@@Zenosama_daishinkan ill assume this is from your misconception that wisdom = age. while age gives someone a higher probability of being wise, it doesn't guarantee obviously. someone who was given a set plan on their life, future partners, and future career decisions would likely be very unwise even at the age of 45, assuming they didn't question there circumstances. wisdom comes with experience, and experience comes with not being ignorant. adverse and sometimes difficult situations can bring a lot of wisdom to someone's life assuming they can cope and process the experience - grow from it.
Dude when he said "its always a pleasure talking to you" I damn near started to tear up. I haven't been able to cry for years, but that hit me hard. Its so difficult to talk to people that don't really listen to you, or don't care what you have to say, specifically when it seems like they were just waiting for their turn to talk. Its literally one of the worst feelings ever. So hearing that "directed at me" makes me feel appreciated. Thank you Shimon, for all the impact that you have made in only a few months. Keep being great brother.
I’ve broken that trust , with the love of my life..by being honest for my wrongs, now we’re both healing. We’re healing because of me. I know I’m not that same person but it hurts , when your best friend becomes stranger
hardblocked my ex on everything to take time for myself to heal, constant exposure to her social media only stunts my healing process. love your videos man, they help a lot!
So true. I was in a bad relationship that i knew was bad. *for ten years* If you put all your hard work into something bad, it will still *never* get better. Seriously. Don't waste your life chasing something you don't even want.
Man every video you post relates to me too hard., its so hard to separate myself from people, I grew up to be a people pleaser, and I don’t know what is right even though it feels wrong.
Your videos are so healing bro. I used to be obese, lost 120 lbs and have done a ton of healing and self improvement but I'm still very broken. Most days I get through them pretty easily and happily now but some days like today I feel and see those cracks that I haven't attended to yet and becoming aware of these left over damages I've accumulated through life hurts me a ton because it makes me feel like even though I've improved so much, healed so much, I will never be fully healed. I feel as though I will never be good enough and I'll always be broken but then I watch your videos and realise that healing is a lifelong journey and you can only heal 1hp at a time. Thanks man, hope you're having a good day, keep up the wonderful content ❤
I hope everything gets better❤, I get what you mean. U can get through them days but some of them are just too hard to get through but we all gotta know that in the end it's all gonna get better, might be a slow progress but it's gonna be worth it
Is the background music something you’ve created or from somewhere? It’s so mesmerizing… would love to listen to it. Great video as always my man. Stay wise
As much as I tried to run away from it all, I am running right back to me and I need and choose me. Nothing and no one comes between, never and ever. I needed this. To all you wonderful people, gotta heal and life will reveal all that you need and all the good. All happens forever for the better, even when we feel too scared to tough through the storm of it all. Stay strong. 💛
I'm so glad I found this channel dawg, you've truly been an inspiration to me and you've honestly saved my life. I'm going through the toughest situation right now where I lost someone who I tricked myself into believing that I could fix her and turn into "The One". I've watched multiple other videos you made and it just feels like you my twin and that Gods sent me to this channel to be able to finally heal properly. Can you make a video on how you stopped enabling people to disrespect you, like those who only used you for validation when they weren't getting it from others. I'm glad to see you still blowing up, keep making great videos brother, you're saving a lot of lives!
What I realized is you have to work on yourself and really get those that next level and attract a better partner, getting with someone when you haven’t made much progress isn’t gonna go well.
i really needed this. as i sat here, ate dinner, and watched this video i started to cry knowing what he says is true. i can’t heal until i stop getting in my own way. “Everyday is a battle but I refuse to lose.” thank you.
Man your videos and messages have meant so much to me man. I hurt deep down and never knew how to heal it. I carried it with me for 38 years and after watching your videos I was able to let it all go man. I can’t thank you enough my friend
Hey. I'm not sure how often you read comments, but if you do read this, I want to say thank you. This video, it's what I needed. I'm pretty young, 17, but tbh with you, it's been pretty rough, and this video along with a few of your others have been a huge wake up call. As of tonight, I'm going to take that time to heal, and I'm going to better myself!
This video spoke to me so much. I felt this deep within my soul, and I really appreciate your spirit and that you made this video. I think in order for me to heal, I need to leave my partner of almost 4 years. I’m completely paralysed by the thought, but I need to heal. I need to heal and I’m unable to do it right now. I’m so tired of feeling this way, thank you for your words.
