Inbred Family-The Whittakers (follow up)

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  • Soft White Underbelly follow up interview and portrait of the Whittaker family of Odd, West Virginia.
    Here's a link to a playlist of all Whittaker family videos: • The Whittakers
    Here’s a link to a GoFundMe to help the Whittaker family with living expenses and home repairs: gofund.me/e21b...
    Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly book & merchandise: softwhiteunder....
    #swu #documentary #whittakers #westvirginia #appalachia #interview #familyhistory #softwhiteunderbelly #marklaita #mentalhealth
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  • @zdubsmith
    @zdubsmith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36835

    Just remember y’all. They didn’t choose to be born this way. Yet they still wake up, look out for one another, and have smiles on their faces

    • @susanenglander9977
      @susanenglander9977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

      Dream on, Dream on, Dream on.

    • @lisamichels1825
      @lisamichels1825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +654

      Sometimes ignorance is bliss

    • @benjaminromberg2091
      @benjaminromberg2091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +450

      Amen to that Zachary, they’re just simple people and hopefully they’re happy and content.

    • @22lrjayden81
      @22lrjayden81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +317

      Fr. Makes me so thankful man. And pissed at my peers that get upset Bc their parents got them a 1,000 dollar tv instead of a 1,000 dolllar iPhone

    • @austincrazie886
      @austincrazie886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +247

      That was a beautiful comment! My heart is hurting so bad but at the same time, they all seem so happy together...its hard to be too upset about it.

  • @mallorilesseski8676
    @mallorilesseski8676 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9188

    “I promised my Mommy I wouldn’t get married, I promised her I’d take care of Ray, Lorraine, and Timmy”. Your mama would be proud Betty. 💜

    • @JJj-qo9pb
      @JJj-qo9pb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +388

      The sacrifice is wholesome. God bless her n hers all fam

    • @Dad-979
      @Dad-979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Id hit it

    • @kmadoom
      @kmadoom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      her mother would also be her aunt lmao

    • @tiffanynot-amused9077
      @tiffanynot-amused9077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      God has a special place for her in heaven that's for sure 🖤😇🙏

    • @sebastyann123
      @sebastyann123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @@kmadoom wow i would never be able to reach to that myself, i guess your mom is also your aunt

  • @aprilMichelleXJRL
    @aprilMichelleXJRL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7291

    That woman promised her mom she would take care of her siblings and she did and still is..... that is loyalty. It's love. God bless em.

    • @walliegoolsby5389
      @walliegoolsby5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      I wonder what will happen if they loose Lorene. She is holding the family together as promised.

    • @melissaevans4396
      @melissaevans4396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +223

      @@walliegoolsby5389 it’s Betty that holds them together. Lorain can’t speak much. But there’s no telling what will happen when she’s gone.

    • @mcglo585
      @mcglo585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      It broke my heart to hear her say that. She kept her promise. Yes, Lord, bless them all.

    • @nymetsfan912
      @nymetsfan912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      That’s the definition of an angel. She’s willing to sacrifice her entire life to help these people have a good life. It’s just not something you see anymore these days.

    • @the_even_toed_ungulate.
      @the_even_toed_ungulate. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@walliegoolsby5389 I bet they can spell better than you.

  • @chromedome4243
    @chromedome4243 ปีที่แล้ว +1222

    Betty is such a selfless human being. She dedicated her entire life to taking care of her special needs siblings. She is the glue that holds everyone together

    • @beckyseward6759
      @beckyseward6759 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Well... Yes and no.... I think she very much needs to be there we well... Shes very slow.... She's one of the highest functioning out of the family it looks like... At least the ones that stayed but .... Not all the cog's are turning up there either, no offense ... I'm not trying to talk bad about her or anything it just seems like she has her own battles to fight.

    • @chromedome4243
      @chromedome4243 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      She absolutely has her own battles shes fighting upstairs for sure.​@beckyseward6759

    • @elizabethlloyd3013
      @elizabethlloyd3013 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The way ray talks about Freddy is so cute and sad. And before you jump down my throat. If you try to say I’m being mean and he’s not talking, you’ve never known a nonverbal- but verbal person.

  • @tacticaldad9929
    @tacticaldad9929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7005

    I doubt this comment will be seen, but I’m a Shady Spring, WV native born and raised here. Myself and several others would love to volunteer our time if they have any more supplies to do work on their house.

    • @YavaTay
      @YavaTay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +554

      Thats what is needed. People who want to help. I hope the comment is seen and help accepted

    • @saablife6009
      @saablife6009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      Hope you get in contact with the family there really could do with the help

    • @hazelscobbie8290
      @hazelscobbie8290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Wonderful people ❤

    • @e-rock7319
      @e-rock7319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      That is sweet. Hopefully, this post will help with the algorithm and get it seen. 🙏best of luck

    • @Amybtru
      @Amybtru 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      I hope you get a response. Some good honest help is what they need!

  • @redfo3009
    @redfo3009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5550

    Let’s not forget that this woman was the one of the 16 siblings who stayed behind to look after her siblings and nephew for her dying mother. She has more heart and compassion than many others who would have walked away too. They aren’t that uncivilized. Just look that way

    • @skye_0368
      @skye_0368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Awww

    • @goldenrule6173
      @goldenrule6173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +297

      $30k for a tin roof ? And some medical bills?? Someone took advantage of them. They need help getting things fixed....if you just throw money at them...I mean...what u expect. Ask em what they need and go get it. Coulda hired some cheap fix it ppl...fix that whole dang house...and hook em up with GOOD FOOD to eat. They get mail back there....send em good food! Good water. Maybe some cbd oil. Idk.

    • @patrickneil7820
      @patrickneil7820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@goldenrule6173 yea they got robbed.

    • @patrickneil7820
      @patrickneil7820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@goldenrule6173 some ppl might even come with "good" intentions and switch up halfway through. lol. that's just the way it is these days.

    • @carter_1
      @carter_1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

      @@goldenrule6173 when is the last time you got a roof done? In 2018, it cost us (ironically) $35,000 for our house roof (just a tear off & replace), tin roof for garage, & new gutters around both. 25,000 was the house (and that was pre-inflation aks covid). Heck my dad had his own roofing company for yeeears and even in the 1980s it was 10grand for an average job.
      She got her a roof, medical Bill's, and redid her laundry room. I thought she faired out pretty descent!

  • @dominikwalker6608
    @dominikwalker6608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10274

    If Ray were given a camera, I'd be incredibly curious to see what he would take photos of. What people photograph is a great insight to what someone is attentive to. For someone that doesn't speak it could be really insightful.

    • @Batty218
      @Batty218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +508

      Never thought of it that way. This is a great comment. Even tho it makes total sense.

    • @Mrs.Criticless
      @Mrs.Criticless 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      I love this comment.

    • @lostfound8112
      @lostfound8112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Awesoe idea

    • @genghis_connie
      @genghis_connie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      I was thinking of something similar. My second thought was that it would be all pictures taken from the porch. I do wonder.
      I would love to see if a sort of kids game with words and pictures would help the three to say what they feel and answer questions.
      I worry that they're all going to be committed if anything happens to the older sister. They would probably all follow quickly. Jesus, this all just guts me.

    • @Diggs4ever
      @Diggs4ever 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      He would definitely be snapping pics of mommas snapper. You can tell that guy fcks

  • @gypsysoulrae0722
    @gypsysoulrae0722 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    When he was asking about family that had passed away and Lorrane said "My Daddy...." I could have cried my eyes out 🥺

  • @Lostinmyhead23
    @Lostinmyhead23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12988

    I actually feel bad for Betty. She basically gave up her whole life to become a caregiver and is isolated from basically the whole world besides her family. I really empathize with people who have to raise and take care of people with severe disabilities, it’s not easy at all.

    • @lisah6799
      @lisah6799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +709

      It takes a special person to be a caretaker. You have to be very patient. She looks like she's mastered it. ❤

    • @marietourniquet
      @marietourniquet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +655

      I feel for Betty too, and actually relate to her alot. I have a husband and 3 boys of my own, I also care for my grandma, and my mother. I am 27yrs old. I have no life, except caring for my family. I have three sisters and not a single one helps care for mom and grandma. One of my sisters is an addict and I help her out sometimes too. Its exhausting. And with the pandemic, i had all my kids home learning...its just wild.
      To give up your own life to take care of loved ones...it isn't easy. But I definitely have a leg up on Betty, living in the modern world and all.
      She's a very selfless woman ❤

    • @salvadorajimenez-rodriguez9139
      @salvadorajimenez-rodriguez9139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +373

      I think she’s just as ill but she can talk

    • @mistermarsh1
      @mistermarsh1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      Yes I felt the worse for her because she has all her faculties and wit. It seems like a lonely world for her no love like that from a significant other not family. 😳❤️

    • @westcoastorbust2462
      @westcoastorbust2462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      She didn’t have to. That’s where she wants to be. Co-dependency is a thing. If she were not there they might all be in clean facilities living a much better life.

  • @dahliarose8466
    @dahliarose8466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6502

    Ray is dying to communicate. He needs a Speech pathologist and a technological communicative device. He is very capable. He has so much to say.

    • @itchynietzsche4998
      @itchynietzsche4998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +459

      100% agree. I think he could easily learn to use a communication device if he were given the chance.

    • @chriswells1440
      @chriswells1440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      He would have said something by now

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      I know how that feels. I was late to speak when I was a little girl, but I had SO much to say, I just couldn't verbalize any of it.

    • @sarahholland2600
      @sarahholland2600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +451

      As an ex teacher of special needs , I agree. He's definitely dying for social interaction & there is an outgoing personality struggling to get out. The barking seems to me he spent too much time as a child with no verbal interaction from those around him so started imitating the dogs. A few sessions a week with a primary school teacher & a speech therapist would probably be all is needed.

