There is one thing you forgot in all of your videos, that’s extremely powerful. If you can make a woman laughing whenever you want and you can make fun without beeing a clown. You won! There were times a woman was upset with me and tried to fight with me… I kept extremely calm and no reacting, I knew what make her laugh and I made a joke off it.. she wanted to be serious but she couldn’t hold her laughing and I won 👍
@CaseyZander you said a man should be stable in order to have a woman. But my concern is that a woman wants a stable man to settle down when her hoe period has been over & now she wants stability but what about that stable man who is going to get a hoe who has taken plenty of dicks & it is a bitter pill for anyone to swallow. The fresh ones don't look after the stability they want an ass hole to put a dick inside their holes. Ultimate Crux is everyone wants a fresh one. Give me a mind full positive suggestion over this.
That's all well and good. We should all strive for this. But what do they have to be ? It's nigh impossible to find 2 of those -- no, even just 1 -- in a woman in the US. I don't expect the 3rd one, but 1 / 2 / 4 should be on the table along with other characteristics.
@@niallk9336he’ll never cover that..just a young masculinity coach teaching dudes to get women. Very 1 dimensional. I dont think he’s lived enough to know what women need. This manosphere/red pill space is very limited.
1 men need to avoid lust 2. Dating a lot of women at once 3. Dating women when you don't have your life together 4. Be in a position to fully provide 5. Only god can give you your purpose 6. A life setup where she enters your frame 7. Be alpha and the provider in one person 8. Treat good women well
@ Not exactly . There’s nothing wrong with being in the position ready to provide it’s the difference of who you provide for and why that differentiates an alpha and a simp. A Simp will provide to any girl, regardless, how much she disrespects him simply just to get laid. He desperately will do anything for affection in any sort of way. An alpha will vet women for months after meeting them and only provide to the ones who show respect and deserve what he has to offer. Significance of number four is just getting yourself to a place where you are financially capable of providing
Damn Casey! When you said to lean into what God has given you, that alone is a sermon man need to hear . The most successfully balanced people one way or another has always given their credit to God.
Glad that you are getting this figured out before you have had to go through the family court system. The unfairness causes a lot of long term bitterness in men
@@jeansollot6419 I dropped the bitterness a long time ago, but it took awhile. I learned from my mistakes, and forgave people, but I saw the system for what it was. It screws people over and empowers the Government Administrative State. It has moved very far towards totalitarianism, and is out to disempower men, because they are the only ones they consider a threat to their power. When and if you ever feel the governments boot on your neck, you might be less judgemental
if u choose the right woman u wouldnt have to. If you treated a good woman well you wouldnt have to. Therefore everything casey says makes sense!!!! this guy is not just teaching you about women he is teaching you how to live!! long term!!
@@SnowWolfegriffy The culture does not support marriage. It is opposed to it. Even a good woman (men too) gets infected by the culture. I learned from mistakes, and thought I picked a good one, (was married for 15yrs), but that didn't last 'til death do us part' either.. The Government and the culture are actively trying to destroy families, and America to usher in Globalism
Could not agree more. Create a vision of your goal in your head, avoid distraction and work towards it. There will be a fire starting in your stomach and see yourself as as a badass who ist fucking make it. Behave like you already reached your goal while working towards it. It will give you fucking confidence.
@@jonthedawn Agreed. We don't coom here, good Sire. We consciously circulate the claustrum oil up via the spine to aid the stimuli of the hypothalamus.
Casey, I appreciate you bringing God into the equation. Without him, we're wandering aimlessly in the dark, going through life blind. I recently reached out to a very special lady that I broke when breaking up. It was a humbling experience for us both and we've learned so much about ourselves and each other during seven months of no contact. We're transformed, we've forgiven each other and she's trusting me to lead, spiritually and otherwise. I continue to pray for guidance, strength and understanding. We have such a unique bond❤
I definitely do rotational dating seeing multiple women. And Ouch! Yes, it is based on heartbreak. The one woman i truly want, is not interested in me, but only uses me for validation.
Even when you overcome your heartbrake is not recommeded for you to enter in a relationship with a women. Men have everything to lose. Also having options is a good thing because that means you won't put anywoman in a pedestal doesn't matter how beautiful she is.
This guy has so much clarity with 27, it's unbelievable! So refreshing to see somebody who touches all the dimensions of masculinity with sophistication, I have only seen with David Deida so far. Too many copy/paste nonsense PUAs and pseudo-dating gurus on TH-cam, you speak exactly my thoughts, Casey, continue the excellent work!