Damn. I cried while watching this, your words are so touching. Made me realize whats wrong, the fact i was holding back tears when u was saying these things. I love you bro ❤
Hey mann, Can you please make a video about self hatred/ hating ourselves, and in huge regret for something that weve done and how to deal with it, and feeling hopeless, alone, lost, uncomfortable, unmotivated and weak? I lost a special someone and its because of me. Ive been going through it for a long time and just got rushed in the hospital because of the sudden pain in my stomach that was caused because of stress and depression. And for the past week ive been listening to your videos and is helping me alot. But do i still deserve to be happy for what ive done? Thankyou so much for your videos Shimon. ❤❤❤
My life has changed a lot recently, a lot of things that made me think about myself more. You're an amazing speaker man good luck with all your future endeavors.
Not gonna lie, going through this myself rn. Just seems like if I don’t invite people out, they never reach out. On top of that, the times that I do reach out first, either they don’t respond, or they’re busy. Every time. And these are like, my 4 or 5 best, best friends. The people I can talk to and relate to. But now, it just seems like I’m an option. Never a priority. I know I have to distance myself and focus on my goals, but I find it extremely hard to get the energy to do so, if every single weekend I just spend alone, checking my phone every 10-15 minutes to see if anybody bothered to reach out.
Hey Shimon, i'm a new viewer and discovered you literally today. I wanted to ask you a question on how you started youtube with this topic and maybe some tips for a young man like me. I have extreme problems with stuttering and motory tics in my face and neck and it makes my neck hurt all day. I wanted to start a youtube channel myself with some topic like you make but i can't bring myself to it because of the stuttering which is really bad. Do you have some tips what i could try?
I don't know if we're allowed to vent here or not so you sorry. But I broke up with my boyfriend fir like over a year or so like a month ago because i just felt like it wasn't it anymore and i felt horrible at first and i still do, but we're like really good friends and i feel vad if i just let him go and block him, even though in sure it might help ne. Sometimes i forget but then he just has this bio that's like "shes my goddess or whatever" and then it just makes me feel worse and weird because like damn. You know? We broke up a month ago but he was with this girl i guess a week or two afterwards, idek what im going on about. But I'm tryin you know? But all these he wants me to see him and hang out abd stuff is just messing with my mind abd stuff but im too insecure too just say som cause in my mind it's just like "he doesn't care." Yeah. But i watch a lot of your videos and they really do help better than this therapist im seeing. I haven't told ber about my relationship yet so yeah. I hope you're doin well frfr. Sorry about any spelling mistakes as well.❤
yo mn this might be weird but this girl I talk to. She is cool but she just got out of relationship and she proceeded to talk to me she initiated. But she talks about her ex on FaceTime and stuff and it throws me off n I find myself not wanting to talk about anything. She gets mad when she sees me with any other girl but she has a lot of male friends and I don’t make a big deal about it. She is still cool with her ex and rides home with him everyday and I be very distant and because of that I don’t knw what timing she is on. She made me meet her mom and all her family but her being cool with her ex and riding home with him makes my mind never at peace. I told her imma give her a hug in front of him and she said she don’t want him to get mad/jealous she says she doesn’t like him anymore and it’s a "live and forget" thing and that it’s jus frens, she calls me "her man" and shit but I don’t know if I should just slowly disappear and take my self out of it.
Yea man that’s not healthy. Why is she not ok with you hugging her cus it’ll make him mad, yet she’s totally ok disrespecting you by riding with him and stuff
@@alzgrex5304 and I asked her about it she said "I don’t want him to get mad because I want the ride" basically she scared he’s gonna get mad and not drive her. she claims she doesn’t like taking the bus in the evenings. Man it pisses me off cause she started talking to me. I was on my own sh*t before dis But this steady be on my mind now.
"If you didn't truly believe that you deserve better, you would not feel bad." What a quote to drop
shimon is one if the realest, unadulterated, unforced, wise people on this platform and im grateful for it. thanks for what youre doin man.
