Jessica MB Yes. Her character is all messed up. Kids home hungry while she having fun with a strange man. I think Tamera was right about that being the girls shtick.
He wasn't dating her. He was on a date with her. First date. He's not on a date with her kids. He has no idea if he likes her enough to keep going and buy her kids meals. She's the mom, she can buy her own kids meals.
@@samuelkundael3503 then she is a good digger because no one forced to go on the date so he not renting her. She could have simply said no or anything like that to get some money to feed her kids
Yeah or don’t go on dates and work to provide for your kids. Cuz if u have a few hours to spear for a date, you have a few hours to put some numbers on your time card 🗳
Alan Growlin McBride exactly and let’s keep in mind if she’s on a date and has kids she’s single and there has to be a reason why she is single now I think we just found it
Very few are tho she’s just a very bad person I don’t think it’s be much different is she were a guy. Also have you asked why the father isn’t helping feed them?
It's funny because the majority of the audience (who are if not all are almost all women) agreed with the man's decision and just 1 of the hosts disagreed.
Exactly the man already spent a lot of his money to take her happy butt on a nice date if she needed to get her kids dinner she should’ve A) made dinner for them before hand and give it to the babysitter to give to them when it’s time or B) buy the kids McDonald’s from the dollar menu don’t expect your date to pay extra like that if they went to a fancy restaurant he probably wouldn’t be able to pay for them too after also paying for his and his date. Idk that’s just my opinion lol
I don't get it? Nobody forced him to pay for the meal anyway. And literally everyone except Adrienne agreed that the mom was a fool for even asking. Who wasn't respecting his "no"?
It doesn't matter if it was a man or a woman saying no at this point... if a mother is asking for food for her kids... u gotta consider the minors involved in this. This woman must prolly be really broke and can't feed her kids etc... its not about u or ur rights being violated or some superficial bullshit anymore.
@@hippopotomonstrosesquipped8362 Ain't nothing more superficial than a heifer out on a date, eating, while her kids sitting at home hangry than a mother lover. If she hasn't done what she needs to do to feed the kids, before she ever thought about going on a date, she's a deadbeat mom, plain and simple. Cosigning deadbeat moms is why society is in the toilet.
It’s NOT about the money - it’s about the fact that it’s a first date.... Adrienne you might pay for it out of obligation but you won’t be back for a second date
Here's what she should have done....she should have made sure she had enough money on her to pay for her children's meals, then at the end of dinner, said, "hey, if you don't mind, I'd like to order something for my kids, but I'll put it on a separate bill." Then the man MIGHT have been more likely to say, "Don't worry about it, I'll take care of it." Then at least he would have been offering. Way more classy than asking him to pay for it.
Capz Allison if she was a responsible mother then she would have thought of her kids first idk why a date comes before her kids and I’m not saying that single moms shouldn’t date but she needs to have her kids need before her own and then after her kids are fed she can go on dates
@@frayhopkins9802 "Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same."
No! Not appropriate. Your kids should already be taken care of when you go out. Kids shouldn't be waiting on food that comes from a Date between you and a man your getting to know. Man will think your using him. Common sense not so common. Place and time for everything.
Most if not close to all women think majority of men are weak and will try something like that on a date to pay for to go meals for their children. Just for the intent of implied sex in exchange.
@@quentin8122 Majority of men are simps, though, so she made a good gamble. She just picked the wrong one. She should consider a career in strip tease if she really wants to land the best simp.
I wish Adrienne would shutup about this topic. Loni is right, you cannot assume everyone has money to provide for your or your family needs, especially on a first date. This sounds like a free-loader or entitled person to me. She could have paid for it herself.
Neon Pandas you telling her to shuttup like if you there. That discussion was long gone and recorded and posted and you just on your device all hurt saying shuttup. How about you be grown, just because her opinion isn't that same as yours doesn't mean you have to be disrespectful and rude and post shuttup with the aim of making someone feel bad. Grow up child!
I am curious why Adri was so big on this? It seems wrong especially on the first date, or any date when you haven't met the child. 2nd Both sexes nowadays are not trustworthy.
Amena Teferi Adrienne's response seems to come from a place of knowing what it was to once be in need. I understand Adrienne. I won't ask but if someone is in need and I can help, I would do so. Agreed with Loni also bcuz if it is a high end restaurant, that would be unreasonable.
I’ve had this happen to me several times by my dates. I’m a single father of two daughters of the last 20 years and I couldn’t imagine asking a woman to pay for two take home meals for my daughters. I wasn’t even awarded child support when I got divorced when the girls were 2&3 and I was in the military stationed overseas so my income wasn’t very good. I’ve always provided for them myself and never once used Government benefits and now they are both in college and I’m helping them out to this day and I’m still single on my own. Girls just moved into their own college apartment two weeks ago.
That's the essence of some of the best dating advice to women, and really anyone, I've heard. A first date is about impressing each other. If they are acting like this on a first date where you are supposed to be acting your best, you can't expect them to start acting better later on. It's all downhill.
I know the direction it is going to. after that, the next request if he has a car will, can you please help drop my kids at school on your way. Then can you please help take them to practice or some sports. Then music lessons, the mall....Then it gets worse. by the way, am not saying from my own experience hahah
It sounds like it was a first date too. It's not his job to buy food for her kids. She should've fed her kids BEFORE the date. And if she didn't, if I was a man I wouldn't wanna date her anyway after finding that out because that shows you what kind of mother she is. I think Tamera might be right, even if she has kids I think she wanted this food for later. She is dead wrong. That is not your long term boyfriend, or husband you should take care of your own kids. Or call their father to get them food.
That woman is so entitled to even ask that, kids or no kids. Especially on a first date. I don't see Adrienne's POV at all. You need to establish a relationship first.
