trisha paytas reveals truth about josh, swoop & johnny

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  • @AdamMcIntyre
    @AdamMcIntyre  ปีที่แล้ว +131

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    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for another great stream Mucker 💜

    • @sharonmccullough6161
      @sharonmccullough6161 ปีที่แล้ว

      The video clip of Trish going off on Josh - was within a week or so of Colleen and Trish making a muk bang together on Colleen's channel and at one point Colleen said to Trish after coming back from a short bread in filming and said " so now you know the truth about our breakup Trish" so yeah Colleen fed her info - then Josh made a video not aimed at anyone and Trish took it personal like he was talking about her. I really did and do not think he was thinking of Trish but she sure assumed so and let loose with a bunch of things that could have only come from Colleen and were not true. Colleen has used her from the start of their "friendship" I stopped watching Colleen there and then.

    • @lh9761
      @lh9761 ปีที่แล้ว

      7:40
      Allegedly he was or is moving. Ad revenue? $$$

    • @lh9761
      @lh9761 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also think there's limerence for Josh.

    • @wrinklysalive8248
      @wrinklysalive8248 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm a day late so I don't know if you'll see this but I think Jonny's end goal could be just to relate to people to the point where he could have friends and that those friends wont leave. Like Jonney got bullied in school to the point where he dropped out and one of the ways that people cope with it is by making friends and being the bigger person so that they wont leave them. Jonny got left behind by everybody (Josh, colleen, school friends etc) so them having the one up/ struggling with worse things than their 'Friends' they would be the most important and not overlooked. Idk its just my quick idea

  • @Truecrimeresearcher224
    @Truecrimeresearcher224 ปีที่แล้ว +2605

    Swoop deserves a vacation after all the work she did. Her and her team did an amazing job. You don't see many channels put that much effort into what they did

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      People are already begging for pt4 😑

    • @daylight1992
      @daylight1992 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Swoop deserves for someone to figure out how to clone another Swoop so that the origional Swoop could take a month long vacation on a beach without feeling guilty about her channel, her community and her team being left hanging for so long.

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@daylight1992 Swoop shouldn't feel guilty at all and enjoy a well earned rest 🤗

    • @erikah207
      @erikah207 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ​@dandelion_official4812 of course they are! She heavily promoted it at the end of her doc 😂

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@erikah207 internet is so impatience 😏🤣

  • @Mamamary1
    @Mamamary1 ปีที่แล้ว +1492

    Johnnys goal was to make himself a victim. Because the victims are the ones getting the attention. And as disgusting as it sounds, thats what Johnny wanted.

    • @amykru
      @amykru ปีที่แล้ว +67

      I think that he also wants a job as a content creator or in show business, big time. The level of rage he expressed was frightening in one of his videos about Colleen and how it is, somehow, her fault that he is a bartender.

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@amykru not a bartender looking down on a car salesman 😑😑😑

    • @BCFBreakfastClubFan
      @BCFBreakfastClubFan ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Yep. When Ethan and Olivia said "Oh, he IS a TH-camr...or he's trying to be," I could just imagine how that probably burned him. He's so butthurt that Josh didn't make him famous, and I think he's just jumping on the Ballenger hate train to try to get revenge against Josh for 1) not making him famous, and 2) not returning his obviously inappropriate feelings of attachment. It really stuck out to me how he and his family kept turning up at his place of work. That's stalker behavior.

    • @ajakakakak
      @ajakakakak ปีที่แล้ว

      I think they meant more what’s the end goal to all of it, including making himself a victim. What did he want to gain out of trying to be a victim and lying? Most likely, attention and sympathy

    • @amykru
      @amykru ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bludbrat It was on John's channel - one of the video's where he was basically copying Adam's format. I'm sorry I don't know exactly which one or if it is still posted.

  • @ashlynb13
    @ashlynb13 ปีที่แล้ว +859

    petition to start a gofundme to pay for a vacation for swoop and her team cause girl deserves it

    • @dethmetelchik
      @dethmetelchik ปีที่แล้ว +34

      And kittie treats ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@dethmetelchik for the billing department 🐈‍⬛️

    • @Tw0Dots
      @Tw0Dots ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Buy her a double’s massage for her & her cat 😂

    • @Darkemberandviolet
      @Darkemberandviolet ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!!!!

    • @J97736
      @J97736 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I think Josh deserves a vacation for all he has been through.

  • @DaxIsAName
    @DaxIsAName ปีที่แล้ว +1285

    Swoop's 4 hour video was truly captivating and I'm glad to see that she even won over the "casual" viewers. Top Tier shit right there.

    • @madisonrose1576
      @madisonrose1576 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I literally power cleaned my house listening to it

    • @mooshyshoomy
      @mooshyshoomy ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@madisonrose1576I finished a long crochet project listening to it

    • @cmhsky
      @cmhsky ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I played video games and watched it. It was so good i was surprised when it was over.

    • @lesvian-rika
      @lesvian-rika ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I was able to braid my hair to it
      and micro braids take a long time 😭

    • @eris5497
      @eris5497 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Literally started watching it as I eat my breakfast and almost finishing half of what I need to do for the day when it finished lol

  • @J97736
    @J97736 ปีที่แล้ว +761

    Josh isn’t perfect nor has he said he is, but he is a good person and did not deserve any of the hate or awful, horrible, sad thoughts he had which led to him drinking. So glad he is doing better now.

    • @kittymilkyyy
      @kittymilkyyy ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Yea, i mean even the things he did do that i would call weird, he definitely changed and grown since then.. it makes me wonder if the things hes previously has done is only because of colleen

    • @corpselizzy
      @corpselizzy ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@kittymilkyyyprobably

    • @KelseyDrummer
      @KelseyDrummer ปีที่แล้ว +44

      My sleep deprived ass thought you typed Johnny I was like EQUEEZE ME?! Hahaha nap time.

