go”
She was like “I was really hoping to get thru the day without a murder call”
The dispatcher was very astute in recognizing Shayna's decision on how to describe the incident of shooting her victim in almost confessing but changing her words to self defense; she also had to have instantly noticed that admission of waiting 10-15 minutes gave a chance to change any evidence at the scene and conjure up excuses.
As someone who has been in a hard/abusive relationship unfortunately it takes on average at least 8 times to leave. Being trauma bonded to someone which is an abuse tactic is real
Ur right. It took me like 10 times to leave my sons dad. 2/2/17 is the night I left. And even tho he was a jerk. It’s so hard to move on No matter what he did
I appreciate this comment. My ex-gf was very abusive and controlling, and yet it took me a while to get the courage to leave -- mainly because I felt for her, and also because I was afraid of her lashing out violently, against me, herself, or her dog, if I finally left. Then I had to endure "jokes" about how the reason it took me so long to leave was because I wanted to enjoy sexual benefits from her.. Little did anyone know, she wanted to remain celibate until marriage, so we never had sex to begin with, but the implication was that because I'm a guy, I was sticking around for selfish perks, when in reality I was sick to my stomach and agonizing over how to break free every day. Threats, gaslighting, and manipulation are all forms of abuse and can be hard enough to spot, let alone escape from, and it's important to remember the complexity so as o not further damage survivors with harmful stereotypes.
To be forced into the situation of cleaning up your loved ones blood is so traumatic on top of the loss I could not imagine, terrifying, horrifying and so sad for them
That state needs to look at this case and reconsider their laws for restraining orders! This is so sad!!!
My heart goes to his family and friends. 🙏🏽 May Ryan Rest in Peace
Exactly what I was thinking! So I have to be in danger for police to do something? FUCKING INSANE! How did that make any sense to the people who wrote that law?!
A piece of paper (209a) a restraining order is just that a live of paper with rules that if the abuser or murderer is going abide by all of a sudden when’s their whole lives they disregarded authority figures and rules etc etc
@@courtneysgroi5233 that's America 🤷🏿♂️
Exactly, THAT little paper won't do squat if that ppl has decided they're gonna TRY 😒 to harm you...might have to flip em like pancakes.
I agree with you 💯 %; the State of Kentucky absolutely need to get the laws governing Protection Orders changed
"he was twitching so i shot him a couple more times because he was gonna die anyway"..
oh my god, the absolute horror and evil of this person. i hope ryans family can find peace..
The part gutted me. An absolute vile woman.
She’s completely unstable. Under no circumstances could she prove she wouldn’t do this to someone else if she was freed. Absolutely chilling case. I hope the best for Ryan’s family 💜
What a psychopath. Makes me sick to my stomach watching her and listening to her, she is SO fake. Not even good at acting. Incredibly glad she got what she truly deserved: life in prison.
This woman gives me goosebumps. The narcissism is top tier. Wow what an evil woman.
I 100% think he was also a narcissist. ONE HUNDRED PERCENT
I'm still listening to this but as a therapist it so far sounds like this dude was a massive narcissist and has attachment trauma. Calling someone "crazy" multiple times and breaking up with them frequently is a form of emotional abuse. She seems borderline and many people with borderline also have narcissistic traits, which this could have triggered this series of events. Narcissists are good at covertly finding vulnerable people to emotionally manipulate/gaslight, so it is hard to parse out what really happened when two or more narcissists are involved.
@@junipersages yes! I fully agree. Especially if she indeed has BPD. I wish more people were educated on this.
When you’re dreading cleaning the house but then you see Kendall has a new video and suddenly you’re excited to clean and listen 🤪
When I get Covid and I’m feeling like I’m dying and a Kendall video pops up lol
If only I can clean my house right now 😂 that’s what I’m gonna do when I test negative 😂
Yes! Kendall’s videos literally get me through doing laundry, cleaning etc.
Haha same!
@@annmarie6870 Speedy recovery!
