“It’s a lifestyle” Lifestyle indicates you specifically chose to live that way. I doubt most fellow trans people would actively choose to live a “trans lifestyle” in our very transphobic society.
Yeah, when I thought I was a cis man, I took for granted that I could safely travel to all 50 states and most foreign countries. Now all of a sudden I need to avoid half the states. Even without the bigotry, it's hard just finding women's shoes in my size. Or dresses that fit me properly. This is still so much better than trying to live as a man when I'm not one, though.
@@electronics-girl I will not be visiting those states either out of fear my androgynous nonbinary self will be mistaken for the “wrong gender” and attacked. I’d rather live as my authentic self than screw up my mental health again trying to be someone I’m not. Why are all the trans friendly states so damn expensive to live in?
@@LeadTrumpet1 I guess because more densely populated areas are more expensive, and more densely populated areas also tend to be more liberal? I was lucky enough to already live in California when I realized I was trans. I don't know if maybe Illinois would be a good "sweet spot?" I think it's fairly trans-friendly, and although it's not super-cheap, it's much less expensive than California.
"Stop doing the right thing or you'll start making enemies." Every single person who's pushed for positive change has been told this in one way or another.
What’s funny about him saying that is cis gay men always center themselves in the community to the point where people see them as the face of the community
My favorite thing about Samantha’s videos is her saying something absolutely BRUTAL and then immediately saying “IM KIDDING, IM KIDDING!” when we know she is NOT kidding and she’s not wrong 😏
I am not on tik tic. A personal choice. I think a lot of content is either boring, nasty or a combination of both. Disagreeing with someone is totally fine. You can disagree and get on with your lives. Samantha is a biological male. That is a scientific fact. I dont care if Samatha has his ear cut off and glued to his leg. If I met him....I would call him by the name Samantha....but only Samantha I would not be using pronouns. However, I would try to use Samantha throughout conversation ie the name Samantha. Samantha can dress, date, eat, go on holiday..... Use women's restrooms and changing rooms as long as there are cubicles, as I don't like getting undressed in front of any human being. I cannot understand why disagreeing with someone is hate. Samantha is a biological male. If he feels more comfortable presenting as a female, so be it. However truth is truth and although Samantha is very pretty, he is still a male. That being said I cannot understand why other people and Samantha wrestle back and forward being downright nasty to each other. Threatening to kill Samantha's family etc is just downright nasty. But Samantha then goes on to be nasty back. ...and so it goes on back and forward with every post. There is no need for being this nasty to Samantha. If he feels comfortable presenting as a woman. Leave him alone to get on with his life. I dont hate anyone, but truth is truth. Samantha was born male and will always be male. I am female and will always be female. However , stop threatening people and being nasty to Samantha. You can be truthful without being nasty. You can disagree with someone without hating then
As a trans guy, who still looks very feminine… I have been attacked in the women’s bathrooms. I still go there, because I have too large a bust to feel comfortable in the men’s yet. But the occasions where I did, the men just shifted about uncomfortably. I’ve also seen cis woman attack over cis woman because “they look too manly, they must be a man”. As someone with a bad bladder, and needs to go to the loo often. The fear that has been installed in me from people’s reactions, this is the reason I’m becoming more and more of a shut in. People don’t care what you’re born as or identify, they go entirely on how you look.
Yeah, and these chicks act like cis women never EVER sexually harass and rape other cis women in toilets. Especially in female prisons🤦 I'm cis woman but their bias are too baffling for me. They don't think trans women are women and all men to them equal horny rapists. So these women are actually... Sexists. They not only hate women who don't look and live like them, but they also hate men.
Man I can relate so much, I'm also a trans guy on my way to get T but now I still don't dare use the men's bathroom and I get weird looks and the hint "you must've mistaken this with the men's room" soo often. Luckily no attacks yet, don't think it's that polarized in my country yet. But I don't know going to the toilet has just become this hugely uncomfortable and sometimes even scary thing, and I also need to go very often so.. it just sucks One way I try to work around it, I try to mostly go to places now that have gender neutral bathrooms, there are quite a few in my city and whenever I find one I write it down I get why you're becoming anxious I hope however you have people you can confide in and that you find ways to live your life freely and fully :) sending you strength!
I'm so mad people won't just let the bathroom shit go and let people pee!! I also have bladder issues and it makes me so mad people can't use the bathroom they're comfortable with when they need to, like this should not even be a conversation or a question!!!
I'm a pre-op trans woman, and I've been offered the women's bathrooms a few times but I still wouldn't feel safe in there until I look more feminine and have a higher voice. With all the men saying they'd yank a trans woman out of a women'sbathroom and beat them up, it isnt safe for me to do that yet. That's what transphobes don't understand - trans women won't walk into a bathroom just to hurt people. I can't remember his name, but he was forced to use the women's bathroom because he was born female, got beaten up for obeying, and then arrested for defending himself.
Thissss! I’m a cis woman so I can’t relate personally but I was watching a Jammidodger video and there was another cis woman posting about how her coworker (a trans man) was in the women’s restroom with her. She was complaining that he had facial hair and looked very masculine. When she confronted him about why he was in the women’s room and not the men’s, he stated that he was told he had to as he has two X chromosomes and had not had bottom surgery yet. She was infuriated and ranting on the post about how uncomfortable she felt using the same restroom as this trans person. But this is what these transphobes want though.. they’ll scream all day about how “if you’re born a woman, you’ll always be woman” and that “trans men shouldn’t be allowed in women’s restrooms” yet are uncomfortable when they get what they want. This is why people are fighting for gender neutral bathrooms; so that neither cis nor trans people are uncomfortable and can just use the bathroom in peace. But transphobes are angry about that too. They don’t even know what they want. They just want to hate and be angry at trans people even daring to exist and be humans. It’s sad, really. I’m replying a year after you posted your comment and I hope you’ve made progress in your transition journey in whatever way that means to you and that you’re happy and healthy. And I hope you’ve had better bathroom experiences since then 😆 and that you don’t run into transphobes very often 💙💗🤍💗💙
"Until you've walked a mile in a woman's shoes" Wait, so all it takes to be a woman is to steal a woman's shoes and walk for one mile? That seems easy. 😂
@@RationalMan87 is reality when you tell doctors that have been studying a field for decades that they are wrong because your feelings disagree with science?
@@novatotornero6508 and even if a trans woman wore shoes from the men's section, that pair would then become women's shoes, because they belong to a woman
@@novatotornero6508 yeah, I know, it was a joke on the wordplay. I live with a trans woman and I'm trans myself, I know shoes can be worn by any gender.
@@blackharvest13 the cis prefix came from Latin it means on "the same side of." It's not a slur same how trans ain't one. It's redundant out of contexts yes, same how trans is redundant out of context 🥱🥱🥱
As a cisgender woman, I just want to say that not all of us think like this. It really angers me to see people's rights being tampered with, including those of trans people. I stand with all my trans siblings, point blank period.
absolutely. i’ve never believed that trans women take anything away from my womanhood. in fact, i found that by listening to trans women about the joy they experience while being a woman, it helped me embrace my own femininity and become more sympathetic to other women instead of trying to tear them down.
@@taurusgirl240 You have 345 transphobic comments on Samantha's channel alone. Let's say it takes you 2 minutes to write each one of them. You have wasted 11.5 hours of your life trying to degrade trans people. Is it really worth losing so much time? This isn't even counting the other comments on other trans creators channels, which I know you've also commented on a lot. Therefore, over 11 hours of your life has been wasted just from being an asshole. Tell me, is it seriously worth it? You could be doing anything else, that is much more productive, but you choose to sit behind a screen and type out your little comments because you don't like people who are different. Trans women are women, and trans men are men
No one claims they "bleed" as a Trans woman. I'm a Trans woman and I get cramps, breakouts and other symptoms because they're all hormone based symptoms
these are the same women who were crying about being reduced to just their uterus. like its just baffling how now they are trying to reduce womanhood to that as if all women have uterus or get pregnant
I'm also a trans woman, and I do get cramps, but barely - but I absolutely get the emotional swings, and they can get pretty bad, and it fits pretty well with how cis women in my life have described their cycles in the past. The rest is very mild, comparatively - but that's not true for every trans woman. I concur, I've not heard any trans women claim that they bleed. The closest I've heard from some trans women is that they will call their symptoms a "period" just for shorthand, but they're not claiming to be bleeding when they do so.
@@vixonen its their favourite thing to do - ignore science. its a fact that most symptoms (if not all) of period are due to hormones. its a fact that before puberty girls and boys are not so different. hormones are responsible for almost every bodily function
Tbh, videos on other subjects feels almost necessary these days. I dont think i could constantly watch and report on all the anti trans bullshiz , and im a Cis Male. So i cant imagine how stressfull it is for trans people. Do videos on stuff youre interested in. Especially if you think it will help your own mental health. Sending love and support from Manchester UK. X
I agree, this is why I usually binge. If I'm in a good headspace I can tolerate them just fine. But when I'm a bit down I get so sad over all the shit transpeople have to deal with. How poor they are treates. How their rights get taken away. And especially how there's nothing I can do, that it becomes depressing. (I'm a cis woman from Europe btw, don't know if it matters)
@@SlothDaansame !! i fear even using social media apps these days because the hate towards trans people is insane, like a trans person could simply exist and that would cause problems like hello? not only the transphobia but the homophobia too like man i stopped using instagram because of how “terfy” it was getting and i feel for all my trans siblings because having to deal with so much negativity on the daily is just so damn damaging like i’d usually not care but sometimes it really just hurts.