    • @J97736
      @J97736 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@KelseyDrummer We stan Josh here

    • @kendrashaaaa
      @kendrashaaaa ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@KelseyDrummer i’ve been up since 4 AM I went to bed at 1:30 AM and it is 10:30pm and I can say with 100% certainty, Same 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @beathinks
    @beathinks ปีที่แล้ว +669

    We are NOT going to put time limits on when victims are “allowed” to speak about what happened to them. We will not be like John. We will be better and we will do better.
    Trisha and every other victim has every right to talk about their stories as much or as little, as long or as briefly as THEY want to.
    Part of victimization is losing control of what happens to you. Sharing your story however, whenever, and to whatever extent you want is part of taking that power back and mitigating (NOT erasing) the harm done.

    • @mae6125
      @mae6125 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very well put, thank you for sharing❤

    • @MustaineIsGod
      @MustaineIsGod ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LOVE this comment, so trauma-informed and more people need to understand this!! 💜💜

  • @amsicee
    @amsicee ปีที่แล้ว +87

    While Swoop and D'Angelo Wallace have some similarities in the sense that they both create captivating deep dives into situations, Swoop's content is more of an investigation, where D'Angelo's content is more of a video essay. I'd say they're in different lanes, but there are parallels and both make fantastic content.

    • @beautyallaround_
      @beautyallaround_ ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Swoop also has a whole team. D'Angelo does this alone. That is quite a big difference in production.

  • @12MILLSKILLS
    @12MILLSKILLS ปีที่แล้ว +536

    In my opinion (based on what I’ve seen) I think Johnny was either obsessed with Josh or extremely infatuated by him. He also saw two TH-camrs who could help him build his brand. School didn’t work out for him and he wanted to be a big TH-camr too. When he didn’t get the attention he wanted he felt slighted. But it’s not that cut and dry because Josh made big mistakes too. He probably saw this young “depressed” kid and felt for him (we know he struggled with his own depression). Now that the Toxic Gossip Train is rolling through the station he (Johnny) thought he could jump aboard and kill two birds with one stone (vengeance against Josh and to chase that big TH-camr dream). I think he was hoping that Josh would admit to “grooming” him or his following would get to whatever size he wanted and then just continue make up and talk about drama. Idk let me know what y’all think.
    *made some edits to the original post because people made a good point of not calling it love but an obsession with Josh!

    • @jessicabeckelheimer5185
      @jessicabeckelheimer5185 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes! I agree .

    • @yilly222
      @yilly222 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      i believe johnny was Obsessed w josh. love doesnt make you do something so life-ruining as this :(

    • @x-gate-gate-gate
      @x-gate-gate-gate ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Right from the first video I saw of Johnny, that was the vibe I got. Him talking about Josh's apology and acting like it was not enough when it was probably the best apology any TH-camr would give any fan was ridiculous and showed Johnny's true vendetta. It was the same way you act towards an ex who left you for someone else or a crush who never gave you the attention you wanted

    • @Jujudeze22
      @Jujudeze22 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@x-gate-gate-gateyes!

    • @angelicMisha
      @angelicMisha ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Okay, this is the best take I've seen. 💯👏🏾 It totally seemed like John was hoping Josh would reciprocate his feelings for him. And falling out with Colleen just presented the perfect opportunity to exploit.

  • @Thisisnotapipe_
    @Thisisnotapipe_ ปีที่แล้ว +267

    Everytime Adam says that Johnny was in love with Josh, a puppy is born.

  • @allysonknight8826
    @allysonknight8826 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    I am so glad that Swoop is getting the credit she deserves for the work she is doing! I am a long ti.e fan and absolutely love her!

    • @Rain_Reign
      @Rain_Reign ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too, and I love seeing her get her laurels

    • @mae6125
      @mae6125 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is a hard earned wave of support for her and the victims she stands for and bolsters back up! We love to see it 🎉

    • @mandalark
      @mandalark ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She did amazing, she deserves recognition for her incredible work ❤

  • @Blondelululover
    @Blondelululover ปีที่แล้ว +261

    Babe wake up Adam posted

  • @MsClaireEverett
    @MsClaireEverett ปีที่แล้ว +228

    Milo interview starts at 8:05🐈🐈

    • @neryn9020
      @neryn9020 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Thank you, the best interview I've ever witnessed

    • @KelseyDrummer
      @KelseyDrummer ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hard hitting stuff! Lol

    • @TaRa_K
      @TaRa_K ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Goat🙌

    • @lastkryptonbaby
      @lastkryptonbaby ปีที่แล้ว +10

      🔥🔥opinions

    • @happybatty5142
      @happybatty5142 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Milo has very important things to say 😺😺😺

  • @taylorg2320
    @taylorg2320 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    I remember watching the interview that Do We Know Them did with Johnny, and I distinctly remember Johnny casually glossing over things like "yeah so Josh posted a picture and I could figure out the restaurant that he was at from the background in the photo so I tracked down his location or whatever". Like he would talk about all of these interactions that he had with Josh but any time they asked him "oh, so like how did you guys meet up? Did he ask you to meet?" he would stutter and would super quickly gloss over the fact that he tracked his location down, and did it multiple times. I watch every single one of their podcasts and I love Jessi and Lily, but that was the first podcast that I was never able to finish. I thought that I was crazy for feeling weird about Johnny because everyone was so on board with his story and I didn't want to be on the wrong side of a victim situation so I never said anything about it. But looking back now, I feel so validated lol!

  • @j9andphoenix
    @j9andphoenix ปีที่แล้ว +180

    I LOVE SWOOP. She is sincere and works so hard to cover as much content as possible. In an honest heartfelt way and intelligent way.

