MY FTM TRANSITION TIMELINE | 1999-2021
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seeing you blossom with joy after you started transitioning makes me happy and gives me courage to come out. thank you
best of luck to you!!
@@aktdoa To all the trans souls out there:
You all been DECEIVED by the old devil, who uses many technics to mess with the minds of humans.
Being trans ain`t a diagnose,
being trans = deeply deceived mind sets that have been broken down with fear technics.
Human life is known to be fragile, our minds are much more fragile.
It doesn`t take much at all to break someone mind/soul. A mind/soul broken into pieces
is much easier to make believe lies. The most often method on people being used is: TRAUMAS, childhood traumas. These are enough to cause a soul to be broken down so deeply that for a soul to find some kind of relief, they make up or come up with unlogical - unrealistic ways to cope with pain inside.
Therefore:
Trans human being = A Soul who is hurting deeply and usually are also DECEIVED to believe many lies deeply.
Ephesians 5:29 | View whole chapter | See verse in context
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
How can one argue with GOD/TRUTH/LOGIC? - none can`t
At the end of the day what you all “trans” really do is: you are cutting off your working = healthy body parts, trying to put on wrong parts that never should be there.
Congratulations by being GENDERLESS being. And all for what? - because all the lies you end up believing?
Mass media, family members, friends, strangers = forming a mind of a child. The wrong and unhealthy ways as we all clearly see. The only advice worthy to give is: TAKE A TIME OFF (To both: Children and adult), if needful, spend 12 months different then usually.
Wow to these people who do such crimes.
Making someone believe the lies so deeply,
advising to cut off someones own body parts,
Doing the operations on these souls.
When did someone became that EVIL? and why?
Let me ask 1 more question: What are you doing with these parts that are cut off one`s bodies?
you don't stick them all on the wrong bodies, so what about these?
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Start to shovel into the deep and wake finally up from the delusions one living in.
Parents - please stop trying to change children. Just love them and respect what they are and who they are.
They're not though, this woman is a woman. She is a wonderful woman and won't EVER change that. Parents should love their children, but NOT lie to them... if this person honestly suffers from a horrible condition where she denies her body soooo much, then she needs help... not hate or delusional love. She will NEVER be a man, ever... And that is the obvious truth. Though I do feel so sorry for this girl... And now a woman.
you must be exhausted from jumping thru mental hoops all day just to come to the wrong conclusion every time
@@aktdoa The fact you draw attention to this comment proves how insecure you might be. You know you're a woman, you might have deluded the people around you in every day societal situations to think you're a "man", but you're not one and NEVER will be one... The mere fact you "switched" places proves how fragile real spaces for actual biological males and females are and how shallow society can be in this regard for deluding itself to boys and girls and men and women simply being societal playing tools any woman or man can use to "heal" themself of their rejection of their bodily reality. Really, it's horribly sad...
You do know a man is an adult human male and a woman is an adult human female. You are a female, you'll NEVER escape that reality, there isn't such a thing as an "inner" boy or "inner" girl, that's all assigning a thousand meanings to the things you do in association to "boys/men" and "girls/women" when in reality that is not bodily reality, NOT something that anything in law or the way people speak or interact with each other in should be based on and your partaking in that is quite sad, dishonest and an insult to real biological men, which you'll not be! Though I'm sure you're aware of that to a degree... hence your whisk reply and conduct with talking about your story in this video...
Again I do feel very sorry for you, I don't know whether you're a sufferer of a mental illness which makes you horrendously uncomfortable in your natural body; Gender dysphoria possibly? A debilitating condition which SHOULD NOT be healed with lying to yourself and societal deceiving (I doubt you're an autoandrophile though, I think you just felt so uncomfortable in being a lesbian woman (which you still are by the way and won't change~), or had a mental anguishment from your natural and HEALTHY body developing, why would that need "fixing" in this way?? This is a MENTAL disorder, the disorder shouldn't be stigmatized or hated, but nor should it be promoted and seen to be a SOLUTION, like you're doing. This isn't a physical illness at all, darling. I refuse to see you anything other than who you are (♀️♀️♀️♀️).
Though you don't seem to be an autoandrophile to me, though even if I were talking to female people who are autoandrophiles... they're gross but just women! Anyway you also just so happen to be a female person (a woman), so, that's it, there's nothing more to it! You're still a bloody WOMAN, and should be referred to as such, healing doesn't come from lying. You can't societally transition away your lesbianism! (AKA, deceive unsuspecting people and all your acquaintances), please don't promote this disgusting lie to vulnerable children! Parents need to be more cautious about this WITHOUT lying to their children and letting a new horrible ideology do this to people.