I feel like Adrienne doesn't know what opinion she has, people are cheap for not agreeing to pay yet she said she'd never ask herself? Then keeps saying "she comes with children" 1. He may not have known that before the date 2. If ANYONE can't afford to feed their kids, maybe they should worry about that 1st
Then proceeds to make it sound so easy and inexpensive. If that's the case why not have the woman drive to the nearest McDonald's or whatever and get stuff off a dollar menu or something (sorry for long rant)
Willa Jones...i think if u cant afford to feed ur kids u have no buisness dating...me as a mom i could not even get ready knowing im gonna be in a restaurant enjoying myself while my kids are home hoping to get some food what if he said No then what??? they get nothing...nah... if u cant feed them get urself a job or two or three thats what i did... and dont take a debit card and pretend to have cash when u know u dont and try to pretend to pay for their food because if it gets declined thats even worse...
Hey now give Adrienne some space, she’s just a very compassionate person and I think her point is valid too. If she was really desperate and said she was barely making ends meet and the guy had ‘enough’ money then sure, still depends on the person too. At first I was like hell no but taking things in consideration it’s not a terrible thing to ask if those children were really hungry. But it’s still tachy as hell tho
Addriene please stop, that was just plane wrong for that woman to ask for him to pay for the kids, she shouldve saved some of her food and got a take home box.... Who would want to continue dating someone who can't even make it work on them selves, just straight up begging on the first date. Distasteful.
SincerelySaida lmao you saying please stop like if you talking to her. She's just stating her opinion don't let it get to you that much just because it's opposite to what you would do.
Crazy world we’re all living in. Why is this even up for debate. Your kids aren’t someone else’s responsibility. Feed your kid before going on a date. Dudes shouldn’t be taking single mothers out on dates anyway.
Because we live in a world where women can do no wrong. They ask questions like this to see how far the brainwashing has twisted our perception of reality. They see that majority of the people Wouldn't even question why is she out on dates while her kids are starving but instead ignore common sense question to jump into help her mode
Excuse me what’s wrong with single moms? I’m a single mom to a son my past isn’t my fault I flew from an abusive relationship I pay my own rent and I’m a nurse whose to say all women with a past are freeloaders your ignorant why should single women date single dads either? The pot is calling the kettle black?
S.C Fitness “Your past isn’t your fault?” Lmao 😂 then who’s fault is it? And stop bragging about paying “your own rent”. As an adult we’re all expected to pay our bills. Do you want a cookie for taking care of your kid too? Lol and NO single women shouldn’t feel obligated into dating single fathers either. However in our culture, it’s more of a burden on single men when depending in whatever state you live in, you can be put on child support for a child that isn’t yours. Women don’t seem to ever have that problem. Single men typically DONT want a ready made family where our resources are going to kids that don’t come from us.
@@ladybluemoon1 So, which one of you were the abusive one in the relationship? Oh, wait... You're a woman and you did nothing wrong, right? You NEVER instigated a fight, right? You already ticked a major "Red Flag" with me.
That was a test. She is an opportunist trying to find the right mark to exploit. If i got hungry kids at home I can't even think about having fun on a date. On dates you are getting to know others, not unload your issues onto them. If I were him I'd be very turned off at her audacity.
A mother who is broke and neglecting her children. So will you judge her and say no or will you feel sorry for the kids and buy them food even if it is from McDonald's. Even if it is just fries... just so you have the peace of mind the kids are fed? You dont ever have to date that person anymore... and u never have to do this again cause its not ur responsibility... but that one time u were asked, God was testing ur heart. And if God gave u enough money and blessed u with a good living what stopped u from sharing a bit of that sustenance with minors? Hell I would say to the lady I won't pay for your food on this date but I'll pay for the kid's food.
@@hippopotomonstrosesquipped8362 if you're kids are at home starving, then you shouldn't be all dolled up going on a date enjoying a free meal. You don't feed yourself before your kids. It was a first date. You don't onow the person like that. That was just stupid.
@IceMan24 Notice how the man is always expected to be holier than thou and not the irresponsible harlot having babies out of wedlock? This is why these skanks are alone.
I think this says something about the mom. First of all she left her kids at home hungry while she went on a date? Second she was going to be gone at least a couple of hours so she was gonna feed them how late? Third what was her backup plan in case he said no? This was a first date and for her to ask him as he is paying to purchase two carry out meals was a chance she took. Why is she mad? She had to know that no was a possibility. I don’t believe this guy was wrong. The problem with this is there are lots of variables we don’t know about the situation.
I've been in this situation before, and I bought the kids food, but it was also the last time we spoke. It's not about the money, it's the principle: first dates set the tone for the rest of the relationship for me, you asking me to do stuff for your kid's like this tells me that it's most definitely not the first time for you to do this. We. Just met, I'm still trying to figure out what we could be, now you asking me to be a dad? This tells me that you don't understand boundaries.
Hun why did you pay for her then?? I'm sorry but that just made you the stupid party! Coz you pandered to her! We, all women are absolutely disgusted with her!! NO woman with a single SHRED of morals would ask such a thing! And you gave into her even if it's a one date? I would have said flat no. Not for 1st, 2nd, 3rd or even 4th date!! She is just a disgusting free-loader trying as many guys to score. So even if you gave into her for this one date, she got what she wanted. And a signal that she can try again with another! She doesn't care one bit that she lost a good, polite man! She just wants to score!
Don't even consider dating a woman with kids UNLESS: 1. The father of the kids was her HUSBAND. 2. The father passed away DURING the marriage. 3. The dead father is the one & only father of ALL the children. THEN and ONLY then may you CONSIDER it. This is the best possible scenario of avoiding a world of future misery with this FAMILY. 💯
@mssheltn1 I'm sure @Paul Barnes was replying to your comment of me being very young. Clearly smart about my comment regarding protecting assets from those particular women who are gold diggers.
She made a good point though. I understand why some people would decline the request but I also understand why someone would happily do it. Compassion is a great thing.
That’s female entitlement..thinking a man is obligated to pay for kids that ain’t his...or paying for food for that thug she got coming over later to pipe her down.
Ummm... first of all he was caught off guard so she should've told him before they were about to buy something that's he had kids.... I don't blame him! Ok let me explain , if I met your kids , if I know your kids, and if I have interacted with your kids , and IF YOUR KIDS HAPPEN TO BE THERE , I will pay for your kids meal 100%... but don't come up to me while we're in line at a fast food place and be like " oh btw I have two kids can you buy something to eat for them " like come on now that's not fair !
