For anyone going through a heartbreak right now. Ask for help, feel the support of your family and friends, be active, try to eat, take time out if you need to, seek professional help and when you wake up at 2am and can't get back to sleep, know I'm awake with you. We can get through this, I know we haven't met but I'm walking that road with you and we can see it through till the light starts to shine again xxx
For anyone that needs to here it, every next person I meet and end up dating ends up being lightyears more amazing. Relationships are teachers, keep going knowing for sure that the best is 100% yet to come! Take care.
When I went through my divorce, a friend suggested to me to do at least one kind thing for myself each day. Everyday I woke up and asked myself, “what am I going to do for myself today?” Whether it was lunch with a friend, a hike or massage, it gave me back just a bit of control when I felt completely out of control with shock and pain.
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
It's been a month since the biggest pain i've been through in my life. And I came back to this video to say to you all that are going through this: IT DOES GET BETTER. KEEP HANGING THERE. And as a Tip, I would say that the single most helpful thing that I have done to get better is to WORK ON YOURSELF, daily, nonstop. Good luck you all, you got this.
Feelings really do change. When you are going through it you think the pain will never end, but it does. Just give it time because feelings really do change.
I really hope so. I keep thinking my feelings will stay the same as they just get stronger in time. I’m holding out hope they change and go away. It’s so scary
Found this due to my 20 year relationship ending. I cant put into words how awful this feels but I know one day I’ll see my way through, but right now it feels endless and totally hopeless. Here’s to my heartbroken friends out there feeling the same way.
@@chrisjudd743 I'm sure you are🙌💯🔥 Keep moving forward my friend ♥️ I've been through heartbreak too. It will get better. Someday You won't believe that you've been so hurt. You will heal one hundred percent if you keep moving forward and work on yourself.
Same here wit my ex of 10 years we have 2 kids and it's really painful I just wish I can heal and not feel this pain anymore IT SUCKS!! 😔 while she is happy without me and living her life I'm just miserable each day I just want it to stop already idk what to do 😔
The quote “ I’m more valuable to people because of my heartbreak” hit me so hard. My heart hurts so much right now. But I need to make sure the other parts of myself are taken care of. Eating well, taking walks, writing, listening to music, playing guitar, getting support and remembering everyday( or at least telling myself) I will heal. I will heal. I will heal!!!
You are a strong woman. I met a guy online and knew him only a brief time. But, the way I felt about him was like "where have you been all my life?" The worst part of the betrayal was being conned into giving money to him under false information. This is what is so hurtful. How do you heal from being deceived and manipulated? I really want to go on with my life and not think about this man anymore. Life has to get better for me. I'm sick and tired of being taken advantage of by cruel people. thank you for any advice you guys out there. much love. 🙏💕
@@tana5098 Tana, I can feel you. Its hard to deal. Manipulation deceiving can be felt worst at times. But Remember, Your life is Precious. And Your Heart is the one that is you. The Heartbreak you had will heal and will find its way to pour into another heart that will truly value you. Remain strong and that is precious. It's been 3 months and I hope you are working on loving yourself and your heart is reflecting with being precious. Remember reflection of the heart of you resembles that you are being one. And being you is precious. Be happy. I hope your reflection inside the heart will pour that will give you comfort and you will share your love reaching out to the deserving and those who can value your reflection.
@@irfanmojumder6347 thank you Irfan for saying such kind words. I'm doing much better and starting to reach out again to others. But, I'm not quite ready to love again. Now, all I want is good friendships with men and women, and remain cautious in getting to know others. As they say, people show you who they are by their actions, not their words. Being the trusting woman that I am means that I have to protect my heart and go slow. Otherwise, I get mistreated and end up falling apart. I'm an empath, so I'm a caring person who goes out of my way to help others. Bless you for the thoughtful reply. It was so appreciated. 🙏🌷🌷⛪️
My advice for anyone experiencing heartbreak is to keep on walking. I know the pain is too much but I promise you that one day it will hurt no more and you will see how it made you stronger because it will.
can we talk about the heartbreak you get from someone you were never even dating. I feel like those are equally as painful even though you were never "official"
My story for sure. It just hurts that we planned our life together but PAST TRAUMAS & the Need for PERSONAL HEALING has set us apart and left me heart broken
True, but it also hurts like hell when it wasn’t mutual and the other person ends it and you wonder when the heck they checked out and you had no idea.
@@caitlincurtis960 this is so true in my situation I have so much left to say but I know they wouldn’t care as much as I ever did so why even try right
I hope everyone who commented about their heartbreaking experience a year ago are smiling today. I'm going through this pain right now but imagining someone who went through this is doing great now is giving me strength. I hope me a year from now will be someone better and happy. I can do this.
Same here. The coming year will change us, but we'll emerge stronger because of the heartbreak. I'm actually eager to see what the universe has waiting for me.
This sounds a mad thing to say but being heartbroken has actually been good for me, it's like I have the energy force inside me that wants to change who I am, can anyone relate?
@My Life with Guitar I am from United States, I was in a relationship with Johnson Paul and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 9years and everything was going on smoothly but February 10’th 2020 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a data but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and Favour in any of her endeavors but at first I was scared I have to give this man a trial because I love Johnson Paul very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this greats spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and caring heart....I am testifying to this great spell caster Dr osekhametalor you are the greatest man in this world and you mean so much to me your are the best spell caster that I have ever hear off In all forum contact this man via this WhatsApp +2348157912412 if you really need to get your problems solve message him now
You have to focus on yourself and know this person is not for you for a lifetime. You are enough and time will heal. You are not stuck only if you choose to be stuck. You were doing everything for yourself before you met this person so you will be ok again. You learned something about yourself with each person so you don't make the same mistakes and know what you don't want.
i needed this so badly, thank you sooo much. Emotions change, hair grows, things get better. its been 4 months and i have tried to self help soo much , had so many distractions and honestly thought i was getting better till i woke up today and instantly began to cry bc i remembered him. ughh sooo hard thank you matthew
@@thanyawells8141 Mr osekhametalor is actually a great man who help me Restore my Broken relationship and I Thank god he was able to restore my ex wife back I am very happy now you can get in touch with him
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I think part of that healing journey also includes forgiveness. You can't be getting angry or trying to get revenge because that just makes it harder on you. Also don't contact your ex ever
Totally agree. Go no contact. Don't try to find out what he's doing or who he's seeing. It'll hurt even more. Also for those who didn't get closure from the other person, give yourself closure. Dated a guy for a few months and he was avoidant and scared of commitment so when he ended things, it was so abrupt and he just walked out of my house and didn't even bother to look at me in the face. I sent a closure text few days later to get all the stuff I have left unsaid to him as a closure for myself. He just thanked me for the last message and hope I'm doing well after 2 days. Sounds shallow, but that's him....he probably just sent that reply 'cause he felt guilty for leaving me in tears that day. Been a month since things ended and I'm slowly getting better.
@@Enchanteralle I couldn’t help it I contacted him. For my closure. We were dating and I ended things because I couldn’t deal with not being a priority. I think I had some issues.
@@Slimness33 well it is hard to go no contact. Sometimes it takes multiple attempts, but giving yourself space and time may get better and easier over time. I hope you got to say everything in the closure. It also helps to remember the feeling that he did not prioritize you, so it will bring you back to your decision to part ways.
@@gw2210 sorry to hear that. When I sent my closure text, I really did not expect any response. It was for me. If he did not reply, just remember that he is a coward for not even having the courtesy to show respect. It shows that this is his pattern if you do continue the relationship with him and you deserve better. Take care!