Yeah I’m trans and I fear for my life and mental health every single day. It’s getting to a point where I almost relapse bc it’s so awful. I try to keep my head up and think about all the people in the world that are supportive and things a like. Also just scary to see history repeat itself, it’s looking a lot like 1930’s and 40’s
agreed and another hello also from Manchester! We just had Pride last weekend/ Monday and we had a whole bunch of stuff celebrating trans people in the parade and the Trans Safety Network out roller skating together, as a queer disabled people i rly enjoyed the Queer Disabled Joy Cabaret yesterday too
Cis women here. My fellow cis women need to realize that I don’t care if they’re offended by the term cisgender. I could be offended by Halloween but that doesn’t mean I think others shouldn’t celebrate or bring up Halloween and secondly, we’re only called cis when relevant. Only time I’ve been called cis in real life was when I asked my doctor about getting on prep but in every day life, I’m not being called cis or having constantly have the cis label on my back. Meanwhile trans people, especially trans women always have to walk around with the trans label. My response to “I don’t want to be called cis” is “well cry me a river.”
exactly, and on the opposite side, us trans people just want to be called men or women (generally). not saying we are born cis. If the context of conversation needs the trans/cis labels, thats when they are used. otherwise, there's no extra labels being used in normal day to day events, for anyone
@@juratory8876 I wish my Sister wasn't such a snowflake regarding the term CIS.. she is completely understanding/supportive of me a Transgender Woman .. whew
@@TGSamantha091My mother legit complained about having to write down her pronouns and people referring to her as a cis woman. I wanted to tell her to get over herself lol
@@juratory8876 exactly. and most of the time, the term cis is only relevant in dr's offices or when doing a survey lmao im also a cis woman and its ridiculous for people to be so offended by this term when all it means is that you identify with the gender you were born as.
OH ! Hold up !!! There are many trans women who are also intersex like myself. I can’t speak for non intersex trans women but I had excruciating cramps before I started HRT . I actually was exhibiting all the symptoms of PMDD ( it’s a real thing) even though I don’t have a uterus ( but a surgeon sewed up my shallow vagina) . Thank you for sharing as always 😊 Angel hugs and blessings to you and yours and all 🕊💜💜💜🕊
Also there are trans intersex people who do have periods and bleed get cramps have enlarged breast and hips and swollen nipples and have messed up sleep cycles
I understand how some ppl don't accept and support trans ppl but don't discriminate them because they want to transformed their gender. It's their body and their choice
My girlfriend is trans and she has period like symptoms being on hrt.... she gets extreme cramps and mood swings, and yes, the classic chocolate, flowers, and warm hot homemade meals work. And yes, she doesn't bleed, and she doesn't have a uterus. We both know this. We both call it her period.
Your girlfriend is incredibly lucky to have a supportive partner like yourself (I hope that her periods become more easier and manageable for her because I can only imagine how she must be feeling) [Saying this in a genuine way as a trans dude /clarifying]
I'm a cis woman and I got my period like a year after all my friends did. I wasn't a late bloomer, I was friends with all older girls in the next grade up. But I CRIED when my friend told everyone I didn't have my period yet cuz I felt so left out. I'm currently trying to get a hysterectomy because my periods are so awful. But I still totally understand the trans woman urge to want to have a period. It's not about wanting the pain, it's about fitting in ❤
A white person in a black community wants to fit in as well. But reality is reality, you can try and brute force your way, but you have no control how that will turn out.
I have an ex who had such awful periods she'd vomit uncontrollably for days every month. Thankfully birth control pills helped with that, but I'm certainly not envious.
I'm a cis guy so I couldn't be less qualified to give an opinion. But on the topic of public bathrooms, wouldn't it be more dangerous for a trans woman to use the mens restroom? Also, what's to stop a cis man going into the women's bathrooms? If a man really wanted to harm a woman, he wouldn't care where they are when they do.
^^^^^^^ exactly. Trans women, trans men and many trans folks of all genders (nonbinary folks included) are more likely to be both victims and survivors of anti-trans hate crimes (more than twice as likely if someone is a trans person of colour being hate crimed by both transphobia and racism). So the transphobic rhetoric towards bathrooms was never about "protecting women and children", just like racist segregation rhetoric was never about "protecting" white women.
A random person wearing a maga hat in a goodwill called me a sir and yet they say "we can always tell" I have no surgeries or anything because I'm a minor so -
"You're making a whole lot of enemies " If your movement is scaring the bigots , if you're getting the bigots worked up ,then keep on keeping on 🎉🎉. That's how it works. On the right track .
NO ONE shares some exact "experience" of being a man or a woman, that is why we define a woman as an adult FEMALE, they are all of the same sex, that is what defines them. "Man" or "woman" are not some moral judgement or evaluation of how masculine or feminine they feel or present, it's simply about having a term to describe any adult human male and any adult human female. This obsession that the "trans" community has with redefining the terms to reflect how they feel etc. is totally pointless. There are no people who truly feel 100% comfortable all of the time, the idea of labelling people "cis" or "trans" is completely unnecessary, there is no "cis" experience and there is no "trans" experience, people are individuals, and as a whole the community fails to come up with any coherent explanation to define their redefinition of "woman" because you cannot come up with a definition that caters to every possibility. That is why the terms "man" and "woman" being rooted in physical reality is the only thing that makes sense, if there are no clear parameters for a definition then it cannot function as a definition. If anyone can identify as a grablar, and the only definition of being a grablar, is feeling like identifying as one, then you haven't defined grablar as anything at all. This is why it is also an obsession with creating more and more boxes. The terms "man" and "woman" encompass every possible personality, within physical boundaries, any man or woman is free to act, think, look, behave however they want, that they as individuals are labelled as men or women is purely about the physical - saying a man is an adult human male, and a woman an adult human female does not restrict anyone's self-expression, not wanting to acknowledge one's physical reality is a fool's errand, the sex someone is doesn't change based on how anyone feels or dresses - so it is the "trans" side that 100% is creating this false narrative that acknowledging a person's sex is somehow restrictive, they are the side saying men or women behave like this or that. I mean if they weren't doing that, then they would agree that the umbrella terms based on sex, man and woman, were perfectly fine - but they don't! They say no no, if someone doesn't FEEL like the sex they are, they can't be it, though they cannot explain what "feeling cis" even really means, because NO ONE shares the exact same experiences emotionally. What "they" are trying to do is swap a definition that has a physical basis, for a definition that is entirely rooted in feelings and often in validating sexist stereotypes associated with either sex. This "woman is a social construct" thing IS the part that validates and perpetuates sexist stereotypes - woman isn't a social construct in that sense, it is a word society has chosen yes, but to describe a PHYSICAL state of being, not anyone's emotional states or where they fall on some spectrum of masculinity or femininity. There is a fundamental misunderstanding here of what the definition of man and woman means. The notion that people need to live up to sexist stereotypes of what "real men" or "real women" are, is complete fantasy. The fact that many people act as if sexist stereotypes were valid ways of measuring "real men" or real women" is a problem with the individual and their sexist bias, not with the terms themselves, as the terms themselves have none of the expectational baggage that people who internalise sexist stereotypes associate with them.
As a cis woman, having a uterus has brought me nothing but pain and a long medical/surgical history. Having a uterus is not an achievement, getting periods is not what defines a woman. Who told this person that trans women don't get attacked??? These terfs need to go smoke some grass, I mean touch, yeah, touch grass.
Yeah. As a trans guy and masculine person of his own genders who has heavy periods because of hypothyroidism and a shit thyroid gland, having a uterus isn't fun, but it's just there. Transphobic cis women who are so obsessive and weirdly protective of uteruses and periods also need to stop reducing people of all genders down to their genitalia (as it's creepy and perverted of transphobic cis women and TERFs to do).
It's like how a straight man will call a gay man homosexual and that's fine but the moment the gay man calls him heterosexual, the straight man goes all mad and say "hOw CaN yoU cAlL mE hEteRo i'M a noRmaL maN" OKAY HONEY DAMN
Today my endocrinologist told me my testosterone levels are on a higher end than some cis men my age (within a healthy margin) and the fact that these people in the video would cope and seethe about it gives me so much life.
You are always beautiful the world doesn't need misogyny or transphobia or any other horrible phobias you are a stunning advocate for the transgender community i support and look up to you. You are an amazing woman you will always be a woman
"Stop doing X or you'll make enemies" has been said to minority advocates for literal centuries. Reminds me of ML King's words about "the white moderate", though that is more about cowardice than threats.
i had my baby maker returned to the manufacturer over 5 years ago. (FTM) and I occasionally get 'ghost cramps' lol i joke "did my surgeon lie and just poke around in there and not actually take anything out?" lol . edit: i find it weird cis-women being possessive to having periods...is your life that empty/boring that you can stress about PERIODS?? and who is or isn't having them??
I will never understand cis women that complain about trans women not having a period, when we ALL HATE IT ANYWAY, like misery really does love company and they are so mad about it. FOR WHAT.
@@hollydawn07 Yea I don't get it. "Are you mad you have one and they dont? take medication or have surgery to do something about it??" lol if theyre really crazy terfs, i start talking about the research being done for transplanting functional..erm..'parts'...so theoretically, trans people could 'more naturally' reproduce. (it complex medically/physically, i dont think we're around the corner from it being feasible, yet)
@@hollydawn07regardless if we hate it or not, only biological women experience it. When transwomen insert themselves, it feels like a form if mansplaining…. Or transplaning in this case. Do you see transmen telling men about their experiences with prostates?
I'm barely halfway through, and these people are so maddening! I'm a cis woman (I see absolutely nothing wrong with somebody being called cis?), 26 years old, and I have never ever felt like somebody is trying to take away my womanhood or whatever by calling trans women as women.
From what I understood, the original lady who mentioned trans femmes have periods...I think she meant pms. As in the symptoms that come with a period that aren't bleeding. Such as bloating, cramping, possible mood sensitivity, etc. Trans femmes typically don't bleed. But pms? Yeah, it can happen with some of them.
yeah, because pms is based on chemicals, not one specific organ and if cis women who got hysterectomies can call their uterus-less pms hell a period, why can't a trans woman who is experiencing the same thing?
Great video again Samantha! ❤ And people should realize that not all cis (fish😂😅) women have periods either because of many different health related reasons. So to say women are women because of periods and even a uterus is discriminatory because even a uterus must be removed in some situations. (I mean it's 2023 for fuck sake!) Being a woman is not defined by the things mentioned above. This comment was written by a 31 year old cis woman by the way.
right they simultaneously say “don’t call me a birthing person, i’m not just my body parts” and “no, you can’t be a woman because you don’t have the right body parts”
Hm ok, but you do realize that women not being able to have their periods or having their uterus removed is a minority, right? It's an anomaly. And it still doesn't take away the fact that trans women cannot have periods (they do not menstruate, they do not have falling progesterone levels).