I'm with Jeannie on this one, its not about the money, it's the principal. They're just dating (early stages) there is no commitment to her much less her children. You're expecting another man to feed your already? They are not his responsibility and seems she was trying to take advantage of him from the start.
ADRIENNE, SHE DIDN’T EVEN TELL HIM SHE HAD KIDS UNTIL SHE STARTED BEGGING FOR FOOD FOR THEM. HOW IS HE SUPPOSED TO KNOW THATS WHAT HE WAS GETTING HIMSELF INTO?!
I think that is in such poor taste to ask someone on the first date for not one, but two extra meals for YOUR children. To me it sounds like she just goes on dates for free food and that's not right. If it's that important that your kids get a meal from that particular restaurant instead of a McDonald's on the way home or instead of the food at home pay for it yourself. Also, the fact that she caught an attitude instead of ordering the food herself just shows me that she was just trying to suck as much as she could out of the date, not that she really actually needed food for her kids
No wonder her ex husband left her. She’s cold hearted but she wanted to get on here playing the victim! That man was that she was wicked and had probably been looking for a way out!
Yes tam jeanie and Loni!! I would NEVER ask a man to buy my child his food other then his FATHER. And I dont have to ask him he just does it .. lol how does anyone even have the nerve to ask that lmfaooo..
@@dani09eveline we all know why and not going to entertain your nonsense. There is no benefit in dealing with that type of person or lifestyle. It's not dumb we are sick of everything that comes with it. No thanks I rather date a Foreigner.
she basically was asking him "hey, can you buy food for my kids". and he was damn right to say "no" to it. why would i buy food for someone else, who i probably haven't even seen once ? if she has time and money to go on a date, she should have the time and money to feed her kids. i don't think Adrienne understood the problem. it was just a date and he shouldn't feel responsible to feed someone else or their kids. not even that woman he dated, if he doesn't want to. on the other hand: WHY would you ask your date something like that?
I see where Adrienne is going BUT I thinks in that situation HE should have been the one offering to buy them something ( if he wanted to) and in that case it would be okay. But for HER to ask him ????? Nah fam ! That’s rude honestly. Especially on a first date 🤐
Why didn't she just say I'm gonna pick up some food for my 2 kids and then if he was the man she wanted, he would have had the opportunity to step up and offer to pay for it.Simple
I'm not trying to be rude, but this is the reason Adrienne got ran over in her previous relationship. You never speak from a what if point of view, but always relate your responses based on your current situations. Ma'am you are not obligated to buy your date's kids some food because what if the date doesn't go beyond the current date you're on. You're sitting up there talking about, "but at some point you're going to be dating the kids". A date out doesn't necessarily mean you're going anywhere. Lmfao
I agree with her though. I won't feel obligated to but I might because its just food and for kids at that. But it does say a lot about a person so I won't be seeing him again.
I have a sneaky suspicion... the "lady" who asked that question, was more than likely one of those royal black queens. I surely dont see an Asian woman asking that
Jeannie is being judged too harshly here, she is referring specifically to the first date scenario your date shouldn't have to pay for your kids meal. It is like Jeannie said its the first date, you are just getting to know each other that is not his responsibility. Loni also brought up a good point about assuming he would have the money to pay extra for the kids
On the first date? No way, they just met and haven’t even met the kids so I think it would be ok to do that once things get more deeper, like after he has met the kids and things are on good terms
Thelondonbadger 83% of single parent families in America are headed by women so statistically speaking men are a lot more likely to run off and presumably find someone else. Feel likes it’s unfair to expect women to stay alone for a large chunk of their life. As long as they’re not doing what the clearly awful woman from this video is doing.
Steve J as I just replied to the other dude. Marriage and child rearing are not the same thing. Many many people have children and are not married. So you can’t use that statistic in regards to talking about single parenthood. Also as I mentioned to totally ignore why a woman would bring forward divorce and say it’s their own fault is ignorant and a little cold hearted. Men are 7-10 times more likely to physically abuse their partners, men are 7.5 times more likely to have a problematic gambling addiction, almost twice as likely to be alcoholics, also it’s a small difference but men are actually 7% more likely to cheat. So if you take all of that into account could you perhaps see why more women may wish to get divorced than men? Even if some women do just try and take the money and run what percentage do you think that is of marriages? 2% 1%? Maybe less? I’m a dude myself it sounds like I’m saying we suck which we don’t. I’m just saying blaming women for high divorce rates isn’t right and neither is saying women shouldn’t try and find someone else if they have kids. If the man is going to do it why can’t they?
But he even said he didn’t know the kids! If he did and or met them, I can see her feeling some type of way. If you don’t know my kids I don’t expect you to and my kids are MY responsibility.
Adrienne honey you're far too kind and innocent. She was clearly just nice to the guy in hopes that it would sugar him up to purchasing the meals. Its sorta like when you're sweet to your mom so she gets you that new phone or paira shoes
Nah, why didn't she pay for her own kids takeout? Why ask him? Have some dignity. Tamara is 100% correct. Either that lady is a terrible mother or lying. Adrienne get it together. It was a first date, not an engagement dinner. What if he was on a strict budget and had only enough for him and his date? Feeding 2 extra mouths ain't cheap. Adrienne is so backwards on this one. Who was she to assume his financial state?
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If your kids are hungry you shouldn't be on a date.
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Well said sir.
@Jose Sanchez She's looking for a simp.
Only simps date single mothers.
Turning Point Inspiration What about single fathers?
Why are you out dating when you're kids are at home hungry.
smithy george right she need to be working part time instead of going on a date.
Adil Alfa you know you could still be dating with kids you know? Don’t be immature
She’s probably looking for a man to help her and her kids...but should find a sugar daddy instead of some dude on Tinder...
smithy george : Yeahhh
Exactly, I dont get these women why they think the man should pay for everything lol
I agree with Tam. I would NEVER feed myself before my children
Jessica MB Yes. Her character is all messed up. Kids home hungry while she having fun with a strange man. I think Tamera was right about that being the girls shtick.
Exactly!
Jessica MB
Exactly...... now that guy is going to start questioning her mothering skills if she’s going on a date before feeding her kids.