    • @paranood
      @paranood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Yeah ! what do you know .. If only healthcare was free... Oops. You wont find such extreme situations in Europe believe me

  • @averyking5482
    @averyking5482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7288

    I'm highly disturbed and disheartened that the people of the CHURCH made fun of him and made him stop going. I'm not a religious person, nor a church goer, but it still hurt my heart.

    • @CC-pu6qn
      @CC-pu6qn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +674

      Just because someone walks into a church doesn’t make them a person of God.

    • @avici0182
      @avici0182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +270

      I've met alot of terrible people thay goes to church. I've also met some of the most genuine people who'd been beaten at every corner of their life, those people were the most understanding most compassionate human beings I've got the privilege to know.
      What I took away from this life experience is it is not your beliefs or religion, where you're from, or where you stand in your social circle, but it is how you treat others with a level of compassion that shows what kind of human being you really are.

    • @Redd-Rabbit
      @Redd-Rabbit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      They do it everywhere, they also spread messages of hate and fear to young children and I've seen them be torn apart as adolescence hits. I think they are they real "sinners" if there even is such a thing.

    • @irene_peacewambui6987
      @irene_peacewambui6987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Human is human....
      People in church are flawed, saved by grace
      You are being exactly what you find disturbing.

    • @juanitabuckingham1703
      @juanitabuckingham1703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Church folks can be the worst..

  • @Ghost-rx4yt
    @Ghost-rx4yt ปีที่แล้ว +437

    this is the biggest reality check i’ve ever had. they didn’t choose to be born like this and yet they live on? that’s inspiring

    • @ErinMar
      @ErinMar ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Well, to be fair ignorance is bliss.

    • @anactualalpaca7016
      @anactualalpaca7016 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      @@ErinMar I'm sure they're fully aware of their lives and aliments, since they have to live with themselves every single day. Perhaps your ignorance is bliss.

    • @stoverboo
      @stoverboo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@anactualalpaca7016 And it seems the good Christians of the local church made sure they were reminded of their shortcomings.

    • @billierosehair1364
      @billierosehair1364 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! Watching these videos were inspiring to me!

    • @ErnestCallahan
      @ErnestCallahan 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's their parents fault

  • @mikeabel7577
    @mikeabel7577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5029

    Betty is absolutely heroic. If you've been the sole caretaker of a family member you would understand. The will of this woman to keep her brothers and sisters alive is incredible.

    • @JJ-wk5wy
      @JJ-wk5wy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      It must be so hard for her at times

    • @hulagirl6719
      @hulagirl6719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      God forbid anything should happen to her...

    • @shadrachification
      @shadrachification 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Mike,
      You said it all.

    • @shadrachification
      @shadrachification 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @JH1234
      All said was partly true Im thinking...She still chose in one way or another,given the chance to leave she may not(as in heres ya a male companion etc)...
      Lifes complexities.Given several other options,she may have just chosen the same ,to stay...aHer obligation to see her siblings cared for knowing noone else would be able to do the job.I think shes seen as a heroe because if Betty doesnt take care of them whoelse will.Also it doent necessarily mean shes not bitter or doesnt complain...its just we dont see it per the camera.Sometimes we suffer because we think of others and the need to see that they are o.k.

    • @kenwirth8572
      @kenwirth8572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      THEY SHOULD PUT THE BROTHERS TO SLEEP AT THE VETS LIKE DOGS. DOGS ARE SMARTER THAN ANY OF THEM ANYWAY

  • @michellaboureur7651
    @michellaboureur7651 ปีที่แล้ว +2842

    Their dogs seem well fed, nice and not aggressive which means they are not ill treated. Animals do tell a lot about their keepers.

    • @space.arr0w999
      @space.arr0w999 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      that’s what i was thinking. the whole time i was distracted by the adorable little dogs, i’m glad they’re well taken care of.

    • @marisollopez5015
      @marisollopez5015 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      literally said the same

    • @ceemartin5624
      @ceemartin5624 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Betty said that when she was in hospital her little dog stopped eating and only ate when she got back from hospital.

    • @princessmariposa828
      @princessmariposa828 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes!!

    • @lali28212
      @lali28212 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      But should not be living in that condition of a house, are u for real!!!!

  • @kenadybanks9912
    @kenadybanks9912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4634

    I bet if Ray had the ability to talk he would answer every question his sister couldn't answer

    • @cyanide_lollipop3264
      @cyanide_lollipop3264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +320

      For sure. I bet he'd have a lot to say. He's so happy to see Mark. It's sweet.

    • @basically2956
      @basically2956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Oh absolutely!

    • @TheMarkymark314
      @TheMarkymark314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      Right! Ray responds to every question. He understands.

    • @tlangelanimaluleke1900
      @tlangelanimaluleke1900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Ray is so smart, I so wish he could speak... such a sweet family, sending them warm hugs❤️❤️❤️

    • @helenvanpatterson-patton
      @helenvanpatterson-patton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Yes he would! He tries so hard:) I wished I lived close so I could help her keep house.

  • @lannettesantanaslife8289
    @lannettesantanaslife8289 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    I am a health care provider, for ppl with disabilities. Ray could have learned to communicate a lot more. Had he had early intervention, he is very smart. You could tell he want to say so much, he is just a very happy person. It is very interesting to watch and notice how much could have been done for all of them. They understand everything you are saying, they just can't communicate.

    • @loomibiq
      @loomibiq ปีที่แล้ว +18

      If it was Australia they would each have funding of $200,000 per year for support workers.

    • @lannettesantanaslife8289
      @lannettesantanaslife8289 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@loomibiq In the US you are put on a tier 1,2 and 3. Depending on what tier you fall, is the amount you get for Services. It is evil, there are so many ppl with no help what so ever, they could care less about ppl with disabilities. They should have been helped, im sure they have gone ro a hospital before, so they should have been helped a long time ago, but this country ignores them, because they are ignorant to the fact that there is help out there. it is truly evil, but what can we do.

    • @readyaimfire3454
      @readyaimfire3454 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      what do u think happened to ray to be that way ? it seems hes mentally present & responsive & can hear/see, so why wasnt he able to pick up language ?

    • @italkalotofshit
      @italkalotofshit ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yea it’s like he was never taught how to speak or communicate so all of the animals he heard over the years, he mimics them

    • @KendyllTaylor-oz1qp
      @KendyllTaylor-oz1qp ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Ray needs an AAC device so that he can communicate expressively! I’m a speech pathologist and work with nonverbal patients who have strong receptive language skills like Ray. If someone could get him an iPad with AAC app on it that’s voice generating- he could have access to so much more expressive language!

  • @alyssahlouiseconstantino3943
    @alyssahlouiseconstantino3943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4428

    I love how Betty said "I promised my mommy I wouldn't get married, I would take care of Ray, Lorraine and Tim and I did," She's totally am amazing person and I love her for that.

    • @ruthbashford3176
      @ruthbashford3176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Betty said she was one of 16 so I wonder if all they others were fine and just moved out and got married. I hope the family helps

    • @alyssahlouiseconstantino3943
      @alyssahlouiseconstantino3943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@ruthbashford3176 I've seen one of their brother and his daughter in the other video I think, and It seems that brother is also helping Betty to take care of the other siblings

    • @zachperkins688
      @zachperkins688 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ruthbashford3176 I saw on an obituary I found for one of their siblings that there are several siblings living in other cities, a couple of whom are married. I'm sure they are all somewhat mentally ill, but they may be more like Betty than Ray.

    • @Nik.No.K
      @Nik.No.K 2 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      She spent her life paying for her parents poor decisions. It's really just a shame and I wouldn't do it. Did I hear them say 15 kids?? That's reckless stupidity even without the inbreeding.

    • @YVMedia
      @YVMedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So ignore the fact she could of did that married and better eh

  • @budddove6480
    @budddove6480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2622

    She promised mom she wouldn't get married so she could tend to her siblings. She may be poor, but she has a wealthier heart than most. God Bless Them.

    • @readerrabbit6690
      @readerrabbit6690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I'm certain if she had options to marry a provider she'd have done it. But no man worth his bread wants to marry an inbred with that much baggage.

    • @jackieclan815
      @jackieclan815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@readerrabbit6690 yep!!!

    • @budddove6480
      @budddove6480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@readerrabbit6690 Sounds like you speak from experience.

    • @nick56677
      @nick56677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      @@readerrabbit6690 Tbh Betty doesnt look inbred. She just looks like an average old lady you'd see couponing at Wal Mart

    • @H_A_L_7
      @H_A_L_7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@readerrabbit6690
      Inbred as in ?

  • @XWoodbineX
    @XWoodbineX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7121

    I think Ray loves having other human interaction around.
    I think he's a real people person

    • @philtaylor6602
      @philtaylor6602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Inciteful.

    • @lcameeno1
      @lcameeno1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@philtaylor6602 :v

    • @citrinebby7977
      @citrinebby7977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +360

      i wanna know what he has to say 😭 i swear he’s probably hilarious and knows a lot more than anyone thinks he does

    • @JUSTAM8
      @JUSTAM8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      He definitely strikes me as a social butterfly. Bless him ❤️

    • @NaturallyGifted77
      @NaturallyGifted77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Me too

  • @kristenray9415
    @kristenray9415 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    You made Ray so happy talking about how he’s smart. You can tell he is, he just cannot get his point across sometimes.

