4 Updates: My parents called off my 18th birthday party at the last minute because my sister...
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- My parents called off my 18th birthday party at the last minute because my sister, their favorite, threw a tantrum about her canceled trip. She said, "If I can't be happy, then she can't be either." They forgot to uninvite one of the guests, who showed up at our door, and things did not go well for my parents...
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For anyone wondering, at 18:30, its an error, it was actually 14 months.
Oh thanks for a second I thought he brought up 14 years like it's nothing
I was wondering why she was still in school 14 years later,!
I know I'm pretty sure. Because she said she was still in college.
I was shocked to hear it's been 14 year past so quickly 😭
I was full of tears when i was listening to your video, because i can totally relate to you and my life was similar to yours is many ways. Few differences are, my grandpa was very old and passed away when I was around 12, and there was a an attempted m**der towards me, and i grew up thinking that i am a mentally ill person hiding from the society faking like a normal human being. I wish my grandpa was around to kick some ass and i genuinely missed him, one memory that i have is, he'll often take me to a sweet shop to get me something and also promised to take me to airport to show me how air planes look in real life, but that was not fulfilled and he passed away before that. Fortunately, I have been gifted with a great wife, who cares for my well being and i'm doing well in my career. time to time my parents spew venom about me to relatives, but I didn't tell my side story to any of my relatives. I forced myself not to think about all the past again, time to time, something reminds me of old days and i shed a tear, but this video brought back all my memories and i was full of tears. Good to know that you are finally happy, OP, universe finds different ways to help people like us. Take care.
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As a father of 3 I have no fucking idea how you can prioritize one child over another. Absolutely wild.
Actually in some family it is possible (mine) it's tuff but siblings have to support each other in that case(where mine hate each other)
@GamingShin07 I think he understands that it can happen. He just doesn't understand how people can actually do that. Sorry you have to go through that. I'm a middle kid and I'm treated differently in my family. My older brother is my mom's favorite and little brother is my dad's favorite. My little brother hates that I'm treated differently and we are really close.
@@GamingShin07 I’m sorry you went through that. I do know that it can happen I was just saying that my mind would never allow me to even let this thought cross my mind.
@@justfamily3692 at lest you have a sibling that cares
My parents had 5 kids, im the eldest. The oldest and youngest of my 3 brothers have a genetic disease and my mom felt guilty as a carrier of it. I was neglected emotionally and medically by both parents. Abused physically and emotionally by my dad. I was tormented with my fears and force-fed massive amounts of food or verbally abused for now eating it all. I was forced obese, undiagnosed adhd (older two of three brothers were diagnosed around 6 and 10), developed borderline personality disorder and my only genuine skills are cooking, cleaning and childcare. My brother was given so much more than me even when we were really young. When i had a tiny tv/dvd player in one, he had a big box tv and my dads old xbox and a dvd player. If i complained about my brothers doing something it was always "you're the eldest, you know better than to....". When my brother was in the hospital, i was miserable because my mom was soending her time there while i was stuck at home with my angry father who screamed about everything. And even when my brother called my mom a whore, she stayed at the hospital and i was so angry that i had to stay home with my dad who screamed and started fighths over stupid shit while he could treat my mom like that and get no punishment. Many situations where they took his side and assumed i was lying, because hes younger and doesnt understand. My mom admitted as an adult that she felt i was more secure and capable than my brothers so she never really thought about how differently she treated us. I know my parents didn't intentionally neglect me for the most part and I don't hold most of it against them because I know they were still young when they had me, but deep down, as much as I love my siblings, I wish they believed in abortion or had a better sex education, because literally getting pregnant 5 times by accident and keeping every single one is beyond too much when you hardly make a decent living with 1 kid. Then to still have another kid after my dad's head injury (the injury happened after my youngest brother was born. My dad lost his welding career, driver's license and the ability to stand still without getting dizzy) it only got worse. Even then, my earliest memory of being a childcare role in my siblings life was 6 years old, I sang my 2nd brother to sleep as a newborn while my mom cleaned the kitchen, and I did childcare at home and babysitting until I was 19. Which was just after I had a lot of shit happen to me and the borderline personality disorder erupted like a volcano. I used to be in love with the idea of having kids, but something clicked, and I can't be like my parents. If I want kids, I need to 100% be financially ready and at least be 80% emotionally ready, and we'd probably adopt or foster, because id rather at least be a safe place for a traumatized kid than create one.