@@c6dbes932 Nobody actually believes men like sam are women, nobody believes that men can have periods or that women who don't have periods (due to menopause, health issues, etc.) aren't women. It's time to stop engaging in this nonsense and start fighting back with reality. We're in a linguistic war and should never refer to men as "women" and vice versa. Men like sam are TIMs (trans identifying males), and women who larp as men are TIFs (trans identifying females). We have to stop using their language and engaging in their delusions.
The trans women I know who experience cramps, diarrhea, emotional dysphoria, irritability, mood instability and bloating on a monthly basis do NOT enjoy it. They don't WANT a period. Honestly, as someone with a uterus, the bleeding is the least of my issues with my periods. The other aforementioned symptoms are far worse.
4:39 this is SO ironic because I have literally never seen a trans woman say she has a period. What I HAVE seen is trans MEN and AFAB enbies talk about how THEY can and do have periods, which is what im 90% sure this person is referring to, since I've seen a lot of people mix up the claims of trans men with the claims of trans women. And if I'm right, she's literally disproving her own bs claim
I have seen a number of trans women say they have a monthly hormonal cycle with period-like symptoms. Whether that counts as a "period" or not is just semantics. No trans women are claiming that they bleed as part of their period. Obviously that's impossible. But some trans women experience PMS and cramps. The muscles that cause cramps are in the abdomen, not the uterus, so you don't have to have a uterus to get cramps.
The ONLY other idea i have for this is maybe their are referring to trans women who are AFAB like demi girl non-binary people who consider themselves a demi-woman or something. im not sure if im getting this term right but ive heard of people who consider themselves both a woman and non-binary who might or might not be afab (maybe gender fluid or they have multiple genders or something) so in that case they could be a trans woman with a period since they are both trans and a woman and get a period. idk. if that is what they mean or if maybe im saying things that are not fully accurate?
@@electronics-girl and that actually makes a lot of sense when you consider that even cis men have hormone fluctuations and cycles, though typically not as strongly as AFAB individuals.
13:59 "worried that what I was wearing was gonna get me attacked" ah yeah Im sure thats a feeling us trans women can't possible relate to every single time we go out dressed as ourselves
As a cis women I hate that transphobic people use the sexual harassment as an argument like men get sexually harassed too and does that mean that I’m not a women because I luckily never experienced sexual harassment
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Seems like cis women want a special term to delineate them from Trans women! Only if we had a prefix meaning same so we could easily tell people that our gender matches the one we were assigned at birth 💔
@@Mario-ob8es it’s not. You’re either cis or trans. Pretty simple. If a person doesn’t wanna be called cis should we call them trans? Even if they’re not? Lol they’d be offended either way because smooth brain individuals don’t understand simple words and are stubborn as heck.
I just wanted to point at this lol So trans women don’t have periods but do experience a cycle. First hand, I started progesterone recently. It’s the cramping and hormonal shift. Not the flushing of vaginal lining. It’s similar symptoms but not the same. I say it more as a “cycle” not as a period. I dunno, to each their own❤️ just sharing a little of my hrt experience 😊
IUDs are pretty badass and can be 100% effective at making those go away for 7-10 years. There are other options too, but I'm a big advocate for them. Mirena is an extremely advantageous choice.
If you're someone who feels uncomfortable in a bathroom with trans woman, first how would you even know? Unless you're checking. Bathrooms have stalls. And second, be consistent and be uncomfortable sharing the bathroom with everyone, because its silly to worry about one persons genitalia, meanwhile everyone else might not have the same genitalia and you will never know. Three go to the gender neutral bathrooms, your problems will be solved.
@@Mario-ob8es Theres literally a video of a cis woman being harrased in the bathrooms cause someone thought she was trans. So no you wouldn't know, also, not all cis people look exactly like their gender, some people look very natural androgynous. Just don't harrass anyone in the bathrooms, its basic common courtesy, and using your head, whether you think they're trans or not, harrasing people is stupid, let them use the bathroom in peace.
Forcing trans women into men's bathrooms not only disregards their right to use the bathroom that aligns with their gender identity, but also puts them in harm's way. Trans people, especially trans women, face a significantly higher risk of violence and harassment in men's restrooms, primarily at the hands of cisgender men. In fact, a study by the National Center for Transgender Equality found that 12% of transgender people experienced physical violence in a public place due to their gender identity. Meanwhile, the rate of sexual assault of trans women by cis women in women's bathrooms is virtually non-existent. By allowing trans women to use the bathroom that aligns with their gender identity, we can reduce the risk of violence and harassment they face. Let's prioritize respect and safety for all individuals, regardless of gender identity.
I hope you use a separate tiktok account so that the recommendation algorithms don't constantly show you these creeps. It's fun to laugh at them for content, but you don't need that in your life day to day!
I would love to see other content that's not specifically trans-related! Whatever you do, I will enjoy :) And as a trans man, I will say that I find it strange in these kinds of videos where we (and other non-binary identities) are just completely overlooked and ignored. I'm not sure why some cisgender women get so heated about how they had to grow up being extra careful and super afraid of everyone and everything, being told they can't do certain things "because you're a girl", etc....I have also experienced these things my whole life and I am a man. Other trans men and non-binary people have also experienced this. Point is, there is no accounting for every single person and their life experience, so to be so gate-keepy is just silly. Thank you, Samantha, for being a safe place and a source of support, and thank you for making these videos so we can laugh with you at these things instead of being scared and sad about the bad things some people say about trans people.
birthing person vs mother is the difference between hiccup and diaphragmatic myoclonic jerk. one has cultural, social context and the other is a strictly medical term.
As a trans man I genuenly fail to even start comprehending why periods and uteruses and so on are so important to this terfs 😂they say we trans people make being trans our whole personality yet they make being cis their whole personality. Like imagine if someone made a whole video saying ''I CAN PISS, I HAVE KIDNEYS THAT'TS WHY I AM MORE SPECIAL'' dude 💀like to me periods and having a uterus is so worthless considering I am never going to use them in the first place like it's such a non special thing, jeez it's just a bodily function they need to CHILL.
I find that gender critical people have what is known in psychology as a fixed mindset. These are people who believe that talents and abilities are innate and acquired from birth, rather than being skills which are developed over time. The reason I say this is because they have an obsessive pride over what biology they are born with, and they flaunt it like an accomplishment (even though it is not). It might stem from some insecurities about their own personalities and sense of worth, since they tend to be fairly untalented in many hobbies and skills (just look at their poetry). For people who have a fixed mindset, they often turn to things that they are born with that make them unique and use that as the basis of their security. A lot of them treat womanhood as a VIP club, and when they feel that it is more than a birthright, it undermines their sense of security that they have built.
@@albedougnut true, i think it's just usual bioesentialist BS. also even if someone of them aren't religious they subconsciously adhere to the idea that from birth you have a god given"purpose" that if you deviate from it is a sin and an insult to god himself. A lot of religious symbolism goes into it too.
@@albedougnut I think it's fairly rare for transphobes to be science fiction fans. Anyone who loves science fiction knows that you can turn anything into anything else, with the right technology. Everything is just a collection of atoms, so "Can you turn a man into a woman?" isn't even a question; the only question is "What technology would it take to do that?" I've always been a reader of science fiction, so to me I have a hard time understanding the concept of "X can never be Y, because it wasn't Y originally."
5:34 Trans women don't bleed every month, but many who are on hrt experience for a couple days cramps, bloating, and mood swings very similar to the symptoms of cis women on their period.
What’s sad to me now, is that if MJ Rodriguez won her Emmy for Pose this year, there would be excess uproar around it (even if she was simply nominated)
I have literally never though about who is in the bathroom with me. If a person is in the bathroom I just assume they are there because they need to be. People being so mad about bathrooms is so weird.
3:51 honestly her chocolate analogy is sooo accurate!! cishets think theres the 2 options (nuts or no nuts) when there's a bajillion others!! love it. 10/10 best gender comparison yet
I just want to say how much I admire you for always embodying pride, confidence, joy, and addressing the toxic content with a sense of humor and grace. My dearest friends are all trans, and the level of scrutiny trans people face is absolutely soul-crushing. So seeing you handle these fools so powerfully is helpful in many ways. Thank you.
4:21-7:37 The transitions (no pun intended) in her video piss me off more than the video itself. Like she thinks she’s being fancy or something, but she’s only wasting gigabytes in her photo album.
I'm a cis woman & maybe this is due to my experience being bi-romantic & ace but I don't understand why some people see a transwoman being themselves as somehow equal them a threat to the cis woman & their rights. People are just trying to be themselves as who they are & I don't see how someone just being given basic rights like everyone else to live their life & exist as who they are is such a bad thing. To me as long as someone's actions are not harming anyone then it shouldn't matter what they do with their own life
Imo as a cis women is that a lot of other cis women who get mad as trans women are just really insecure about their womanhood and feel better about having a group of people they can look down on because other than this whole cis women vs transwomen fight women get shit on a lot especially from red pilled incel weirdo's who say stuff like women expire at 30 and that we don't contribute anything to society other than cooking/cleaning and giving birth that plus the recent attack on our rights to abortion
I honestly don't know how you can do this. I'm not even trans myself and a lot of these videos you react to just make me so upset I need to step away from the computer for a minute to calm down. :(
Am I the only one that finds it kind of awesome that some trans women experience period cramping and other symptoms due to hormones… at the same time, why would cis women be upset about it. Hasn’t there forever been an argument about “if men had periods, everyone would have one week vacation every month”
19:36 the only time i’ve ever heard “bleeder” being a reference to a human was in sweeney todd when he was specifically referring to humans who has blood in their body, which is every living person ever
I'm a cis woman and I geniuenly don't understand why some people are so offended by the term "cis". It literally just means that you identify as the gender you were assigned at birth👁️ 👁️ It'd be like if European people were offended over being called European. It's just a descriptive word about a person😂
"Your rights have been abolished... Miss girl. I mean, SIR" 😂😂😂😂 You are so funny and I'm happy af I found your page. You make me laugh so hard, I swearrrrr.
I'd love to see videos from you from all sorts of topics not "just" trans themed. I really love your personality and I really respect you as a person so I'd enjoy hearing your view on all sorts of things, serious or not :) ♥♥
the word cis isn't new, neither is transness, or being non binary. It is engraved into our human history; and the fact that there's individuals so ignorant to the worlds history of gender fluidity (in areas) is mind blowing. It isn't a concept that "crazy liberals" made up... there were rulers and kings that were openly gay and trans, and guess what, it wasn't a huge topic of discussion. People need to calm down and focus on protesting topics of importance such as human trafficking and FGM.