Time doesn’t heal wounds, it just allows you to find the right bandage, things will only change if you do something about it, sitting and waiting won't really help you
I just had this epiphany last night. Time does not heal wounds. It suppresses them. You have to do the work internally to shift patterns, behaviour and emotions.
Do you need instant help I recommend you to (Dr Wilson) he help me restore my broken relationship back to normal he can also render help to you too 💝💝💝💝💘💘💘
In my last relationship I lost myself. He was a narcissist. He was emotionally brutal mentally destructive. I'm starting to finally find myself again. I realize. I'm am a good person I'm fun to be around. I'm very caring and very strong. So after me meeting ME again the next person is going to have competition. Not with other men,but with myself they need to show me and make me see that ANY time I take away from ME needs to be obvious and true. I'm not going to have anyone who loves me less than I do ever again. I've wasted all the time I'm willing to waste. Good luck guys ..
Hey. Wondering if you’d be willing to privately message me (either on here or another platform). I’m basically going through the exact same thing right now… it’s been about 3 weeks. I feel like I’m drowning.
Hi, witnessing a heart break is so traumatizing. My heart break is me losing my wife and my daughter in a car accident and it’s been a traumatized moment of my life. It’s would be a pleasure to know you better. You can send me an email or add me on hangout on Tjohnkleppenger@gmail.com thank you.
A season of heartbreak is also a good time to invest in friends and family(your other relationships). Sometimes these relationships slide when you have a boyfriend(or girlfriend), but they are critical. Spending time with those who know you best really helps.
I am from United States, I was in a relationship with Johnson Paul and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 9years and everything was going on smoothly but February 10’th 2020 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a data but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and Favour in any of her endeavors but at first I was scared I have to give this man a trial because I love Johnson Paul very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this greats spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and caring heart....I am testifying to this great spell caster Dr osekhametalor you are the greatest man in this world and you mean so much to me your are the best spell caster that I have ever hear off In all forum contact this man via this WhatsApp +2347026399847 if you really need to get your problems solve message him now
Hi, witnessing a heart break is so traumatizing. My heart break is me losing my wife and my daughter in a car accident and it’s been a traumatized moment of my life. It’s would be a pleasure to know you better. You can send me an email or add me on hangout on Tjohnkleppenger@gmail.com thank you.
Emotions change.. that’s SO true. I am currently going through the awfulness after a break up and I do feel like when I see him with someone new I won’t survive it… BUT my previous boyfriend is now married with 2 kids and when I see them I am OK. 5 years ago, that would’ve sent me into a downward spiral, but not now. So please do remember the emotions change. And we all get through It eventually with patience and self kindness x
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me out of the blue. I had brought up moving in together the next year and he said 'sometimes I see us living together now and other times I get scared' then a couple days later broke up with me and said 'I'm just not the one' and we haven't talked since. It has been 5 months. Truly know what it feels like to be heartbroken
Kinda same story - 10 years about to get engaged- he said “ I have things he can’t live with” ( to him I’m less confident) then blocked me - that easy he washed 10years ... friends tell me I will get through this but I guess I won’t
I just had a break up that felt like I was dying. It was a very long relationship. I have been allowing myself to go through the emotions. I never heard of you until this past Saturday. Your videos and what you say have tremendously helped me. I am a week fresh since the break up and still crying like a baby, but I feel that I am getting through it. I've been through other break ups, but man, this one takes the cake. I want to spend time alone and just do me and my things and create a new Tyson so that I am better for the next person that I allow into my life when I am ready. I am truly heartbroken. I know that this is going to take awhile to heal, but I know that I need to heal myself and work on me before I can move on. I think that just doing me and healing me and spending time with me is the best thing right now. Thank you, Matt
Tyson, Tyson, May the Lord gives you the strength, courage and love to help you go through your mourning. Because, we know, it’s like somebody died… eventually, you’ll get over it, in due time , with Gods help. Blessings
I feel you Tyson I'm on the same road as you and it does feel like you're dying I cry like a baby everyday tooo it just feels so unbearable 💔 I hope we all heal soon 🙏
I've been on this journey for already 10 months. We broke up after a 4-year relationship and engagement. I made a huge mistake, apologized, but he didn't want to listen to anything and was only caring about getting revenge. A lot of hurtful words and actions were said and done, we got in contact every now and then by his initiative, finally the old wounds got reopened and the last conversation a few days ago was a point of no return. We used to be on speaking terms, now we have blocked each other and there is no way to apologize or forgive anymore. I feel like part of me has died. The connection was so strong - the strongest one for us both, we were true soulmates. But the person whom I spoke with after the break up was a different person, not the one I knew. It's difficult to accept, I don't know how to fill the void. They say time heals. This is now the only thing I can hold on to. It's been the most challenging time of my entire life and it still continues
well timed for me. Yesterday I said to a guy I had been seeing for 3 months that I was looking for something more than casual dating. "So if you are not that guy, I need to walk". He let me. Thank you for all previous videos that saved me from staying with this guy and falling harder, and making the breakup worse later on.
I'm having a difficult time getting over how attractive my ex was. I considered her the most beautiful person. However, she stressed me out so much, her mental health was not in a good spot, she didn't love herself. However, I need to realize that love is greater than attraction. I would rather be with someone that makes me happy than someone who is drop dead gorgeous. It's not all about what they look like, but how they make you feel. I'm practicing to make it perfectly clear in my head.
Hi, get help from Dr Steve who can make your ex come back to you begging for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
A lot of us focus on 'what's the best way to heal!' When really we need to be like 'How do I give the space to heal'. We have to remember that time heals emotional pain, not being angry at other people or getting under someone else. It's OK to hurt, that makes you human. Remember space and time is important to move on. Always a fan, an inspiration for me and my content Matt. Legend.
I'm absolutely devastated right now I can't imagine loving anyone else as much as I loved him. I loved every thing about him. I hope this changes like you said.
I needed to hear this. Absolutely makes sense and perfect timing. I think sometimes we don’t realize that the tough times is an opportunity for transitioning and evolving into the person that is really meant for us to be. We will recover.
Hi, I recommend you to (Dr Steve). He can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance, ever since he helped me, I have b e e n enjoying a perfect Relationship with my ex. I will advice you seek his help thanks.
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I do agree with Matthew! And to all that are going through this right now - it shall also pass!! Couple of months ago I had one of the 'worst breakups ever' or at least I thought so at that moment.. Watched all Matthew's video about brake ups and I really did move on with his help. Now I do hope, from the bottom of my heart, that this experience will teach me how to handle those situations in the future.. That it shall also pass. 🧡
Hi, witnessing a heart break is so traumatizing. My heart break is me losing my wife and my daughter in a car accident and it’s been a traumatized moment of my life. It’s would be a pleasure to know you better. You can send me an email or add me on hangout on Tjohnkleppenger@gmail.com thank you.
Hey so true thats sweet. Ive never met anyone I thought I'd want to stay with hes been the only one although I've had long relationships they all seemed in the now.
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
Going through a traumatic breakup. Namely because it slammed me out of nowhere......and when I was down she decided to apply more pressure. I still feel like I'm missing pieces of the puzzle. Answers I may never get. Things change. Emotions , people , life. I'm going for professional help because I still feel through no concious intention I let my past ruin my present. I won't be letting that happen anymore. I need to be better but I also for once need to take care of myself.
I needed to do this.. Remind myself of how horrible my husband was.. The beginning of a breakup makes you feel like you've lost a big thing, you romanticize things and then eventually realize that you aren't mourning the relationship you had rather the one you had hoped to have... Everytime I get lonely, I remember how much worse it was to feel lonely during a marriage, with someone right there.