This story makes it seem like the sister is the problem, but really it's the parents. They created this environment with how they raised their kids. It didn't have to be this way.
It's both. Toxic parents pit child against child and get off on the control. My brother is the Golden child but I've seen my mother smirk when she's tried to triangulate me against him. (With me right there, and not a fan of toxic nonsense.)
Last time I remember was when my father died. He must've seen it, too. I looked at him directly, and was really confused by his rage (directed at me, of course). She loved the reaction. To me, it was stupidly obvious. She's freaking evil.
He's an otherwise intelligent guy, if raised to be malevolent. But that doesn't stop him from being an idiot who gets led around like a dog by his emotions. 🤦♀️
i kinda blame both grandparents too. They didn't want to keep the baby but grandparents pushed it. This is why you don't try to talk people into keeping babies they clearly don't want. Doesn't excuse the parents behavior
Why are you blaming the parents, the sister is old enough to know that her parents love her more than the younger one,so the right thing to do as an older sister is to be there for her instead of milking it,parents are human beings too but you as a 23 years old milking your parents love and being mean to your younger sister is a dick move
I'm sure Grandpa will leave everything to her. Her parents really screwed up and will realize it when the Will is read.
yeah, they have 2 children but favorite one of them is something a normal parent dont do, atleast those i know of. We also have 2 teenage girls and we love them equally so no one would be left out. Its sicken me to think some parents would love one child more then another becouse its gonna creat jealousy, insecure, hate and in the end suffering. In another word, Karma. If you mistreat your child, you will get the same treatment later on in your life.
Oh for sure
And considering he was a lawyer- he also knows how to make the will iron-clad, though will likely still get another lawyer's help for obvious reasons,
that would be a very good "do it for Dan" story
@@phaethaya everyone has favorites, but it's never to the extent where you could question whether they love their kids or not. Usually unequal treatment/mistreatment between siblings is a result of awkwardness or circumstance, but apathy like this is far from common - and when it does happen, usually the apathy is to ALL children, not just a specific child.
dang, its crazy how fast 14 years fly by, and that her sister moved out at 37
And OP is still in college for 14 years and only sees her bf on weekends after 14 years of relationship 😂
@@muzgi This might be an AI error; it's highly unlikely for someone to be in college at 14?
@@DailyRedditStories1208I think it was either supposed to be 14 weeks, 14 months or she is working at college now
or 14 months
Holy ghost
As someone who is more sensitive emotionally, them catering to her sister because she "has more delicate feelings" is complete bs. There is *no reason* they couldn't have cared about both of their kids. As someone who is emotionally sensitive, the sister needs to toughen up. Yes, people can be kinder and need to be more mindful of others, but the world is also not going to cater to her feelings.
Fr- my mom had a different way of going about it so we each got the attention we needed for the most part (I surprisingly got a bit more attention than most middle children 💀)
She knew I was sensitive and that my sister was bold, my brother was in between the two, so she had ways to handle things a lil differently. (For example, sometimes she'd have to raise her voice a lil with my sister to get something through her head, while with me she'd have to over explain things so I'd understand lol- I can confirm that it didn't end up negatively affecting my sister though, so that worked out :])
Walking on eggshells to avoid pissing off their child, wtf? lol
This makes me think of the MrBallen story of the Japanese family with the insane genius/tyrant/savant sister. The whole fam lived in terror of her!
this is the one, this is the last golden child story I could stand.
lol same
I still like them 😂.
They’re all the same. My sibling is the golden child, so they get everything and I get nothing even though I do X, Y, Z better. Oh! By the way … I have this wealthy relative that is taking me in, but cutting my parents off for neglecting me.
Now my parents are apologizing, but it’s only for the money.