@@jurassicsmackdown6359 Yeah and a kind of ignorance and insecurity from the side of transphobes to care too much about people's genitalia and the shit they do that they end up bringing loneliness onto themselves and estranging themselves away from people.
Im a cis woman and wish i didnt have a period. If being trans was socially acceptable 20 years ago i probably would be a man right now. I have known since i was 9 years old that i didnt want to birth any children or breast feed (ewww!) I even tried to pee standing up when i was little.... Also i dont care what you talk about i watch every video you make. Love you girl.
It's okay if you are just starting to question your gender and exploring yourself. I used to perceive myself as such too before it was pointed out to me that I am not cis and that I bristled at feminine terms [I started to when quarantine hit]. Now I see myself as a transmasc dude who's multigender, nonbinary, agender, trans male, and genderfaun (a form of genderfluid that's on the masc side, which is what I can summarise it as), and I've never been happier as with me being trans. The truth is... There's still going to be struggle and there's still going to be loads of mental and emotional pain (pertaining to internalised transphobia felt and bigoted shit one is ingrained with from birth), but there's supportive folks who can help, plus trans-related support groups and (if you can and genuinely want to on your own accord of course) maybe a therapist or therapist intern may help too.
Of course, folks who experiment and end up realising that they're cis are more than enough too (and don't feel like you have to know your own gender or genders right away, you have more than enough time and there will be supportive folks who will guide you through it all).
I'm a bit surprised my mom isn't in this video, she tried to tell me i would regret getting surgery because trans people have horrible pains, she also told me it's gay for a trans woman to date a guy unless the guy is also trans. All because i wanted to get my haircut again cuz it was coming around to be a bad hot summer, i just didn't want to die from the sun :( I can't not have a stroke and I can't be a man
8:04 the funniest part about this take is that it's not even true. Now, i'm transmasc and am planning to medically transition. I kinda pass as male if you don't know me, and have had people refer to me as both male and female, especially if i don't talk first. For me, going into the "right bathroom" is always a gamble, because i don't know if the person in there will see me as male or female, or if that person will attack me. Choosing the women's bathroom doesn't work for me, because not only is it not who I am, but the women in there might see me, a man, in there and be just as uncomfortable as i am. Choosing the men's bathroom is more accurate, but again, the men in there might see a woman. where was i going with this? oh yeah. not every trans person passes well enough for either bathrooom. gender neutral bathrooms reign supreme. Kelly's take is dumb and stupid and dumb
The amount of times I remember people telling me I choose to be bi-romantic & ace just annoys me. I spent years wearing myself out through unnecessary stress trying to be "normal" & not understanding why I couldn't just be straight. Until one day I decided I didn't need other people's approval & that I was good enough just being myself. I started dressing in clothing that made be happy while ingnoring people criticizing that I wasn't dressing feminine enough & embracing my beloved hobbies. And you know what happened? I'm happier now then I ever have been in my life & while I'm still working on some stuff I'm surrounded by people who genuinely care about me & don't try to change me to be something I'm not. Life can be a hard journey to take but just know that u are enough, u are beautiful, u deserve happiness, & u deserve the right to be urself. As a wise hobbit once said: "It's a dangerous business, Frodo, going out your door. You step onto the road and if you don't keep your feet, there's no knowing where you might be swept off to" Keep being ur beautiful selves
The absolute WILDEST take that cis women get it worse then trans women, cause they need to watch what they wear and how they behave ... incredible. Because obviously no trans women ever get attacked for what they wear or taken advantage of /s
Yeah, I'm still very early in my transition, so I'm curious if that will happen to me. Or will I be partially immune because I'm 6'1"? I'm still going to be bigger than the average man, even if I'm no longer as strong.
the chocolate thing is so funny to me. like you know the men they’re marketing to who don’t like nuts just won’t buy this chocolate cuz they can’t eat the she/her for gods sake!!!
I hate the term ‘biological woman’. It’s such a weird thing to insist on saying instead of cis, which is just a neutral and easy way to refer to cis people. And they say it with such vim and purpose, like they did something.
The hilarious thing is the very complex science of biology uses the terms male, female and intersex and not gendered terms such as man and woman, as no animal is referred to as a man or a woman, just that some humans have to humanize everything, except trans folk.
Yeah, and cis people using "biological woman/man" is also weird, creepy and perverted as hell because they don't even want to admit that they need help to not obsess over people's genitalia.
“It’s a lifestyle”
Lifestyle indicates you specifically chose to live that way. I doubt most fellow trans people would actively choose to live a “trans lifestyle” in our very transphobic society.
Yeah, when I thought I was a cis man, I took for granted that I could safely travel to all 50 states and most foreign countries. Now all of a sudden I need to avoid half the states.
Even without the bigotry, it's hard just finding women's shoes in my size. Or dresses that fit me properly.
This is still so much better than trying to live as a man when I'm not one, though.
i would much prefer to be a cis man than a trans man
@@electronics-girl I will not be visiting those states either out of fear my androgynous nonbinary self will be mistaken for the “wrong gender” and attacked.
I’d rather live as my authentic self than screw up my mental health again trying to be someone I’m not.
Why are all the trans friendly states so damn expensive to live in?
@@LeadTrumpet1 I guess because more densely populated areas are more expensive, and more densely populated areas also tend to be more liberal?
I was lucky enough to already live in California when I realized I was trans.
I don't know if maybe Illinois would be a good "sweet spot?" I think it's fairly trans-friendly, and although it's not super-cheap, it's much less expensive than California.
Being trans is a choice though
"Stop doing the right thing or you'll start making enemies."
Every single person who's pushed for positive change has been told this in one way or another.
Agree 💯
If bigoted jerkwads are your enemies, you’re doing something right.
Yup, meat eaters towards vegans
@@blueboozle774This isn't about vegans, stop it.
Yep. Like I'm certainly not fighting for my right to exist in order to make friends.
“I wanna take my G out of the LGBT+😢” As if anyone ever tried to make him not leave the LGBT+ community
What’s funny about him saying that is cis gay men always center themselves in the community to the point where people see them as the face of the community
Would not have our rights without the trans people who led the fight.
@@DanSlaughter85 exactly.
@@DanSlaughter85 Stonewall uprising! NYC 1969 !
And him trying to defend cis women, as if we asked him. Bro, we're fine, trans women aren't doing anything to us. Sit down and chill.
My favorite thing about Samantha’s videos is her saying something absolutely BRUTAL and then immediately saying “IM KIDDING, IM KIDDING!” when we know she is NOT kidding and she’s not wrong 😏
Like what? How do you know it's not wrong?
@@warplace7058 BECAUSE!,WHEN THE SUN SHINES WE'LL SHINE TOGETHER...........!
I am not on tik tic. A personal choice. I think a lot of content is either boring, nasty or a combination of both. Disagreeing with someone is totally fine. You can disagree and get on with your lives. Samantha is a biological male. That is a scientific fact. I dont care if Samatha has his ear cut off and glued to his leg. If I met him....I would call him by the name Samantha....but only Samantha I would not be using pronouns. However, I would try to use Samantha throughout conversation ie the name Samantha. Samantha can dress, date, eat, go on holiday..... Use women's restrooms and changing rooms as long as there are cubicles, as I don't like getting undressed in front of any human being. I cannot understand why disagreeing with someone is hate. Samantha is a biological male. If he feels more comfortable presenting as a female, so be it. However truth is truth and although Samantha is very pretty, he is still a male. That being said I cannot understand why other people and Samantha wrestle back and forward being downright nasty to each other. Threatening to kill Samantha's family etc is just downright nasty. But Samantha then goes on to be nasty back. ...and so it goes on back and forward with every post. There is no need for being this nasty to Samantha. If he feels comfortable presenting as a woman. Leave him alone to get on with his life. I dont hate anyone, but truth is truth. Samantha was born male and will always be male. I am female and will always be female. However , stop threatening people and being nasty to Samantha. You can be truthful without being nasty. You can disagree with someone without hating then
@@catherinekershaw903 I aint reading allat, also shes a woman
@@catherinekershaw903That’s crazy, bro.
Honestly let's start calling "birthing people" "Beholders of the portal to life" I think that'd be fun
When I had my little alien parasite growing in me my friend called me a “sacred vessel for life” 😂
Then Ana Kasparian would yell at us for calling AFAB individuals demons 🙄🙄🙄🙄
That's super poetic, women probably wouldn't complain over that (as if doctors are calling cis women birthing people in the first place)
Honestly that would end the entire trans people vs cis women war. Someone sign this into law.
You mean holders.
To behold is to look upon.
As a trans guy, who still looks very feminine… I have been attacked in the women’s bathrooms. I still go there, because I have too large a bust to feel comfortable in the men’s yet. But the occasions where I did, the men just shifted about uncomfortably. I’ve also seen cis woman attack over cis woman because “they look too manly, they must be a man”.
As someone with a bad bladder, and needs to go to the loo often. The fear that has been installed in me from people’s reactions, this is the reason I’m becoming more and more of a shut in. People don’t care what you’re born as or identify, they go entirely on how you look.
Yeah, and these chicks act like cis women never EVER sexually harass and rape other cis women in toilets. Especially in female prisons🤦
I'm cis woman but their bias are too baffling for me. They don't think trans women are women and all men to them equal horny rapists. So these women are actually... Sexists. They not only hate women who don't look and live like them, but they also hate men.
Man I can relate so much, I'm also a trans guy on my way to get T but now I still don't dare use the men's bathroom and I get weird looks and the hint "you must've mistaken this with the men's room" soo often. Luckily no attacks yet, don't think it's that polarized in my country yet.
But I don't know going to the toilet has just become this hugely uncomfortable and sometimes even scary thing, and I also need to go very often so.. it just sucks
One way I try to work around it, I try to mostly go to places now that have gender neutral bathrooms, there are quite a few in my city and whenever I find one I write it down
I get why you're becoming anxious I hope however you have people you can confide in and that you find ways to live your life freely and fully :) sending you strength!
I'm so mad people won't just let the bathroom shit go and let people pee!! I also have bladder issues and it makes me so mad people can't use the bathroom they're comfortable with when they need to, like this should not even be a conversation or a question!!!