Jessica MB Same
kikilicious99 RIGHT 👏🏽
He wasn't dating her. He was on a date with her. First date. He's not on a date with her kids. He has no idea if he likes her enough to keep going and buy her kids meals.
She's the mom, she can buy her own kids meals.
Its all game
he is renting the mom from the kids, so the meals look like a good bargain.
@@samuelkundael3503 then she is a good digger because no one forced to go on the date so he not renting her. She could have simply said no or anything like that to get some money to feed her kids
Yeah or don’t go on dates and work to provide for your kids. Cuz if u have a few hours to spear for a date, you have a few hours to put some numbers on your time card 🗳
@@samuelkundael3503😂😂
Some women are just used to using men. That’s why this woman didn’t see a problem with asking such a ridiculous question.
Alan Growlin McBride exactly and let’s keep in mind if she’s on a date and has kids she’s single and there has to be a reason why she is single now I think we just found it
Very few are tho she’s just a very bad person I don’t think it’s be much different is she were a guy. Also have you asked why the father isn’t helping feed them?
It's funny because the majority of the audience (who are if not all are almost all women) agreed with the man's decision and just 1 of the hosts disagreed.
The dinners are for her
Probably huh, by that she seems old school.
What individual feels comfortable to even ask that on the first date and still have the audacity to catch an attitude when the person says no.
I agree.
+Calm Oceans WOW!
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mali cruz agreed girl, she was out of line, and it wasn’t his responsibility to feed her kids, no wonder she’s single
Exactly!
that was so rude of the lady wtf. I'd think you were on the date with me for free food if that happened, byeee
Exactly the man already spent a lot of his money to take her happy butt on a nice date if she needed to get her kids dinner she should’ve A) made dinner for them before hand and give it to the babysitter to give to them when it’s time or B) buy the kids McDonald’s from the dollar menu don’t expect your date to pay extra like that if they went to a fancy restaurant he probably wouldn’t be able to pay for them too after also paying for his and his date. Idk that’s just my opinion lol
She should have never asked him. That was rude to ask esp if was one of their 1st dates. Date 3 maybe and from place not expensive.
ilikemonkeys she was jusg being too much
@@tonyaluvs2dancensing not his kids not his problem
Why can't we respect the man's "no".
I don't get it? Nobody forced him to pay for the meal anyway. And literally everyone except Adrienne agreed that the mom was a fool for even asking. Who wasn't respecting his "no"?
It doesn't matter if it was a man or a woman saying no at this point... if a mother is asking for food for her kids... u gotta consider the minors involved in this. This woman must prolly be really broke and can't feed her kids etc... its not about u or ur rights being violated or some superficial bullshit anymore.
@@iisuperstarii7310 I'm with Adrienne. She's a true Christian and it shows.
"Why can't we respect a man's 'no'?"
Because then broke ass scurvy bitches be going *hangry.*
@@hippopotomonstrosesquipped8362 Ain't nothing more superficial than a heifer out on a date, eating, while her kids sitting at home hangry than a mother lover. If she hasn't done what she needs to do to feed the kids, before she ever thought about going on a date, she's a deadbeat mom, plain and simple. Cosigning deadbeat moms is why society is in the toilet.
Why didn't she cook for her children before the date.
Go ask her
Toxic Stoic youre doing too much
Toxic Stoic u killing me with theses hoe replies!!
Toxic Stoic your username says a lot about you
The Flying Dutchman never said that but ok
It’s NOT about the money - it’s about the fact that it’s a first date....
Adrienne you might pay for it out of obligation but you won’t be back for a second date
Facts
Exactly!
She lying her ass off
There's no obligation can we just clear that up please 😂
has anyone told you that you have nice eyes :)
Here's what she should have done....she should have made sure she had enough money on her to pay for her children's meals, then at the end of dinner, said, "hey, if you don't mind, I'd like to order something for my kids, but I'll put it on a separate bill." Then the man MIGHT have been more likely to say, "Don't worry about it, I'll take care of it." Then at least he would have been offering.
Way more classy than asking him to pay for it.
Jenny Eddins 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Definitely. You’re SO right
Jenny Eddins exactly common sense
Agree 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 smart
I agree, this is the socially acceptable route
Jenny Eddins Most likely he wouldn't have offered because his excuse was he hasn't met them.
I would've never ask that on a date... what a turn off... He dodged a bullet..She waved her red flag quick
Adrienne tripping lol. She just talking like that cause her mans got kids . That lady has some nerve asking that .
sofia24 She’s A Narcissist.
@@LexRuger718 I know right look i study astrology and phycology and I took both pills the red and blue
Capz Allison if she was a responsible mother then she would have thought of her kids first idk why a date comes before her kids and I’m not saying that single moms shouldn’t date but she needs to have her kids need before her own and then after her kids are fed she can go on dates
Hell yea
Unfortunately most women are narcissistic like that, cant put them self's in someones easels shoes, it always has to come back to them.
"Can we pass by target and buy them clothes too? And can you pay my utilities, they are due today?"
Bahaha. I died
mag steel damn right bitch
Just wait a little while she will
LoL
You are way passed you best.
Adrienne is lying. Women don't even want to pay half on the first date, so they damn sure wouldn't pay for a man's kids food.
Right
Not every women is the same. If she says she would, then she probably would.
@@frayhopkins9802 "Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same. Not all women are the same."
Logic783 they’re not but ok 👌
She’s rich, so she probably would do it since she doesn’t ever think about money troubles.
No! Not appropriate. Your kids should already be taken care of when you go out. Kids shouldn't be waiting on food that comes from a Date between you and a man your getting to know. Man will think your using him. Common sense not so common. Place and time for everything.
Agreed
SUZYBOSTONQUEEN Strategic Thottery. Okay. We hear you.
SUZYBOSTONQUEEN welcome to the modern independent women
Most if not close to all women think majority of men are weak and will try something like that on a date to pay for to go meals for their children. Just for the intent of implied sex in exchange.
@@quentin8122 Majority of men are simps, though, so she made a good gamble. She just picked the wrong one. She should consider a career in strip tease if she really wants to land the best simp.