Peace out, adult human female.
@@lerapol Are you Jesus? You really don't know anything but I know you obviously are a mean and spiteful person. I feel sorry for everyone that knows you or is related to you. You probably don't know it but you and people like you kill other people just by being the way you are. Judgmental asses. Flagging your ignorance.
@@lerapol all feelings no logic. you care too much
This is my new confort video. Everytime I get bad dysphoria, I listen your voice and look at your pictures and it gives me hope that someday, I can have the body that I want too. So thanks man ❤️
that's such a sweet thing to say, i'm really glad i could help you out! you'll be there before you know it
Get therapy first , please 😘 you should love yourself. Many people can feel some sort of body dysphoria. Taking hormones and having surgeries that will completely change your body forever are last resort. Please go to therapy
@@ananina9554 it's pointless going to therapy if you know your problems stem from being trans. You're evaluated before being given testosterone so there's no point paying for therapy if you're already sure in yourself. Would make sense if you were unsure or wanted help dealing with dysphoria though.
i don’t think this is true at all. therapy is a useful tool for anyone, not just trans people seeking hormone replacement therapy or help with dysphoria. personally i think everyone should see a therapist
I would rather my daughters be lesbians or trans than have them take their lives!!I just want them to be happy!! You are a very handsome guy!!
Yes, in fact many transgender people have stated to have been suicidal before transitioning and fearing death after transitioning. The people in you life are lucky to have someone accepting, have a good day!!
People who don't transition don't kill themselves just because they don't transition. People kill themselves for all sorts of reasons but someone killing themslves for a lack of transitioning is very very rare. Some kill themselves because they transitioned and then realised they had made a big mistake. It is more likely that someone who is the target of transctivists hate is going to kill themselves rather than a trans person. Trans-activists bully the bejesus out of anyone stating biological facts.
@@rl7012 Trans people get raped, beaten and murdered for being transgender and you’re talking about trans activists “bullying the bejasus” outta someone?? You really, genuinely, think that trans people don’t commit suicide from all the harassment and abuse they endure after coming out?
Bro, where are you from?
@@shoilikbarua1867 a civilized society
i love seeing ppl get so much happier like u can just tell they feel comfy for the first time in ages its gr8
watching the light come back in my eyes after high school >>>>
Thank you so so much for making this video!!! I'm also a trans guy, I'm just starting to live as myself, my friends are amazing but my family isn't really supportive, and I want to begin T and move out by next year. So, your story does motivate me and help me see that there's a future for me!! I'm already impressed to be living as myself with a lot of people, can't wait to accomplish more things. Again, thanks for sharing, this is so inspiring, sending love to you.✨
This is so awsome. Your journey so far is amazing. I wish you everything well for the future!
Thank you so much!!
Your eyes told me you're a really strong person. Im glad you're here!
Thank you for sharing your story! It gives me so much hope for my own transition! I'll leave you with a quote that helped me in many ways:
'One finds his destiny on the path he takes to avoid it'.
wow that's a great quote ngl, thanks for that!
This relates to me cause i'm pre-transgender but my mom is very transphobic and homophobic i've finally came to terms with me being trans just yesterday but my mom literally hates that, i'm planning to transition next year so it gives me enough time to research and understand myself
It's sad that parents can't understand where we're coming from or why we are as we are
We're trying to be ourselves and their just making it harder,
Trans people are valid
Love don't judge
I'm glad that you were able to transition stay safe out there
as a trans man from middle east you are such an inspiration to me ! Thank you Dakota
thank you for the love! best of luck on your journey
Planned parenthood is the best! I started HRT today and I went through them. It’s so much easier.
it really is! especially for those who may not have insurance coverage for HRT - it's a pretty affordable option + usually doesn't give you many issues about the process
Im trans and ive been on T for not even a week. After two years out my parents haven’t made any progress, despite numerous suicide attempts. It’s absolutely mind blowing to me.
i'm so sorry to hear that :( unfortunately for some parents it can take many years to begin to accept their trans kid's identity. mine didn't really start to accept me until i started having noticeable changes on T + got top surgery. it was like they realised "well if he's taking it this far, he must be serious" LMAO
Im so proud of you dude! I’m also trans m2f you’re just a year older than me and you inspire me so much! You moved freaking countries! You literally worked for everything you wanted! This really makes me happy and gives me motivation! Thank you!