I'm a pre-op trans woman, and I've been offered the women's bathrooms a few times but I still wouldn't feel safe in there until I look more feminine and have a higher voice. With all the men saying they'd yank a trans woman out of a women'sbathroom and beat them up, it isnt safe for me to do that yet. That's what transphobes don't understand - trans women won't walk into a bathroom just to hurt people.
I can't remember his name, but he was forced to use the women's bathroom because he was born female, got beaten up for obeying, and then arrested for defending himself.
Thissss! I’m a cis woman so I can’t relate personally but I was watching a Jammidodger video and there was another cis woman posting about how her coworker (a trans man) was in the women’s restroom with her. She was complaining that he had facial hair and looked very masculine. When she confronted him about why he was in the women’s room and not the men’s, he stated that he was told he had to as he has two X chromosomes and had not had bottom surgery yet. She was infuriated and ranting on the post about how uncomfortable she felt using the same restroom as this trans person.
But this is what these transphobes want though.. they’ll scream all day about how “if you’re born a woman, you’ll always be woman” and that “trans men shouldn’t be allowed in women’s restrooms” yet are uncomfortable when they get what they want. This is why people are fighting for gender neutral bathrooms; so that neither cis nor trans people are uncomfortable and can just use the bathroom in peace. But transphobes are angry about that too. They don’t even know what they want. They just want to hate and be angry at trans people even daring to exist and be humans. It’s sad, really.
I’m replying a year after you posted your comment and I hope you’ve made progress in your transition journey in whatever way that means to you and that you’re happy and healthy. And I hope you’ve had better bathroom experiences since then 😆 and that you don’t run into transphobes very often
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"Until you've walked a mile in a woman's shoes"
Wait, so all it takes to be a woman is to steal a woman's shoes and walk for one mile? That seems easy. 😂
@@RationalMan87 is reality when you tell doctors that have been studying a field for decades that they are wrong because your feelings disagree with science?
@@RationalMan87that comment above you? that's called "a joke"
Trans women do wear high heel shoes and flat women's shoes.
@@novatotornero6508 and even if a trans woman wore shoes from the men's section, that pair would then become women's shoes, because they belong to a woman
@@novatotornero6508 yeah, I know, it was a joke on the wordplay. I live with a trans woman and I'm trans myself, I know shoes can be worn by any gender.
They see "cis" as a slur because that's how they use "trans"
It's a redundant word
Very true. It's like saying "Homo Sapien human"@@Mario-ob8es
No it’s a slur because it’s used as one by the trans community… it’s also coined in the 90s (it’s new, not old) by a person who Diddles kids.
@@mcdonaldsmukbang lmao yes some of them definitely are. Open your eyes bud and yes by definition of what a slur is cis falls in that category
@@blackharvest13 the cis prefix came from Latin it means on "the same side of." It's not a slur same how trans ain't one. It's redundant out of contexts yes, same how trans is redundant out of context 🥱🥱🥱
As a cisgender woman, I just want to say that not all of us think like this. It really angers me to see people's rights being tampered with, including those of trans people. I stand with all my trans siblings, point blank period.
Thank You for your kind words Sister! I fully support Women's Empowerment and Equal Rights for all people!
absolutely. i’ve never believed that trans women take anything away from my womanhood. in fact, i found that by listening to trans women about the joy they experience while being a woman, it helped me embrace my own femininity and become more sympathetic to other women instead of trying to tear them down.
as a trans person, thank you ❤ and no worries, most of us know most cis people aren't like this
Thank you, seeing this helps in a world of such hatetred
@@mjamin9124most "cis" people have common sense
12:42 the fact they used the right pronouns for Dylan while trying to be transphobic was so funny 😭
r/accidentalally
Omg you’re right 😂 accidental ally!!!
Yeah I would never use female pronouns for men.
@@taurusgirl240 You have 345 transphobic comments on Samantha's channel alone. Let's say it takes you 2 minutes to write each one of them. You have wasted 11.5 hours of your life trying to degrade trans people. Is it really worth losing so much time? This isn't even counting the other comments on other trans creators channels, which I know you've also commented on a lot. Therefore, over 11 hours of your life has been wasted just from being an asshole. Tell me, is it seriously worth it? You could be doing anything else, that is much more productive, but you choose to sit behind a screen and type out your little comments because you don't like people who are different.
Trans women are women, and trans men are men
@@taurusgirl240keep crying TERF 😂
they keep saying we are silencing them but they wont shut up
No one claims they "bleed" as a Trans woman. I'm a Trans woman and I get cramps, breakouts and other symptoms because they're all hormone based symptoms
these are the same women who were crying about being reduced to just their uterus. like its just baffling how now they are trying to reduce womanhood to that as if all women have uterus or get pregnant
I'm also a trans woman, and I do get cramps, but barely - but I absolutely get the emotional swings, and they can get pretty bad, and it fits pretty well with how cis women in my life have described their cycles in the past. The rest is very mild, comparatively - but that's not true for every trans woman.
I concur, I've not heard any trans women claim that they bleed. The closest I've heard from some trans women is that they will call their symptoms a "period" just for shorthand, but they're not claiming to be bleeding when they do so.
@@vixonen its their favourite thing to do - ignore science. its a fact that most symptoms (if not all) of period are due to hormones. its a fact that before puberty girls and boys are not so different. hormones are responsible for almost every bodily function
@@vixonen exactly no one is claiming we get periods like every other woman (who's periods vastly differ) we experience our own periods
I get severe cramps!
My grandma always used to say „same rights for everyone doesn’t mean less rights for you“
Tbh, videos on other subjects feels almost necessary these days. I dont think i could constantly watch and report on all the anti trans bullshiz , and im a Cis Male. So i cant imagine how stressfull it is for trans people.
Do videos on stuff youre interested in. Especially if you think it will help your own mental health.
Sending love and support from Manchester UK. X
I agree, this is why I usually binge. If I'm in a good headspace I can tolerate them just fine. But when I'm a bit down I get so sad over all the shit transpeople have to deal with. How poor they are treates. How their rights get taken away. And especially how there's nothing I can do, that it becomes depressing. (I'm a cis woman from Europe btw, don't know if it matters)
I second this, and I am a trans dude. Breaks are good for all of us.
@@SlothDaansame !! i fear even using social media apps these days because the hate towards trans people is insane, like a trans person could simply exist and that would cause problems like hello? not only the transphobia but the homophobia too like man i stopped using instagram because of how “terfy” it was getting and i feel for all my trans siblings because having to deal with so much negativity on the daily is just so damn damaging
like i’d usually not care but sometimes it really just hurts.
Yeah I’m trans and I fear for my life and mental health every single day. It’s getting to a point where I almost relapse bc it’s so awful. I try to keep my head up and think about all the people in the world that are supportive and things a like. Also just scary to see history repeat itself, it’s looking a lot like 1930’s and 40’s
agreed and another hello also from Manchester! We just had Pride last weekend/ Monday and we had a whole bunch of stuff celebrating trans people in the parade and the Trans Safety Network out roller skating together, as a queer disabled people i rly enjoyed the Queer Disabled Joy Cabaret yesterday too
I’m cis and idk what a woman is I just know that I am one. I assume that’s how trans women feel. how hard is that to understand?
@@rhymerlegend2717 sorry you made a typo can you re read your comment please
I got you, a woman by definition is an adult human female.
@@superspyke1you realize sex and gender are two different things?
@@rhymerlegend2717 nope definitely made a typo, keep trying
@@SlothDaan when did I say anything about gender or sex?
I just gave the definition of what a woman is since people don't know.
Cis women here. My fellow cis women need to realize that I don’t care if they’re offended by the term cisgender. I could be offended by Halloween but that doesn’t mean I think others shouldn’t celebrate or bring up Halloween and secondly, we’re only called cis when relevant. Only time I’ve been called cis in real life was when I asked my doctor about getting on prep but in every day life, I’m not being called cis or having constantly have the cis label on my back. Meanwhile trans people, especially trans women always have to walk around with the trans label. My response to “I don’t want to be called cis” is “well cry me a river.”
exactly, and on the opposite side, us trans people just want to be called men or women (generally). not saying we are born cis. If the context of conversation needs the trans/cis labels, thats when they are used. otherwise, there's no extra labels being used in normal day to day events, for anyone
As a fellow cis woman, I'm not offended by the label either. It's just a descriptor for who I am in terms of gender identity.
@@juratory8876 I wish my Sister wasn't such a snowflake regarding the term CIS.. she is completely understanding/supportive of me a Transgender Woman .. whew
@@TGSamantha091My mother legit complained about having to write down her pronouns and people referring to her as a cis woman. I wanted to tell her to get over herself lol
@@juratory8876 exactly. and most of the time, the term cis is only relevant in dr's offices or when doing a survey lmao im also a cis woman and its ridiculous for people to be so offended by this term when all it means is that you identify with the gender you were born as.
OH ! Hold up !!!
There are many trans women who are also intersex like myself. I can’t speak for non intersex trans women but I had excruciating cramps before I started HRT . I actually was exhibiting all the symptoms of PMDD ( it’s a real thing) even though I don’t have a uterus ( but a surgeon sewed up my shallow vagina) .
Thank you for sharing as always 😊
Angel hugs and blessings to you and yours and all
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I didn’t realize this pov. Thanks for sharing!
Also there are trans intersex people who do have periods and bleed get cramps have enlarged breast and hips and swollen nipples and have messed up sleep cycles
fun fact: the opposite of intersex is called endosex
It's not the same
There are not “many”, it’s a rare medical condition that effects less than 2% of the world wide population.
ive been stuck on the transphobic side of tiktok nd seeing samantha call out this bullshit is such a breath of fresh air ❤❤
@caroline8785obsessed
Unfortunately there is tons of bull shit out there that the flies would love to invest.
😂🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣
I understand how some ppl don't accept and support trans ppl but don't discriminate them because they want to transformed their gender. It's their body and their choice
"As a proud gay man I'm no longer wanting MY G in LGBTQ+....", OH it's his G now. Got it!
He needs to get his G stroked a few times and chill tf out lmao
He should do what his father should have done then and go ahead and pull out. 🥁💥
My girlfriend is trans and she has period like symptoms being on hrt.... she gets extreme cramps and mood swings, and yes, the classic chocolate, flowers, and warm hot homemade meals work. And yes, she doesn't bleed, and she doesn't have a uterus. We both know this. We both call it her period.