@@ten5h1 omg :DD im dying to this lmao
@@ten5h1 the accuracy is killing me lmao
I bet their golden won't take care of them in their old age due to spoiling her too rotten. Its nursing home for them.
well they are icky and taking up HER time, she could be enjoying herself. Why should she have to waste HERR time and money on them for no benefit to her.
Yeah, the kind of nursing home you see on 60 Minutes cuz I’m sure they’ll be broke and the Golden won’t spend one dime to help them.
That's how golden children alwats turn out. My aunt's MIL doted on a daughter and then the grandkids through her. Apparently they didn't cared for her enough during her final days that the idiot grandkids are afraid she'd haunt them. I told my aunt, why would they think of that, unless they were horrible to her. Auntie's husband still seem resentful about his mother to this day.
Ma's SIL also doted on a daughter and is now paralyzed from a stroke, reliant on my dead uncle's pension. Daughter don't take good care of her, she don't even regularly get a bath. Instead the one taking care of her is her son she hates and said multiple times should have died, and her DIL who she spread rumors of being a witch. 😒
It was not a storm good sir, us in the Midwest decided your sister was so toxic she would not be allowed to come here
LMAO-
"so it's been 14 years since my last update..."
o_O Jeebus crispy.
I think Ment month not years
Was reddit around 14 years ago?
@@cherrios2002 Yes, actually. Reddit was around in 2010, which is roughly 14 years ago.
@@kingofdeath9012 I'm sure this is one of those fake AI stories, so it was never on Reddit.
No, it's a writing mistake. Someone in the comments found the original post. It says 14 months, not 14 years. The AI just made a mistake.@@religionisevil8850
Imagine finding out that the foundation of your own home had cracks in the cement and could have collapsed at any moment and the contractor knew but just built the house anyway.
I think she meant 14 months. At least I hope so.
She was STILL IN COLLEGE so it has to have been months like you said 😮
@@Swampgurl777 But she also said the sister is 34. When the initial story she was 23. The math doesn't math.
I wanna believe this is a true story coz it's cute inspo. But doesn't sound like it.
@@lynxlubbpeepsSomeone else who went and found the original post said that it was 14 months, so the AI simply made a mistake.
14 yrs and still in college, she’s sure milkin her grandpa financially
The AI got confused about how time works 😂
could be AI or typo either 14 months or 1 or 4 years
People can go to college for multiple degrees
That’s actually not to unreasonable depending on what she is trying to do. For instance I have a friend who’s going to be a doctor. Bud needs like 2-3 different degrees.
14 months. The update was for a year later and some so ya 14 months
As much as I enjoy reading and hearing this story, the fact that the jumping and swift change of scenery felt like I'm being forced to ride a rollercoaster with not end until the story end makes me motion sick. I'd prefer it if sites like this use calming background videos because now I'm nauseous and sick. I'm just too stubborn to listen to the end.
same. videos like this hurts my head. it's bad enough with the AI voice. but I'm always too curious with the end to stop lol
Agreed
I just read the transcripts
I agree. That video game visual was very distracting to me as well. I don't know about you guys, but I would prefer a blank screen.
Your condition was weak. If I were you. I demand them to turn back time. Remake your birthday. And all other thing that they are doing wrong for you.
I would’ve asked for her sister’s kidney, not because I need it but because I like organs 🤷
I’d also ask that ALL of their jewelry would be melted down and turned into a crown.
ALSO I’d ask for a pet. I want either a cat, a snake or an owl 😌✨
ALSO ALSO I want them to pay for a photo shoot I’d do where I wear the crown, and sit on those fake thrones that photo shoot places have, and I’d sit with the kidney jar and my pet. And I’d send that picture to them as a post card.
But yknow, that’s just me.
Yeah good luck with that logic in the real world
@@rickyjuice6840 good luck with that not saying you should do it but firstly you’re going too far kidneys really I think you might have main character syndrome pointless that’s probably going to be too far that’s too far. Also I’m aware that you don’t really need both of your kidneys to live but still that’s not all good people literally need kidney transplants and here you are taking your sister kidney just because they cancelled your 18th birthday although I’m not saying that they should have. I’m just saying that don’t do it.
