It also confused me because the person in the video is laying down and their hair is cleary just at an odd angle, so it's hard to actually say if the bangs are badly cut
Hair too, maybe she wants to knock down everyone who reminds her of herself cause she thinks it will validate the narcissistic shell shes built around her lack of a stable self and self esteem.
marsha p johnson DID say she was trans!! specifically “transsexual,” but there have always been terms for trans ppl! our history is long and beautiful :)
Marsha never self-identified with the term transsexual, what she did describe herself as was a gay person, a transvestite and a drag queen. It would be wise to actually know facts before spewing fiction.
oh god, it seems she's gotten even _more_ unhinged. Like I knew she was anti-trans but I didn't know she'd completely thrown in her hat with the anti-woke crowd
Yeah, and the worst part is that the people that she's fighting with would turn around and have her rights taken away in a heartbeat because she's a "filthy lesbian". They don't care about anybody in our community, they just care that some of us can help them get what they want before they throw all the rest of us under the bus.
Usually those who were liberal/left leaning who had that one fringe issue, get rejected so much by the left for not believing in rights for all people that they start to be comforted by the right as if your politics should be dictated by who is nice to you. They supposedly change all their values bc their fringe issue of being against a group of people ends up being more important than the belief that people deserve rights, dignity and respect. "Left the left" types are so pathetic.
"old school liberals don't believe in anything the far left believes in but conservatives do." Conservatives are reading Karl Marx? News to me. Jokes aside it's hilarious that she says this while siding with conservatives on everything.
I think she was saying that old school liberals align more with modern day conservatives than leftist. Which is true, as classical liberalism is actually a center ideology. But there are other types of liberalism. Also in the US most people just use "liberal" to mean anything that isn't right wing so ya.
@@Kitty4u No, Arille's trying to do some horseshoe-theory bullshit. "The far left is as bad as the far right!" I'm not gonna lie; the left *does* have problems with shit like class reductionism, accelerationism Stalin and Putin apologia, and especially racism. But to say that the most fractionalized political collective is exactly like the "break shit so we can say it's broken" far right is *offensive.*
Didn't a gay black man get booed at a republican convention, or the time Blair White was told that she should "let the hair above her lip" grow by republicans.
They're quick to try to trade in conformity for a little bit of temporary acceptance. But when the least accepted are dealt with, conservatives will continue to go up the ladder.
@@juliasutton8634 I honestly didn't because she has shown similar cruelty to other trans people and literally built a platform with a conservative base that will take their rights away
Arielle Scarcella... I wonder what her viewpoints are regarding LGBTQ people losing their rights in Italy. She is Italian if I remember correctly... The people taking the rights away from LGBTQ individuals in Italy are conservative right/far right individuals - and it's NOT the fault of progressive woke lgbtq people. It's the fault of antiquated conservative views - the same views that Arielle wishes to be a pick-me grifter for.
She's born in USA... I want to add that in Italy the weight of Catholic Church isn't helpful for LGBTQ+ community. Catholic dogmas accept LGBTQ+ people as long as they do not have sexual relations. The only overture made by the pope is that a priest can, if he wishes, bless a same sex couple (not the union).
She might be of Italian descent but she lives in the US and was born there afaik, so there is close to no way she cares about something happening here 5k miles away. And I fully believe she would side with them anyway. Her hate for any non-comforming queer person trumps whatever self-respect she has. If the government went and did a russian by deeming queerness illegal she would just shrug, hide, and let others fight for her.
Lesbian parents were specifically targeted in Italy a little while ago, as far as I know it’s still ongoing. Even if she doesn’t care about the rest of the community, her silence on lesbian issues in favor of putting down trans people speaks volumes.
@@Poopoopeepee6969 Of course basing your identity and existence on cruelty, wanting to limit others freedom of expression, to enable legislation to oppress and outlaw citizens who are different to you for no good reason other than you think they are icky and look funny and you wish they didn't exist. The only hypocrisy I see is from people with privilege and acceptance in society who have to put other humans down to build themselves up.
Being a lesbian was viewed as "edgy" back in 2009; though authentic, she formed an entire identity around this brand of "edgy". That's why she's so threatened by the existence of other genders. Your Existence is " interfering" with her entire "personality".
JFC! There's been out and proud lesbians since the 1960s, and even a few before then. You were literally born yesterday. "Edgy" wasn't a concept in real life (before the Internet, you won't remember). It was invented on the Internet, probably 4chan again, round about, I dunno, maybe 2009. Really, before you do anything, before you have social opinons, learn your history. Google "Gertrude" and the second result is Gertrude Stein. The modern transgender political movement is about 10 years old. Things used to be very different. Arielle was around, and a lesbian, long before all this, and she has a few objections to the changes that have been passed, the further changes trans campaigners want to make, and many issues and problems that have cropped up because of concepts like self-ID. Or else y'know she lives on 4chan and is being le edgy, also she's full of hate and prejudice for no reason against people who merely want to exist and nothing more.
As someone who was a fan of Arielle Scarcella way back in my baby gay days, It really does break my heart to see how much of a pick me she has become. She lost me as a subscriber too when she announced she was leaving the left.. its because as someone who struggled with their gender and sexuality because of their conservative family, it feels like she gave a big middle finger to all those lgbt kids who watched her back in the day. For me, I'm not mad or "triggered" by her, I'm so so disappointed in her.
Same. No idea what actually happened to her, who hurt her, or why she's done this. I stuck with her, even when she left, up until she started making other queer people her targets. Her and Buck truly have become a sort of hypocritical figureheads; people who claim to care about the lgbtq community, while sinking an axe into our backs.
I'm a bi- woman and a therapist. I also used to watch her content back in the day before she got hateful, mostly because she collaborated with a few creators i watched. I ditched her a while before she went totally down the rabbit hole though sincehints of her worst views would show up in jokes and comments and i just thought she was a jerk. It's sad she just fell straight down the TERF pipeline and got praise for it. People like her want to feel special and like they have secret understanding others don't. Conspiracies, secret agendas, and hating on marginalized people just to feel superior. She fell for all of it.
@@infinitivez It all started when she made a post that she only dates post-op trans women. She got backlash for it at the time and was accused of reducing trans people down to their body parts. Obviously she didn't see it that way and a lot of people in the community threatened to cancel her. That's when she started grifting to keep viewers.
@@infinitivez she figured out that the right-wing grift is way more lucrative, that's all. people like arielle and blair white will absolutely knife their own in the back to make a buck.
I hate the "normal gay" thing so much. By that standard (which is dumb in itself), I'd be considered a "normal gay" because of how I act. i.e. Typically masculine, dress like the average guy, etc. Guess what? I still experience extreme homophobia from "friends" and family members on the regular. Idk who needs to hear this but it doesn't matter how "normal" you act, homophobes will never accept you. How you "act" is just the lowest hanging fruit for them. The *core* of the issue is, was, and will always be the fact that you're gay.
Thank you for your well put words. This is so true and I am realizing this after a while of trying to be a "normal gay". In my late 20s now. It worked a little bit, but not a lot. It's hard to accept that cause I tried so hard.
Yeah it’s another way of saying “heteronormative” “Normal in the eyes of straight people and their gender roles established” But the only “acceptance” you’ll see is from the fact that they can pretend you’re celibate and never be reminded of your sexuality That’s what makes it appealing to them
Y'alls set of comments are 100% accurate. Most conservatives are only comfortable with you being "out of the closet" so long as you *never* leave the room haha. It's all just truly exhausting, especially in regard to family.
It's wild how these types of transphobes will be like I lost all of my friendships and connections due to doing this, but then will turn around and say "I will not respect someone enough to call them what they want to be called even if that means they might hurt themselves" and don't see any correlation between lack of basic respect and the reason why they lost all their connections to people who actually care about human rights.
Arielle just makes me sad. I followed her back in the day, when she was kind, and fun. Now she's just angry and bitter. I hope she finds a better therapist.
Well, who else could it be? After all, I am pretty sure that lesbians are the least transphobic demographic. So there are VERY few exceptions beside Arielle. Gosh, that must be so lonely. No wonder she is so bitter.
Because Arielle is on a completely different level of transphobia and she's definitely the only one i can think who can come after Samantha in such a stupid manner who's also lesbian.
@theavengers01 What are you calling censorship? Because if getting a Netflix special taken away is “censorship” then you’re just lying. Streaming services don’t have to host anything they don’t agree with, they aren’t the government and freedom of speech only applies to the government
How is Arielle surprised she lost brand deals when she pivoted from "sex positivity" content" to "police the communities behavior" content, like of course the people sponsoring the former don't inherently want to fund the latter. You'd think a conservative would understand conserving a core principal of their channel.
So let me get this straight (lol) … she sees people rightfully speaking out against HER bullying trans people, mocking people under the trans umbrella and leading hate campaigns … as them bullying her? 🤯 The idiocy in that. I can’t.
@@Poopoopeepee6969 in this debate, one side is just trying to live their lives peacefully and the other is trying to take their rights away. And you think you’re on the right side of history? If a guy tried to stab someone in the street and they punched them in order to get away, would you go and say “hey, stop bullying stabby guy! ☹️”?
I disagree with almost everything SL says, but I do agree that calling yourself a ‘normal’ gay is offensive. Brad Polumbo also uses the term. What gay wants to be ‘normal’? 😂
@StrapOnRobbie Especially since intolerant queerphobes do not see being gay as being "normal" or "sane". There is a reason why the terms "heteronormativity" and "heteronormative" exist.