I love your content. You do a great job at telling us what to do to be men of value. I think it would be cool if you made a video telling us qualities we should be looking for in a woman of value.
This is the most important video a man can watch. The difference between you and other male development Chanel on TH-cam is because u give advise for someone that truly wants to be a MAN. No hate but other TH-camrs are all about sex and money, it’s fine but for a man it’s so much more than that, and on that aspect you get it. You totally get it and ur on a good path and I look up to you a lot. Congrats on this amazing video and keep it up
This is fucking GOLDEN!! Man wish I would have found this video 8 years ago. I’m 35 and most of my life I’ve always focused on women. I was actually a pick up artist in my early 20’s and I thought sleeping with a lot of women made me the “MAN” but after sleeping with hundreds of women, I’ve come to realize that’s NOT TRUE. I’ve doubled down on purpose, honing my skills and craft, going to therapy, becoming more sexually disciplined, getting my money up and becoming a better version of myself. I’m married right now and my marriage has struggled because she met me with my shit not together and Although she loves me she looks at me differently now because she had to take the reigns when I couldn’t and the roles reversed. Now at 35 I have a clearer idea of what being a man TRULY is thanks to your content & channel. Youve saved my marriage, put me in my masculine frame and I’ve also learned duality between alpha & beta thanks to your content and exploring myself & emotions and learning to control it through stoicism! Love you bro and would love to chat with you and answer any questions you have and just letting you know how much of impact you’ve made in my life 🎯❤️💯 I’m on my way of being a FULL STACK MAN ⚔️🔥🔥🔥🔥
I found this channel and I completely agree with everything. I’ve put myself in a position to have a woman in my life that can remain in her feminine. However, the more I listen and from my past experience. I don’t even know if I want one really. I guess it makes it easy to be my authentic self but yeah. They are a lot of work
Just keep ‘em at a distance, you are a utility to her and needs to be vice versa or go kick rocks, yours is because you have already done work, she has to get to work to keep you, Uncle C teaches you how to do that so it is effortless.
@@CDRFINANCE I think you missed mine. That will only get you so far in terms of keeping a relationship. You need both. Being a sad sack of garbage or putting nothing into the relationship are both bad. But have at it, and prove me wrong. You are taking Casey literally as if everything he says is 100% accurate.
My man dropping 💎s! As a Life Strategist (who’s married to a fine chick and lives this life) that specializes in Finances (taxes), Relationships, Emotions and Health I totally agree big dawg! 💯 🔥
About number 3 its indeed very important nowadays as everything has changed! I personally know men who got their women many years ago and those men had their job only. Some of them never had cars, own homes and some of them still don't have anything but their miserable job, his mom and dad are supporting him and his wife and his wife's parents also support her. They have two kids. This pretty much don't exist anymore. Life is way tougher for everyone today and women look for full security. If you only have your job and your bank account always stays on for example $3000 then gets to $1500 and at the end of the month gets to $3000 then to $1500 then back to $3000 then back to $1500 and its balanced like that every year you're not making progress and a modern woman won't stay for long, a traditional woman who wants to create a family (give birth) will have a hard time joining you on this tough journey at 2023!
@@jeansollot6419Women like me.😊 We definitely exist, and tbh most women are actually like me, it’s just that these days women know that there aren’t a lot of men out there that are gonna be both able and willing to support the both of us, and then even when you do find a guy that is both able and willing, he’s usually some kind of power tipper and so it comes at a great cost to the woman’s autonomy letting him take care of her; so most of us would just rather work and make our own money since we just either can’t or don’t want to trust a man to not abuse/ not be mature enough to actually handle all the subtle nuances of responsibility that come with being the sole bread winner and being in such a position of power over us, our lives, our future, our lifestyle and our autonomy. But no woman woman who wants kids wants to work, TRUST ME! 😅
The man.. a real man.. thank you for these videos.. they come to the root of all the dating stuff I have studied over the past 2 decades.. feel like finally come full circle on this.. doc love was the best I found then practical female psychology for the practical male.. this gets to the root of all that, with practical advice that makes sense and is actually really easy to do, because it is the things I really want to do anyway
It should be noted that treating a good woman well does not mean you allow her to walk all over you and do anything she wants. Many men feel they have a special woman and thus place her on a pedestal. This is the reason they cheat on you and eventually dump you. Keep that woman on a short leash or you will find yourself wondering why she left after you treated her so well.
