That woman was totally inappropriate! I'm like Jeannie. "I didn't MAKE them!" Also, I agree with Tamera. I wouldn't be surprised if this was game 🎮. Tam's also on point with WHAT MOTHER would leave the house and her kids haven't been fed?
I'm ok with Adrienne saying she'd pay but for her to expect others to pay, I don't agree with at all!! Who leaves there kids unfed to go on a date? The mom could've ordered the food and paid to feed her own kids. That's embarrassing to me.🤦🏽♀️
Agree but Adrienne has said, she made on first date to guys order drinks for her friends and she bringed her friends to movie dates and expected the guy to pay for them
Adrian is never on the same page lol she’s always not understanding, it’s so frustrating lol It’s a first date. First dates are meant for getting to know eachother
I love how Jeannie said “if I didn’t make them, why should I feed them” I would love to see her argument verses, that raggedy, baby mama, who got mad at her kids, father for only bringing his child McDonald’s
Wow A, this is the first time you and I don’t agree! 😂😂 Luv ya girl but no.. IMO, this girl should not even be on a date IF she truly can’t afford to feed her kids… her priority should be getting her stuff together for her kids instead of dating
It’s ok to ask favors for your kids from loved ones once in a while. But there needs to be a balance. You don’t need do it to early, too much, or unnecessarily.
No no no… on a first date? Like she should be paying for her own kids. And feed your kids before you leave for your date. I would judge her if she didn’t feed the kids before she went out.
Jeannie I'm SURE is embarrassed by that comment if she looks back. "If I didn't make them, why should I feed them?" A, oh A. It's a boundary violation. Asking for someone to feed your kids on the first date is a boundary violation. At this rate you'll be paying school fees in 3 months!
@@paulmarden3301 no just that comment, that's her principle in general but it's a flawed one because the world is full of step kids, it's just not kind and it's not sensible. Obviously we're in agreement that it's inappropriate on the first date.
Thats foul! Shout out to the man for telling her no and cutting the date short after she gave an attitude! Shout out to Adrienne! She's been exposing herself for years
14:10 I use to think this statistic spoke volumes like Adrienne but turns out in areas where arranged marriages are most common like India domestic violence is high. Just because they stay in the marriage longer doesn’t mean it’s a better relationship. I believe the TH-cam channel Jubilee did a series on this if anyone wants to hear first hand from women who were involved in arranged marriage
Dude if it’s the first date , he hasn’t met the kids , the relationship isn’t that serious , or e all of the above . That’s a hell no and she ain’t gotta be mad . That’s a straight up mooch. If he would’ve said yes and bought it. Yup she has him in her hands for good
A womann I knew would tell guys she had to pay a baby sitter so she would ask guys to give her money to pay for her childcare for the night...she didnt have kids. 🤦♀️
If she can’t afford to feed her kids, she should go to the food bank or SNAP. Expecting a guy she just met, who took her on a date, to foot the bill for that is a sure fire way to get him running far, far away from her
If I were the other person I would buy the kids some food. The social worker in me would give all kinds of other resources and that would be the last date Lol
A saying arranged marriages last longer needs to ask the question; why! my guess is probably because of the fear of family repercussions if you try and leave. Also not wanting to embarrass your parents if it doesn't work
Arranged does not = forced marriage. That's a different type , arranged means instead of going out searching for a spouse it's "arranged " for you to meet them with family supervision. It's it can only happen with both sides consent, if it's not then that's called forced marriage.
Adrian's point of view I think is because she thinks they could be poor but to order steak dinners and expect the man to pay because he was late is obserd. And to ask a complete stranger girl why didn't you feed your kids before you left.
As someone who got sad over comments my moms friend's made that I looked nothing like her, I dont think you should ever point out that you wish your kids looked like you or the other parent. I dont think Tamera meant it that way, but in general, and specifically for me, it was very hurtful when my moms friends would say "shes gorgeous, too bad none of her kids look like her". Luckily my mom never perpetuated those comments and even tried to shut them down, but regardless it was hurtful and people should be careful about making those kinds of comments in front of small children
@Alexandra Antokhina I am married with two kids. Sometimes we can show kindness and grace even if it is not deserved. Hasn't someone showed you grace or kindness when in all honesty you did not deserve it? It's not being pathetic, it's being caring and I am not making excuses for her behavior I am looking past her and thinking of the kids.
@@itsmackenziesworld Hahaha, you're virtue-signaling. We all know that you never had paid even 50/50 on a date, so stop acting as if you would 'go that extra mile'. You're just gaslighting.