  • @saralakatos1360
    @saralakatos1360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1785

    “I promised mommy not to get married” she was given the responsibility to take care of the whole family. 🥺

    • @bread7289
      @bread7289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      she might also understand, it wouldn't be a good idea to continue the bloodline, as its well, you know. she seems to be the most "normal" out of all of them

    • @ravensmoon1699
      @ravensmoon1699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      And she's done the best she can. Mark gave her money to fix up the house, repairs. She had a new roof put on among other things. They have an older brother who built a small house beside them who cooks for them ect. His mind is pretty sharp compared to his other siblings 🥰

    • @Sully357
      @Sully357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Right? That got me too! 🥹

    • @OutdoorsWonder
      @OutdoorsWonder 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she need to take care of the house at least lol

    • @suchabadkitty1293
      @suchabadkitty1293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@OutdoorsWonder Why is that funny?

  • @Dara-lu5ql
    @Dara-lu5ql ปีที่แล้ว +1586

    "I promised my mommy I wouldn't get married. I was gonna stay home and take care of them, and I took care of them more than anyone else." Said Betty. Respect 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
    I wish you all the best and thank you Mark for treating them with respect and love, furthermore, you opened the window to the world to have the chance to make donation and help them!🙏🏼❤️

    • @Taushathetech
      @Taushathetech ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Betty is such a precious soul.

    • @cryptoenespanolcre7168
      @cryptoenespanolcre7168 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      My hearth melted when i heard that. They smile way more than many clever people

    • @reynasaid8065
      @reynasaid8065 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I'm so proud that she obeyed her momma wishes, but I also feel bad that Betty didn't get to live her own life and have kids of her own and get married. But she doing an amazing job taking care of her siblings

    • @ErinMar
      @ErinMar ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’d love to meet Betty!

    • @KrystalHarwood-z1b
      @KrystalHarwood-z1b 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      betty and lorriane must be twins. they look alike

  • @alanaaites8292
    @alanaaites8292 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    It's incredibly sweet how the sister gave up her life to care for her family. At church everyone should be accepted.

  • @Hearth123
    @Hearth123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1022

    I feel like Ray actually knows what he wants to say, he just can't say it. He seems to be imitating the dogs, but he definitely understands the questions and he's answering in his own language

    • @ddinfant679
      @ddinfant679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      He's communicating quite a bit, they all were, it just takes time to learn to understand what they say, they really seemed eager to share.

    • @evalonia
      @evalonia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      After the age of 14, it is nearly impossible to learn someone to speak a language. I am deeply facinated as to why he does not speak. This is a facinating family, and I just want to watch more and learn.

    • @AnAdorableWombat
      @AnAdorableWombat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He actually doesn't because the way his brain is set up. No matter how yall try to butter it up, Ray is mentally incompetent and unable to think like a normal person due to inbreeding.

    • @alfredosilvaneto
      @alfredosilvaneto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      He appears to understand more than his siblings.

    • @dopeclipsgaming2946
      @dopeclipsgaming2946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      When he asked how old ray was I swore ray said 66 and when she said 67 I was like 😮

  • @AmberGraves80
    @AmberGraves80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4078

    I've worked with disabled people, and I have to say that this family, even in their incredible poverty, takes better care of one another than many able bodied families care for their disabled family members. They are very accepting and compassionate to one another.

    • @B_Bodziak
      @B_Bodziak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      I love your sentiment, but I don't feel that it's possible to come to your conclusion based solely upon this video.

    • @samanthaherrera4504
      @samanthaherrera4504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I totally agree with you.

    • @lloydg9383
      @lloydg9383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      BULLSHIT

    • @EAHorror
      @EAHorror 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

    • @sageosho9496
      @sageosho9496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      There's no reason for them to be living like that. Obviously there is at least four social security checks going into that house. Plus they have food stamps and Medicaid probably. They have enough money to live better than that they are not poor. I live alone in a one-bedroom house and I get one social security check a month plus food stamps. And I live way better than they do my house is nice and clean I have enough money to buy good clothes and keep my house clean and everything. I'm wondering what are they doing with all that money. They should be getting $800 a piece in social security checks. I have plenty of money to pay my bills keep food on the table. Plus have money left over. I'm not rich but I live comfortably.

  • @ozielmendoza930
    @ozielmendoza930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1321

    "I promised my mommy I won't get married. I'll take care of my family " wow that made me tear up a little 😢

    • @hustleactivedeehustle5863
      @hustleactivedeehustle5863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      frfr that touched me to when she said that.. it don't get kno realer that's the way you hold your fam down!

    • @ozielmendoza930
      @ozielmendoza930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hustleactivedeehustle5863 😢

    • @marthalouise701
      @marthalouise701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      What an amazing women!!!! Betty you have the heart of gold!!

    • @kc000002013
      @kc000002013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Getting married is so overrated anyway. Good for Her❤

    • @chiliwalker8263
      @chiliwalker8263 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      dont get married..bring up fatherless kids?

  • @1954crc
    @1954crc ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Thank you for being so kind to this family. I also love the way that the many people commenting are also loving,understanding and thoughtful. I'll repeat what others have said,"They didn't ask to to be born this way." What loyalty and devotion is shown by Betty. That's very rare.

  • @SortaLikePsycho
    @SortaLikePsycho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3190

    Ray's been smiling non-stop for 67 years. Contagious smile

    • @Thawhid
      @Thawhid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It's good but not contagious

    • @terryseldon42
      @terryseldon42 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Ah! Ah!

    • @chase5415
      @chase5415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@terryseldon42 😂😂😂

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I love Ray's smile!

    • @lynnpurcell5225
      @lynnpurcell5225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Hugo Seguin I know, I caught myself smiling too.

  • @ilovetaz8
    @ilovetaz8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4234

    The dogs seem to be taken care of, they don’t look malnourished at all which makes me happy. The dogs seem to love their family and protect them.

    • @brookemckinley5709
      @brookemckinley5709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I know! That warms my heart so much!

    • @thetruthdatedr.4766
      @thetruthdatedr.4766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I just want to buy them dog beds and toys and treats.. Anyone know how I can go about doing so?

    • @curiousgeorge555
      @curiousgeorge555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Makes me wonder how they trained them.

    • @nasseryousif1222
      @nasseryousif1222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@thetruthdatedr.4766 Bless you

    • @sunstarsmoon
      @sunstarsmoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I was also concerned about the dogs! Quickly saw that seem ok.

  • @cabr3ra
    @cabr3ra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2490

    The lady that promised her mom she would take care of the others is such an angel. She kept her promise. I like watching this family. They are so genuine and innocent.

    • @Angela-px1cq
      @Angela-px1cq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Very simple and innocent. It’s sad that the nephew left church because he was being ridiculed

    • @donnasmith624
      @donnasmith624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes they are ☺️

    • @arnethaearl8468
      @arnethaearl8468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes me too you can feel their energy

    • @alaefarmestatesllc
      @alaefarmestatesllc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      She ain’t taking care of crap. Sorry.

    • @nob9705
      @nob9705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Idk about that g innocent people don’t fuc they moms an sisters

  • @laurasutcliffe723
    @laurasutcliffe723 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Happy that Lorraine and Timmy survived their heart attacks. Timmy is so young to have had one though :(
    I wish nothing but health and happiness for the Whittaker's.

  • @TracyA123
    @TracyA123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1680

    I'm ashamed of myself for ever complaining about anything. God bless these folks

    • @zoedark7101
      @zoedark7101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      Just because others have it worse doesn't mean your feelings aren't valid. Don't feel ashamed.

    • @jimmy5391
      @jimmy5391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      They don't know any better so don't feel bad

    • @cliffa2901
      @cliffa2901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zoedark7101 👍🙂🇦🇺

    • @adibabdullah6633
      @adibabdullah6633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly 🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️
      Sometimes we humans can be ungrateful not realizing someone out there got it worse…
      The Bible and Quran teaches us not to be ungrateful ❤️…

    • @zoedark7101
      @zoedark7101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@adibabdullah6633 I'm not religious. Just because others have it worse doesn't mean somebody elses situation isn't valid. I hate comparison as it totally invalidates somebody elses feelings.

  • @uyangats717
    @uyangats717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3668

    man, Ray kept smiling through the whole video. He's so happy and excited that Mark came back. I wish people could help this family more. Ray's smile melted my whole heart.

    • @jimmybrown_GT500
      @jimmybrown_GT500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Sounds like love to me

    • @jimmybrown_GT500
      @jimmybrown_GT500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dude stop your questions.

    • @b-north
      @b-north 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      this is why i love seeing this typr of vids , i was telling my mom how much i need ray's energy

    • @mathewjordan6039
      @mathewjordan6039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He keeps asking about "the money". I wish she'd tell him to go fuck himself.

    • @DiceChickie
      @DiceChickie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Their community can help them

  • @tonybaggett1984
    @tonybaggett1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1244

    A lot of modern interviewers could learn a lesson. He’s never condescending or making fun. Just treats them with respect and ask them questions in a kind tone.

    • @michaelcohen9363
      @michaelcohen9363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You'd really like Louis Theroux, one of the best!

    • @slick222
      @slick222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      You've got to be kidding me. He's exploiting the hell out of them. He has to pretend to be nice. The whole point of it it "Hey guys, look at these freaks."

    • @michaelcohen9363
      @michaelcohen9363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@slick222 Yup.

    • @NunchucksHabit
      @NunchucksHabit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      "Ray is smarter than he looks". Yeah, really respectful lol.

    • @tylerborglin5215
      @tylerborglin5215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@slick222 There’s nothing wrong with him interviewing them for people to learn about them. Also, it’s benefiting their lives greatly and they clearly enjoy being on camera and his presence.

  • @jayduncan9315
    @jayduncan9315 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I love how the family simply lives in the moment. No dwelling on the past or the future. They’re so present. Each time I watch the videos, I feel I understand Ray a little more. He’s so expressive. Thank you Mark for showing such respect and keeping their dignity in tact.

    • @todayslist37737
      @todayslist37737 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, because I'm over here trying to understand why I'm understanding these people.

