3 ways to get her to focus on you- FAST
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1. Use evocative language
2. Stop searching for commonalities: seek connection.
3. When complimenting, be specific.
THis actually works. I do this all the time and in turn realize that it is the girl who is boring... lol
Indeed.
Most hot and attractive girls ARE boring. Because they usually have shit handed to them and don't have the need to actually be interesting
They play on easy.
LOL....
Gator115
and THAT... gives me more confidence.
Vegas was a sad place full of people addicted to gambling, but area 51 a few miles outside Vegas in the desert was an amazing place full of alien space craft.
I love your videos. Simple, straightforward advice. I just wish I had time to watch them.
(Women always give the best advice, especially about women.)
DEEP CONNECTION is the best Kezia ever made ,i suggest y'all get it ,the DVD is pure Gold
you deserve a Noble prize for your advice.
you deserve a prime for ur rhyme: *gives high 5*
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badumm tssss
I honestly agree she makes so many good points this shit is actually legit
I didn't realise she was so good until i watched a few vids and realised she actually tells people what i'm already doing lol. I'm a renowned womaniser so.... when i hear her advising others to do what i'm doing, that's a big thumbs-up
I am so grateful to Kazia Noble.
Great tips Kezia! Creating an experience that engages her that isnt typical wins EVERY time!
the website mentioned without saying "doubleyoudoubleyou..", OMG, I feel so listened to..that made my day, I love u :-D
This advice is like a double edged sword. How it works depends on the heart and soul of the one that is using it.
Scott S true but isn't everything ?
ivan muyomba to
All good advice to learn from, and as I have been talking to a girl on a website for over 4 months now, I know what she likes and I know how to be positively influencing with her. The fact that she is from another country, doesn't speak any English (but is learning for me), and knows some but not much of my American culture, we still very much sending messages back and forth discuss how much we want to cuddle with each other, share our different but similar hobbies as artists, like to stay as healthy as possible, and talk about how to handle common problems we deal with.
I love the way this girl talks, as if she's choosing very carefully each word and the tonality of them before they leave her lips.
I’m actually an interesing guy that likes to do cool things!! I find women get bored very quick??? ive seen guys with zero personality and all looks!! win over women, its kind of funny!! shows how shallow most people are!! not many women are that interesting themselves??? keep away from the insercure/bored types who want you to be a guy from Hollywood :)
being funny and witty,making her laugh while being confident will do it for ya fellas
Very similar to selling and creating conversation, get them to talk about them selfs and what interests then and then understand how to make the connection. 10/10
It's very true that just having a commonality does not constitute a connection. Just because a person shares similar interests does not mean that you are gonna be interested in them or them in you. They may love your favorite musician, actor, of food, but you may find them uninteresting or even tedious.
Very compelling how you took your own advice, your use of language here shows better how intelligent you are
Thank you for this great advise Kezia. I am going to start using this to "spice up" my introductions to women. You are WONDERFUL!
She's breathtaking!
Thanks for your astute advice! You are the world's preeminent dating mentor. Love the queens english. In north america, we never upgraded from our 1700's dialects.
Okay here is something I'll share with whoever is reading this.
Providing the conditions are right, I usually get pretty good results with this one.
The conditions: I am out, usually by myself, at a popular bar/club, it's about 3/4 into the evening, the mood of the bar is good. A woman sitting across the bar from me makes eye contact with me, we flirt a little.
I call the bartender over and ask him to go over and ask her if she wants to buy me a drink. Response: she always laughs every time. Sometimes she'll buy me a drink sometimes she won't. Either way she finds me fun, entertaining, interesting, and wants to know more about me.
I move to sit next to her or she moves to sit next to me. Either way, we are now sitting next to each other and intrigued by each other. If she’ did buy me a drink, I have some fun banter with her about how I feel so cheap and used, how she probably won’t even call me in the morning, and how just because she bought me a drink doesn’t mean I am going to go home with her and that she can have her way with me tonight.
I’ll let you fill in the blanks on how the rest of the evening plays out.
Kezia, I'm living it up because of you!! Thank you
hello i am going to master your free youtube course like the way i self learned all of my sat grammar skills from youtube THANK YOU FOR YOUR LESSONS :D!! i will conquer them all!!!
This is FANTASTIC (1.24) but when you go into a higher dimension the orchestration of words, brings gushes of beauty almost unheard of. This interest that is described can be dynamic, in confusion. The need of wanting more, but it can go dark as far as it can go. This leads the Woman to decide when it's getting TOO dark, therefore she rests and decides that the man that is good enough perhaps ISN'T AT ALL. But if she is, the law of polarity, will suffice because she kept on looking and she tried.
she is amazing
This advice makes completly sence
kezia
your elegant beauty is unmatched in my book. Just stunning!
