Mark Laita: #1 Lesson from Humanity That Will Move You to Tears

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  • @ladev91
    @ladev91 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1751

    Soft White Underbelly is one of the best channels to exist on TH-cam.

    • @jacquelineraby7774
      @jacquelineraby7774 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      It's so interesting the world and people whom live in it...This channel delves into lives and truths,Keeps my brain so stimulated I had a dream of being a helper for the cause...And ended up handing out Xanax to the people of skid row...😂

    • @mesomeone8684
      @mesomeone8684 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      100%

    • @Gram72534
      @Gram72534 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Absolutely!!!!!!!

    • @kenithkennith
      @kenithkennith 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Dude gave a shitload to them people

    • @jimcowden733
      @jimcowden733 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @brad6054
    @brad6054 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +363

    The world has no clue how important his work is

    • @devisingh6785
      @devisingh6785 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So true❤🙏

    • @jujumulligan43
      @jujumulligan43 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      A lot of people watch his interviews!

    • @vickitrotter3404
      @vickitrotter3404 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I do

    • @shaynej704
      @shaynej704 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wish I could see how much his work helps. I'm learning lots though.

    • @Follow_AtheismPart3-t8o
      @Follow_AtheismPart3-t8o 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awareness is step 1 but I don't see anybody doing step 2. How do you cure all those horrors, how do you fix and prevent criminals? NOBODY except myself as an antinatalist is giving an ACTUAL solution. Instead everybody wants to just lament and then continue the cycle.

  • @susana-minkalis777
    @susana-minkalis777 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +565

    I'd say one of Mark's best attributes is the ability to listen to those he interviews without interruptions...he lets them talk & listens with his mind and heart.....that takes patience and great skill..he is one of the greatest interviewers...that is a gift that he has

    • @ambersisco7828
      @ambersisco7828 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Unless they go on about god.ive sent him shut a guy down mid sentence

    • @494ava
      @494ava 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That’s truly a gift he has been given!! Even if he’s not religious 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @ambersisco7828
      @ambersisco7828 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@494ava well I'm an atheist I couldn't care less what he is,that has nothing to do with the fact the dudes not really much of an interviewer at all.His whole deal is to let them tell their story but I've seen him get irritated if the subject veers in the wrong direction

    • @hollynelson543
      @hollynelson543 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      100% perfect on that.

    • @watchinvidzwatchinvidz7691
      @watchinvidzwatchinvidz7691 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No he's full of 💩. It's all about money. He sees people as commodities. He uses them & if they don't do what only he wants he throws them to the waste side & they end up in worse situations than before. Look at the Whittakers & Rebecca. If they aren't making him look 100% good all the time he disposes of them. Not ok.

  • @L8-4A-D8
    @L8-4A-D8 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +481

    Mark is a true empath. It's hard to live in this world if you're an empath.

  • @Paula14609
    @Paula14609 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +638

    Mark needs & deserves a Nobel Prize

    • @kor405
      @kor405 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Agree

    • @dove4009
      @dove4009 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Not quite.

    • @dawnemyers5056
      @dawnemyers5056 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Mark is such a warm and caring guy who deserves more than what the negative things done and said because deep down he wanted the best for everyone he has met. He is also human and works hard at what he does.

    • @madfoxcityemnau6414
      @madfoxcityemnau6414 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Mark's work is the prize. And he needs a vacation😅

    • @caseymckenzie8065
      @caseymckenzie8065 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He deserves prison time dig deeper

  • @shamrox12
    @shamrox12 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +238

    "The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of good people." I'm so glad that you broke that silence Mark!❤

    • @doreendaykin6693
      @doreendaykin6693 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well & truly said🙏💙

    • @RLFinTX
      @RLFinTX 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@doreendaykin6693
      Paraphrase of Dr Martin Luther King’s quote.

    • @dianakey2857
      @dianakey2857 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How true is that!

    • @Amber-ro3dy
      @Amber-ro3dy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love this!!