My breakup was a total surprise to me…we were always holding hands and speaking kindly to each other. He is terminally I’ll and suddenly decided to cut me out of his life…I am heartbroken, and blindsided.
For anyone here going through the heartbreak 💔 following a breakup: I feel you! Remember that you are enough, you are worthy, you are loved. You will love and be loved again. Like most things it will pass and until then I send you hugs and much love ❤️
Just recently went through a break up with a girl I been with for 5 years, we were able to leave on good terms, but Ik it will be rough but over time I can look back at our memories and appreciate it. Ik we will both be ok over time and will a lot from our relationship. Time for me to improve myself and focus on my business 💪
Same recently went through it and going through a heartbreak, we also ended on good terms and it's tough for both of us but it's going to be alright. Time heals
I know that I'm better off without this person. I know that feelings will change and that it won't stay the same. But it's been a year and a half of this painful process of divorcing with the person who used to be my best friend. I'm tired of waking up from my nightmares into the nightmare of reality. I just want to stop feeling sad, and move on. It's a neverending sadness. I want it to go away.
so, for the first time I am liberated and was able to spot a gas lighter and I cut the long distance relationship with pride and dignity to myself! So keep making these videos because no man is worth yourself respect if he can't support you in the need to go slow in a relationship! Gratitude for the hard lessons I have learned in the past ten years. I still hope to find a good man, and I refuse to give up, but I am taking a break from online dating! Too many scammers...I love myself more way too much to be needy and to allow a man to be unemotional unavailable! thanks again! Ladies, it takes a lot of work on yourself to get to this point. Don't let anyone or man steel your power!!!
Hi, witnessing a heart break is so traumatizing. My heart break is me losing my wife and my daughter in a car accident and it’s been a traumatized moment of my life. It’s would be a pleasure to know you better. You can send me an email or add me on hangout on Tjohnkleppenger@gmail.com thank you.
Let go or be dragged. I’m currently in pieces but I’ve been down this road before and I’m not making the same mistakes I did last time. I’m absolutely broken, but hanging on to what isn’t there is the absolute worst thing I can do
'Emotions Change'.....truly sounds like a message from our creator given to you 'Matthew' to give to us....your humble viewers 🧚♀️I have those words on repeat ATM....for hope.....to feel better soon 🕊
I'm pregnant with my exes baby and the heartbreak is just so intense. I am feeling so hopeless. I'm in a tough period but it's good to know that these emotions won't always be here.
I am in the same spot right now, 7 weeks and he has left. People at work look at me like crazy. I really hope my emotions change, and that I feel better eventually. How are you? Are you feeling better?
Same and he’s been hanging out with his ex. Told me the day we broke up, “you’re not Sabrina. You will never be Sabrina”sucks knowing shell probably be my kids step mom
Time is what heals and there’s no way to speed through it. It’s a loss and it’s grieving. I just went through an awful heartbeat. My only advice would be to do everything you can to stay busy with your life throughout it. Unfortunately we have to endure that pain, but we definitely come out much stronger on the other side.
I realized this video was posted the week he broke me into pieces, today i was thinking about the pain I'm still in and all I can say is, thank you, I needed this video and this two words ✨✨✨✨✨
I cant explain.... Im literally crying.... Your video just gave me a little twinkle of hope in that dark black hole tunnel that I was going through... I was heartbroken because of my family behavior but now I'm feeling much better and know how to get through this.... Im so blessed to have such a great mentor in my life.... Your existence in this World is Miracle itself. A lots of prayer for you.... Thank you sooo much.. MAY GOD BLESS You ❤️🙏🙏
Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
Going through a breakup now actually revealed the tools for me to start working on other parts of my past that are hurting. I’ve been depressed for 12 years and and my ex told me to seek help and work on myself quite often but I felt I didn’t have to. The breakup had me in tatters, but I couldn’t lie down. I HAD TO work my way through it. I don’t know if this is common with people who begin to transcend depression, that it’s like a second puberty. I didn’t really feel secure in myself up until now. I used to have libido problems and sex didn’t feel like anything to me. But it’s now three weeks into the breakup and I’m stronger than ever. My voice got deeper, my testicles and penis got heavier, I got more assertive, way more energetic, and I started to really appreciate the masculine men around me. It’s really a transforming force of nature, if you decide to take it on. I feel like I can punch a dragon down through the core of the earth. I became a man, and I’m grateful. Doesn’t stop me from crying sometimes. But yeah, it reveals how cool the healing process can be. Stay in there, my friend! Push through, become something beautiful.
Thanks Matthew. I needed this. Identified with everything. I want him to see how much he's hurt me while he's out being blinded by another female and acting like he never knew me. I cannot even describe the pain. It doesn't feel like it's going to pass at all right now but what you guys said is encouraging. The words gym, party and self help are not appealing right now at all but I like the word gentle 😢😢 thank you 😊
I realised this during a recent breakup. I felt terrible, but when I looked at a photo of my son and I laughing, it reminded me that it won’t always feel that way. But I knew I had to engage with, process and feel the loss. I feel miles better now, just a couple of weeks later.
Let me give you an apt feeling how being heartbroken looks like: looks like you are in the middle of a deep dark unending tunnel. All that you had already left at the entry and you don't know how long before you could see the light at the end of the tunnel, by the time your eyes used to the dark.
Hi, witnessing a heart break is so traumatizing. My heart break is me losing my wife and my daughter in a car accident and it’s been a traumatized moment of my life. It’s would be a pleasure to know you better. You can send me an email or add me on hangout on Tjohnkleppenger@gmail.com thank you.
My feelings changed within days. The betrayal was so spectacular, that I can never love him again. It's like a love homicide. -- he killed it for me. I'll never love him again, have respect for him, hold him in high regard, or any regard. Now, it's just an echo of the love I had for him. The colossal struggle is desperately trying to regain my equilibrium after being sucker-punched with the betrayal. Trying to stop blaming myself, stop telling myself I failed miserably in reading this other person, when I always excelled at observing and considering another's intentions, etc. Can't sleep, eat, and am wreck.
Mamzie May, I’m so sad for you. You have been put through the wringer! I pray and plead to our Lord to give you consolation, and the strength to continue on with the hope that this shall also pass, and that His grace cover you with love and kindness, to heal fast and complete recovery from your pain. The Lord is good, all the time. Blessings from above.
I love the direction this conversation takes. The utter devastation of a blindside-breakup with an intensely avoidant, vulnerably narcissistic type led, over weeks, to a determination to view absolutely everything I have ever experienced, thought, felt, or done as a gift, and as things to CELEBRATE. Without them, I wouldn’t be exactly who I am in this minute; I realized that who I am right now is preferable to any other version of myself I might have been with different experiences. That was the grounding of a healing program I’m trying that goes beyond the loss of the relationship itself. Thanks for this video-everything that happens is the raw material available to us to change the lens entirely. Everything might just be a gift 😉
I broke it off however, I am the one that allowed the behavior in the first place. I'm am sad about the ending but thankful I stopped things before we became even more attached. Recognizing both of us were not ready was a gift I learned from my last heartbreak, the pain is valuable in learning. Thankful for the lesson and for the self love to get through this!
That was just so wholesome. Love you two guys! And it helped me this morning. Just 2 weeks since the break up. I'm giving myself the space to heal while continuing with the other projects I started before the relationship. Having a well-rounded life is essential!
I think this ties in really well to another video Matthew Hussey did -- about gaining confidence and getting over your insecurities. You have to make sure that you have other strong legs to stand on, so even if one leg of the table goes out, you will stay standing. Heartbreak is like an injury or like several of those legs breaking. But you have to keep building up and supporting the other "legs" of your life if you don't want to collapse.