You should ask your family or the children's father for food if that's the problem. I feel like you shouldn't be out dating if you can't afford to feed your kids. You got bigger fish to fry, pun intended.😂
If I was in need i wouldn’t be out on a date with a man eating a damn thing. I would be at home not even entertaining a man trying to figure out what my kids are going to eat!!
Eric didn't do the right thing. He shouldn't have payed her meal as well. It is 21st century and women are strong, independent, and equal to men in any shape or form.
But that's also how you reinforce bad behaviour in this example. She shouldn't have done that, that's not this man's responsibility to feed your kids. How about she focuses on improving.her finances instead of dating. As Jeannie was saying it's about the principle. Why didn't she ask her family instead of some random date? And that shows how she behaves as a mother, so it was clear for him she was not the one
@@guerline825 Yes indeed. 'Truther' reflects the never-ending pandemic of SIMPs out there, who are eager to be used as a human ATM, even after having been Friend-zoned. Pathetic.
The culture in America is different. It’s not right that the mother did that. Especially for Ghana where i am from there is no problem feeding other peoples kids. If its something else no but for food people will gladly feed kids if the mother asked.
The kids were with their dad. It wasn't his responsibility to pay for anything but his and her meals. I would have politely went to the register, paid for the two meals, then proceeded out the door leaving her to tip the waitress who was also out of line.
I say run forest run. This first date would be the last. My wife had a child when we married. I know this and I felt she was my daughter from the get go and my daughter felt I was her dad to this day. This was my choice not may wife’s. This should have let the man know up front.
Mommy shoulda asked him to pick up the $ me my B4 they even headed to the restaurant to go to Mary’s value menu but mom order and mom get out taking it in and she can have kids say hi to him as she s handing food to 👦 😅
That’s not the point though. It’s the fact that it was the first date and the woman would ask a stranger to buy food for her kids instead of him buying it on her own. It’s different if they had went on many dates, but the first date is meant to get to know one another and see if there is a connection like Jeannie said.
Men love saying “if you aren’t willing to do it someone else will” so why is it bad when women turn it around and do the same thing? If that guy in particular wouldn’t pay for her kids meal there’s hundreds of men who will. My boyfriend paid my bills and bought me a new computer and a car and put money into renovations on my house BECAUSE he was willing to do it and yes some men might not but there’s men who will so why does it matter to me? And in return I love my boyfriend and one day I will marry him and raise our kids together. Men get so triggered because we know we deserve better than bums and women are realizing that too and not settling
That’s a fallacy is not hundreds of men just lining up to take care yo kid and for one why do you have kids when you don’t have a baby father doing for your kids so that shows that you have bad judgment and you pretty much saying that I have to take care of some children that ain’t mine. I have to make up with some kids that ain’t mines and I’m just trying to take you on one date no
He is your BOYFRIEND. He has established that he WANTS to do for you. You should not expect someone on the FIRST date to do something for you just because you feel you're entitled. Had they established being a couple and he refused to feed her kids THEN that is a problem.
I think the kind of packed depends on the friend relationship to start out if u we’re lovey covey friends kissy kissy to start like adopted Jason did with his friend he met in our highschool in public they would go in same stahl and get it on it was then people would say that’s not his sister cus u would hear their drunk convo sayn let me help u pull your panties up what it was she was having an affair maybe he too and his gf thot they actual was his sis but to me it just freed them up hating a hotel room dishing out $ they didn’t have their fame was for her to act drunk so he could get in tub or by pass him to get in stall tricking people to say ah it’s so nice he lookn after his sis no he tearing up something else inside them drawers or u have them friends always arguing anyway who would want to marry that tih pls😅
@@amoeba_in_glasses Sorry to say hun but it’s all of you. Ain’t no virgin pure woman lining up to be wives here in the US. We got our passports and we are out
This is an old episode. It was at least 5 years ago. She just had a baby via surrogate. And I don't think you should be saying that to anyone! It's so mean as you don't know what the other person is going through. She was actually trying to have a kid all this time and she talked about her fertility struggle in her personal channel. Be kind 🌸
I remember when this episode aired and being so frustrated with A on this! 😂😂 I love you A and I see where you’re coming from but not on a first date!
I’m getting annoyed at her all over again lol
That woman was totally inappropriate! I'm like Jeannie. "I didn't MAKE them!" Also, I agree with Tamera. I wouldn't be surprised if this was game 🎮. Tam's also on point with WHAT MOTHER would leave the house and her kids haven't been fed?