    • @shamrox12
      @shamrox12 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@RLFinTX There was no author where I found that quote. I'm glad to know who said it. 😊 TY

  • @sheilawagner2963
    @sheilawagner2963 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    Mark, I am a 56 year old woman. I love you. I am so thankful for what you are showing the world. You have a wonderful heart. Your empathy is so wonderful. Thank you Thank you!

  • @anntunaley9974
    @anntunaley9974 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +254

    What he’s talking about is unconditional love. And that’s what life is all about. That’s why we’re here.

    • @Truth17John17
      @Truth17John17 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mark has you (and many -- of not most -- others) fooled. "Satan masquerades as an angel of light....."

    • @kwester318
      @kwester318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Truth17John17 why do you say this?

    • @denisescruggs2157
      @denisescruggs2157 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@Truth17John17Wow, what reasons do you have for your negative opinion?

    • @meredithorozco9708
      @meredithorozco9708 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If we are not doing something that helps anyone else, why live ?

    • @xiexie89
      @xiexie89 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please elaborate ​@@Truth17John17

  • @zenveg
    @zenveg 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    I had the rare opportunity to work with Mr. Laita once before I knew about SWU and found him to be just as he appears, a gentleman who is an extraordinarily talented photographer of not only humans, but animals and products as well. Look up his other work and you'll understand he's among the top commercial and portrait photographers in the world.

    • @jankasza5538
      @jankasza5538 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank You for sharing this about Mark!

  • @RoseanneShannon7
    @RoseanneShannon7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +170

    I absolutely love Mark he is a beautiful blessing to a broken world, God bless him .

    • @The1andonlyhbomb
      @The1andonlyhbomb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's a disgusting creep, I know this for a fact personally. It's really sad how many people worship him for being a sadist

    • @BooBoosPalace
      @BooBoosPalace 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Mark,
      You are sooooo blessed. You exude love; we see that. Thank you for being brave enough to step out of your comfort zone. You are an incredible inspiration to all! ❤❤❤

    • @aquilinaciamacco2410
      @aquilinaciamacco2410 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @Mrs.Happi? There are so many "angels amongst us".❤ When we actually take the time to look around? They show themselves through the selfless acts of random kindness they do.

    • @Truth17John17
      @Truth17John17 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The "god" Mark serves is blessing him, but it is not the God of the Bible, if that is the God you are referring to.... Mark serves a different god.

    • @RoseanneShannon7
      @RoseanneShannon7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Truth17John17 I mean the God of the Bible
      .

  • @debbiepierce4962
    @debbiepierce4962 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    The world would be a better place if more people were like Mark!!

  • @andreewilliams5007
    @andreewilliams5007 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +341

    Mark you say you don’t read the Bible …that you really can’t see yourself doing so…but my friend you speak it over and over! You speak of forgiveness… the importance of it…actually it is the most important thing you say! Yes! Jesus says the same thing! Read Matthew 18:21-35. You speak Jesus Mark!! I got saved after experiencing a difficult life when I realized how much God loved me! You by doing what you do shows people the love of God!! Listen to Johnny the gang member again!! He speaks Jesus too!! And he spoke it to you! The most memorable story was Dream… I cry thinking of it and I pray for her!!! Because of you people pray for her!! Remember this “God does not give us a spirit of fear, but of power and love and a sound mind” 2 Timothy 1:7! Thank you for what you do!! God bless you Mark!

    • @MathaWaddell
      @MathaWaddell 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Totally agree 👍🏻

    • @rosannacellini2158
      @rosannacellini2158 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Beautifully said and so true. God sees everything good in people, and wants us to be kind and caring to those in need. God also said, he who helps others, helps himself. People should strive to do their part to do better themselves, through better channels, cause drugs only make more misery and problems. 😌

    • @angelanixon434
      @angelanixon434 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      I was thinking the same thing while watching this video! Mark, you are being the hands and feet of Jesus! Blessings to you..