@My Life with Guitar I am from United States, I was in a relationship with Johnson Paul and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 9years and everything was going on smoothly but February 10’th 2020 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a data but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and Favour in any of her endeavors but at first I was scared I have to give this man a trial because I love Johnson Paul very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this greats spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and caring heart....I am testifying to this great spell caster Dr osekhametalor you are the greatest man in this world and you mean so much to me your are the best spell caster that I have ever hear off In all forum contact this man via this WhatsApp +2348157912412 if you really need to get your problems solve message him now
My thoughts went to, "people grow". Growth is highly important to me in my life. And Sometimes it feels like emotions won't change even if reality is they will.
Ending a 23 year marriage...so painful. Hate feeling so down and sad all the time. Hard to imagine feeling happy again. Good to have a reminder that these emotions will change.
People I was going through a break up that was so bad...I wanted to die! 6 month later I still felt low and grieved. 9 month later Im still grieving but it gets better. It gets better. Emotions change
Hi, witnessing a heart break is so traumatizing. My heart break is me losing my wife and my daughter in a car accident and it’s been a traumatized moment of my life. It’s would be a pleasure to know you better. You can send me an email or add me on hangout on Tjohnkleppenger@gmail.com thank you.
Woke up in the middle of the night, it physically hurts.. we broke up yesterday and I know the upcoming weeks/months will feel like going through hell. I hope when I come back to this my emotion has indeed changed
Same happened to me yesterday. I woke up exactly on each hour for the toilet. I thank god I slept between times. I had been married to a narc previously for 30 years which had been hell since the start. Then I left and started dating after 2 years. Then met who I thought was so aligned. We didn’t have barely a cross word in 13 months and did things together, met his family. I thought we’d be together for many more years.
Even though this video is 3 years old, it's always amazing how I manage to accidentally stumble upon the right video that I need to hear at the exact moment that I hear it! 😊❤
Its been 7 straight months of hanging on and waiting for the emotion to change. Im still stuck. Every day I live life with one foot here and one foot out. If my pain doesn't let up, I won't survive it
@My Life with Guitar I am from United States, I was in a relationship with Johnson Paul and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 9years and everything was going on smoothly but February 10’th 2020 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a data but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and Favour in any of her endeavors but at first I was scared I have to give this man a trial because I love Johnson Paul very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this greats spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and caring heart....I am testifying to this great spell caster Dr osekhametalor you are the greatest man in this world and you mean so much to me your are the best spell caster that I have ever hear off In all forum contact this man via this WhatsApp +2348157912412 if you really need to get your problems solve message him now
Motion changes emotion. Don't wait to feel better, just get moving. I know that's not easy nowadays but you can take small steps. Start to exercise and talk to different people. Do what you can to move in every way. Hair grows.
I have found someone better.. and loving every moment of it.. I have moved on and everyday my mind is filled with this new love. My ex is still watching all my social stories. I have no feelings for him anymore.
seeing someone be intimate with a girl u really were interested in is one of the most messiest feelings ever .and that black fog that makes you feel like its not gonna go away it seems like ill need a miracle to get through this
@@vivannag I am so sorry to hear this, dear. Sending you virtual hugs 🤗 I made this comment 2 months ago when I went through one of the worst times in my life but let me tell you right now it’s still very hard and I struggle daily but it gets better and better. I still have some bad days when I lie in bed all day and cry but they get less and less. I think the past 2 months have shown me that I can get through this. It will surely take its time but I will get fully over it. And at least I am not spending my life with the wrong person anymore.
Most effective way to heal!! He is on the point, and it is true about face it and accept it, take time to think it and allow it to happen. A lot of people say keep busy, but you still can think about it, and feel sad about end of the day. Fix the root of the problem is the solution. Love this video!
@My Life with Guitar I am from United States, I was in a relationship with Johnson Paul and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 9years and everything was going on smoothly but February 10’th 2020 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a data but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and Favour in any of her endeavors but at first I was scared I have to give this man a trial because I love Johnson Paul very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this greats spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and caring heart....I am testifying to this great spell caster Dr osekhametalor you are the greatest man in this world and you mean so much to me your are the best spell caster that I have ever hear off In all forum contact this man via this WhatsApp +2348157912412 if you really need to get your problems solve message him now
I think the hardest part is, wanting to take a break for your mental health but you have so many things going on from having school assignments, work, outings etc. It is so hard to focus on other things while you’re breaking on the inside
Hi, witnessing a heart break is so traumatizing. My heart break is me losing my wife and my daughter in a car accident and it’s been a traumatized moment of my life. It’s would be a pleasure to know you better. You can send me an email or add me on hangout on Tjohnkleppenger@gmail.com thank you.
Yes I agree with Matt give yourself time to heal it’s a normal process and as time goes by cry if you need whatever helps but as days go by with ups and does you will get over this pain
For anyone going through a heartbreak right now. Ask for help, feel the support of your family and friends, be active, try to eat, take time out if you need to, seek professional help and when you wake up at 2am and can't get back to sleep, know I'm awake with you. We can get through this, I know we haven't met but I'm walking that road with you and we can see it through till the light starts to shine again xxx
Nice of u to say. Thank u. Best wishes...
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Going through it right now 😭 we were together for 16 years 💔
Thank you
Thank you
For anyone that needs to here it, every next person I meet and end up dating ends up being lightyears more amazing. Relationships are teachers, keep going knowing for sure that the best is 100% yet to come! Take care.
Dumpers are saying the same thing unfortunately
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When I went through my divorce, a friend suggested to me to do at least one kind thing for myself each day. Everyday I woke up and asked myself, “what am I going to do for myself today?” Whether it was lunch with a friend, a hike or massage, it gave me back just a bit of control when I felt completely out of control with shock and pain.
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I’m going thru a break up .. how you been holding up any new tricks moving forward you learned ? I just need help I’m hurting
If you’re going through a breakup Let me tell you that everything is going to be alright without that person. Love yourself.!! ❤️
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
Wh'stapp him
Yeah well when you meet your soulmate twin flame - yourself can be amazing but you will never be the same.
You were right thanks for the support
Thank you ❤
It's been a month since the biggest pain i've been through in my life. And I came back to this video to say to you all that are going through this: IT DOES GET BETTER. KEEP HANGING THERE. And as a Tip, I would say that the single most helpful thing that I have done to get better is to WORK ON YOURSELF, daily, nonstop. Good luck you all, you got this.
Only a month?
Have they got back too.? I believe when you get over they always come back
I'm in my 2nd week of heartbreak. Glad there is better view at 1. Month mark!
Thank you. Needed these kind words. You are correct and my heart will feel that soon. Head knows.
Feelings really do change. When you are going through it you think the pain will never end, but it does. Just give it time because feelings really do change.
I really hope so. I keep thinking my feelings will stay the same as they just get stronger in time. I’m holding out hope they change and go away. It’s so scary
I think you just saved my life man… honestly.
@@scott8908 how are you doing?
Found this due to my 20 year relationship ending. I cant put into words how awful this feels but I know one day I’ll see my way through, but right now it feels endless and totally hopeless. Here’s to my heartbroken friends out there feeling the same way.
I hope you are better now❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💋💋
Thank you, I am getting there :)
@@chrisjudd743 I'm sure you are🙌💯🔥
Keep moving forward my friend ♥️ I've been through heartbreak too. It will get better. Someday You won't believe that you've been so hurt. You will heal one hundred percent if you keep moving forward and work on yourself.