    • @mae6125
      @mae6125 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She is so very human in the way she approaches her topics, it’s so refreshing to see this handled with the empathy it was always meant to be given

  • @LyraCagen
    @LyraCagen ปีที่แล้ว +83

    obsessed with milo's input. literally no one has put it better. thank you so much king

  • @MeganSpruce90
    @MeganSpruce90 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Swoop did an awesome job on her doc. I was fully captivated, and I didn't realize it was almost 4 hours long.. i was actually upset when it ended.. and am excited for the next. She and her team are so detail oriented and thorough.

  • @megzmorbidcuriosities
    @megzmorbidcuriosities ปีที่แล้ว +78

    As someone who is in recovery… damn… Josh is just trying to make the best amends he could to a complete asshat. I feel so bad for him.

  • @stayforver
    @stayforver ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I believe that Johnny's end goal was to be on top. He clearly has a strong desire for attention, and if he'd been in the Colleen/Miranda fandom longer than you had then it would possibly cause him to feel betrayed when Colleen's attention turned toward you. Additionally, the attention was still on you after you came out to speak about your experiences with Colleen. Granted that it wasn't good attention considering you weren't believed and were slandered in 2020, but to people like Johnny, any attention is good attention. And now when things are turning around and the entire internet is speaking about Colleen, you're getting attention again. I know that fame may not have been his only goal but it certainly was the driving force behind him creating false stories and piggybacking off of real experiences.

    • @jordandupree420
      @jordandupree420 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      His exact words regarding Josh was that he wanted power right? I'm pretty sure that's just what Johnny wants is power and he'll do whatever he can to get it.

    • @mae6125
      @mae6125 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jordandupree420I believe this too, he seems to layer his lies with his own reality. calling josh a mentor when he was calling is OWN relationships with children „mentorships“, talking about power, how it would be „cleancut“ if it was sexual only, talking about confidence in his sexuality and not wanting girls but boys… so many Freudian slips in that interview alone!

  • @ogtink
    @ogtink ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Can we point out that people like Colleen are really just the "middle men" for the pr3dat0ry people. They give them content and targets. Trisha is right about the ring of people talking to other people, and it's scary to actually think about how far that world spreads.

    • @a.m2707
      @a.m2707 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true. So, so, so true

  • @Thisisnotapipe_
    @Thisisnotapipe_ ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Why is trisha acting like her hating Josh isn't solely because colleen got in her head and filled it with bullshit? I still remember when colleen told her josh proposed with the same ring. Which again was a proven lie.

    • @yingyang2838
      @yingyang2838 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Exactly, but her admitting that is to admit that she was “close” to Colleen. She keeps claiming she didn’t have a close friendship with her up until she became a mother. She was also on stage at Miranda shows. I feel bad for Trish with they way Colleen treated her, because Colleen treated her as a joke and kept her around so she could feel superior. But I don’t get way she’s lying on the closeness of their friendship

    • @Lucifersfursona
      @Lucifersfursona ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@yingyang2838 as much empathy as I can give her is she might be lying to herself about it too and isn’t ready to deal with the reality of it. But if she’s been honest before that’s a little less clear :/

    • @ilovemayo123
      @ilovemayo123 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@yingyang2838karma is funny like that bc Trisha also treated ppl this exact same way

    • @sbaires7
      @sbaires7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes! I remember how pissed I was when she was riding hard for Colleen and talking so bad about Josh. She needs to accept that Colleen fooled her the way she fooled all her young fans and brainwashed her. Trisha owes Josh an apology too. He was manipulated by a woman he loved, got cheated on, was silenced and he STILL has to deal with this bs. She needs to have a little more grace for the guy.

    • @JungianHeights
      @JungianHeights ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Trisha talks SO fast. It’s really quite impressive.

  • @Thisisnotapipe_
    @Thisisnotapipe_ ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Anyone else think that Adam is so pretty? Like a wood nymph or something.

    • @FabiolaMacabre
      @FabiolaMacabre ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yesss, I agree like an ethereal being, idk how to explain it 😂. His momma is very pretty, so I’m not surprised

    • @karenkane3220
      @karenkane3220 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes…his eyes!

    • @a.r.mproductions5616
      @a.r.mproductions5616 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Literally he could dress as an elf from lord of the rings

  • @Mila-Rosa
    @Mila-Rosa ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Re: Johnny - there was no end goal. I truly believe the attention and notoriety is like a drug for him. And an addicts only goal is the high.

    • @snackwraps
      @snackwraps ปีที่แล้ว

      this is THE best way to explain it

    • @veestreams
      @veestreams ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I get high school mentality off of all of them. IIRC he mentioned being bullied really badly in school. Well now he gets to be one of the “cool kids” and he gets off on that

    • @monkeydance3894
      @monkeydance3894 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Only thing I would add is he wanted to ruin Josh. I think at one point he even talked abt Josh going to jail.

    • @whatcolorjunebug
      @whatcolorjunebug ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree, and it's also why he wasn't thinking clearly and made so many mistakes that anyone with a well devised plan would not make. When he's getting his fix, like in the Swoop interview, it's like he becomes euphoric and feels unstoppable and can't maintain the presence of mind to keep track of his story.
      That being said, my impression is also that he's riddled with self-loathing and anxiety, but in a way that he is largely suppressing. And he's trying to erase his unhappiness by fixating on these external sources of validation, without ever addressing the actual internal source of the problem. He probably doesn't feel like he CAN look inside because it's such a scary void of identity and a swirl of so many negative judgments about himself. So he just projects everything outwards and sources his entire self esteem externally, leaving him in precarious emotional situations.

  • @ebdgr
    @ebdgr ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I'm absolutely LOVING how talkative Milo has been lately 😭❤️

    • @e_aa518
      @e_aa518 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg hi! i see you in H3 chat!!!