Great videos, i watch them for fun but sometime when i talk to a girl i suddenly remember a few tips from your videos and they do help.
1. More dynamical explanations [through invocative words/story telling; "it was cool' -> "Vegas was extreme"]2. Don't search for commonality [challenge her on topics with questions]3. noticeable compliments [not weak ones; custom made]
This advice is good and can be easily learned and practiced. The problem is when you are texting... more details means usually more words... so your texts become bigger than hers and its somehow unbalanced.
I love the way you say you're an expert..! Oh and I think I've nailed it, its the way you say "you" cause that's a command. Well played honey...
If you doubt the validity of what this woman has been saying, then consider this: soon she will have amassed nearly HALF A MILLION subscribers ! THAT'S impressive, and I don't impress easily. How many people do you know with a TH-cam channel that can come close to that?
She's probably less than half my age, and yet I've already learned alot listening to her speak. Simply growing older by itself, DOESN'T make you more intelligent. When I was younger, I used to train people how to run equipment. Do you know who performed the worst? The people who were older than me. You see, either consciously, or subconsciously, they felt that they were smarter than a young guy, so, they felt that they had a better way of doing it. What they were failing to realize was that I wasn't trying to get them to do things a certain way for the benefit of my ego, it was simply because the methods I tried to teach them(which weren't even mine) were time tested - time proven to work the best, with the fewest errors and shut-downs. That's why the company used them .
This girls brain is atractive ! What her attractive appearance does for me is it keeps me focused on her, which means more of what she says will sink in , hopefully! Hot looks are nice, but everyone ages, and when they do, the stimulation subsides, but a person who's young, that can stimulate your mind, will still be able to, even if their flesh starts to sag. Keep this in mind: Your brain is your biggest and most powerful sex organ you have!
It depends on the goal. Is she in a long term meaningful relationship? Or is this advice to just get as much sex with good looking but pathetic people? Let me put it this way, if you wanted to lose weight and be healthier would you take advice from a doctor who was obese? So if she is the type of person you want to be then perhaps you should take advice from her but if you want something better than what she has it is optimistic to think she can help you.
In my opinion, that is in the opinion of someone who has been married for over 15 years and is married to their other half, I think she is an idiot and the advice she has given here is pathetic and can only be appealing to pathetic people. There is no way I could be in a long term meaningful relationship with someone like this and I couldn't even imagine wanting to sleep with someone like this. I can only imagine if this type of approach actually led to marriage the sex would dry up and you'd either end up getting a divorce or hating each other.
In my opinion if you are looking for a life partner then my advice would be to do the opposite of what she has said. First be genuine when talking to a woman, don't bung on anything, don't choose your words, talk to her as if you were talking to your best mate, normal and yourself, that means the same humour without worrying if something you say might offend her. Second you should absolutely look for commonality, it is the foundation of a successful long term relationship. Third and this ties in with the first, be genuine, you don't even have to compliment her, if she is the one you will compliment her no doubt, it will come naturally because you will be impressed. If you are not impressed why would you want it to go further? She should impress you. The best compliment you can give her should be that you want to be with her. Any woman worth her salt can see through bullshit and genuine compliments come naturally. You don't need a line. I'd already met my wife before I saw her in the club that night, I already knew she was the one, when I approached her that night and asked her "Who are you with tonight?", when she replied "no one", when the next thing I said was "you should be with me", that wasn't a line, I didn't plan to say it, it was genuine. I was with someone at the club who I left to be with her. I'd met her previously when I was out with another girl I was chasing but playing hard to get. We had great conversation, I left her that day and thought to myself, that's the girl I'm going to marry and for reasons it was a long time before we met again. The night before we married the girl who played hard to get tried so hard to be with me, she told me her regrets and her desires for me, too late, but she wasn't the one. What do you want, someone genuine who makes you happy every day or are you just desperate to sleep with any girl who will fall for some fake charm? What would you prefer, amazing sex any time you want it with an amazing woman who goes out of her way to please you as you please her or empty meaningless sex with some tramp you just met that is so unfulfilling you need a wank after and the threat of an STD hanging over your head?
