I've learned that "good" women don't want "nice" guys. I am a "nice" guy and from my experience I've decided to not have any relationship with a female in any way besides professional/work situations.
1:04:26 "eye rolling is one of the ways that adolescent girls create emotional tension" Guess they are already training while boys won`t have a clue.. :-)
Please stop using the term "nice" to refer to something bad. I know that "nice guy syndrome" is something different than actually being nice, but it seems too many people are beginning to equate nice with bad. It's like the next step will be if you call a man "good" then you'll assume he's a serial killer. We're to the point that being seen as a nice guy is bad but being a bad boy is good. And while I respect his work, he must have met completely different women than most of us have and he's not met the women that we've met. One issue is where he talks about having someone do something for you instead of doing it yourself, like the example of him getting up from the table to get a fork. I can't be the only guy who knows he'd better do that himself because if you ask your wife to do something for you that you could easily do yourself, you're going to get called lazy and she's going to resent you for asking.
Dude, u are absolutely right, THINK ! do not listen to these guys completely, they are not healthy. They are not listing their ideas correctly i think. Read the book or listen to him, and just a little bit fix some little things if necessary.
Not all women like drama; the ones you find sexually attractive may, but not all do. That doesn’t mean you should be a doormat.
If you are playing games and creating drama and are unavailable you will miss a good woman like myself
I've learned that "good" women don't want "nice" guys. I am a "nice" guy and from my experience I've decided to not have any relationship with a female in any way besides professional/work situations.
1:04:26 "eye rolling is one of the ways that adolescent girls create emotional tension" Guess they are already training while boys won`t have a clue.. :-)
Another great interview with Dr. G th-cam.com/video/alTY6uurQvk/w-d-xo.html
As a nice guy myself I get lots of women so I don’t completely agree with the nice guy notion. Maybe looks make up for it
Please stop using the term "nice" to refer to something bad. I know that "nice guy syndrome" is something different than actually being nice, but it seems too many people are beginning to equate nice with bad. It's like the next step will be if you call a man "good" then you'll assume he's a serial killer. We're to the point that being seen as a nice guy is bad but being a bad boy is good.
And while I respect his work, he must have met completely different women than most of us have and he's not met the women that we've met. One issue is where he talks about having someone do something for you instead of doing it yourself, like the example of him getting up from the table to get a fork. I can't be the only guy who knows he'd better do that himself because if you ask your wife to do something for you that you could easily do yourself, you're going to get called lazy and she's going to resent you for asking.
Dude, u are absolutely right, THINK ! do not listen to these guys completely, they are not healthy. They are not listing their ideas correctly i think. Read the book or listen to him, and just a little bit fix some little things if necessary.
I am still watching ut I was wondering whether you can be "nice" in specific scenarios . Like work?