I'm ok with Adrienne saying she'd pay but for her to expect others to pay, I don't agree with at all!! Who leaves there kids unfed to go on a date? The mom could've ordered the food and paid to feed her own kids. That's embarrassing to me.🤦🏽♀️
Agree but Adrienne has said, she made on first date to guys order drinks for her friends and she bringed her friends to movie dates and expected the guy to pay for them
But I love that Adrienne is honest and sticks to her opinion
It sounds as if she is trying to take advantage of her date! There wouldn’t be a second date if I was in that person’s shoes, lol. 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Adrian is never on the same page lol she’s always not understanding, it’s so frustrating lol
It’s a first date. First dates are meant for getting to know eachother
If you have to ask, you can't afford to date at that point in time.
It’s a weird request If not anything else
Adrienne TRIED IT!!! Why am I finna buy yo children some food on our first date. I don’t know you or yo children.🙄
Why can’t her kids father feed her kids. Those kids aren’t her dates responsibility.
I love how Jeannie said “if I didn’t make them, why should I feed them” I would love to see her argument verses, that raggedy, baby mama, who got mad at her kids, father for only bringing his child McDonald’s
Wow A, this is the first time you and I don’t agree! 😂😂 Luv ya girl but no.. IMO, this girl should not even be on a date IF she truly can’t afford to feed her kids… her priority should be getting her stuff together for her kids instead of dating
I agree. Her priority is all messed up if her kids haven’t been fed and she’s out there on a date. 😒
It’s ok to ask favors for your kids from loved ones once in a while. But there needs to be a balance. You don’t need do it to early, too much, or unnecessarily.
No no no… on a first date? Like she should be paying for her own kids. And feed your kids before you leave for your date. I would judge her if she didn’t feed the kids before she went out.
I think she just checked if he has money and is generous. But she did it in the wrong way and way too early.
Jeannie I'm SURE is embarrassed by that comment if she looks back. "If I didn't make them, why should I feed them?"
A, oh A. It's a boundary violation. Asking for someone to feed your kids on the first date is a boundary violation.
At this rate you'll be paying school fees in 3 months!
Why would Jeanie be embarrassed? In a first-date context, she's absolutely right
@@paulmarden3301 no just that comment, that's her principle in general but it's a flawed one because the world is full of step kids, it's just not kind and it's not sensible.
Obviously we're in agreement that it's inappropriate on the first date.
@@thabsmkhize2481 she has no reason to be embarrassed, she said it in a specific context
Thats foul! Shout out to the man for telling her no and cutting the date short after she gave an attitude!
Shout out to Adrienne! She's been exposing herself for years
Just order loads of food; say whoa am full I’ll pack the rest up for later 🤷🏽♀️ take it home and feed the children
I'd be embarrassed to even ASK for that.... Lady get up and got gone
14:10 I use to think this statistic spoke volumes like Adrienne but turns out in areas where arranged marriages are most common like India domestic violence is high. Just because they stay in the marriage longer doesn’t mean it’s a better relationship. I believe the TH-cam channel Jubilee did a series on this if anyone wants to hear first hand from women who were involved in arranged marriage
Perhaps shes just having a hard time . I would not eat the meal he bought me , id take it home for my kids .
Right. Like Loni said how abt u just let ur kids get a meal instead of urself
Dude if it’s the first date , he hasn’t met the kids , the relationship isn’t that serious , or e all of the above . That’s a hell no and she ain’t gotta be mad . That’s a straight up mooch. If he would’ve said yes and bought it. Yup she has him in her hands for good
who goes on a date while their kids are at home hungry?
Adrienne is my favourite on the show but what are you thinking A? That is so entitled of a woman to ask that on a first date
A womann I knew would tell guys she had to pay a baby sitter so she would ask guys to give her money to pay for her childcare for the night...she didnt have kids. 🤦♀️
If she can’t afford to feed her kids, she should go to the food bank or SNAP. Expecting a guy she just met, who took her on a date, to foot the bill for that is a sure fire way to get him running far, far away from her
She only saying she would do it cause she in that situation isreal kids
Adrienne is a true Christian ❤❤❤ so proud of you A
But let him not have something they would cancel the date real quick
If I were the other person I would buy the kids some food. The social worker in me would give all kinds of other resources and that would be the last date Lol
A saying arranged marriages last longer needs to ask the question; why! my guess is probably because of the fear of family repercussions if you try and leave. Also not wanting to embarrass your parents if it doesn't work
Arranged does not = forced marriage.
That's a different type , arranged means instead of going out searching for a spouse it's "arranged " for you to meet them with family supervision.