I mean, these comments under this video are an exact reflection of that 😂 if you go on her video the only people saying she’s ugly , a pick me, or a traitor or horrible person is the left, like under this video
its literally the truest thing. once you turn on the left side of LGBT, they hate you forever dox and threaten you. but they are LOVING and we, we are the HATERS. that is the only cap here. I feel like people will grow up and realize how they perpetuated the same stuff older LGBT like Blaire and Arielle experienced from straight people. I know cause it also happened to me.
Not to mention, the _actual_ far left, aka orthodox Marxist-Leninists, are notoriously socially conservative and are quite opposed to both trans and gay rights
@@aynodurnegw Why is Arielle allowed to insult trans people's appearances, make wild accusations about their actions and mental health status, and call them horrible people for minding their own business? She's been attacking trans people for these things for literal YEARS. God forbid some people say "no u" to her in response, lmao.
@@aynodurnegw Well yes because they are the words someone on the left will use but to say that as a lesbian woman she doesn't experience any negativity from the right is difficult to believe. I'm not saying that it's ok for people on any side of the political spectrum to send her horrible messages but I cannot believe she only gets it from one side and never the other. I watch her videos I don't agree with most of what she says but I'm not stooping so low as to pick on her appearance or character. It's important not to live in an echo chamber and to remain civil.
It depends, the riot itself or the demonstration, the riot she was not there at all but they both work lot for the rigths of the lgbtq+ which they are credits too. Also something on should take into account is Marsha was a Drag queen peforma not sure why people think of him as a trans person. Since what i could observat depending on the social circle people play hard into sterotyp which is a big no no all togther since did we not figth as well to remove the stigma and sterotyp surrounding the lgbtq+ (what a mouthful tbh)
As an autistic person I would love to expose her to a little homophobia, something like "I maybe a weird autistic person, but at least I am not a lesbian that makes being a pickme my entire personality"
People use woke as an insult when it really isn’t. Woke means being aware of and actively attentive to important societal facts and issues (especially issues of racial and social justice)
Yes, it's morphed into a word used to describe someone on the left who is hyper militant in their political correctness and does their best to shut down any opinion that doesn't fit their world view. I prefer "insomniac" i.e. someone who is so woke they never sleep, or "woo-woo wokenite".
@@pyxilate same as “you’re ugly” and any kind of insult like that. I can take the name calling but people treating me differently because of it is the real pits.
The moment I read the title……. The first name that popped into my head, “Arielle”. I hate that as a cis lesbian woman, I used to look up to her when I was newly out and trying to fit into the community. I thought her motto, “Hello lesbians, gays, and everyone else in between” was her way of being inclusive. This was back in the late 2000s, early 2010s. Why the hell did she become so hateful? What is she benefiting from this? Why does she feel so threatened? I’m ashamed I ever tried to find comfort in her videos. But as viewers, we unfortunately never know what a person’s true intentions are… The blatant transphobia is embarrassing, Arielle.
We all have that one person we looked up to that Turned out to be horrible. I used Blaire White as a crutch for too long, if IT makes you feel any better.
@@kazikek2674 Oh I used to watch her too. Mainly ‘cause, if I were to play Devil’s advocate, I did like her videos on calling out predators. But that transitioned to focussing solely on dogging on trans/trans non-binary people exclusively - what radioactive cockroach from the seventh circle of hell did these people get bitten by to suddenly become such hateful, Trump supporting, bigots who still feel proud to call themselves queer!?
pick me gays are literally this Imagine there are several cities; City a decides to attack city B, city b defends itself from city a but to no avail, city b has several streets and a great part of the city thinks that the only way to stop being attacked by city a is by blaming everything on a street in their own city and start attacking that street, unaware that they're attacking themselves and help city A win
the part where you had to pause to try and understand wtf she was even trying to say was so real 😭 it's like she likes to hear herself talk but doesn't care enough to check if what she's saying makes any sense. she's like if google ai search was transphobic or something
Honestly, Arielle's switch up has been kind of devastating for me. She was one of the first queer youtubers I discovered as a young queer person in high school, and her content really helped me feel ok with who I was. Seeing her transphobic hate, especially as a nonbinary person, really saddens me. A foundation of my queer exploration has turned against me, but at least I've got Samantha
Well she’s not queer, so 😂 and non binary is NOT transsexual, notice how you said non binary? And not transsexual? Being a masculine woman or feminine man doesn’t make you not a man/woman. That’s sexist as fuck, and regressive to the idea that gender IS a spectrum, because if it wasn’t then if you’re even slightly fem as a man you’re suddenly not a man? How is that not sexist? Insane You’re conflicting Non binary and Transsexuals so you have some form of validity, if non binary was valid it would be its own thing. Transsexualism is ROOTED in the binary, and you’re erasing and degrading a space that transsexuals established .. AND fucking it up 😂😂😂
Yep it's a typical tatic people like her take. Lying to make your point seem even a tiny bit correct because you know the people who regularly watch you will not actually research. People like her also know their fanbase will care more about soundbites rather then actually well articulated arguments(not that she has any)
noone will believe me because its this channel.. but I have BPD. the reason I am against transitioning minors is because of it. i didnt even know i could be trans as a kid, i didnt even know i was gay. i grew up with sisters and no dad. i was very feminine and flamboyantly so. i sang and danced to spice girls at recess with the girls and felt weird playing ball with the boys. I 100% believe if i was a kid now with the same problems, trans would seem like a gateway to happiness and friends, and i wouldnt get bullied for being gay or sounding gay anymore at least. noone here will care about people like me because im part of the detransition group (although never transitioned just saying). im vilified and hated and called internally homophobic. its sad that we cant listen to EVERYONE in the community and only those we agree with. i consider it helping in my own way to oppose this but others will think i am the devil. you cant win sometimes and it is very depressing. now Im not going around calling tarns people their birth sex pronouns I have limits. but just speaking my experience peple simply do not care if it doesnt fit the agenda.
lol, Fred Sargent was becoming a police officer as the Stonewall Riot was happening. Then he had a career as a cop. He just happened to be near the bar at the time. He wasn't there in the bar. He wasn't being arrested with the bar patrons.
16:18 as an autistic trans person, yes! It's because for us, since we don't pay attention to social norms and stuff like that, we have a better understanding of who we are since we aren't blinkered by society's perspective on the LGBTQ+ community. Also I just want to point out (i hope it doesn't come across as rude), that we normally use "autistic person" rather than "person with autism". When we say "person with autism" there's a negative connotation that autistic people can and need to be cured when that isn't true at all. I know that it wasn't your intention just thought I'd share :). Also Arielle has also tried to say autistic people are infants in mind and whatnot and that we were influenced into "turning trans" 😭. She is genuinely very dumb. Thank you for your video Samantha!
The infantilization of gay and autistic people as a weapon for transphobia is WILD. One thing to remember is they don't care about kids, or mental health, or fact, they just hate trans people
Yeah, the whole 'person with ' is called person-first talk. It's not like super bad-like slur or whatever, but some people in the community find it offensive because it's the sort of grammar you'd use when referring to a disease, hence implying that the disability you're talking about is a disease (which is a bit icky, and also just incorrect). Don't worry about it, you slay (and so does this video-- FR she had the same haircut, only hers is worse), just a little pointer for future videos
@@EnbyFrog42 yes you've put it much more eloquently than I did! You'd say cancer patient or person with cancer because it is a disease. You wouldn't say person with autism in the same fashion because it equates it to a disease when it isn't Edit: I hate autocorrect for the amount of autocorrection it did
Damn for someone who cries about being ostracised and bullied by the woke left, Ariella opening a video making fun of some persons appearance or armchair disagnosing people she finds cringe with bpd is some weird mental gymnastics. 😂
@@autumnasters I started watching a little late so I actually was pretty attached to Maya, Zig, Miles, Tristan and everyone from the class of 2016. I loved the old characters but I liked them all too.
Sigh. As a trans masc with BPD… I’m not trans because I have BPD. I appreciate you pointing out correlation doesn’t equal causation. I’ve been being treated for BPD for over 15 years. I am not trans because I have BPD.
trans man with bpd here to second you I am not trans because I have bpd. My transness is not wholly tied to my personality. The bullying I experienced as a gay kid tho.. might have made me borderline
I don't have BPD but i find it really stupid she would blame a disorder that has nothing to do with being trans. A lot of people can have conditions that have no effect on their gender identity and even if they have BPD it doesn't make them any less vailed people can be trans with or without conditions and it definitely doesn't have a link to it
What does trans masc even mean? Masculine and feminine aren't genders, everyone has masculine and feminine traits. You aligning more with masculinity doesn't make you trans.
@@TerraUmbraVampWriter I googled the term and it still makes no sense because like I said before... Masculine and feminine are not genders. Challenging different views is important for society, it doesn't matter if it's online or offline and I'm sure you challenge different views online too.
That progressives go after your livelihood and aren't as accepting as they claim to be? Yeah, I knew that already. Faux acceptance should not be welcomed.
"wait, you're telling me a queer person who made a video on BPD got a bunch of queer ppl who also have BPD in their comments?????????????? whoa oh my god what kind of strange imaginary force could have caused that?"