Thank you for sharing your story so powerful and honest
I love how you explained it that's exactly how I feel
"I wasn't a weirdo or a freak for wanting to be a boy
Even though I was born a girl"
Also I've got a lot of compliments for you hope it doesn't make you too uncomfortable but
First off I love your voice you have a fantastic speaking voice I loved listening to you talk
You are too freaking handsome I can't stand it and you have amazing hair your curls are to die for
Anyway I wish you so, so much continued luck on your journey and congratulations on becoming you 💖
thanks so much, this comment made me smile! your support means a lot to me :)
Jesus loves you!😊❤
mi hai fatto emozionare :,) got my first appointment with a gender specialist at the end of september, your transition makes me really hopeful for what's to come 💗
congrats on getting your appointment! good luck :)
Mine is at the end of September too!
I've never seen you before this is my first video of yours I'm watching and I just have to say I could still see your in your pretransition pictures like I'm not sure how to explain it but I'm proud of you! I know that probably sounds weird too but it fills my heart with such joy to see people being authentically themselves... much love ✌❤
tysm :')
you give me so much hope for my future. thank you and you’re transition was so amazing. i will have this one day. love you.
You’re incredible my dude. Thanks for sharing your experience. Super proud of you for making that move and taking those chances
sorry im late, and im so so sorry for your experiences after coming out w the family and all. i just want you to know you are enough and you are the best. you are giving ppl like me a motivation just like Sam Collin and Ty gave to you before you transition. i took my first shot last week and although i am at my happiest last week, this week, Im in such a bad mood after coming out and my sister ghosted me but hearing your stories make me strong now. We're in this together brother. We won't stop here.
So proud of you ! You have been through so much , sharing your story may help others know they are not alone . I will always have my support 🎉🎉🎉❤
“Battling with my insurance company.”
Man, they don’t even like paying for my insulin, as a Type 1 diabetic…Good for you for continuing to fight. Don’t ever stop.
Thank you Dakota, for telling your story. You really had some difficulty in your journey, but here you are! I'm so very proud of you and your honesty.
GORGEOUS HUMAN BEING...your story has truly touched and moved me. Have a great life, young man!
I feel so happy for you!! (Ps. My family’s not supportive as well. My mum threw away all of my Ts, and I just decided to go off of it. But working to save up for top surgery like you is the route that I wish to pursue in the future. Still trying to figure things out haha
i'm sorry to hear about your family :( my dad once threw out my binders lmao so i get how it feels. hang in there!
❤ you’re amazing Dakota! Thank you for sharing your story.
Woww this was emotional... It's so great to see you becoming more you and it's really inspiring. Also I looked at the old pictures and I saw you as a guy, like I can't see you as a girl in those photos knowing who you are
Oh my god I’m so sorry for the hurt you’ve been through, no one should be treated anything like that and I am so happy for you that you found your way and got to live the life you’ve meant to live ❤❤
You are amazing, Thank you for sharing your journey Dakota, from the beginning until now. Take care
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for posting this. Having recently come to terms with wanting to transition (I'm transmasc), every day feels like an uphill battle. But I'm choosing to live an authentic life. This video gives me hope that one day the person on the outside can match how I feel on the inside. Also, I really love your overall presence and fashion sense dude!!
Beautiful video. Thank you for making and sharing this
So much development in just 23 years. I am happy for you! Live your life to the max!
We’re born a couple of months apart. So it’s really nice to see how much you’ve progressed throughout this time. I wear what I want, have short hair but haven’t told my family or friends because I’m scared but I see and I know so much life came back into you when you became who you are. While I’m literally dead and have always been
i hear you and i understand that you're scared - i was scared too, and when i came out i faced a lot of backlash, but the good outweighs the bad most days. if you know who you are, you can't let anyone tell you otherwise. eventually you have to put yourself first!
@@aktdoa thanks bro your truly helping and inspiring me, as well as your content. Thank you for being brave and yourself.
Good for you man. You're very brave and strong to go through your journey, virtually on your own. Inspirational.
You are an inspiration to me!!! Thank you for sharing!
🔥🔥🔥 Awesome video!