I am in a good position ... got my shit together. BUT! I am not interested to provide, or do anything just to please a woman. I am also not interested in grinding.Not on earth to grind and then get a woman that think I am only worth her time when I work like an idiot. A woman that is not working is not worth my time. Just a note. Men and women always needed to work in history. Work on fields all day, look after the house, the kids, everything ... there was no lazy women back then.
You’re missing the point be at a point in your life where you’re not depending on her financially when she knows that she will respect you and she will respect her position because she knows u don’t know her
Know how I got good with women? I approached thousands of women till I stopped getting rejected. I became great at it. I started rejecting women qualifying women till I found the one I wanted. Had a family with her than lost her, because I stopped working on me. Lost everything. My house my job . My life. My family. My friends and that was my fault. Now I'm learning and working on myself in hopes to attract my ex back.
Don’t work to get her back even if u caused it….work to improve yourself and you will get her back or someone else Life is a journey some ppl are for a moment and some are forever
@@jeansollot6419 he said his business is on autopilot and I am pretty sure he has investments. He said he thought about deleting the channel just a few videos ago. I think that some guys really do TH-cam full time and I know for a fact one does. That could effect the quality of their content because they are paying bills and focusing on the numbers more so than anything else. Sasha Grey had a good point when she said she wants to have fun with her streams and be care free but at the same time it is literally a business. If content creators create content out of love instead of out of needing the next bill paid that is probably better content. Probably.
I’m 25 and live with my parents, but I’m in sales and taking courses towards a better future income, always expanding my skill set and improving my appearance. Currently dating a very high quality woman who respects me because she has faith in me and trusts me, because I set the masculine frame and ease her anxiety
@@sponkmcdonk3898 haha not particularly. Maybe you need to watch more videos on masculinity, or gain more dating experience, or preferably both. It’s always how you make them feel. So much living proof out there that you don’t have to make a certain income, don’t have to look a certain way etc.. women are trolling when they say that and even they don’t know what they want in a high value man until they see it. A confident demeanor with instill confidence in any woman. Remember that
@@jeansollot6419 he would say as long as I have a goal and I’m making progress towards that goal then she will see that and support me as long as I keep the masculine frame. Both of you need to learn a little more about the fundamentals of attraction before you make false assumptions like this
In a lot of cultures guys and girls live with their parents till marriage or they get into a committed long term relationship. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. Its the values you have grown up with it and women of those cultures dont have issues. The amount saved on living separately can be used to invest in yourself and it can be a supportive environment. Having your own place and space can be over rated if that space is not respected.@@sponkmcdonk3898
11:11 exactly what is happening right now with a girl. almost 2 months ago i set up a date with a girl which is this weekend (i been out of town). this happened after she sent me a screenshot of something on your social timeline that we had discussed last time we SAW each other (she came to me then I drove her there). I didnt respond to that, I set the date, TOLD HER she will be unavailable all day on xyz date. Now, TODAY is her bday, at almost 3pm is when i CALL her and all I did was tell her the time for the date. She has not asked me where we going to this day and SHE has been the one initiate contact 3 times in between. This the ULTIMATE LEADING INTERACTION & SUBMISSION UNDER MY FRAME.
Lust is my weakpoint man, its my downfall. I got the rest down, but lust drains me mentally, physically taking away from my focus and my exercise energy
5:10 these men.. boys are watching these videos and applying these tactics on married women.. no joke. So the GAME is ON all the way around the clock. Husbands must grind everyday. Being a man is a 24/7 job.
I would say you need both because girls get attracted//decide to go on the first 1-10 dates bases on a lot of "alpha" stuff people talk about, but when they choose a man to stick longer to the look for the "Beta" kind/generous/provider you mention, especially when wommen gets over 23-25. However, must men misses out on the opportunity to get the girl in question because the can not spark the initial attraction that is needed to go on the first dates or not to be friend zones. AKA we need to be a bit more Alpha in the begining, and show you Beta side later when she has started to show some investment into the relationship.
Playing games has immediately fucked my relationship up, now I am in a scarcity mindset, looking to fix what I had, I should do my best to remain in my frame and set a date to see her so I can show who I really am, playing games with good women, a great women in my case is going to see you alone every single time guys,
The alpha beta thing is basically balance You don't want to be too good to the woman you don't want to be too bad to the woman You want to be balanced... most men are either one or the other it's very rare women find both in one guy
Any advice for when a girl has a way more active social life than you do? I go to work during the week, hit the gym 4 times and see friends at a bar or something on the weekend. But this girl I’m into is in a band, doing a bunch of artsy stuff, photography etc and way more friends when I have about 5 very close ones. I feel a bit lame in comparison because I’m just so focused on my job and fitness.