I really hated her BPD video, and enjoyed Sam's reaction. And her tske away was "well look at all the queers whjo turned out to have BPD." What a slimey person, the reason they would point that out is because Ariella's applying the symptoms of a personality disorder onto a group of people who just want to live in peace. And the point was to say "its caused by trauma," most likely, but they would be queer even if they werent traumatized. And Arielle should know better, bc its just a remix of "lesbians are only lesbian bc they were assaulted by a man," and idk how she would feel about that. Somehow I wouldn't be surprised if she found that to be an acceptable thing to say. To add, we're more likely to get our diagnosis bc we dont hate science, mental health awareness, ect.
ikr! she'll always be seen as a fetish by conservatives and she doesn't seem to understand that cons are only pretending to support her rights cause to not do so would be a social disaster
I love how she named dropped Stormé DeLarverie. She identified as a butch lesbian, but butch back in the day had multiple meanings. It wasn't just a more masculine style or a more dominate/top/touch-me-not role in the bedroom, for some people it was a gender identity too. A lot, not all, of old school butches leaned heavily into what we would call nonbinary today. They talked about having discomfort in their body that'd we'd label as dysphoria now. Stormé used whatever pronouns people wanted to use with them. She used she/her, he/him, and they/them. They were all about using whatever pronouns made you comfortable because she was truly comfortable with any and all of them. Stormé was saying that back in the 60s and proof of it can be found in Female Impersonation by Avery Willard.
u just described the problem we have now. it was possible to not care. now everyone cares so much about labels. and if you don't agree, we all hate and will bully and DOX you. wait why do you not like us now??
@@Poopoopeepee6969 Her not caring isn't the experience of everyone and doesn't undermine the experiences people who do. People did care about labels back then. Hence why butch, stone butch, femme, twink, etc. are labels with specific meanings to them. You're not stupid enough to think hate, bullying, and doxing doesn't exist so stfu.
@@Poopoopeepee6969 Back then when we "didn't care" it meant "Oh, you're a he/him lesbian? OK sir, all good, no argument from me". These days people who claim not to care most often are like "I don't care what you tell me, I'll give you the label I think you should have, and I'll claim *you're* the bully if you object".
In fact, lesbians are actually the most trans supportive group, other than trans people themselves! Not just within the queer community, but just, in general. (Bi women are second btw, just barely behind the lesbians.)
We know! And as a trans woman I want to emphasize, that not all of us are bullying lesbians into dating "women with penises". Most of us want to date people that want to date us😌
I used to be hateful like Arielle. As in i used to dislike trans people with a seething hatred, i was basically projecting my trauma of being cheated on with a trans person towards other trans people, and it really made me miserable. Therapy and healing is what helped me, and now im a huge ally to the trans community, i feel very embarrassed that i even disliked them, because they're wonderful people. Arielle, take it from me, get therapy instead of being a negative nancy.
Fred Sargeant stikes me as being one of the people who booed Sylvia Rivera at the 1973 Gay Pride Rally. He literally may have too, if he lived in NYC back then. Transwomen have been a backbone of the LGBT rights movement since Stonewall, but unfortuntaly there have been LGB people who refused to accept them as part of our community just as long. Personally, I will give Mr. Sargeant his dues for being there at the first Pride, however I will also say shame on you Mr. Sargeant for spitting in the faces of our Trans siblings who have been fighting with us since Stonewall.
She wasn’t there. Wtf would she know? The chant for the longest was “We’re here, we’re QUEER, get used to it.” Because it was gay, lesbian, bi, gender benders, dykes on bikes, drag queens trans guys, undefine kinksters and hippies, butches in the street-femme in the sheets, nerdy accounts, schoolteachers .. You can recognize contemporary terms- gender fluid, enby, agender, trans, ace… But the movement used the term ‘queer’ at pride and demonstrations specifically TO be all inclusive. This whole LGB ‘John Birch of Gay’ respectability politics bs she’s talking about- wasn’t Pride or The Queer Liberation Movement at freaking all. I WAS there. She’s talking out her bigoted revisionist historical ignorant *ss.
Just to let you know, borderline personality disorder is not exclusively caused through childhood trauma. It also has to do with genetic predispositions and other factors.
I think there's other factors, but it does not occur without childhood trauma. Like, genetic factors might make it more likely, but it does not happen without there being issues in childhood/teenhood. This doesn't have to be abuse, though.
@@emilybixler3166 That's untrue. You can absolutely have BPD without childhood trauma. You might be thinking of DID which is exclusively caused by trauma.
I know she’s always kind of been Like That(tm) but every time she mentions trans people, I feel like going way back to her older vids where she actually had trans friends or guests and had serious discussions with them. Or when she mentions the left vs the right, I’m SURE somewhere she spoke about the far right in the same negative way she talks about the left now. But I would never torture myself watching her videos, even the really old ones that were actually educational. I do think it’d be hilarious if someone made a video of contradictions she’s made lol
7:20 Yep! The supreme court ruling that reversed Roe explictly said that the 60s ruling protecting interracial marriage is in question and could be struck down now. And Loving (that case) is the legal foundation for the gay marriage ruling in Obergefell. It's all one ruling away from falling apart
"yessing people to death," in context of "i will call someone bugself if it helps them not unalive." Ariella is proud to say no to someone who is asking for the simplest of things. Its ironic she would say "yessing someone to death" when she is basically saying"i will no them to death bc lying to them won't help them." What good is any help if they are not alive to benefit from whatever she thinks will help them? To add, their identity is not what makes them want to unalive. Its people like arielle.
I hate that I had to remember she exists 😂😂 Also the fact that she calls Fred her friend is all I need to know. Ok girl. “He’s not some random gay man” you’re right, Arielle, he’s worse than that.
lately a lot of "lgb not tq+" channels are showing up on my yt fyp. It really upsets me because sometimes they attack the right thing and make a point, but it is then put in between these other very transfobic statements, makeing it look sensical for a regular joe. It scares me to think how much these people could influence some random people that didn't looked for that..... Its personal because i have a beautiful smart girlfriend, that is trans, she experienced a lot of tranasfobia from close people and selfjudgement in her life, and seeing those people just being fine, not even better, just fine, after saing such things, affecting a life of the woman that truelly changed my life, its heartbreaking. like... when will it stop? and as a cis woman i didn't really knew that before i met her. they just have no idea how much they impact our lifes, and also kind of doing it to themselves too.
Arielle used to be very pro LGBTQIA, but she took a turn for the worse when she made a tweet stating that she only dated post-op trans women because she is a lesbian. She got a lot of backlash for it at the time. Most of the criticism was constructive, trying to help her to see that it reduces trans women down to their body parts, but some of the criticism was not constructive. She was "almost" cancelled and unfollowed by a lot of people and so she ended up going on a rampage about trans people ever since. She's still mad that she almost got cancelled and after that moment she started to pivot to more anti-LGBT content because those are the people who will watch her. I personally believe she is more of a grifter than anything.
I'm not sure if trans people had to react that way. I think it's valid to not like dick even if it's girldick. I do have a problem with framing pre-op/non-op trans women as "not real women" though. You can still be a lesbian if your girlfriend has a penis too.
I can't with this girl... I've been having gender issues waaaaay before I developed BPD. And she needs to acknowledge that you medically can't even diagnose someone with BPD until after they hit 18 (it's extremely rare your someone to get diagnosed with it beforehand) because you're personality IS STILL FORMING 😭😭😭😭 and then your symptoms have to be drastic enough and consistent and continuous enough for it to even be considered to be BPD so that they can see that it's not just teen hormones or some other underlying issue. 😭😭😭😭😭 NOWHERE IN THE DIAGNOSTIC OF BPD DOES IT SAY... "You'll be 🏳️⚧️ too, boo~! 😘😘😘" 😩😩😩😩😩
THANK YOU for standing up for people who use neopronouns. There is absolutely no harm being caused by someone who has cat/cats in their bio. And if you hate that someone uses them, its not like youd be forced to hang around with them anyway, im sure they would LOVE to not be around Arielle
@DoofNeedlesnot only that, but the vast majority of people who use neo-pronouns use Spivak pronouns (ey/em/eirs) which were invented in the 1800s as a singular gender neutral variant of they/them/theirs. There was debate in the 1800s as to whether they/them could be used as singular.
@@matthewhill9513interestingly, neo-pronouns were actually invented in the first place due to rhetoric that conservatives like yourself echo today, namely the false assertion that the pronouns they/them/theirs are exclusively plural and cannot be used as singular. Linguists unanimously agree today that this is false and that singular they/them is completely grammatically correct, but there was debate in the 1800s, for which some writers invented what later became known as Spivak pronouns (ey/em/eirs) which were coined as singular, gender neutral variants of they/them, and popularized and named after the famous American Mathematician Michael Spivak
@@VerniasAugoeides if you weren’t trapped inside an echo chamber, you will see that’s entirely not true. People used to not care and trans people used to be more accepted, but now the idea that if you don’t think a child should be able to transition is transphobia people don’t like the trans community anymore and don’t care about being called transphobic.. maybe if you stop calling people like Blaire White a sellout, and actually believe she had her own viewpoints you disagree with, you would start to see that there is another side to the argument that is valid. She makes a lot of antagonistic videos, and I completely agree that it takes away from her message and makes it easy to label her. Now I know you’re gonna go ahead and just dismiss everything I said because I even utter the words Blair White. I guess the only way you’ll find out is when multiple states start messing with adults transitioning which I totally disagree with. it’s already started though. this is one of the things Trump is running on and a lot of people disagree with the activists.
Very true: because in certain states even though LGBT+ marriage is federally now legal consummating that new marriage is not: especially for gay men (as an example.)
Implying being on the left makes you more money than being on the right is insane. Please, then, explain why we have overtly right-wing main stream shows, and some slightly to the left of them, but we don’t have any mainstream overtly left-wing shows. And I mean truly left wing, not democrats or moderates-but progressives, cause we aren’t the same.
im a queer with bpd and it hurta so mutch to see someone say bs like this. bpd is created by childhood trauma and loving who i love has nothing to do with that. Who the fuck does she think she is to talk about it. besides I am going thru the process of losing the diagnoses cuz ive been in therapy for years, but im still queer tho so how about that
Autistic Trans here. It's not necessarily about being 'more aware' of our gender as much as it about *not* being tied down by 'cultural norms' seeing as we are already not included in them.