The sad part is how much power men are willing to give to women and then wonder why women don't find them attractive. Are you a catch? Are you a good man? Then she is lucky she is talking to you. When you sleep with her will it be incredible for her? Then she would be lucky to sleep with you because most men haven't satisfied her. If a woman thinks I need to jump through hoops for her then it is her loss and she can go on with her pathetic life waiting for prince perfect that doesn't exist and finally settle for mister average. Vibrators are cheap so she'll get by but she'll be lonely. Kezia seems to me in this video that she has issues, she comes across as insecure needing fake compliments from fake men, perhaps she gives others advice to compensate for her own lack of self confidence. Could she handle honesty? If she asked me to buy her a drink and I said she should buy me a drink how would she react? If she asked how she looked and I was honest and it wasn't what she expected would she be upset that I didn't build her up with lies or would she respect my honesty?
Her subscriber number just means there are 350,000 pathetic men out there who haven't worked out they don't need a trick to get a woman. It isn't impressive by any standard.
I really like your videos and advice. They are different and interesting. Even though I have not applied them on a women. You are easy to listen to and beautiful! !
I was watching boxing videos and suddently end up here.....it doesnt make sense if you want to be a real man but learning how to being one from a girl lol....shes cute btw
That's because real men don't box, they fight ;)
Very constructive and incitful advice.
Excellent advice for everyone actually.
About conversations with women: I find it that sometimes they focus on the man at the beginning just because (if they find you attractive) they're trying to find out what type of woman you like. They like to play a role, it's like that Fiona Apple song says "I've got to make a play, to make my lover stay, so what would an angel say? The devil wants to know"
Solid tips to take away for pratical use. Thanks Kezia.
Having shared values makes for a better long term relationship. Having heated & challenging conversations may be stimulating, but being very different & not agreeing on much would lead to a lot of fighting & discord long term. Opposites might attract, but not very compatible in the long term.
Welcome back Kezia's legs! Those two beauties have spent such a long time off camera, or covered up, (except briefly in the intro). Seeing them again is a major treat for the eye balls!
OK, as for the advice, I've heard points 2 & 3 in previous videos. It's all good though. I've used the tailor made compliment idea before & got a very warm response.
Ok. Here's my story. I'm not looking for dating advice but I went ahead and listened to what you had to say and it struck me that your advice was golden beyond the world of dating. Now I'm running for President of the United States and my understanding is I will be required to speak on occasion.. I am rusty Just to survive the political climate I've learned to clam up and not say anything but being silenced has come at an enormous price. I'm thinking of joining your mastery program just to energize my Presidential campaign skills.
Beautiful, Smart, British...... Kezia a keeper.
getting the girl isnt that hard. just avoid the ones that look away.....on with life!!!
If I tried all the advice featured on this channel on Kezia, I reckon she'd have to say yes! :D
Every time i hear her voice, i think SHE IS JUST PERFECT FOR VOICEOVERS if i would finalize cortana or Jarvis for my smart house later on i would hire her just to be the AI voice!!!
Best look so far in all your videos.
i love your vocabulary
Thank you for sharing. Those were really amazing hints, which by the way I've already put into practice. But you know what, none of those work here in Rio city. Well, at least the place I live in, a Slum. Women here are really interesting in money and stuff like possessions, which I lack. I am a gentleman and I really know how to deal and get a woman's heart by creating a deep connection through emotions. But women know exactly when they are falling in love, and if she realizes the guy has no possessions or enough money to spend with her, she doesn't show interest at all. Thank you.
We're American- we don't know what "bespoke" means. :)
In general though, it seems like there's a common thread here- if you love yourself, enjoy your life, you will naturally like meeting people and discussing new ideas. You will also be more likely to find things around you (such as HER) that you appreciate and admire. Taa-daa!
What a lovely accent!
I know but commonalities create a surface connection, this is always a good foundation to begin upon. Opposite is attractive but why are they so many failed relationships? I think it's much more important than you give it credit, Kezia.
You're definitely right about the commonality thing. I tried that and now I've been friend zoned by every girl I know.
I have recently subscribed to your Channel. I find your thoughts and Concepts captivating. Keep up the great work and ignore some of these things that these boys are saying. They better be glad they didn't have my mother
Don't know how i got here but i really like a women that has real nails, none of this fake talon stuff. Good skills ^^
intelligence plus beauty=dangerous combination
Thank you, mother!
ur jus .. Ridiculously good
Make her see how you're passionate in general, and she'll probably want you to be as passionate about her.
Kezia, in this video you come over as much more naturally beautiful than you normally do, far more classy than usual, a lot less aggresive ... I think this is probably more the real you, best, Joe
Makes sense, thank you Kezia!
noble job
oh boy, this sounds too complicated. I thought a compliment is spontaneous and truthful from the hearth
I highly recommend you take her 7 day course and request time with Mark J, Daniel S, Sam O. and Matt.
Make sure you are ready to get out of your comfort zone when going and you'll see results.
A famous and very wealthy old broad once uttered "Beauty fades, dumb is forever."
