had a date for dinner, reservations for 7pm, told her I will be at her place for 615pm, traffic was a bit light so I got there for 605, knocked on door at 610, she just got out of the shower and said she would be ready by 630 and told me to wait in my car, I waited till 631 and she wasnt even dressed yet, still in her bathrobe when she answered door at 631... all I said was "Kewl, ok" walked back to car and was 5 min late for MY reservation... she called me at 740 asking where I was parked and was ready to go... told her I was parked in the parking lot.... she said she didnt see me, told her of course not, Im parked in the parking lot AT THE RESTURANT... one of the best dinners I had in months, had the opportunity to really enjoy the food and atmosphere and not be distracted by someones babbling complaining about the food and etc...
I went out with a crazy lady perpetually late but the World ended if I was 30 seconds late. Dinner at 6:00 pm usually meant 7:00 at the earliest! One time I waited for her call for two hours but she said she forgot, even though we'd talked two hours earlier! I'd had enough and broke up with her on the phone! I had serious emotional investment in this woman but it wasn't reciprocated and while a bitter pill to swallow, I realized she was basically Cancer and needed to be removed from my body and surgery was the only option! She remained like this for many years, never got married and now lives with a daughter and is retired! I'm pussed I actually let this go as far as it did! Respect needs to be shown by both parties or it just a port in a storm!
@@davefellhoelter1343that's a "I expect the respect that I give card" it's got nothing to do with genders. We do have our differences for sure and women are often the worst for procrastination but this is just a matter of respect. Some people waste their own time and think they can waste yours too and oh you're not complain about it. I'd just say nothing and leave. I'm not really into places I need a reservation for. Where I'm from you only make reservations if it's a really busy holiday time or something
Met my husband as a blind date. We had a great time,he made laugh and was a great guy. At the end of the date his car had a flat tire at the restaurant,which was going to get me home later then what I told my parents. He called my father and explained the delay. We just celebrated our 35th wedding anniversary. I’m so grateful I found an awesome partner in life.
I took a girl to play Minnie golf about 30 miles away and she calls some guy and is on the phone the entire time.. I didn't even say anything.. I just walked up to the counter and turned my club.. walked to my car and left her there..... I don't play games with idiots..
How we do. First date with a gorgeous looking woman in a restaurant she picked. Awnsering me shortly a couple attempts, focussed on and typing on her phone. Then get angry I left her before dinner was served. Layed down money for her food and cab and went eating nu myself where I liked. Lol her getting angry. Obviously she had zero interest in me and I was sitting there by myself. What was she thinking showing zero interest in me and me not taking the cue, wastingy time with poor companionship? No ty. I got more fun things to do than waste my time on somebody I don't like to be with.
I was married once…because I don’t want to be married twice. I own my own home, retired early, have great friends and indulge my hobbies. Life is good.
@Chikenlovelyfr I'm already married and also very loyal. You will find a good woman some day. There are a lot of shitty people out there, it's difficult when you have a good heart. Took me 41 years to get it right
I’m a woman and same, would rather be on the water any day. If someone wants to go on a date with me they can join me fishing. I’ll know real fast if we’re compatible or not lol.
I get your drift, Its better to fish than date. Its a world of hurt = dating. I somehow think I would miss women by just fishing. Then again, I never date. I just get women somehow. I am not good with that talking shallow and dating stuff. I rather just get hold of them through strange websites or social media. Not good with dating sites. I don't want to date again this age. I am 45. It would be a nightmare. I find most people extremely boring. I have to compensate for them.
I had a first date with a girl at a Red Lobster. I got there ten minutes early and she's already at the bar, which I thought was a little odd but really didn't give it much thought. So we get a table, menus, and she orders an alcoholic drink which annoys me a little but I let it slide. The waitress comes back to take our orders. She orders an appetizer sampler platter, another drink and then orders the most expensive dinner they have which was some combination of three different meals and then she orders ANOTHER one of those to go! I'm just rolling my eyes at this point because she's going to be in for a shock when she finds out I'm not paying for any of her part of the bill. Anyway, fast forward to me getting the bill and that's when I found out that she got there an hour early and had ordered several expensive alcoholic drinks before I arrived. The total bill was about $170 (this was a long time ago when things weren't so expensive). My part of the bill was about $20 for dinner and a soda, so I gave the waitress $30 in cash, told her that was for my food plus tip, said "nice to meet you" to the girl, and left her there with the most stunned look I've ever seen on someone's face. She blew up my phone trying to call and text saying she didn't have the money to pay the bill and what a piece of shit I was, but I simply drove home with a smile on my face.
"she orders an alcoholic drink which annoys me a little but I let it slide." Are you fcking Mormon? I know America was founded by Puritans and they banned alcohol at one point but I didn't know it was still filled with people who hated fun. She dodged a miserable life when you left. What is your hobby, watching paint dry?
@@ViolentCabbage-ym7ko if your trans...dont try and fool men unless your willing to pay the ultimate price. Pretending to have a vag when your packing what god gave you and trying to pass yourself off as a female is unforgivable.
If my day starts flirting with another man while we’re on the dinner date and I’m gonna get up, I’m gonna pay for my meal and I’m gonna eat my meal and I’m leaving. She’s on her own. You put your phone up to your ear. You start texting your phone. You are checking your phone dates over instantly.
I was on a first date with a woman from a dating site, we had talked for some time then planned a date to saw each other, on the date it was going fine till she ordered more meals then the one she had in front of her, she said these were for her mother and father back at home, i told her remember we are DUTCH ON THE BILL RIGHT? she said no YOUR PAYING FOR IT ALL, OK??? I TOLD HER I HAD TO GO TO THE BATHROOM, I FAKED THE BATHROOM INSTEAD WENT TO THE MGR, PAID FOR MY HALF OF THE BILL, PLUS A TIP FOR THE WAITRESS, AND LEFT OUT THE DOOR, I TOLD THE MGR TO TELL HER I LEFT 5 MINS LATER, AND TO GIVE THIS NOTE, I READ ,LOSER DATE?she called me on the phone and asked how was she going to get home i told a cab?uber? bill your mother or father for the ride,!!!
@johnthomas338 imagine calling someone unbelievable over 1 grammar mistake in a whole essay. You are probably as stupid as most of the women in this video.. unbelievable...
That’s the grammar error you’re fixated on? Not the “your” instead of “you’re” or the strange all caps choice or the run-on sentences? What’s unbelievable is generalizing from a single comment to an entire country that represents all different types of people, most of whom had to prove they are capable of better grammar than this in order to graduate high school.
@@CourtneyGBartlett You're wrong. Or should I say, in 'American', 'your wrong'. LOL. It's AMERICANS who make these mistakes, over and over, all the time, all over the internet. I am generalising about Americans because it's an AMERICAN problem. Sorry if you don't like reality.
MANY years ago, when i was in the military (I am in my 60's now), I went to pick up a girl for a first date. I drove up in a Brand new Chevrolet El Camino. She looks at it and says "I don't go anywhere in a truck....". That was the end of that. But the follow up was really good. I was picking up the next date and went to open the car door for her. She tells me "You don't have to open the door for me just because I am a woman...". I continued to hold the door for her and said "I am NOT opening the door for you because you are a woman. I am opening the door because I am a gentleman...". Just walks up to the door, kisses me, and says "You are a treasure. I hope the rest of the night is just as awesome." It was.
Every woman I have ever taken out has had her doors opened, chairs pulled out and other things that make them feel special. It is what a gentleman does. Some did not appreciate or like it, most did. I am 64 years old man this month.
20 if she communicates well before the set time to meet with a legit reason i.e. she has a flat on her car and has to deal with it but that's only if she isn't wanting till the last possible moment to say anything
Ha ha. I mean I know its a cost of living crisis but wow. I hope he then went to a grocery store, bought a huge bag of oranges, went back and emptied the bag on the counter! 😅
If its on the bar in a dish, its normally free for the customers, like peanuts, ketchup packets, stirrers, and straws. They are even a free extra when they are added into the drinks they are supposedly for. Sure, a person could argue that the price of the orange is included in the price of the drink, but we know the drink isnt cheaper if they hold the orange, so its reasonable to assume its not included in the price and is free. Its a free orange. I wouldnt pay for the free orange, would give zero tip, would never return, and would tell others not to go there. If she wants that orange to be expensive for someone, it will be expensive for her employer in lost business.
