I'm VERY Confused! (Life With Stage 4 Cancer)

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  • 🎦 About This Video:
    I recently applied for Employment Insurance, but every time I receive a letter, it's always unclear whether my claim was accepted. Most information I've been given seems to imply it was, but they never actually come out and say it. And I've tried a TON of different ways of finding out!
    ▶️ About This Channel:
    I've always been a storyteller. I've written hundreds of short stories and multiple books, but I always sensed I was meant to share a different story.
    MY story.
    I wasn't sure what that was until I was diagnosed with STAGE 4 Alveolar Soft Part Sarcoma (a SUPER rare type of cancer for which there is NO CURE).
    I decided to embrace my motto of Living Out Loud and started sharing my journey in vlog format.
    This is my story. Real. Raw. Unfiltered.
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ความคิดเห็น • 61

  • @Sunshine-zi4nq
    @Sunshine-zi4nq 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    This seems to be way of communicating in this digital age. I miss the good old days when everything was simpler and more straightforward.

  • @ValentinaKajcinovska
    @ValentinaKajcinovska 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I'm worried your looking even thinner..I really hope you can put some weight on, please keep your energy up ❤🎉

  • @deannsmith8903
    @deannsmith8903 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Good luck speaking to a real person on the phone tomorrow. If not, options are terrible. Same here in USA 🇺🇸 I hope you can speak to a person.

  • @HeavensAngels1111
    @HeavensAngels1111 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Stop waiting you don't have time to wait!

  • @antonichristian5845
    @antonichristian5845 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Same crap in the UK, they do a breakdown of everything and it's so confusing. Just tell me in simple terms what I'm getting (or not) for goodness sake!! 😡

  • @Monica-v3h
    @Monica-v3h 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    That is because it's a government agency and they like to watse paper and time. If they deny,refile because a large % is automatic deny.

  • @RodelleEaston
    @RodelleEaston 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This is understandably frustrating for you. Especially on what you reporting

  • @dorisdonnelly9669
    @dorisdonnelly9669 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    If the money is going in your bank account then Just go check your bank account balance .

  • @Soundgardenfan
    @Soundgardenfan 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Same bs in the Usa.

  • @Dublin1008
    @Dublin1008 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank God we are lucky here in Germany! We have our insurance card and go to the doctor.

  • @janelleabbott2227
    @janelleabbott2227 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It sounds like you were approved. They already said for August you would not get it. September I believe you will begin getting checks. They certainly could be more clear for sure!!!

  • @nesadcruz7840
    @nesadcruz7840 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I can empathise. Things have gotten really bad since Covid. It is getting harder and harder to connect with humans in the government or even banks. I fear with AI it is only going to get worse. 😢

  • @penneynadalini216
    @penneynadalini216 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    It sounds like your claim was accepted. They just deducted the vacation pay that you had so you will not get a cheque for the time you mentioned. They need your info to route the next cheque into your account. You will have so many months you can collect then it will need to move over to short or long term disibility.

    • @EmmaBakesCakes
      @EmmaBakesCakes 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Very well broken down and easier to understand. Thank you hopefully this will be helpful to others in this situation.

  • @juliejohnston544
    @juliejohnston544 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Cought your wife maybe come over instead of you travelling?

  • @juliasewillfarmer6073
    @juliasewillfarmer6073 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Dont u qualify for disability permenant

  • @lauriepaul4783
    @lauriepaul4783 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Typical frustrating government here in USA.

  • @lindc1070
    @lindc1070 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I can imagine your frustration. It is bad enough that we are all subject to this in " normal" day to day life but its awful that those in your situation are subject to it too. Good luck, hope it has been approved.

  • @josetorres3195
    @josetorres3195 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

  • @Gruft-Schnorchler
    @Gruft-Schnorchler 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    No money if you are outside the country. Max recieve 26 weeks, more is possible when you are looking for work again
    Why your Resultat are needing so long?
    If your health is getting worst, how you recieve medical attention in Nicaragua??? Thats crazy. You will suffer. Stay wirh your family they love you and they taken care of you.
    Your wife... i mean sorry, but how often you stayed with her? A couple of weeks? Month? She still have no visa, this is obviously and tells everyrhing.
    I wish you fully recover ;')

    • @JerseyLynne
      @JerseyLynne 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good point. I don't think he's going down there for treatment. His doctor told him to go, he didn't have long to live (Christmas). It all depends on the next visit, which might be today or tomorrow. I am not 100% on this. I don't know much about his wife except he says his talks with her on the phone is how he stays positive. I hope it's not as you think. That would be the worst.