Imo she should never be released from prison. She is an absolute danger to society. Poor Ryan. His whole life was ahead of him and it was stolen for no good reason. I feel so bad for his family 😔
I’ve been watching your videos since I was a jr in high school and now I’m a senior in college I’m literally crying that you’ve been doing this for 10 years so happy to be apart of half of it 😭😭😭
she’s one of the only youtubers that i genuinely feel like is a good person on and off camera😭 i found her with her “dear fat people” response video and MAN did that help little 11 year old me with confidence issues, she’s always shown her heart
Wow, gotta love how this woman tries to sound compassionate by putting him out his misery. You also have to love how she says I’m not a murderer after she committed murder. It’s like someone who cheats on their spouse and then says I’m not a cheater.
Like he’s a human that you shot not a deer???
What always bothers me about this, as well as Jodi Arias , is that as much as both guys wanted to break it off with these women, they continue to sleep with them at times. Change your locks and your number and have NO interaction with them of ANY kind. They could still be ambushed somewhere, but it would certainly be a whole lot harder.
It’s really hard for me to sympathize with men that manipulate women in that way.
I agree. Also the age difference bothered me. It’s not the years but the maturity level of someone 19 versus 28. Of course, it’s still a tragedy that could have perhaps been avoided.
YES!
You're ACTUALLY right, but it's hard for a guy especially to leave a pretty crazy 🐦 alone bc the seggs is WOW...just keeping it a buck😒. Again, you're Def right he probably should've thought with the big head... STILL didn't deserve to go out sad like this though RIP 🙏. Hope his killer is punished FULLY 💯🧔🏿♂️
I hear you. But women do it too. And I’m pretty sure she manipulated him and essentially sexually abused him into it.
I saw this episode on Snapped. He did everything he could to get away from her in a nice way. Classic case of "If I can't have you then no one will." 😢
You can tell he doesn’t like her in the pics he looks like a hostage and she’s smiling like the joker
The fact that they can change defense tactics infuriates me! The juror who got the case thrown out has zero to do with her defense. You shouldn’t be allowed to say, “oops, that didn’t work, let’s try XYZ!” 🙄🤦🏻♀️
Completely agree. The fact that it’s so obviously a tactic vs the truth is insulting
Yeah I think it shouldn't be allowed, but I will say in this specific scenario, changing her defense made her look even more guilty. The lack of consistency in the defense' statements is something the prosecution really held onto to win their case.
U beat me to it! Exactly what I was thinking
Law student here,
The point of a retrial is to have a clean slate, a new defense team being bound by the arguments and approach set out by the first team would be nonsensical. Lawyers, whomever their client, are supposed to act in the best interest of their client.
And while it’s hard to have sympathy for it in a case such as this, the legal system isn’t used for just sentencing obvious murderers. It doesn’t take much stretching of the imagination to imagine a scenario of a wrongful conviction where a defendant had a mediocre lawyer who approached their case in a mediocre way. Should their new defense team be bound by the previous lawyers approach if they have the opportunity for a new trial? Absolutely not.
Some things that seem unfair on their face when the person on trial is unsympathetic operate on a larger scale to ensure peoples’ due process rights are not violated.
@@ollybygolly9326 that was a good explanation and it makes sense now that you said it like that. thanks for lending your expertise.
This is shocking. I went in open minded, as I have had ex's who were very good at hiding their abusive natures to others, but her words and actions are truly horrific. She wasn't scared of him at all.
Right? If I’m afraid for my life I don’t really give a shit about “things”. I’ll come back with a police escort or at least a couple really big friends or my 1 nephew lol he is big and strong enough to equal 2 big friends. I have used his services in the past it works out pretty well.
@@melissabridges8199 I did that, police went to my place 4 times, once for my daughter and 3 regards to the x...he played victim, and I got tired, ran away after the last event...
As a mom of a little boy who is my entire world. I cannot even. This is breaking my heart! To think some crazy person could just take my heart away….
I am a boy mom too! My son is 4 and he's a pain in the ass but he's my baby bear and "i'mma cut" anyone whoever hurts him.
This is so sad. She had no remorse for her actions. I can’t imagine what he went through during that relationship. May he rest in peace.
Hi again friends! Wow! You guys already sold out our restock on the NECMC collection! Thank you so much! I know i said i wasn’t gonna restock but with so many of you who wanted it not able to get one, I’ve decided to restock! They will be coming soon!