I was single for a length of time after my first divorce. I didn't leave my marriage alone, I had three small children ages 4, 6, and 8. He cheated multiple times while we were stationed abroad and I had enough. My dating went from being married to my high school sweetheart (13 yrs.) to a single mother of three. When I finally agreed to be "setup" for a date by friends I was left at a movie theater, at a restaurant, and at horse stables by men I fully explained my status and talked often about what happened to me and what I came with children & job wise. You see I was a military translator and interrogation specialist. Men were scared to death to know what I did for a vocation. My second marriage failed (11 yrs.) due to intimidating background as well. I would never date one of my Operators and men seemed to fear me regardless. Now I'm older and just a home in rural Arkansas with my childhood friend, my 70 year old mom, my two youngest special needs adult children, and my senior high school age son. Yes, five children between my 1st and 2nd marriages. My childhood best suffered a serious TBI in the Army years back, and he's not always the smartest thinker but he loves me, even with me being in a wheelchair after three major spinal surgeries gone wrong after a broken spine. Is he the love of my life, maybe? Do I love like some other women can, probably not because of life experiences. I love him and the family we've made for ourselves regardless of the depth and despair at times. It's been hard knowing that I'm not the woman I used to be but we're all family and friends in our home. We work at it no matter what.❤
So those types of women, yes, but yall dudes don't know how to pick them and its your own fault that's like me wanting a husband and chasing a thug and not knowing this person is ignorant you can tell by the way a person talks act and dress that they are not wife or hubby material then yall come to TH-cam talking about all women I dont like dudes like that like you know what your picking they just not it. chose wisely be smart
My friend zone experiences have been exceptional. With the exception of my birthday, I always pay for our time out. The response is genuine gratitude. One girl forgot our date, panicked in the parking lot she was at when she remembered, rushed into the restaurant after I’d already seated myself after an hour of waiting, and yelled “I’m paying!” Beautiful women like this are friends for life.
💯 I care if my husband is happy and feels loved and he cares that I feel the same. I've never been disrespectful to him, and I can say he has never been disrespectful to me. 17 years. It seems like a hard concept for so many people. 😔
As a woman, watching these videos sure makes me glad I’m married. The dating world looks just awful right now. I will say though, it makes me appreciate my husband even more.
Same here, as a man married to a woman. What a mess the dating world must be like right now. Finding a proper partner is probably like finding a job on Indeed. If you don't have the right criteria, you won't even be considered.
Yes it really does, my daughter found her log time boyfriend playing a computer game on the internet by chance, those dating apps seem to me they make it harder not easier, it’s not helpful to have 20-30-40 failed dates, both men and women’s self confidence risk getting very low and just give up ☹️ hope my son 16 years old is just as lucky when he gets older and not having to deal with so many failed attempts, I only had one girlfriend before a met there mother when I was 18 years old, can’t imagine having 40 failed dates that must be demoralizing 😮
I feel bad for men these days. I know not all women are like so many seem to be today, but its gotta be tough. Hold the door, I don't need you to hold the door. Pay for the meal OMG don't pay for my meal. Just be yourselves and stop listening to the lunatics.
15:13 Its actually not on her at all. If you're 2 minutes from closing, don't seat the customer. Offer them takeout at the very least. Tell them you're no longer taking orders. That's 100% on the establishment. Even if they've been taking a long time to finish up, there are ways of handling this situation respectfully. Turn off the music prior to closing as a hint its time to wrap things up. Don't continue to wait on them. Give them the bill. Let the customer know they're closing and offer them an option to have their food wrapped up.
I've worked in too many restaurants If we're a couple minutes that I can count on my hands away from closing I'm not going to go to the chefs and tell them I'm putting in another order I'm going to tell the customer what the deal is and that most likely it's going to piss everybody off but that will still take their order if needed And I'm 100% going to be doing my closing duties while they're getting their food and basically hinting at them that they need to get the fuck out But it would be 100% on me if I took their order
Happy wife, happy life- was meant as a “ you take care of your wife and she WILL HAPPILY take care of you”…, it was not meant as a “ give the spoiled entitled brat everything she screams at you to provide and you will be happy with 5 minutes of peace before the next round of complaining”!!!!!!!
@@joeuser633 you really couldn't figure that out on your own?? My mom henpecked my dad, my brother and me growing up. As an adult, I knew I would never allow that abuse again to me and I have not. My poor brother still now suffers from cruel spouse.
What makes it even WORSE is that human fat storage facility ISN'T a woman....it's a MAN. That's Gorlock the Destroyer, and the mental gymnastics required to classify that human sphere as a female "ten" would make the Olympics look like a baby taking their first steps by comparison. The only way that creature will qualify as a ten will be on the Richter scale if it falls over.
1:07 She probably cheated WITH the ex-best friend, that's why they're both the ex's.... But now that she screwed up, she can't let him go, so she's going to do everything she can to try and ruin any relationship he tries to have.
You're probably right, but she didn't SAY anything about trying to ruin his relationship. She SAID for him to have fun with his new girl, all the while idiotically acting like her having fun with her new guy is somehow better.
I almost shit myself. If you literally hand a woman cash on a stick, and she makes fun of you because it's not ENOUGH cash on a stick.... I mean, you deserve to be made fun of, but not for THAT reason.
@@sg5720 Really? Did you watch the video? Did you see the bit wherein the guy tries to give a money bouquet to a chick, and she makes fun of him because it's not enough money?
She: "It sounds like you talked about a horse." He: "To be fair, you don´t see any fat horses." 6:20f That come back was funny as hell. I so did NOT see that coming - doubling down like that.🐴🐎🤣🤣
I’m 59 and I’m glad I’m out of that lifestyle. Todays women bring so much judgment and disfunction that that give ALL women a bad name . Stay strong guys. I have 3 adult sons and I fear for their emotional, financial, spiritual and mental future on the daily .
I was on a date once, beautiful woman, and we clicked. We went from the restaurant to a bar. We got comfortable, and started asking more personal questions. She asked me why i was single, and how would my ex describe me... Then she got a call, it started well, then shouting match began. I asked if everhthing was okay. She replied yeah, that was her ex. So basically, he got into a motorbike accident and couldnt walk anymore. She didnt sign up to be his carer. That sentence hit me differently, i was thinking, i play basketball, i can get injured. I told her that i don't think it work between us. She asked why, i said because that could be me tomorrow and another man could be the day after.
If she seems like a "Fair Weather Only" type of person, then that is a problem. Someone that is deliberately unwilling to handle problems in a so-called reliable and steady marriage is definitely not marriage material.
So would you be around if she got in an accident and could walk anymore? Or would you bail? Be truthful Dude. Love how you guys down on a woman who wont hang around. But you know you'd do the same thing.
A lot of them are actually skits. The one from darrylcvega, for example, is definitely a skit. He does that African guy character all the time. The last one I saw from him was him pretending to be the driver of the Amazon truck that was filmed driving on the sidewalk. He's hilarious. But yeah, this channel thrives on outrage/confirmation bias clicks from lonely Gen Z and millennial men. Because both generations were not only coddled as children, but were also raised in fatherless homes more than previous generations and have no idea how to be men. It's sad.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Mate. Leave. It won’t work. Raking over the past. Partners are a random pick. You will be compatible with about five people at the traffic lights when you walking. You just don’t meet them yet. Be you. Play some sport. Go where people are. Meet someone new. Old will not work. You just wasting time. Time is life. No contact for 8-12 months. You will have no feelings. Don’t drive past her house or apartment. Don’t go near her work. Do something for you. And don’t waste yr money on the spiritual advisor. Their bank account is where they are at. Move on mate. Fast. Have faith in you. The next real love is just five people to your right st the traffic lights in the crowd. Seriously. Best wishes.
I’m in my 50’s and I have to say. Not once not twice. Maybe a dozen times have I walked away from toxic dates. I’ve left them at movies bars dinner. I just don’t care.
I'm in my late 40's and dating at this age is crazy! Some people just have not grown up or dealt with their emotional baggage yet and are not ready to date. I've left a couple of dates right in the middle.
okay..I'm in my 50's and my hubby passed from cancer...so I don't date at all...but out of curiosity, what is a toxic date that you experienced...were the ladies, around the same age as you? what makes them toxic?
$12 though? Like at most $3 but it's not like he stole a bunch of them. Also, they chose to leave the tray of oranges on what looks like a serving counter and only when someone took one that it all of a sudden it's, "We have a citrus shortage"....then why put them in distance of a customer in the first place?
If there was a citrus shortage, why put the oranges on the same table with the guest instead of the kitchen or behind the bar or something? Most people would think it was complementary.
- I don't know if it was a bad location or bad decisions or whatever, but what I do know is that there would be zero chance I would pay 12 bucks for an Orange, I would either pay for the tab minus the ridiculous 12 dollar Orange fee, or I would just take the tab with me and walk, saying I was not going to remain in a location where I was going to be robbed. I have never skipped out on a bill in my life however I also will never pay 12 bucks for an Orange. I would go to the grocery store down the block, pay 7 bucks for a bag, and give them one back best case scenario for them.
@@Arthaius I would pay, give bad review, talk bad about the place on social media, never return. I’m sure some upper management would reach out to me and try and make it right.
@@mickymickymike4105 - I tend to have that attitude when it comes to things like a screwed up order or like a pizza delivery situation, but in this case the person was being blatantly thieved from, so in no way would I stand for that. simply put, I'm fairly confidant that nowhere on this continent is an Orange going to be legitimately listed at $12 for one fruit, not in the public market, and I pretty much guarantee that anyone seeing that price tag simply wouldn't make the purchase, so, it would be an unrealistic non sustainable price tag, would never work. That being the case, attempting to pull that price off was an intentional attempt to overcharge on purpose, so, yeah not going to go with that, I'd dimply either leave or pay for what I ordered and leave out the theft part.