@@pierrelam4822that is very much main character syndrome and also being a psychopath in a way. thats just way too far.
Turn back time? She isn't Cher.
My parents put me up for adoption as a baby, stories like this make me grateful for it.
12:00 This explains everything . Walk away ,cut all contact with parents and sister, and don't look back.
If OP was my friend and I was told they were sick, I wouldn't even bother listening to the people who told me.
I'm the kind of person who has to ask the main person myself to get the proper answer. I don't trust anyone if the main person hasn't physically or even texted me themselves.
OP is the jealous one ? .. when the sister convinced them to cancel OP's birthday party because sister was disappointed and mad that a flight was canceled?!?!
Lol it's obviously not 14 years later if the OP is still in college, more like 14 months
Actually it can. People can actually go for other degrees
@@dakotakulha8376 and meeting with the same boyfriend, in the weekends?
@@a.k.5919 People can date for a long period of time before getting engaged. Just because it's very rare to see doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Stop trying to micromanage
@@dakotakulha8376nah, it's 100% 14 months. Years make no sense
@@nirolf12 It makes a lot of sense. Couples can date for 14 years and not get engaged. Someone can indeed be in college for 14 years by doing multiple degrees. Clearly u don't use your brain
The parents were horrible, but I do feel a little bit bad for them. They never wanted a second kid. They tried to abort, parents wouldn't let them. Tried to adopt her out, other set of parents wouldn't let them.
This is what happens when people aren't allowed to terminate their pregnancy, and are forced to have children they didn't want.
I mean, they're still terrible because no matter what they felt no child deserves to be treated that way. But I can empathize to an extent. The grandparents should have adopted OP from the beginning. They're the ones who wouldn't let her be adopted out. They can raise her themselves.
The reason they didn't tell anyone about how they were being treated is that often you don't know exactly what is happening unless you have spoken with a counselor or been through therapy. Most people chalk it up as "It's just what happens" or "it's just part of life." Speaking with a good counselor can really open your eyes and help you see just how bad it really was and help you recognize what was unhealthy and what was abuse in a relationship. More than that, counseling can also give you tools and access to resources in the community to help you heal and overcome, trauma and abuse (and even recognize unhealthy habits) as well as deal constructively with those who currently may be poisoning your life/ difficult to interact with. It can also give you tools to become a healthier person.
AMEN! You are so right.
Ask grandpa if you should become a lawyer. You sound like you might be a good one.
At first, the older sister was 25 and a short time later she was 23? This is one example of the type of inconsistency that takes away from the overall validity of the video.
Yeah, at one point, I thought OP was a guy because I swear there was mention of a football scholarship.
@@cassandraanderson3314can girls not get football scholarships?
@@JackFKennedy1987 I’m sure they can, legally, but football scholarships are hard enough to get and most if not all players on a collegiate level are guys.
@@cassandraanderson3314 yeah probably, although I feel like women’s football would be a lot smaller of a group giving you a bigger chance
These things are not petty. Petty thing are like, you can't sit there because it's your sister's chair. Or you can't eat these specific snakes because we bought them only for your sister. Those examples are petty. These instances you gave should never be precied as petty. 8:46 Can't get anything new. REALLY?
You're absolutely right. But as a youngest sister who's also experienced **very** similar behaviours from mother and sisters, these things when talked about individually do seem petty. if you try to tell them to an outsider as isolated incidents, it makes you sound petty and upset over trivial things like not getting the last slice of pizza. only if you hear years' worth of treatment compared to their siblings and gaslighting endured ontop of it, listen to it without judgement only then you realize the full weight of it for the victim.
I was a younger sister, and believe me, over half of my clothes were hand-me-downs, but at least I knew it was because we were on a tight budget. Military don't get paid very much, even officers.