    • @beautifulchris-sw2yq
      @beautifulchris-sw2yq 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Well said 🙏🏾

    • @glindawilson4195
      @glindawilson4195 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      So true😊

  • @jimcowden733
    @jimcowden733 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +144

    He’s a genuinely good dude

  • @bts_vintagearmy3754
    @bts_vintagearmy3754 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    “Without Risk, you get Nothing.”
    Wow. So profound. So True. ❤

    • @75ENVY
      @75ENVY 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My life is risk adverse

  • @JosiahMMA
    @JosiahMMA 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +276

    There's not a human in history that deserves more respect than Mark. This man is pure good.

    • @The1andonlyhbomb
      @The1andonlyhbomb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      How so?? His entire career is built on exploiting the most vulnerable population. What has he done to help?

    • @elizabethecarlisle1045
      @elizabethecarlisle1045 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      You need to get out more.

    • @GhastlyCretin
      @GhastlyCretin 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Way too much.

    • @annafitzgerald4939
      @annafitzgerald4939 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Are you serious???

    • @andreacharen8797
      @andreacharen8797 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂in the history of TH-cam you mean- I blody hope!

  • @pattihinkle6358
    @pattihinkle6358 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

    He is one of the kindest people alive

    • @justjosie8963
      @justjosie8963 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤦🏽‍♀

    • @FooglerDoodgler
      @FooglerDoodgler 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wrong look into his past

    • @i.ehrenfest349
      @i.ehrenfest349 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FooglerDoodglertell?

  • @kwester318
    @kwester318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    Mark is the most humble, honest person. I love everything he does. He always films with compassion, honesty, and love.

    • @Truth17John17
      @Truth17John17 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not really.....

    • @kwester318
      @kwester318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Truth17John17 Why?

  • @lisaindahouse1304
    @lisaindahouse1304 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    Mark-
    2 Timothy 1:7
    “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”

    • @suzybailey-koubti8342
      @suzybailey-koubti8342 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Amen ❤

    • @tracybelcher8510
      @tracybelcher8510 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      🙏 ❤

    • @Gram820
      @Gram820 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙄

    • @susystewart5569
      @susystewart5569 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly! lol I just typed that here somewhere…

    • @catie5669
      @catie5669 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes! This!

  • @princesstakaloo
    @princesstakaloo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Mark is one of the most valuable undiscovered wonders of the world.

  • @Amor-Fati.
    @Amor-Fati. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    The interviewer is fantastic. He lets the guest talk. How many interviewers talk over the guest constantly. And he really knows how to conversate without higging the spotlight

  • @castnm54
    @castnm54 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I now have unconditional love for Mark, he's an incredible, vulnerable, humble human being.. just my type.

  • @henryklevemann
    @henryklevemann 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Mark's empathy runs deep

  • @kentuckylady2990
    @kentuckylady2990 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I have been reading the Bible since I was 8 and I have never found it difficult. I began reading the stories and Psalms and finally reading the doctrine. I have learned much from my studies. Thanks Grandma for giving me a Bible for my 8th birthday.

  • @sassykow
    @sassykow 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Mark You Sir are a rare gem. When you choke up, so do i. I feel you. I, too wish i could change the world , stop the hate. Each day i go out, i will compliment, open doors, etc.. only because that is how we should treat each other. It's so much easier to love, than to hate! We are all here just trying to survive.. Lets work together.. Peace & Love

  • @luke144
    @luke144 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    My life has been difficult I'm no stranger to suffering. Through this path of lost so much faith in humanity and this guy helps me think we're not a lost cause.

  • @GrandmaLM
    @GrandmaLM 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Mark, I’m 76 and you just gave such a beautiful message. I can tell you mean every word. You have a heart.

  • @danellemarieee
    @danellemarieee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Mark is literally my most favorite person on this planet . A true earth angel 🩵

    • @jacobus57
      @jacobus57 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You need to get out more.

  • @MrDaigoRiki
    @MrDaigoRiki 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This guy is badass and fearless, a little crazy and compassionate and he has been doing it in the most realistic way to change the world. He’s intelligent that he knew he could’ve been one of those addicts but he earned the shield called photography as a young man. He pays extra money to those he’s interviewed when they need help.

    • @susanhowell5257
      @susanhowell5257 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mark, you are one of the wisest men ive ever known!!