Bro try getting a girl From overseas. It’s literally an upgrade. Chinese, Philippine, Russian, or their Asians. You can even talk about prenups and most will be okay with it
Would love to know in what country men are humble and want to be in a long lasting relationship. I dont mean to be rude, i would really like to know where to look cause i have enough from men in europe. 😅 @@jameswann4327
@@jameswann4327 how much of a loser do you have to be with women around you to have this mindset? I know a number of men who tried this and it backfired spectacularly on them, you know why, because its not the women who are at fault but yourself. Really bad advice, how about work on yourself, become someone women want to engage with instead of blaming women (because apparently overseas women are not really women and are much more desperate/amiable/compliant to losers), gawd I can see why women are not attracted.
What did you do? Let's not just put out a sob story to the world. Most people don't leave happy situations. So, what did you do? Obviously it was something to put her off.
22:32 That’s because meeting someone at 6:00p means you get there at 5:45p, it’s called respect. Showing up late by almost an hour is very disrespectful and she needs to grow up.
Yep, except we never get to hear why she was late. You mean sh*t don't happen in your life? I ain't on her side but I haven't really heard her side either so...
Do you not realize upper and downer in same drink is a party nut? Likely black out drunk all the time? You want to be with a woman who forgets where she was yesterday?
Nobody is perfect. Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
I genuinely want to find happiness as well. I've got someone special in my life, and even though we're not together at the moment, I can't picture my life without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm all in to make it work. We've tried different things, like therapy, to fix stuff.
Saying goodbye to someone you cherish is consistently difficult, yet in my case, I received support from a spiritual advisor who kept my marriage intact. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll promptly look her up online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that following this path will bring about positive outcomes for me too; I long for her deeply.
@@thetruth45678 : I spent 125.00 Saturday night taking my folks to dinner, Friday picked a 5 gallon bucket of sweet corn and gave it all away to my friends, spent 100 bucks on beer for my Wife Friday, 50 at Church yesterday, and Dj'd at our Pond/pool for our entire Campground ( Minnesota ) then went to Arby's. Money is Not as important as the person you Love !! So sure, I'll pay 200 all day with a smile. " Lets Go "
I'll never forget when I had a second date with a girl (keep in mind we made out on the first date) to go to a restaurant. She hits me up and says that her friend got her tickets to a concerts and she's going to it, and she asks me if I wanted to join. Wow. My dumbass did. I get there, and she's dancing with her friend the whole time, I'm paying for all the drinks, and she won't touch me at all now for some reason. Then late at night she's like "let's go to this restaurant! Yay!" I said nah bruh, and called an Uber for myself to go home and take the L. Then she tells her friend "okay, I guess we're leaving!" The fuck??? WE?! She gets in MY Uber for a ride to HER place. Just to drop it and move on, fine, it's no extra cost to me actually, but now she gets a free Uber home. When I asked her why we weren't physical like we were on the first date and why she had to include her friend, she starts telling me about how I'm scaring her and shit. I literally just shut up and got back in the Uber and never looked back. That's what we're dealing with.
I am so sorry, my guy. Not all women are wretched, money hungry, using bishes but you gotta pray. Maybe go to church? I do know, these women are AWFUL!!! 😢
Ohhhhh I’m rolling!!! Around the 7 1/2 minute mark, the story about the man who goes on a date and she brings her three kids and then says just roll with the story, you’re my older son from another baby daddy… I laughed so hard I peed!!!
9:30 She was a good looking girl. Not reconstructed and painted up. She could have been a real catch. Even rejected she had a big smile on her face. I can not understand why anyone could reject her? At the opposite she seems to be down to earth and very easy going with no crazy demands. Tell me please?
Nah, you can tell by her mannerisms and the fact that she couldn't just let it go and felt the need to blast it all over social media that she's crazy.
So sorry for your loss❤. I've been in a long term relationship and it's put me in my mid 30s, I'm terrified of losing this because I refuse to date in this climate. People male assumptions about all of us women based on the toxic mess we see here.
At 8:05 personally I thinks that's a healthy relationship and I think its cute she felt bad that her man didn't get anything for himself so I don't think this is a "women complicating everything" moment
16:12 This woman is the worst type, goes into a restaurant 2 minutes before it closes and sets up a camera to film herself, (kitchens are usually being cleaned and shut down by then, she's lucky they even took her order) then complains that the staff are trying to rush her out. She set this up 100%, ban her from the restaurant!
Pretty sure this is the same chick who posts unironically on instagram and TikTok of her going to red carpet events and random paparazzi shit dressed up and asks them to take her pics and no one knows who tf she is 💀
Several of these clips are satire, the girl who was upset her date saved her from a car. Also the girl in the restaurant whose food was taken, she fakes this all. That's her friend talking to her. I like these videos, but sometimes the content isn't the most accurate.
I was wondering on some of these videos especially the girl in the restaurant. No waitress would say that. Maybe warning that htey are closing in X minutes or something.
0:57 girls like that think "oh I'll show up with a new man and he will be ROCKED when he sees that"... what they never will understand is if we see an ex with a new man, regardless of where or why, we breathe a sigh of relief and think "good, maybe I won't have to hear from her ever again, thank goodness -- good luck dude... you're gonna need it."
I agree there is nothing wrong about the drink itself, however as someone else pointed out it may have been because it looks like a day date and rather than drinking soft drinks she chose alcohol
Alcohol in the very fist minutes of meeting doesnt sound good. Also it seems the girl was just wanting free food anyways "we still didnt get our food...". Girl was wanting to eat up full, the drink would help her survive the chitchat then insta ghosting.
@@Zibi21 I have no idea why some men think women are so desperate to eat, so lacking in the ability to get food that they do this. When did food become so scarce for women that you think they cannot eat without you?
What she doesn't know, because she's a moron, is that they know who she is and are probably adding special 'ingredients' to her food. Don't piss off the people preparing or serving your food sweetheart.
You know, she's actually got a point here. They let her order even though it was almost closure time. The waiter is rude and wrong. They should have had suggested she ordered food to take home if they know they are closing, and such a behaviour from a waiter is disgusting
@@cgh7337 or they can just politely tell her the kitchen is closed. Like a normal ass person does. But hey you're ok with violating health codes and ethics and being a shitty person to people.
From an outsiders perspective, I can see why you'd think that. But when you are married to someone that starves themselves because of this logic, it gets tiresome, to put it lightly. "Just eat your frickin' food, Tina!" is all I want to yell at him sometimes.
It's manipulative: i'm not eating unless you do to... It's an ultimatum of sorts and you're supposed to feel bad if you don't indulge, but if you do you're perceived as weak and easy to manipulate, so... you can't win!
My husband is in fact my King and I treat him as nothing less. Cooked meals daily, clean castle, laundry always done, clothes laid out. The works. He gifted me with a beautiful son and loving life. The least we can do is treat our hard working men as the royalty they are.
@@vegetaismydad5382 bot? I'm a 36yr old woman from WV, but please, go on about how I'm just a bot. Oh, oh wait, that's require you to actually use more than one word, it's just too complicated.
@@vegetaismydad5382 bot? I'm a 36yr old woman from WV, but please, go on about how I'm just a bot. Oh, oh wait, that's require you to actually use more than one word, it's just too complicated.
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@vegetaismydad5382 This is absolutely, hands down, the single most dry witted sarcastic fact smack down I've ever seen. Words cannot truly justify the beauty of your comment. Well done, you, well done! 👏👏👏
16:25 - Sorry, bro, but you got this one wrong. NOBODY is entitled to help themselves to somebody else's property. If you're a server and you want to begin to clear a populated table, you can use your words to negotiate that with the people there.
I was in Udon Thani in Thailand a week ago. Young girl in a bar sat next to me and told me she liked Tequila Rose. OK, how much is that a shot I asked? She replied B250. I said 'forget it' and just left her there! * A new full bottle is only B750 FFS!
Not everyone is a gold digger, you have to understand money matters, we NEED it to even live and be able to eat and have a roof over our heads, you just need to find someone who is with you, for you, not your money,
Yeah I thought the same. Mind you I used to be a bad alcoholic to where I needed it to function. I would be worried if she drank like I used to but that is HIGHLY doubtful.
@@gmorgan693 nowadays I wouldn't take anything for granted. Alcohol disrupts sleep phases and in particular REM phase, makes you sleep quicker but it degrade the quality, what if she decided that if she was going to get a drink, like for celebrating, was sooner in the day to have a better sleep quality? Unlikely? But nobody knows that person here in the comment section, so it might as well be possible anyway.
Just a heads-up guys, when you're expecting a photograph, paragon of virtue, or a star quality model/paper doll for a date, you're setting yourself up for failure. Try basing your interest in the character of a woman instead of her looks! You ain't perfect and neither is she. If her character sucks, politely bow out. If you can't be polite for 15-20 minutes, forget it. It's a little different than hiring someone during a job interview...