  • @jessicaripko
    @jessicaripko ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I’m glad you brought up how Trisha dragged Josh. I never forgot about that. He didn’t deserve that. She definitely needs to add him to her list of people to apologize to.

    • @Rodviet
      @Rodviet ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Adam said she was clearly manipulated by Colleen, we don't need to see the outcome of that, that needs to be resolved privately between them. Besides, it was just insta stories, she didn't end his career, they were just fighting.

    • @Rodviet
      @Rodviet ปีที่แล้ว

      @BrandanTheBroker lmao so dramatic 😭 she doesn't know us, it's an internet celebrity, they're not meant to have such a deep impact on our everyday lives lol

  • @Mamamary1
    @Mamamary1 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I've been watching Swoop for years, I'm so happy to see new people discovering her ❤

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same 💙

    • @beathinks
      @beathinks ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes!!! She deserves way more subscribers than she currently has. Whenever I watch a video of hers, I’m always freshly surprised that she doesn’t 1M+ subscribers.

    • @yuffduf
      @yuffduf ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@beathinks Did you see that part 3 has almost 2M views? 🤯

    • @beathinks
      @beathinks ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yuffduf It’s currently at 2.2M!!! I believe it’s her most viewed video to date which is WELL deserved. I really hope she got her monetization back on it. The fact that she and her team put in so much work on this and then YT took that away is honestly absurd. Having to put up with John for 6+ hours… she deserves every single cent possible.

  • @reneemitchell4281
    @reneemitchell4281 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Its like Johnny never truly left the fandom mentality right? Harass, discredit, lie, use people, be relentless and ruthless. He never left the Colleen fandom mentality, he never grew as a person. He just recognized that he could use the same tactics to benefit himself instead of others.

  • @AKbaby89
    @AKbaby89 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    My partner and i always watch Swoops docs together, and even this one we were standing for most of it (we both have anxiety and are pacers😂) and after we watched it together, i rewatched all 3 just to make sure i didnt miss stuff. And i have ADHD and am unmedicated and usually watch everything ok 2x, and i had to watch Swoop docs on 1.5 so i could have more time to process everything😂 swoop is talented and clearly cares about her work. Ive been watching her since 2019 and im always impressed with how much effort she ALWAYS gives🙌

  • @Alison1215
    @Alison1215 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Im the happiest that everyone is realizing how amazing Swoop is, every video she makes I find mezmerizing, but at the cost of something truly heinous

  • @laurelclark8203
    @laurelclark8203 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I feel like the situation with Johnny is A LOT simpler than people are realizing. What happened between J and J was a parasocial relationship..
    Johnny was obsessed with Josh and wanted to be close to him and the easiest way was to pursue a business relationship and started trying to get Josh's attention any way he could. Once he did have his foot in the door it spiraled in his mind that he was finally close personal friends emotionally, even though Josh only gave him his phone number in the presence of his parents, at a work event, and discussed it as finally breaking into the industry. There was no point Josh tricked him he wanted more from him.
    Johnny realizes hes not actually going to get special attention and goes scortched earth. Josh has no clue Johnny expected more from him because that wouldve been inappropriate and hes being abused by his spouse. Its literally not even on his radar. This was a completely parasocial relationship. Josh never thought johnny was his friend, he was offering to give him business advice and Johnny tried to pervert it. Johnny has openly stated he stalked Josh multiple times now. Its not some huge mystery, johnny is an obsessed fan and feels scorned by someone he desperately believed should be in his life.

  • @phantomavenger1
    @phantomavenger1 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    My theory on Johnny and what he wanted from this whole situation:
    The obvious was attention
    But I think it's way more than that. I am in the kpop side of fandom and I have seen highly obsessive people not get the attention they want from their idols and turn on them. They create a hate campain on that person. I think it's the same thing. He was (still is) obsessed with Josh, and he got cut off from this person he was crushing/obessing over and he took that as a massive slight against him.
    I think he has been sitting on this obsessive anger for years and saw his chance to take other people's trauma caused by Colleen and use it to try and take down the man who was married to her. Makes it easy for people to think if Colleen is like that, he husband could be too. He ran with it.

    • @phantomavenger1
      @phantomavenger1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@Andromywayright?

    • @agora_is_bored
      @agora_is_bored ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No because when I was watching the doc, I thought the exact same thing. I just didn't know how to put into the right words

    • @AmyAberrant
      @AmyAberrant 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So it’s like love and hate at the same time

  • @yingyang2838
    @yingyang2838 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I knew Colleen was goating Trish into her rant against Josh! It’s wild that you confirmed that she was in the group chat telling you guys to go watch it. I think it’s interesting Trisha isn’t acknowledging this, it goes against her claims that she wasn’t “close” with Colleen. Who goes on a rant against someone’s ex out of the blue if you weren’t close to them?

    • @KagomeYasha023
      @KagomeYasha023 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Does Trish try to impress people? For validation?

    • @yingyang2838
      @yingyang2838 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@KagomeYasha023100% and I feel like she desperately wanted it from Colleen

  • @Mamamary1
    @Mamamary1 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Im sure Swoop will give Josh the voice he has long deserved.

    • @HeyItsZee_
      @HeyItsZee_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She mentioned she's doing a full interview with Josh

  • @Blondelululover
    @Blondelululover ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I love that Trish is speaking on this. I can tell that this situation messes with her on a personal level :(

    • @ilovemayo123
      @ilovemayo123 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Newsflash- everything bothers Trisha and has for at least 16 years on the internet. That girl has never made any progress on herself

    • @LM.312
      @LM.312 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@ilovemayo123 I disagree, you simply sound biased against her to not acknowledge any sort of growth.

