Why broken hearts hurt | Yoram Yovell | TEDxBeitBerlCollege
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 มิ.ย. 2024
- When you lose someone you love, the pain you feel is as severe and real as any physical pain. The capacity to experience mental pain is hard-wired into our brains, but we are not powerless against it: Endorphins are our brain’s natural remedy for both physical and mental pain. Narcotic drugs alleviate pain by activating endorphin receptors but are harmful in chronic use.
Recent neuroscientific discoveries are guiding the development of drugs that may ease physical and mental pain like endorphins, while avoiding the dangers of narcotics. Best of all, when we reach out to comfort someone we love who is struggling with grief and loss, we actually cause their brain to release endorphins that help them endure and eventually overcome their pain.
Prof. Yovell is a psychiatrist, neuroscientist, TV presenter, author, and international keynote speaker. He is an Associate Professor of the Practice at the Department of Medical Neurobiology, The Hebrew University of Jerusalem. His areas of research include the neurobiology of emotions and mechanisms of physical and mental pain. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
Broken people attendance here ☝
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it's hard , only time can dull the pain not heal (haven't heard the whole thing atm)
@@CavariousTheCompletedTactician True time doesn't heal anything it just teaches us how to live with pain
@@cute_cookie7496Time wounds all heals
There should be at least a million people giving their attendance here, assuming they watch this video, but again, one needs courage to admit to themselves and to others that they are broken 🤔
How proud his father must be - what an amazing legacy ❤ I was 13 when my mother died and the physical pain was indescribable. Time is a crazy, magical thing ❤
I literally have a tattoo that says, "Love is Pain", because it was something I discovered after a Heartbreak. I finally feel validated.
have you found new love since your heartbreak?
@@maypap13 No
@@visionsofablackherstorian I'm sorry to hear that
Love is not pain, love is being loved for who you are. Your life has tried and people failed too you for who you were. And pain was, you were lessoned for it. Live is warm and loving and good feeling. Heartbreak and unrequited is what has happened. I'm very sorry for that had happened too you.
pain is the touchstone to growth...depression precedes growth and it is always 'lonely' on the growing edge...pain doesn't mean, necessarily, 'damage' but 'healing is going on' , 'repair' ... pain is simply a 'pointer' and varies with what is presented with each person...OMski
I don't know if I necessarily agree. Depression does not always precede growth. There are many people who struggle with depression for life and who may go on to commit suicide.
Well we should be brave enough to love someone knowing that they might not be with us for the rest of our life, in the end we might think is it a fair sacrifice that we made for the time being with them.
I agree. The pain of losing them is horrendous...but what we gained from having them in our lives helps us to find a measure of comfort. The love gained outweighs the pain--and wins in the end.
True, I realised, my son recently passed away at 39,bachelor, all alone in US, ...he has taught me the purpose of life, meaning to live,when I suffered from severe wife abusing husband, and utterly selfish unlaws, who had turned him to be a parasite. My son at the age of 15, stood by me and my younger daughter to enable us to complete the career we were in. Even at this time of irreplaceable loss, my husband continue to wield threat,bullying....
@@sukhino4475I am so sorry for your loss 💚
😢😢😢my mother died when I was 13 years old😢my mum was my hero 😢it hurts 😭
I feel the same, while my husband died four years ago. But i believed God.
Absolutely fabulous. Makes me wish I was a scientist. Thank you for this TED Talk. So sorry for the loss of your father at such a young age.
Yoram Yovell is one of my favorites.
Incredible informations. Thank you for your hard work.
He is ours ❤
This was very informative....your hardwork have paid off..Yoram Yuvell.....that's great!
Summary: The knowing is worth the pain.
Out standing!
Very insightful. Thank you for sharing this! 🥰🙏
Thank you for explaining feelings of love and pain scientifically. Informative and reassuring that people are the healers and ......
This is spectacular story
Thank you 💝
Thank you, thank you. Great informative video.
Me gustaría traducción en Español
By generating a thinking process during the day and hypnopedia during night we can generate endorphin within
Thank you to hear and It happen in real life is phisical+mental pain and we feel sad that it is demage us🌏
This was insightful
Thanks for useful video
Very interesting!
Perfect
Amazing research, seems it can help many people
Interesting informations❤
Thanks, keep going, the videos are very useful
Somalia people love ted talks
Plz subtitles b add kardein
Whoever been broken by their loved ones, & how they instantaneously hurt you ;
Most addictions to opiates are an effort to treat mental pain as much, if not more, than physical pain.
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Where can we stay updated on these two drugs reveal?
love always hurts until it doesn't...love doesn't 'always hurt'...OMski
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does this mean we'll be able to treat a broken heart?
Traducción en español
From my humble perspective : PAIN hearts the EGO. So to be HAPPY, one can reduce the pain or the ego. Any mean can be used but on the chemical side, psychotropic drugs like PSYCHEDELICS and other strange RC ( such as A-PIHP) produce interesting results needing more explorations. Peace & love
My mom died when i was 17 yeras old so i do feel 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Only God can heal my heart
5:14 "But what is grief, if not love persevering?"
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cacao and thc/cbd.. is ovius.. and lovely
How do we increase our endorphins???
Exercise is the main one.
Exercise, quality time with friends and/or family, spending time in nature, dancing, listening to music (or engaging in any arts that inspire you), doing things you love; also, living your purpose. If you don’t have a community of likeminded people around you, build one. ✌️
Drugs and hugs.
Spar Brasil
aspettiamo i nomi delle due sostanze che sviluppano endorfine.
People even scientist still struggle on how to decide the human being at The level of consciousness whether he is pure matter or pure psyche. For almost all of us, the answer is clear but when it comes to practice let us keep saying that human are psyche and they have Free Will as to keep things interesting.
Drugs and more drugs! How about hug therapy,thank you so much for trying to help those who are deeply 😢
Tako-Tsubo-Cardiomyopathy is a reality.
You Anti Hero like a great Joker 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢.(batman world)
I hope one of those two drugs is chocolate! 😂
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I know he can’t say yet, but it’s such a tease to not say the names of the medications 🤣
fooreal!!!!
Magnesium helps
too mechanistic...OMski
What a charlatan! :(
Science doesn't have the answer for this one, sorry
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