Your girlfriend is incredibly lucky to have a supportive partner like yourself (I hope that her periods become more easier and manageable for her because I can only imagine how she must be feeling)
[Saying this in a genuine way as a trans dude /clarifying]
That’s not a period tho
@Julie-qr9ow its a cycle, a female cycle, who cares how they call it, is that your home?
@@draalttom844 its not even a female cycle because trans women arent females...
Your girlfriend must be an actress. It’s interesting how she has uterine cramps with no uterine muscles.
So happy to see you're back. I got worried with the lack of social media updates and videos being set to private.
Thank god you're okay.
You’re very sweet, no need to worry about me. I’ll always be back!
@@_samanthalux don't let the terfs and transphobes get you down Samantha. They are jealous you are pretty.
I'm a cis woman and I got my period like a year after all my friends did. I wasn't a late bloomer, I was friends with all older girls in the next grade up. But I CRIED when my friend told everyone I didn't have my period yet cuz I felt so left out.
I'm currently trying to get a hysterectomy because my periods are so awful. But I still totally understand the trans woman urge to want to have a period. It's not about wanting the pain, it's about fitting in ❤
A white person in a black community wants to fit in as well. But reality is reality, you can try and brute force your way, but you have no control how that will turn out.
I have an ex who had such awful periods she'd vomit uncontrollably for days every month. Thankfully birth control pills helped with that, but I'm certainly not envious.
I'm a cis guy so I couldn't be less qualified to give an opinion. But on the topic of public bathrooms, wouldn't it be more dangerous for a trans woman to use the mens restroom? Also, what's to stop a cis man going into the women's bathrooms? If a man really wanted to harm a woman, he wouldn't care where they are when they do.
^^^^^^^ exactly.
Trans women, trans men and many trans folks of all genders (nonbinary folks included) are more likely to be both victims and survivors of anti-trans hate crimes (more than twice as likely if someone is a trans person of colour being hate crimed by both transphobia and racism).
So the transphobic rhetoric towards bathrooms was never about "protecting women and children", just like racist segregation rhetoric was never about "protecting" white women.
Exactly! A cis man who wants to SA in a public bathroom won’t care about any bathroom laws preventing trans women entering them.
A random person wearing a maga hat in a goodwill called me a sir and yet they say "we can always tell" I have no surgeries or anything because I'm a minor so -
"We can always tell" typically just means that they'll default to assuming someone is male unless they're stereotypically femme
@@jessicaschirle5974 yeah pretty much same dudes would yell and tell I looked like a boy if they didn't know I was trans
Don't have the surgery.
@@Mario-ob8es uh I'll do what I want
@@Mario-ob8es It has a shockingly low regret rate, though?
saying trans people are privileged is genuinely silly asl
Naturally born women - how does she think trans women are born? Teleported from the ether? Conjured out of the womb by magic?
"You're making a whole lot of enemies "
If your movement is scaring the bigots , if you're getting the bigots worked up ,then keep on keeping on 🎉🎉. That's how it works. On the right track .
I've already got friends who like me for who I am, so why would I want new friends who would only support me under a narrow range of conditions?
NO ONE shares some exact "experience" of being a man or a woman, that is why we define a woman as an adult FEMALE, they are all of the same sex, that is what defines them. "Man" or "woman" are not some moral judgement or evaluation of how masculine or feminine they feel or present, it's simply about having a term to describe any adult human male and any adult human female.
This obsession that the "trans" community has with redefining the terms to reflect how they feel etc. is totally pointless. There are no people who truly feel 100% comfortable all of the time, the idea of labelling people "cis" or "trans" is completely unnecessary, there is no "cis" experience and there is no "trans" experience, people are individuals, and as a whole the community fails to come up with any coherent explanation to define their redefinition of "woman" because you cannot come up with a definition that caters to every possibility. That is why the terms "man" and "woman" being rooted in physical reality is the only thing that makes sense, if there are no clear parameters for a definition then it cannot function as a definition. If anyone can identify as a grablar, and the only definition of being a grablar, is feeling like identifying as one, then you haven't defined grablar as anything at all. This is why it is also an obsession with creating more and more boxes.
The terms "man" and "woman" encompass every possible personality, within physical boundaries, any man or woman is free to act, think, look, behave however they want, that they as individuals are labelled as men or women is purely about the physical - saying a man is an adult human male, and a woman an adult human female does not restrict anyone's self-expression, not wanting to acknowledge one's physical reality is a fool's errand, the sex someone is doesn't change based on how anyone feels or dresses - so it is the "trans" side that 100% is creating this false narrative that acknowledging a person's sex is somehow restrictive, they are the side saying men or women behave like this or that. I mean if they weren't doing that, then they would agree that the umbrella terms based on sex, man and woman, were perfectly fine - but they don't! They say no no, if someone doesn't FEEL like the sex they are, they can't be it, though they cannot explain what "feeling cis" even really means, because NO ONE shares the exact same experiences emotionally. What "they" are trying to do is swap a definition that has a physical basis, for a definition that is entirely rooted in feelings and often in validating sexist stereotypes associated with either sex.
This "woman is a social construct" thing IS the part that validates and perpetuates sexist stereotypes - woman isn't a social construct in that sense, it is a word society has chosen yes, but to describe a PHYSICAL state of being, not anyone's emotional states or where they fall on some spectrum of masculinity or femininity. There is a fundamental misunderstanding here of what the definition of man and woman means. The notion that people need to live up to sexist stereotypes of what "real men" or "real women" are, is complete fantasy. The fact that many people act as if sexist stereotypes were valid ways of measuring "real men" or real women" is a problem with the individual and their sexist bias, not with the terms themselves, as the terms themselves have none of the expectational baggage that people who internalise sexist stereotypes associate with them.
@@ambientjohnny I aint reading allat
MLK would likely have referred to the "white moderate" using that cowardly rhetoric.
Trans people: "We just want to live our lives"
Transphobes: "HOW DARE YOU?"
@Nothing-lr3dt oh noooo poor planet is getting destroyed because trans people exist 😔😔
@Nothing-lr3dt if we are a collective why do you harrass other humans for existing in a natural way?
@@draalttom844 what are you even talking about?
@@jefferyjones8399 you never comment on youtube or what? You can see its not an answer to you
As a cis woman, having a uterus has brought me nothing but pain and a long medical/surgical history. Having a uterus is not an achievement, getting periods is not what defines a woman. Who told this person that trans women don't get attacked??? These terfs need to go smoke some grass, I mean touch, yeah, touch grass.
Yeah.
As a trans guy and masculine person of his own genders who has heavy periods because of hypothyroidism and a shit thyroid gland, having a uterus isn't fun, but it's just there.
Transphobic cis women who are so obsessive and weirdly protective of uteruses and periods also need to stop reducing people of all genders down to their genitalia (as it's creepy and perverted of transphobic cis women and TERFs to do).
“I can’t count, I’m just a transsexual” this is now my favorite phrase
It's like how a straight man will call a gay man homosexual and that's fine but the moment the gay man calls him heterosexual, the straight man goes all mad and say "hOw CaN yoU cAlL mE hEteRo i'M a noRmaL maN" OKAY HONEY DAMN
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Today my endocrinologist told me my testosterone levels are on a higher end than some cis men my age (within a healthy margin) and the fact that these people in the video would cope and seethe about it gives me so much life.
You are always beautiful the world doesn't need misogyny or transphobia or any other horrible phobias you are a stunning advocate for the transgender community i support and look up to you. You are an amazing woman you will always be a woman
Exactly this!!! 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
He will never be a woman stop being dilusinal
@@rhymerlegend2717 samantha is a goddess she is beautiful to me she will always be a WOMAN
@@rhymerlegend2717 samantha to me is a valid transgender woman and i accept HER as SHE is
@@rhymerlegend2717 they are still women the word trans does not make her any less valid as a woman i accept her as a woman
"Stop doing X or you'll make enemies" has been said to minority advocates for literal centuries. Reminds me of ML King's words about "the white moderate", though that is more about cowardice than threats.
I like the idea of you doing more content other than the trans stuff. You're hilarious! It'd be fun :)
i had my baby maker returned to the manufacturer over 5 years ago. (FTM) and I occasionally get 'ghost cramps' lol i joke "did my surgeon lie and just poke around in there and not actually take anything out?" lol .
edit: i find it weird cis-women being possessive to having periods...is your life that empty/boring that you can stress about PERIODS?? and who is or isn't having them??
I will never understand cis women that complain about trans women not having a period, when we ALL HATE IT ANYWAY, like misery really does love company and they are so mad about it. FOR WHAT.
@@hollydawn07 Yea I don't get it. "Are you mad you have one and they dont? take medication or have surgery to do something about it??" lol if theyre really crazy terfs, i start talking about the research being done for transplanting functional..erm..'parts'...so theoretically, trans people could 'more naturally' reproduce. (it complex medically/physically, i dont think we're around the corner from it being feasible, yet)
@@hollydawn07regardless if we hate it or not, only biological women experience it. When transwomen insert themselves, it feels like a form if mansplaining…. Or transplaning in this case. Do you see transmen telling men about their experiences with prostates?
@@RNM-bu4rjneither do I see transwoman telling about their menstruation.. 🙄
@@RNM-bu4rj idk all these cis people keep telling me about their experiences but get mad when i talk about my experience is wild to me
He says “science will trump belief” um have you heard of EVOLUTION??? That science!!!
I'm barely halfway through, and these people are so maddening! I'm a cis woman (I see absolutely nothing wrong with somebody being called cis?), 26 years old, and I have never ever felt like somebody is trying to take away my womanhood or whatever by calling trans women as women.
From what I understood, the original lady who mentioned trans femmes have periods...I think she meant pms. As in the symptoms that come with a period that aren't bleeding. Such as bloating, cramping, possible mood sensitivity, etc. Trans femmes typically don't bleed. But pms? Yeah, it can happen with some of them.
Yeah, I know like 20 trans women who get bad pms, no actual bleeding tho, even post-surgery
yeah, because pms is based on chemicals, not one specific organ
and if cis women who got hysterectomies can call their uterus-less pms hell a period, why can't a trans woman who is experiencing the same thing?