    • @kristiekane4963
      @kristiekane4963 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@LM.312 Trisha admitted she will do anything for money. She sees the views she gets with having Colleen in the title. Moses sent images of Trisha to a 22 year old and body shamed her and said her kitty stank. She married him!! She don’t give an F! How are people this gullible??? 😂😂😂

    • @kristiekane4963
      @kristiekane4963 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SLD-bz9so Trisha has banked off gullible people for 16 years. People have made fun of her OF for years. She loves it. She’s using this to be victim and promote her OF. Follow the money. She married a man that did exactly what Colleen did. She MARRIED the man. She don’t care. But be gullible

    • @amandapanda7651
      @amandapanda7651 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ilovemayo123she’s made such a change in her life. you clearly don’t keep up with her or her progress

  • @Aylii1
    @Aylii1 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m so happy Swoop is getting all of this positive recognition. I’ve watched her for years and would binge her docs while at work and she always kept me mentally occupied. I always thought that she deserves way more than what she is given, and I hate that people don’t give things a chance when they see the duration of videos. The work she puts in is incredible and her delivery is just as amazing. I’m glad she’s speaking against these monsters.

  • @MegJuniper
    @MegJuniper ปีที่แล้ว +62

    As a woman with attachment issues (not a personality disorder but-) it’s just really nice to see Trisha’s progress.
    Her comment at 28:35 may seem like giving jonny an excuse, but I’m happy to see Trish explore the gray areas, the nuances, the explanations, but still holding jonny accountable, rather than black or white thinking/splitting.

  • @christina.lynn97
    @christina.lynn97 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m shocked and pissed that swoops video got demonitized. After all the hard work she and her team did for a good period of time! I’m so glad I bought a shirt and a hoodie from her. I didn’t know who she was until I saw the Johnny video. I’m a new fan of her now. Plus, I immediately fell in love with the graphic design of her new merch collection as I’m a big fan of meaningful and beautiful graphic designs of clothing.

  • @laurapurcell2557
    @laurapurcell2557 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Adam, your demeanor that you hold during these things is incredible. Not a single living international diplomat has the balance in the moment of importance that you have. You're wonderful. Genuinely

  • @reneekelcey394
    @reneekelcey394 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I think Johnny wants to be included and noticed. He's talked about how lonely he was in school and the Colleen fandom gave him a tribe. I think he was really shattered to have it fall apart, and he does feel like a victim. He just needed to make himself an actual victim to be included and get the attention in this that he was craving, as well as the revenge on the people that he feels hurt him.

  • @cara5249
    @cara5249 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Hey Adam, I’m never early so I thought I would comment. Your content has become something I look forward to daily, it’s so nice to see someone my own age compose themselves so maturely on the internet. Your coverage of every topic is always fair, sensible and appropriately humorous. Wishing you the best as you heal and grow 🤍

    • @TheDevonleigh
      @TheDevonleigh ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Isn't he wonderful? I'm 27 and he's even inspiring to me at this age.

    • @ashleyrose5365
      @ashleyrose5365 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is such a sweet comment 🤍

    • @lostmyjuul
      @lostmyjuul ปีที่แล้ว

      right!! when i remember i’m the same age as adam i’m like “…damn, he’s a better man than i” so much respect to adam fr

  • @Firefly_night
    @Firefly_night ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I realllyyy enjoy her podcast , Oscar is wonderful and he nevigate the topics perfectly and let her shine and speak while having the right key points , you should really watch the other episodes too this is a fun ride 💖💗

  • @Thisisnotapipe_
    @Thisisnotapipe_ ปีที่แล้ว +25

    He wanted fame. Thats it. He saw how famous you got, whether it was good attention or bad. And he wanted that. Hes SOOOO jealous of you Adam lol.

  • @kimberlysopinions6138
    @kimberlysopinions6138 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for keeping me company while I clean and getting me through the hardest part of my life. Everything is coming apart and I really appreciate you being there in your own little way.😊

  • @Grace-qr8yr
    @Grace-qr8yr ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I didn’t realize swoops video was 4 hours until I was like 2 hours in 😂 it was an amazing video and so much work went into it!

  • @ghughes14
    @ghughes14 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i love that milo gave his own take on the situation, he's so well spoken 8:38

  • @vampiredaddy5225
    @vampiredaddy5225 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Johnny gives me scorned lover vibes, like he was pissed that Josh didn’t give him the attention he wanted, and so he tried to retaliate. Plus he was mad at Swoop for not buying his B.S. after she found out about his lies. And think he tried to retaliate against Josh by leeching off of Adam. And what kills me is that Johnny screams how it’s inappropriate for adults to interact with minors, yet he was in group chats with minors, and still in group chats with minors. That is a textbook example of hypocrisy. But shout out to Swoop for doing an amazing job, like she deserves a long break after all the work she and her team put in. But it worries me that he might try to retaliate against Swoop

  • @DeePeeZee
    @DeePeeZee ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lmao, I appreciate you giving your cat a moment to voice their opinions 😂

  • @AKbaby89
    @AKbaby89 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I just got done rewatching swoops series, and i know ive said this a hundred times probably, but my God, Adam. You really are such a strong person, and youre still a thoughtful, loving, empathetic person despite everything youve been through. Especially so much recently, i just cant even imagine the strength it would take to go through what you have❤❤❤ I found you in 2020 when you first came out about this whole shit show, and its been hard to watch all this so i cant even begin to imagine what it would be like to go through. You deserve soo much better, im so sorry so many people have let you down. ❤❤

  • @CaBobProductions
    @CaBobProductions ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Colleen was fueling that tirade Trisha had against Josh!! She admitted that it was because of what she "knew" from colleen! She said it in a mukbang I think? Im glad someone remembers that, Trisha was absolutely awful and it led to one of Josh's bigger meltdowns. Like she does owe him a huge apology for all that she did to torment him.
    Like at one point during the back and forth she even threatened HIM that she could spill the things she learned from Colleen but was only holding back bc she asked her not to! Like nah, its bc it was lies that Josh could have actually clocked and cleared his name sooner.