Why do you feel you need a bigger social circle? Be comfortable with yourself. If she likes you, that's all that matters. No need to compare your life to hers.
Exactly what the previous guy said. Don't become something you're not by comparing yourself to her. She may not even WANT someone as social as her. Also one thing I've learned is women who are very social are the WORST type of women to be in a relationship with. Just my experience.
As much as I want to agree with you due to the intrest in your other videos some of these points are based off perspectives that only sounds good on paper. Few points also contradict your ideas from your other video.
13:16 i wouldn't team it as alpha & beta. I would term is as optimal masculine frame. this is a man who has optimized is physical, social and financial status (can say spiritual too). he is attractive, and can both provide & protect and remain within masculine frame. A beta is NOT in masculine frame.
Having your GF or wife not working is a two edged sword. Firstly, she will resent you over time, and secondly, it will become almost impossible to break up with her, since she will be so dependent on you. Also, with all that free time, she will get bored and more likely to cheat.
That’s your fault not making her do things around the house or give her ideas of hobbies Make it easy but not too easy, also remind her of the hardship you do to provide
@@MansaMusa-v5q Hehe try reminding a Latina woman that you are paying for everything. She will consider it a mortal insult. "Me das en la cara!" They will consider such a reminder extremely humiliating.
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There's a scary amount of gold in this video.
There is one thing you forgot in all of your videos, that’s extremely powerful. If you can make a woman laughing whenever you want and you can make fun without beeing a clown. You won! There were times a woman was upset with me and tried to fight with me… I kept extremely calm and no reacting, I knew what make her laugh and I made a joke off it.. she wanted to be serious but she couldn’t hold her laughing and I won 👍
@CaseyZander you said a man should be stable in order to have a woman. But my concern is that a woman wants a stable man to settle down when her hoe period has been over & now she wants stability but what about that stable man who is going to get a hoe who has taken plenty of dicks & it is a bitter pill for anyone to swallow. The fresh ones don't look after the stability they want an ass hole to put a dick inside their holes. Ultimate Crux is everyone wants a fresh one. Give me a mind full positive suggestion over this.
Does the zodiac sign also play a role in this? because each sign has its own character
Spittin facts. I'm living it. Married for 18yrs and prior Marine. You have to be balanced. Mentally, Spiritually, Financially and Emotionally.
That's all well and good. We should all strive for this.
But what do they have to be ? It's nigh impossible to find 2 of those -- no, even just 1 -- in a woman in the US. I don't expect the 3rd one, but 1 / 2 / 4 should be on the table along with other characteristics.
Truth
@@niallk9336he’ll never cover that..just a young masculinity coach teaching dudes to get women. Very 1 dimensional. I dont think he’s lived enough to know what women need. This manosphere/red pill space is very limited.
No such thing as balance in the real world... either you go all out or not.
Semper Fidelis
1 men need to avoid lust
2. Dating a lot of women at once
3. Dating women when you don't have your life together
4. Be in a position to fully provide
5. Only god can give you your purpose
6. A life setup where she enters your frame
7. Be alpha and the provider in one person
8. Treat good women well
Thank you!
Thanks
@yor...9075 don't be scared to say the"B" word, Bro - we must embrace it.😌 **Edit: ie #7.**
n4 = this is whats simps do and think it will work :)
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Not exactly .
There’s nothing wrong with being in the position ready to provide it’s the difference of who you provide for and why that differentiates an alpha and a simp.
A Simp will provide to any girl, regardless, how much she disrespects him simply just to get laid. He desperately will do anything for affection in any sort of way.
An alpha will vet women for months after meeting them and only provide to the ones who show respect and deserve what he has to offer.
Significance of number four is just getting yourself to a place where you are financially capable of providing
Damn Casey! When you said to lean into what God has given you, that alone is a sermon man need to hear . The most successfully balanced people one way or
another has always given their credit to God.
This guy is the BEST! He talk about God and man's calling in the context of dating!!! BRAVO!!!