24:19 funny thing is stormé delarverie - credited with throwing the first punch at stonewall - was a drag king who told people to use whatever pronouns they wanted for them and people that knew them have speculated that they were perhaps nonbinary
I think a big thing with correlations between queerness and a lot of other mental conditions, disabilities (even physical disabilities) is that: A. Queerness is something you typically find out about yourself, sometimes through interactions with other queer people. B. Queer liberation typically aligns with other forms of liberation, and queer people are common in activist spaces. I think a lot of these correlations can be explained by the fact that when you share space with queer people, you’re more likely to realize you’re queer.
To the point of “being gay is only accepted if you look straight.” My partner and I get next to zero looks, no more side ways glances, no more usher kids to the other side of the walkway, since i started passing as a guy. Now that we “look straight,” significantly less people treat us different. Its jarring.
Is crazy for that man to say that trans people have not been an important part of the LGBTQ+ Comunity, maybe from the U.S, sure, but for my country, Argentina, is a complete diferent story. The first LGBTQ+ Organization was created two years before the stonewall happened and it was created thank to the help of very powerfull and beautifull trans woman. So yeah, trans people have allways been there and we will allways be here, for every single person that can´t come out and for every single person that can´t celebrate because is not longer with us. Lots of love, happy pride month
here's the thing: even if what they thought about autism etc... was true, if we trans people were just caused because of those things.... SO WHAT? What does that change in how we treat that scenario? We can't "fix" autism, that's not a diagnosis that lends itself to a specific therapy or medicine and then everything's 'normal and fine' (and also just... doesn't explain the autistic people that are not trans).... It just means that we as people would need accommodations to function best, and those 'accommodations' would just be... being allowed to transition and being treated respectfully. There's just no part of how conservatives and TERFS talk about trans people that is humanizing, compassionate, or logical. And the more they lash out, the more they have to also hurt cis people that do not fit the lines they keep narrowly drawing around themselves to exclude trans people because clearly: gender is not a simple binary issue, and it never really has been.
Please explain to me how someone can be transphobic when they have multiple trans friends who know all of her views and say that she is no where near transphobic? Make it make sense Lmao
Being a “normal gay” has become the highest compliment because it means I’m not openly acting like a mess like so many other gays. Mutual respect and common decency needs to be normalized
The “badly cut bangs” thing she mentioned confused me so much because like. Their hair is so similar??
proof it's all projection
It also confused me because the person in the video is laying down and their hair is cleary just at an odd angle, so it's hard to actually say if the bangs are badly cut
Arielle is not someone who should be criticizing bad haircuts.
NO LITERALLY WHAT I SAID
She got the same bangs!
She did not say the first person had badly cut bangs when they basically look the same as hers-
projection is wild
Not similar not gonna be super mean but one of then had obviously better hair (hint it isn't the terf)
Exactly, the fucking audacity of her to critique other people's hair
Fr! I was like, the other person's hair looks combed and done well while Arielle looks like she woke up and messed her hair up more.
@@jadziadax1993 the hipocrazy of this woman is insane. I watched her as a young teen and then saw her slowly become what she is now
"Passive aggressive I'm better than you voice," huh? Isn't that Arielle's brand?
Hair too, maybe she wants to knock down everyone who reminds her of herself cause she thinks it will validate the narcissistic shell shes built around her lack of a stable self and self esteem.
LITERALLY??? like she's so condescending lmfao
People like this pick me lesbian want to set fire to the ladder below them but are not smart enough to realize that fire burns upward.
That's a good metaphor. I salute you.
@@kazikek2674 why thank you!
I love this metaphor. I will be sure to use it myself because it is just that good.
YES, i wrote a paragraph and deleted it to try to say what you said elegantly.
So clarifyingly true
"Lets take away trans rights!"
*whining* "They took away my rights too, i just wanted to cherry pick about who gets rights"
Gee, it's almost like removing the rights of even one demographic puts all rights in danger of being removed.
@@jacqueshardin4601*shocked pikachu*
@@idkwhattohaveasausername5828*shocked anthony davis face*
When the removal of human rights leads to removal of human rights!
Define 'trans'. 🤔
It's what happens when you play with fire.
marsha p johnson DID say she was trans!! specifically “transsexual,” but there have always been terms for trans ppl! our history is long and beautiful :)
people are even starting to use the term transsexual again
Marsha never self-identified with the term transsexual, what she did describe herself as was a gay person, a transvestite and a drag queen. It would be wise to actually know facts before spewing fiction.
@@Iuxinterior in spanish it's very used
@@kittypeanut4102 confirmo
No it's not but ok
oh god, it seems she's gotten even _more_ unhinged. Like I knew she was anti-trans but I didn't know she'd completely thrown in her hat with the anti-woke crowd
Yeah, and the worst part is that the people that she's fighting with would turn around and have her rights taken away in a heartbeat because she's a "filthy lesbian". They don't care about anybody in our community, they just care that some of us can help them get what they want before they throw all the rest of us under the bus.
Usually those who were liberal/left leaning who had that one fringe issue, get rejected so much by the left for not believing in rights for all people that they start to be comforted by the right as if your politics should be dictated by who is nice to you.
They supposedly change all their values bc their fringe issue of being against a group of people ends up being more important than the belief that people deserve rights, dignity and respect.
"Left the left" types are so pathetic.
When you throw your hat in the anti trans ring, it's only a matter of time before it slides into anti woke
@@spongecakes1986 Then to trad wife and anti female bodily autonomy.
@@sophiepooks2174 now I'm curious as to what a lesbian trad wife would be like. Not like she has a husband to serve
Here's a hot take. Arielle is significantly more annoying than anyone she herself claims to be annoying.
If I touch that take I might get hypothermia
@@beanman9936 Oh, that is hilarious! 🤣
Not even a hot take, just the truth lol
oh for sure she annoys the hairs behing my neck
So annoying she doesn't want to bang mtf
"old school liberals don't believe in anything the far left believes in but conservatives do." Conservatives are reading Karl Marx? News to me. Jokes aside it's hilarious that she says this while siding with conservatives on everything.
Right Karl Marx is one of their boogymen
I think she was saying that old school liberals align more with modern day conservatives than leftist.
Which is true, as classical liberalism is actually a center ideology.
But there are other types of liberalism. Also in the US most people just use "liberal" to mean anything that isn't right wing so ya.
@@Kitty4u No, Arille's trying to do some horseshoe-theory bullshit. "The far left is as bad as the far right!"
I'm not gonna lie; the left *does* have problems with shit like class reductionism, accelerationism Stalin and Putin apologia, and especially racism. But to say that the most fractionalized political collective is exactly like the "break shit so we can say it's broken" far right is *offensive.*
She doesn't agree with conservatives on everything though?
She is actually a libertarian. She agrees with conservatives on SOME things.
@@MsAussieSheila Great point babes, u got em 🤩 Totally threw out their whole argument there. Good job, we’re all so proud 💛
Didn't a gay black man get booed at a republican convention, or the time Blair White was told that she should "let the hair above her lip" grow by republicans.
They're quick to try to trade in conformity for a little bit of temporary acceptance. But when the least accepted are dealt with, conservatives will continue to go up the ladder.
*cackles*
hm...leopards eating your face party..I wonder
I hate Blaire White but I felt so bad for her in that moment. what an awful thing to say to a trans woman
@@juliasutton8634 I honestly didn't because she has shown similar cruelty to other trans people and literally built a platform with a conservative base that will take their rights away
Arielle Scarcella... I wonder what her viewpoints are regarding LGBTQ people losing their rights in Italy. She is Italian if I remember correctly... The people taking the rights away from LGBTQ individuals in Italy are conservative right/far right individuals - and it's NOT the fault of progressive woke lgbtq people. It's the fault of antiquated conservative views - the same views that Arielle wishes to be a pick-me grifter for.
On behalf of LGBTI Italians, we do not claim Arielle
She's born in USA... I want to add that in Italy the weight of Catholic Church isn't helpful for LGBTQ+ community. Catholic dogmas accept LGBTQ+ people as long as they do not have sexual relations. The only overture made by the pope is that a priest can, if he wishes, bless a same sex couple (not the union).
She might be of Italian descent but she lives in the US and was born there afaik, so there is close to no way she cares about something happening here 5k miles away. And I fully believe she would side with them anyway. Her hate for any non-comforming queer person trumps whatever self-respect she has. If the government went and did a russian by deeming queerness illegal she would just shrug, hide, and let others fight for her.
Lesbian parents were specifically targeted in Italy a little while ago, as far as I know it’s still ongoing. Even if she doesn’t care about the rest of the community, her silence on lesbian issues in favor of putting down trans people speaks volumes.
@@andreabonetti7420the simple truth is that she is a coward
"I lost a lot of deals with brands!" Who are you 😭
It's funny that she says that as if she isn't making bank off harming queer people and right wing brands arn't lining up to replace the old brands.
I like how Arielle is calling out non binary people as sexism yet she makes fun of women’s appearance
Calling a woman ugly isn’t sexist 💀
@@aynodurnegw shh.. let them make things up. we are here to just observe and gather data on all the hypocrisy going on.
@@aynodurnegw being nonbinary isn't sexist either.
@@Poopoopeepee6969 Could you explain to me how being nonbinary is sexist? How it affects you personally?
@@Poopoopeepee6969 Of course basing your identity and existence on cruelty, wanting to limit others freedom of expression, to enable legislation to oppress and outlaw citizens who are different to you for no good reason other than you think they are icky and look funny and you wish they didn't exist.
The only hypocrisy I see is from people with privilege and acceptance in society who have to put other humans down to build themselves up.
Being a lesbian was viewed as "edgy" back in 2009; though authentic, she formed an entire identity around this brand of "edgy".