  • @MimiElle516
    @MimiElle516 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Mark Laita is one of my favorite people to listen to - he's made a difference in my life in how I view and understand people and their stories. He's an amazing person - I follow SWU and enjoy all his videos

  • @abbyweitz7011
    @abbyweitz7011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    We need an interview about Mark’s life if there isn’t already one.

  • @tracyplaunt-miller1703
    @tracyplaunt-miller1703 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    Mark-YOU ARE SO IMPORTANT TO SOCIETY, raw TRUTH...TEACHING HOW TO MOVE IN LIFE, FOR.SUCCESS...WORLD OF LOVE & THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR GIFT!❣️

  • @Lilybet1316
    @Lilybet1316 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Mark you have the drive of some of this world’s greatest artists. The work is what matters. 🙂

  • @LiveLoveLora
    @LiveLoveLora 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    20 mins in……MARK, it’s called GRACE!
    If WE ALL, GIVE GRACE….our consciousness is gifted with empathy.
    EMPATHY is an act of LOVE
    FORGIVENESS is fueled by LOVE.
    LOVE is the EVERYTHING!

    • @AChosenPearl
      @AChosenPearl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Like my precious mother has always said “pray for the eyes to see grace”❤️

    • @dianehess5520
      @dianehess5520 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly!

  • @GenxJul
    @GenxJul 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Mark is full of wisdom. I admire him as a person.

  • @Nicolelynn1217
    @Nicolelynn1217 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Mark is my favorite creator! I love his channel. I use it as a teaching tool for my 13 year old. We come from a line of addicts and I fear for him. Mark gets so much back lash people can’t just see he’s a good human just because! He gives so much out of his own pocket. Marks a blessing!

    • @The1andonlyhbomb
      @The1andonlyhbomb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You show Mark Laita videos to your 13 year old?? That's honestly not surprising, grooming children is pretty on brand for him

    • @The1andonlyhbomb
      @The1andonlyhbomb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      By the way, I say that from personal experience as he tried to groom me when I was 15

    • @justjosie8963
      @justjosie8963 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you realize how he makes that money in his own pocket?

  • @minnesotagirl1473
    @minnesotagirl1473 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I respect Mark on a level thats hard to explain...I find him rare in this world.

  • @Laura-nh2wb
    @Laura-nh2wb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I refuse to risk my heart again. I CAN'T take another heartbreak. So absolutely fear drives us, sadly

    • @aquilinaciamacco2410
      @aquilinaciamacco2410 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @Laura-nh2wb? Not "sadly" at all!!! Your "single hood" is your opportunity for personal FREEDOM ❤.

    • @Laura-nh2wb
      @Laura-nh2wb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aquilinaciamacco2410 amen, amen, amen!!!

  • @MsG110
    @MsG110 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    The light bulb came on for me too when I first realized everything we do is rooted in either love or fear.

    • @vintagevirgo
      @vintagevirgo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Erykah badu was the first person to say that and I really took heed like wowww fresh new perspective unlocked 🔓 love or fear. Simple

  • @KualaLumpurMalaysia-le4yk
    @KualaLumpurMalaysia-le4yk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Mark, your channel has educated me more than anything I could read or study. Its profound how much I have learned about myself and my family through you.

  • @Emzzz78
    @Emzzz78 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    15:00 how can people think Mark is a bad person? He’s so heartfelt and kind.

    • @The1andonlyhbomb
      @The1andonlyhbomb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Maybe because they're paying attention to his actual actions

    • @Emzzz78
      @Emzzz78 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@The1andonlyhbomb or maybe because they’re not. Mark is a great man on a mission

    • @Emzzz78
      @Emzzz78 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@The1andonlyhbomb look at little deeper

  • @lanchparty
    @lanchparty 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    We could all live a much better life if we lived like Mark with no ill-will in our hearts.

  • @Emzzz78
    @Emzzz78 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I just adore Mark! He’s taught me so much about life just from watching his interviews. I’m a better mother because of him. I’ve encouraged my son to have a better relationship with his father. Everything starts in the home for kids.