Kezia , you have been a inspiration to many I'm sure and thank you very much for confirming great traits I have recently developed.
I'm sure the great person you are will get to the top in what you do hun. I'm sure no union behaviour will and should not be needed 😉. 🖒
nice video Kezia noble, keep up the good work!
She is correct. I never make compliments about her looks before sex. Finding things in common is also not a good focus because of what she said. Challenging her does create attraction! Dont be too nice! You can only be nice if you are a fuckin pro like me. Def dont be nice. When you notice her finding you attractive then be nice and create a comfy situation. You can ask me questions over here if you have questions. I have much more knowledge and experience than Kezia. She is def very good tho, especially compared to many others that talk but dont have the theory behind it.
I can tell she knows what she talking about and I can tell I could get her no problem. I'm 45 years old, graying hair, not tall and i can guarantee she would be attracted. I'm not saying that to be cocky or outlandish, I can just tell
Evocative. Hmm. I'm gonna look it up and then do it:)
Great video Kezia, i would have to agree with the whole having things in common thing. I have always been more attracted to women when have opposite likes, it gives us both the opportunity to try things that we normally might not never try. The opportunity to try twice as many things.
Great video, thanks!!
You could resume of the tips from each video in the description and at the end of the video. It would be nice to remember clearly the info. Thanks...
"You have the face of a seraph--- a smile and eyes that could rival a sunrise---flawless Mediterranean skin---that gorgeous fall of wavy hair, and a nubile body with all dem curves that just...w-won’t quit!"
How I described my best female friend years ago, at 15. She typed it up and posted it on her wall, and still reminds me about it to this day. Says it was the best compliment she's ever gotten. We were _just_ friends, though, so...kind of a double edged sword
Hello Kezia! Just wanna say hello and say I like your channel
Great video. Criminally under-liked.
Interesting. And also Disney Land is like Vegas for kids SO THE ANALOGY WORKS BOTH WAYS
I like it ...when you put examples 😍
thanks Kezia; I get like 4-6 numbers a week. you have to scout early, watch your minerals and gas, and always say GG.
That was REALLY, Really, really great 😎😃😀😎
Good stuff, thanks for sharing :)
Thanks Kezia. For Real !!👍🏻
great video kezia
kezia my God what you say is true it works just want to say you are gorgeous God bless
you get home and google 1970 french pop star, while the guy is still standing at the bar striking out.... so much for that one.
I have dated all sorts of women in my years but never had the opportunity to date a woman with a beautiful British accent like Kezia. Would love to meet someone who talks like that. Such a turn on. Unfortunately not many British women in the South U.S.
Nice One Kez!
1) grow a vocabulary
2) she ain’t your buddy
3) grow a vocabulary (specifically about the way she looks/is)
I've been saying the same thing about commonalities being unnecessary in attraction for a while, but my friends think I'm crazy when I say that
To me its all about creating more confusions and illusions. I hope your business is booming girl. oh let me remind you we all are humans.
Okay, Kezia. Let's say I've got a girl who seems very interested. How do I know she's the one, or if it just a false alarm?
Very interesting approach. It's my first video and I'm curious if you have in following vids, done a review of your talk at the end, by listing the points you covered previously? I just noticed you mention how many and with it being jam packed with great information, I felt that listing the points you made at the end of the video might help some of us recall all that again as you complete it :)
I HAVE JUST CREATED THE TALKING FORMULA TO PICK UP GIRLS !!!!!!!
Super nice Kezia.
Good job!
Good video.
I guess I love looking at the comments. They are pretty funny.
I'm a straight guy but I get way more compliments from men.I guess that's just telling me girls are to shy to give me a compliment.I should assume that girls feel the same way.
Don't listen to this girl , there are far better teachers if you have trouble in this subject , and just to cover one point , opposites don't attract , I met a fantastic girl , every man's dream , and she had a cat , and she love it , and all animals , she was an animal lover , and so am I , so when she found that out she really was instantly very interested in me , and we found out that we had just about everything in common that was important to both of us , she fell in love with me totally , honesty is very important , and honestly the more things in common the better , remember , there's a girl around every corner , like a kid in a candy store , pick what you like , and don't listen to this girl just because she is beautiful and has a wonderful voice , she makes money off any man that happens to have problems in the area of finding and furthering with women , don't fall for it guys , and don't get advice from a girl , about dealings with girls !
Could have done with knowing all this 20 years ago.
The complement stuff is too vague. It depends on the girl. If it's a very pretty girl, she will receive complements all the time, so she requires more creativity. But if it's a "usual" woman, she will definitely appreciate a "usual" honest(!) complement cause she doesn't get to hear those very often.