That's why she's so threatened by the existence of other genders. Your Existence is " interfering" with her entire "personality".
JFC! There's been out and proud lesbians since the 1960s, and even a few before then. You were literally born yesterday. "Edgy" wasn't a concept in real life (before the Internet, you won't remember). It was invented on the Internet, probably 4chan again, round about, I dunno, maybe 2009.
Really, before you do anything, before you have social opinons, learn your history. Google "Gertrude" and the second result is Gertrude Stein.
The modern transgender political movement is about 10 years old. Things used to be very different. Arielle was around, and a lesbian, long before all this, and she has a few objections to the changes that have been passed, the further changes trans campaigners want to make, and many issues and problems that have cropped up because of concepts like self-ID.
Or else y'know she lives on 4chan and is being le edgy, also she's full of hate and prejudice for no reason against people who merely want to exist and nothing more.
As someone who was a fan of Arielle Scarcella way back in my baby gay days, It really does break my heart to see how much of a pick me she has become. She lost me as a subscriber too when she announced she was leaving the left.. its because as someone who struggled with their gender and sexuality because of their conservative family, it feels like she gave a big middle finger to all those lgbt kids who watched her back in the day.
For me, I'm not mad or "triggered" by her, I'm so so disappointed in her.
Same. No idea what actually happened to her, who hurt her, or why she's done this. I stuck with her, even when she left, up until she started making other queer people her targets. Her and Buck truly have become a sort of hypocritical figureheads; people who claim to care about the lgbtq community, while sinking an axe into our backs.
I'm a bi- woman and a therapist. I also used to watch her content back in the day before she got hateful, mostly because she collaborated with a few creators i watched. I ditched her a while before she went totally down the rabbit hole though sincehints of her worst views would show up in jokes and comments and i just thought she was a jerk. It's sad she just fell straight down the TERF pipeline and got praise for it. People like her want to feel special and like they have secret understanding others don't. Conspiracies, secret agendas, and hating on marginalized people just to feel superior. She fell for all of it.
@@infinitivez It all started when she made a post that she only dates post-op trans women. She got backlash for it at the time and was accused of reducing trans people down to their body parts. Obviously she didn't see it that way and a lot of people in the community threatened to cancel her. That's when she started grifting to keep viewers.
Same, shes how i figured out i was bi >: feels bad.
@@infinitivez she figured out that the right-wing grift is way more lucrative, that's all. people like arielle and blair white will absolutely knife their own in the back to make a buck.
I hate the "normal gay" thing so much. By that standard (which is dumb in itself), I'd be considered a "normal gay" because of how I act. i.e. Typically masculine, dress like the average guy, etc. Guess what? I still experience extreme homophobia from "friends" and family members on the regular. Idk who needs to hear this but it doesn't matter how "normal" you act, homophobes will never accept you. How you "act" is just the lowest hanging fruit for them. The *core* of the issue is, was, and will always be the fact that you're gay.
Thank you for your well put words. This is so true and I am realizing this after a while of trying to be a "normal gay". In my late 20s now. It worked a little bit, but not a lot. It's hard to accept that cause I tried so hard.
Yeah it’s another way of saying “heteronormative”
“Normal in the eyes of straight people and their gender roles established”
But the only “acceptance” you’ll see is from the fact that they can pretend you’re celibate and never be reminded of your sexuality
That’s what makes it appealing to them
@@jerm-gv9rv Yeah, this is a much clearer description of what I was trying to say. Thanks, lol
normal in my experience just means indoctrinated lemming .
Y'alls set of comments are 100% accurate. Most conservatives are only comfortable with you being "out of the closet" so long as you *never* leave the room haha. It's all just truly exhausting, especially in regard to family.
It's wild how these types of transphobes will be like I lost all of my friendships and connections due to doing this, but then will turn around and say "I will not respect someone enough to call them what they want to be called even if that means they might hurt themselves" and don't see any correlation between lack of basic respect and the reason why they lost all their connections to people who actually care about human rights.
Arielle just makes me sad. I followed her back in the day, when she was kind, and fun. Now she's just angry and bitter. I hope she finds a better therapist.
...if she even has one.
U sure about that?
Saammme
Arielle lost her friends and brand deals because most people don't want to be associated with crazy.
No most people are fine with and even drawn to crazy... nobody wants to be around a hateful bigot.
@@HansMuneEnBy correct
Go anti-woke, go broke
Lmfaooo y’all are the crazy ones 😂
She gained plenty of other friends and new brand deals
how did i know it was gonna be arielle 💀
EDIT: yall i was saying i knew when i just read the title and hadn’t seen the thumbnail 😭🙏
Well, who else could it be? After all, I am pretty sure that lesbians are the least transphobic demographic. So there are VERY few exceptions beside Arielle. Gosh, that must be so lonely. No wonder she is so bitter.
"Transphobic Lesbian"
Arielle’s middle name is transphobic lesbian at this point. She’s like 30 still bitching about trans people on the internet 😭
Because she's the only one anyone's heard of. The rest are straight women using lesbians as an argument.
Because Arielle is on a completely different level of transphobia and she's definitely the only one i can think who can come after Samantha in such a stupid manner who's also lesbian.
Correlation does not equal causation!!! Say it with me!!! 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
@theavengers01Say freedom of speech not freedom from consequences with me
Jellerzellar -- yeah, it does, though.
For stupid people, anyway.
@@ozzyc5122 🙄
@theavengers01 that ain't at all true, but _you_ lot believe whatever the f&ck fox tells you to believe, ya sheeple
@theavengers01 What are you calling censorship? Because if getting a Netflix special taken away is “censorship” then you’re just lying. Streaming services don’t have to host anything they don’t agree with, they aren’t the government and freedom of speech only applies to the government
"I've never been to space... but I hated it up there."
- Arielle Scarcella
Exactly
How is Arielle surprised she lost brand deals when she pivoted from "sex positivity" content" to "police the communities behavior" content, like of course the people sponsoring the former don't inherently want to fund the latter. You'd think a conservative would understand conserving a core principal of their channel.
So let me get this straight (lol) … she sees people rightfully speaking out against HER bullying trans people, mocking people under the trans umbrella and leading hate campaigns … as them bullying her? 🤯 The idiocy in that. I can’t.
half of this country think they are the most prominent scientists
but this channel does the same thing, u just agree with her views. hypocrisy.
@@Poopoopeepee6969 in this debate, one side is just trying to live their lives peacefully and the other is trying to take their rights away. And you think you’re on the right side of history? If a guy tried to stab someone in the street and they punched them in order to get away, would you go and say “hey, stop bullying stabby guy! ☹️”?
@@letterborneVodsIf "Punchy" was a transgender person, the answer is yes, they would totally call Punchy the bully.
the conservative victim complex is very "guy shoving stick through his own bike spokes and blaming everyone else for his injury"
"Normal Gay" = Model Minority
Exactly!
I disagree with almost everything SL says, but I do agree that calling yourself a ‘normal’ gay is offensive. Brad Polumbo also uses the term. What gay wants to be ‘normal’? 😂
And proud
@StrapOnRobbie Especially since intolerant queerphobes do not see being gay as being "normal" or "sane". There is a reason why the terms "heteronormativity" and "heteronormative" exist.
“I’m not ‘gay’ as in ‘happy’; I’m ‘Queer ‘ as in ‘Fuck You!’”
Arielle scarcella is a forbidden name in the lgbtq community lol
kinda in the same vein as blaire white
So inclusive of different points of view ❤
No wonder I've never heard of her!
@Encorezero "different points view" like whole swathes of the community shouldn't have rights ❤️
@@ratt2199 I love Sam for telling the truth, having an opinion is dangerous
"i only got bullied by the far left" that's cap
I mean, these comments under this video are an exact reflection of that 😂 if you go on her video the only people saying she’s ugly , a pick me, or a traitor or horrible person is the left, like under this video
its literally the truest thing. once you turn on the left side of LGBT, they hate you forever dox and threaten you. but they are LOVING and we, we are the HATERS. that is the only cap here. I feel like people will grow up and realize how they perpetuated the same stuff older LGBT like Blaire and Arielle experienced from straight people. I know cause it also happened to me.
Not to mention, the _actual_ far left, aka orthodox Marxist-Leninists, are notoriously socially conservative and are quite opposed to both trans and gay rights
@@aynodurnegw Why is Arielle allowed to insult trans people's appearances, make wild accusations about their actions and mental health status, and call them horrible people for minding their own business? She's been attacking trans people for these things for literal YEARS. God forbid some people say "no u" to her in response, lmao.
@@aynodurnegw Well yes because they are the words someone on the left will use but to say that as a lesbian woman she doesn't experience any negativity from the right is difficult to believe. I'm not saying that it's ok for people on any side of the political spectrum to send her horrible messages but I cannot believe she only gets it from one side and never the other. I watch her videos I don't agree with most of what she says but I'm not stooping so low as to pick on her appearance or character. It's important not to live in an echo chamber and to remain civil.
Marsha p Johnson and Silvia Rivera are so often forgotten for their significance
It depends, the riot itself or the demonstration, the riot she was not there at all but they both work lot for the rigths of the lgbtq+ which they are credits too.
Also something on should take into account is Marsha was a Drag queen peforma not sure why people think of him as a trans person.
Since what i could observat depending on the social circle people play hard into sterotyp which is a big no no all togther since did we not figth as well to remove the stigma and sterotyp surrounding the lgbtq+ (what a mouthful tbh)
@@Wakka1993Tbf I think it was hard because of the conflicting information about her.
Yes, linked to the mafia and drugs and lived in a dive, which is where they offered accommodation to others
Seems a white gay is now used to silence those who came before who fought for the rights you now enjoy.
@@nigelfrench8894 Because the Mafia was understanding. Unlike the obsessed heteros.