Men, for a first date pick a lunch date. Go with separate checks. If she has a ptoblem paying for her own lunch on a first date, dont have a second date. I think Dutch treat should be the norm for first dates.
I had a first date with a guy and he took me to a place and they were doing some kind of game. Someone puts your number down if they thought you were cute. I turned out to be the only one to put his number down and he got upset and told me I didn't count. Never dated him again. Where do they get some of these women??
Texting that you're just leaving when you are already 10 minutes late could not be a bigger red flag, good on that guy for not responding to her, how selfish.
The girl that didn't want the food ,she doesn't want to eat in front of him ,if he's not eating , because she doesn't want him to think she's a pig. I've worked in restaurants, If they let u in and let u order and served u, they can't rush u. This is bad business. Tell her upon entering we can make your food ,but we're making it to go ,if u don't want them to sit and eat .
had a date for dinner, reservations for 7pm, told her I will be at her place for 615pm, traffic was a bit light so I got there for 605, knocked on door at 610, she just got out of the shower and said she would be ready by 630 and told me to wait in my car, I waited till 631 and she wasnt even dressed yet, still in her bathrobe when she answered door at 631... all I said was "Kewl, ok" walked back to car and was 5 min late for MY reservation... she called me at 740 asking where I was parked and was ready to go... told her I was parked in the parking lot.... she said she didnt see me, told her of course not, Im parked in the parking lot AT THE RESTURANT... one of the best dinners I had in months, had the opportunity to really enjoy the food and atmosphere and not be distracted by someones babbling complaining about the food and etc...
Good for you
Great Job! Teach others to KEEP their "MAN CARD!" it is How and WHY I found My Angel! Good chicks Love MAN CARDS!
That's terrible.How rude to waste someone's time 😢 Happy to hear your dinner was good 😊
I went out with a crazy lady perpetually late but the World ended if I was 30 seconds late. Dinner at 6:00 pm usually meant 7:00 at the earliest! One time I waited for her call for two hours but she said she forgot, even though we'd talked two hours earlier! I'd had enough and broke up with her on the phone! I had serious emotional investment in this woman but it wasn't reciprocated and while a bitter pill to swallow, I realized she was basically Cancer and needed to be removed from my body and surgery was the only option! She remained like this for many years, never got married and now lives with a daughter and is retired! I'm pussed I actually let this go as far as it did! Respect needs to be shown by both parties or it just a port in a storm!
@@davefellhoelter1343that's a "I expect the respect that I give card" it's got nothing to do with genders. We do have our differences for sure and women are often the worst for procrastination but this is just a matter of respect. Some people waste their own time and think they can waste yours too and oh you're not complain about it. I'd just say nothing and leave. I'm not really into places I need a reservation for. Where I'm from you only make reservations if it's a really busy holiday time or something
Met my husband as a blind date. We had a great time,he made laugh and was a great guy. At the end of the date his car had a flat tire at the restaurant,which was going to get me home later then what I told my parents. He called my father and explained the delay. We just celebrated our 35th wedding anniversary. I’m so grateful I found an awesome partner in life.
Awesome!
I took a girl to play Minnie golf about 30 miles away and she calls some guy and is on the phone the entire time.. I didn't even say anything.. I just walked up to the counter and turned my club.. walked to my car and left her there..... I don't play games with idiots..
Wow. She was incredibly rude. You did the right thing.
lol Perfect
How we do. First date with a gorgeous looking woman in a restaurant she picked. Awnsering me shortly a couple attempts, focussed on and typing on her phone. Then get angry I left her before dinner was served. Layed down money for her food and cab and went eating nu myself where I liked. Lol her getting angry. Obviously she had zero interest in me and I was sitting there by myself. What was she thinking showing zero interest in me and me not taking the cue, wastingy time with poor companionship? No ty. I got more fun things to do than waste my time on somebody I don't like to be with.
@@tjallingdalheuvel126 Yet she got what she wanted: a free meal
In the future let a woman pay for her meal. Youre not her father and shes not your mother. Equal pay@tjallingdalheuvel126
I was married once…because I don’t want to be married twice.
I own my own home, retired early, have great friends and indulge my hobbies. Life is good.
I'm happy for you. Way to go.👏👏🙂
As a woman I apologise to all men for women treating them like this. So vile
marry me fr
@Chikenlovelyfr I'm already married and also very loyal. You will find a good woman some day. There are a lot of shitty people out there, it's difficult when you have a good heart. Took me 41 years to get it right
@@angelabogaard1102 100% this is embarrassing. Now I see why men have stopped dating.
@@HellenaHanbasquet I understand too. Women can be nasty creatures
@@angelabogaard1102 thats crazy
I quit dating 10 years ago and replaced it with fishing.
Ive never been happier.
I sometimes watch fishing videos, what would you say is your proudest catch?
I’m a woman and same, would rather be on the water any day. If someone wants to go on a date with me they can join me fishing. I’ll know real fast if we’re compatible or not lol.
I get your drift, Its better to fish than date. Its a world of hurt = dating. I somehow think I would miss women by just fishing. Then again, I never date. I just get women somehow. I am not good with that talking shallow and dating stuff. I rather just get hold of them through strange websites or social media. Not good with dating sites. I don't want to date again this age. I am 45. It would be a nightmare. I find most people extremely boring. I have to compensate for them.
Fish will never F your best friend.
It's less nerve wreaking! No, I want, I need, can I have??? Good for you!
I had a first date with a girl at a Red Lobster. I got there ten minutes early and she's already at the bar, which I thought was a little odd but really didn't give it much thought.
So we get a table, menus, and she orders an alcoholic drink which annoys me a little but I let it slide. The waitress comes back to take our orders. She orders an appetizer sampler platter, another drink and then orders the most expensive dinner they have which was some combination of three different meals and then she orders ANOTHER one of those to go! I'm just rolling my eyes at this point because she's going to be in for a shock when she finds out I'm not paying for any of her part of the bill.
Anyway, fast forward to me getting the bill and that's when I found out that she got there an hour early and had ordered several expensive alcoholic drinks before I arrived. The total bill was about $170 (this was a long time ago when things weren't so expensive). My part of the bill was about $20 for dinner and a soda, so I gave the waitress $30 in cash, told her that was for my food plus tip, said "nice to meet you" to the girl, and left her there with the most stunned look I've ever seen on someone's face. She blew up my phone trying to call and text saying she didn't have the money to pay the bill and what a piece of shit I was, but I simply drove home with a smile on my face.
should have blocked her since that is to be expected
I don't blame you! She won't do that again.. I wonder did she go to jail for not paying her part or what 😂😂, she sounds like a selfish drunk
@@aprilbouknightmarquez6340Hope she was washing the dishes til 2am! 😂😂
"she orders an alcoholic drink which annoys me a little but I let it slide." Are you fcking Mormon? I know America was founded by Puritans and they banned alcohol at one point but I didn't know it was still filled with people who hated fun. She dodged a miserable life when you left. What is your hobby, watching paint dry?
😂😂😂
"I thought I was meeting Susan, not bloody Sean" 🤣
There were 2 who were sneaky trans. How...how do you NOT start throwing down!!?? How? Get help..
You can't make this shxt up
Lol. I'm not your typical 10.
@@ViolentCabbage-ym7ko if your trans...dont try and fool men unless your willing to pay the ultimate price. Pretending to have a vag when your packing what god gave you and trying to pass yourself off as a female is unforgivable.
@@mermaida.3999 you can make it up as this is clearly the most fake video on there.
If my day starts flirting with another man while we’re on the dinner date and I’m gonna get up, I’m gonna pay for my meal and I’m gonna eat my meal and I’m leaving. She’s on her own. You put your phone up to your ear. You start texting your phone. You are checking your phone dates over instantly.
I was on a first date with a woman from a dating site, we had talked for some time then planned a date to saw each other, on the date it was going fine till she ordered more meals then the one she had in front of her, she said these were for her mother and father back at home, i told her remember we are DUTCH ON THE BILL RIGHT? she said no YOUR PAYING FOR IT ALL, OK??? I TOLD HER I HAD TO GO TO THE BATHROOM, I FAKED THE BATHROOM INSTEAD WENT TO THE MGR, PAID FOR MY HALF OF THE BILL, PLUS A TIP FOR THE WAITRESS, AND LEFT OUT THE DOOR, I TOLD THE MGR TO TELL HER I LEFT 5 MINS LATER, AND TO GIVE THIS NOTE, I READ ,LOSER DATE?she called me on the phone and asked how was she going to get home i told a cab?uber? bill your mother or father for the ride,!!!
more THAN... God, you Americans are unbelievable. It's more THAN.
@johnthomas338 imagine calling someone unbelievable over 1 grammar mistake in a whole essay. You are probably as stupid as most of the women in this video.. unbelievable...
That’s the grammar error you’re fixated on? Not the “your” instead of “you’re” or the strange all caps choice or the run-on sentences?
What’s unbelievable is generalizing from a single comment to an entire country that represents all different types of people, most of whom had to prove they are capable of better grammar than this in order to graduate high school.