  • @AliJacobson-u6r
    @AliJacobson-u6r 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Children are delicate; they need love, hugs, explanations, guidance... Many broken children in adult bodies by no fault of their own, but hard to turn that around by the time they have already hurt themselves after being traumatized. Know your worth, value the worth of others and love those who feel unlovable. It seems so simple, until you come upon the wreckage. Great interview. Great portraits of humanity- up close, personal and uncomfortably raw. .

    • @jacobus57
      @jacobus57 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Children are fragile AND resilient, which is why at least 80% of the population isn't composed of monsters.
      Most people who were abused do NOT become abusers, addicts, and/or criminals.

    • @sdd123
      @sdd123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very true!

    • @DontCryAboutIt
      @DontCryAboutIt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Every child has their breaking and recovery points. Doesn't even have to be abuse it can be indifference, neglect, lack of guidance boundaries, comfort, support encouragement, love etc.

  • @lisa4498
    @lisa4498 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I would love to talk with Mark in person. He interests me, inspires me, and makes me wonder. He cares and respects people.

  • @lexxibriggs7522
    @lexxibriggs7522 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This video isn't long enough i could listen to Mark speak for hours ❤

  • @teraallan
    @teraallan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I think my biggest takeaway from watching Mark’s interviews is that each person is human and THAT we all have in common. Hearing the stories from different people (especially childhood traumas) help me be more understanding and empathy for why people do what they do or why they have bad outward behavior. It also makes me feel thankful for my parents who I have been critical of in the past. In addition, it makes me look inward to why I do what I do or why I am the person I am today.

  • @lisalockwood5548
    @lisalockwood5548 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Sweet Mark, I am no religion. I began reading the Bible 6 years ago and it is not only understandable, it is a supernatural guide to life!!! Maybe say a prayer for understanding and start again?

  • @tammywilks8782
    @tammywilks8782 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    We love Mark for all the reasons ❤

  • @DanniBurke-Kennedy
    @DanniBurke-Kennedy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Mark you are the most incredible human being.. I’ve been following you a long time.. I’ve had a life of hardship and adversity and I love the way you present peoples lives! I’m loving this interview you speak so from the heart and passion.. the impact you have and will continue to have is beyond your comprehension right now.. massive respect and loyalty ❤

  • @charmainepriestman915
    @charmainepriestman915 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Mark is pure love. A beautiful human ❤

  • @juaquincastro2027
    @juaquincastro2027 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have learned so much by watching Mr. Laita, he's a special human being on earth. Bless Him

  • @RG-yi2tv
    @RG-yi2tv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Mark is a beautiful person. What a privilege to interview him ❤

  • @kid_cat_dog
    @kid_cat_dog 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The interviews with Jerry are moving! Despite all of the trauma he endured and continued to endure, he maintained an amazingly positive outlook! Seriously, if ANYONE complains about your struggles, look to Jerry - let it go and move forward!!!!
    Jerry, you are missed by many and you are loved!! ❤❤❤

  • @mjindraify
    @mjindraify 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Mark’s guest are people you would typically disfavor and be repulsed, but he is such a GREAT interviewer, and nonjudgmental - like Christ would be, that you find the diamond(s) in each of his guest and Mark, I’d love to share a cup of coffee with you! You are Amazing!

  • @Judi-CA
    @Judi-CA 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I too, get emotional when I hear the stories of your guests childhood Trauma on your show. My childhood wasn’t perfect however, it sure has me appreciate my mother more now that I’m older. My mom was a single parent of six children and she never had any vices or brought any men in our home, she knew to protect us. My traumas was from the world.

  • @carter_1
    @carter_1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My son's 3rd grade teacher had *ONE RULE in her class "Be Kind."* Think about it, if you're being kind, you ARE talking not yelling, walking not running, not say'n mean, things you know you're not supposed to do. So if you do it, then it's not kind either.
    But it goes deeper & deeper the more you think about it.
    It ultimately transformed my 4 kids/fam.
    Obviously I taught kindness and they were good kids but i didn't have full control. They'd tease each other, argue over petty stuff, etc.
    But "is that kind?" Id ask. Within a week the kids had fully caught on & ONE MONTH it was just so much more peaceful in the house.
    Today my kids are 24, 21, 17, 16 and I am do thankful for that ONE SIMPLE lesson.
    Mark's "Love or Fear" lesson needs followed up with the "Kind" lesson.