When I joined the Air Force in the early 70s, I got about $300 a month as salary, which also had to cover my food. I could have lived on base, and eaten in the chow hall, but the single-person housing was one room to live in, with shared bathrooms. No appliances for kitchen were allowed. As for eating in the chow hall, well try to imagine the worst school cafeteria food crossed with hospital food! As soon as I could I moved off-base into a studio apartment. It wasn't any more square footage, but I had a kitchen and bathroom to myself! I learned how to make do as a kid, and it served me well as I got older.
We know it's not petty. However, we're often told we're being petty and whiny and told to grow up and be the bigger person than the older people. 😐
A family of narcissists
How much do you want to bet that they wanted to keep their golden daughter an only child, but caved in to the pressure to give her a sibling? That's the only logical reason I can give when the older one is "the golden child" when she should've done more to set the example for OP.
Affair baby?
Did you listen till the end? Update 2 is all about how they didn't wanted her and how the parents only kept her because of the grandparents?
6:15 Bull. Shit. Op, your parents aren't sorry that they did that to you, they're sorry they got caught and their golden cow has now gone to better pastures
That last line is great. "I'm really happy now." Good.
All these Golden Child stories always make me feel insecure about being a parent
Reddit gathers a lot of stories from all over the internet so it’s natural to think these issues are more common than they actually are. Remember that if there are 10000 stories of golden children and there’s one hundred million internet users from families with more than one kid, that’s still only 0.0001% of the population.
Don’t let the internet and cable news stop you from experiencing life.
Frankly, I think a lot of them are made up.
What you need to cone to terms with is you will inevitably love one child more for whatever reason. The key to being a good parent is knowing when your favoritism hurts the others and not allowing it to ostracize your other kids. Anyone who tells you you will always love them equally is wrong. One will always be slightly favored and it's just human nature. Just never be unfair. Do your best.
Make sure you love your children equally and that you show them love equally. It can be in different ways, but it needs to be equal. Do your best to be just and fair. There is a logic fallacy where we can paint an image in our mind of 'this is the good child, they can do no wrong' and we view them like an angel. This is where the golden child mentality comes from. It is good to remember that everyone is human. Everyone makes mistakes. Anyone can fall. Practice seeing situations from your children's perspective; try to see where they are coming from. They are a person too, not just 'your kid.' Teach them in a way that bridges both perspectives. Keep teaching simple and clear. Sometimes they won't understand, and that's okay. Somethings are understood with time or when their brain fully develops.
Basically, it's okay. Don't worry about it so much. You'll be fine. Take it one step at a time. And remember to breathe.
Your advise is very good, but you can only teach what you have been taught. There is a way for it to be more equal and fair. Focusing on being as just as possible is better than focusing on not having favorites. You have to visualize what you want (what you want home to feel like) and analyze if what you're doing/ what was done while growing up is actually going to get you there. It's hard work, but so very worth it.
I was shoked to find out the entitled sister was 5 years older.... Woah
Gotta love when parents act like doing their job as a parent is something to be praised for 😂😂😂
U sure she’s 23 she acts more like 5
Entitlement tends to make people regress in their early stages of development XD
I mean the 18 year old isn't much better. You are 18 and your parents are throwing you a birthday party like you are 5? And when they cancel you are incapable of having your own party? Wtf is that?
This story sounds so real just because of the teenage angst hidden in the writing.
It, unfortunately is.
@@IncredibleMarbleRace I've been seeing a LOT of AI/creative writing projects in place of actual reddit stories here, thanks for letting me know this one's at least _decent!_
Why would she be jealous of a 23 year old living at home
Imagine being that granpa and hearing the kid say are you sure about X? Then learning some backwards abuse the kid doesn't even recognize yet?
I'm picturing gruncle Stan just going into a fit kicking stuff waving his hand in the air. While mumble grunting.
You bet he sang like a canary, he was so done with all the "little" petty things.
People who are abused can't see the picture the abuser paints little by little
This sounds like one of those web novels they advertise to you,get you hooked make you pay tons of money and keep you interested for 300 chapters then not update for years. But summed up and actually fulfilling.
