12 Signs Someone Is Pretending To Like You

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  • Here are 12 signs someone is pretending to like you! If you've ever found yourself wondering if someone is secretly jealous of you, or if they secretly dislike you, or if they're just pretending to like you because they want something from you, this video is for you. These are all warning signs of a toxic relationship; and toxic people drain your energy and resources. Don't let yourself be fooled by those who pretend to like you. Understand them for who they really are: fake friends or just fake nice people.
    Don't get me wrong, I know there are people out there who just can't help but be fake nice, even when they don't mean it. But when we're talking about someone who has been lying to your face and manipulating you for weeks or months without any remorse? That's not indicative of genuine interest.
    This video will teach you everything you need to know about the red flags that indicate when someone has fake feelings for you.
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ความคิดเห็น • 135

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Fake people don't surprise me any more loyal people do.........✨✨

    • @Kensuke22
      @Kensuke22 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Glad I have someone with the same ideals

  • @kennethlange6157
    @kennethlange6157 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    If a person likes you,their facial expressions changes.When they see you the get excited that you're around.

    • @worthytv7718
      @worthytv7718 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I had a fake friend who did this

  • @andysdestination8671
    @andysdestination8671 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    This why I don’t have very many friends. In my life time they all come and go. I’m use to it. If they like me? they’ll come around and if they don’t like me. I don’t waist my time for them come around. Simple is that. Cheers 😎😎🔥🔥☕️☕️

    • @helenamuniz5269
      @helenamuniz5269 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cheers🍷

    • @vasudevacr3898
      @vasudevacr3898 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cheers 🥂🥂.... finally i found someone who has the same thought as me....u r 💯% true....they just come and make use of good people and then leave when the job is done....

    • @AkashYadav-qs1cv
      @AkashYadav-qs1cv ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes don't "waist" u r time

    • @pillowplay2118
      @pillowplay2118 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@AkashYadav-qs1cv Don't judge others' grammar when yours needs help as well.

    • @therapyfamily405
      @therapyfamily405 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cheers 🍻

  • @lovelystarchild
    @lovelystarchild ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is why I barely have any friends. Truth be told this video describes MOST people. Most people are fake, manipulative & self absorbed. Most people are NOT good people. With that said, I prefer to be by myself. I am my own best friend & I can do great all by myself ❤️

  • @UndercoverTherapist
    @UndercoverTherapist ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Great information! Keeping up with forced friendship or trying to be friends with someone who does not really care about you can be quite draining and frustrating.
    This video is even more relatable because I believe most people have been in such a situation at some point in their life. Hopefully, these tips will help more people spot and deal with fake friends.
    We all deserve pure and genuine friendship!

  • @healthandhustle1
    @healthandhustle1 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I trust my instincts to find out if someone is pretending. Another excellent video by Brainy Dose!!

  • @reneegardner2286
    @reneegardner2286 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I've been dealing with a somatic narcissist for 5 years and almost all of these fit. I've known for several years I'm being used and I finally ended the relationship this week this video is reassuring

  • @noisespark
    @noisespark ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Voice changing can also be related to being shy and because of anxiety. The problem is that when someone has trauma expressing becomes harder because the person starts questioning themselves.

  • @ReallyStrongGuy
    @ReallyStrongGuy ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Great information! We often ignore these things, but having such a clear list makes them so much easier to spot.

  • @dantheman8279
    @dantheman8279 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This was 100% spot on! Everyone should review this 10X!

  • @davidclaro152
    @davidclaro152 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yup! Been there. Those “friends” have been long gone. I can care less.

  • @pharxahghxst3654
    @pharxahghxst3654 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yes I've been noticing this lately from a specific someone

  • @koalatheworld
    @koalatheworld ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Knowing the signs and following your tuition are keys to self-love.

  • @robertwirth8459
    @robertwirth8459 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Another sign is they keep making excuses why they can’t accept your invitations while they are having their own social events and not inviting you.

  • @levitasdosenhor-congregaca742
    @levitasdosenhor-congregaca742 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much. It's really makes sense and is helpful to know very well our friends and also to protect us from fake people.

  • @snowleopard1850
    @snowleopard1850 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The worst thing for me was when after many years of friendship with everything that it entails, years when you trust your friend, you find out that they are plotting behind your back, gossiping and spreading rumors. That is ugly, but what I found more painful was my betrayed trust in them and the years that I thought that our friendship was genuine and that they use you for them not to feel alone. Then I ask myself if people understand what friendship is. Friendship is a relationship that includes moral values like honesty, patience, appreciation, some kind of feeling that tells you that this is my friend that I trust. That's big, because you don't trust everyone you meet.