Also We’re still working hard on an improved new editing style. I took some of your feedback from last week and applied it! Let me know what you think! Adding more text to the screen was our attempt to make it more inclusive and many people have said it helps them to understand the content better but I know a lot of you don’t like it so I’m kinda stuck on what to do there
Hello my friend... can you check in two the Timothy Washington from Baltimore Maryland...
It's looking good, Kendall and your new merch is gorgeous! Any chance of subtitles for 911 calls? Sometimes I can't understand what's going on. :)
Hey Kendall. I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoy your videos since I am a true crime lover. Keep up the great work.
I tried buying your pink crew neck twice..... It wasn't in stock so they offered me something else...... I would love to have one.
First of all I love your story and can wait to hear the next one 😊
Feedback about the new editing, 2 points for improvement from my point of view:
1. the background when you present the characters with the photo is intense and takes my attention away from the photo
2. look a bit old to me the PowerPoint dissolving style
His dad wearing Ryan’s clothes really broke my heart. My husband died of covid 19 in 2021 at the age of 33, I wear his t-shirts almost everyday. If you ever see a girl in California wearing an oversized dragon ball z shirt or lakers shirt it’s probably me.
I’m so sorry to his family and I hope they find some peace because God knows it’s difficult.
i’m so sorry, this comment broke my heart. wishing you happiness and healing ❤️🩹❤
and his dog! so, so sad
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost a family member to Covid too and it still feels so surreal. Praying you can find some comfort and healing with time 💜
I’m so sorry for your loss ! I live in Cali, if I see someone with an oversized dragon ball z or lakers shirt I will hug them 💗😂
@@km1117 thank you ❤️ me and our daughter are getting there
“I killed my boyfriend in self defence “
Operator: “Mmkay”
😂 Props for her calm professionalism
A classic case of “If I can’t have you, no one can.” I hope that abusive murderer rots in prison.
She is so insane. I don’t even know what to say about how she makes me feel. Hope life in prison is awful for her.
Why did he got involved with her?
@@ioanaanaoi8232he saw her pic online and messaged her
Her eyes even look crazy
This is what happens when we don’t allow children to grow up properly. The girl was obsessed with grades and school and the exterior presence, she didn’t even get a chance to look into herself. 😢 I know I cannot call her a victim, but the mentality that she has here screams she was still in a child-like state even when she was becoming an adult.
@@Alice-gf4dd her mother is also out-to-lunch saying BS like "my daughter is not a murderer" uh yeah she kinda is.
There is some Casey Anthony level of narcissism going on here as well. Just terrible what happened to Ryan and his family. Thank you Kendall, as always!
Same crazy eyes
Parents today are raisins heartless bots.
That's exactly who she reminds me of
I just discovered you. I absolutely love the way you tell the story. You don't run through the story. You're very captivating.
Thank you Nancy!
I love this channel, you are such a good storyteller, with so much empathy and respect. No over dramatics of judgement or sensationalism, just clear facts and informed information.
This is a tragic story but it is told with a truly objective, kind and compassionate delivery. Thank you ❤️🙏❤️
She is the type “if I can’t have you no one can!” She got what she deserved! I feel so horrible for Ryan’s family. So sad. Prayers to his family.
Her talking to the other inmate and joking about his passing was just infuriating to me. Like oh my god, just when you thought it couldn’t get any worse
But it's a good thing that she did. It helped to get her convicted.
This is properly one of the saddest cases. I’ve just come across your content and I really love what you do and how you present it.
This is the FIRST true crime I have heard from my home town of Northern Kentucky! So glad I could listen to Kendall tell the story
Shayna reminds me of a former coworker. These women need a hobby that doesn’t involve taking someone’s life because they got rejected. Happy 10 years Kendall!
So true. I know i do better when km reading 😂
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there’s a lot more men like this then women
@@chloebeckman7110 but this video is about a woman who abused a man. So saying women makes sense here
You mean “these people”?
The fact that she could joke about shooting Ryan in the face.... no words.
Kendall thank you so much for all your hard work in the last 10 years for the missing children. You are a blessing in the True crime community.