It's definitely not real, she even added foreshadowing and then later referenced said foreshadowing in one of the updates, plus this story has way too many details, but its a really satisfying story, it's really well written 😂
Now this is a stand up grandparent.
And he tolded them about them selfs.
It's also fitting the family wants nothing
to do with them anymore.The definition
of bad parents.
You have no reason to be mad at your grandpa, maby he didn't even knew how you really have been treated, only why your sister is the "golden child"
Yeah, and how should the other relatives know if she didn't speak up about? It reminds me of that bicycle meme where the person shoves a stick in the front wheel and blames everyone else.
He literally said he knew.
14 years..I think she meant 14 months since she was still in school!!
best typo I found was yesterday "6 mothers later" instead of 6 months later
😅 for anybody who wonders why people keep things like this quiet it's because you're taught to growing up You're taught to stay quiet about the abuse that's literally what people do they condition people to deal with the abuse... Similar to the process of grooming but with dealing with physical abuse.... So that's how. That's why you always believed victims even if you don't want to even if you want to keep a relationship with the abuser you still get them to safety at the very least... Even if you don't want to believe it's true you make sure they're safe because if you don't you are involved
All those stuff about hand me downs and "small negletions" are 100% NOT petty!
It does NOT make what they did okay, but this is why people should not be denied abortion or pressured to raise a child they didn’t want. That’s super fucked up.
Yup. People seem to think people who don't WANT a baby will suddenly love and care for said baby once it's here. Which is absolute brain rot.
Wait, 14 years and you are still in college and your sister just moved out?? That can't be right
I think 14 years was a typo and the funal update was possibly upto 4yrs after the previous one.
Yknow, I really dont understand why the parents would great their kids like this.
I have diagnosed PTSD and ADHD. I literally have to live like im in a china shop because all it takes is one bad brain chemical and my week is fucked.
My sister, on the other hand, has a few issues, but she's tough and strong-willed, and all these wonderful things that means that, while she needs help from time to time, she's usually on top of things.
So Im the delicate one, of the two of us. And if I ever found out my parents treated her poorly because "oh your brother is having a rough time", *I'd be furious at them* (they never have, thankfully.)
How the fuck can you prioritise one kid so much that you would literally rather ruin their birthday than tell the other kid "just stay in your room, listen to music you like and we'll bring you some cake and ice cream to help brighten the mood, its just one day." Like, thats the barest, shittiest minimum you could do for your kid.
In a weird way, I'm glad they dropped the ball like this, because it means OP and her Grandpa got to give them a well deserved reality check.
What the hell my blood is just boiling watching this
I'm gonna be honest. It's kinda fucked how they forced them to be unwilling parents too
That's pro lifers for you. They didn't want her as an embryo, so why would they want a living baby?
The parents not only where to stupit to use protection right than they could not stand up to their parent while they where adults so instead of behaving decent and treat their kids equally O P had to endure a terrible childhood. Imagen there was no storm so O P sister could go to NY parents woud not have cancelled the party Grandpa would not have found out about O p situation had not take her in cut the support of nothing had happenned just gecause of a missing storm that`s karma ...
18:30 for anyone wondering about that 14-years later thing. I'm guessing it was a typo as she probably meant to be 4-years later but someone must have accidentally added the 1 in front of the 4.
I mean 14-years, still dating the same guy and still in college?
Pampered and entitlement. Are these really the fights rich/upper-middle class be having? If so, holy shit, I want in.
They only want the money from grandpa.
14 years? Wow
I'm pretty sure that's a typo either 14 months or 1 or 4 years 😂😂😂
She must really like the college life.
14 months, I'd say
Had me like..”how old is reddit again?”
It admitted me how an obvious typo can get people so worked up so easily.
14 years later she's still in college she must be getting her Master's + Prime degree
That poster wasn't the AH by any stretch, her parents and sister are, her parents are to blind to see they're raising an entitled spoiled brat. I feel sorry for any guy that ends up with her nightmare of a sister.
Update 14 yrs??? Still in college and living with Grandpa? Error, let’s try 2-3 yrs later. And hope Uncle has a lot to say about his financial support of the business, so to get his investment back with plus.