Congratulations on following your heart and soul. Sharing your stories surely help thousands of other people. x
I hope so!
Thank you so much for this video ❤❤ I am a transmasc nonbinary person and I started T two weeks ago, your video is my favorite I’ve seen so far, it gives me so much hope and I am so happy for you and how far you’ve come!! Keep being awesome 🙌🏾💙
This is a great, well-put-together video. Thanks for sharing your story with us.
I’m surprised at how much your story has in common with mine. Thank you for sharing :)
Thank you. That's all I have to say. Really, thank you... You don't know how much you're helping me right now.
You are an inspiration dude
thank you so much for the kind words 😭
This is awesome, thanks for sharing your story ❤
Your journey is inspiring and all good wishes for a very happy life ahead.
Just finished the whole video, thank you for being so genuine, open, honest, and empathetic. I'm also a trans man and haven't transitioned yet, but this makes me so much more sure that I'm going to. I'm so excited!! Thank you 💖🏳️⚧️
5:19 i caught bro with the jojo makeup 💀
fr tho ur transition was SO GOOD
This is so cool man, I really love this
thank you!
Very Inspiring. Glad you are doing better these days.
this is such a beautiful video
thanks so much
Great video:)
I hope you are still really happy in Italy! The chest tattoo is a good way to cover the scars.
Love it, thanks for sharing your story dude 🤘
thanks for watching!
"dude", lol. Sure she can be "dude" to mean "cool" I guess... but I know you're using that to delude her. This is where this delusional "affirmation" starts at!
bro is so obsessed w me he’s going thru my videos just to talk about my identity. my #1 fan
Of course, yes, Dakota's "identity" and many people who post videos of themselves transing themselves to people online is a lie. She is probably a good person, but still a woman~~ Female person~ Adult human *female*. You, initial commenter, and others like it and that feed into this delusional way of thinking with her and her magical "identity"... oof, it's a bit sad, isn't it?
Dakota, you know you can't escape it, you know it, you know it, you know it, you know it! Don't you? I'm just one person, but I speak for many, cool girl, innit 😎 (not mocking you here, but you can be cool and a female~, a biological term, innit though).
If you're going to be annoyed at such comments, perhaps state you have a "disorder" and it shouldn't be so "direct" to you because of that rather than deluding yourself in an "identity" you've tricked others and yourself into socially and stating I'm attacking that, lol. Identities like this aren't based in reality.
Hope you haven't evolved your body into this lie too much now, yeah?
I was born in 1999 too! I relate so much, I'm transmasculine and I'm thinking about transition. Thank you so much for making this video! It has helped me so much
I think one of the coolest parts of the video is you can tell how much happier Dakota looks throughout the video as he transitions and I think that’s cool :)
I loved that story of your journey!
thank you for the love!
Awww so proud of you. Good men like you are rare.
Thx for sharing your journey 🙏
thanks for watching!
you are gorgeous!!!
I’m ftm too and idk how I’ll ever come out, good luck man.
Am so happy for u am trans woman and am older then u I lived time wasent talked about I grew up late 90s 2000s I did it in my late 20s and u feel whole I wish u best and amazing life xo
I’m glad you can be who you know you are!
Congratulations!!! 👏🎉👏🎉👏🎉👏🎉
I have basically the same story except shifted 4 years (as I'm 4 years younger) 😂
I'm so happy for you and I can't wait to get to the point you are at.
I am even a psych major too 💀
Congratulations! I am so happy for you. You seem to be a very bright and intelligent person all the best for your future and you and your girlfriend. Peace and love! 🤙
You’re so handsome i feel terrible about your family who couldn’t accept you sometimes I’m so sad thinking about these people in our lives that don’t realize or are too blind to understand what’s it’s like for transgender people, they are clueless. It hurts that those types of people exist but as long as we know ourselves and who we are, we can leave all the negative people to their own beliefs ❤❤❤
I just want to tell you how inspiring you are young man! Im so sorry your parents were not accepting your true self. I hope things have changed....i would be proud if you were my son. Hold your head up high. I wish you all the success and wonderful things life can bring you!!!!! Love, a mom from Toronto.
P.S. has anyone ever told you you look so much like the actor Megan Follows? Your smile is identical! You could pass for her brother.❤
Didn’t know I was so close to crying the entire video, until the end. Not sure what it is about it but just having a genuine I will get better feels so good but hurts so much at the same time
Love yaa
Dakota, based on your own experience, is it easier to meet and date girls before you transition as a girl and a lesbian, or after transition as a transman? Did you find more interest from lesbians as a girl, or girls as a transman?