Glad that you are getting this figured out before you have had to go through the family court system. The unfairness causes a lot of long term bitterness in men
@@jeansollot6419 I dropped the bitterness a long time ago, but it took awhile. I learned from my mistakes, and forgave people, but I saw the system for what it was. It screws people over and empowers the Government Administrative State. It has moved very far towards totalitarianism, and is out to disempower men, because they are the only ones they consider a threat to their power. When and if you ever feel the governments boot on your neck, you might be less judgemental
@@jeansollot6419 your the one with the issue, what's wrong with what he said?
if u choose the right woman u wouldnt have to. If you treated a good woman well you wouldnt have to. Therefore everything casey says makes sense!!!! this guy is not just teaching you about women he is teaching you how to live!! long term!!
@@SnowWolfegriffy The culture does not support marriage. It is opposed to it. Even a good woman (men too) gets infected by the culture. I learned from mistakes, and thought I picked a good one, (was married for 15yrs), but that didn't last 'til death do us part' either.. The Government and the culture are actively trying to destroy families, and America to usher in Globalism
BRO RESPECT !!! The way you spoke about a God Given purpose in #5 was so on point.
Could not agree more. Create a vision of your goal in your head, avoid distraction and work towards it. There will be a fire starting in your stomach and see yourself as as a badass who ist fucking make it. Behave like you already reached your goal while working towards it. It will give you fucking confidence.
" she enters your physical space and you enters her mental space"
Facts bro. This is why I say SR is the baseline. All of this happens much easier/more naturally with full sack. Let's get it kings 🤙
It mustn't stay in the sack brother. The claustrum oil must ascend through the spine. Or you shall descend.
@@BeardOvBorgia facts brah.. I meant don't be a coomer but you're correct sir 🤙
@@jonthedawn Agreed. We don't coom here, good Sire. We consciously circulate the claustrum oil up via the spine to aid the stimuli of the hypothalamus.
@@BeardOvBorgia let's gooooo brotha 🤙
Casey, I appreciate you bringing God into the equation. Without him, we're wandering aimlessly in the dark, going through life blind. I recently reached out to a very special lady that I broke when breaking up. It was a humbling experience for us both and we've learned so much about ourselves and each other during seven months of no contact. We're transformed, we've forgiven each other and she's trusting me to lead, spiritually and otherwise. I continue to pray for guidance, strength and understanding. We have such a unique bond❤
I definitely do rotational dating seeing multiple women. And Ouch! Yes, it is based on heartbreak. The one woman i truly want, is not interested in me, but only uses me for validation.
Man I was like this. I realized that I wasn’t happy doing it though. It was only a bandage. I hope we both heal and get better bro.
same here brother
Ouch indeed
Well, we all gotta waste our time on something I guess.
Even when you overcome your heartbrake is not recommeded for you to enter in a relationship with a women. Men have everything to lose. Also having options is a good thing because that means you won't put anywoman in a pedestal doesn't matter how beautiful she is.
This guy has so much clarity with 27, it's unbelievable! So refreshing to see somebody who touches all the dimensions of masculinity with sophistication, I have only seen with David Deida so far. Too many copy/paste nonsense PUAs and pseudo-dating gurus on TH-cam, you speak exactly my thoughts, Casey, continue the excellent work!
The Jedi Masculine advice.. with Green lightsaber. Very useful and valued wisdom. Thank you!
I’ve just come across your videos this past week and I’ve been blown away. Your stuff hits different from all of the other channels. Appreciate it
You know what Casey, this one was pretty good. Keep it up!
Bro, you are so spot on it hurts! F*ck*ng love you! You are a godsend!
The second and third advices is like 85% the solution of the problem and the rest is just a flavour to the cake
Your videos are getting sharper. Excellent bro!
I like that you call out the lie of being with as many women as possible
I love your content. You do a great job at telling us what to do to be men of value. I think it would be cool if you made a video telling us qualities we should be looking for in a woman of value.
Value. Real value.
Thanks Casey. Needed this right now. I fell off my grind and this video helped me align myself again.
I feel ya. I was on a 6 year grind that led me to great places. The last 3 years I lost my spark. Been trying to reignite ut
Thank you needed that !
This is the most important video a man can watch. The difference between you and other male development Chanel on TH-cam is because u give advise for someone that truly wants to be a MAN. No hate but other TH-camrs are all about sex and money, it’s fine but for a man it’s so much more than that, and on that aspect you get it. You totally get it and ur on a good path and I look up to you a lot. Congrats on this amazing video and keep it up
I’m pleasantly surprised by secret #2
This is fucking GOLDEN!! Man wish I would have found this video 8 years ago. I’m 35 and most of my life I’ve always focused on women. I was actually a pick up artist in my early 20’s and I thought sleeping with a lot of women made me the “MAN” but after sleeping with hundreds of women, I’ve come to realize that’s NOT TRUE.