I wish Adrienne would shutup about this topic. Loni is right, you cannot assume everyone has money to provide for your or your family needs, especially on a first date. This sounds like a free-loader or entitled person to me. She could have paid for it herself.
I don't agree with A, but it's still nice to see eople differents opinions
Or you can just respect the opinions of others. This show is all about open dialogue.
Neon Pandas you telling her to shuttup like if you there. That discussion was long gone and recorded and posted and you just on your device all hurt saying shuttup. How about you be grown, just because her opinion isn't that same as yours doesn't mean you have to be disrespectful and rude and post shuttup with the aim of making someone feel bad. Grow up child!
Neon Pandas just state your opinion and leave your trash talk for home
I am curious why Adri was so big on this? It seems wrong especially on the first date, or any date when you haven't met the child. 2nd Both sexes nowadays are not trustworthy.
Adrienne is passionate about this because she has step kids now. I agree with Tamera 100%.
Amena Teferi omg u watch the real too. I love your videos Amena ❤
Amena Teferi Adrienne's response seems to come from a place of knowing what it was to once be in need. I understand Adrienne. I won't ask but if someone is in need and I can help, I would do so. Agreed with Loni also bcuz if it is a high end restaurant, that would be unreasonable.
Melissa Din Adrienne has compassion whereas that guy sounds cold. Though the mother shouldn't have asked in the first place. Maybe it was a test?
You are So Beautiful!
Summerbreeze yeah that’s true
I’ve had this happen to me several times by my dates. I’m a single father of two daughters of the last 20 years and I couldn’t imagine asking a woman to pay for two take home meals for my daughters. I wasn’t even awarded child support when I got divorced when the girls were 2&3 and I was in the military stationed overseas so my income wasn’t very good. I’ve always provided for them myself and never once used Government benefits and now they are both in college and I’m helping them out to this day and I’m still single on my own. Girls just moved into their own college apartment two weeks ago.
No help for men, to much help for woman, nobody cares about single fathers "who usually do a better job"
Well done! You are a great dad!
Only I would say, you should have asked for gov support if you were entitled.
It would have helped I'm sure.
No... if she’s asking you that on the first date.. imagine when they start dating.. just saying
That's the essence of some of the best dating advice to women, and really anyone, I've heard. A first date is about impressing each other. If they are acting like this on a first date where you are supposed to be acting your best, you can't expect them to start acting better later on. It's all downhill.
I know the direction it is going to. after that, the next request if he has a car will, can you please help drop my kids at school on your way. Then can you please help take them to practice or some sports. Then music lessons, the mall....Then it gets worse. by the way, am not saying from my own experience hahah
Exactly. She should feed her kids and it ask him if he can stop by done place for her to buy food for them kids
Agreed
He doesn't know the kids Adrienne, obviously the relationship isn't advanced enough for him to be paying for them and for her to be asking.
Exactly, tacky
Right ! It would have been over right away lol.. ain't nobody got time for those games
It sounds like it was a first date too. It's not his job to buy food for her kids. She should've fed her kids BEFORE the date. And if she didn't, if I was a man I wouldn't wanna date her anyway after finding that out because that shows you what kind of mother she is. I think Tamera might be right, even if she has kids I think she wanted this food for later. She is dead wrong. That is not your long term boyfriend, or husband you should take care of your own kids. Or call their father to get them food.
Nah that ain't his kids or his responsibility. All of a sudden I got money for 2.
Yung activist money for 4!! his, hers and them! no effing way!!😮
Galaxy Zero Amen😂🙌🏾
That is why she asked him, not because it's his responsibility, BUT because it's hers!!!
@Galaxy Zero 😂😂😂😂😂
That's called playing chess, when people make one move to set up another! The next move is "I need money for the light bill and the rent"! 🤣
Lol. True indeed
Right on
Next the handbag
@@rogersmith6411 next my car keeps breaking down
Nice metaphor
That woman is so entitled to even ask that, kids or no kids. Especially on a first date. I don't see Adrienne's POV at all. You need to establish a relationship first.
Agreed
She is trying to say its not really too much about the date. Its more about not leaving another human being hungry.
@@JohnDoe-gc1kt But the responsibility to keep her kids fed is on her, not her date
@@michelem7914 I never said I agreed with her lol
@@JohnDoe-gc1kt Then I guess I dont understand the point of your comment. Can you clarify?
If the kids aren't even there on the date, then definitely no.
yess👏🏽
Even if the kids were there its not his job to feed them. It would be a nice gesture but as a mother she should feed her own kids.
That's what I thought at first that the woman brought her kids on the date.
Sorry what kind of mom would she be bringing her kids on a FIRST DATE?!? The heck!!
Hell no!!
I feel like Adrienne doesn't know what opinion she has, people are cheap for not agreeing to pay yet she said she'd never ask herself?
Then keeps saying "she comes with children"
1. He may not have known that before the date
2. If ANYONE can't afford to feed their kids, maybe they should worry about that 1st
Then proceeds to make it sound so easy and inexpensive. If that's the case why not have the woman drive to the nearest McDonald's or whatever and get stuff off a dollar menu or something (sorry for long rant)
Willa Jones I agree with her. I wouldn't do that. But if someone were to ask me for food for their kids. I would buy it.
Willa Jones...i think if u cant afford to feed ur kids u have no buisness dating...me as a mom i could not even get ready knowing im gonna be in a restaurant enjoying myself while my kids are home hoping to get some food what if he said No then what??? they get nothing...nah... if u cant feed them get urself a job or two or three thats what i did... and dont take a debit card and pretend to have cash when u know u dont and try to pretend to pay for their food because if it gets declined thats even worse...
she would never ask herself.. 1. because she doesn't have children 2. That is not what she would do, but if someone else asked her, she would do it.
Hey now give Adrienne some space, she’s just a very compassionate person and I think her point is valid too. If she was really desperate and said she was barely making ends meet and the guy had ‘enough’ money then sure, still depends on the person too. At first I was like hell no but taking things in consideration it’s not a terrible thing to ask if those children were really hungry. But it’s still tachy as hell tho
"If I didn't make them, why should I feed them?!"
Well said Jeannie 😂😂
She gained my respect with that comment.