Same here wit my ex of 10 years we have 2 kids and it's really painful I just wish I can heal and not feel this pain anymore IT SUCKS!! 😔 while she is happy without me and living her life I'm just miserable each day I just want it to stop already idk what to do 😔
The quote “ I’m more valuable to people because of my heartbreak” hit me so hard. My heart hurts so much right now. But I need to make sure the other parts of myself are taken care of. Eating well, taking walks, writing, listening to music, playing guitar, getting support and remembering everyday( or at least telling myself) I will heal. I will heal. I will heal!!!
I can’t eat. I’m losing weight and it’s not good. I’m starving but I can’t eat.
You are a strong woman. I met a guy online and knew him only a brief time. But, the way I felt about him was like "where have you been all my life?" The worst part of the betrayal was being conned into giving money to him under false information. This is what is so hurtful. How do you heal from being deceived and manipulated? I really want to go on with my life and not think about this man anymore. Life has to get better for me. I'm sick and tired of being taken advantage of by cruel people. thank you for any advice you guys out there. much love. 🙏💕
@@tana5098 Tana, I can feel you. Its hard to deal. Manipulation deceiving can be felt worst at times.
But Remember, Your life is Precious. And Your Heart is the one that is you.
The Heartbreak you had will heal and will find its way to pour into another heart that will truly value you.
Remain strong and that is precious.
It's been 3 months and I hope you are working on loving yourself and your heart is reflecting with being precious.
Remember reflection of the heart of you resembles that you are being one.
And being you is precious.
Be happy.
I hope your reflection inside the heart will pour that will give you comfort and you will share your love reaching out to the deserving and those who can value your reflection.
@@irfanmojumder6347 thank you Irfan for saying such kind words. I'm doing much better and starting to reach out again to others. But, I'm not quite ready to love again. Now, all I want is good friendships with men and women, and remain cautious in getting to know others. As they say, people show you who they are by their actions, not their words. Being the trusting woman that I am means that I have to protect my heart and go slow. Otherwise, I get mistreated and end up falling apart. I'm an empath, so I'm a caring person who goes out of my way to help others. Bless you for the thoughtful reply. It was so appreciated. 🙏🌷🌷⛪️
Did you heal?
My advice for anyone experiencing heartbreak is to keep on walking. I know the pain is too much but I promise you that one day it will hurt no more and you will see how it made you stronger because it will.
My good people. Let those who left you be gone. Find someone new!!
❤thanks for your words. Needed at this time.
can we talk about the heartbreak you get from someone you were never even dating. I feel like those are equally as painful even though you were never "official"
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Yes😭😭😭
@@MandyAliens I’m going through this now sigh
@@gee14 honestly it’s super painful and it takes a while for me to get over them
Omg yes!!!!!!!!
Heartbreak hits different when you both have strong feelings for each other and you break up because of circumstance
it's the situation I'm in, and I don't know what to do 😔😔
heartbreak also hits hard albeit in a different way when there's an 'overlap' of seeing people from their direction
My story for sure. It just hurts that we planned our life together but PAST TRAUMAS & the Need for PERSONAL HEALING has set us apart and left me heart broken
True, but it also hurts like hell when it wasn’t mutual and the other person ends it and you wonder when the heck they checked out and you had no idea.
@@caitlincurtis960 this is so true in my situation I have so much left to say but I know they wouldn’t care as much as I ever did so why even try right
I hope everyone who commented about their heartbreaking experience a year ago are smiling today. I'm going through this pain right now but imagining someone who went through this is doing great now is giving me strength. I hope me a year from now will be someone better and happy. I can do this.
Same here. The coming year will change us, but we'll emerge stronger because of the heartbreak.
I'm actually eager to see what the universe has waiting for me.
@@secheclare Thank you for your reply. I'm sorry for your pain but I feel hopeful about your attitude toward your future😊🙏✨
Can’t believe,I am going through again🥹😳in my older years!It is so painful!😤A second narcissist I have to exit from my life!Maybe I am a idiot 🤔😳
@@floricadunca6909 Oh no🥺But I'm a bit relieved that I can sense an anger in your tone...anger is always better than depression🥺
@@sophiay6708 Thank you😘I am optimistic I will be ok,no depression 🤔Will love me the first.Wish you a happy life 👍🌹
This sounds a mad thing to say but being heartbroken has actually been good for me, it's like I have the energy force inside me that wants to change who I am, can anyone relate?
Yeah I relate to this.. its a weird motivation but it makes you look at yourself so much more
Yes me! Growing up is painful! But better times are ahead for all of us! 👏👏👏👏👌👌👌😙😙😙
@@gabrielaraimondo2430 I honestly never experience pain like this break up im in. But a chance to truly work on myself.
Yes, i feel that i rediscoverd myself after the break up, i feel that i can finally be a person that i truly love
Yes!
Hearing those words "hair grows" instantly made me feel better, literally. It reassures you that there is hope and love can come your way.
@My Life with Guitar I am from United States, I was in a relationship with Johnson Paul and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 9years and everything was going on smoothly but February 10’th 2020 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a data but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and Favour in any of her endeavors but at first I was scared I have to give this man a trial because I love Johnson Paul very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this greats spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and caring heart....I am testifying to this great spell caster Dr osekhametalor you are the greatest man in this world and you mean so much to me your are the best spell caster that I have ever hear off In all forum contact this man via this WhatsApp +2348157912412 if you really need to get your problems solve message him now
Thank you for the great analogy. I really needed this today as I just got told goodbye
@@chicagodancer53 sorry to hear, feel better. Everything happens for a reason.
And that the pain and heartbreak is temporary
You have to focus on yourself and know this person is not for you for a lifetime. You are enough and time will heal. You are not stuck only if you choose to be stuck. You were doing everything for yourself before you met this person so you will be ok again. You learned something about yourself with each person so you don't make the same mistakes and know what you don't want.
Thanks for this!
i needed this so badly, thank you sooo much. Emotions change, hair grows, things get better. its been 4 months and i have tried to self help soo much , had so many distractions and honestly thought i was getting better till i woke up today and instantly began to cry bc i remembered him. ughh sooo hard thank you matthew
I understand. :(
It's been 6 months and some days I think I'm better and some days I feel like I've made no progress at all. :(
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1st Take:
"My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier."
Yours sincerely,
Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook
2nd Take:
“My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.”
Decently yours,
Cardi B.
My Humble Take:
What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way.
*Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous
*The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi
*The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar
*The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell
*The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis
*Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe
*Men on Strike* by Helen Smith
Proverbs 31:3
Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.
Isaiah 3:12
*Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road.
I think part of that healing journey also includes forgiveness. You can't be getting angry or trying to get revenge because that just makes it harder on you. Also don't contact your ex ever
Totally agree. Go no contact. Don't try to find out what he's doing or who he's seeing. It'll hurt even more. Also for those who didn't get closure from the other person, give yourself closure. Dated a guy for a few months and he was avoidant and scared of commitment so when he ended things, it was so abrupt and he just walked out of my house and didn't even bother to look at me in the face. I sent a closure text few days later to get all the stuff I have left unsaid to him as a closure for myself. He just thanked me for the last message and hope I'm doing well after 2 days. Sounds shallow, but that's him....he probably just sent that reply 'cause he felt guilty for leaving me in tears that day. Been a month since things ended and I'm slowly getting better.
@@Enchanteralle I couldn’t help it I contacted him. For my closure. We were dating and I ended things because I couldn’t deal with not being a priority. I think I had some issues.
@@Slimness33 well it is hard to go no contact. Sometimes it takes multiple attempts, but giving yourself space and time may get better and easier over time. I hope you got to say everything in the closure. It also helps to remember the feeling that he did not prioritize you, so it will bring you back to your decision to part ways.