The Abelism in Transphobia was something I had not anticipated but it kinda makes sense because ✨bigorty✨
As an autistic person I would love to expose her to a little homophobia, something like "I maybe a weird autistic person, but at least I am not a lesbian that makes being a pickme my entire personality"
I hear the word "woke" and I know I'm dealing with some type of CHUD...
Does anyone human actually use that word?
People use woke as an insult when it really isn’t. Woke means being aware of and actively attentive to important societal facts and issues (especially issues of racial and social justice)
Yes, it's morphed into a word used to describe someone on the left who is hyper militant in their political correctness and does their best to shut down any opinion that doesn't fit their world view. I prefer "insomniac" i.e. someone who is so woke they never sleep, or "woo-woo wokenite".
@@tarinblanding1584 But you don't deal with fact, reason and evidence, at all.
You're in a religion with unfalsifiable dogmas.
@@ribbrascalExcept for all the medical research that does.
I have Borderline Personality Disorder and I’m sick of people using it as an insult… 😞
It’s not an insult, it’s a part of someone… how could somebody use that as an insult?!? That really confuses me 😭
@@pyxilate same as “you’re ugly” and any kind of insult like that. I can take the name calling but people treating me differently because of it is the real pits.
The moment I read the title…….
The first name that popped into my head, “Arielle”.
I hate that as a cis lesbian woman, I used to look up to her when I was newly out and trying to fit into the community. I thought her motto, “Hello lesbians, gays, and everyone else in between” was her way of being inclusive. This was back in the late 2000s, early 2010s.
Why the hell did she become so hateful? What is she benefiting from this? Why does she feel so threatened?
I’m ashamed I ever tried to find comfort in her videos. But as viewers, we unfortunately never know what a person’s true intentions are…
The blatant transphobia is embarrassing, Arielle.
We all have that one person we looked up to that Turned out to be horrible. I used Blaire White as a crutch for too long, if IT makes you feel any better.
@@kazikek2674 Oh I used to watch her too. Mainly ‘cause, if I were to play Devil’s advocate, I did like her videos on calling out predators. But that transitioned to focussing solely on dogging on trans/trans non-binary people exclusively - what radioactive cockroach from the seventh circle of hell did these people get bitten by to suddenly become such hateful, Trump supporting, bigots who still feel proud to call themselves queer!?
pick me gays are literally this
Imagine there are several cities; City a decides to attack city B, city b defends itself from city a but to no avail, city b has several streets and a great part of the city thinks that the only way to stop being attacked by city a is by blaming everything on a street in their own city and start attacking that street, unaware that they're attacking themselves and help city A win
2020 was when she truly fell off, that was the year she “left the Left” and joined the Trump Cult and started were the Red MAGA Hat
preach :3
it’s just sad to me how often i see members of the LGBT community hating on trans people
People are too quick to trade in a conformity for that little extra bit of temporary acceptance.
I think the issue is extremism personally. It happens on both sides. Does not represent reality.
@@kazikek2674so perfectly put 🙏🏽 i hope that changes one day, maybe when/if they stop pandering to bigots 😭 it’s so frustrating
Not bowing down to us is hate ❤❤
its also sad to see some trans hating other trans or gays.
throwback to when you stayed calling her “arielle scary-cella” 😂😅
That still cracks me up lmao
Slay queen this is better than 99% of male comedians
the part where you had to pause to try and understand wtf she was even trying to say was so real 😭 it's like she likes to hear herself talk but doesn't care enough to check if what she's saying makes any sense. she's like if google ai search was transphobic or something
3:02 ARIELLE YOU HAVE THE SAME HAIRCUT
LITERALLY WHAT I WAS THINKING. HER BANGS ARE THE EXACT SAME
Lol, Arielle insults other people's bangs and hai-do, but let's be honest: She hasn't seen herself in the mirror for a long time.
If I were the one she was insulting, I'd clap back and tell her that Rod Stewart called and said he wants his hair back 🤣
I'd tell her to get a good 8 hours of sleep. She looks BEAT.
Honestly, Arielle's switch up has been kind of devastating for me. She was one of the first queer youtubers I discovered as a young queer person in high school, and her content really helped me feel ok with who I was. Seeing her transphobic hate, especially as a nonbinary person, really saddens me. A foundation of my queer exploration has turned against me, but at least I've got Samantha
Well she’s not queer, so 😂
and non binary is NOT transsexual, notice how you said non binary? And not transsexual? Being a masculine woman or feminine man doesn’t make you not a man/woman. That’s sexist as fuck, and regressive to the idea that gender IS a spectrum, because if it wasn’t then if you’re even slightly fem as a man you’re suddenly not a man? How is that not sexist? Insane
You’re conflicting Non binary and Transsexuals so you have some form of validity, if non binary was valid it would be its own thing. Transsexualism is ROOTED in the binary, and you’re erasing and degrading a space that transsexuals established .. AND fucking it up 😂😂😂
@@aynodurnegw take your meds
Yeah. She's the best.
"I said what I said, and I'll say it again, I don't care about your gay friend"
SLAYED 🔥🔥🔥
I watched that Sam Collins video. I'm pretty sure i remember him asking people who have bpd to comment what they thought
Also if someone is talking about something people have, people are very likely to comment that they have that.
And how many of the commenters were trans? Some said they were queer and a lot didn't say which means at least some of them were straight and cis.
Yep, I was one of the commentators. I have BPD and I thought Arielle’s comments were vile. I am cis (albeit bisexual).
Yep it's a typical tatic people like her take. Lying to make your point seem even a tiny bit correct because you know the people who regularly watch you will not actually research. People like her also know their fanbase will care more about soundbites rather then actually well articulated arguments(not that she has any)
noone will believe me because its this channel.. but I have BPD. the reason I am against transitioning minors is because of it. i didnt even know i could be trans as a kid, i didnt even know i was gay. i grew up with sisters and no dad. i was very feminine and flamboyantly so. i sang and danced to spice girls at recess with the girls and felt weird playing ball with the boys. I 100% believe if i was a kid now with the same problems, trans would seem like a gateway to happiness and friends, and i wouldnt get bullied for being gay or sounding gay anymore at least. noone here will care about people like me because im part of the detransition group (although never transitioned just saying). im vilified and hated and called internally homophobic. its sad that we cant listen to EVERYONE in the community and only those we agree with. i consider it helping in my own way to oppose this but others will think i am the devil. you cant win sometimes and it is very depressing. now Im not going around calling tarns people their birth sex pronouns I have limits. but just speaking my experience peple simply do not care if it doesnt fit the agenda.
If orange hair is all it takes to be a "wild lib", then us gingers are born to be wild libs.
I guess I was a ‘Wild lib’ when I used orange hair spray for a Halloween costume :/
as a gnc lesbian we dont claim Arielle
we don't want them either, guess she's on her own
As a bi, she can go to the straights. The slums of the straights.
lol, Fred Sargent was becoming a police officer as the Stonewall Riot was happening. Then he had a career as a cop. He just happened to be near the bar at the time. He wasn't there in the bar. He wasn't being arrested with the bar patrons.
Plus I've seen sources who said that he actively avoided being involved to protect that career. A pig and a coward.
16:18 as an autistic trans person, yes! It's because for us, since we don't pay attention to social norms and stuff like that, we have a better understanding of who we are since we aren't blinkered by society's perspective on the LGBTQ+ community. Also I just want to point out (i hope it doesn't come across as rude), that we normally use "autistic person" rather than "person with autism". When we say "person with autism" there's a negative connotation that autistic people can and need to be cured when that isn't true at all. I know that it wasn't your intention just thought I'd share :).
Also Arielle has also tried to say autistic people are infants in mind and whatnot and that we were influenced into "turning trans" 😭. She is genuinely very dumb. Thank you for your video Samantha!
The infantilization of gay and autistic people as a weapon for transphobia is WILD. One thing to remember is they don't care about kids, or mental health, or fact, they just hate trans people
Yeah, the whole 'person with ' is called person-first talk.
It's not like super bad-like slur or whatever, but some people in the community find it offensive because it's the sort of grammar you'd use when referring to a disease, hence implying that the disability you're talking about is a disease (which is a bit icky, and also just incorrect).
Don't worry about it, you slay (and so does this video-- FR she had the same haircut, only hers is worse), just a little pointer for future videos
@@EnbyFrog42 yes you've put it much more eloquently than I did! You'd say cancer patient or person with cancer because it is a disease. You wouldn't say person with autism in the same fashion because it equates it to a disease when it isn't
Edit: I hate autocorrect for the amount of autocorrection it did
I’m autistic, now what made a video about her ableism and how wrong she is. I’m also an autistic trans person
@@Sonicfan-cc1te yesssssss I love her videos!! I saw that too that's how I learned about the crap Arielle says about autistic LGBTQ+ people.
Damn for someone who cries about being ostracised and bullied by the woke left, Ariella opening a video making fun of some persons appearance or armchair disagnosing people she finds cringe with bpd is some weird mental gymnastics. 😂
Bigotry go hand in hand with persecution complex it seem.
Not Arielle coming for ANYONES hair while wearing a Degrassi season 5 haircut 💀
Oh Degrassi. I miss that show. I wish Next Class didn't get cancelled, I wanted to see how it ends.
@@truthseeker9249 ngl I think I stopped watching when Liberty and them graduated. There were just too many new characters that felt forced on us LOL
@@autumnasters I started watching a little late so I actually was pretty attached to Maya, Zig, Miles, Tristan and everyone from the class of 2016. I loved the old characters but I liked them all too.
I was just thinking that 😅
@@TheFantasticGirl720 lol this Janet Jackson "All For You" ass hair🤣
Sigh.