It's it can only happen with both sides consent, if it's not then that's called forced marriage.
Adrian's point of view I think is because she thinks they could be poor but to order steak dinners and expect the man to pay because he was late is obserd. And to ask a complete stranger girl why didn't you feed your kids before you left.
As someone who got sad over comments my moms friend's made that I looked nothing like her, I dont think you should ever point out that you wish your kids looked like you or the other parent. I dont think Tamera meant it that way, but in general, and specifically for me, it was very hurtful when my moms friends would say "shes gorgeous, too bad none of her kids look like her". Luckily my mom never perpetuated those comments and even tried to shut them down, but regardless it was hurtful and people should be careful about making those kinds of comments in front of small children
SHE WAS TRYNA DEFEND HER! DAMNNNN. I had to watch this twice. 3 vs 1.... They're looking at her like .... "girl are you serious????"
She should off pay for her own kids meals.
Why is she arguing about something she wouldn't even do?
Dating shouldn’t be a priority if your kids are that hungry
Loll. Love auntie Lonnies sense of humor. Eat pizza and have... later 🤣🤣🤣
Tamara is so cute with the bow!
I am with A. I am not saying she is not a scammer but I would buy it just because it were her kids
@Alexandra Antokhina I am married with two kids. Sometimes we can show kindness and grace even if it is not deserved. Hasn't someone showed you grace or kindness when in all honesty you did not deserve it? It's not being pathetic, it's being caring and I am not making excuses for her behavior I am looking past her and thinking of the kids.
@@itsmackenziesworld Hahaha, you're virtue-signaling. We all know that you never had paid even 50/50 on a date, so stop acting as if you would 'go that extra mile'. You're just gaslighting.
Men are the hill that Adrienne is willing to die on💀💀💀I love her though😂😂😂
It’s a foul. Honestly I would not pay for her kids. Food if her kids are with there dad is there dad responsibility to feed his kids.
There's nothing wrong to ask when you're in need just explain what's going on
You should ask your family or the children's father for food if that's the problem. I feel like you shouldn't be out dating if you can't afford to feed your kids. You got bigger fish to fry, pun intended.😂
but why are you going out to eat knowing your kids are at home hungry?
Why would you leave your kids un-fed and go on a date to go out to eat if she needs help then she can go to food stamps and stuff not on a date
If I was in need i wouldn’t be out on a date with a man eating a damn thing. I would be at home not even entertaining a man trying to figure out what my kids are going to eat!!
Her name 1st impression is the last to not a sec date ( trifling)he will think gold digger😅
I miss Tamera on The Real
This is crazy bro, the women is extracting resources from the beginning with no sympathy bro
He didnt know she had kids and she didnt ask she just started ordering for the kids and was being rude
Eric didn't do the right thing. He shouldn't have payed her meal as well. It is 21st century and women are strong, independent, and equal to men in any shape or form.
It’s a bit weird obviously but if someone, anyone is asking me for feed, I can never say no. That’s what being a HUMAN is. You help others!
But that's also how you reinforce bad behaviour in this example. She shouldn't have done that, that's not this man's responsibility to feed your kids. How about she focuses on improving.her finances instead of dating. As Jeannie was saying it's about the principle. Why didn't she ask her family instead of some random date? And that shows how she behaves as a mother, so it was clear for him she was not the one
@@guerline825 I agree. I was just saying I personally wouldn’t say no. Would probably just buy the kids meals and never talk to them again lol
Give the kids mommas meal.
@@guerline825 Yes indeed. 'Truther' reflects the never-ending pandemic of SIMPs out there, who are eager to be used as a human ATM, even after having been Friend-zoned. Pathetic.
A WHACK
That's all she know how to make grill cheese
If you don’t have food at home for your kids. You should not be on a date. You have better fish to fry
The culture in America is different. It’s not right that the mother did that.
Especially for Ghana where i am from there is no problem feeding other peoples kids. If its something else no but for food people will gladly feed kids if the mother asked.
The kids were with their dad. It wasn't his responsibility to pay for anything but his and her meals. I would have politely went to the register, paid for the two meals, then proceeded out the door leaving her to tip the waitress who was also out of line.
I say run forest run. This first date would be the last. My wife had a child when we married. I know this and I felt she was my daughter from the get go and my daughter felt I was her dad to this day. This was my choice not may wife’s. This should have let the man know up front.
I don’t think it’s that deep she probably just asked cuz the food was good, they’re KIDS y’all are WIERD
Is the original video on the channel?