    • @J97736
      @J97736 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep exactly!!! Josh isn’t perfect nor has he said he is, but he is a good person and did not deserve any of the hate or awful sad thoughts he had which led to him drinking. So glad he is doing better now.

    • @CaBobProductions
      @CaBobProductions ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@J97736 I've always had the softest spot in my heart for Josh over these years. As an abused person myself, sometimes you can just tell when someone is dealing with the same shit as you. He had every hallmark of an authentic victim lashing out. I was so fucking happy when he found sobriety, he deserves it 🥰

    • @J97736
      @J97736 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CaBobProductions honestly me too

    • @Ashleymhsuf927
      @Ashleymhsuf927 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      100 percent. She went to the mukbang with Colleen right before she made that rant against Josh. And that was when Trisha found out Colleen was pregnant. They for sure talked shit about Josh and Colleen told her he used the same ring for his current wife (a complete lie)

    • @CaBobProductions
      @CaBobProductions ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Ashleymhsuf927 EXACTLY!!! I was going to mention that it was the mukbang that we found out later that Colleen told Trish she was pregnant! I couldnt remember 100%, omg thank u for saying that

  • @katl2390
    @katl2390 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    thank you for letting milo speak

  • @xsmokethebongx
    @xsmokethebongx ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Why does Trisha act like she didn’t bully 16 year old Charli d’amilio online for weeks not that long ago?

    • @Rodviet
      @Rodviet ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Because she already has like 10 videos apologizing to her on TH-cam and tiktok. Move on. When someone shows EXTREME regret and apologizes multiple times, it's time as a viewer to move on.

  • @xian1978
    @xian1978 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How ironic that Johnny got from Josh what Adam wanst from Colleen... a private apology and a public one.

  • @emilyward4388
    @emilyward4388 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I never even realized swoop’s video was 4 hours because I was so into it and just never looked. I was so tired and had to make myself pause it to go to sleep lol first thing in the morning that’s the first video I clicked on to finish. When it was over my first thought was that I hope part 4 comes out quick. Such a good video, the way she laid everything out, the way she talks, her passion.. all of it. I’ve been watching swoop for a few years now and she really outdone herself with this one. I’m so happy she’s getting the praise she has deserved for so long.

  • @goopbuni
    @goopbuni ปีที่แล้ว +7

    7:38 Johnnys end goal was to ruin Josh. He was very obviously obsessed with Josh. He had an unrequited love that he couldn’t make work. He had likely always wanted to “get back” at Josh somehow for (truthfully, accidentally) leading him on, and this situation gave him an opportunity to do it. It’s similar to the situation between Kodee and Kory (in the way of wanting “revenge”) but Johnny actually had contact with Josh and was in love with him.

  • @julius_pepperwood
    @julius_pepperwood ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you for letting milo speak their truth.

  • @Pandaa326
    @Pandaa326 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Trisha saying she doesn’t understand why more people aren’t talking about it or paying attention to the situation is wild to me. She was JUST saying in her last video how she didn’t want to pay attention and she stays out of drama. This involved her and she still wanted nothing to do with it.

    • @rachelr9594
      @rachelr9594 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She is the contradiction queen

    • @mariaosina2778
      @mariaosina2778 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's kinda specifies in this that it's not just drama, because there are real victims. So it's not really a contradiction, more so she's also considered this just some drama. And now she doesn't understand how many people writing this situation off as just drama, now that she's invested in it.

    • @Pandaa326
      @Pandaa326 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariaosina2778 genuinely, your comment does not make sense. Idk what you’re trying to say.

  • @abigailjolene
    @abigailjolene ปีที่แล้ว +27

    No because Milo had a point.

  • @Chellybean815
    @Chellybean815 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OMG right. It is horrible that Swoop's video got demonetized. That video was SO much work. As soon as I get so extra scratch, I am going to get one of her hoodies. The girl deserves support. She takes what she does seriously, and she works hard. Love her!

  • @4NyNteen
    @4NyNteen ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Being an old fan of miranda and then being so fond of colleen when i found her doing her life in a days, this story destroyed my younger years. I was an 18-19 year old who thankfully never found the fandom! My heart goes out to all of the young adults and kids who have been traumatized by this situation. Youre an inspiration adam!! Stay strong! And swoop!😊

  • @yourfriendalwaysl6990
    @yourfriendalwaysl6990 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    swoop did an amazing job so empathetic and understanding my heart broke in the first video seeing how small you were and how happy you were to be taking a picture with "Miranda" may you and your heart heal from everything that you have gone through. ❤

  • @prism601
    @prism601 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Colleen totally fueled that tirade that Trisha made about Josh, imo. She knew she was feeding info to someone who was mentally unhinged and that it was going to trigger her to attack him viciously. That whole thing with the engagement ring he gave his wife being the same as hers , I wholeheartedly believe that information was from Colleen.

  • @itssydvicious
    @itssydvicious ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Not only did swoop keep my attention for 4 hours, I’ve rewatched a few different times to make sure I really absorbed all that information lol

  • @ashleydavid8997
    @ashleydavid8997 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    And for people who do not know Swoop, ALL of her research and videos is top-tier. She is extremely powerful and has such tact. You should deep
    Dive her if you get the chance

  • @PartyBoxGamer
    @PartyBoxGamer ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: Swoop deserves your attention. Just because you don’t want to “watch” a four hour video there’s not really an excuse for not being able to listen to it instead. She’s just as easy to listen to as she is to watch. Please give her your time.

  • @brendad940
    @brendad940 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    John seems desperate enough to have done this to show Colleen- look how loyal I am I'll take the attention off you. He just seems like a very broken nasty person.