@@Enchanteralle I did the same but got no reply
@@gw2210 sorry to hear that. When I sent my closure text, I really did not expect any response. It was for me. If he did not reply, just remember that he is a coward for not even having the courtesy to show respect. It shows that this is his pattern if you do continue the relationship with him and you deserve better. Take care!
It sucks but only time can heal heartbreak. Take that time to raise your vibration and yes you are more valuable with your heartbreak
Actions (your and other people) can heal the heartbreak, not time.
Time doesn’t heal wounds, it just allows you to find the right bandage, things will only change if you do something about it, sitting and waiting won't really help you
I just had this epiphany last night. Time does not heal wounds. It suppresses them. You have to do the work internally to shift patterns, behaviour and emotions.
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My heart actually aches. Absolutely heartbroken
In my last relationship I lost myself. He was a narcissist. He was emotionally brutal mentally destructive. I'm starting to finally find myself again. I realize. I'm am a good person I'm fun to be around. I'm very caring and very strong. So after me meeting ME again the next person is going to have competition. Not with other men,but with myself they need to show me and make me see that ANY time I take away from ME needs to be obvious and true. I'm not going to have anyone who loves me less than I do ever again. I've wasted all the time I'm willing to waste. Good luck guys ..
Hey. Wondering if you’d be willing to privately message me (either on here or another platform). I’m basically going through the exact same thing right now… it’s been about 3 weeks. I feel like I’m drowning.
Same experience here 🙂
Well two grown men mixing up and clarifying the difference between two 90s sitcoms certainly gave me a much needed giggle for my Saturday afternoon!
Hi, witnessing a heart break is so traumatizing. My heart break is me losing my wife and my daughter in a car accident and it’s been a traumatized moment of my life. It’s would be a pleasure to know you better. You can send me an email or add me on hangout on Tjohnkleppenger@gmail.com thank you.
A season of heartbreak is also a good time to invest in friends and family(your other relationships). Sometimes these relationships slide when you have a boyfriend(or girlfriend), but they are critical. Spending time with those who know you best really helps.
I am from United States, I was in a relationship with Johnson Paul and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 9years and everything was going on smoothly but February 10’th 2020 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a data but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and Favour in any of her endeavors but at first I was scared I have to give this man a trial because I love Johnson Paul very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this greats spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and caring heart....I am testifying to this great spell caster Dr osekhametalor you are the greatest man in this world and you mean so much to me your are the best spell caster that I have ever hear off In all forum contact this man via this WhatsApp +2347026399847 if you really need to get your problems solve message him now
Hi, witnessing a heart break is so traumatizing. My heart break is me losing my wife and my daughter in a car accident and it’s been a traumatized moment of my life. It’s would be a pleasure to know you better. You can send me an email or add me on hangout on Tjohnkleppenger@gmail.com thank you.
The 2 words are: "Hair grows." or "Emotion change."
Hair grows! Lol. I love how profound that can seem.
Unless your my ex who’s going bald 👩🦲
@@DefinitelyNotNormalLol Hahahahaha 😂👌
Emotions change.. that’s SO true. I am currently going through the awfulness after a break up and I do feel like when I see him with someone new I won’t survive it… BUT my previous boyfriend is now married with 2 kids and when I see them I am OK. 5 years ago, that would’ve sent me into a downward spiral, but not now. So please do remember the emotions change. And we all get through It eventually with patience and self kindness x
Thanks for sharing
My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me out of the blue. I had brought up moving in together the next year and he said 'sometimes I see us living together now and other times I get scared' then a couple days later broke up with me and said 'I'm just not the one' and we haven't talked since. It has been 5 months. Truly know what it feels like to be heartbroken
@@Johnsmith-jv4sz OK thanks so much for replying
This is so hard for you. But pls stay strong. Time really heals.
@@georginabrigs1891 OK dear sister or brother . Hope for the best.
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Kinda same story - 10 years about to get engaged- he said “ I have things he can’t live with” ( to him I’m less confident) then blocked me - that easy he washed 10years ... friends tell me I will get through this but I guess I won’t
I just had a break up that felt like I was dying. It was a very long relationship. I have been allowing myself to go through the emotions. I never heard of you until this past Saturday. Your videos and what you say have tremendously helped me. I am a week fresh since the break up and still crying like a baby, but I feel that I am getting through it. I've been through other break ups, but man, this one takes the cake. I want to spend time alone and just do me and my things and create a new Tyson so that I am better for the next person that I allow into my life when I am ready. I am truly heartbroken. I know that this is going to take awhile to heal, but I know that I need to heal myself and work on me before I can move on. I think that just doing me and healing me and spending time with me is the best thing right now. Thank you, Matt
Tyson, Tyson, May the Lord gives you the strength, courage and love to help you go through your mourning. Because, we know, it’s like somebody died… eventually, you’ll get over it, in due time , with Gods help. Blessings
How are u doing now since ur heart break, since u posted ur comment 4 months ago.
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I feel you Tyson I'm on the same road as you and it does feel like you're dying I cry like a baby everyday tooo it just feels so unbearable 💔 I hope we all heal soon 🙏
I've been on this journey for already 10 months. We broke up after a 4-year relationship and engagement. I made a huge mistake, apologized, but he didn't want to listen to anything and was only caring about getting revenge. A lot of hurtful words and actions were said and done, we got in contact every now and then by his initiative, finally the old wounds got reopened and the last conversation a few days ago was a point of no return. We used to be on speaking terms, now we have blocked each other and there is no way to apologize or forgive anymore. I feel like part of me has died. The connection was so strong - the strongest one for us both, we were true soulmates. But the person whom I spoke with after the break up was a different person, not the one I knew. It's difficult to accept, I don't know how to fill the void. They say time heals. This is now the only thing I can hold on to. It's been the most challenging time of my entire life and it still continues
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The only way out is through! Is one of my favorite lines
You have to go through it to get through it.
well timed for me. Yesterday I said to a guy I had been seeing for 3 months that I was looking for something more than casual dating. "So if you are not that guy, I need to walk". He let me. Thank you for all previous videos that saved me from staying with this guy and falling harder, and making the breakup worse later on.
Just did exactly this today! I feel so sad, but I know I had to do it...Whats the point of staying with someone who doest even want you to stay?
I'm having a difficult time getting over how attractive my ex was. I considered her the most beautiful person. However, she stressed me out so much, her mental health was not in a good spot, she didn't love herself. However, I need to realize that love is greater than attraction. I would rather be with someone that makes me happy than someone who is drop dead gorgeous. It's not all about what they look like, but how they make you feel. I'm practicing to make it perfectly clear in my head.
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A lot of us focus on 'what's the best way to heal!' When really we need to be like 'How do I give the space to heal'.
We have to remember that time heals emotional pain, not being angry at other people or getting under someone else.
It's OK to hurt, that makes you human. Remember space and time is important to move on.
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That true
I'm absolutely devastated right now I can't imagine loving anyone else as much as I loved him. I loved every thing about him. I hope this changes like you said.
I feel the exact same way, it’s agonizing especially today since it’s his birthday today
I needed to hear this. Absolutely makes sense and perfect timing. I think sometimes we don’t realize that the tough times is an opportunity for transitioning and evolving into the person that is really meant for us to be. We will recover.
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Needed this right now. Thank you for pulling me out of the darkness even if it’s only for the duration of this video …. For now.
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I’ve been on a self love journey for 2 years now and I feel so free and happy .. it does get better 🙏🙏🙏
I do agree with Matthew! And to all that are going through this right now - it shall also pass!! Couple of months ago I had one of the 'worst breakups ever' or at least I thought so at that moment.. Watched all Matthew's video about brake ups and I really did move on with his help. Now I do hope, from the bottom of my heart, that this experience will teach me how to handle those situations in the future.. That it shall also pass. 🧡
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When love goes deep the anchor can take a very long time to reach the surface of the sea...