As a trans masc with BPD… I’m not trans because I have BPD.
I appreciate you pointing out correlation doesn’t equal causation. I’ve been being treated for BPD for over 15 years.
I am not trans because I have BPD.
trans man with bpd here to second you I am not trans because I have bpd. My transness is not wholly tied to my personality.
The bullying I experienced as a gay kid tho.. might have made me borderline
I don't have BPD but i find it really stupid she would blame a disorder that has nothing to do with being trans. A lot of people can have conditions that have no effect on their gender identity and even if they have BPD it doesn't make them any less vailed people can be trans with or without conditions and it definitely doesn't have a link to it
What does trans masc even mean? Masculine and feminine aren't genders, everyone has masculine and feminine traits. You aligning more with masculinity doesn't make you trans.
@@Mannequeer i suggest you do some more research before trying to challenge people over the internet. Or Google the term.
@@TerraUmbraVampWriter I googled the term and it still makes no sense because like I said before... Masculine and feminine are not genders. Challenging different views is important for society, it doesn't matter if it's online or offline and I'm sure you challenge different views online too.
“I lost 99% of my friends and sponsors” should immediately give you the self awareness you’re so desperately missing.
That progressives go after your livelihood and aren't as accepting as they claim to be? Yeah, I knew that already. Faux acceptance should not be welcomed.
"wait, you're telling me a queer person who made a video on BPD got a bunch of queer ppl who also have BPD in their comments?????????????? whoa oh my god what kind of strange imaginary force could have caused that?"
I really hated her BPD video, and enjoyed Sam's reaction.
And her tske away was "well look at all the queers whjo turned out to have BPD."
What a slimey person, the reason they would point that out is because Ariella's applying the symptoms of a personality disorder onto a group of people who just want to live in peace.
And the point was to say "its caused by trauma," most likely, but they would be queer even if they werent traumatized.
And Arielle should know better, bc its just a remix of "lesbians are only lesbian bc they were assaulted by a man," and idk how she would feel about that. Somehow I wouldn't be surprised if she found that to be an acceptable thing to say.
To add, we're more likely to get our diagnosis bc we dont hate science, mental health awareness, ect.
fr she's literally just recycling the same rhetoric that IS STILL used against her TO THIS DAY
I feel sorry for her. If she thinks there's any support for her rights among conservatives, she's delusional.
It's sad and sadder she isn't the only LGBT person like that
Don't be. She knows what she's doing.
ikr! she'll always be seen as a fetish by conservatives and she doesn't seem to understand that cons are only pretending to support her rights cause to not do so would be a social disaster
A majority of conservatives don’t actually give a damn what consenting adults do with other consenting adults. #realitycheck
@@TarynRMartinthey also don’t give a shit that the people they’re voting for does and are actively against it… so I don’t think that’s much better
Lux > scarcella
actually, any LGBT figure > scarcella
Oh, I wouldn't say any, there are some significant Pick Mes in the community.
@@kazikek2674 Such as Buck Angel and Blair White. And some others.
Anyone with differing opinions should be arrested
@@richardgallagher4088you have 100+ comments on this channel stop hate watching and get a life god damn
@@ratt2199 I agree with you people should be arrested for not agreeing with us xxxxx
I love how she named dropped Stormé DeLarverie. She identified as a butch lesbian, but butch back in the day had multiple meanings. It wasn't just a more masculine style or a more dominate/top/touch-me-not role in the bedroom, for some people it was a gender identity too. A lot, not all, of old school butches leaned heavily into what we would call nonbinary today. They talked about having discomfort in their body that'd we'd label as dysphoria now. Stormé used whatever pronouns people wanted to use with them. She used she/her, he/him, and they/them. They were all about using whatever pronouns made you comfortable because she was truly comfortable with any and all of them. Stormé was saying that back in the 60s and proof of it can be found in Female Impersonation by Avery Willard.
u just described the problem we have now. it was possible to not care. now everyone cares so much about labels. and if you don't agree, we all hate and will bully and DOX you. wait why do you not like us now??
@@Poopoopeepee6969 Her not caring isn't the experience of everyone and doesn't undermine the experiences people who do. People did care about labels back then. Hence why butch, stone butch, femme, twink, etc. are labels with specific meanings to them. You're not stupid enough to think hate, bullying, and doxing doesn't exist so stfu.
@@Poopoopeepee6969 You are painting an entire group of people with the same brush, though.
@@Poopoopeepee6969 Back then when we "didn't care" it meant "Oh, you're a he/him lesbian? OK sir, all good, no argument from me". These days people who claim not to care most often are like "I don't care what you tell me, I'll give you the label I think you should have, and I'll claim *you're* the bully if you object".
As a lesbian I want to emphasize that not all of us are like her
In fact, lesbians are actually the most trans supportive group, other than trans people themselves!
Not just within the queer community, but just, in general.
(Bi women are second btw, just barely behind the lesbians.)
As a trans lesbian it's okay we love you guys.
We know! And as a trans woman I want to emphasize, that not all of us are bullying lesbians into dating "women with penises". Most of us want to date people that want to date us😌
Trans sapphic. Can confirm.
We love you too @spongecakes1986
It's so exhausting how people can't separate "Don't hate people for who they are" vs. "I don't like you because you want me dead".
she's such a pick me crybully
She is such a bully for saying things we don't like
@@richardgallagher4088She says bigoted nonsense
Takes one to know one
@@richardgallagher4088shut it you pick me
@@rosies69 haha
Fred Sergeant also has done a bit of holocaust denying.
i mean he was at stonewall... on the side of the pigs, so are we surprised
Tbh I’ve never heard of this person. Better for it I think
He is a retired cop. So, it makes sense.
I used to be hateful like Arielle. As in i used to dislike trans people with a seething hatred, i was basically projecting my trauma of being cheated on with a trans person towards other trans people, and it really made me miserable. Therapy and healing is what helped me, and now im a huge ally to the trans community, i feel very embarrassed that i even disliked them, because they're wonderful people. Arielle, take it from me, get therapy instead of being a negative nancy.
i’m happy for your healing friend 🩶
Arielle is not hateful.
@@jimvthedragonator9888she objectively is
@@jimvthedragonator9888she is tho
@@SarastistheSerpent How? By not agreeing with radical far leftists 100% and worshipping them?
Fred Sargeant stikes me as being one of the people who booed Sylvia Rivera at the 1973 Gay Pride Rally. He literally may have too, if he lived in NYC back then. Transwomen have been a backbone of the LGBT rights movement since Stonewall, but unfortuntaly there have been LGB people who refused to accept them as part of our community just as long. Personally, I will give Mr. Sargeant his dues for being there at the first Pride, however I will also say shame on you Mr. Sargeant for spitting in the faces of our Trans siblings who have been fighting with us since Stonewall.
And shame on him for generally being an assimilationist.
Love how she's talking about rewriting history when she called the Pride events after Stonewall "LGB Pride". They definitely didn't call it that.
She wasn’t there. Wtf would she know? The chant for the longest was “We’re here, we’re QUEER, get used to it.” Because it was gay, lesbian, bi, gender benders, dykes on bikes, drag queens trans guys, undefine kinksters and hippies, butches in the street-femme in the sheets, nerdy accounts, schoolteachers .. You can recognize contemporary terms- gender fluid, enby, agender, trans, ace… But the movement used the term ‘queer’ at pride and demonstrations specifically TO be all inclusive.
This whole LGB ‘John Birch of Gay’ respectability politics bs she’s talking about- wasn’t Pride or The Queer Liberation Movement at freaking all. I WAS there. She’s talking out her bigoted revisionist historical ignorant *ss.
"I'm a life long vegetarian... but beef is delicious."
- Arielle Scarcella
i love that the one thing this community is rallying behind is how terrible her hair is
Arielle: "let's see what some of my friends say"
BUCK ANGEL
THE BIGGEST PICK ME
Blaire White is too
So true
Just to let you know, borderline personality disorder is not exclusively caused through childhood trauma. It also has to do with genetic predispositions and other factors.
I think there's other factors, but it does not occur without childhood trauma. Like, genetic factors might make it more likely, but it does not happen without there being issues in childhood/teenhood. This doesn't have to be abuse, though.
@@emilybixler3166 That's untrue. You can absolutely have BPD without childhood trauma. You might be thinking of DID which is exclusively caused by trauma.
I know she’s always kind of been Like That(tm) but every time she mentions trans people, I feel like going way back to her older vids where she actually had trans friends or guests and had serious discussions with them. Or when she mentions the left vs the right, I’m SURE somewhere she spoke about the far right in the same negative way she talks about the left now. But I would never torture myself watching her videos, even the really old ones that were actually educational.
I do think it’d be hilarious if someone made a video of contradictions she’s made lol
those trans friend may still be her friends and agree with her. trans is not a monolith but one side of is sure wants to make it seem like it is.
Honestly, I always knew there was something fishy about her. Her early content always made me a little uncomfortable. I'm not at all surprised
7:20 Yep! The supreme court ruling that reversed Roe explictly said that the 60s ruling protecting interracial marriage is in question and could be struck down now. And Loving (that case) is the legal foundation for the gay marriage ruling in Obergefell. It's all one ruling away from falling apart
"yessing people to death," in context of "i will call someone bugself if it helps them not unalive."
Ariella is proud to say no to someone who is asking for the simplest of things. Its ironic she would say "yessing someone to death" when she is basically saying"i will no them to death bc lying to them won't help them." What good is any help if they are not alive to benefit from whatever she thinks will help them?
To add, their identity is not what makes them want to unalive. Its people like arielle.