  • @librawitxh1452
    @librawitxh1452 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The part where you had your cat meow into the mic made all my cats gather around the tv! 😂

  • @spiffymacadamia6405
    @spiffymacadamia6405 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think the thing that is special about D’Angelo is that his Shane video was one of the first of its kind in terms of impact and depth at the time. He did that video before Swoop started similar content. Her first video that matched the level of D’Angelo’s was her “Goodbye Mykie” video. D’Angelo was first.

  • @jaimereynolds258
    @jaimereynolds258 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Out of the 100s and 100s of lies, sometimes she tells the truth. When it benefits her anyway.

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂 EXACTLY

    • @FabiolaMacabre
      @FabiolaMacabre ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True 💀

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And only partially and vaguely but with many words so the truth is indistinguishable from the lies - recipe for TRISHsess

    • @jaimereynolds258
      @jaimereynolds258 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@dandelion_official4812 That's why she talks so fast. People don't catch all the BS lol

  • @AshArAis
    @AshArAis ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I've experienced someone who absorbed sob stories and psychological jargon, and weaponised it into getting what they wanted. Which was part getting attention/sympathy, part getting away with stuff.
    Johnny went about things the exact same way. Absorbing other people's stories to be a sympathy vampire.

    • @ilovemayo123
      @ilovemayo123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This describes Trisha Paytas to a f’in T tho. She does this with every other person she’s ever been close to

    • @a.m2707
      @a.m2707 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@ilovemayo123 you took the words right out of my mouth! Trisha is notorious for this. People are so quick to forget

  • @Ryka1100
    @Ryka1100 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Trauma doesn’t have a time on it, this is a part of your story and it’s your channel to do as you want.
    From someone who experienced grooming multiple times as a child I’m so happy for you that you are talking, it’s not as easy as people realise, and it’s something that sits with you for life. So you talk as much as you want, your maturity, honesty and empathy is so apparent and it’s awesome to see ❤️❤️

  • @loriann8343
    @loriann8343 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The fact that Colleen is a narcissist Trish was being her flying monkey not realizing that's exactly what she was doing so I agree with u Adam I believe Trish didn't realize what Colleen was having her do to hurt Josh and talk down about him!

  • @jillb3072
    @jillb3072 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Swoop is known for her very long length content and she knows how to keep all people engaged and you can tell the the pride she has in her content. I think Trisha with all in all, Trisha has evolved so much. Maybe Malibu has helped her understand empathy and not trolling others or going on a rage posting incomprehensible videos. I am so proud of you and talking this out in detail but in your way, and I love her AITA videos and going back to your regular posting.

  • @theothertargaryen
    @theothertargaryen ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Such an amazing statement by Milo☺️

  • @demiandjbfan1
    @demiandjbfan1 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Honestly to me it seems like Johnny's end goal was to jump start his social media career. And he specifically clung onto Adam's coattails and paralleled their stories as much as possible to gain traction with Adam's audience and build a following. Clearly that didn't work out for him because he's not as smart as he thinks he is. He just thought he could talk his way through it and no one would ever question him. And when Adam didn't give him the attention he wanted, he turned to Trisha's nudes as plan b to get attention I guess

  • @teahchristensen8205
    @teahchristensen8205 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I bought three of her hoodies. The dedication of our favorite petty queen is unreal. She is an amazing person inside and out, her hard work, her over all message and her ability to bring the petty when it's absolutely deserved is pure gold. ❤ And her crew my lord, they are unbelievably amazing. I send swoop so much love.

  • @pollypocket2282
    @pollypocket2282 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a medical procedure and was home yesterday… between my naps (meds), I watched beginning to end. It was so well done… it made me wish there was an award to give her… true researcher, reporter and so well put together. Adam, proud of you!

  • @amykru
    @amykru ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I stumbled on this entire topic by accident. I'm old, I don't follow pop culture, but I'm PISSED at what has been done to Adam and the other victims and so, now, I'm all over this topic. Colleen, cheated on her husband and gaslit her audience and anyone else who would listen into thinking that Josh was the bad guy. It worked. Everyone fell for it. She did the same thing to Adam and it worked again...both times she was in the wrong and everyone believed her lies and manipulation. She didn't even have the decency to have a parting of ways with Adam, she just ghosted him and released the hounds to attack him, relentlessly. Adam reminds me, so much, of my friend who I lost when we were young during the AIDS crisis: smart, funny, and FIERCE! Colleen: Manipulation time is OVER.

  • @MorganVsTheInternet
    @MorganVsTheInternet ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't have the bandwidth to set for a 3-hour movie but Swoop’s investigative docs never feel bloated or stretched out!

  • @anneemull
    @anneemull ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Colleen ended up being the true mentor…. He found someone who’s values aligned with his, and then learned from the best 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @JazmineTheGemini
    @JazmineTheGemini ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i may be wrong, but, it had me thinking when Adam mentioned what’s the goal Johnny had for all this mess he created and for some reason i thought “what if Colleen reached out to Johnny to help her out to get the spotlight away from her?” since he’s acting kind of like the way Colleen did when the divorce was happening and talking nonstop about Josh. idk maybe i’m thinking about it too much >.

  • @tearsofawaterfall2656
    @tearsofawaterfall2656 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I did not realise it was four hours long. I watched the whole damn thing. I had stuff to do and literally postponed everything because Swoop’s video never got boring. I didnt even twig that it was four hours long. Jesus Christ.