  • @jankasza5538
    @jankasza5538 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mark’s girls are so fortunate, to have a father like Mark! I pray that in my next life, I have a father like him!💕

    • @katizz988
      @katizz988 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He got divorced.

    • @marylundquist8450
      @marylundquist8450 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You have no idea what kind of father he is. You are projecting.

  • @I_am_dovakin
    @I_am_dovakin 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This guy is 100% right. When you talk about it, your already wasting energy. I've met people who never finished their goals because all they did was talk about it, and eventually lost interest. In the simplest form everytime you talk about your goals, you are giving yourself a little dopamine hit. Imagine the feeling of when you truly 100% accomplished your goals? But then again imagining it will not help you much either. And this is where I say I love Nike's saying, Just Do It. Because that is how you accomplish goals.

  • @Krystiluvsu
    @Krystiluvsu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Mark I watch you because you are true, compassionate, interesting and give a voice to people who society wants to judge and blame. Life doesn’t play out the same for all of us and I understand that. Thank you 🙏

  • @mdh8629
    @mdh8629 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I've watched everything on SWU and Mark is the most respectable and compassionate man on TH-cam, he shares real stories of our real people living real lives, the good, the bad, the ugly, the nice, the nasty and all the things in-between.
    Yes it can be shocking and unimaginable but its gutsy , unique and extremely informative and interesting 👍
    Stay true 2u Mark, I see you ❤ an Australian fan who cares 🇦🇺🦘🪃🫶

    • @The1andonlyhbomb
      @The1andonlyhbomb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you really cared then you wouldn't respect someone for exploiting the most vulnerable in order to boost his own career

  • @briarrose5208
    @briarrose5208 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Mark is right. The lesson of this life is love and forgiveness. That’s what we came here to learn. I think I’m gonna need a redo. I’m a slow learner.

  • @myleejones2281
    @myleejones2281 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i've watched mark from the beginning. his empathy and willingness to sit down and talk to people nobody wants to talk to is what kept me watching.

  • @hellosweetheart3350
    @hellosweetheart3350 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I cannot process "not" seeing Mark in heaven. He deserves it so much, in fact, God has him here on earth "doing" all these works for Him and Mark doesn't even realize it.

  • @Sabrina38236
    @Sabrina38236 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Church was one of my safest places to learn and move on.... and be a student to remind myself how the lord is my only true friend

  • @molliegill1559
    @molliegill1559 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I love and admire this man

  • @janisrose6131
    @janisrose6131 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He holds people so high. He truly can respect humanity as a broken and flawed species. He is a rare breed of man and truly loves himself as he loves his neighbor. That’s the secret- he admires who he is without arrogance and gives that same honor to his neighbor. He is the freedom we pray for.

  • @truckingwithtobee
    @truckingwithtobee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I absolutely adore Mark. He’s such a genuine and beautiful person to a fault. I think he cares too much for people that don’t care or love themselves and in turn he gets hurt by them. Especially what the Whitakers are doing to him right now.

    • @The1andonlyhbomb
      @The1andonlyhbomb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What makes you think he cares about anything other than boosting his career off the backs of poor and homeless people?

    • @aquilinaciamacco2410
      @aquilinaciamacco2410 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Caring too much can be a form of "self-harm". I just hope Mark & his team find a "healthy balance" that enables them to continue with their mission and also stay mentally and emotionally healthy.❤

  • @thenicolemartinez
    @thenicolemartinez 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This interview with Mark was pure fucking gold.It was such a “behind the curtain” view of Marks heart and the way he operates and the principles that guide him. Take notes because the world would be a better place if we all adopted even half of his ways.

  • @ellengarcia4041
    @ellengarcia4041 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Mark has been blessed. He is an absolute angel. God loves him and inspires him to dongood. I believe he is a modern day saint. Blessings Mark you are loved.