  • @lavasharkandboygirl9716
    @lavasharkandboygirl9716 ปีที่แล้ว +1636

    Betty is a fascinating person. You can see she’s so lucid and trying to communicate but there’s still a barrier there with the comprehension

    • @Clay_333
      @Clay_333 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Betty is an amazing person. She may come off quick and rude and ungrateful, but that seems to just be the way she communicates and clearly means nothing by it after you watch a few videos. Although I feel very sorry for Ray, Timmy, and Loraine I almost envy their blissful ignorance. They literally have one of the worst lifes imaginable, but they wake up everyday happy and don't even realize it. Yet at the same time we have millionaires with what seems like the perfect life commiting suicide everyday. I think that is what draws me to these videos the most.

    • @redpilloahu_808
      @redpilloahu_808 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      The barrier is called an extra chromosome.

    • @janathurmond9390
      @janathurmond9390 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Clay_333Amen.. ❤

    • @janathurmond9390
      @janathurmond9390 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@redpilloahu_808thank you for explaining 😊

    • @stevenrogersfineart4224
      @stevenrogersfineart4224 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Betty or Lorraine? Betty communicated just fine as far as I could see.

  • @SirJebusHRM
    @SirJebusHRM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2296

    "What's the most important thing you've learned in your life?"
    "Not much"
    Honestly, fuckin' same. A legendary answer.

    • @autumn2964
      @autumn2964 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      literally 🤣

    • @greenandie711
      @greenandie711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I've learned no matter how bad you think you have it there is always someone living a life that is worse than you could ever imagine! Then you realize how blessed you truly are..... Fact!

    • @TheIncredibleCR
      @TheIncredibleCR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Fr

    • @j.c.b6473
      @j.c.b6473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen.

    • @wrestlerx8494
      @wrestlerx8494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@greenandie711 the woman who is taking sounds and acts JUST like my grandma who is black and in her 90s. She has lived in a suburb of Washington D.C. since like the early 70s. Before that she and my grandpa could not buy a house because there was redlining and realtors would not sell to black people or made it very hard for them to buy, but that was outlawed in the late 60s. But my grandma's house is still in a more run down low income area and was probably built in the 40s because it has that kind of basement where there are just windows at the bottom but no basement exit door, but there are still 2 bedrooms and a bar and a rec room and a toilet in there. Something like that would have been outlawed later on because it is a fire hazard.

  • @DJillWill
    @DJillWill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10379

    I love that you complimented Loraine… when you told her she looked good she really enjoyed that

    • @gregremington2098
      @gregremington2098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +315

      Without reading the comments im sure its full of "the hills have eyes" or "wrong turn" comments. But imagine being born into that life. You didnt do anything wrong. Im not going to say i feel sorry for them. I do wish instead of giving them money, use it to fix up their house, buy clothes and bedding. $30,000 couldve made their living situation a lot better if handled properly...

    • @lisah6799
      @lisah6799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      Loraine was so flattered ☺️

    • @jonadam4233
      @jonadam4233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      ​@@gregremington2098 It's rude to say they are doing no more then existing. Please respect them more, I like to think they are inspiring.

    • @estrogenacres801
      @estrogenacres801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@gregremington2098 that's what I'm saying!!! It's click bait!!

    • @lamarjackson8630
      @lamarjackson8630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Look up
      Prison Stories - Getting Shanked over a Subway Sandwich

  • @setapart1159
    @setapart1159 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    The lady that said she promised her mom that she'd never get married and spend her life taking care of her family is a absolute angel 😇 God Bless them all ! That's a very RARE thing for someone these days to actually keep their word for LIFE! What a amazing person!❤

    • @alpha1beta1gamma
      @alpha1beta1gamma ปีที่แล้ว

      no need to be so patronising and imaginary gate keeping
      I want you to promise a bunch of random stuff right here and now and you have to agree according to your comment

    • @brandonveach4163
      @brandonveach4163 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alpha1beta1gammanever for a random person. You mean nothing like that to any of us not that your meaning less. I’ll defend your life over mine, that being said. I would never do what you said just because you wanna make a false point man.

    • @digitalsage5636
      @digitalsage5636 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who tf gonna marry her😂

    • @The_Brew_Dog
      @The_Brew_Dog 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She wasn’t gonna get married anyway cause all of her brothers were already married or dead.

  • @moondog9086
    @moondog9086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2334

    Every time I watch the Whittakers I love Ray more and more. His sunny disposition is contagious. They are always in my prayers.

    • @lukebuchwald9252
      @lukebuchwald9252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Are you for real?

    • @moondog9086
      @moondog9086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@lukebuchwald9252 Absolutely for real. I'd be honored to call these wonderful people my friends. They aren't asking anyone for anything, and they seem content & grateful for what they do have...most importantly each other. They seem happier than most people these days and they don't have to deal with so much insanity with society. I wish them the best, and if I ever have anything they need, I'd help them in a heartbeat.

    • @jamishiariley226
      @jamishiariley226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Same! Ray has the cutest demeanor about him. I wish I was as half as happy as Ray.

    • @JackManEveryday
      @JackManEveryday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Ray is fuckin legend

    • @the_even_toed_ungulate.
      @the_even_toed_ungulate. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Are you praying to the 'god' that allowed this and obviously condones that poor unfortunate people suffer?
      Or is he/she a sadistic being?

  • @rekadenise8340
    @rekadenise8340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2142

    I love animals, they don’t judge you, they only protect. You can tell their dogs love them and don’t see any disability in them. Humans need to be more like this.

    • @HumbleAstronaut
      @HumbleAstronaut 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Inbred ?

    • @deathdealer6696
      @deathdealer6696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Go Vegan! Animals are the only trustworthy thing on this planet

    • @bigjim8088
      @bigjim8088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I bet the animals would sure stand up for them too if needed.

    • @coreyj.7776
      @coreyj.7776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let me be your animal

    • @illmatic826
      @illmatic826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are Black, don’t sympathize with these inbred peckerwoods

  • @phillipschouw2462
    @phillipschouw2462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4039

    Lorraine smiled so warmly when you told her she looked good. These are decent folks that were just unlucky with their gene pools.
    (Edit)
    I am glad so many people could find a place for conversation about this very ‘taboo’ subject. Thank you all for contributing with your thoughts and comments.

    • @molbroroberts3826
      @molbroroberts3826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      I noticed that too. She definitely seemed to really like the interviewer and I thought it was so sweet the way she lit up.

    • @globalgourmand
      @globalgourmand 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Mmm... as far as I understand it, this is not a matter of luck...

    • @Ruckables
      @Ruckables 2 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      @@globalgourmand it is for them g... they dont control who their parents are.

    • @globalgourmand
      @globalgourmand 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@Ruckables I see what you're saying.

    • @stealerob3420
      @stealerob3420 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is not unlucky this is wrong.people should be castrated if there is the slightest chance of this happening.this is where believing in a god gets u

  • @neurotichypnotic927
    @neurotichypnotic927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1498

    I have so much compassion for the Whitakers. They didn't ask to be born into the life they are living. Poverty, isolation, non verbal communication. I know it has to be sooo lonely and depressing day to day but they seem to manage to find happiness in each other and that's so important. Miss Betty has a special place in heaven awaiting her for sacrificing her life to her siblings.

    • @michaelpuntillo3500
      @michaelpuntillo3500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Well said. I think all of these people are all preapproved for Heaven. Betty especially. For all Ray's problems, he has a beautiful smile. So does Betty. I love these people. God bless the Whittaker's.

    • @ronnieb1837
      @ronnieb1837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@michaelpuntillo3500 A human tells you there's a heaven and hell and you lap it up. Give it some adult, rational thought, 30 seconds should be more than enough, and forget this made up , controlling tripe.

    • @michaelpuntillo3500
      @michaelpuntillo3500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@ronnieb1837 I don't give a fuck what you think

    • @ronnieb1837
      @ronnieb1837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@michaelpuntillo3500 Oops, you missed it.. It wasn't about what I think, it was the suggestion that you should do some thinking. (As in a little more thinking and a little less believing...)

    • @shaunbowman8036
      @shaunbowman8036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ronnieb1837 how liberal of u - cursing out someone whom u probaly 90% agree with wrt this video

  • @dominicts7528
    @dominicts7528 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    Aww 9:40 when Mark asks if he’s feeling better Timmy pointed to his veins to say he got injected in the hospital to get better. Mark didn’t notice the gesture and went to the next question. Timmy gets mad and says “STOP!” as if saying “one thing at a time” 😂 I get their humor somehow.

    • @kandik7641
      @kandik7641 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      When asked if he goes to church Timmy said "but then I stopped. I don't go anymore because people are rude."

    • @dominicts7528
      @dominicts7528 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@kandik7641 😂 if he said that I wouldn’t blame him. we ppl suck. only God is good.

    • @iBeFloe
      @iBeFloe ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ray speaks in another video to show his brother’s grave, but Mark doesn’t notice it & neither do my of the comments. He says “He right here” in that video several times, but Mark just doesn’t catch it
      Even in this video, Ray was trying to say “3” by “barking” 3 times when asked how many rooms there were 12:50
      15:50 Ray answers that he’s “66” a few times

    • @kandik7641
      @kandik7641 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@iBeFloe he was showing Mark the fridge was full and said "chicken. "

    • @kandik7641
      @kandik7641 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dominicts7528 there are so many gods and religions.

  • @tayiraogu1463
    @tayiraogu1463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2640

    I'm so worried about Betty, she's clearly getting older and more frail and they literally depend on her. I hope life treats them well.

    • @Ingerimm
      @Ingerimm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +221

      I can't see any of them doing well if they were to be institutionalized. This is the only life they have ever known. They may not speak in ways we understand, but I bet you Betty understands them like no other. I just hope the quality of their lives have taken a turn for the better in these past years.