  • @lookfeelbehealthy6320
    @lookfeelbehealthy6320 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    As soon as I began saying what I wanted to and not caring what other people think, more people started respecting me for being real, even if they disagree with my stance on certain things. Then of course there are the people who get offended at what I say and disappear, which is perfectly fine with me.

    • @Nina-vv3ev
      @Nina-vv3ev 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I did that it makes people hate me more for being genuine actually

    • @lookfeelbehealthy6320
      @lookfeelbehealthy6320 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Nina-vv3ev And it's those people whom I get rid of from my life. The real ones will respect you for being real.

    • @Nina-vv3ev
      @Nina-vv3ev 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lookfeelbehealthy6320 you can’t avoid em all… but yeah… most people are toxic & it’s sad… is my point

  • @littlebearmedia
    @littlebearmedia ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Good presentation. A lot of young impressionable people would benefit from these tips.

  • @onedayatatime8756
    @onedayatatime8756 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I'm not fake. If i don't like you i don't pretend that i do. I stay far away. It's best for my peace of mind and happiness. I'm not good at pretending and lying.
    It takes me a long time to open up to people. I prefer to listen carefully to what they have to say. That generally tells me all that i need to know. I've always been pretty much of a loner by choice, so i'm comfortable in my own skin. Smaller circle = Less drama, arguments, and headaches.
    As the bible says: "You'll know them by their fruits." (What they speak of is what's in their heart, be it good, bad, or ugly.)

  • @trumainegillings6264
    @trumainegillings6264 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's how people get erased. Not worth your time and you energy.

  • @dianaxrose9
    @dianaxrose9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I feel like I’m a fake friend because since I can’t think of anything to say since I’m awkward I compliment my friends often and voice changing can be a sign of being shy..and the facial expressions part I have trouble with expressing my emotions..god I feel so awful :)

  • @wandalee5010
    @wandalee5010 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They don’t even pretend!

  • @mathalinehunt4822
    @mathalinehunt4822 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    70% of what you said has happened to me great video

    • @ShrandaM
      @ShrandaM ปีที่แล้ว

      Well now you know!!

  • @NuclearNoMore
    @NuclearNoMore ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, this describes everything about her! Thanks!

  • @amaliaarauz2240
    @amaliaarauz2240 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing 👍

  • @sarahhurst140
    @sarahhurst140 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thanks, Brainy Dose! This list is true! Great video!🎀🌍

  • @MrSa458
    @MrSa458 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've delt with people who only like to be nice to me
    Anyways God bless everyone who comes across this comment 🕊️🙌✝️🔥

  • @elizabethfreedman2953
    @elizabethfreedman2953 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This was very helpful & validates some of life’s hard lessons learned about dangerous manipulative people. It’s really important to be watchful of them. Thank you to the max🙏💐❤

  • @susanneschmidtcruz7156
    @susanneschmidtcruz7156 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Right now I can think of one person who is a pretender and sadly it's in extended family. Even the way she says my name gives me the creeps. I have tried to kill her with kindness but it has not worked. I can't avoid her but I'm not going to cozy up to her anymore either. Another good one brainy dose.

  • @giuliabaracchi463
    @giuliabaracchi463 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People have always behaved like this towards me.. I just don't understand what I have done wrong.. even if I tried to be friendly it didn't seem to work..whatever I said or did was wrong and some of them would laugh for no real reason or they would simply stare at me.. I do not think somebody could possibly be jealous because I've never thought to be that special but these things have really hurt me in the past.. that's why now I have no problem to be harsh if necessary and most important to keep them away from me.. For sometime I had to pretend I actually liked one of my former managers but I left as soon as I could.. gossipy, drunk and stoned.. what a relief when I left!!

  • @manifestationwithkhwaish
    @manifestationwithkhwaish ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's y u shouldn't expect a lot from ppl n also don't take their opinions personally. If you train ur mind to become like that, you will never feel hurt bc no one is as important as u, in your life, Thats the way to deal w 'em.

  • @allthingsnostalgia1990
    @allthingsnostalgia1990 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Why Do People Insist On Pretending To Like You? To Me It's A Waste Of Time.

    • @ianimal36
      @ianimal36 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Because you have something they want.

    • @allthingsnostalgia1990
      @allthingsnostalgia1990 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ianimal36 Like I Said It's A Waste Of Time. I Mean If You Want Something Just Ask Instead Of Just Pretending To Like You.

  • @dalordjuvinilej7770
    @dalordjuvinilej7770 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ive almost always veen able to tell when someone is faking being nice to me, i think it has to do with me beibg an empath and can feel their deceptive nature.

  • @joseabad2552
    @joseabad2552 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every day I learn something new thanks to you guys thanks for making the videos ❤

  • @smike6862
    @smike6862 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was awesome video

  • @ThisFactswin08
    @ThisFactswin08 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't know why people have to fake there feelings 😑 For me it's a selfishness.