Hey so true thats sweet. Ive never met anyone I thought I'd want to stay with hes been the only one although I've had long relationships they all seemed in the now.
"I am more valuable to people because of my heartbreak." Damn, the biggest boom just went off in my soul!!! Thank you, thank you!!
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Barely had a breakup a half hour ago and I'm still crying. I really needed this episode.
Okay so how are you feeling now
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There's always light at the end of the tunnel. Stick around long enough to reach it. Love to all ❤️
So very true
Going through a traumatic breakup. Namely because it slammed me out of nowhere......and when I was down she decided to apply more pressure. I still feel like I'm missing pieces of the puzzle. Answers I may never get. Things change. Emotions , people , life. I'm going for professional help because I still feel through no concious intention I let my past ruin my present. I won't be letting that happen anymore. I need to be better but I also for once need to take care of myself.
This too shall pass
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The beautiful moment when you're ready to Move forward with your Life. It Will get Better, You will find Peace, Happiness and Love Again.
Forget the good times and Remember the BAD times. You were not happy...the last weeks of this relationship.
I needed to do this.. Remind myself of how horrible my husband was.. The beginning of a breakup makes you feel like you've lost a big thing, you romanticize things and then eventually realize that you aren't mourning the relationship you had rather the one you had hoped to have... Everytime I get lonely, I remember how much worse it was to feel lonely during a marriage, with someone right there.
@@wanjiruchira5246 Exactly!! Forget the Good times... Remember those last weeks, maybe MONTHS of being treated Badly!! Your free...to be Loved.
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My breakup was a total surprise to me…we were always holding hands and speaking kindly to each other. He is terminally I’ll and suddenly decided to cut me out of his life…I am heartbroken, and blindsided.
@@Katrn30 Being nice and Loving you are two different things. Don't ignore the RED flags.
For anyone here going through the heartbreak 💔 following a breakup: I feel you! Remember that you are enough, you are worthy, you are loved. You will love and be loved again. Like most things it will pass and until then I send you hugs and much love ❤️
This was timed so well for me. I just broke up with my BF. I am upset and broken-hearted even though I initiated the break up.
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Just recently went through a break up with a girl I been with for 5 years, we were able to leave on good terms, but Ik it will be rough but over time I can look back at our memories and appreciate it. Ik we will both be ok over time and will a lot from our relationship. Time for me to improve myself and focus on my business 💪
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Same recently went through it and going through a heartbreak, we also ended on good terms and it's tough for both of us but it's going to be alright. Time heals
I just dumped after 2 year ship. Im numb and im so thankful i found this channel.
It's not just emotions, it's the day to day life, the future, the questions of the past, the load share. It's everything, not just emotions.
I know that I'm better off without this person. I know that feelings will change and that it won't stay the same. But it's been a year and a half of this painful process of divorcing with the person who used to be my best friend. I'm tired of waking up from my nightmares into the nightmare of reality. I just want to stop feeling sad, and move on. It's a neverending sadness. I want it to go away.
“Hair grows” is my mantra now! You are amazing Matthew!
so, for the first time I am liberated and was able to spot a gas lighter and I cut the long distance relationship with pride and dignity to myself! So keep making these videos because no man is worth yourself respect if he can't support you in the need to go slow in a relationship! Gratitude for the hard lessons I have learned in the past ten years. I still hope to find a good man, and I refuse to give up, but I am taking a break from online dating! Too many scammers...I love myself more way too much to be needy and to allow a man to be unemotional unavailable! thanks again! Ladies, it takes a lot of work on yourself to get to this point. Don't let anyone or man steel your power!!!
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Let go or be dragged. I’m currently in pieces but I’ve been down this road before and I’m not making the same mistakes I did last time. I’m absolutely broken, but hanging on to what isn’t there is the absolute worst thing I can do
Walked out of a 2 year relationship and healing for 5 months. I’m leaving this message so that i can revisit after a year.
'Emotions Change'.....truly sounds like a message from our creator given to you 'Matthew' to give to us....your humble viewers 🧚♀️I have those words on repeat ATM....for hope.....to feel better soon 🕊
I'm pregnant with my exes baby and the heartbreak is just so intense. I am feeling so hopeless. I'm in a tough period but it's good to know that these emotions won't always be here.
I am in the same spot right now, 7 weeks and he has left. People at work look at me like crazy. I really hope my emotions change, and that I feel better eventually. How are you? Are you feeling better?
Same and he’s been hanging out with his ex. Told me the day we broke up, “you’re not Sabrina. You will never be Sabrina”sucks knowing shell probably be my kids step mom
I hope your baby is healthy and you are enjoy being a mother.
Time is what heals and there’s no way to speed through it. It’s a loss and it’s grieving. I just went through an awful heartbeat. My only advice would be to do everything you can to stay busy with your life throughout it. Unfortunately we have to endure that pain, but we definitely come out much stronger on the other side.
I realized this video was posted the week he broke me into pieces, today i was thinking about the pain I'm still in and all I can say is, thank you, I needed this video and this two words ✨✨✨✨✨
I cant explain.... Im literally crying.... Your video just gave me a little twinkle of hope in that dark black hole tunnel that I was going through... I was heartbroken because of my family behavior but now I'm feeling much better and know how to get through this.... Im so blessed to have such a great mentor in my life.... Your existence in this World is Miracle itself. A lots of prayer for you.... Thank you sooo much.. MAY GOD BLESS You ❤️🙏🙏
Hi Mishi, you will get through this ♥️
Thanks for this. "Emotions change" I want to keep that in mind as I'm hurting but I am feeling other emotions daily.
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I don't want to get her back. I want to move on now.
"emotions change". those two words just calmed me down more than anything could have ever thought to do
This is true coming from a really hard break up 8 months ago! Time heals and emotions change ♥️♥️
Going through a breakup now actually revealed the tools for me to start working on other parts of my past that are hurting. I’ve been depressed for 12 years and and my ex told me to seek help and work on myself quite often but I felt I didn’t have to. The breakup had me in tatters, but I couldn’t lie down. I HAD TO work my way through it. I don’t know if this is common with people who begin to transcend depression, that it’s like a second puberty. I didn’t really feel secure in myself up until now. I used to have libido problems and sex didn’t feel like anything to me. But it’s now three weeks into the breakup and I’m stronger than ever. My voice got deeper, my testicles and penis got heavier, I got more assertive, way more energetic, and I started to really appreciate the masculine men around me. It’s really a transforming force of nature, if you decide to take it on. I feel like I can punch a dragon down through the core of the earth. I became a man, and I’m grateful. Doesn’t stop me from crying sometimes. But yeah, it reveals how cool the healing process can be. Stay in there, my friend! Push through, become something beautiful.
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Thanks Matthew. I needed this. Identified with everything. I want him to see how much he's hurt me while he's out being blinded by another female and acting like he never knew me. I cannot even describe the pain. It doesn't feel like it's going to pass at all right now but what you guys said is encouraging. The words gym, party and self help are not appealing right now at all but I like the word gentle 😢😢 thank you 😊
I needed this today. Last night was the worst and it’s real this time. I’ll watch this over and over
I realised this during a recent breakup. I felt terrible, but when I looked at a photo of my son and I laughing, it reminded me that it won’t always feel that way. But I knew I had to engage with, process and feel the loss. I feel miles better now, just a couple of weeks later.
Let me give you an apt feeling how being heartbroken looks like: looks like you are in the middle of a deep dark unending tunnel. All that you had already left at the entry and you don't know how long before you could see the light at the end of the tunnel, by the time your eyes used to the dark.