I hope it’s her whole life. Even though nothing can bring a child back, it’s so heart breaking . So hard for the parents, I didn’t know him but my heart is broken.
The way she's just smiling and how proud she looks at times is so appalling.
I always love seeing your animals in the background. Its comforting looking at them when a sad case comes up for sure. Keep up the great work and congrats on 10 years! I've been subbed to you for about 7 I think.
I had the thought when kendall was wearing her new merch how she never had any cat or dog hair on her lol. I was always covered in it when I had my white cat.
@EmRose ngl it is , they're so precious it puts a smile on your face to see them do cute little animal stuff frfr🥲💯🧔🏿♂️
i was looking at prison pen pals in my state a few months ago and came across her 😳 i had no idea what she had done but her profile was along the lines of “don’t believe what the news says about me” and then i read up on her and wow, dodged a bullet lol
Lol wow!!! That’s crazy . I wonder if people write her or ask about the case!
The dispatcher, "Okay, where are you at." She knew from the beginning it was all bs. You can hear it in her voice, as calm as she is, she already knows what really happened xx
Dispatchers are trained to remain calm in all situations and not react emotionally.
I cannot believe she wasn’t able to keep her loves chosen name and pronouns right while advocating for their love and marriage and then claiming they are being discriminated against. IMO it seems like a manipulative tactic for her case. 😢
she’s sick. the way she thinks ppl will fall for her manipulation tactics shows how egotistical she is
Unfortunately, a lot of prisoners use this as a manipulative tactic in prisons.
Lol
She is a sick ticket, oh my word. She's still plays the victim in all aspects of her life. Judge on the first case was right on the money: she doesn't acknowledge that she's got demons to address.
@@madisonhanley2615 She learned it from her momma.
Happy 10 Years Kendall there are no TH-camr like you especially in true crime. Very respectful to everyone involved.
Thank you thank you!
No matter how his family saw him, he could’ve been an abuser and leading her on and using her. DOES NOT JUSTIFY THE MURDER. But I just need you to know that someone can be adored and nice on the outside but be a manipulator or a monster behind closed doors.
She is obviously mentally unstable.
Terrible pairing and terrible outcome.
I don’t think that’s the case here tho
@@courtneydeleonardo4953 he was almost 30 and dating a teenager. That is a red flag all on its own 😳
@@Sarahthevampyrslayer she was not a teenager she was like 21 and he was 29
@@courtneydeleonardo4953 I just googled it. He was 28 and she was 19 when they started their relationship.
@@Sarahthevampyrslayer that is legal age. Maybe not recommended for most people but holy smoke, he was following the law. There was so much evidence that made it seem clear at least in that last confrontation, he was not violent towards her. Even if he was, it seems very likely to have been self defense. It sounded like he was scared of her.
The thing you mentioned about the crime scene clean up is so f*cked up, but so true. My sister's friend took himself out with a gun and his dad had to clean the scene. He did it in the shower and mentioned in his note that he hoped that would minimize the "mess". I heard a story from a horror channel where the narrator decided to share his own story where the old, bulky TV that they had fell onto of his toddler daughter. He described having to spend the night after he got back from taking her off of life support just bawling as he tried to scrub the blood out of the carpet. That was actually the first time I learned that scene clean-up is left as the family's responsibility, and that was so shocking to me.
Age gap relationships can be very toxic. Ones more mature and the other still has a lot of growing up to do. Shayna clearly never grew up.
She completely thrived off the drama that she had made. As if it was a play that she was writing. She was enjoying it. I feel heart broken for his family. I'm glad everything went the right way in the end.
I love this style, including parts of the interrogation and testimony!
Fabulous presentation. Detailed and very generous. Thank you very much.
My cousin was just murdered a couple days ago… I’ve grown a whole new appreciation for what you do 💙 thank you for bringing light to such dark situations✨ I am praying everyday the person who hurt my cousin is caught & put to justice💙
I’m sorry to hear that. Hope you and your loved ones can take the time to heal 💗
Thinking of you. ❤
I'm so sorry your loved one was ripped away from their life, sending thoughts of healing your way
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Kendall does have forms you can fill out to cover cases... So if you feel more coverage could help your cousins murderer be brought to their entirely deserved justice then that is always something you could do? I'm so sorry this has happened to your family and I hope their killer is found xxx
My father was murdered in 1974 by an "unknown assailant" and I can tell you firsthand that senseless murder haunts a person forever! God bless Ryan's family.