@@CourtneyGBartlett You're wrong. Or should I say, in 'American', 'your wrong'. LOL. It's AMERICANS who make these mistakes, over and over, all the time, all over the internet. I am generalising about Americans because it's an AMERICAN problem. Sorry if you don't like reality.
Muricans?
You clowns who have to rely on english as their native language are some poor beeings.
The most confusing and primitive language of all.
MANY years ago, when i was in the military (I am in my 60's now), I went to pick up a girl for a first date. I drove up in a Brand new Chevrolet El Camino. She looks at it and says "I don't go anywhere in a truck....". That was the end of that.
But the follow up was really good. I was picking up the next date and went to open the car door for her. She tells me "You don't have to open the door for me just because I am a woman...". I continued to hold the door for her and said "I am NOT opening the door for you because you are a woman. I am opening the door because I am a gentleman...". Just walks up to the door, kisses me, and says "You are a treasure. I hope the rest of the night is just as awesome." It was.
"... Not doing this because you are a woman, but because I'm a gentlemen.." I'm gonna steal this phrase, Man :)
@@jafar6505 Me too Im 67
I wan an el camino!
Every woman I have ever taken out has had her doors opened, chairs pulled out and other things that make them feel special.
It is what a gentleman does.
Some did not appreciate or like it, most did.
I am 64 years old man this month.
I'm happily married so I'll never get to use that phrase but I have to give you props, it's a great one.
That's why you meet for coffee date first. So you don't have to be stuck with a restaurant bill or have to leave in the middle of it.
Nah .. that's the fun of it! 😅
Also very good for security of both people.
Yea if your a broke b1sh
And to see if even a first date coffee meet up will even fly with the lady... A real simple test...
Nah bro, all first 3 dates are either coffee with a walk, or a picnic. I only spend on what's Mine, I don't spend on a maybe!
The woman shows up almost an hour late for a first date and expects the man to still be there? I would of left after 15 minutes late.
+1 That is very disrespectful .
Yeah 15 minutes. Max.
20 if she communicates well before the set time to meet with a legit reason i.e. she has a flat on her car and has to deal with it but that's only if she isn't wanting till the last possible moment to say anything
10 minutes would be my limit time waiting
If she says she's on her way ten minutes late, with no prior statement about why she's leaving late, I'm out that very minute.
"My date didn't come back from the bathroom"
"Oh yeah? Let's see the first part of the date."
"Nah."
"uh huh."
Doesn't look like there was any food ordered
If a bartender charged me $12 for "stolen orange" then they are getting zero for a tip.
Ha ha. I mean I know its a cost of living crisis but wow.
I hope he then went to a grocery store, bought a huge bag of oranges, went back and emptied the bag on the counter! 😅
If its on the bar in a dish, its normally free for the customers, like peanuts, ketchup packets, stirrers, and straws. They are even a free extra when they are added into the drinks they are supposedly for. Sure, a person could argue that the price of the orange is included in the price of the drink, but we know the drink isnt cheaper if they hold the orange, so its reasonable to assume its not included in the price and is free. Its a free orange.
I wouldnt pay for the free orange, would give zero tip, would never return, and would tell others not to go there. If she wants that orange to be expensive for someone, it will be expensive for her employer in lost business.
@@derekbos4404and charged them $12 for each one
My advice, Run, don't walk away from these woman.
So you have an issue with a woman drinking an expresso martini?😳🤷♂️
@@jasonturner2206 Yeah, that was kinda weird. She was the one who probably dodged a bullet.
I was single for a length of time after my first divorce. I didn't leave my marriage alone, I had three small children ages 4, 6, and 8. He cheated multiple times while we were stationed abroad and I had enough.
My dating went from being married to my high school sweetheart (13 yrs.) to a single mother of three. When I finally agreed to be "setup" for a date by friends I was left at a movie theater, at a restaurant, and at horse stables by men I fully explained my status and talked often about what happened to me and what I came with children & job wise. You see I was a military translator and interrogation specialist. Men were scared to death to know what I did for a vocation. My second marriage failed (11 yrs.) due to intimidating background as well. I would never date one of my Operators and men seemed to fear me regardless.
Now I'm older and just a home in rural Arkansas with my childhood friend, my 70 year old mom, my two youngest special needs adult children, and my senior high school age son. Yes, five children between my 1st and 2nd marriages. My childhood best suffered a serious TBI in the Army years back, and he's not always the smartest thinker but he loves me, even with me being in a wheelchair after three major spinal surgeries gone wrong after a broken spine. Is he the love of my life, maybe? Do I love like some other women can, probably not because of life experiences. I love him and the family we've made for ourselves regardless of the depth and despair at times. It's been hard knowing that I'm not the woman I used to be but we're all family and friends in our home. We work at it no matter what.❤
Exactly. Run and don't even look back. Run like hell.
So those types of women, yes, but yall dudes don't know how to pick them and its your own fault that's like me wanting a husband and chasing a thug and not knowing this person is ignorant you can tell by the way a person talks act and dress that they are not wife or hubby material then yall come to TH-cam talking about all women I dont like dudes like that like you know what your picking they just not it. chose wisely be smart
"Why she growling" had me dead laughing.
She a Demon 😈.
She was beautiful. I would have called that bluff.
@@rgreeneish She's hilarious.
💀 I loved her sense of humor 😂😂
His reaction when he takes the blindfold off killed me lmfaooo!!!
To be fair, any man who can stare directly at Gorlock the Destroyer and live is a formidable person.
He was to say the least SHOCKED.🤣
That was Gorlock the Destroyer... she's a he.
mean..
@@ryanr9299 no. The truth.
My friend zone experiences have been exceptional. With the exception of my birthday, I always pay for our time out. The response is genuine gratitude. One girl forgot our date, panicked in the parking lot she was at when she remembered, rushed into the restaurant after I’d already seated myself after an hour of waiting, and yelled “I’m paying!” Beautiful women like this are friends for life.
It's not just "happy wife happy life", it's "happy spouse happy house"
BOTH people should be happy
I have NEVER heard this phrase, beautiful ❤
💯 I care if my husband is happy and feels loved and he cares that I feel the same. I've never been disrespectful to him, and I can say he has never been disrespectful to me. 17 years. It seems like a hard concept for so many people. 😔
Happy life, no wife. Why buy the cow when the milk is free? Just hit and quit. Don't forget to double bag your jimmy.
Yes, it takes 2.
I say no wife happy life..
As a woman, watching these videos sure makes me glad I’m married. The dating world looks just awful right now.
I will say though, it makes me appreciate my husband even more.
I’m with you. I would hate to be single and trying to date now a days. These video make me love my hubby so much more. 🙏🏽🙂
Same here, as a man married to a woman. What a mess the dating world must be like right now. Finding a proper partner is probably like finding a job on Indeed. If you don't have the right criteria, you won't even be considered.
I'm so efn screwed right now. * face palm*
Yes it really does, my daughter found her log time boyfriend playing a computer game on the internet by chance, those dating apps seem to me they make it harder not easier, it’s not helpful to have 20-30-40 failed dates, both men and women’s self confidence risk getting very low and just give up ☹️ hope my son 16 years old is just as lucky when he gets older and not having to deal with so many failed attempts, I only had one girlfriend before a met there mother when I was 18 years old, can’t imagine having 40 failed dates that must be demoralizing 😮
I feel bad for men these days. I know not all women are like so many seem to be today, but its gotta be tough.
Hold the door, I don't need you to hold the door. Pay for the meal OMG don't pay for my meal.
Just be yourselves and stop listening to the lunatics.
As soon as she walked in with three kids I would have walked out.
I would have said..." I dont feed rugrats"...bye
15:13 Its actually not on her at all. If you're 2 minutes from closing, don't seat the customer. Offer them takeout at the very least. Tell them you're no longer taking orders. That's 100% on the establishment. Even if they've been taking a long time to finish up, there are ways of handling this situation respectfully. Turn off the music prior to closing as a hint its time to wrap things up. Don't continue to wait on them. Give them the bill. Let the customer know they're closing and offer them an option to have their food wrapped up.
I've worked in too many restaurants
If we're a couple minutes that I can count on my hands away from closing I'm not going to go to the chefs and tell them I'm putting in another order
I'm going to tell the customer what the deal is and that most likely it's going to piss everybody off but that will still take their order if needed
And I'm 100% going to be doing my closing duties while they're getting their food and basically hinting at them that they need to get the fuck out
But it would be 100% on me if I took their order
6:49 “you don’t see any fat horses do you?“. legendary.😂😂😂😂😂
Happy wife, happy life- was meant as a “ you take care of your wife and she WILL HAPPILY take care of you”…, it was not meant as a “ give the spoiled entitled brat everything she screams at you to provide and you will be happy with 5 minutes of peace before the next round of complaining”!!!!!!!
Damn you could have told me this 35 years ago.
@@joeuser633 I apologize for not telling you sooner. My bad!!!
@@mellttabor2134 I think that’s why it’s morphed into happy spouse happy house. Some women ruined it with twisting Happy wife happy life.