Great video again Samantha! ❤
And people should realize that not all cis (fish😂😅) women have periods either because of many different health related reasons. So to say women are women because of periods and even a uterus is discriminatory because even a uterus must be removed in some situations. (I mean it's 2023 for fuck sake!)
Being a woman is not defined by the things mentioned above.
This comment was written by a 31 year old cis woman by the way.
right they simultaneously say “don’t call me a birthing person, i’m not just my body parts” and “no, you can’t be a woman because you don’t have the right body parts”
@@arih_rihexcactly this!! Thank you for saying it out loud. Maybe a little louder for those in the back?
@@arih_rih No....they can't be women because they're men.
Hm ok, but you do realize that women not being able to have their periods or having their uterus removed is a minority, right? It's an anomaly. And it still doesn't take away the fact that trans women cannot have periods (they do not menstruate, they do not have falling progesterone levels).
@@c6dbes932 Nobody actually believes men like sam are women, nobody believes that men can have periods or that women who don't have periods (due to menopause, health issues, etc.) aren't women. It's time to stop engaging in this nonsense and start fighting back with reality. We're in a linguistic war and should never refer to men as "women" and vice versa. Men like sam are TIMs (trans identifying males), and women who larp as men are TIFs (trans identifying females). We have to stop using their language and engaging in their delusions.
The trans women I know who experience cramps, diarrhea, emotional dysphoria, irritability, mood instability and bloating on a monthly basis do NOT enjoy it. They don't WANT a period. Honestly, as someone with a uterus, the bleeding is the least of my issues with my periods. The other aforementioned symptoms are far worse.
Samantha's reaction at 14:12 saids it all. LOL
Oh I was mad mad lmao
4:39 this is SO ironic because I have literally never seen a trans woman say she has a period. What I HAVE seen is trans MEN and AFAB enbies talk about how THEY can and do have periods, which is what im 90% sure this person is referring to, since I've seen a lot of people mix up the claims of trans men with the claims of trans women.
And if I'm right, she's literally disproving her own bs claim
I have seen a number of trans women say they have a monthly hormonal cycle with period-like symptoms. Whether that counts as a "period" or not is just semantics. No trans women are claiming that they bleed as part of their period. Obviously that's impossible. But some trans women experience PMS and cramps. The muscles that cause cramps are in the abdomen, not the uterus, so you don't have to have a uterus to get cramps.
The ONLY other idea i have for this is maybe their are referring to trans women who are AFAB like demi girl non-binary people who consider themselves a demi-woman or something. im not sure if im getting this term right but ive heard of people who consider themselves both a woman and non-binary who might or might not be afab (maybe gender fluid or they have multiple genders or something) so in that case they could be a trans woman with a period since they are both trans and a woman and get a period. idk. if that is what they mean or if maybe im saying things that are not fully accurate?
@@electronics-girl and that actually makes a lot of sense when you consider that even cis men have hormone fluctuations and cycles, though typically not as strongly as AFAB individuals.
As a cis woman I’ve never felt a day in my life that I have to defend myself as a woman.
That's because you live in reality, lmao.
13:59 "worried that what I was wearing was gonna get me attacked"
ah yeah Im sure thats a feeling us trans women can't possible relate to every single time we go out dressed as ourselves
As a cis women I hate that transphobic people use the sexual harassment as an argument like men get sexually harassed too and does that mean that I’m not a women because I luckily never experienced sexual harassment
Your argument made no sense also what's a Cis woman. Cis isn't a thing.
@@ChantelJordan-fm7kx just google what a cis women is and just look up what some transphobes say with the sexual harassment then it makes sense
Honestly, we love your commentary in general, so whatever you wanna talk about we will love it 😊 we just love hearing your voice, opinion, and commentary 💜
Seems like cis women want a special term to delineate them from Trans women! Only if we had a prefix meaning same so we could easily tell people that our gender matches the one we were assigned at birth 💔
I'll never understand why they hate the term cis. It's what we are. It's just a simple way of telling what we are.
It's a redundant word. It will never catch on outside of the T community
@@viviennart No it's not, people don't feel like men or women they simply are so because they are male and female respectively.
@@tomasrocha6139 oh they don’t? So feelings don’t exist? Get outta here with the phobe bs.
@@Mario-ob8es it’s not. You’re either cis or trans. Pretty simple. If a person doesn’t wanna be called cis should we call them trans? Even if they’re not? Lol they’d be offended either way because smooth brain individuals don’t understand simple words and are stubborn as heck.
you're one of my favorite transfem creators, you're so funny and i love your personality
She's awesome
I just wanted to point at this lol
So trans women don’t have periods but do experience a cycle. First hand, I started progesterone recently.
It’s the cramping and hormonal shift. Not the flushing of vaginal lining. It’s similar symptoms but not the same. I say it more as a “cycle” not as a period.
I dunno, to each their own❤️ just sharing a little of my hrt experience 😊
Taking drugs that causes abdominal issues and constipation isn't a period or cycle lol
Estrogen doesn't cause abdominal issues, cis sc*m@@Jeremy-wp4yh
"I get to be a woman without the periods!"
Girl, you are living my dream right now XD (Context: I'm non-binary agender and I hate my bleed)
IUDs are pretty badass and can be 100% effective at making those go away for 7-10 years.
There are other options too, but I'm a big advocate for them. Mirena is an extremely advantageous choice.
If you're someone who feels uncomfortable in a bathroom with trans woman, first how would you even know? Unless you're checking.
Bathrooms have stalls.
And second, be consistent and be uncomfortable sharing the bathroom with everyone, because its silly to worry about one persons genitalia, meanwhile everyone else might not have the same genitalia and you will never know.
Three go to the gender neutral bathrooms, your problems will be solved.
How would you even know? Lol it's pretty damn obvious in most cases.
@@Mario-ob8es
Theres literally a video of a cis woman being harrased in the bathrooms cause someone thought she was trans.
So no you wouldn't know, also, not all cis people look exactly like their gender, some people look very natural androgynous.
Just don't harrass anyone in the bathrooms, its basic common courtesy, and using your head, whether you think they're trans or not, harrasing people is stupid, let them use the bathroom in peace.
Forcing trans women into men's bathrooms not only disregards their right to use the bathroom that aligns with their gender identity, but also puts them in harm's way. Trans people, especially trans women, face a significantly higher risk of violence and harassment in men's restrooms, primarily at the hands of cisgender men. In fact, a study by the National Center for Transgender Equality found that 12% of transgender people experienced physical violence in a public place due to their gender identity.
Meanwhile, the rate of sexual assault of trans women by cis women in women's bathrooms is virtually non-existent. By allowing trans women to use the bathroom that aligns with their gender identity, we can reduce the risk of violence and harassment they face. Let's prioritize respect and safety for all individuals, regardless of gender identity.
I hope you use a separate tiktok account so that the recommendation algorithms don't constantly show you these creeps.
It's fun to laugh at them for content, but you don't need that in your life day to day!
I'd rather never eat chocolate again then buy that trash chocolate that those horrible people are selling.
Totally agree
Worse and very wierd they have to add chocolate as a gender expression. F@$in sicko's.
I so badly want to make a "They/Them" bar with crisped rice.
@@electronics-girl Do it! Sounds delicious 😋
@@electronics-girl that would go hard af
Damn we finally found the man who owns the g in lgtbq+ 😂
He doesn’t realize that a lot of his rights comes from the work of trans women of color
@@EDeeDeeSI doubt he cares. He’s got his, screw everyone else.
i'm filing for custody right now---
Samantha in her comedy era
I would love to see other content that's not specifically trans-related! Whatever you do, I will enjoy :)
And as a trans man, I will say that I find it strange in these kinds of videos where we (and other non-binary identities) are just completely overlooked and ignored. I'm not sure why some cisgender women get so heated about how they had to grow up being extra careful and super afraid of everyone and everything, being told they can't do certain things "because you're a girl", etc....I have also experienced these things my whole life and I am a man. Other trans men and non-binary people have also experienced this. Point is, there is no accounting for every single person and their life experience, so to be so gate-keepy is just silly.
Thank you, Samantha, for being a safe place and a source of support, and thank you for making these videos so we can laugh with you at these things instead of being scared and sad about the bad things some people say about trans people.
birthing person vs mother is the difference between hiccup and diaphragmatic myoclonic jerk. one has cultural, social context and the other is a strictly medical term.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 when have doctors ever refered to us as birthing people ,the medical term is FEMALE
As a trans man I genuenly fail to even start comprehending why periods and uteruses and so on are so important to this terfs 😂they say we trans people make being trans our whole personality yet they make being cis their whole personality. Like imagine if someone made a whole video saying ''I CAN PISS, I HAVE KIDNEYS THAT'TS WHY I AM MORE SPECIAL'' dude 💀like to me periods and having a uterus is so worthless considering I am never going to use them in the first place like it's such a non special thing, jeez it's just a bodily function they need to CHILL.
I find that gender critical people have what is known in psychology as a fixed mindset. These are people who believe that talents and abilities are innate and acquired from birth, rather than being skills which are developed over time. The reason I say this is because they have an obsessive pride over what biology they are born with, and they flaunt it like an accomplishment (even though it is not). It might stem from some insecurities about their own personalities and sense of worth, since they tend to be fairly untalented in many hobbies and skills (just look at their poetry). For people who have a fixed mindset, they often turn to things that they are born with that make them unique and use that as the basis of their security. A lot of them treat womanhood as a VIP club, and when they feel that it is more than a birthright, it undermines their sense of security that they have built.
@@albedougnut true, i think it's just usual bioesentialist BS. also even if someone of them aren't religious they subconsciously adhere to the idea that from birth you have a god given"purpose" that if you deviate from it is a sin and an insult to god himself. A lot of religious symbolism goes into it too.
@@albedougnut I think it's fairly rare for transphobes to be science fiction fans. Anyone who loves science fiction knows that you can turn anything into anything else, with the right technology. Everything is just a collection of atoms, so "Can you turn a man into a woman?" isn't even a question; the only question is "What technology would it take to do that?"
I've always been a reader of science fiction, so to me I have a hard time understanding the concept of "X can never be Y, because it wasn't Y originally."
It's some of the objective differences between women and men.
@@Mario-ob8es sex is not gender lol. And not all cis women have periods I know a bunch who don't
As a cis man, it’s so hard for me to watch these TikTok’s, they are so frustrating. You are a bad ass Samantha.