I’ve doubled down on purpose, honing my skills and craft, going to therapy, becoming more sexually disciplined, getting my money up and becoming a better version of myself. I’m married right now and my marriage has struggled because she met me with my shit not together and Although she loves me she looks at me differently now because she had to take the reigns when I couldn’t and the roles reversed. Now at 35 I have a clearer idea of what being a man TRULY is thanks to your content & channel.
Youve saved my marriage, put me in my masculine frame and I’ve also learned duality between alpha & beta thanks to your content and exploring myself & emotions and learning to control it through stoicism! Love you bro and would love to chat with you and answer any questions you have and just letting you know how much of impact you’ve made in my life 🎯❤️💯 I’m on my way of being a FULL STACK MAN ⚔️🔥🔥🔥🔥
I can relate. Wish had learnt these things earlier, but glad I have now 🙂
I found this channel and I completely agree with everything. I’ve put myself in a position to have a woman in my life that can remain in her feminine. However, the more I listen and from my past experience. I don’t even know if I want one really. I guess it makes it easy to be my authentic self but yeah. They are a lot of work
So is life.
Death is when it’s all easy.
Just keep ‘em at a distance, you are a utility to her and needs to be vice versa or go kick rocks, yours is because you have already done work, she has to get to work to keep you, Uncle C teaches you how to do that so it is effortless.
@@CDRFINANCE actually, maintaining a relationship isn’t effortless.
Put no effort into one, and see how long it lasts.
@@GaryAJMartin missed my point, put massive effort into yourself to maintain the relationship, are you actually listening?
@@CDRFINANCE I think you missed mine. That will only get you so far in terms of keeping a relationship.
You need both. Being a sad sack of garbage or putting nothing into the relationship are both bad.
But have at it, and prove me wrong.
You are taking Casey literally as if everything he says is 100% accurate.
So happy how much progress you have made personally. Cheers!
Casey is SO REAL for this
My man dropping 💎s! As a Life Strategist (who’s married to a fine chick and lives this life) that specializes in Finances (taxes), Relationships, Emotions and Health I totally agree big dawg! 💯 🔥
About number 3 its indeed very important nowadays as everything has changed! I personally know men who got their women many years ago and those men had their job only. Some of them never had cars, own homes and some of them still don't have anything but their miserable job, his mom and dad are supporting him and his wife and his wife's parents also support her. They have two kids. This pretty much don't exist anymore. Life is way tougher for everyone today and women look for full security. If you only have your job and your bank account always stays on for example $3000 then gets to $1500 and at the end of the month gets to $3000 then to $1500 then back to $3000 then back to $1500 and its balanced like that every year you're not making progress and a modern woman won't stay for long, a traditional woman who wants to create a family (give birth) will have a hard time joining you on this tough journey at 2023!
@@jeansollot6419Women like me.😊 We definitely exist, and tbh most women are actually like me, it’s just that these days women know that there aren’t a lot of men out there that are gonna be both able and willing to support the both of us, and then even when you do find a guy that is both able and willing, he’s usually some kind of power tipper and so it comes at a great cost to the woman’s autonomy letting him take care of her; so most of us would just rather work and make our own money since we just either can’t or don’t want to trust a man to not abuse/ not be mature enough to actually handle all the subtle nuances of responsibility that come with being the sole bread winner and being in such a position of power over us, our lives, our future, our lifestyle and our autonomy. But no woman woman who wants kids wants to work, TRUST ME! 😅
You have really made some excellent videos recently! This is premium content.
9:26 THANK YOU!!!!
I've also been watching Aaron daughty and his method of letting go also helped me not being attached to people and useless things
Thanks!
@CaseyZander is the man on youtube, also thanks for the future collab with Better Call George!
Haven't watched for a couple months, figured I'd check in. Your videos are spot on.
The man.. a real man.. thank you for these videos.. they come to the root of all the dating stuff I have studied over the past 2 decades.. feel like finally come full circle on this.. doc love was the best I found then practical female psychology for the practical male.. this gets to the root of all that, with practical advice that makes sense and is actually really easy to do, because it is the things I really want to do anyway
Casey, thank you for teaching the young Brothers how to be Men and not entitled frat boys
Step 5...well said.
You are spot-on on just about everything that you said.
It should be noted that treating a good woman well does not mean you allow her to walk all over you and do anything she wants. Many men feel they have a special woman and thus place her on a pedestal. This is the reason they cheat on you and eventually dump you. Keep that woman on a short leash or you will find yourself wondering why she left after you treated her so well.