Italy's visa application always feels crazy! Glad you were able to move
It really is! I still struggle with the appointments now, 3 years later 🫠
Great video, but why is there a photo of Ron Weasley at @4:48?
Sorry, I'll show myself out.
Our stories are very similar, i was also born in 1999 and am trans. Proudly so but the journey has been rough at times. Always was masc even from as early as i can remember but having female societal norms pushed on me from middle school to mid high school was rough but i got through and will never need to worry about that again, i hope.
Not me over here drooling ur so handsome
Thank you for sharing
I went to the doctor to ask to start gender therapy about two weeks ago. I haven’t started yet, but hopefully I’ll be able to start soon. I’m very excited about it. I’m going to the doctor again tomorrow so hopefully I’ll get to know more about when I can finally start
🥳❤
good luck!!
Dude, yer awesome!
You pass so well. You're very handsome too!
I swear ur life is the exact same as mine. I've had all the same experiences and phases and we even have the same hair
I am also a trans man. I honestly have been through similar situations and I have to say man keep being you. I relate my family is very cruel and homophobic and unfortunately transphobic. I unfortunately don’t have much contact with them. I was hit and attacked by my mother for being on testosterone unfortunately. I just hope parents who read the comments or watch this video. Just let your kids be who they are and stop trying to change people. Trying to change someone and being ignorant towards others is not going to make someone be what you want. You have to accept that no kid stays the same and kids grow up. I hope people who are parents can be more accepting and kind because I don’t want others to go through what I went through. Nobody deserves abuse just for being themselves. I am happy for you and your transition. Awesome video. 😊
Proud of you...you gooooo boy❤❤❤
It’s interesting, I always felt like I was playing a character my whole life. I was just waiting for it to click
I've watched your video inspired by the content... Surprisingly I've discovered you live in Padova (don't know if you're still here in 2023).
I live in a small town in the province of Padova 🤗 at the foot of Euganean Hills (Colli Euganei).
Wishing you all the best you deserve.
Thanks for sharing your story.
Absolutely beautiful journey keep it moving bro love how free you are & Confident! Did you have any gender dysphoria while in the process?
gender dysphoria is what made me want to transition, so yeah i did (and still do, albeit a lot less) experience that
That's really interesting about Italy and your Medusa tattoo is cool
thanks! :)
Thanks for sharing your amazing story. You and your girlfriend are an adorable couple!
tysm!
❤️ ur beautiful
Your story is quite inspiring and similar to my own. Though, I would take another 10 years to realize who I am.
God Bless you!
I'm a closeted trans teen and I hope I get on t and get top surgery one day
all good things come in time!
i’m mtf and i had bottom surgery at 1.5 years too!
Hey man, just wanted to tell you that I want to be soooo bad. It's unfathomable bro. Or maybe it's not who knows lol. I live in a Muslim country with a Muslim family so I don't really get support. The support I do get is often short-lived. Seeing videos like these just give me hope. You're making an impact on so many trans people, and even after you die, this video will still help people. I always thought the meaning of life was to leave the world better than you found it, and I'm pretty sure you did that. And will. Until the sun explodes. This is going to sound weird, but nice arms. Very manly. I want them.
This video is great
thanks homie :)
Love, 🕉 from Montreal 🇨🇦
The clases at the university you attended in Italy were in Italian or in English ? did you speak Italian prior to moving to Italy ?
it's an English program at the University of Padova. i took two basic Italian classes at TXST, but i still don't speak a lot of italian
Have you contacted St. Brigitta's hospital in Bratislava? The docs there are doing genital transplants, and after success with vagina transplants, they are planning on doing male genital transplants.
That might be an improvement over the frankenpenises and open wounds they're sticking people with now.
You are wonderful.
I'm also Trans ftm but I'm pre T I'm waiting to get stable foundation before I start! But I'm excited.
good luck homie!
@@aktdoa thank you!!
I'm a straight man. I have a transgender male to female niece who goes by Bella now so I don't know I really understand where you're coming from I've been around it I think everything you did is awesome and I'm sure you know a lot of better people but if you and your girlfriend ever want a baby I would donate for you. Love who you are. Never be afraid to be who you are.
One word: Goals!!!
You are fucking amazing.