I hate that I had to remember she exists 😂😂
Also the fact that she calls Fred her friend is all I need to know. Ok girl. “He’s not some random gay man” you’re right, Arielle, he’s worse than that.
lately a lot of "lgb not tq+" channels are showing up on my yt fyp. It really upsets me because sometimes they attack the right thing and make a point, but it is then put in between these other very transfobic statements, makeing it look sensical for a regular joe. It scares me to think how much these people could influence some random people that didn't looked for that.....
Its personal because i have a beautiful smart girlfriend, that is trans, she experienced a lot of tranasfobia from close people and selfjudgement in her life, and seeing those people just being fine, not even better, just fine, after saing such things, affecting a life of the woman that truelly changed my life, its heartbreaking. like... when will it stop? and as a cis woman i didn't really knew that before i met her.
they just have no idea how much they impact our lifes, and also kind of doing it to themselves too.
her hypocrisy was stunning. not being self aware of your own hypocrisy that exists people's own glass house.
Arielle used to be very pro LGBTQIA, but she took a turn for the worse when she made a tweet stating that she only dated post-op trans women because she is a lesbian. She got a lot of backlash for it at the time. Most of the criticism was constructive, trying to help her to see that it reduces trans women down to their body parts, but some of the criticism was not constructive. She was "almost" cancelled and unfollowed by a lot of people and so she ended up going on a rampage about trans people ever since. She's still mad that she almost got cancelled and after that moment she started to pivot to more anti-LGBT content because those are the people who will watch her. I personally believe she is more of a grifter than anything.
yeah that was about when they decided to share their true hateful feelings
I'm not sure if trans people had to react that way. I think it's valid to not like dick even if it's girldick. I do have a problem with framing pre-op/non-op trans women as "not real women" though. You can still be a lesbian if your girlfriend has a penis too.
I can't with this girl...
I've been having gender issues waaaaay before I developed BPD.
And she needs to acknowledge that you medically can't even diagnose someone with BPD until after they hit 18 (it's extremely rare your someone to get diagnosed with it beforehand) because you're personality IS STILL FORMING 😭😭😭😭 and then your symptoms have to be drastic enough and consistent and continuous enough for it to even be considered to be BPD so that they can see that it's not just teen hormones or some other underlying issue.
😭😭😭😭😭
NOWHERE IN THE DIAGNOSTIC OF BPD DOES IT SAY... "You'll be 🏳️⚧️ too, boo~! 😘😘😘"
😩😩😩😩😩
THANK YOU for standing up for people who use neopronouns. There is absolutely no harm being caused by someone who has cat/cats in their bio. And if you hate that someone uses them, its not like youd be forced to hang around with them anyway, im sure they would LOVE to not be around Arielle
Oh wow. I've never heard of neopronouns. That sounds really cute.
We don't hate you we just aren't joining in with your bullshit. I'll call you him or her and that's it.
Neo-pronouns 😂😂
@DoofNeedlesnot only that, but the vast majority of people who use neo-pronouns use Spivak pronouns (ey/em/eirs) which were invented in the 1800s as a singular gender neutral variant of they/them/theirs. There was debate in the 1800s as to whether they/them could be used as singular.
@@matthewhill9513interestingly, neo-pronouns were actually invented in the first place due to rhetoric that conservatives like yourself echo today, namely the false assertion that the pronouns they/them/theirs are exclusively plural and cannot be used as singular. Linguists unanimously agree today that this is false and that singular they/them is completely grammatically correct, but there was debate in the 1800s, for which some writers invented what later became known as Spivak pronouns (ey/em/eirs) which were coined as singular, gender neutral variants of they/them, and popularized and named after the famous American Mathematician Michael Spivak
Hard to believe Arielle is even still a thing.
hard to believe yall dont realize her views as the norm. this channel and trans activism is not. we can still find common ground but bffr.
@@Poopoopeepee6969Wrong.
@@Poopoopeepee6969her views aren't the norm, because regular people just literally don't think about trans people as much as her
@@VerniasAugoeides if you weren’t trapped inside an echo chamber, you will see that’s entirely not true. People used to not care and trans people used to be more accepted, but now the idea that if you don’t think a child should be able to transition is transphobia people don’t like the trans community anymore and don’t care about being called transphobic.. maybe if you stop calling people like Blaire White a sellout, and actually believe she had her own viewpoints you disagree with, you would start to see that there is another side to the argument that is valid. She makes a lot of antagonistic videos, and I completely agree that it takes away from her message and makes it easy to label her.
Now I know you’re gonna go ahead and just dismiss everything I said because I even utter the words Blair White. I guess the only way you’ll find out is when multiple states start messing with adults transitioning which I totally disagree with. it’s already started though. this is one of the things Trump is running on and a lot of people disagree with the activists.
@@Poopoopeepee6969 then normies have weird obsessions
Why does Arielle always look like she just got back from a windy day at the beach? I can’t explain it…
Very true: because in certain states even though LGBT+ marriage is federally now legal consummating that new marriage is not: especially for gay men (as an example.)
3:04 Got the same mullet as the person she makes fun of. Its just a different color.
As a bisexual cis woman who is a massive trans ally , we don't claim Arielle Jumpscarecella at all.
I speak for all Lesbians, and we don't claim Arielle
Haha lesbians don't want mtf haha they only date women
You have to... so you can clean up house.
@@richardgallagher4088statistically, 80% of lesbians disagree with you, according to a recent poll.
@theavengers01enby encompasses dozens of labels. Some, (like, for instance “Demi girl”, or “para girl”) are mostly fem.
Implying being on the left makes you more money than being on the right is insane. Please, then, explain why we have overtly right-wing main stream shows, and some slightly to the left of them, but we don’t have any mainstream overtly left-wing shows. And I mean truly left wing, not democrats or moderates-but progressives, cause we aren’t the same.
Explain the amount of LGBT sellouts with massive platforms like Blaire White or Dave Rubin.
@@kazikek2674self hating pathetic grifters willing to do, say and put up with anything for a buck.
im a queer with bpd and it hurta so mutch to see someone say bs like this. bpd is created by childhood trauma and loving who i love has nothing to do with that. Who the fuck does she think she is to talk about it. besides I am going thru the process of losing the diagnoses cuz ive been in therapy for years, but im still queer tho so how about that
i like how they try to rewrite history (especially about Martha) and then accuse you of doing it. Some DARVO shit
The mental gymnastics of terfs 😮
I know how dare they say lesbian is women liking other women and not include men
@@richardgallagher4088Women and femmes*
Imagine thinking wearing funny cloths is a new gender
@@richardgallagher4088trans women are women
@@edd9581Imagine thinking that was funny
Autistic Trans here. It's not necessarily about being 'more aware' of our gender as much as it about *not* being tied down by 'cultural norms' seeing as we are already not included in them.
For me it's always been I interrupt most things in my life differently than most people do and my gender is one of those things
damn. in my high school history it was never mentioned that Marsha was trans. then again that same class told me that wealth equality is communism.
Sometimes I forget that I’m also in the trans umbrella so I go
‘Hell yeah trans rights!’
And then I remember ‘oh yeah that’s me :3’
24:19 funny thing is stormé delarverie - credited with throwing the first punch at stonewall - was a drag king who told people to use whatever pronouns they wanted for them and people that knew them have speculated that they were perhaps nonbinary
I think a big thing with correlations between queerness and a lot of other mental conditions, disabilities (even physical disabilities) is that:
A. Queerness is something you typically find out about yourself, sometimes through interactions with other queer people.
B. Queer liberation typically aligns with other forms of liberation, and queer people are common in activist spaces.
I think a lot of these correlations can be explained by the fact that when you share space with queer people, you’re more likely to realize you’re queer.
To the point of “being gay is only accepted if you look straight.”
My partner and I get next to zero looks, no more side ways glances, no more usher kids to the other side of the walkway, since i started passing as a guy. Now that we “look straight,” significantly less people treat us different. Its jarring.
2:56
She's trying so hard to do Blaire White-esque insults, but she does not have the charisma to pull it off.
arielloa scaryeloa talking about someone elses bangs is crazy
Is crazy for that man to say that trans people have not been an important part of the LGBTQ+ Comunity, maybe from the U.S, sure, but for my country, Argentina, is a complete diferent story. The first LGBTQ+ Organization was created two years before the stonewall happened and it was created thank to the help of very powerfull and beautifull trans woman. So yeah, trans people have allways been there and we will allways be here, for every single person that can´t come out and for every single person that can´t celebrate because is not longer with us. Lots of love, happy pride month
Happy Pride!
here's the thing: even if what they thought about autism etc... was true, if we trans people were just caused because of those things.... SO WHAT? What does that change in how we treat that scenario? We can't "fix" autism, that's not a diagnosis that lends itself to a specific therapy or medicine and then everything's 'normal and fine' (and also just... doesn't explain the autistic people that are not trans).... It just means that we as people would need accommodations to function best, and those 'accommodations' would just be... being allowed to transition and being treated respectfully. There's just no part of how conservatives and TERFS talk about trans people that is humanizing, compassionate, or logical. And the more they lash out, the more they have to also hurt cis people that do not fit the lines they keep narrowly drawing around themselves to exclude trans people because clearly: gender is not a simple binary issue, and it never really has been.
Happy Pride Samantha 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
happy pride to allllllll!!!!!
there are A LOT of ants outside..millions n millions of ants. theyr building a hill, its gonna be the best hill. many people are saying this...
Arielle's video made no sense.
Please explain to me how someone can be transphobic when they have multiple trans friends who know all of her views and say that she is no where near transphobic? Make it make sense Lmao
Being a “normal gay” has become the highest compliment because it means I’m not openly acting like a mess like so many other gays. Mutual respect and common decency needs to be normalized
As someone who is trans and has BPD I’m so bloody sick and tired of BPD being demonised.