Girl: "So tell me about yourself"
Guy: "I'm full stack"
Joined recently, love your videos.
Hahaha. They won't get this.
I'm tempted to make a joke about being backend / embedded, but "backend" would also get twisted into something else lol.
Nuanced pov. Sometime your video can come as lacking in it, this was a good one.
+1 for mentioning a Higher Power.
I am in a good position ... got my shit together. BUT! I am not interested to provide, or do anything just to please a woman. I am also not interested in grinding.Not on earth to grind and then get a woman that think I am only worth her time when I work like an idiot. A woman that is not working is not worth my time.
Just a note. Men and women always needed to work in history. Work on fields all day, look after the house, the kids, everything ... there was no lazy women back then.
You’re missing the point be at a point in your life where you’re not depending on her financially when she knows that she will respect you and she will respect her position because she knows u don’t know her
Know how I got good with women? I approached thousands of women till I stopped getting rejected. I became great at it. I started rejecting women qualifying women till I found the one I wanted. Had a family with her than lost her, because I stopped working on me. Lost everything. My house my job . My life. My family. My friends and that was my fault. Now I'm learning and working on myself in hopes to attract my ex back.
No, work on being a better version of yourself.., and you'll feel like your ex is beneath you
Don’t work to get her back even if u caused it….work to improve yourself and you will get her back or someone else
Life is a journey some ppl are for a moment and some are forever
This is hilarious that we as men need to learn this about women. I agree with everything tho
Thank you for making these videos when you don't have to.
@@jeansollot6419 he said his business is on autopilot and I am pretty sure he has investments. He said he thought about deleting the channel just a few videos ago. I think that some guys really do TH-cam full time and I know for a fact one does. That could effect the quality of their content because they are paying bills and focusing on the numbers more so than anything else. Sasha Grey had a good point when she said she wants to have fun with her streams and be care free but at the same time it is literally a business. If content creators create content out of love instead of out of needing the next bill paid that is probably better content. Probably.
One of his best videos
You are a genius at this
That reminds me merry before you build your life , so you make sure she's not a gold digger .
Splendid my friend. Indeed splendid!
I’m 25 and live with my parents, but I’m in sales and taking courses towards a better future income, always expanding my skill set and improving my appearance. Currently dating a very high quality woman who respects me because she has faith in me and trusts me, because I set the masculine frame and ease her anxiety
according to casey, you should dump her and keep working in the dark basement until you make enough money to be a husband
@@sponkmcdonk3898 haha not particularly. Maybe you need to watch more videos on masculinity, or gain more dating experience, or preferably both. It’s always how you make them feel. So much living proof out there that you don’t have to make a certain income, don’t have to look a certain way etc.. women are trolling when they say that and even they don’t know what they want in a high value man until they see it. A confident demeanor with instill confidence in any woman. Remember that
@@jeansollot6419 he would say as long as I have a goal and I’m making progress towards that goal then she will see that and support me as long as I keep the masculine frame. Both of you need to learn a little more about the fundamentals of attraction before you make false assumptions like this
In a lot of cultures guys and girls live with their parents till marriage or they get into a committed long term relationship. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. Its the values you have grown up with it and women of those cultures dont have issues. The amount saved on living separately can be used to invest in yourself and it can be a supportive environment. Having your own place and space can be over rated if that space is not respected.@@sponkmcdonk3898
Wow this was very informative. I wish I’d had this wisdom in my 20s.
Much appreciated for you sharing your years of wisdom sir, thank you!👏
This is so refreshing
11:11 exactly what is happening right now with a girl. almost 2 months ago i set up a date with a girl which is this weekend (i been out of town). this happened after she sent me a screenshot of something on your social timeline that we had discussed last time we SAW each other (she came to me then I drove her there). I didnt respond to that, I set the date, TOLD HER she will be unavailable all day on xyz date. Now, TODAY is her bday, at almost 3pm is when i CALL her and all I did was tell her the time for the date. She has not asked me where we going to this day and SHE has been the one initiate contact 3 times in between. This the ULTIMATE LEADING INTERACTION & SUBMISSION UNDER MY FRAME.
Dope ass video. One of the best Alpha videos I’ve heard all year
I love it- you are on point my man
You putting god or even speaking about him thats awesome I hope you get a million sub asap
So right about the money and resources
13:47 I learned from another video that you need to create drama or she will.
So should you not do that at all?