Intelligent not wise
@@Zenosama_daishinkan ill assume this is from your misconception that wisdom = age. while age gives someone a higher probability of being wise, it doesn't guarantee obviously. someone who was given a set plan on their life, future partners, and future career decisions would likely be very unwise even at the age of 45, assuming they didn't question there circumstances. wisdom comes with experience, and experience comes with not being ignorant. adverse and sometimes difficult situations can bring a lot of wisdom to someone's life assuming they can cope and process the experience - grow from it.
I'm even more grateful that he gets the recognition for being that
Dude when he said "its always a pleasure talking to you" I damn near started to tear up. I haven't been able to cry for years, but that hit me hard. Its so difficult to talk to people that don't really listen to you, or don't care what you have to say, specifically when it seems like they were just waiting for their turn to talk. Its literally one of the worst feelings ever. So hearing that "directed at me" makes me feel appreciated. Thank you Shimon, for all the impact that you have made in only a few months. Keep being great brother.
I’ve broken that trust , with the love of my life..by being honest for my wrongs, now we’re both healing. We’re healing because of me. I know I’m not that same person but it hurts , when your best friend becomes stranger
I know im a stranger, but I believe in you man. Stay strong.
I have a friend going through a pretty bad break up right now and I’m going to introduce her to your channel with this video thank you so much
at first i was like aight , BUT GAH DAMN HE SPITTIN
U ARE ONE WITH THE NATURE....cuz the timing is immaculate ...can realte to this soooooo much!!!!!!!!!!
Same here bro
hardblocked my ex on everything to take time for myself to heal, constant exposure to her social media only stunts my healing process. love your videos man, they help a lot!
You always upload whenever I needed advice and I'm genuinely grateful for that. Thank you man.
You’re a wise young man in your youth! I appreciate your insight and courage to be vulnerable to share. Thank you!
everything starts with you and they also ended with you too take advantage of what you’re capable, if only you new how exceptional you are
you're absolutely right, and this has just came to me, today is my dead grandmothers bday, just, thank you so much man, there's so much I wanna say
So true. I was in a bad relationship that i knew was bad. *for ten years*
If you put all your hard work into something bad, it will still *never* get better.
Seriously. Don't waste your life chasing something you don't even want.
I truly don’t know if this message will reach you but you’ve truly changed my life. You literally help me sleep and calm down ❤❤
Your words touched the core of my heart, bro. It's time to hold myself accountable and want the best for myself.
I wish I could take a picture where I'm at, alone working out at the park listening to this... hits in a positive way
Man every video you post relates to me too hard., its so hard to separate myself from people, I grew up to be a people pleaser, and I don’t know what is right even though it feels wrong.
hi shimon! i can't thank you enough i love being on your channel
Your videos are so healing bro. I used to be obese, lost 120 lbs and have done a ton of healing and self improvement but I'm still very broken.
Most days I get through them pretty easily and happily now but some days like today I feel and see those cracks that I haven't attended to yet and becoming aware of these left over damages I've accumulated through life hurts me a ton because it makes me feel like even though I've improved so much, healed so much, I will never be fully healed.
I feel as though I will never be good enough and I'll always be broken but then I watch your videos and realise that healing is a lifelong journey and you can only heal 1hp at a time. Thanks man, hope you're having a good day, keep up the wonderful content ❤
I hope everything gets better❤, I get what you mean. U can get through them days but some of them are just too hard to get through but we all gotta know that in the end it's all gonna get better, might be a slow progress but it's gonna be worth it
yo gimme tips to lose weight pls🙏🏻
@@kitasidibeh-ug2ec What's important is that you eat good & Be in a caloric deficit burn more cals then you consume)
Is the background music something you’ve created or from somewhere? It’s so mesmerizing… would love to listen to it. Great video as always my man. Stay wise
if you want to hear his background music search on youtube “God’s creation” by daniel.mp3 👍
As much as I tried to run away from it all, I am running right back to me and I need and choose me. Nothing and no one comes between, never and ever. I needed this. To all you wonderful people, gotta heal and life will reveal all that you need and all the good. All happens forever for the better, even when we feel too scared to tough through the storm of it all. Stay strong. 💛
I'm so glad I found this channel dawg, you've truly been an inspiration to me and you've honestly saved my life. I'm going through the toughest situation right now where I lost someone who I tricked myself into believing that I could fix her and turn into "The One". I've watched multiple other videos you made and it just feels like you my twin and that Gods sent me to this channel to be able to finally heal properly. Can you make a video on how you stopped enabling people to disrespect you, like those who only used you for validation when they weren't getting it from others. I'm glad to see you still blowing up, keep making great videos brother, you're saving a lot of lives!
