I HATE the unplanned child excuse for mistreating a child. My brother and I (23 years apart no less) were both unplanned. Only one of the three children they had WAS planned. My mom was 21 and my parents had just gotten married when she got pregnant with me. Mom was TERRIFIED both times (and I got to see it with my little brother given I was 23). She SINCERELY loves all three of us equally. Little bro is receiving the best of everything, but that's because my parents are actually financially stable now in a way they absolutely were not when my little sis and I were kids. Also, they were hoping for a 3rd girl with my brother. That hasn't seemed to affect how much they love him though.
What girl stuff can you buy that baby boys cannot use? If they had bought clothes with quotes "daddy's girl" or "mom's princess", I don't think having them used by the second child is going to have any affect on anyone.
Dresses especially ones adorned with lace and tulle? Anything sparkly? The shorts (significance in length if you actually care to pay attention) Literally almost everything really. You can dress a girl in boy clothes but not boys in girl clothes when it comes to babies. As a dad both my babies were called girl by default when strangers address them even with the boy dressed as a boy so its best to have your boy dressed as a boy.
@@tommyflatley1813 how many clothing have lace and tulle ? The day to day clothes of babies are pretty much the same. Yeah mini gowns and princess dresses might be a bit much but most of the baby dresses are gender neutral. The colour and quotes might be different though.
I HATE the unplanned child excuse for mistreating a child. My brother and I (23 years apart no less) were both unplanned. Only one of the three children they had WAS planned. My mom was 21 and my parents had just gotten married when she got pregnant with me. Mom was TERRIFIED both times (and I got to see it with my little brother given I was 23). She SINCERELY loves all three of us equally. Little bro is receiving the best of everything, but that's because my parents are actually financially stable now in a way they absolutely were not when my little sis and I were kids. Also, they were hoping for a 3rd girl with my brother. That hasn't seemed to affect how much they love him though.
“being the favorite child is abuse too because you almost made me like you” it’s such a demolishing line
This story is so painful. 💔 Wishing you strength and better days ahead! You’re stronger than you think!
Wow the parents seriously need some mental help
The grandparents are the real mvp's
If your parents got Therapy. And only after 6 months or 1 years before you go visit them. Only then if they sound like they have changed
Where is the part 4 for the stolen company one…
And to think I thought the story was over
What girl stuff can you buy that baby boys cannot use? If they had bought clothes with quotes "daddy's girl" or "mom's princess", I don't think having them used by the second child is going to have any affect on anyone.
Dresses especially ones adorned with lace and tulle? Anything sparkly? The shorts (significance in length if you actually care to pay attention) Literally almost everything really. You can dress a girl in boy clothes but not boys in girl clothes when it comes to babies. As a dad both my babies were called girl by default when strangers address them even with the boy dressed as a boy so its best to have your boy dressed as a boy.
@@tommyflatley1813 how many clothing have lace and tulle ? The day to day clothes of babies are pretty much the same. Yeah mini gowns and princess dresses might be a bit much but most of the baby dresses are gender neutral. The colour and quotes might be different though.
That was beautiful 👌👌👌
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