    • @Nolacarsillo
      @Nolacarsillo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      wish there was more we could do for them, but they seem pretty content with the simple life ❤️

    • @crunks420
      @crunks420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      I hope some of that gofundme gets allocated to finding placement for the family through a trustworthy power of attorney when Betty passes.

    • @Roctrin
      @Roctrin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      In another video, I think they said that when they first visited this family, their neighbors came out with guns thinking the crew was harassing this family. So, I think they have at least some community around them

    • @dhrsghukvfggrasft5387
      @dhrsghukvfggrasft5387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      in previous video it is stated that their neighbours protect them

  • @jonathanmayberrydesigns
    @jonathanmayberrydesigns 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2328

    Ray is sitting so politely and attentively listening. Rays soul warms my heart and his smile is infectious. I wish they could have more interactions with others.

    • @gimmietheloot1
      @gimmietheloot1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      You should go visit them

    • @benjichaser72
      @benjichaser72 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@gimmietheloot1 bet he wont

    • @brianbommarito3376
      @brianbommarito3376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I wouldn’t. The neighbors and some local deputies said they don’t want just random strangers coming to visit them. Let them know you care in little ways, talk to the folks they already know and trust, but also respect their privacy and don’t just wander up there cause they won’t understand. They might think you’re trying to make a show out of them. It’s an evil world and they know it just as much as we do.

    • @kristofvandessel5957
      @kristofvandessel5957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I guess his personal hygiene and the way he smells is more infectious..

    • @HybridViZ
      @HybridViZ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I love that part when he starts eating his hair bugs.

  • @Madking12357
    @Madking12357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +781

    The look that Lorraine made when he said she looked good despite having a heart attack was so touching. She looked like she was about to cry over the compliment. Makes you wonder how many people have made fun of them for how they look and behave over the years. It just goes to show that despite their condition they still are human. They feel the same pain as anyone else does. These people have hearts of gold.

    • @garyscandle
      @garyscandle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Very well said

    • @whippledmarauder1159
      @whippledmarauder1159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So true!! I NEVER KNOCK OTHERS FOR WAY THEY LIVE.

    • @susieadrian2149
      @susieadrian2149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      👍
      I watched this 3 times I love them so much!
      It doesn't matter how anyone is born, they're human beings with nothing but love in their heart. I wish them all the best.
      Those who make fun of them should be ashamed of themselves!

    • @SKATERBRY312
      @SKATERBRY312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This made me cry.. these people are human just as any of us.. godbless them I love the Whittaker's

    • @whippledmarauder1159
      @whippledmarauder1159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm sitting here waiting for pay day so I can send them some$$.

  • @PapaVik1218
    @PapaVik1218 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Somehow, seeing this family on TH-cam and watching several videos of them they have changed my life. No, I'm serious. This isn't just another overly positive comment,.. I've been thinking and reconsidering my own happiness, at home with my family and have taken a second look at things that were making me frustrated and upset all the time. These folks have helped me. It makes me emotional to think about. It forces me to like them and care about them.

  • @nathanhopkins4791
    @nathanhopkins4791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2764

    I feel so bad for these people, because they were BORN into this circumstance, they didn't chose this.. this absolutely breaks my heart, and I feel nothing but love for these people.

    • @wendye6139
      @wendye6139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Exactly my thoughts. I am thankful Mark comes back to visit them. They are kind people, probably more loving then most..

    • @nathanhopkins4791
      @nathanhopkins4791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@wendye6139 I wish I could see more frequent updates on them, and how their welfare is.

    • @nathanhopkins4791
      @nathanhopkins4791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@TimothyYancy stop being racist.

    • @nathanhopkins4791
      @nathanhopkins4791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@TimothyYancy there's no room for your utter stupidity, and intolerance here. Go spread your pathetic race baiting propaganda somewhere else, you low life scumbag.

    • @baliczek4568
      @baliczek4568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@nathanhopkins4791 I wish Americans would have some federal welfere program for people like that it's really sad that in 1st world country there not resolved problems like that

  • @rileyboyer4860
    @rileyboyer4860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1650

    If there’s one thing I can say, I understand it easy to look at them and say “man it must be terrible to be them” but truthfully, they have only lived their own lives. They have good days and bad days, and maybe a good day for them is a bad day for you. But to them, it’s still a good day. I wish them nothing but plenty of good days and strength to get through the bad ones.

  • @Nickshot22
    @Nickshot22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1885

    I feel like if ray could talk he’d be the chillest dude ever, you can tell he really looks up to you and respects you I love the relationship you’ve built with this family

    • @rayjay1543
      @rayjay1543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Yes especially since she said friends got married and don't come around much anymore (aint that the case for many adults) so it is great that he has been coming around 15 years and has been able to help them as well, and they help him too. It could be seen as something negative like they are being exploited but I don't think so because he seems to genuinely care for this family and they for him, hugs and all.

    • @debbiesimpson6967
      @debbiesimpson6967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yeah I agree Ray's one helluva character that's for sure with more brain's than he's given credit for, if only he could communicate better he'd have a lot to say & talk about giving us a better insight into his & his family's lifestyle & about them all growing up together. One thing's for sure there's no lacking love within this family cause from where I'm sitting it speaks volumes without having to say so 👌👌👌

    • @Nickshot22
      @Nickshot22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@debbiesimpson6967 exactly! You can just see he has so much he wants to say but sadly just can’t, I bet his awesome stories from being younger and growing up in such a small town. I wish all the best for this family and can’t wait for another update I’m so glad this community can help them out

    • @echohotel7975
      @echohotel7975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Would he be the most chillest dude ever? You can't tell there parents really messed them up why do you love the relationship what's so awesome about it I'm just curious some of these comments just blow me away I don't what to think it seems like a lot of ppl feel they need to just love the shit out of these ppl in reality would never have them over to hang out at your house would you be okay with them all coming to pay you a visit? Would you like to have them over, and treat them to dinner? let then stay a few night at your house if they were put in a situation would you take them in for a few nights? I'm genuinely curious, or would you feel better paying to have them stay in a hotel ?

    • @Nickshot22
      @Nickshot22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@echohotel7975 you really took time out of your day to write that? Yes if I had the means to help out a whole family I would in a heartbeat I do not care what they’ve been through in the past I just wish they have a better future and yes I do love the relationship mark has built with them you can see them getting close to him each time he sees them and based on the story’s they’ve for sure come to like mark. And that’s a weird question as I don’t think a whole family can fit in my house but I wish you the best aswell thanks for you comment ♥️

  • @JoKiR90
    @JoKiR90 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    That picture at 13:00 is extremely profound. Such a beautiful, BEAUTIFUL shot 👏
    I truly hope that Betty and the rest of the family are rewarded something better in the next life considering all they’ve been through in this one. Betty gave up her entire life to carry the family on her back. Can’t imagine what’ll happen to them once she’s gone.

  • @LuckyLu602
    @LuckyLu602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2144

    She has always had such a huge responsibility in life, taking care of her siblings, and will until the day she dies. I hate to think about what will happen to everyone there after she passes away.

    • @whome7498
      @whome7498 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      Very true I was thinking the same thing. I wonder if mark knows or has some type of care arrangements made. There should be some type of gov. Funding where they would be able to go to an assisted living facility or something

    • @icyflann7178
      @icyflann7178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Ohh so all these people are siblings??

    • @11JCheek
      @11JCheek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@icyflann7178 Timmy is the nephew.

    • @anthonynicolosi9548
      @anthonynicolosi9548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      prolly be remanded to a state mental hospital....i mean what other options are there

    • @aliwright1016
      @aliwright1016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@anthonynicolosi9548 😶💙😞😥 I get your meaning...there's no proper help...xx glad we care...glad mark cares...we can reach out and tap in to these people's experience ...as a world community....xx we can become better at reaching out and offering help that's relevent to them... X

  • @nandort5901
    @nandort5901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    The lady that speaks for the family deserves to be given much respect. She's the glue that keeps them together, and not institutionalize.

    • @vjay6667
      @vjay6667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Yeah she does but I feel like she’s evasive with certain questions.

    • @privateprivate1865
      @privateprivate1865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@vjay6667 I think so too. I suspect she senses the interviewer is kind of a douche.

    • @karimichelle7777
      @karimichelle7777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      These people have been through a lot. It's sad.. they deserve better living conditions. I wish the state would have someone come in to help them clean. The neighbors used to be great but I think they have different neighbors now. I used to live near them. I can remember when there were always different vehicles there helping out..

    • @Reneebenson
      @Reneebenson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shes a saint for what she all does for them

    • @glennphillips8645
      @glennphillips8645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      The interviewer has helped them for years. Every time he goes there he gives them money and raised almost 30k. Douches don’t do that kind of stuff.

  • @fl3ckerr999
    @fl3ckerr999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +853

    i love how ray becomes ecstatic whenever he has someone socializing with him it warms my heart

    • @r5ndom551
      @r5ndom551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We love Ray!

    • @juliethompson5301
      @juliethompson5301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They love their animals.we love the Whitaker's .good ppl xx

    • @r5ndom551
      @r5ndom551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@juliethompson5301 don't you just want to hug em & be their friend. The smiles when they get a visitor. I don't know what Ray wants to say,but, I want to hear every word. They just want to be loved.

    • @soulsinged363
      @soulsinged363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rays just vibing and I love it

    • @Bassquatch_101
      @Bassquatch_101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s what ray was tryin to tell him last time . He grew up over here ( across the street)

  • @bmay711
    @bmay711 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The fact that betty kept her promise to her mommy & dedicated her life to taking care of her family in need is so moving. & Loraine was so proud when she said "my daddy" .

    • @lucasrem
      @lucasrem 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      bmay
      She knows. They are happy, made the best of it.

    • @dawnemyers5056
      @dawnemyers5056 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Larry and Kenneth didn't come around till money started coming in.