Off topic but that phone case is so nice 😭
thank you😭I’m lowkey drove, I just got them and bought a new phone today … my charger port was irritating me and my storage was trash
This has me crying because it describes how I’m feeling. It’s really not living all
What I realized is you have to work on yourself and really get those that next level and attract a better partner, getting with someone when you haven’t made much progress isn’t gonna go well.
i really needed this. as i sat here, ate dinner, and watched this video i started to cry knowing what he says is true. i can’t heal until i stop getting in my own way. “Everyday is a battle but I refuse to lose.” thank you.
Honey, wake up. A new Shimon Davis video just dropped
Posted this video right when I got into a new low in life. Thank you brother, your words of wisdom are helping 🤝
I don't know what to say... the past few weeks and the year of constantly losing people... I needed to hear it... Thank You.
Especially being on Semen Retention i can affirm this message after i went on Semen Retention i became a better person
Man your videos and messages have meant so much to me man. I hurt deep down and never knew how to heal it. I carried it with me for 38 years and after watching your videos I was able to let it all go man. I can’t thank you enough my friend
Hey. I'm not sure how often you read comments, but if you do read this, I want to say thank you. This video, it's what I needed. I'm pretty young, 17, but tbh with you, it's been pretty rough, and this video along with a few of your others have been a huge wake up call. As of tonight, I'm going to take that time to heal, and I'm going to better myself!
Hi, thank you so much for all the motivation, you really help me
This video spoke to me so much. I felt this deep within my soul, and I really appreciate your spirit and that you made this video. I think in order for me to heal, I need to leave my partner of almost 4 years. I’m completely paralysed by the thought, but I need to heal. I need to heal and I’m unable to do it right now. I’m so tired of feeling this way, thank you for your words.
I get goosebumps EVERY TIME I watch your videos man, thank you
Damn. I cried while watching this, your words are so touching. Made me realize whats wrong, the fact i was holding back tears when u was saying these things. I love you bro ❤
i love this🧡 it's like talking to my subconscious self
thanks for this
The timing of this drop is way too perfect to be a coincidence
Most real video I’ve seen in an extremely long time.
thank you. You are one of the best in this space and you help me see either what I don't see or what I don't wanna admit I see
You really help me Shimon🌿
Each video you post calms my heart 🤍 ,and gives me motivation🌟
Thank you so much
Ily❤
your videos changes my life, keep going
your videos gave me tremendous comfort
bro you just speak to my soul its been a long time man i need this thanks a lot
Hey mann, Can you please make a video about self hatred/ hating ourselves, and in huge regret for something that weve done and how to deal with it, and feeling hopeless, alone, lost, uncomfortable, unmotivated and weak?
I lost a special someone and its because of me. Ive been going through it for a long time and just got rushed in the hospital because of the sudden pain in my stomach that was caused because of stress and depression. And for the past week ive been listening to your videos and is helping me alot. But do i still deserve to be happy for what ive done? Thankyou so much for your videos Shimon. ❤❤❤
My life has changed a lot recently, a lot of things that made me think about myself more. You're an amazing speaker man good luck with all your future endeavors.
Wow, im so glad i found your videos
first 15 seconds and i bursted out crying wtf😭
Not gonna lie, going through this myself rn. Just seems like if I don’t invite people out, they never reach out. On top of that, the times that I do reach out first, either they don’t respond, or they’re busy. Every time. And these are like, my 4 or 5 best, best friends. The people I can talk to and relate to. But now, it just seems like I’m an option. Never a priority.
I know I have to distance myself and focus on my goals, but I find it extremely hard to get the energy to do so, if every single weekend I just spend alone, checking my phone every 10-15 minutes to see if anybody bothered to reach out.
needed this video perfect thing to talk about for me
love the new hairstyle 💇 😂
10:12 listen up and be ready, folks. 100% truth.
Never live to be safe. It's not worth it.
W man right here. Keep going and never give up U help me change my life for the better.
thanks for uploading this.