  • @louisoliver4905
    @louisoliver4905 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Here's my hypothesis about Johnny;
    I believe Johnny was a parasocial fan of Colleen and then Josh, to the max. (For example, him showing up to shows, constantly messaging him, etc.) People who have a parasocial fixation on someone at the level Johnny appears to have will do anything they can to tie their name to the person they're fixated on, and they'll do everything they can to get acknowledgment from that person. When Josh (Again, in my opinion) perhaps recognized how attached Johnny was and distanced himself, Johnny maybe felt betrayed. Johnny accusing Josh of this incredibly heinous thing will forever tie their two names together. and not only that, Johnny gets revenge for being "abandoned", and he did get a response from Josh, he got several apologies (Not blaming Josh, of course.) I also genuinely think he never thought anyone would look at his story with the scrutiny and investigation that Swoop did, thus get away with such lies without being pressed on them.
    I also think fame was part of it too. He saw the traction this story was getting, and he saw that you Adam have a TH-cam channel and a Twitch stream, which (I assume) has grown somewhat since this story broke out again this year. I think he thought he could get the fame he always wanted through this story and grow his social media presence.
    Need it be said, I'm just a guy on the internet saying his opinion, with no qualifications in this sort of stuff, I could be completely wrong. It's just my two cents on the matter :/.

  • @pikachu7572
    @pikachu7572 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yeah but D'Angelo was about a million times more clear about his argument. He didn't need new interviews because we have over a decade of shaen behaving grotesquely. That's why it's powerful. No one on TH-cam will be anything close to D'Angelo even to this day because he goes beyond so and so is problematic

  • @SageandStoneHomestead
    @SageandStoneHomestead ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was EXCITED it was 4 hours. I knew she had a long video for a darn good reason.

  • @trepidjam
    @trepidjam ปีที่แล้ว +9

    this situation just keeps going and going 😭

  • @AdalynAlbert
    @AdalynAlbert ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Milo’s comment was so valid!

  • @casey2798
    @casey2798 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    my opinion on johnny’s motivation was that once he noticed colleen was being called out, he wanted validation for the hurt he felt (from josh not being his bff/colleen not being his ticket) and at, was kinda just dumb about the understanding of grooming, thought maybe he was a victim and this was his chance for validation, then got caught up in the whirl and of it all. i bet he realized long ago he isn’t actually a victim but felt trapped by all he had said previously. it’s just cowardly behavior resulting from insecurity

  • @kylie2460
    @kylie2460 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Adam, just wanted to let you know that I wait for your posts everyday and they’re my favorite. Have a great day 💛

  • @jorgan130
    @jorgan130 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But wait didnt Trisha Paystes also try to ruin Ethan Kleins life with SA accusations?

  • @BCFBreakfastClubFan
    @BCFBreakfastClubFan ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was already a fan of Swoop, but when I saw that 4-hour video, I cringed. I figured I'd have to watch it in increments, but I actually watched every.single.second. and gave it my full attention. It didn't seem to take four hours at all. I actually caught myself talking back to the computer, lol. I think that her empathy towards the people she interviews, and even those people like Johnny is what makes her so unique and watchable. Her openness and honesty and her little injections of humor into things make her infinitely watchable.
    I liked her very much before this...now I flat-out _Stan_

  • @annanewlin7632
    @annanewlin7632 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Didn’t Trish accuse josh of using the same ring he gave Colleen to Pamela. That was definitely fueled by Colleen.

  • @Ashleymhsuf927
    @Ashleymhsuf927 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Trisha owes Josh an apology. Period.

    • @rachelr9594
      @rachelr9594 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Trisha owes dozens of people apologies. She never will though

    • @Ashleymhsuf927
      @Ashleymhsuf927 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rachelr9594 so true

    • @jessicaripko
      @jessicaripko ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Was watching this to see if she apologized to josh. She draaaagggged him. She definitely owes him a huge apology.

  • @chronicinokla
    @chronicinokla ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Swoop could be ranked up there with journalists of our time like Australia Liz Hayes. Compassionate but hard hitting as well when needed

  • @pamconparta
    @pamconparta ปีที่แล้ว +1

    8:12 i wasn't looking at the video and started looking for my cats everywhere thinking it was one of them ahsjdjd

  • @ifreddiebenson
    @ifreddiebenson ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i have adhd and i paid attention to the swoop video the WHOLE time i was sad when it ended too😭😭😭

  • @user-vf7ov5wj1k
    @user-vf7ov5wj1k ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi Adam!! I’m at 7:59 at the moment but I wanted to chime in on the topic of Johnny’s intention. This is entirely from what I have understood from this situation, along with my opinion so of course please correct me if I have something wrong about the story! Anyways, I’ve seen this kind of response happen before with certain people I know who have unhealthy and manipulative ways of interacting. They would be or feel victimized in some way and instead of being able to understand that another’s victimhood does not take anything from theirs, they see it as a kind of threat to their story and validity(Likely from trauma related to being repetitively invalidated). This manifested in such occurrences as having friends who had gone through things no one should go through, being met with a friend explaining their struggle with the same thing only to be shot down because they “didn’t have it as worse as them” for whatever reason. From what I was able to evaluate, it seemed like these individuals felt their status as a victim was so fragile and easily invalidated that they clinged to it any way they could, even by lying or manipulating relationships so that they could feel righteous in their victimhood.

  • @sarasgonzalezg
    @sarasgonzalezg ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After watching swoop's video I started thinking, what if Johnny is pushing so hard on the josh narrative to deflect the attention from Colleen so people will stop talking about her? I wonder if those two still communicate... IDK

    • @KelseyDrummer
      @KelseyDrummer ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was thinking that too! Like if he quit his job like he said he did... where his money coming from?👀
      I have questions!

  • @yayfunlyric
    @yayfunlyric ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love you Adam!!! Your uploads make my day ❤️❤️❤️

  • @beccakennedy5659
    @beccakennedy5659 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sitting with my cat watching your videos, I’m going through a really hard time and your videos help :)

  • @TryinBin8889
    @TryinBin8889 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Crazy thing is if Johnny had just let up on everything, he'd be fine right now. If he'd stopped after the first apology and moved on, I'm sure things would've been fine