I’m sorry :/
hey Kat, are there any nice memories of your dad that you'd like to share with us? totally cool if not, but just wanted to offer if you did. ♡
I'm so sorry 💜
Sorry to hear that.
Love your companions watching and helping you doing the video, well researched, well told.
Kendall I had to pause the video at 4:54 sec. I couldn't see because I was crying. I have seen this case before but not once have I seen about how close he was to his family. Thank you for that because a lot of true crimers don't get into their past as much as you do. I appreciate the way you have compassion for the families. Watching your videos gives you the most important information. Now to wipe my tears hopefully so I can see my way through this video.🙏 bless their family & Bless your family 🙏 🤧🤗 Hugs from Woobie in Massachusetts
Jealousy was the fuel in this fire. She was getting into his Facebook account and learned he was going out with a beauty queen. I think she snapped, and she definitely has a personality disorder. Probably borderline. Such a horrible ending for two young people. This girl premeditated this murder.
Let's not armchair diagnose people with stigmatized disorders that so many good people struggle with.
@@themightywhoosh5497 amen
Crazy, stalker woman.
She sounds like she possibly had BPD but he definitely had a personality disorder as well (probably). Covert narcissism comes to mind. He treated her horribly and trauma bonded her
Do you even know what borderline personality disorder is? It is caused by sexual abuse and usually domestic abuse too. So, are you verifying that she was a DV victim? You know that pretty much EVERY domestic abuse victim will get diagnosed with BPD when they seek help and for this reason 80% of patients are female? I was sexually abused at a young age, and my very first relationship at age 20 was violent. I was then in several violent and abusive relationships up until the age of 31. When I went to my doctor at age 30 having a breakdown after the latest abuse they referred me to a psychiatrist and diagnosed me with BPD. I never once received any therapy or support specifically aimed at DV victims, I was simply labelled with a personality disorder and put on a waiting list for therapy to address my "unstable emotions".
It isn't just a label you get to give anyone you don't like. It is caused by trauma during formative years and it is also a disability, yet you effectively use it as a form of abuse. Which is ironic, perhaps I should introduce you to my exes, I'm sure you would get along very well. You can get together and talk about all your "crazy exes".
Love your channel, love the crime shows that you bring to light! I also love the way you present the content and narration through the shows. Keep up the hard work!
Okay what we're not going to do is pretend that narcissists don't exist. My ex slandered me to his family all the while pretending to be in love with me whilst abusing me. In situations like this it's possible for both people to be toxic af.😊
Exactly. My ex did the same thing to me and alot more. These people are dangerous af.
Definitely true! Absolutely no excuse for murder, ever, but these kinds of reactions don’t come out of nowhere. Clearly their relationship was troubled before this point.
@@corneliastreet2491 As usual, when the woman is the perp we just have to find a way to minimize her offense or the victim status of the person she attacked, _especially_ when the victim is male.
@@redpillfreedom6692 nobody said she was justified or the sole victim in the case. I explicitly said it’s no excuse for murder. You can have sympathy for the victim while also acknowledging that the convict didn’t act in a bubble. He didn’t deserve this or any level of assault by any metric, but it is important to consider the claims of verbal and narcissistic abuse that were even corroborated. Again, definitely not an excuse and in this case she pursued him actively so she can’t even claim self defense, it was intentional murder.
@corneliastreet But she was the narcissist not him. When are people going to realize that man can be victims of domestic violence. She doesn't need any sympathy, if he was truly abusive, she would have gotten out and ran to close friends and family.
It is so frustrating to think that in this day we still have family having to clean up a crime scene. My father sister was murdered by her husband. My father who is barely 20 had to clean her house, he had to clean her blood and flesh. The police didn't even find my aunts husband, one of my father brothers did, but sadly there was never any justice as he took his own life along with my aunts life and her friends life who died trying to save her. I never got to meet my aunt, but it makes me so angry that things haven't changed in 41 years in regard to domestic violence.