@@joeuser633 you really couldn't figure that out on your own?? My mom henpecked my dad, my brother and me growing up. As an adult, I knew I would never allow that abuse again to me and I have not. My poor brother still now suffers from cruel spouse.
@@wmpetroff2307 Glass half full. No man that ever lived has ever been happier than I am in those 5 minutes of peace and quiet.
"I'm not your average 10" 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Tub of lard.
She was right - she was average 250.
Kg.
Is that an oxymoron?
@@allensharp-to4cqyes
What makes it even WORSE is that human fat storage facility ISN'T a woman....it's a MAN. That's Gorlock the Destroyer, and the mental gymnastics required to classify that human sphere as a female "ten" would make the Olympics look like a baby taking their first steps by comparison. The only way that creature will qualify as a ten will be on the Richter scale if it falls over.
1:07
She probably cheated WITH the ex-best friend, that's why they're both the ex's.... But now that she screwed up, she can't let him go, so she's going to do everything she can to try and ruin any relationship he tries to have.
That's exactly what it sounded like. Ex-bestfriend and ex-gf are meant for each other. They need to stay out of that dude's life.
You're probably right, but she didn't SAY anything about trying to ruin his relationship. She SAID for him to have fun with his new girl, all the while idiotically acting like her having fun with her new guy is somehow better.
@xtnuser5338 you're slow.
She's insane
could of also been the fact that she's an OF "model." Those girls can't keep a boyfriend...I wonder why?
her name is Katarina Carney.
I’m so happy that men Are finally not taking crap from women. By the way I am a women.
Who can't spell.
@@williamyoung9401 "Hey, I'm not illiterate! My parents were married!" 😉😁
@@kc5402 That reminds me of a lot of Tim Allen's lines in "Home Improvement."
*You don't show up at Ruth's Chris with less than $600 in your pocket! That's NOT a "first date" kind of place!*
The dude in the car is loyal to brothers he's never met. Every man should have a friend like him.
Best post 🏆
Every man shouldn’t just have a friend like him, every man should be like him.
@@Canttellmenothing24 here here
I almost shit myself. If you literally hand a woman cash on a stick, and she makes fun of you because it's not ENOUGH cash on a stick.... I mean, you deserve to be made fun of, but not for THAT reason.
I’d then ask her if it was enough cash to get her to leave me alone and never talk to me again.
@@funnyblog100 Apparently the less cash it is, the more likely she is to leave you alone.
Yeah... That was a funny skit.
I read what you wrote 3 times, please explain what you saying 🙏🏽
@@sg5720 Really? Did you watch the video? Did you see the bit wherein the guy tries to give a money bouquet to a chick, and she makes fun of him because it's not enough money?
6:45 “You don’t see any fat horses, do ya?”
Knocked my socks off
Well you don't 😂 that wow killed me she was hurt asf
@darrylwilliams4457 Sorry to be a party pooper but you do. But they don't get rolls of fat like humans, they just get to be a bigger and bigger barrel
@@sallymb6356 barely any what do you think their fat to muscle ratio 🤔 I know people that are 40% damn even 60% fat asf
you can hear the fat laziness in her deep voice. she was NOT thin.
@@darrylwilliams4457 The funniest thing is that he will be lonely asf too and she probably is already with someone. 😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂
She: "It sounds like you talked about a horse."
He: "To be fair, you don´t see any fat horses." 6:20f
That come back was funny as hell.
I so did NOT see that coming - doubling down like that.🐴🐎🤣🤣
I’m 59 and I’m glad I’m out of that lifestyle. Todays women bring so much judgment and disfunction that that give ALL women a bad name . Stay strong guys. I have 3 adult sons and I fear for their emotional, financial, spiritual and mental future on the daily .
Susan the Catfish was hilarious, even had the whiskers LOL!
I was on a date once, beautiful woman, and we clicked. We went from the restaurant to a bar.
We got comfortable, and started asking more personal questions.
She asked me why i was single, and how would my ex describe me...
Then she got a call, it started well, then shouting match began.
I asked if everhthing was okay. She replied yeah, that was her ex.
So basically, he got into a motorbike accident and couldnt walk anymore. She didnt sign up to be his carer.
That sentence hit me differently, i was thinking, i play basketball, i can get injured. I told her that i don't think it work between us. She asked why, i said because that could be me tomorrow and another man could be the day after.
If she seems like a "Fair Weather Only" type of person, then that is a problem. Someone that is deliberately unwilling to handle problems in a so-called reliable and steady marriage is definitely not marriage material.
So would you be around if she got in an accident and could walk anymore? Or would you bail? Be truthful Dude. Love how you guys down on a woman who wont hang around. But you know you'd do the same thing.
@@Yaya2214CJ It doesn't matter because her actions are the target of discussion and not everyone else.
@@Yaya2214CJoh please. Take your false outrage somewhere else
Champion 👍
All of these videos makes me so proud that we have been married for 44 years. I would hate to date in today’s world.
Man same here😂
MY CUP OVERFILLS BEING MARRIED
Real talk
A lot of them are actually skits. The one from darrylcvega, for example, is definitely a skit. He does that African guy character all the time. The last one I saw from him was him pretending to be the driver of the Amazon truck that was filmed driving on the sidewalk. He's hilarious.
But yeah, this channel thrives on outrage/confirmation bias clicks from lonely Gen Z and millennial men. Because both generations were not only coddled as children, but were also raised in fatherless homes more than previous generations and have no idea how to be men. It's sad.
@@vegetaismydad5382 Riiight... you do you man
0:24 Girl : "I'm not your TYPICAL 10"
Guy : "You're not even a 1.0" lol 😂
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Mate. Leave. It won’t work. Raking over the past. Partners are a random pick. You will be compatible with about five people at the traffic lights when you walking. You just don’t meet them yet. Be you. Play some sport. Go where people are. Meet someone new. Old will not work. You just wasting time. Time is life.
No contact for 8-12 months. You will have no feelings. Don’t drive past her house or apartment. Don’t go near her work. Do something for you. And don’t waste yr money on the spiritual advisor. Their bank account is where they are at. Move on mate. Fast. Have faith in you. The next real love is just five people to your right st the traffic lights in the crowd. Seriously. Best wishes.
I’m in my 50’s and I have to say. Not once not twice. Maybe a dozen times have I walked away from toxic dates. I’ve left them at movies bars dinner. I just don’t care.
I'm in my late 40's and dating at this age is crazy! Some people just have not grown up or dealt with their emotional baggage yet and are not ready to date. I've left a couple of dates right in the middle.
okay..I'm in my 50's and my hubby passed from cancer...so I don't date at all...but out of curiosity, what is a toxic date that you experienced...were the ladies, around the same age as you? what makes them toxic?
@@heneverforesakesme4038 when a date feels like a job interview or you are being taken advantage of, thats when its toxic.
How does one run away from itself ?
I have walked away from many many many dates but I only paid for an hour and I was done so
12:04 $12 for an orange is criminal 😂😂
🤣
Nah man, dude just assumed he could help himself, you do dumb stuff it's going to cost you.
$12 though? Like at most $3 but it's not like he stole a bunch of them. Also, they chose to leave the tray of oranges on what looks like a serving counter and only when someone took one that it all of a sudden it's, "We have a citrus shortage"....then why put them in distance of a customer in the first place?
definitely would of just walked out and never gone back. The principal of gouging me because of a single orange? unless he had a couple.
@@thebearcouncil8810 you're right, the next time i see a neatly packed amount of food on the counter i'll presume it's the cashier's lunch
If there was a citrus shortage, why put the oranges on the same table with the guest instead of the kitchen or behind the bar or something? Most people would think it was complementary.
Definitely.. Should have been put BEHIND THE BAR,not on the bar..
- I don't know if it was a bad location or bad decisions or whatever, but what I do know is that there would be zero chance I would pay 12 bucks for an Orange, I would either pay for the tab minus the ridiculous 12 dollar Orange fee, or I would just take the tab with me and walk, saying I was not going to remain in a location where I was going to be robbed.
I have never skipped out on a bill in my life however I also will never pay 12 bucks for an Orange. I would go to the grocery store down the block, pay 7 bucks for a bag, and give them one back best case scenario for them.
@@Arthaius I would pay, give bad review, talk bad about the place on social media, never return. I’m sure some upper management would reach out to me and try and make it right.
@@mickymickymike4105 - I tend to have that attitude when it comes to things like a screwed up order or like a pizza delivery situation, but in this case the person was being blatantly thieved from, so in no way would I stand for that. simply put, I'm fairly confidant that nowhere on this continent is an Orange going to be legitimately listed at $12 for one fruit, not in the public market, and I pretty much guarantee that anyone seeing that price tag simply wouldn't make the purchase, so, it would be an unrealistic non sustainable price tag, would never work. That being the case, attempting to pull that price off was an intentional attempt to overcharge on purpose, so, yeah not going to go with that, I'd dimply either leave or pay for what I ordered and leave out the theft part.
@@Arthaius What you people are missing, is that it's a STOLEN orange fee, not a fee for an orange, it's a fee for stealing.
