It used to bother me when people don’t like me esp when I didn’t do anything to them. Usually they don’t like themselves out of insecurity, jealousy, controlling, etc. Who want to hang with these kind of toxic people rejection is God protection. People always reap what they sow. I only do with a few people it to many fake, nosy, gossipy, judgmental people these days. But remember there are good people. You must use common sense dealing with people everyone not going have ur best interests.
@Ruth-vy1qj Thank you for sharing your thoughtful perspective! You're absolutely right - we can never make everyone like us, and it's crucial to use common sense when dealing with people, as not everyone will have our best interests at heart. The goal of this video is to help us become more likeable, but as you wisely point out, there are many factors at play in interpersonal relationships. I believe the least we can do is try not to give people reasons to dislike us unnecessarily. Your comment adds a valuable dimension to this conversation, reminding us to be discerning while still striving to improve our social skills. Thank you for contributing to this insightful discussion!
@@ales1024512 True indeed, not everyone who engages with us has our best interests at heart. This is a crucial aspect of social interactions that deserves more attention. In fact, your comment touches on the delicate balance of empathy in relationships. I'm pleased to share that I'll be making another video specifically addressing how to balance between over and under empathizing with others. Over-empathy may hurt ourselves, while under-empathy may hurt others. It's a complex topic that I'm looking forward to exploring further. Thank you for bringing up this important issue. Stay tuned for the upcoming video where we'll dive deeper into this subject.
As someone who rarely smiled, not because I was unhappy, but due to my natural demeanor and professional requirements, I never realized how it affected others. It took a close colleague to point out that I looked fierce and unapproachable. Since then, I've been consciously working on putting up a mild smile to soften my appearance. It's an ongoing process, but I've noticed positive changes in how people interact with me. Anyone else struggling with this? How are you working on it?
If bad and/ or extremely stupid people don't like you, and you haven't hurt them, then... don't fix it. It's better this way. Seriously- such people will one day harm you (and/or your family) greatly with their stupidity and/ or bad intentions/ jealousy/ envy. Leave them alone (!!!). This is a short description from philosophy- stay away from such idiots...
It's true that we shouldn't bend over backwards for people who might harm us or have bad intentions. The video aims to help with general likability, but your comment reminds us to use our judgment too. It's all about finding that balance between being approachable and protecting ourselves. Thanks for adding this valuable perspective.
It used to bother me when people don’t like me esp when I didn’t do anything to them.
Usually they don’t like themselves out of insecurity, jealousy, controlling, etc.
Who want to hang with these kind of toxic people rejection is God protection. People always reap what they sow.
I only do with a few people it to many fake, nosy, gossipy, judgmental people these days. But remember there are good people. You must use common sense dealing with people everyone not going have ur best interests.
Not everyone who talks with you is your friend.
@Ruth-vy1qj
Thank you for sharing your thoughtful perspective! You're absolutely right - we can never make everyone like us, and it's crucial to use common sense when dealing with people, as not everyone will have our best interests at heart. The goal of this video is to help us become more likeable, but as you wisely point out, there are many factors at play in interpersonal relationships. I believe the least we can do is try not to give people reasons to dislike us unnecessarily. Your comment adds a valuable dimension to this conversation, reminding us to be discerning while still striving to improve our social skills. Thank you for contributing to this insightful discussion!
@@ales1024512
True indeed, not everyone who engages with us has our best interests at heart. This is a crucial aspect of social interactions that deserves more attention. In fact, your comment touches on the delicate balance of empathy in relationships. I'm pleased to share that I'll be making another video specifically addressing how to balance between over and under empathizing with others. Over-empathy may hurt ourselves, while under-empathy may hurt others. It's a complex topic that I'm looking forward to exploring further. Thank you for bringing up this important issue. Stay tuned for the upcoming video where we'll dive deeper into this subject.
As someone who rarely smiled, not because I was unhappy, but due to my natural demeanor and professional requirements, I never realized how it affected others. It took a close colleague to point out that I looked fierce and unapproachable. Since then, I've been consciously working on putting up a mild smile to soften my appearance. It's an ongoing process, but I've noticed positive changes in how people interact with me. Anyone else struggling with this? How are you working on it?
If bad and/ or extremely stupid people don't like you, and you haven't hurt them, then... don't fix it. It's better this way.
Seriously- such people will one day harm you (and/or your family) greatly with their stupidity and/ or bad intentions/ jealousy/ envy.
Leave them alone (!!!). This is a short description from philosophy- stay away from such idiots...
It's true that we shouldn't bend over backwards for people who might harm us or have bad intentions. The video aims to help with general likability, but your comment reminds us to use our judgment too. It's all about finding that balance between being approachable and protecting ourselves. Thanks for adding this valuable perspective.