"how would you feel about commentary videos on other topics" girl you could read the entire dictionary out loud for five hours and i'd watch it
5:34 Trans women don't bleed every month, but many who are on hrt experience for a couple days cramps, bloating, and mood swings very similar to the symptoms of cis women on their period.
she said LGBTQ and trans comunity...bro said trans twice like what do you think the T stands for Turtle?
What’s sad to me now, is that if MJ Rodriguez won her Emmy for Pose this year, there would be excess uproar around it (even if she was simply nominated)
I have literally never though about who is in the bathroom with me. If a person is in the bathroom I just assume they are there because they need to be. People being so mad about bathrooms is so weird.
3:51
honestly her chocolate analogy is sooo accurate!! cishets think theres the 2 options (nuts or no nuts) when there's a bajillion others!! love it. 10/10 best gender comparison yet
I needed a Samantha video.
I'm so happy rn !
I just want to say how much I admire you for always embodying pride, confidence, joy, and addressing the toxic content with a sense of humor and grace. My dearest friends are all trans, and the level of scrutiny trans people face is absolutely soul-crushing. So seeing you handle these fools so powerfully is helpful in many ways. Thank you.
4:21-7:37 The transitions (no pun intended) in her video piss me off more than the video itself. Like she thinks she’s being fancy or something, but she’s only wasting gigabytes in her photo album.
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE
I'm a cis woman & maybe this is due to my experience being bi-romantic & ace but I don't understand why some people see a transwoman being themselves as somehow equal them a threat to the cis woman & their rights. People are just trying to be themselves as who they are & I don't see how someone just being given basic rights like everyone else to live their life & exist as who they are is such a bad thing. To me as long as someone's actions are not harming anyone then it shouldn't matter what they do with their own life
Imo as a cis women is that a lot of other cis women who get mad as trans women are just really insecure about their womanhood and feel better about having a group of people they can look down on because other than this whole cis women vs transwomen fight women get shit on a lot especially from red pilled incel weirdo's who say stuff like women expire at 30 and that we don't contribute anything to society other than cooking/cleaning and giving birth that plus the recent attack on our rights to abortion
I honestly don't know how you can do this. I'm not even trans myself and a lot of these videos you react to just make me so upset I need to step away from the computer for a minute to calm down. :(
“Ur body don’t cramp like this one gurll” 😂😂😂 💀
Thank u for the laughs Samantha todays been real hard
Am I the only one that finds it kind of awesome that some trans women experience period cramping and other symptoms due to hormones… at the same time, why would cis women be upset about it.
Hasn’t there forever been an argument about “if men had periods, everyone would have one week vacation every month”
18:55 the song she’s using is “Gone Little Girl” by CHINCHILLA, who openly stated she stands with trans women.
19:36 the only time i’ve ever heard “bleeder” being a reference to a human was in sweeney todd when he was specifically referring to humans who has blood in their body, which is every living person ever
i've heard it in medical settings like blood donation and the ER, but not about menstruation
I'm a cis woman and I geniuenly don't understand why some people are so offended by the term "cis". It literally just means that you identify as the gender you were assigned at birth👁️ 👁️ It'd be like if European people were offended over being called European. It's just a descriptive word about a person😂
“No! She doesn’t wanna be my friend?!” had me instantly wanting to watch the rest of the video. Gorl you’re FUNNY
"Your rights have been abolished... Miss girl. I mean, SIR" 😂😂😂😂 You are so funny and I'm happy af I found your page. You make me laugh so hard, I swearrrrr.
Lol I'm a cisgender woman and i don't get periods every month. Samantha whyy u steal my periods give it backkk lmfaoo 🤭😭🤣 Love your videos girl❤
The thing about trans women and periods bothers me, as a trans man, mainly because all it does is reinforce the idea that periods are a women's thing
OMG Your makeup is absolutely stunning in this video, I love it. Also, I'm so glad you're back and that you're doing fine! ^^
14:36 "You wanna see my blisters?" Love it. So true.
I'd love to see videos from you from all sorts of topics not "just" trans themed. I really love your personality and I really respect you as a person so I'd enjoy hearing your view on all sorts of things, serious or not :) ♥♥
I am not trans but non binary PLEASE TAKE MY PERIOD I DONT WANT IT
the word cis isn't new, neither is transness, or being non binary. It is engraved into our human history; and the fact that there's individuals so ignorant to the worlds history of gender fluidity (in areas) is mind blowing. It isn't a concept that "crazy liberals" made up... there were rulers and kings that were openly gay and trans, and guess what, it wasn't a huge topic of discussion. People need to calm down and focus on protesting topics of importance such as human trafficking and FGM.
It takes a special kind of ignorant to think these terms are a brand new phenomenon
If they have a problem with the word cis, they need to take it up with Romans.
See how many articles you can find using these words prior to 2007.
@@jurassicsmackdown6359
Yeah and a kind of ignorance and insecurity from the side of transphobes to care too much about people's genitalia and the shit they do that they end up bringing loneliness onto themselves and estranging themselves away from people.
I get a period, because I take Progesterone on a period cycle.
What I don't do is menstruate, because I lack the anatomy for it.
Im a cis woman and wish i didnt have a period. If being trans was socially acceptable 20 years ago i probably would be a man right now. I have known since i was 9 years old that i didnt want to birth any children or breast feed (ewww!) I even tried to pee standing up when i was little.... Also i dont care what you talk about i watch every video you make. Love you girl.
Don't feel pressured, cause it's not right for everyone, but just know that it's never too late to transition if that's what would make you happy!
It's okay if you are just starting to question your gender and exploring yourself. I used to perceive myself as such too before it was pointed out to me that I am not cis and that I bristled at feminine terms [I started to when quarantine hit]. Now I see myself as a transmasc dude who's multigender, nonbinary, agender, trans male, and genderfaun (a form of genderfluid that's on the masc side, which is what I can summarise it as), and I've never been happier as with me being trans.
The truth is... There's still going to be struggle and there's still going to be loads of mental and emotional pain (pertaining to internalised transphobia felt and bigoted shit one is ingrained with from birth), but there's supportive folks who can help, plus trans-related support groups and (if you can and genuinely want to on your own accord of course) maybe a therapist or therapist intern may help too.
Of course, folks who experiment and end up realising that they're cis are more than enough too (and don't feel like you have to know your own gender or genders right away, you have more than enough time and there will be supportive folks who will guide you through it all).
With a baby on the way. I would love to be called a chest feeder😂😭that’s so funny. “This is my friend she’s a chest feeder”😂😭
“I can’t count I’m just a transsexual” 😂💀 as a trans man I can confirm, counting is hard lmao
I'm a bit surprised my mom isn't in this video, she tried to tell me i would regret getting surgery because trans people have horrible pains, she also told me it's gay for a trans woman to date a guy unless the guy is also trans. All because i wanted to get my haircut again cuz it was coming around to be a bad hot summer, i just didn't want to die from the sun :(
I can't not have a stroke and I can't be a man
As a nonbinary person who gets their period id GLADLY give my period to my transgirl girlfriend if I could but alas
Movie reviews could be a cool way to eat new content while giving your unique perspective on the topic
Always enjoy your content, Samantha. It's been great seeing you grow in confidence. You're very much appreciated. Greetings from the UK.
8:04 the funniest part about this take is that it's not even true. Now, i'm transmasc and am planning to medically transition. I kinda pass as male if you don't know me, and have had people refer to me as both male and female, especially if i don't talk first. For me, going into the "right bathroom" is always a gamble, because i don't know if the person in there will see me as male or female, or if that person will attack me. Choosing the women's bathroom doesn't work for me, because not only is it not who I am, but the women in there might see me, a man, in there and be just as uncomfortable as i am. Choosing the men's bathroom is more accurate, but again, the men in there might see a woman.
where was i going with this? oh yeah. not every trans person passes well enough for either bathrooom. gender neutral bathrooms reign supreme. Kelly's take is dumb and stupid and dumb
The amount of times I remember people telling me I choose to be bi-romantic & ace just annoys me. I spent years wearing myself out through unnecessary stress trying to be "normal" & not understanding why I couldn't just be straight. Until one day I decided I didn't need other people's approval & that I was good enough just being myself. I started dressing in clothing that made be happy while ingnoring people criticizing that I wasn't dressing feminine enough & embracing my beloved hobbies. And you know what happened? I'm happier now then I ever have been in my life & while I'm still working on some stuff I'm surrounded by people who genuinely care about me & don't try to change me to be something I'm not. Life can be a hard journey to take but just know that u are enough, u are beautiful, u deserve happiness, & u deserve the right to be urself. As a wise hobbit once said: "It's a dangerous business, Frodo, going out your door. You step onto the road and if you don't keep your feet, there's no knowing where you might be swept off to" Keep being ur beautiful selves
I needed to hear this right now❤
“I’m sorry that you are confused and I’m sorry people aren’t telling you the truth” girl yes they are you’re just not listening and ur confused
The absolute WILDEST take that cis women get it worse then trans women, cause they need to watch what they wear and how they behave ... incredible.
Because obviously no trans women ever get attacked for what they wear or taken advantage of /s
Yeah, I'm still very early in my transition, so I'm curious if that will happen to me. Or will I be partially immune because I'm 6'1"? I'm still going to be bigger than the average man, even if I'm no longer as strong.
the chocolate thing is so funny to me. like you know the men they’re marketing to who don’t like nuts just won’t buy this chocolate cuz they can’t eat the she/her for gods sake!!!
I hate the term ‘biological woman’. It’s such a weird thing to insist on saying instead of cis, which is just a neutral and easy way to refer to cis people. And they say it with such vim and purpose, like they did something.
If they are "biological women" then I am a "thermonuclear woman".
"Biological woman" sounds more like a slur than "cis woman" does 😅
The hilarious thing is the very complex science of biology uses the terms male, female and intersex and not gendered terms such as man and woman, as no animal is referred to as a man or a woman, just that some humans have to humanize everything, except trans folk.
A bit redundant. "Woman" works just fine
Yeah, and cis people using "biological woman/man" is also weird, creepy and perverted as hell because they don't even want to admit that they need help to not obsess over people's genitalia.
she really said "respectfully, y'all f*gs" lmao