    • @Gruft-Schnorchler
      @Gruft-Schnorchler 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@JerseyLynne yeah no treatment does not mean to be without palliative care. This is a very big thema. Clima is anorher and food. Nothing better like it is now. . He told in a video he support his wife AND her family. She do not speak same language . Of course she love him, i mean life insurances ist the golden Word and unfortunally he make that clean early.
      I mean everything is ok, if he feels ok wirh that. But evenv the really heathy men with a good money in the pocket struggle in relationships like that. And then the worst near end of life and no family there, no way back home and no palliative care., plus his thoughts spinning around that Thema and stresses him out. He Haß enougj money to stay here and everything needet is near. He has to have now bring Focus on himself. That will be enough for the next time...Nicaragua. ok, bit first he need his health in order
      .. Morphium for the last time...buying on the streets in Nicaragua? I mean please, there will be suffer if the worst is coming.

    • @lindc1070
      @lindc1070 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I agree it isnt wise for him to go to Nicaragua because whether the doctors are right or not he needs good medical services. Whether it is treatment or just palliative care, the quality matters. Moreover ttavelling in his condition might be too tough for him. I dont know if his wife lives near the airport or in the interior. It only makes sense for her to visit him.

    • @maryann823
      @maryann823 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It’s better for you stay here and stay with your dad. You know he loves you.

    • @Izzy-cu9do
      @Izzy-cu9do 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Gruft-Schnorchler Although it's really not our business, I too question this marriage and Guillaume leaving all his life insurance to this woman ( wife ) he just met in-person for a few weeks... You'd think he would leave all that money to family, like his Dad or even his young niece for her college fund etc. My uncle made the same decision, when he had married a young thing in Cuba, 30 years younger than himself. When he died of cancer in Cuba, she ( still living in Cuba) got all his insurance money, then told our family she "threw away his ashes in the garbage." Never heard from her since. 😡

  • @lauriepaul4783
    @lauriepaul4783 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Enjoy your day.

  • @beckylipps7286
    @beckylipps7286 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I've been thru this, but I did receive a letter telling me I was accepted. What a messed up worry!!

  • @josephrapp
    @josephrapp 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Typical Bureaucratic-speak.

  • @PaulineHilton-w7u
    @PaulineHilton-w7u 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Same in usa 😅😅😅😅😅nyc usa

  • @florencekirsch
    @florencekirsch 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can’t you go online with your questions? Like on the website

  • @davebohm464
    @davebohm464 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    today is the result day, wish you all the luck ever mate

  • @Nope-NotToday
    @Nope-NotToday 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you owed them money, I guarantee that it would only take 2 minuttes.

  • @hospicehealer
    @hospicehealer 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You were approved

  • @Winter-k6p
    @Winter-k6p 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I hope you get your claim sorted out
    We have this same riduculous system in Britain
    You should not have to be dealing with this stress

  • @livmarlin4259
    @livmarlin4259 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    R.I.P.! 😪

  • @marjilaplante9579
    @marjilaplante9579 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hope this all works out for you! It's so frustrating!

  • @magnoliamonkeyd4457
    @magnoliamonkeyd4457 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sois patient! Ils sont lents mais tu sera indemnisé tous les mois .attend le prochain courrier ❤

  • @GrandmothersRule
    @GrandmothersRule 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You do not have to tell them you are leaving the country.

    • @Izzy-cu9do
      @Izzy-cu9do 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What! You are telling him to commit fraud??

    • @lindc1070
      @lindc1070 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      In this day and age , their systems are all linked. Immigration will alert them as to whether he is resident in the country.😂

    • @GrandmothersRule
      @GrandmothersRule 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I was on unemployment and went to Mexico. It was no problem. Check went into my bank account as usual.

    • @Izzy-cu9do
      @Izzy-cu9do 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@GrandmothersRule Luckily you didn't get caught... Everything is " no problem " in life, until it "is a problem".

    • @lindc1070
      @lindc1070 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@GrandmothersRule how long were you away? In some countries they have a time frame, like if you are away more than a certain period you are deemed non resident.

  • @edda682
    @edda682 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No video,

  • @HeavensAngels1111
    @HeavensAngels1111 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are dying as soon as they don't approve you sue!