That is so traumatic
Kendall you’re the only good thing about Mondays
ain’t no way a damn near 30 yr old was seeking out a girl fresh out of high school 🥴 idc if she’s “of age” that’s something u can’t just brush past…
Agreed! Doesnt excuse murder however a 28 year old targetting a 19 year old is extremely weird and disturbing.
I absolutely believe her that he was controlling and abusive. Because… what other kinda man seeks out a child?
19 year old is legal age. I know for a fact you wouldn't be saying that if the woman was the 30 year old and the 18 year old was a male.
@@haileyparsons3844 yes its very questionable. There must be something twisted and controlling about that 30 year old woman.
@@haileyparsons3844 like I said I don’t care about the legal technicality. swap the genders and it’s still gross. you’re gross for even thinking that.
This is so sick. Gotta really be careful who you allow into your life
Shouting from the rooftops that you are one of the BEST TH-camrs out there! You eloquently explain each case with great detail and your passion shows by how respectful you are towards the victims’ family. You are the best voice for each victim and stand up for them. Please keep giving us content! You are loved and appreciated greatly!
She is without a doubt the BEST true crime TH-camr! She doesn’t put ads or sponsorships in her videos like other true crime TH-camrs, which I find so disrespectful.
from one father to another, i am crying. i am so sorry for their lose. his father, who obviously loved him, i cant imagine...
the way nobody seemed to be moved by an almost 30 year old man dating a teenager is weird ..
The fact that he was still alive until the final shot is so terrible… RIP :(
She honestly scares the crap out of me, I can only imagine how she made Ryan feel.
Wow. This whole case is crazy. I hope his family was able to find peace somehow. No one deserves to bury their child. The things she said. Wow
“Unique and I have a lot in common” …how unintentionally ironic
It always makes me sad when the killers are diagnosed with BPD. It makes the ones who have it, like myself, look bad. ˙◠˙
Love your videos Kendall! I love that you focus on the victims instead of the killers. ❣️
I don't see any BPD symptoms. All I see is a narcissistic sociopath. She has al the symptoms of NPD and most of ASPD.
I commented something similar, there's people like that and then there's people like us who try and work on ourselves and battle through the battles that our own brains cause us.
Very sad, certainly does nothing to help the horrible stigma around bpd and other mental health disorders. Some of us try really hard to keep ourselves in check as best we can and work on ourselves every day.
There's people with BPD, then there's people without a conscience. She just happens to be both.
Seriously. I have BPD.
Our justice system is a joke. If you are in prison for intentionally murdering someone you should NOT get the privilege of getting married. How ridiculous
The statements from his family made me tear up. Ryan seemed like a lovely person.May he Rest in Peace.
Love your content here and on insta. Also, big congratulations on your longevity in the tc documentary genre.
From experience, I wanna say that a person could be an absolute angel to their friends & family but be the literal devil behind closed doors to their significant other. (7 minutes into the video) not saying he was like that. But there is ALWAYS the possibility that someone is secretly abusive.
Agreed. Why did he invite her over to watch the VP debates if he was planning on breaking up with her and going on a date? That confuses me. Why as an older man did he pursue a much younger immature woman? She was no angel. But I fear neither was he.
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She seems to be a very narcissistic person, I'm pretty sure that if he ever hurt her she'd be parading the bruises / cuts all over her social media and with friends and family
@@WYIN98 you can never know how a person is going to respond to abuse. Her narcissism could lead her to wanting to hide it more. And not all abuse leaves bruises.
That's what I wanted to say.
I just don’t even know what to say about this case. That girl is INSANE. My gosh! I was getting goosebumps. She really doesn’t care about what she did! She is not sorry one little bit. How can you kill someone you love like this?! It scares me so much that there are people like this just out there!
I think she thought she could cry self defense and they’d let her off the hook. She seemed so confident.
@N R which is disgusting 🤢 his life should mean more than a cheap get outta jail free card. Hope karma shows ZERO mercy on the evil thing. Nobody should suffer this this poor man had to, bless his family... RIP Ryan 🙏
Makes me wonder how she is enjoying prison life. Totally "Orange is the New Black" vibes.