  • @dakoderii4221
    @dakoderii4221 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    2 million subs. Congrats!

  • @traceylennon1204
    @traceylennon1204 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Number 6!! For sure...

  • @malykudoh4632
    @malykudoh4632 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love this Video ! it brings so much clarity

  • @heatherfulmore3412
    @heatherfulmore3412 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I guess I should take this as a warning.What the hell is this? Competing with who?

  • @geezer4962
    @geezer4962 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Always trust what your instincts are telling you.

  • @jamesmurray6348
    @jamesmurray6348 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is 90 percent of people. This is why I don't have but one friend I've known for almost 40 years

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don’t go all out to be popular or draw attention I just go with what I fee in my heart and try to be kind ❤️😊👍🏻

  • @yuugihasgalaxy
    @yuugihasgalaxy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for this video it helped me to figure out the faking

  • @lelea3002
    @lelea3002 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thought it was 12 signs someone is pretending to be like you. Tbh that would be really interesting.

  • @justinschmid735
    @justinschmid735 ปีที่แล้ว

    Perfect description of my relationship with myself.

  • @pokemon6926
    @pokemon6926 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People pretend to like me. I’m a girl who’s socially awkward, introverted, loves anime and can’t talk to people because they’re not like me and think I’m weird. I’m also kind of a nerd. Can anyone relate to me?

    • @dianaxrose9
      @dianaxrose9 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re not alone don’t worry I’m like that too 🥲

  • @ericmoore9444
    @ericmoore9444 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If there’re talking to me they’re pretending

  • @pgfnj0279
    @pgfnj0279 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Pretending to like someone that I really don’t like is way too much work for me in my opinion…..if I don’t like you, trust me, you’ll know that I don’t real quick…..
    What I generally have an issue are with “friends” that I used to be cool with but then they change over time and become very fake and superficial, almost phony…..

  • @malik-hw8bk
    @malik-hw8bk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent

  • @conradhostetler9863
    @conradhostetler9863 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel as if everyone is faking a friendship with me

  • @kennethpetroni7911
    @kennethpetroni7911 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    True for my female coworkers

  • @freshmuya1150
    @freshmuya1150 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I get this a lot that’s why I stay to myself too many fake Ness is going on so I just do me 💯💯💯

  • @mikesmith6594
    @mikesmith6594 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Know too many fake and narcissistic people 😢. They say one thing and do another my father being one of them ! These kinda people make you feel worthless and not good enough . Like you don't even exist in the friendship or relationship .

  • @KareenaStrait
    @KareenaStrait ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If someone wants to be around you, they won't pretend that they don't.

  • @ruweydaa5710
    @ruweydaa5710 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I already have trust issues this video is gonna make it worse 😊

  • @chadstickler4595
    @chadstickler4595 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah I've got friends like that

  • @stevenbass732
    @stevenbass732 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just assume that about everyone, and go with the situation as required.

  • @deboraholiver2192
    @deboraholiver2192 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Video on online relationships please

  • @lisakay1259
    @lisakay1259 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So True

  • @peekaboo4903
    @peekaboo4903 ปีที่แล้ว

    My voice changes on my own mood and due to me singing alot my voice changes regularly... it doesn't matter if I like them or not

  • @kboogiemusic
    @kboogiemusic ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Dang, how many of you realized that you're the fake person? I need to make some changes, lol.

  • @chadr4013
    @chadr4013 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Only need 1. So far in my life, no one has shown romantic interest in me, so if anyone ever does, I know it’s a lie.

  • @angelmd43
    @angelmd43 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Drop them like a hot potato if you can.

  • @arvinsenglishph4925
    @arvinsenglishph4925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's common. Pretentious is omnipresent n ubiquitous

  • @jay19jaybirah76
    @jay19jaybirah76 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nothing but true 👍 very informative and educative video

  • @ziggyustar3137
    @ziggyustar3137 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When others try to include me along with the faker I call them out and let them know not to try to create levity with those who don't trust Me it's a disconnect in the attempt/. But I always announce it; like No, it's okay that You don't care for me. I don't need to feel uncomfortable at their expense not a nickel worth/ I hope this helps someone who isn't strong enough yet to utter those freeing words of separating the wheat from the chaff... it gets easier with every opportunity to stand alone just like the cheese/ & not from cutting it 😉🙃

  • @ShanniSlayTV
    @ShanniSlayTV 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes plenty of times I faked liking someone to try to get over some of my exes a few times

  • @pattipotvine1073
    @pattipotvine1073 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice. Now do a twelve reasons why I don't care.