Mommy shoulda asked him to pick up the $ me my B4 they even headed to the restaurant to go to Mary’s value menu but mom order and mom get out taking it in and she can have kids say hi to him as she s handing food to 👦 😅
If she's not my girlfriend then her kids aren't my responsibility same goes vice versa
But what don't matter what it's a responsibility up front so please😝😲🙁😀
I don't give a dam.. buy your own kids meals. Tf I look like buying steaks for kids I never met... on a 1st date.. Adrian is wrong she trying to hard
Who babysit her kids
I'd have bought the food for the kids but I'd never date her again, if i was the guy ...
Shiii we buy the food; how we know it ain’t for you and your baby daddy later ?
Romance then kids. Parenthood. Family. Sex. Pregnancy. Motherhood.
Love nice person
Selfishness not nice person
Women hate nice guys, but LOVE those Chad and Tyrone ones! HAHAHA
Gold digger the nerve come on first date she obviously wanted it to be the Last does not make sense (Who does this Sh??)
A lot of woman do that! I never had a problem with it when I was dating. But that was 27 years ago. 😂
😂😂😂 Asking your date to pay for your kids?
That's all she can cook is grillcheese
I prefer this style on Loni short brown hair and the outfit
Arranged marriages last longer because in the culture where arranged marriages are usually. Have stigma towards divorce.
THATS WHY MEN SHOULD NOT DATE WOMEN WHO GOT KIDS NO GOOD NOT GOOD DONT DO IT
Wow.......
Abstenence is good for not being ready to be a mom
He should've not gone on a date with a single mother because eventually he was going to have spend money on her kids.
Eventually he probably would but not on the first date
That’s not the point though. It’s the fact that it was the first date and the woman would ask a stranger to buy food for her kids instead of him buying it on her own. It’s different if they had went on many dates, but the first date is meant to get to know one another and see if there is a connection like Jeannie said.
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Men love saying “if you aren’t willing to do it someone else will” so why is it bad when women turn it around and do the same thing? If that guy in particular wouldn’t pay for her kids meal there’s hundreds of men who will. My boyfriend paid my bills and bought me a new computer and a car and put money into renovations on my house BECAUSE he was willing to do it and yes some men might not but there’s men who will so why does it matter to me? And in return I love my boyfriend and one day I will marry him and raise our kids together. Men get so triggered because we know we deserve better than bums and women are realizing that too and not settling
That’s a fallacy is not hundreds of men just lining up to take care yo kid and for one why do you have kids when you don’t have a baby father doing for your kids so that shows that you have bad judgment and you pretty much saying that I have to take care of some children that ain’t mine. I have to make up with some kids that ain’t mines and I’m just trying to take you on one date no
He is your BOYFRIEND. He has established that he WANTS to do for you. You should not expect someone on the FIRST date to do something for you just because you feel you're entitled. Had they established being a couple and he refused to feed her kids THEN that is a problem.
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It’s wrong to deny kids food period so I’m on A side for sure !
Lmao some random persons kids😂😂😂
@@preyasjariwala569 Fr they trippin I’m not paying for them kids they aren’t mine so idc
We know what kind of lady she is she definitely pulls the stunt the woman did lol
I think the kind of packed depends on the friend relationship to start out if u we’re lovey covey friends kissy kissy to start like adopted Jason did with his friend he met in our highschool in public they would go in same stahl and get it on it was then people would say that’s not his sister cus u would hear their drunk convo sayn let me help u pull your panties up what it was she was having an affair maybe he too and his gf thot they actual was his sis but to me it just freed them up hating a hotel room dishing out $ they didn’t have their fame was for her to act drunk so he could get in tub or by pass him to get in stall tricking people to say ah it’s so nice he lookn after his sis no he tearing up something else inside them drawers or u have them friends always arguing anyway who would want to marry that tih pls😅
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In my opinion I think the woman should be allowed to buy a extra food for her kids
Why
Well you ain’t getting a second date lol
Yeah and she can pay for it if I haven't met the kids sorry not sorry
This is the end of American women!
Ain’t nobody taking y’all serious!
@@amoeba_in_glasses Sorry to say hun but it’s all of you. Ain’t no virgin pure woman lining up to be wives here in the US.
We got our passports and we are out
Adrienne said, "I'm also not a mother yet." 4:49
Yet?!? When does she plan on having kids? At the age of 50?!?
This is an old episode. It was at least 5 years ago. She just had a baby via surrogate. And I don't think you should be saying that to anyone! It's so mean as you don't know what the other person is going through. She was actually trying to have a kid all this time and she talked about her fertility struggle in her personal channel. Be kind 🌸