When I dumped my ex-girlfriend, I took her wheelchair with me. Guess who came crawling back to me?
😂😂😂
That's so bad😂
Dad, is that you?
@@thetruth45678 😱No. It's not me. It can't be. I was in Mexico when that happened. In prison. Promise. Ask your mom, she was with me.🤥
Oof...but nice, though.
The girlfriend and boyfriend interpreter was hilarious!😆 😂😂😂
The first one triggered my asthma. I laughed so hard.
my wife left me 14 years ago , i never recovered all these years emotionally. this channel has been therapy for me. thank you
Bro try getting a girl
From overseas.
It’s literally an upgrade. Chinese, Philippine, Russian, or their Asians. You can even talk about prenups and most will be okay with it
Would love to know in what country men are humble and want to be in a long lasting relationship. I dont mean to be rude, i would really like to know where to look cause i have enough from men in europe. 😅 @@jameswann4327
@jameswann4327 the Chinese women in china are worse than modern western women. From experience.
@@jameswann4327 how much of a loser do you have to be with women around you to have this mindset? I know a number of men who tried this and it backfired spectacularly on them, you know why, because its not the women who are at fault but yourself. Really bad advice, how about work on yourself, become someone women want to engage with instead of blaming women (because apparently overseas women are not really women and are much more desperate/amiable/compliant to losers), gawd I can see why women are not attracted.
What did you do? Let's not just put out a sob story to the world. Most people don't leave happy situations. So, what did you do? Obviously it was something to put her off.
22:32 That’s because meeting someone at 6:00p means you get there at 5:45p, it’s called respect. Showing up late by almost an hour is very disrespectful and she needs to grow up.
Yep, except we never get to hear why she was late. You mean sh*t don't happen in your life? I ain't on her side but I haven't really heard her side either so...
Shit happens, but being that late and still getting there with no contact after said shit was done is wild.
@@ICBUAH Why do you engage in mental gymnastics to justify her obvious rudeness? Are you also like her? Yikes...
@@ICBUAH if shit happened she could have texted him and just let him know and have the date at another time.
It's all a sh!t test : every vvoman will come to the first or 2nd date late, just to check how you react to it.
Dropping a date cause you don’t like her drink is lame AF tho.
I think that one (and several others) were jokes/skits/put-ons, probably for insta or tiktok.
Do you not realize upper and downer in same drink is a party nut? Likely black out drunk all the time? You want to be with a woman who forgets where she was yesterday?
If a real date...? Something really wrong with that guy...
Her: “Happy wife, happy life”
Him: “Happy man, God’s plan”
Me: “Happy spouse, happy house.”
Nobody is perfect. Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
I genuinely want to find happiness as well. I've got someone special in my life, and even though we're not together at the moment, I can't picture my life without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm all in to make it work. We've tried different things, like therapy, to fix stuff.
Saying goodbye to someone you cherish is consistently difficult, yet in my case, I received support from a spiritual advisor who kept my marriage intact. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll promptly look her up online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that following this path will bring about positive outcomes for me too; I long for her deeply.
You should
I agree. If you keep dropping every time it gets hard, you never get everything.
First sign a woman or man doesn't respect you is that they don't respect your time and show up late to a date. Have boundaries folks.
"Oh, f**k no. Jesus Christ!" Lol, I'd have probably reacted the same way 😂
I then would have puked! 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
...and I wouldn't blame you at all. Cause frankly, looking at...whoever the hell that is-kinda upsets my stomach too😂
The Man is always the prize, "I want to go somewhere I'm gonna be celebrated, Not tolerated"! Best quote!
0:46 ever hear of the dating game? 😂😂
No thats catfish game
Not your typical 10? You're not even a 1 you don't rate on the scale at all.
And she broke the weighing scale!
Not to mention that is actually a DUDE
She's A 10 on the Richter scale
-10
@@artturner2054 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣man humor is just BRUTAL....LOLOLOL
IF YOU FLIRT WITH MY GIRL AND SHE FLIRTS BACK, SHE IS NOW YOUR GURL !!
And so is this $200 restaurant bill.
@@thetruth45678 : I spent 125.00 Saturday night taking my folks to dinner, Friday picked a 5 gallon bucket of sweet corn and gave it all away to my friends, spent 100 bucks on beer for my Wife Friday, 50 at Church yesterday, and Dj'd at our Pond/pool for our entire Campground ( Minnesota ) then went to Arby's. Money is Not as important as the person you Love !! So sure, I'll pay 200 all day with a smile. " Lets Go "
I'll never forget when I had a second date with a girl (keep in mind we made out on the first date) to go to a restaurant. She hits me up and says that her friend got her tickets to a concerts and she's going to it, and she asks me if I wanted to join. Wow. My dumbass did. I get there, and she's dancing with her friend the whole time, I'm paying for all the drinks, and she won't touch me at all now for some reason. Then late at night she's like "let's go to this restaurant! Yay!" I said nah bruh, and called an Uber for myself to go home and take the L. Then she tells her friend "okay, I guess we're leaving!" The fuck??? WE?! She gets in MY Uber for a ride to HER place. Just to drop it and move on, fine, it's no extra cost to me actually, but now she gets a free Uber home. When I asked her why we weren't physical like we were on the first date and why she had to include her friend, she starts telling me about how I'm scaring her and shit. I literally just shut up and got back in the Uber and never looked back.
That's what we're dealing with.
This is the much dreaded "can I bring my friend?" date. Always say no to this.
"Scaring her." Maybe she started playing you cause you were giving off weird vibes.
I am so sorry, my guy. Not all women are wretched, money hungry, using bishes but you gotta pray. Maybe go to church? I do know, these women are AWFUL!!! 😢
was her friend male or female
@@NrthrnKnght Female
"No fat horses" ,cracked me up.😂
Ohhhhh I’m rolling!!! Around the 7 1/2 minute mark, the story about the man who goes on a date and she brings her three kids and then says just roll with the story, you’re my older son from another baby daddy… I laughed so hard I peed!!!
9:30 She was a good looking girl. Not reconstructed and painted up. She could have been a real catch. Even rejected she had a big smile on her face. I can not understand why anyone could reject her? At the opposite she seems to be down to earth and very easy going with no crazy demands. Tell me please?
Absolutely. She's clearly wearing clothing she's comfortable in, she's confident and has a good sense of humor. I would definitely date her.
She's like the definition of "girl next door", at least based on looks. Anyone who would walk away without getting to know her is a moron.
Nah, you can tell by her mannerisms and the fact that she couldn't just let it go and felt the need to blast it all over social media that she's crazy.
@@Commodore22345 Wow. Misogynist much?
@@cleverusername1894 You say that like it's a bad thing.
0:40 They set him up with a Decepticon...
Unicron whole planet
Both these comments made my day. My comment was similar as well. Except that thing is the only thing that can eat Unicron.
Isn't that the trans "woman" who posted videos of herself crying because she went to a club and no men hit on her or asked her to dance?
I lost my husband of 40 years, now watching this all i can say is glad I don't Plan to date because theses women have blown it for good women like me.
Sorry for your loss. Please pay it forward and talk some sense to the young ladies out there.
Don’t let that stop you
So sorry for your loss❤. I've been in a long term relationship and it's put me in my mid 30s, I'm terrified of losing this because I refuse to date in this climate. People male assumptions about all of us women based on the toxic mess we see here.
Secret:
BE SELECTIVE!
NEVER date when feeling "lonely".
ALWAYS use separate vehicles.
THINK SAFETY, ON ALL LEVELS.
Except both women and men have been acting like a-holes for decades and yet that didn't stop you from finding someone the first time.
19:24
“I see ones and fives.”
Would have walked away MUCH earlier than he did.
The Jesus sandals did carry him fast enough.
At 8:05 personally I thinks that's a healthy relationship and I think its cute she felt bad that her man didn't get anything for himself so I don't think this is a "women complicating everything" moment
16:12 This woman is the worst type, goes into a restaurant 2 minutes before it closes and sets up a camera to film herself, (kitchens are usually being cleaned and shut down by then, she's lucky they even took her order) then complains that the staff are trying to rush her out. She set this up 100%, ban her from the restaurant!
I saw a video with her on a date, and she was recording a tic-tok. She's pure trash.
why cant they just refused her order if they know they want to closed it in 2 minutes?
@@asidik_spaze6098 the managers can, but they don't always do
Pretty sure this is the same chick who posts unironically on instagram and TikTok of her going to red carpet events and random paparazzi shit dressed up and asks them to take her pics and no one knows who tf she is 💀
I hated when they actually seated someone that late.
Several of these clips are satire, the girl who was upset her date saved her from a car. Also the girl in the restaurant whose food was taken, she fakes this all. That's her friend talking to her.
I like these videos, but sometimes the content isn't the most accurate.
I was wondering on some of these videos especially the girl in the restaurant. No waitress would say that. Maybe warning that htey are closing in X minutes or something.
0:57 girls like that think "oh I'll show up with a new man and he will be ROCKED when he sees that"... what they never will understand is if we see an ex with a new man, regardless of where or why, we breathe a sigh of relief and think "good, maybe I won't have to hear from her ever again, thank goodness -- good luck dude... you're gonna need it."