Well until a relationship is established. When it's finally time for him to meet them, it would be a nice gesture to pay for the kids as well.
Said every man everywhere
If u didn't breed it don't feed it 😂😂😂
He should run. Run very fast away. It's a red flag. Leave the single mom alone.
Cut the date short and never talk to her again.
I would have laughed like "are you joking?"
Damarius Ingram how about “are you like serious?”🤨😂😂😂😂
Addriene please stop, that was just plane wrong for that woman to ask for him to pay for the kids, she shouldve saved some of her food and got a take home box.... Who would want to continue dating someone who can't even make it work on them selves, just straight up begging on the first date. Distasteful.
SincerelySaida This comment deserves so many likes!
SincerelySaida Adrienne was WAYYYY wrong on this one!👎👎
SincerelySaida lmao you saying please stop like if you talking to her. She's just stating her opinion don't let it get to you that much just because it's opposite to what you would do.
Lexy Martin the person who made the comment is stating their opinion too
Exactly people are annoying. Those are YOUR kids that is not his responsibility.
By the title I thought the kids went on the date too but after watching and they’re not even there? No boo 😂🤦🏾♀️
Me too 😂😂😂
Right, it made me think of the movie Bebe's Kids lol
Me too😑😐
2:23
Jeannie: “if I didn’t make them why should I feed them?”
Audience member : “exactly!”
Facts
@Blind Squid 😅"feed the heathens"? Wow, is that what we're calling them now?
PERIOD 👏👏👏
Crazy world we’re all living in. Why is this even up for debate. Your kids aren’t someone else’s responsibility. Feed your kid before going on a date. Dudes shouldn’t be taking single mothers out on dates anyway.
I agree. Im a single father and I would never in a million years date a single mother.
Because we live in a world where women can do no wrong. They ask questions like this to see how far the brainwashing has twisted our perception of reality. They see that majority of the people Wouldn't even question why is she out on dates while her kids are starving but instead ignore common sense question to jump into help her mode
Excuse me what’s wrong with single moms? I’m a single mom to a son my past isn’t my fault I flew from an abusive relationship I pay my own rent and I’m a nurse whose to say all women with a past are freeloaders your ignorant why should single women date single dads either? The pot is calling the kettle black?
S.C Fitness
“Your past isn’t your fault?” Lmao 😂 then who’s fault is it? And stop bragging about paying “your own rent”. As an adult we’re all expected to pay our bills. Do you want a cookie for taking care of your kid too? Lol and NO single women shouldn’t feel obligated into dating single fathers either. However in our culture, it’s more of a burden on single men when depending in whatever state you live in, you can be put on child support for a child that isn’t yours. Women don’t seem to ever have that problem. Single men typically DONT want a ready made family where our resources are going to kids that don’t come from us.
@@ladybluemoon1
So, which one of you were the abusive one in the relationship? Oh, wait... You're a woman and you did nothing wrong, right? You NEVER instigated a fight, right?
You already ticked a major "Red Flag" with me.
if he offers then ok...but you dont ask a man on the first date to buy anything for your kids
100%
No Adrienne. It’s just bad manners. I just met you. Don’t ask me to pay for your kids or anybody else you know. I. 👏🏻Don’t. 👏🏻Think. 👏🏻So.
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Agreed. It's just tacky
Adrienne stop!!! She was wrong. Period. Tam might be right about her running game.
Rhonda McK you are right, Adrienne doesn’t have kids of her own
I was looking forward to this comment section
I was not disappointed...
You never take a chick out to eat on a first date. Coffee or one drink.
That was a test. She is an opportunist trying to find the right mark to exploit. If i got hungry kids at home I can't even think about having fun on a date. On dates you are getting to know others, not unload your issues onto them. If I were him I'd be very turned off at her audacity.
Who the hell ask that on a first date
A mother who is broke and neglecting her children.
So will you judge her and say no or will you feel sorry for the kids and buy them food even if it is from McDonald's. Even if it is just fries... just so you have the peace of mind the kids are fed?
You dont ever have to date that person anymore... and u never have to do this again cause its not ur responsibility... but that one time u were asked, God was testing ur heart. And if God gave u enough money and blessed u with a good living what stopped u from sharing a bit of that sustenance with minors?
Hell I would say to the lady I won't pay for your food on this date but I'll pay for the kid's food.
@@hippopotomonstrosesquipped8362 if you're kids are at home starving, then you shouldn't be all dolled up going on a date enjoying a free meal. You don't feed yourself before your kids. It was a first date. You don't onow the person like that. That was just stupid.
Sorry ass woman
@IceMan24 Notice how the man is always expected to be holier than thou and not the irresponsible harlot having babies out of wedlock? This is why these skanks are alone.
A black woman that's who !!!
I think this says something about the mom. First of all she left her kids at home hungry while she went on a date? Second she was going to be gone at least a couple of hours so she was gonna feed them how late? Third what was her backup plan in case he said no? This was a first date and for her to ask him as he is paying to purchase two carry out meals was a chance she took. Why is she mad? She had to know that no was a possibility. I don’t believe this guy was wrong. The problem with this is there are lots of variables we don’t know about the situation.
I've been in this situation before, and I bought the kids food, but it was also the last time we spoke. It's not about the money, it's the principle: first dates set the tone for the rest of the relationship for me, you asking me to do stuff for your kid's like this tells me that it's most definitely not the first time for you to do this. We. Just met, I'm still trying to figure out what we could be, now you asking me to be a dad? This tells me that you don't understand boundaries.
Hun why did you pay for her then??
I'm sorry but that just made you the stupid party!
Coz you pandered to her!
We, all women are absolutely disgusted with her!!
NO woman with a single SHRED of morals would ask such a thing! And you gave into her even if it's a one date?
I would have said flat no. Not for 1st, 2nd, 3rd or even 4th date!!
She is just a disgusting free-loader trying as many guys to score. So even if you gave into her for this one date, she got what she wanted. And a signal that she can try again with another!
She doesn't care one bit that she lost a good, polite man! She just wants to score!
You got played, never buy her kids food and get taken advantage like that.
You bought dinner for her and her Chad for later man
She never respected nor cared for you in the first place. She was never interested in you.
