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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2021
- Open social media, confrontation. Open your browser, confrontation. Look out the window, probably some more confrontation. You're not going to get away from conflict, so it's time to learn how to repair your relationship with it, whether you're caught in the trap of avoiding confrontation or the trap of being WAY too into it. Dig in.
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I escaped an abusive household (especially mentally abusive) and now confrontation gives me extreme anxiety.
I’m going to confront a boss at my job that has been mistreating me.
how did it go?
@@riccardozanda8977 he/she died. RIP
It seems a lot of people who dealt with emotional trauma have big confrontation anxiety
INFERIORITY COMPLEX@@rageius
Due to all of the bullying I dealt with as a kid, I told myself, as an adult, that I'd always let people know if I feel like they're wrong, being abusive, etc. I usually avoid confrontation until I realize that there's no hope of them stopping their behavior unless I confront them. But like anything else; too much is too much...
dont blame outside things for your inside pain. You dont actually want to supress other peoples speach or behavior but your pain is tricking you into thinking you do
study something on youtube called: non duality.
*- SIMPLY REMOVE THE FALSE BELIEF THAT YOU CANT WIN A FIGHT!*
*- THEN REMOVE THE FALSE BELIEF THAT YOU DIDNT WIN THE FIGHT!*
*- THEN REMOVE THE FALSE BELIEF THAT YOU WONT WIN THE NEXT FIGHT!*
*- THEN CONTINUE TO BELIEVE YOU WIN FIGHTS BEFORE, DURING, AND AFTER ANY FUTURE FIGHT!*
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Thank you so much for the video. I've been working hard to be less confrontational and this was very encouraging. Have a blessed day everyone 😁🙏🏽
I’m a young woman who has a huge fear of confrontation due to a history of abuse
Same with me. Idk how to make my life better.
So basically face it? But slowly?
Such a useful video to help us understand how to grow in this area
anyone have fear in heart before a conflict or geting into fight? like some stabbing in heart feeling? followed with fear ?
A problem in confrontations is that as a default we assume that anger is naturally part of it. That is not totally unfounded because when you are angry, people might give in just because they feel attacked (which they are). That can give people an advantage who choose to be angry in confrontations (which is almost everybody). However, a confrontation is always about peoples interests seemingly colliding. Sometimes this can be resolved so everybody benefits. Sometimes one has to be fair and give in. Anger is not naturally linked to confrontations, negotiations. It's mostly an unquestioned belief. Removing anger from a conflict can also be a huge advantage as it can disarm someone who is usually getting their way using anger. If you are able to frame the situation so that you are not opponents but partners and it's not a conflict but a negotiations, not about how to get ones will no matter what but finding a solutions that is the overall best outcome, then very often you can actually get the upper hand.
Kill em with kindness. Costumer service/sales most of my life. It works wonders.
I'm always afraid because I think is all or nothing.
Rightly said
@@Roadmannerism-cc what about when you are dealing with irrational people which don't react to kindness?
i hear you! Whilst youre right- words can be hurtful, words can create a snowball effect that leads to violence- theres a distinct lack of tolerance on all sides of conversations nowadays. As a trans person, for example, i dont want you to be afraid to ask questions out of a fear you might upset me- i invite questions, so long as you respect me as a person. Whilst i think woke culture is- well, its heart is in the right place- people are expecting others to regulate their emotions for them.
People need to be kinder to eachother, yes, but we also need to nurture ourselves.
(I came here because i hate conflict but thought this was pertinent hehe)
Do you have any videos about that warrior inside? Great video btw
keep it up man! great content
Very useful, i agree on almost everything, except in using violent terms as battle, war, it promotes violence culture...
You talken about the Problem, But not about the Solution !??
remove the false belief that you cant win a fight
I thoughts this was called mantox 😜
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Was looking for insightful psych processes techniques not a politically-laden opinions
remove the false belief that you cant win a fight
Jesus, why does it take you so long to get to the point
You talk so much dude… I wish you could just get to the point or at-least shorten your sentence by not using smart/longer words