Ok. "Hairs grows back" You will find another maybe even BETTER Partner. Keep the faith!!
Hi, witnessing a heart break is so traumatizing. My heart break is me losing my wife and my daughter in a car accident and it’s been a traumatized moment of my life. It’s would be a pleasure to know you better. You can send me an email or add me on hangout on Tjohnkleppenger@gmail.com thank you.
@@Grace-tn5ug So sorry your terrible loss. Condolences. ❤️
Dear God can you please cheer up this special lady...show her that you are near. Amen xx
But how about flashbacks taking you back into those moments/conversations you had with them years later? That's hard too.
Really, it hurts 😢 I am going through this now.
My feelings changed within days. The betrayal was so spectacular, that I can never love him again. It's like a love homicide. -- he killed it for me. I'll never love him again, have respect for him, hold him in high regard, or any regard. Now, it's just an echo of the love I had for him. The colossal struggle is desperately trying to regain my equilibrium after being sucker-punched with the betrayal. Trying to stop blaming myself, stop telling myself I failed miserably in reading this other person, when I always excelled at observing and considering another's intentions, etc. Can't sleep, eat, and am wreck.
Mamzie May, I’m so sad for you. You have been put through the wringer! I pray and plead to our Lord to give you consolation, and the strength to continue on with the hope that this shall also pass, and that His grace cover you with love and kindness, to heal fast and complete recovery from your pain. The Lord is good, all the time. Blessings from above.
.What seems impossible today will one day become your warm-up
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i can’t even describe how much of a comfort space this channel is for me! i am so glad, thank you!
I love the direction this conversation takes. The utter devastation of a blindside-breakup with an intensely avoidant, vulnerably narcissistic type led, over weeks, to a determination to view absolutely everything I have ever experienced, thought, felt, or done as a gift, and as things to CELEBRATE. Without them, I wouldn’t be exactly who I am in this minute; I realized that who I am right now is preferable to any other version of myself I might have been with different experiences. That was the grounding of a healing program I’m trying that goes beyond the loss of the relationship itself. Thanks for this video-everything that happens is the raw material available to us to change the lens entirely. Everything might just be a gift 😉
Hearts mend.💔❤️‼️😊 Emotions change, thank you!
I broke it off however, I am the one that allowed the behavior in the first place. I'm am sad about the ending but thankful I stopped things before we became even more attached. Recognizing both of us were not ready was a gift I learned from my last heartbreak, the pain is valuable in learning. Thankful for the lesson and for the self love to get through this!
That was just so wholesome. Love you two guys! And it helped me this morning. Just 2 weeks since the break up. I'm giving myself the space to heal while continuing with the other projects I started before the relationship. Having a well-rounded life is essential!
the grief doesnt go away. it doesnt shrink - it stays, and you grow. you got this.
I think this ties in really well to another video Matthew Hussey did -- about gaining confidence and getting over your insecurities. You have to make sure that you have other strong legs to stand on, so even if one leg of the table goes out, you will stay standing. Heartbreak is like an injury or like several of those legs breaking. But you have to keep building up and supporting the other "legs" of your life if you don't want to collapse.
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My thoughts went to, "people grow". Growth is highly important to me in my life. And Sometimes it feels like emotions won't change even if reality is they will.
Ending a 23 year marriage...so painful. Hate feeling so down and sad all the time. Hard to imagine feeling happy again. Good to have a reminder that these emotions will change.
You two are so great together talking and laughing. I love listening to you guys
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I will feel like this forever because my love for this person is foerever
Get comfortable with being uncomfortable, pretty much! Always on point, Hussey brothers
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Woke up in the middle of the night, it physically hurts.. we broke up yesterday and I know the upcoming weeks/months will feel like going through hell. I hope when I come back to this my emotion has indeed changed
Same happened to me yesterday. I woke up exactly on each hour for the toilet. I thank god I slept between times. I had been married to a narc previously for 30 years which had been hell since the start. Then I left and started dating after 2 years. Then met who I thought was so aligned. We didn’t have barely a cross word in 13 months and did things together, met his family. I thought we’d be together for many more years.
How are you now after 1 year?
Even though this video is 3 years old, it's always amazing how I manage to accidentally stumble upon the right video that I need to hear at the exact moment that I hear it! 😊❤
Listening to Matthew really cheers me. Every time I feel low, I listen. It helps and he is absolutely right. Hang in there ladies and gents, ❤
Yes emotions change and eventually they will fade.
Its been 7 straight months of hanging on and waiting for the emotion to change. Im still stuck. Every day I live life with one foot here and one foot out. If my pain doesn't let up, I won't survive it
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Motion changes emotion. Don't wait to feel better, just get moving. I know that's not easy nowadays but you can take small steps. Start to exercise and talk to different people. Do what you can to move in every way. Hair grows.
same here.. 7 months. everyday..in my mind. Been wanting to let go.
please be strong. You will get there. we will all get there!
I have found someone better.. and loving every moment of it.. I have moved on and everyday my mind is filled with this new love. My ex is still watching all my social stories. I have no feelings for him anymore.
seeing someone be intimate with a girl u really were interested in is one of the most messiest feelings ever .and that black fog that makes you feel like its not gonna go away it seems like ill need a miracle to get through this
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this. Going through the worst break up right now I can barely move and I am crying 24/7
So sorry you are going through this... hang on in & be kind to you
@@suzewuk Thank you my dear. It’s really hard.
I’m going through the same thing and feel the exact same. We’ll get through it.
@@vivannag I am so sorry to hear this, dear. Sending you virtual hugs 🤗
I made this comment 2 months ago when I went through one of the worst times in my life but let me tell you right now it’s still very hard and I struggle daily but it gets better and better. I still have some bad days when I lie in bed all day and cry but they get less and less. I think the past 2 months have shown me that I can get through this. It will surely take its time but I will get fully over it. And at least I am not spending my life with the wrong person anymore.
Words cannot explain how much I gave her all for a sudden breakup, I hope this heartbreak could change me for the better.
Most effective way to heal!! He is on the point, and it is true about face it and accept it, take time to think it and allow it to happen. A lot of people say keep busy, but you still can think about it, and feel sad about end of the day. Fix the root of the problem is the solution. Love this video!
@My Life with Guitar I am from United States, I was in a relationship with Johnson Paul and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 9years and everything was going on smoothly but February 10’th 2020 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a data but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and Favour in any of her endeavors but at first I was scared I have to give this man a trial because I love Johnson Paul very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this greats spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and caring heart....I am testifying to this great spell caster Dr osekhametalor you are the greatest man in this world and you mean so much to me your are the best spell caster that I have ever hear off In all forum contact this man via this WhatsApp +2348157912412 if you really need to get your problems solve message him now
I think the hardest part is, wanting to take a break for your mental health but you have so many things going on from having school assignments, work, outings etc. It is so hard to focus on other things while you’re breaking on the inside
All I could do is lay here and cry while I try make sense of this heartbreak 💔
"This isn't going to be my life". I desperately needed this today.
Super impressed with Steve’s knowledge of teen shows from back in the day! It made me feel confident that he knows what he is talking about. 😘
Hi, witnessing a heart break is so traumatizing. My heart break is me losing my wife and my daughter in a car accident and it’s been a traumatized moment of my life. It’s would be a pleasure to know you better. You can send me an email or add me on hangout on Tjohnkleppenger@gmail.com thank you.
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Yes I agree with Matt give yourself time to heal it’s a normal process and as time goes by cry if you need whatever helps but as days go by with ups and does you will get over this pain