Don't even consider dating a woman with kids UNLESS:
1. The father of the kids was her HUSBAND.
2. The father passed away DURING the marriage.
3. The dead father is the one & only father of ALL the children.
THEN and ONLY then may you CONSIDER it. This is the best possible scenario of avoiding a world of future misery with this FAMILY. 💯
@mssheltn1 Damn! How many BD's you got?! 😂🤣😭💀💯
@mssheltn1 Nope, not at all. Just an opinion
4. Her children don't all have different fathers to whom she wasn't married.
@mssheltn1 No he's clearly very smart.
@mssheltn1 I'm sure @Paul Barnes was replying to your comment of me being very young. Clearly smart about my comment regarding protecting assets from those particular women who are gold diggers.
Are you serious Mrs. Houghton?
Joshua Lee Johnson if u dont like her then why do u watch it
She made a good point though. I understand why some people would decline the request but I also understand why someone would happily do it. Compassion is a great thing.
xBelloGiorno now you’re putting words in my mouth. I never said not doing made you in-compassionate. It’s not that deep
how is buying food for someone elses kids immature? She was expressing her thoughts
xBelloGiorno lol I know what we’re talking about. I’m simply saying that it’s ok if someone accepts the request.
HELL NO! Those aren’t his damn kids! 😣 The Hell is wrong with folks?
Agreed and only if he becomes father to those kids should he pay for their meals if the relationship works out
Exactly
That’s female entitlement..thinking a man is obligated to pay for kids that ain’t his...or paying for food for that thug she got coming over later to pipe her down.
@@sickofguysnamedtodd2293 for real...since he did not buy her kids any food....she did not give him any and call the ex's to come over
@@anthonysanders7407 gut
Yes, Loni! $14 is a lot depending on how much you make.
Tamera, I'm 100% with you.
The more a man allows a woman to push him into being a nice guy the less she respects him
if we're at say Olive Garden I'll get them breadsticks to go, but that's it.
Mason Perry lol
Mason Perry 😂
That women tried it .. what the hell 🙄
Ummm... first of all he was caught off guard so she should've told him before they were about to buy something that's he had kids.... I don't blame him! Ok let me explain , if I met your kids , if I know your kids, and if I have interacted with your kids , and IF YOUR KIDS HAPPEN TO BE THERE , I will pay for your kids meal 100%... but don't come up to me while we're in line at a fast food place and be like " oh btw I have two kids can you buy something to eat for them " like come on now that's not fair !
Myronn Coleman u don't have to write a whole fucken essat idiot
Myronn Coleman exactly!
I'm with Jeannie on this one, its not about the money, it's the principal. They're just dating (early stages) there is no commitment to her much less her children. You're expecting another man to feed your already? They are not his responsibility and seems she was trying to take advantage of him from the start.
*principle.
Major red flag, she's on the hunt for a beta male provider.
ADRIENNE, SHE DIDN’T EVEN TELL HIM SHE HAD KIDS UNTIL SHE STARTED BEGGING FOR FOOD FOR THEM. HOW IS HE SUPPOSED TO KNOW THATS WHAT HE WAS GETTING HIMSELF INTO?!
That was incredibly rude of that woman! She should've fed her own damn kids!
Paying for kids he’s never met...hmm
I think that is in such poor taste to ask someone on the first date for not one, but two extra meals for YOUR children. To me it sounds like she just goes on dates for free food and that's not right. If it's that important that your kids get a meal from that particular restaurant instead of a McDonald's on the way home or instead of the food at home pay for it yourself. Also, the fact that she caught an attitude instead of ordering the food herself just shows me that she was just trying to suck as much as she could out of the date, not that she really actually needed food for her kids
exactly
Never mow another man’s lawn fellas. 👌🏽
thats a new one lol
Solution: Stay clear of single mothers.
Adrienne talking CRAZY!
i low-key think Jeannie was expecting an applause at 2:27 lol
Angel O Oh she definitely was but that was a REAL fail.
😂🤣🤦
No wonder her ex husband left her. She’s cold hearted but she wanted to get on here playing the victim! That man was that she was wicked and had probably been looking for a way out!
Yup I was too👏👏👏😜😝
Angel O Hell yea she was lol smh she’s was being way too dramatic bout it
I agree with Tamara mom should of fed her kids before going on a date! Lol
Yes tam jeanie and Loni!! I would NEVER ask a man to buy my child his food other then his FATHER. And I dont have to ask him he just does it .. lol how does anyone even have the nerve to ask that lmfaooo..
Are we really having this talk. Stop dating single moms ugh. This comes off as using. Dont date single moms problem solved
@@dani09eveline we all know why and not going to entertain your nonsense. There is no benefit in dealing with that type of person or lifestyle. It's not dumb we are sick of everything that comes with it. No thanks I rather date a Foreigner.
dani for the simple fact that they are the bitchest and neediest people on earth and think they are entitled
@@tomc2491 bingo!
@@dani09eveline Single fathers don't usually have custody of the kids. Single mothers do.
Here's the kicker I'm a single father that has custody of his children and I won't date a single mom.
Yes people please feed your children before you leave🤦🏾♀️ Jeannie is my new Bff🤣
she basically was asking him "hey, can you buy food for my kids". and he was damn right to say "no" to it. why would i buy food for someone else, who i probably haven't even seen once ? if she has time and money to go on a date, she should have the time and money to feed her kids.
i don't think Adrienne understood the problem. it was just a date and he shouldn't feel responsible to feed someone else or their kids. not even that woman he dated, if he doesn't want to.
on the other hand: WHY would you ask your date something like that?
I see where Adrienne is going BUT I thinks in that situation HE should have been the one offering to buy them something ( if he wanted to) and in that case it would be okay. But for HER to ask him ????? Nah fam ! That’s rude honestly. Especially on a first date 🤐
Simple solution: Don't Date Them.
Taking advantage of the poor dude with her fake chemistry. Glad he said no.
If I were the guy, I would've felt bad for the kids and most likely bought the togo food. BUT I probably wouldn't ask the woman on a second date.