  • @drianpaisley7968
    @drianpaisley7968 ปีที่แล้ว +497

    What a lady she made a promise to her mummy and she's stuck to that and committed her life to her family. What a lovely human

  • @tinapuddin1557
    @tinapuddin1557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2851

    It's pretty sad when someone can't go to church without getting picked on. I thought if you are a Christian your supposed to be humble and love all people.

    • @williamflowers3073
      @williamflowers3073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      People who act like that are not typically Christians

    • @Bear22250
      @Bear22250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Tina. You’re so right never judge someone else. we’re all different in some ways . But we’re all humans and make mistakes. God bless

    • @cherie623
      @cherie623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Probably kids😞

    • @Wheyooo
      @Wheyooo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      bet there bible is dusty

    • @sarahjulianne2954
      @sarahjulianne2954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Know Christ before you know the Christian

  • @odiekaelin7924
    @odiekaelin7924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1658

    Thank you for talking to Timmy, Lorraine, and Ray like adult human beings. People don't realize how much of a difference that makes to someone with disabilities. And working to understand them too instead of dismiss their words! Thank you for helping them and bringing their world to us in the most respectful way ❤️

    • @TimsGirl1978
      @TimsGirl1978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      So many people around the world have disabilities, but it doesn't mean they aren't any less human. It's so good to see someone step in to help.

    • @mrssippy2946
      @mrssippy2946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This was so heartbreaking to watch my heart goes out to them all 🙏🏽💙🙏🏽💙🙏🏽

    • @behindthelense5448
      @behindthelense5448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said

    • @motlevi
      @motlevi ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The manner in which Mark engaged them in conversation reminds me of when my grandmother was suffering from dementia after a horrible stroke.
      She lost her attention span, and it was nearly impossible to talk about anything other than the here and now.
      When Mark asks Betty some probing questions like "what was your childhood like?" / "can you tell me about your parents?" / "any words of wisdom?" / "favorite memories?" / "what are Ray's interests?" / "what do you do in a typical day?", she'll look like she's processing and thinking.
      Then she'll respond without any substance: "not much", "not really", "no", without elaboration. Very surface level: need to keep it at "oh, you look healthy!" / "oh, it's so nice out!" / etc

  • @Tacmama420
    @Tacmama420 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Betty just touches my heart ❤.
    She seems like a tough cookie. Hearing her say it scared me when talking about their heart attacks really shows her love for her family. Theyre all in this together though.

  • @Twig963
    @Twig963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1433

    "Who is the biggest trouble maker?"
    Everyone points at Ray and he gladly accepts!!

    • @XWoodbineX
      @XWoodbineX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      That made me laugh haha

    • @azrael7637
      @azrael7637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      😂 ray is so nice

    • @tomm703
      @tomm703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I thought he pointed to the dog

    • @LIZA_BOBO
      @LIZA_BOBO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right...😂

    • @suzih.6687
      @suzih.6687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That was so cute!

  • @jackseye9944
    @jackseye9944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2640

    All those who made fun of them at church cannot call themselves Christians

    • @cloverbird5785
      @cloverbird5785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Shameful

    • @gregthurman8108
      @gregthurman8108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Instead of making fun they should be trying to help them!!!! God see them though!

    • @yukoncobbs804
      @yukoncobbs804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      I think I would thump them in the throat if I seen someone bulling someone so helpless.

    • @havyy_wavie9696
      @havyy_wavie9696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      well i tried so hard but the old lady was staring into my soul ps not Christian😪

    • @InTheirImage7
      @InTheirImage7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@havyy_wavie9696 - Did you try so hard? Was she staring into your soul? Interesting. I guess she really saw you.

  • @raymondgalvan9659
    @raymondgalvan9659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +810

    Poor Betty I can imagine the conversations she tries having with her fam. Hope she lives a long life they'll be so lost without her

    • @lbabytutorials4852
      @lbabytutorials4852 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Oh my Betty is the only one that speaks the other old lady can’t talk

    • @bboy95ify
      @bboy95ify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Sue has to live to see all them off atleast then poor thing die alone. But it would be more sad to see any of the other 3 alone they could not take care of themselves

    • @lbabytutorials4852
      @lbabytutorials4852 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AttorneyAmber oh wow I’m looking for the video right now

    • @Juelz-gu8uw
      @Juelz-gu8uw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea i thought that too

    • @rinaticson390
      @rinaticson390 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bboy95ify , yes they would probably have to go to a group home or something. If that's where they have been since they were born. I imagine that that would kill them.

  • @thepeacemaker3584
    @thepeacemaker3584 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for sharing this all too real family with us. No filters no makeup no script, no nothing. I hope you continue to keep us updated. Your doing a great job

  • @bluecatky
    @bluecatky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +665

    Ray understand everything he is being asked. And you can tell that he is very fond of Mark and relishes the attention he is paying to him. Because Mark is probably the only person outside of their household that ever tries to engage him.

    • @ilovebabyyoda712
      @ilovebabyyoda712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Ray is precious! I hope this family gets more help with the trailer, or can move to the other trailer that's bigger. They deserve that. They can't help how they were born!

    • @lindawood5035
      @lindawood5035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@ilovebabyyoda712 Ray is precious. I was their next door neighbor in 2008 and 2009. They were the best neighbors that I've ever had. I took Betty grocery shopping and to the pharmacy several times. I enjoyed her company and she was appreciative of the help. It breaks my heart to know that they don't have a good relationship with people who bought my place. I understand that it's intimidating to approach the Whitakers. But, they're good people. You've just got to give them a chance. And treat them with respect.

    • @t3dwards13
      @t3dwards13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I believe I was starting to undastand Ray's sounds.

    • @mishagreyskull4306
      @mishagreyskull4306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love seeing his eyes light up in response. I'm thankful for the follow up.

    • @bentleytrump5367
      @bentleytrump5367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ray was trying to tell him he was out of chewing tobacco.

  • @claysavage8047
    @claysavage8047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    Ray loves you man. So cool to see that. He looks at you like a good buddy.

    • @covertLLC
      @covertLLC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Your avi had me trying to wipe what looks like a disgusting little public hair off of my tablet for almost 3 minutes. 😆 🤣

    • @doridez1647
      @doridez1647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣me too

    • @MusicLeeSarah
      @MusicLeeSarah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Came here looking for these replies lol

    • @claysavage8047
      @claysavage8047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@covertLLC never gets old 😄

    • @diamondpope
      @diamondpope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You got me😂 I was scrolling and even watched it move like nah I know it’s a pic…but I wiped it anyway🤦🏽‍♀️🤣😂

  • @heidijane5285
    @heidijane5285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    When he told Lorraine she looked good and she said 'nawww', covered up and smiled a little aww he should tell her she looks good more often it definitely touched her heart 🥰

    • @kitana3320
      @kitana3320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      it kinda made me sad she replied nawww😢these people are innocent they can’t help they are the product of dumb decisions

    • @heatherbleu5370
      @heatherbleu5370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes, that was a precious moment💞

    • @kpeezyforsheezy
      @kpeezyforsheezy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I was going to comment that too! She was absolutely flattered. So sweet ♥️

    • @buttafly1075
      @buttafly1075 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💜💜💜

    • @strawbodawarbo
      @strawbodawarbo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She got all bashful and it made me wanna give her a big hug 🥺

  • @susanharris9383
    @susanharris9383 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This family is so precious. Their pure innocence is heartwarming, and they seem so much happier than some of the most educated, wealthy people that I know...😇🥰

    • @kathya1956
      @kathya1956 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They probably took most go fund me money and spent on drugs.

  • @meredithbrooks2858
    @meredithbrooks2858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    Can you imagine being asked by your parents to basically give up your life to care for your disabled siblings yet that's what Betty did without hesitation

    • @ChavonJWright
      @ChavonJWright 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      She never said they asked. Just that she promised.

    • @westcoastorbust2462
      @westcoastorbust2462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      As if she would do anything else. Y’all are so gullible

    • @lindaedvardsson4218
      @lindaedvardsson4218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️

    • @ktoi138
      @ktoi138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I feel like back in the olden days that was the regular, usually it's the youngest daughter who doesn't marry and watches out for the family when they get old

    • @nx8481
      @nx8481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I hope anyone with disabled siblings would take care of them after the parents have passed away. How could someone just abandon their disabled siblings?

  • @ckenzooo3270
    @ckenzooo3270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +878

    Ray really understands what’s going on around him. Marks asks ray to show him the garden and he smiles and gets up. He just can’t speak for himself.

    • @russblack443
      @russblack443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      No you're right. Ray isn't stupid,or crazy and understands everything going on around him. He just can't speak.

    • @blondechick9804
      @blondechick9804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It’s sad because he should had speech therapy when he was younger in that way he could at least speak maybe or been taught sign language at least for his basic needs. So all he knows to do is make that noise. God bless him.

    • @russblack443
      @russblack443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@blondechick9804 he never went to school and it's in a very poor area of west Virginia. Ray is almost seventy so with the local economy and population they very well may have even had a one room school house of not that the school system was very small and underfunded. They may not even had any special education classes let alone a speech therapist. The nephew Timmy is half of Ray's age and actually graduated from high school and he can't speak either. it is sad but those areas of Kentucky, Tennessee and West Virginia are not very populated and poor so they don't have a good tax base. Where I lived in Kentucky alot of the school districts are consolidated and serve the entire county and still only have graduation classes of under thirty people.

    • @russblack443
      @russblack443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It is very sad but there are places down there where people are living in third world conditions.

    • @tygobermind3640
      @tygobermind3640 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@russblack443 Than why did he take a leak in the middle of a conversation??

  • @AwkwardFishGuy
    @AwkwardFishGuy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1309

    I admire Rays constant positive attitude. He's always smiling and willing to show around.
    What a sunshine he is!