Omggg he's back !! ❤
I need that thank you 🙏❤️
Thanks for uplouding. Great haircut btw
sorry I know this is off-topic but the fireplace ad completely cracked me up...🤣...modern life problems...LOL
You always post at the perfect time
Fr 😢
Thanks bro, nice video
New hair looks fire 🔥🔥
Amen baby.
Hey man, great videos.
Those last words...
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
Love this guy man
Thanks this guys 😌
Real..word!!
“You have wounds that are covered that are infected”
Whats the background song its in most of ur videos and i really like it.
Really needed to hear this, thank you
really need this right now
ty for the vid , Shimon! I definitely do deserve better :)
I came hear to quit porn. I quit my suffering. Thank you Shimon. Thank you.
Just right on time.
Great video! Thank you❤
appreciate brooo ! you can set the volume a bit louder next video 🙏 your voice's sticky
So chilling voice dude ❤
Goat
Hey Shimon, i'm a new viewer and discovered you literally today. I wanted to ask you a question on how you started youtube with this topic and maybe some tips for a young man like me. I have extreme problems with stuttering and motory tics in my face and neck and it makes my neck hurt all day. I wanted to start a youtube channel myself with some topic like you make but i can't bring myself to it because of the stuttering which is really bad. Do you have some tips what i could try?
Thank U but I'm gonna fly ❤
timing is crazy
thank you.
4:23 perfect comedy scene 😅
you bro i really want to know where you got that case from it’s so clean
Nice new cut bro
yoo bro can you do a guide on charisma or aura, thanks in advance if you notice
Hey man, where are u getting those epic necklaces from ? Great video btw, great work
Thanks
Mans voice makes me want to sleep
❤
I don't know if we're allowed to vent here or not so you sorry.
But I broke up with my boyfriend fir like over a year or so like a month ago because i just felt like it wasn't it anymore and i felt horrible at first and i still do, but we're like really good friends and i feel vad if i just let him go and block him, even though in sure it might help ne. Sometimes i forget but then he just has this bio that's like "shes my goddess or whatever" and then it just makes me feel worse and weird because like damn. You know? We broke up a month ago but he was with this girl i guess a week or two afterwards, idek what im going on about. But I'm tryin you know? But all these he wants me to see him and hang out abd stuff is just messing with my mind abd stuff but im too insecure too just say som cause in my mind it's just like "he doesn't care." Yeah. But i watch a lot of your videos and they really do help better than this therapist im seeing. I haven't told ber about my relationship yet so yeah. I hope you're doin well frfr. Sorry about any spelling mistakes as well.❤
Take care don't give up💪
Dans la vraie vie je pense qu’on serait ami
Can somebody give me the music name in the background ?
yo mn this might be weird but this girl I talk to. She is cool but she just got out of relationship and she proceeded to talk to me she initiated. But she talks about her ex on FaceTime and stuff and it throws me off n I find myself not wanting to talk about anything. She gets mad when she sees me with any other girl but she has a lot of male friends and I don’t make a big deal about it. She is still cool with her ex and rides home with him everyday and I be very distant and because of that I don’t knw what timing she is on. She made me meet her mom and all her family but her being cool with her ex and riding home with him makes my mind never at peace. I told her imma give her a hug in front of him and she said she don’t want him to get mad/jealous she says she doesn’t like him anymore and it’s a "live and forget" thing and that it’s jus frens, she calls me "her man" and shit but I don’t know if I should just slowly disappear and take my self out of it.
Yea man that’s not healthy. Why is she not ok with you hugging her cus it’ll make him mad, yet she’s totally ok disrespecting you by riding with him and stuff
@@alzgrex5304facts bro she is clearly not over the guy. bro you gotta stop kicking it w her for that peace of mind
@@alzgrex5304 and I asked her about it she said "I don’t want him to get mad because I want the ride" basically she scared he’s gonna get mad and not drive her. she claims she doesn’t like taking the bus in the evenings. Man it pisses me off cause she started talking to me. I was on my own sh*t before dis But this steady be on my mind now.
And at first I wasn’t evening f*ckin wit her bro but I still gave her the Benefit of the doubt. Sh*t gon drive me crazy gng.
@@IPsnQsI leave her asap brother.
Where’s the phone case from?
Does anyone know what the background music is??
4:22- hahahahaha
4:28 😭😹😭😭😹