Why didn't she just say I'm gonna pick up some food for my 2 kids and then if he was the man she wanted, he would have had the opportunity to step up and offer to pay for it.Simple
Jeannie really thought she had it at 2:25😭
MissT She did! They were just not feeling it
Someone said exactly so she did have it
m e 👍🏾
Lmaooooo!!!! IM WEAK!
Y’all are rude lmao
She wouldn't get a second date.
I ain’t paying for no single mothers kids. I’m not even tryna get close to a single mother. That’s the rule
Adrienne I like you but you were drunk in this segment !! what you said made no sense ! this was their FIRST date ! they didn´t even know each other !
That's trifling, buy your own Kids Something to eat. She's trying to Use that man
I'm not trying to be rude, but this is the reason Adrienne got ran over in her previous relationship. You never speak from a what if point of view, but always relate your responses based on your current situations. Ma'am you are not obligated to buy your date's kids some food because what if the date doesn't go beyond the current date you're on. You're sitting up there talking about, "but at some point you're going to be dating the kids". A date out doesn't necessarily mean you're going anywhere. Lmfao
Exactly!!! Who the hell dates kids??? I never subscribed to that notion. Buuuut I don't "date" single mothers either 🤷🏾♂️
I agree with her though. I won't feel obligated to but I might because its just food and for kids at that. But it does say a lot about a person so I won't be seeing him again.
That woman lost her damn mind. Just showed her intent of agreeing to go on a date with the man, which was to use him.
I have a sneaky suspicion... the "lady" who asked that question, was more than likely one of those royal black queens. I surely dont see an Asian woman asking that
@東Asilia how many trailer parks are in new your city? Zero that's how many... Good try though ♥️
@東Asilia like I said....wanna bet?
Jeannie is being judged too harshly here, she is referring specifically to the first date scenario your date shouldn't have to pay for your kids meal. It is like Jeannie said its the first date, you are just getting to know each other that is not his responsibility. Loni also brought up a good point about assuming he would have the money to pay extra for the kids
Mandy S 100 percent agreed with Jeannie
A always misses the point it’s so frustrating to watch lol
Yeah she is such a chatty air head fr
No. She's a Christian who saw that children needed sustenance and she jumped at the chance of being charitable.
@@rahattesfaldet3044 you lot are the most ignorant lot I've ever come across. Selfish too. Wow.
@@hippopotomonstrosesquipped8362 shut your spineless ass up, nobody wants to hear your blue pill bullshit
On the first date? No way, they just met and haven’t even met the kids so I think it would be ok to do that once things get more deeper, like after he has met the kids and things are on good terms
As a man with no kids this is one of the reasons I prefer women with no kids. This is insane.
Jemelrah Clark I prefer men with no kids. I don’t have any. I’ve tried but your made to feel like an outsider.
Adrianne is one of those "if you don't buy my daughter a happy meal on the first date then we're not going to work out" type of women
It’s a first date like the hell😒 he owes nothing that woman or her kids NO
I think Adrienne realized she sounded crazy🤣
Nooooooooo! Omg I’m embarrassed just thinking about this. Ughhhh no way would I ask someone to pay for my kids 😭
Single mothers raising kids shouldn’t be in the dating game to begin with
What do you suppose they do for the rest of their lives regarding relationships.
@Thelondonbadger amen to that
Thelondonbadger 83% of single parent families in America are headed by women so statistically speaking men are a lot more likely to run off and presumably find someone else. Feel likes it’s unfair to expect women to stay alone for a large chunk of their life. As long as they’re not doing what the clearly awful woman from this video is doing.
Steve J as I just replied to the other dude. Marriage and child rearing are not the same thing. Many many people have children and are not married. So you can’t use that statistic in regards to talking about single parenthood. Also as I mentioned to totally ignore why a woman would bring forward divorce and say it’s their own fault is ignorant and a little cold hearted. Men are 7-10 times more likely to physically abuse their partners, men are 7.5 times more likely to have a problematic gambling addiction, almost twice as likely to be alcoholics, also it’s a small difference but men are actually 7% more likely to cheat. So if you take all of that into account could you perhaps see why more women may wish to get divorced than men? Even if some women do just try and take the money and run what percentage do you think that is of marriages? 2% 1%? Maybe less? I’m a dude myself it sounds like I’m saying we suck which we don’t. I’m just saying blaming women for high divorce rates isn’t right and neither is saying women shouldn’t try and find someone else if they have kids. If the man is going to do it why can’t they?
Just saying men shouldn't be forced or shamed into keeping other guy's sperm as a pet
I'm a single mother I would never ask anyone to buy my sons food. Totally agree with Tamera.
But he even said he didn’t know the kids! If he did and or met them, I can see her feeling some type of way. If you don’t know my kids I don’t expect you to and my kids are MY responsibility.
I can't help but feel that the lady was just testing the guy. I really don't believe that a mother would go out on a date before feeding her kids.
a bullet either way. Poor guy lost money on another date with another testing bitch.
If she feels the need to lie about having kids for a “test”, is she really mature enough for an adult relationship?
Wtf? Why couldn’t she stop at McD and pick up a couple of Happy Meals... that SHE pays for!🍔🍟🥤
Good for you Eric!🙌
Adrienne honey you're far too kind and innocent. She was clearly just nice to the guy in hopes that it would sugar him up to purchasing the meals. Its sorta like when you're sweet to your mom so she gets you that new phone or paira shoes
Their father can buy them food. Single mothers always act like it’s someone else problem to take care of their child/ren
Nah, why didn't she pay for her own kids takeout? Why ask him? Have some dignity. Tamara is 100% correct. Either that lady is a terrible mother or lying. Adrienne get it together. It was a first date, not an engagement dinner. What if he was on a strict budget and had only enough for him and his date? Feeding 2 extra mouths ain't cheap. Adrienne is so backwards on this one. Who was she to assume his financial state?
At first i was thinking the kids were there and he was just cheap but take out? Girl no, that's rude.
I am living for Tamera's reaction to all this xDDDD
And women wonder why men are not dating much anymore
Not worth it....and the cost of everything is high....worse of it all, I bet he did not get any...she call her boy toy or an ex's
This the first time these women have discussed something that I agree with 😂