  • @MWEric
    @MWEric ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me...What you see is What you get no pretend no bullshit just straight up unfortunately I can't say the same with most women I've met unfortunately I married one and when I became ill my reward was being served Divorce papers 33 months later.will NEVER Marry again .

  • @magarityann
    @magarityann ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Real Talk Everyone can learn from this program.Mature Structure reason in your life. PEACE

  • @magnetohex703
    @magnetohex703 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I must be a terrible person, because if I don't like somebody I just tell them straight out. And if I care about somebody?, I just tell them come back and talk to me when you're doing something productive!. Show me the receipts, and people that talk about other people?, that doesn't bother me not the slightest in fact I tell the person directly in their face that I'm going to tell them things about other people about them the way they're behaving!.
    I think I'm just a very direct person. And if I have hobbies and someone else is not interested in them,?. That's okay I try to get to know their Hobbies but if they don't have any and they seem to be bouncing around through drama?. And then they come out and ask for money?, I stopped them directly in their tracks I hold up my hand and I tell them a lot of brutal truths and they're just run out the house!.
    I don't like fake people I don't tolerate them, I don't like people that are two-faced I don't tolerate them either. I just tell people show me the receipts?!. Show me what you have done in your life come back to me when you have achieved some extra curriculums, and then I hand them a big fat book with lots of resources of information. And if they don't know how to navigate through that?, then I will berate the hell out of them!. I will berate the hell out of them till they decide to jump out the window,! And afterwards I'll just pick up my whiskey and I'll spark a cigar and I'll flick some ashes over there dead body and tell them I told you I was a politician I don't have time for this!. 🤷‍♀️💀⚰🚬💨 😂

    • @bish9051
      @bish9051 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruh😂

  • @lexusashley715
    @lexusashley715 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes

  • @labelle7231
    @labelle7231 ปีที่แล้ว

    It sounds like my mom 😂 bye mom!

  • @madhulinabhowmick4899
    @madhulinabhowmick4899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True

  • @Sonofgod384
    @Sonofgod384 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes I know and it’s funny

  • @Midnight_Shadows
    @Midnight_Shadows ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

  • @karlataylor1172
    @karlataylor1172 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't give a shit who likes me. When is the last time anyone ever asked me if l like them?? Exactly. I always know who is real and who is being fake. Always.

  • @susanwilliams4953
    @susanwilliams4953 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    12 Signs Someone Is Pretending To Like You. As long as you are not pretending g to like them, I have a hard time pretending to like some people.

  • @austriagiancarlo602
    @austriagiancarlo602 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow Brainy Dose, you just described my neighbor Kelly, who lives upstairs and 2 doors across from me. In the beginning, she was ever-so-nice. As a stylist, she even used to do my hair. I paid her of course. Then, she got Lupus and her true colors emerged, she made promises she never kept, totally ignored my concern for her health, and avoided me as I too have a chronic condition. One day out of the blue, she turned up at my door. It had been 10 months since I last saw her, turns out all her 'friends' got fed up with her constant sniveling about her condition, so they stopped inviting her to parties, cookouts, coffees etcetera. That's WHY she finally came to see me. I wasn't thrilled to see her, so I wasn't very cordial. Turns out I was the last shoulder for her to cry on. Boy did she ever pick the wrong sounding board to dump on. 😊😘Can't thank you enough Brainy Dose.

  • @resilience_onward
    @resilience_onward ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sounds like my ex husband.

  • @steevobarker581
    @steevobarker581 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Contacts on my phone are : Chinese takeaway. Fish and chip shop. Mum. Dad.
    Not what you would describe as a "people person" me! 👍🐬

  • @mma6559
    @mma6559 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heeey

  • @ceramahhistori
    @ceramahhistori ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aku benci kesendirian🥲

  • @Aaronwise253
    @Aaronwise253 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not gonna lie I pretend to like a lot of girls and not take them seriously

  • @lolodivine2274
    @lolodivine2274 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great info but be sure that the person isn’t autistic or a person with social anxiety. Most of these are classic signs of anxiety also and some indicate someone autistic too. It’s called masking. This list only goes for neurotypical s

  • @fgjy3093
    @fgjy3093 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    First

  • @ghilachange9816
    @ghilachange9816 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes...Frist

    • @216trixie
      @216trixie ปีที่แล้ว

      Frist is bset!

  • @rosemapati9873
    @rosemapati9873 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First to watch

    • @sheilameyers152
      @sheilameyers152 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pretending to like someone when you don’t…why bother yourself with pretending…. face reality! Life is too short …be around people who you like for real! You’ll be happier!

  • @yurakim9686
    @yurakim9686 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who care. I don’t care about others opinion about me

  • @chrisbee9643
    @chrisbee9643 ปีที่แล้ว

    Number 1: You are talking to a woman....