  • @MarelizebeukesBeukes
    @MarelizebeukesBeukes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This really is one of the best if not the best motivational interviews of all time.Thank you Mark.I really appreciate what you do.Don't stop doing what you're doing Mark.
    Thank you.
    Greetings from Namibia, Africa.
    Rusty Diergaardt 🙏

  • @tonisylviamallette1601
    @tonisylviamallette1601 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    His portrait work is phenomenal

    • @donnahoffman1622
      @donnahoffman1622 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      People sleep on his portraits but they tell so much each one of tbem

  • @neenaj365
    @neenaj365 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mark is one of those souls who is really invested and interested in his fellow humans. That’s profoundly important.

  • @sparrowwren8673
    @sparrowwren8673 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have learned so, so much from Mark today. I am one of those broken people who had a horror filled life and even worse childhood. I am trying to forgive. I agree with hope and focus and concentration on what you want to do with this life and I am just now at almost sixty figuring it all out with therapy. I want to thank Mark for what he is doing . He is a true rare gem in a world of muddy rocks.

  • @normabrammer9100
    @normabrammer9100 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I love every interview I see with Mark. This guy has such heart and has so much to say. Great great interview.

  • @francoad
    @francoad 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I believe Humanity will Always Prevail and suffering will always exist. There are great people on this planet that make a difference and if you can help instill and prove that Humanity will always Precail, then it will always. Mark and his team are Angels that walk the Earth.

  • @amandakelly6884
    @amandakelly6884 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just seeing this. I totally get it. A course in miracles is a part of my life ❤

  • @meganchase4792
    @meganchase4792 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Mark Laita is one of the most kind, empathetic, soft spoken, caring and humble men on this planet. His wife is an extremely lucky woman.

    • @michiganmama562
      @michiganmama562 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I thought he said he doesn’t have a wife now; he was married. But divorced, because he was married to his work. He’s so amazing! He truly deserves the best; I hope he finds it.

    • @RLFinTX
      @RLFinTX 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      He’s single.

    • @janicewebber5584
      @janicewebber5584 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I love him. The more I see, the more I admire him!❤ At one point, I only saw him with the Whitakers & thought he was exploiting them. I've watched more interviews & sometimes I can't finish because they make me too sad. I once worked at an SPCA clinic for about 10 months. There are people who can do the hard things, but I'm not one of them. Mark can do the hard things.

    • @3nheaven
      @3nheaven 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If Mark is all of the things you mentioned above then he would still be married. Hes divorced like 70 percent of all couples in the United States. You live with someone then you see what they are really doing like

    • @michiganmama562
      @michiganmama562 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@3nheaven Why does a divorce define him? Does that really make sense? Absolutely not. He has a passion for his work, and drive, and work ethic that is unmatched. Sometimes those qualities don’t mix well with a relationship, definitely not a marriage. Thats absolutely ok; you don’t have to be in a relationship or married to have good qualities, and wonderful things about you. That’s just such a ridiculous way to think.

  • @Treefiddy35054
    @Treefiddy35054 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    There’s a deeper connection between the Ego and fear than he’s explaining.

  • @karencampbell2410
    @karencampbell2410 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Mark I have loved your work. ❤. As an addict in my early life it was very frightening to get straight. I am not risk adverse and that is what got me into trouble and what also got me out of trouble. Thirty years clean. I love your rationale- there needs to be more awareness about people who are addicts, lost, lonely, sidelined, different and on the fringe. These people are voiceless.

  • @rachelweston2169
    @rachelweston2169 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m obsessed with his videos, it shows me how lucky I am, gratitude and kindness.

  • @debbie1966
    @debbie1966 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear.”
    I John 4:18
    Mark, you’re on to something when you feel so deeply about love and forgiveness. That’s the heart of God speaking through you. Have you ever considered giving your life to Christ? You’re closer than you think.