    • @williamkeese489
      @williamkeese489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Are you okay

    • @HP-lq2ub
      @HP-lq2ub 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Nice that his name is “ray” ☀️

    • @AwkwardFishGuy
      @AwkwardFishGuy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@HP-lq2ub hehe, I guess that is kinda poetic :)

    • @shuarma0
      @shuarma0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      he doesn't understand what's going on around him, you think he can have a negative attitude about anything?

    • @AwkwardFishGuy
      @AwkwardFishGuy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shuarma0 he might not FULLY understand, no, but I think you're underestimating how much he understands. He responds to questions by nodding or shaking his head, clearly he understands what is being said to him.

  • @l0nely0reo
    @l0nely0reo ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Ray is so sweet, he tries to hard to communicate but is so restricted. I feel so bad for him, he wants to hang out with you and talk but doesn’t know how to get the words across. I’m so glad you asked him to show you around. It seemed like he was very excited about his bed ☹️

  • @f0rtal3za
    @f0rtal3za 3 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    My faith in humankind was just restored while reading coments here, so full of respect and care. I wish I could find that more often.

    • @dawnellafreeman4860
      @dawnellafreeman4860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      me too..x

    • @p.h.6515
      @p.h.6515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sobbing reading these comments. There are still people with heart. Thank You . ❤️🙏

    • @dl3650
      @dl3650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Depends on what kinds of videos, posts, etc. you read

    • @AprilMay.2023
      @AprilMay.2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed!

  • @jamjam731
    @jamjam731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    She devoted her life to caring to caring for her siblings because she made a promise to her mom. If only we could all be that selfless.

    • @87clits
      @87clits 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought these were her children.

    • @BullseyeBenR
      @BullseyeBenR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She watched after them cause like what else is she supposed to do??? Not like they had a lot of options

    • @Choldjonesy
      @Choldjonesy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@BullseyeBenR Did you miss the part where there were 16 children? Plenty of them moved away back to Virginia as she stated in the video. She most definitely sacrificed for her siblings and nephew. Betty clearly is of sound mind, maybe a bit uneducated, but she said her self she never graduated high school in the last video.

    • @BullseyeBenR
      @BullseyeBenR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Even so she didn’t state how many were miscarried and or survived. Not finishing high school she still didn’t have a lot of options. My heart goes out for them and I don’t blame them for being born into poverty!

    • @WokOverEasy
      @WokOverEasy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She’s a kind soul but I don’t blame anyone who wanted to do better for themselves and have their own family.

  • @darcyleegray
    @darcyleegray ปีที่แล้ว +18

    i came to the comments out of curiosity, and i was very happily surprised with the amount of compassion i saw. gave me a little bit more hope for humanity. ❤

  • @koopapro
    @koopapro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    I can’t even lie I’m shocked how positive this comment section turned out to be

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Came here to say this too! Not only positive but kind and loving!

    • @lindaedvardsson4218
      @lindaedvardsson4218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cant You feel the Love these people spreading?… They know .. and there probably not be more children in that way in that family soo..

    • @ChelliBee
      @ChelliBee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too…

    • @d2svpcfp
      @d2svpcfp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      After I watched in amazement...so caught off guard by the comments and even volunteers to help. Just wow...

    • @mingmyoung3942
      @mingmyoung3942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Not everyone is demons in this world, to hate on a family like this that has zero control of there situation would be make someone one miserable low vibrational being

  • @DESBERRY
    @DESBERRY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2026

    So pleased that they’re benefiting from the income generated from TH-cam. Your heart’s in the right place.

    • @aaronaaron5968
      @aaronaaron5968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      does it look like anything changed?

    • @tammiRue02
      @tammiRue02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      @@aaronaaron5968 yes, the roof is new at least. Plus, it went to medical bills which are grossly high in the US. Did you not watch it?
      Maybe they didn’t use it all to 100% improve their home… but that’s their choice. They did what they could and what they needed in the moment.

    • @Rainsnowreadysetblow
      @Rainsnowreadysetblow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      @@aaronaaron5968 What the hell you expect...for them to be in the Hollywood hills?
      The money helped. Don't be ridiculous.

    • @cyanide_lollipop3264
      @cyanide_lollipop3264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@aaronaaron5968 Your negative bullshit is not needed. The fact that they have a new roof for the coming winter is fantastic. I'm happy to know they'll be warm and dry.

    • @harpoon6186
      @harpoon6186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cyanide_lollipop3264 these idiots are fucking each other. That is they fault

  • @EricFortuneJr.
    @EricFortuneJr. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    Ray is the observer of the family. He seems like he knows a lot and has witnessed a lot, just can’t get the words out. He knows he’s the man of the house. You can tell by how he greets you and how he moves around more than anyone else.

    • @AbiZolanski
      @AbiZolanski 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      they gotta pretty good looking garden too he was so excited to show 💕

    • @iTranscendx
      @iTranscendx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Maybe he’s just less deformed and impaired out of all of them?

    • @danetteoradesky8721
      @danetteoradesky8721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have always liked the pic of their parents and of ray and freddy and their nephew freddy has such a warm beautiful smile that just spreads sunshine when you look at him very handsome man i wish yall had more earlier interviews that you could show when freddy was alive and their parents

    • @eyin8765
      @eyin8765 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what's up.

  • @gabrieleschoffl5947
    @gabrieleschoffl5947 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It breaks my heart to watch Timmy and Lorraine and Ray wanting to explain and talk about everything and I think they recognize every time they speak in their own special way, that not everything they say is fully understood. But I love them all with their own special personalities❤❤;Mark, thanx a lot for sharing the life of the Whitakers, may God bless you for your incredible work. Hugs from Germany ❤❤❤(sorry for my English 🙈)

  • @northwoodsinthebackwoodssa6752
    @northwoodsinthebackwoodssa6752 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1040

    Betty is a jewel. She’s a sweet caring lady who’s just looking out for her family. God bless her for that. She’s the patriot of this family.

    • @axelsimondesand9395
      @axelsimondesand9395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agrée !! HE HE HIAAAAA !!! hehe

    • @emilstorgaard9642
      @emilstorgaard9642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@Freudigman
      You keep spamming this comment all over the place. We get it, skipper

    • @groovypacosta1212
      @groovypacosta1212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Freudigman ok spammer

    • @silvergirl7810
      @silvergirl7810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@Freudigman In any case, he’s improved their lives by getting involved and making contact- which is the opposite approach of what the average person usually does. Maybe he’s not perfect in his delivery and we don’t know his full motives but in the end we see these people that were very isolated and forgotten are given some vast improvements in their lives with the money he raised as well as the interaction he brought to them.

    • @thetruthdatedr.4766
      @thetruthdatedr.4766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Pretty sad that there’s millions of views on their videos yet not even 2 thousand people can donate to their go fun d me

  • @KingB0124
    @KingB0124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1283

    Lorraine was telling us about her heart attack, I feel like Timmy was showing where his IV’s were, the dogs look happy. It’s crazy these people look fine in their own world with one another. I wish someone would build or fix up this house. Betty is the granny we all love. Blessings

    • @Joy-ne8sj
      @Joy-ne8sj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I thought the same thing. She seemed to be reenacting someone slapping her face, and asking if she was ok?

    • @pupsnbugz
      @pupsnbugz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Just like my grandma who passed 💖 she was a Virginian too

    • @the_even_toed_ungulate.
      @the_even_toed_ungulate. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Happiness is relative, they haven't experienced a lot so don't miss it.
      However seeing them with creature comforts warms my heart.

    • @LesleyCanterbury22
      @LesleyCanterbury22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pupsnbugz this is WV btw

    • @pupsnbugz
      @pupsnbugz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LesleyCanterbury22 I'm aware 😊 not too far off

  • @mrphreez
    @mrphreez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1181

    "I promised my mommy I wouldn't get married, I'd stay home and take care of ray, lorrene & Timmy so I did"
    Betty is beyond loyal! She's a Great person! If I ever would see anyone making fun of people like this I would intervene.

    • @joeroberge9326
      @joeroberge9326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "intervene" with some lake city quiet pills

    • @annieanoula
      @annieanoula 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yep...they are head and shoulders above those who would mock them. Anyone who self sacrifices for family is lovely in my eyes. 👍🏼💝

    • @lexacheyenne9653
      @lexacheyenne9653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Betty is their rock. The glue that keeps them all together and safe. ❤️ She had a beautiful soul.

    • @keithoberg2854
      @keithoberg2854 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You can't make fun of anything of this nature its really beyond sad
      Not .0000000001% there fault

    • @mikeg.9238
      @mikeg.9238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Are you crazy?! They would probably have you for dinner , literally! I hope this guy who's interviewing them is armed.

  • @StevenChansavang-lu7sp
    @StevenChansavang-lu7sp ปีที่แล้ว +5

    GOD BLESS BETTY FOR TAKING CARE OF HER FAMILY LIKE SHE PROMISED HER MOMMY N DADDY....How she is able to stay sane and humble through it all is amazing

  • @davidk5559
    @davidk5559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1188

    Betty is an amazing person . How she has kept this Whittaker family together all this time . Especially
    the fact that she promised her mother not to leave or marry so she could look after her Family . Wow Wee , A strong clan for sure ! A hugely inspiring story for me .
    God Bless you all in an unforgiving unaccounted America .

    • @dolphmanity
      @dolphmanity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      What's gonna happen when she dies, though?

    • @Lodus_beatbox
      @Lodus_beatbox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      *a strong clan* 💀

    • @bayani7626
      @bayani7626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@dolphmanity Sad i hope somebody can take her place. They deserve every help from people

    • @adminmr9618
      @adminmr9618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bayani7626 nobody wants to take that place is the prob lamb

    • @RonDzLFAROUT
      @RonDzLFAROUT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No need for propoganda. What other country can do better? Life is cold, the world is unforgiving. Dont be a punk victim in a privilaged society.