Just as my ex is trying to get back into my life I'm now unemployed the past 3 months. It's harder to get a job now due to many reasons.
Lust is my weakpoint man, its my downfall. I got the rest down, but lust drains me mentally, physically taking away from my focus and my exercise energy
Same, but I'm working on it.
Im listening to this daily
I ain't finna grind all day till night for nobody! I'm going to do my work, come home, and chill!
Brilliantly said
Great value in this one
This totally makes sense excellent video.
I like point 7 and 8 , I agree 💯%
i love this video brada
5:10 these men.. boys are watching these videos and applying these tactics on married women.. no joke. So the GAME is ON all the way around the clock. Husbands must grind everyday. Being a man is a 24/7 job.
Thanks for all
5:08 casey was just talking to me
I would say you need both because girls get attracted//decide to go on the first 1-10 dates bases on a lot of "alpha" stuff people talk about, but when they choose a man to stick longer to the look for the "Beta" kind/generous/provider you mention, especially when wommen gets over 23-25. However, must men misses out on the opportunity to get the girl in question because the can not spark the initial attraction that is needed to go on the first dates or not to be friend zones. AKA we need to be a bit more Alpha in the begining, and show you Beta side later when she has started to show some investment into the relationship.
Playing games has immediately fucked my relationship up, now I am in a scarcity mindset, looking to fix what I had, I should do my best to remain in my frame and set a date to see her so I can show who I really am, playing games with good women, a great women in my case is going to see you alone every single time guys,
I needed this today thank you
Damn Casey ,treat good women well should of been your first video. You got me applying techniques on the wrong women 😂
The alpha beta thing is basically balance You don't want to be too good to the woman you don't want to be too bad to the woman You want to be balanced... most men are either one or the other it's very rare women find both in one guy
Exactly have to be cold hearted and warm hearted
This is the stuff that should be taught in schools.
No this is stuff that must be learned through life trials & tribulations
I needed to hear this what how have you gained this knowledge?
Number one is by far the most important, lusting for a woman has been the downfall of man since the beginning of time
Any advice for when a girl has a way more active social life than you do? I go to work during the week, hit the gym 4 times and see friends at a bar or something on the weekend. But this girl I’m into is in a band, doing a bunch of artsy stuff, photography etc and way more friends when I have about 5 very close ones.
I feel a bit lame in comparison because I’m just so focused on my job and fitness.
Why do you feel you need a bigger social circle? Be comfortable with yourself. If she likes you, that's all that matters. No need to compare your life to hers.
Never be impressed by girls with a big social circle that also includes lots of guys. Its usually an indication they are attention seekers.
@@pepepez6335because all of these dudes keep saying have a “social life of abundance.” It’s not easy to do that when you work and have a family.
Exactly what the previous guy said. Don't become something you're not by comparing yourself to her. She may not even WANT someone as social as her. Also one thing I've learned is women who are very social are the WORST type of women to be in a relationship with. Just my experience.
If she likes you she will enter your frame if not then just discard her.
Thanks Casey
Whatsup Casey,can you please do a video discribing limerence?
Thats what happened with me, I tried to follow the advice of seeking multiple women at once and lost my dream girl
No you just was bad at differentiating the “dream girl” from the play girls
Thank you Casey 🙏
Well articulated
Very simple and easy to pull
As much as I want to agree with you due to the intrest in your other videos some of these points are based off perspectives that only sounds good on paper. Few points also contradict your ideas from your other video.
13:16 i wouldn't team it as alpha & beta. I would term is as optimal masculine frame. this is a man who has optimized is physical, social and financial status (can say spiritual too). he is attractive, and can both provide & protect and remain within masculine frame. A beta is NOT in masculine frame.
That vest would do it hey ..
Number 3 has me so frustrated with myself its so ridiculous man its time to change fuck this
Having your GF or wife not working is a two edged sword. Firstly, she will resent you over time, and secondly, it will become almost impossible to break up with her, since she will be so dependent on you. Also, with all that free time, she will get bored and more likely to cheat.
You're insecure af
That’s your fault not making her do things around the house or give her ideas of hobbies
Make it easy but not too easy, also remind her of the hardship you do to provide
@@MansaMusa-v5q Hehe try reminding a Latina woman that you are paying for everything. She will consider it a mortal insult. "Me das en la cara!" They will consider such a reminder extremely humiliating.
3 and 4 should be 1 and 2 honestly.
Facts single women aren't going anywhere
Facts bro gotta be both
You title your videos very well
I believe in this