    • @lorrie3526
      @lorrie3526 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Please Lord, may this be so. In Jesus name, Amen

    • @jolenataborn7809
      @jolenataborn7809 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@lorrie3526Amen

  • @LindaOhearn-mt9vk
    @LindaOhearn-mt9vk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mark is a beautiful soul. Ive learned so much from watching his interviews. I think ive also learned about myself. Mark, i hope you realize what an inspiration to so many people. Bless you.

  • @yvonneballarin1163
    @yvonneballarin1163 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Love your selfless work and all the time and care you put into the people who are battling drug,addiction,trauma,homelessness,poverty,mental health problems,etc you are a wonderful friend and therapist and role model total respect

  • @paulamagee3510
    @paulamagee3510 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    All my respect to you Mark. Thank you for everything you do ❤

  • @offxcialmariah
    @offxcialmariah 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Love love love love him and his work.

  • @mercyme8014
    @mercyme8014 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Unconditional forgiveness is not a AAA insurance plan for walking lightly on the earth. It’s like grasping at yet another formula to avoid suffering. It can lead to enabling others to be themselves at your expense which ultimately weakens boundaries and growth. But, hard won moments coming from suffering can lead to grace, to forgiveness and understanding which are divine.

  • @janetlambe5521
    @janetlambe5521 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Love or fear. I couldnt agree more. It takes courage to be vulnerable and to love without fear of getting hurt. On a side note, i love Mark's honesty and no-nonsense attitude. I reckon he'd be a person to sit down and have a coffee with, he seems to have learnt so much from his SWU project. Emotionally taxing but what a privilege to bear witness to so many people's journeys

  • @carlyprice4101
    @carlyprice4101 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    RIP Jerry!!!
    "...Forgiveness is the most important thing in the world" - ML
    Thank you Mark for doing what you do.

  • @Visionstelevision-wu1lu
    @Visionstelevision-wu1lu 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Mark your a great man.

  • @venhey7306
    @venhey7306 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Mark you make this crazy world a better place

  • @sunidaye011110
    @sunidaye011110 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Soft White Underbelly has changed lives and opinions. Mark is an incredibly interesting as a person. To be open to the perspective of anyone's wisdom, regardless of their journey and choices ... Is incredibly beautiful and strong.

  • @barbarajackson9884
    @barbarajackson9884 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mark''s wonderful gift is his voice......the voice is very compelling.

  • @wirebutterfly2552
    @wirebutterfly2552 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I really like SWU and the fact that he helps people is great. Unfortunately some people have taken advantage of him abd his good will. If more people would act like him the world would be a better place.

    • @jacobus57
      @jacobus57 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Unfortunately, Mark has exploited many people who are unable to give full consent.
      Fixed it for you.

  • @alicia6353
    @alicia6353 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Marks voice is so soothing . I can listen to him talk all day

  • @skirtedfancy
    @skirtedfancy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’ve loved Mark’s channels for years and years and I love it more now after seeing his sincerity and genuine love for humanity.

  • @vickyschaffner2672
    @vickyschaffner2672 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes Mark you are making an effect on the world. The educational process of interviewing people is great! The compassion and intellect!!!

  • @LeFtic1
    @LeFtic1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My Dear 🌺 having seen all these real horrible stories, You still are so empathic...all the time You fight back Your tears....
    I thank You for not getting distant but for staying with these souls. You are an amazing person....
    So often when I am miserable with my life I watch The soft white underbelly and see, how blessed I can be with my resilence that I grew in my own life.
    I didn't end up on the streets and become addicted, I had at least 5 different long therapies...and somehow I managed to bring up my child with loads of love though I never got any from my parents....
    I know how many of the ones in the portraits feel...I am with them and on the other hand so glad that I managed somehow.
    Thank You so much for showing us all what is really important in life 🙏🙏🙏
    May You be blessed and loved❤

  • @goodthoughts2252
    @goodthoughts2252 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thankyou for showing the real Mark. I love this man’s heart so deeply. 🇦🇺🥰

  • @karenclayton3946
    @karenclayton3946 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I 100% agree Mark, unconditional love is the meaning of life.

  • @ogh63waynorth
    @ogh63waynorth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are an incredible human being Mark. Your motivation is pure and your photography out of this world. ❤