  • @ryanm7310
    @ryanm7310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    The dogs actually really do look happy and you can tell she really loves them.

    • @brucef310
      @brucef310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You know what they do to the dogs

    • @phlee1629
      @phlee1629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      yeah, they look well fed and happy. very respectable

    • @loosescrews8106
      @loosescrews8106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Dogs are man's BEST friend, never any judgement.

    • @phlee1629
      @phlee1629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@toy4tao are you trying to be funny?

    • @EAD_0
      @EAD_0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The dogs are happy because they can shit inside the house and nobody notices

  • @fractallusion7121
    @fractallusion7121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1578

    I thought seeing this family would be depressing or even frightening to some degree, but you can really feel the love they have for each other. Ray in particular is clearly a very kind and gentle soul. I would love to see him have some form of communication, he seems like he would have a lot to say given the opportunity.

    • @wendyeede6826
      @wendyeede6826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Indeed 👍💙❤️🙏

    • @jennyfurjennyfur
      @jennyfurjennyfur 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This is exactly where I'm at too. Pure love and innocence. ❤️

    • @joemck1235
      @joemck1235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I just watch in amazement that there are people like that

    • @chrislew8423
      @chrislew8423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I wish someone would buy ray a belt he's Always holding his trousers up 😂

    • @fractallusion7121
      @fractallusion7121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@chrislew8423 they bought him a belt in the video where they go to Walmart. He never wore it lol 😂

  • @jennyb8106
    @jennyb8106 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I watched this video out of curiosity. God bless this family and everyone who helps them .

  • @benwesley5260
    @benwesley5260 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1147

    I love when Lorraine talks and then the camera pans away and she goes “Hey!” camera goes back, and she just sits there and smiles 🤣 she just didn’t want Ray getting all the attention!

    • @GrootmanSipho
      @GrootmanSipho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      7:51

    • @Vugen18
      @Vugen18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      and when he says u look good/pretty she says" nooo" like any teenage girl does

    • @ukiss4eva254
      @ukiss4eva254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      When he says "you look good, though. " her reaction was so cute.

    • @shedigs
      @shedigs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@ukiss4eva254 I agree, she just bloomed!

    • @realmachodubchicago7425
      @realmachodubchicago7425 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      These are my kin folks and im proud of em but we got other kin in odd

  • @hbhamilton3410
    @hbhamilton3410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    The number of kind and sensitive comments for this video are overwhelming. Hard to find any derogatory comments..It’s encouraging to know that humanity still exists and that most people have kindness in their hearts.

    • @savewaterdrinkwine3802
      @savewaterdrinkwine3802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was shocked at first, but after I watched for a minute I see people who have been dealt a raw deal. But they love each other and do what they can to live a decent life. I will include them tonight in my prayers.

    • @TheMary0831
      @TheMary0831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think that is in large part due to the documentarian, who treats them like equals and gives them dignity. But also does speak well to the fact there are lots of good and decent humans out here. Of course, the news and pop culture would have us believe differently.

    • @michaelwalsh9145
      @michaelwalsh9145 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheMary0831 no he doesn’t, have you seen the Walmart one where he keeps the camera on Ray?

    • @stevepalpatine2828
      @stevepalpatine2828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean, they're still people, they're just horrifically inbred, they didnt choose to be that way.
      You'd think they'd have realized at some point that having kids with your relatives is a bad idea, but if they've always been that way, maybe its like a local tradition.

    • @TheQueenRulesAll
      @TheQueenRulesAll 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sad to me that the only derogatory statement seems to be how poorly the church people treated these lovely souls.

  • @blueballs1123
    @blueballs1123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    I can say with confidence that I am not and could never be as strong as Betty, nor as good of a person. What she's been doing for most of her life is something many of us couldn't do for a single day. What an amazing human being.

    • @aqilahsdead
      @aqilahsdead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You’re 100% right. Even people with all the money and resources couldn’t be this fucking strong as her, bless her and thankful for people like her.

    • @meschahayes1003
      @meschahayes1003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ray clearly wants food... 😭 He's pulling his hair out and eating it!!!

    • @L337Kelly
      @L337Kelly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When it's something you've been around for your entire life, you don't have anything else to compare it to.

  • @royster7170
    @royster7170 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I remember people like this in Northern California as a kid. Sweetest people with huge hearts. God bless them.

  • @gwenmarie2680
    @gwenmarie2680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    he’s such a sweet interviewer. you can tell he genuinely just wants to get to know them and there doesn’t seem to be any judgement. it’s so humbling

    • @robertnervi57
      @robertnervi57 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Is there anyway people can get there to help them with cleaning and speech therapies and whatever would help? I do not have a lot of money but I would be willing to work hard and help. Such sweet living people.

    • @8213apice
      @8213apice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He’s a bad interviewer

    • @hopearaya5021
      @hopearaya5021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@8213apice he’s actually not though. He’s great

    • @adam.miles1985
      @adam.miles1985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@8213apice he is absolutely terrible. Louis theroux should visit them.

    • @summerrr1
      @summerrr1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get to know them? There’s not much to get to know. They’re like a glitch in a video game.

  • @Nunnyuh
    @Nunnyuh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +905

    Lorraine blushing when he complimented her just melted my heart! 🥰🥰

    • @talonfelisa
      @talonfelisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I keep going back to that part

    • @jamesreedmusic4224
      @jamesreedmusic4224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The best part. She said awwww

    • @realnickotine
      @realnickotine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@namenotphil How about not being a pretentious dick, Phil.

    • @EntouchNetwork
      @EntouchNetwork 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@namenotphil i'm sure more would agree with the comment than yours BONEHEAD

    • @walmarp
      @walmarp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EntouchNetwork what most people would agree with isn't always right. Democracy is a failed system because it's easy to take advantage of human emotions

  • @cod4volume
    @cod4volume 2 ปีที่แล้ว +830

    Man, Ray loves being alive. When he loaded up that first pinch, I about cried. That gentleman is always engaged in the conversation, laughing, smiling... Thanks for all you do, Soft White Underbelly crew!

    • @robertking5701
      @robertking5701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You got that right. I wish I was as happy as all of them. Their dirt poor but could care less

    • @kevindube7096
      @kevindube7096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      idk.... sure seems that way but everybody gets frustrated or even angry sometimes, no matter how blissful life can be other times. I get the feeling we wouldn’t get such wholesome feelings if we could see everything Betty has dealt with in taking care of her siblings 24/7, by herself, for the last 20-30 years 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @mark_vs___
      @mark_vs___ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      dude ate that pinch up. What a bro hahaha ! seems real nice

    • @Hoosierkid1327
      @Hoosierkid1327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      His instantly regretted it and spat it out lol

    • @the.irish.immigrant
      @the.irish.immigrant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm glad I'm not the only one who caught that lol he was like yeah nope 🤣 Id love to hear what ray has to say he clearly understands what the conversation is he pointed straight at the ground when they where talking about Freddie

  • @myflyingkidney
    @myflyingkidney ปีที่แล้ว +6

    its fascinating how much you can communicate with so little words actually. you completely get everything they say, even without words.

  • @popkornking
    @popkornking 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1210

    As sad as these people's condition is, I'm glad they live out in a peaceful area like they do. I can only imagine how horrifying a city would be for these folks.

    • @kaithleen3872
      @kaithleen3872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      This would be less likely to happen in a city because cities are usually funded and the origins of what led this family here would have been better supported in a city to reroute the outcome of these now adults. We need each other and this documentary shows us that. We are all deserving of care, education, nutrient rich food, and shelter. Without these things we go back to the olden times having tons of children just to make bread to bake bread.

    • @kevinrice4909
      @kevinrice4909 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And I agree

    • @steelisthemeal
      @steelisthemeal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@kaithleen3872 city life sucks

    • @IKeepItHyper
      @IKeepItHyper 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaithleen3872 they could be brought to the city. boom.

    • @IKeepItHyper
      @IKeepItHyper 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kaithleen3872 when you said "cities are 'usually' funded" are you talking about Akon city ?

  • @nettricegaskins1871
    @nettricegaskins1871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    I love how everyone is so talkative this time.

    • @mikew1374
      @mikew1374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It wasnt a new experience to be nervous about like the first interview.

    • @tamiesmith8855
      @tamiesmith8855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right, they seem so happy this time around.....

    • @gloriatorres6286
      @gloriatorres6286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeah I think they realized mark wasn’t there to harass they he actually help God bless his soul and everyone that donated Lord Jesus continue you to keep this family safe and healthy warm and fed

    • @GDug-rs5sh
      @GDug-rs5sh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      so guarded. bullied beyond

    • @tlangelanimaluleke1900
      @tlangelanimaluleke1900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      They seem more comfortable with Mark now😊

  • @a.wanderer5006
    @a.wanderer5006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    Ray's portrait is one of the best yet. His smile is contagious. The backward shoes is just icing on the cake.

  • @aderynmawr
    @aderynmawr ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Lorraine’s shy, coy smile at 7:48 was so sweet to see 💕

  • @kimberlyt3953
    @kimberlyt3953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +729

    My boy Timmy was really trying to express his feelings about that heart attack. Just sounded awlful Timmy

    • @divineintervention212
      @divineintervention212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      I can tell he didn't like getting IV's in his arms

    • @cyanide_lollipop3264
      @cyanide_lollipop3264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I have a feeling he's pretty traumatized by the whole thing. Poor guy.

    • @buttafly1075
      @buttafly1075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He definitely didn't like that! 💜

    • @Getchomeme
      @Getchomeme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The way his demeanor changed soooo fast!!!

    • @ForeWard76
      @ForeWard76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I can tell it was painful too 🙏🏾