There should be at least a million people giving their attendance here, assuming they watch this video, but again, one needs courage to admit to themselves and to others that they are broken 🤔
Love is not pain, love is being loved for who you are. Your life has tried and people failed too you for who you were. And pain was, you were lessoned for it. Live is warm and loving and good feeling. Heartbreak and unrequited is what has happened. I'm very sorry for that had happened too you.
pain is the touchstone to growth...depression precedes growth and it is always 'lonely' on the growing edge...pain doesn't mean, necessarily, 'damage' but 'healing is going on' , 'repair' ... pain is simply a 'pointer' and varies with what is presented with each person...OMski
I don't know if I necessarily agree. Depression does not always precede growth. There are many people who struggle with depression for life and who may go on to commit suicide.
Well we should be brave enough to love someone knowing that they might not be with us for the rest of our life, in the end we might think is it a fair sacrifice that we made for the time being with them.
I agree. The pain of losing them is horrendous...but what we gained from having them in our lives helps us to find a measure of comfort. The love gained outweighs the pain--and wins in the end.
True, I realised, my son recently passed away at 39,bachelor, all alone in US, ...he has taught me the purpose of life, meaning to live,when I suffered from severe wife abusing husband, and utterly selfish unlaws, who had turned him to be a parasite. My son at the age of 15, stood by me and my younger daughter to enable us to complete the career we were in. Even at this time of irreplaceable loss, my husband continue to wield threat,bullying....
From my humble perspective : PAIN hearts the EGO. So to be HAPPY, one can reduce the pain or the ego. Any mean can be used but on the chemical side, psychotropic drugs like PSYCHEDELICS and other strange RC ( such as A-PIHP) produce interesting results needing more explorations. Peace & love
People even scientist still struggle on how to decide the human being at The level of consciousness whether he is pure matter or pure psyche. For almost all of us, the answer is clear but when it comes to practice let us keep saying that human are psyche and they have Free Will as to keep things interesting.
Exercise, quality time with friends and/or family, spending time in nature, dancing, listening to music (or engaging in any arts that inspire you), doing things you love; also, living your purpose. If you don’t have a community of likeminded people around you, build one. ✌️
Broken people attendance here ☝
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it's hard , only time can dull the pain not heal (haven't heard the whole thing atm)
@@CavariousTheCompletedTactician True time doesn't heal anything it just teaches us how to live with pain
@@cute_cookie7496Time wounds all heals
There should be at least a million people giving their attendance here, assuming they watch this video, but again, one needs courage to admit to themselves and to others that they are broken 🤔
I literally have a tattoo that says, "Love is Pain", because it was something I discovered after a Heartbreak. I finally feel validated.
have you found new love since your heartbreak?
@@maypap13 No
@@visionsofablackherstorian I'm sorry to hear that
Love is not pain, love is being loved for who you are. Your life has tried and people failed too you for who you were. And pain was, you were lessoned for it. Live is warm and loving and good feeling. Heartbreak and unrequited is what has happened. I'm very sorry for that had happened too you.
pain is the touchstone to growth...depression precedes growth and it is always 'lonely' on the growing edge...pain doesn't mean, necessarily, 'damage' but 'healing is going on' , 'repair' ... pain is simply a 'pointer' and varies with what is presented with each person...OMski
I don't know if I necessarily agree. Depression does not always precede growth. There are many people who struggle with depression for life and who may go on to commit suicide.
Well we should be brave enough to love someone knowing that they might not be with us for the rest of our life, in the end we might think is it a fair sacrifice that we made for the time being with them.
I agree. The pain of losing them is horrendous...but what we gained from having them in our lives helps us to find a measure of comfort. The love gained outweighs the pain--and wins in the end.
True, I realised, my son recently passed away at 39,bachelor, all alone in US, ...he has taught me the purpose of life, meaning to live,when I suffered from severe wife abusing husband, and utterly selfish unlaws, who had turned him to be a parasite. My son at the age of 15, stood by me and my younger daughter to enable us to complete the career we were in. Even at this time of irreplaceable loss, my husband continue to wield threat,bullying....
@@sukhino4475I am so sorry for your loss 💚
Yoram Yovell is one of my favorites.
😢😢😢my mother died when I was 13 years old😢my mum was my hero 😢it hurts 😭
These Ted talks, valuable even years after
I feel the same, while my husband died four years ago. But i believed God.
Absolutely fabulous. Makes me wish I was a scientist. Thank you for this TED Talk. So sorry for the loss of your father at such a young age.
Summary: The knowing is worth the pain.
Out standing!
This was very informative....your hardwork have paid off..Yoram Yuvell.....that's great!
This is spectacular story
Thank you, thank you. Great informative video.
Me gustaría traducción en Español
Incredible informations. Thank you for your hard work.
Thank you to hear and It happen in real life is phisical+mental pain and we feel sad that it is demage us🌏
Thank you for explaining feelings of love and pain scientifically. Informative and reassuring that people are the healers and ......
This was insightful
Somalia people love ted talks
Thanks for useful video
By generating a thinking process during the day and hypnopedia during night we can generate endorphin within
love always hurts until it doesn't...love doesn't 'always hurt'...OMski
He is ours ❤
Thank you 💝
Perfect
Whoever been broken by their loved ones, & how they instantaneously hurt you ;
Very interesting!
Where can we stay updated on these two drugs reveal?
Most addictions to opiates are an effort to treat mental pain as much, if not more, than physical pain.
Thanks, keep going, the videos are very useful
Interesting informations❤
does this mean we'll be able to treat a broken heart?
Only God can heal my heart
From my humble perspective : PAIN hearts the EGO. So to be HAPPY, one can reduce the pain or the ego. Any mean can be used but on the chemical side, psychotropic drugs like PSYCHEDELICS and other strange RC ( such as A-PIHP) produce interesting results needing more explorations. Peace & love
My mom died when i was 17 yeras old so i do feel 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
5:14 "But what is grief, if not love persevering?"
People even scientist still struggle on how to decide the human being at The level of consciousness whether he is pure matter or pure psyche. For almost all of us, the answer is clear but when it comes to practice let us keep saying that human are psyche and they have Free Will as to keep things interesting.
Drugs and more drugs! How about hug therapy,thank you so much for trying to help those who are deeply 😢
Plz subtitles b add kardein
I hope one of those two drugs is chocolate! 😂
How do we increase our endorphins???
Exercise is the main one.
Exercise, quality time with friends and/or family, spending time in nature, dancing, listening to music (or engaging in any arts that inspire you), doing things you love; also, living your purpose. If you don’t have a community of likeminded people around you, build one. ✌️
Drugs and hugs.
aspettiamo i nomi delle due sostanze che sviluppano endorfine.
Are plants also produces something resembling endorphines?
Traducción en español
You Anti Hero like a great Joker 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢.(batman world)
This is so unhelpful.
cacao and thc/cbd.. is ovius.. and lovely
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I know he can’t say yet, but it’s such a tease to not say the names of the medications 🤣
fooreal!!!!
Magnesium helps
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No names of the drugs at the end. Waste of my damn time
Spar Brasil
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too mechanistic...OMski
Science doesn't have the answer for this one, sorry
What a charlatan! :(
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