And been there, DONE that.
@3:41 can someone please explain what's wrong with ordering an espresso martini? It sounds gross, but I was wondering why he got red flags from that
1:25 😂😂the "wassup bro" sent me flying out my chair
espresso martini red flag? dude scared.
I agree there is nothing wrong about the drink itself, however as someone else pointed out it may have been because it looks like a day date and rather than drinking soft drinks she chose alcohol
@@VincoVenator well personally i dont want women who drink, so yea not a red flag but i wouldnt date her
Alcohol in the very fist minutes of meeting doesnt sound good. Also it seems the girl was just wanting free food anyways "we still didnt get our food...". Girl was wanting to eat up full, the drink would help her survive the chitchat then insta ghosting.
@@Zibi21 You do realize you are totally projecting don't you ? You made up your
own pathetic loser fantasy and ascribed it to the guy.
@@Zibi21 I have no idea why some men think women are so desperate to eat, so lacking in the ability to get food that they do this. When did food become so scarce for women that you think they cannot eat without you?
The girl that got her plate taken away has videos of herself all over the internet. It's always in restaurants. She's a bit strange.
What she doesn't know, because she's a moron, is that they know who she is and are probably adding special 'ingredients' to her food. Don't piss off the people preparing or serving your food sweetheart.
You know, she's actually got a point here. They let her order even though it was almost closure time. The waiter is rude and wrong. They should have had suggested she ordered food to take home if they know they are closing, and such a behaviour from a waiter is disgusting
Anyone who goes into a restaurant & orders food 5 minutes before they are about to close deserves anything that happens to them...or their food 🤮
@@claire2.097 Give a her a to go box and kick her out. She is Rude and doing it for Views......hence the Recording!!!
@@cgh7337 or they can just politely tell her the kitchen is closed. Like a normal ass person does. But hey you're ok with violating health codes and ethics and being a shitty person to people.
Good luck to all the fellas out here.
It's a jungle out there
Amen! They are after your children but they want YOU first.
Danny phantom
"You dont see any fat horses." That one had me rolling.
Bro, this is what makes me so happy I am single. Dating these days is a fuxking joke.
If you have the time to plan revenge on someone, then you have time to MOVE THE F ON!!!
Honestly the chick that wouldn’t eat unless her man ate was both crazy and adorable.
From an outsiders perspective, I can see why you'd think that. But when you are married to someone that starves themselves because of this logic, it gets tiresome, to put it lightly. "Just eat your frickin' food, Tina!" is all I want to yell at him sometimes.
It's manipulative: i'm not eating unless you do to... It's an ultimatum of sorts and you're supposed to feel bad if you don't indulge, but if you do you're perceived as weak and easy to manipulate, so... you can't win!
@@EvaKatzra Maybe she felt guilty when she realized he wasn't eating too. Don't read so much into things!
@@AwoudeXfax. You’re a grown ass woman eat if you’re hungry or starve. Don’t rely on me to help your eating patterns.
Even as a 61 year old guy,When I was as a single younger man would not be able too eat a meal if my date was not eating...it is like being watched...
“I’m not you typical 10” she says 🤣🤣🤣🤣 is she being serious?
She can be a 10, but the scale is from 1 to 100, maybe even 1000.
Yep, He is beeing serious, that my friend is gorlock the destroyer.
that thing is not a "she" but a "he"
That's a he. Not a she. It's Gorlock the destroyer from the 'Whatever ' podcast.
@@DocR16 I was thinking in Dodoria from Dragon Ball Z (because he was dressed in pink)
Leaving a date from the get go bcs a girl ordered an espresso martini.... yeah you're gona have to explain this nonsense to me
First dude looked like he took his blindfold off and saw Wanda from In Living Color across from him! (It was actually worse though... lol)
Woman who blindfolded a man... you are 1 trillion miles away from a perfect 10.
Just so you know, they are a trans woman, and they tell people they are a 10.
That's not a man, man.
@BearPawSwipe that is a man, man.
@fedupamerican296 We're saying the woman was a man, right man?
Where saying, there was two men, man.
"I'm not your typical 10..." well, certainly a very non-typical 10... one in the whole universe.
She's a reverse ten! -01
The difference in women who don't want to eat unless their man eat, V.S. the women who only seek men out so they can eat.
He said “You Gonna drop that neck?” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The first dude said the Lords name Like he saw a ghost😂😂😂😂😂
That second girl is going to show off with her ex's best friend?
No actual friend would go along with that, so I guess the ex dodged 2 bullets.
On top of that heavy, heavy filter she's using, she sounds straight ghetto
Not sure why a dude would have bailed on you at the brewery. Looking good.
My husband is in fact my King and I treat him as nothing less. Cooked meals daily, clean castle, laundry always done, clothes laid out. The works. He gifted me with a beautiful son and loving life. The least we can do is treat our hard working men as the royalty they are.
Nobody cares, bot.
@@vegetaismydad5382 bot? I'm a 36yr old woman from WV, but please, go on about how I'm just a bot.
Oh, oh wait, that's require you to actually use more than one word, it's just too complicated.
@@vegetaismydad5382 bot? I'm a 36yr old woman from WV, but please, go on about how I'm just a bot.
Oh, oh wait, that's require you to actually use more than one word, it's just too complicated.
@@vixxxenfoxxx3660 The term 'bot' is a pejorative term that has recently been added to the lexicon of internet slang to imply that the individual on the receiving end of the label has no freedom of thought and is essentially following a prewritten script and is more or less "programmed" to respond and behave a certain way while lacking self-awareness of their programmed and controlled state.
You're welcome.
@vegetaismydad5382 This is absolutely, hands down, the single most dry witted sarcastic fact smack down I've ever seen. Words cannot truly justify the beauty of your comment. Well done, you, well done! 👏👏👏
16:25 - Sorry, bro, but you got this one wrong. NOBODY is entitled to help themselves to somebody else's property. If you're a server and you want to begin to clear a populated table, you can use your words to negotiate that with the people there.
Came here to say the same
I was in Udon Thani in Thailand a week ago. Young girl in a bar sat next to me and told me she liked Tequila Rose. OK, how much is that a shot I asked? She replied B250. I said 'forget it' and just left her there! * A new full bottle is only B750 FFS!
Girl.
Riiiight...
Let's try to guess what she was doing when she should have been showing up on time?!
Talking on the phone while putting on make-up
@SevenJones-vb9gq or getting ran through by her "friend"!
This is one reason why I'll never be in another relationship or get married, because of all those GOLD-DIGGERS
IKR…….
Not everyone is a gold digger, you have to understand money matters, we NEED it to even live and be able to eat and have a roof over our heads, you just need to find someone who is with you, for you, not your money,
@@runirox6841 Well good luck with that because more than 50% of modern women nothing more than lying, toxic, cheating, narcissistic, gold digger 304s
Sadly, social media has convinced a lot of people that they deserve everything and the partner should be rich
The guy complaining about the espresso martini is pathetic.
Yeah I thought the same. Mind you I used to be a bad alcoholic to where I needed it to function. I would be worried if she drank like I used to but that is HIGHLY doubtful.
@@gmorgan693 nowadays I wouldn't take anything for granted. Alcohol disrupts sleep phases and in particular REM phase, makes you sleep quicker but it degrade the quality, what if she decided that if she was going to get a drink, like for celebrating, was sooner in the day to have a better sleep quality?
Unlikely? But nobody knows that person here in the comment section, so it might as well be possible anyway.
Just a heads-up guys, when you're expecting a photograph, paragon of virtue, or a star quality model/paper doll for a date, you're setting yourself up for failure. Try basing your interest in the character of a woman instead of her looks! You ain't perfect and neither is she. If her character sucks, politely bow out. If you can't be polite for 15-20 minutes, forget it. It's a little different than hiring someone during a job interview...
Men, for a first date pick a lunch date. Go with separate checks. If she has a ptoblem paying for her own lunch on a first date, dont have a second date. I think Dutch treat should be the norm for first dates.
She was being nice by not eating
I'm confused. What's wrong with an espresso martini?
@susanyoung1600 Me too
why mix a stimulant with a depressant?
Other than that, who cares, it's his personal thing.
If you're getting drunk on the first date is a turn off for most guys
@@johnbross4219that's understandable
Guy sounds like a soy boy.
I had a first date with a guy and he took me to a place and they were doing some kind of game. Someone puts your number down if they thought you were cute. I turned out to be the only one to put his number down and he got upset and told me I didn't count. Never dated him again. Where do they get some of these women??
Texting that you're just leaving when you are already 10 minutes late could not be a bigger red flag, good on that guy for not responding to her, how selfish.
The horse one was awesome haha
The girl that didn't want the food ,she doesn't want to eat in front of him ,if he's not eating , because she doesn't want him to think she's a pig. I've worked in restaurants, If they let u in and let u order and served u, they can't rush u. This is bad business. Tell her upon entering we can make your food ,but we're making it to go ,if u don't want them to sit and eat .