I would pack my shit and never talk to them again.
I hate the visuals. Goes too fast rather see just one picture.
Is this a fanfic or something, timelines don’t make sense
So good! So many updates and some closure! I love juicy stories like this!
23 still living at home and acting like a baby is just pathetic
Acting like a baby is pathetic but living at home at 23 should be more normalized. Cost of living and housing prices are out of wack with wages and any decent parent should be happy to help their kid get the best start in life possible.
Because the parents never made her grow up. They treated the sister like the world revolves around her and needs to move for her convenience.
@@TheVeggiekat Yeah it definitely depends on the situation. If you're still living with your parents because you're working and saving up and building a financial base to afford a down payment on a house or condo then there's nothing wrong with still living with your parents at 23. But in this story the older sister was just spoiled and entitled and seemingly hadn't saved up any money or made any efforts at all to move out. THAT is pathetic.
@@mannydcbiancothat’s what I did after college. I had a job, paid a bit of rent, saved up, and when I felt comfortable enough I moved out.
The first one i would've THROWN HANDSSSSS
DAMN, this story started at least in 2010?? That’s crazy
14 years go by, you're still in college and the guy is still only a boyfriend you see on weekends? Fake ass story.
She probably meant 14 months but accidentally wrote years instead or meant to say 4 years but somehow accidentally added the 1 in front.
@@e0o9kii 4 years still wouldn't work. Don't give a story like this the benefit of the doubt. It's fake.
16:54 CHAT MISSED OPPORTUNITY HERE! YOU COULD HAVE SAID “OKI DOKI BOOMER”!
ok grandpa has been sending money to support their business. Where is the money for golden childs trip coming form, there is no mention of her having a job
Are you stupid? 7:50
If your sister is favourite, your party gone not happening. Never let your parents choose between you two.
14????
I'm thinking 14 months... lol.. that's a bad mess up
Lol ikr
Excuse me while I have a seizure from the video 🤪
It was 14months not 14 yrs
I don't know.. the story teller doesn't so cool either 😂😂😂
My jaw dropped when she said 14 years
14 years in college? Damn, how many degrees are you getting?!
She's still in College and not married after 14 years? Weird.
Probably 14 months, not 14 years.
Well glad i read the comments because 14 years in college is a little much but it was only 14 months
Grandpa is a G
14 years and still in college?😂
"College" in French is middle school.
You watch Grandpa leave everything to the decent granddaughter
Feels like an Indian family
Uh, this must be a robot story because 14 years she still in uni? Like if she got anothet degree would have helped
I was surprised when she said it’s been 14 years that happened in 2010 wow
If you listened until the end, it was quite clear the story meant 14 months.
most replayed is "14 years" when it should be 14 months
What a stupid fake story …
14 years later and she still goes to college and haven’t moved in with her boyfriend? Doesn’t make any sense
He was right no question, yet am I the only one who feels it was wrong of him to get physical?
Holy shite it took her to almost 40 to move out!
14 years of college and as a girlfriend is tough.
IM SORRY WHAT? Entitled sister moved out at 37 AND YOU'RE STILL IN COLLEGE AFTER 14 YEARS? AT 32? WTF
Story doesn't make sense. How could the grandpa not have noticed anything in 18 years. And what kind of storm postpones a flight for more than a a day?
I don't think it was 14 years i think it was months, how the guck is she still in college going back to her grandpa's house talking about her sister just moved out with a straight face 😂😂 if it's actually years..😅😅😅
You can be even more free by forgiving your ex family. This dies not require any conversation. They stay ostracized. Had to do it with my family. Brings peace.
Forgiveness is earned, not expected.
The timeline in this story_🤯
I don't believe this story is real. But it was entertaining.
Pretty sure it's a combo story
She's been in college for 14 years, seeing her boyfriend on the weekend ?
vasectomy, people.
Does anyone know if the Grandpa could have gotten OP or not?
I was upset with the parents first, then OP mentioned how the parents never wanted the second child yet they were pressured into keeping OP. You can't force anyone to love a child, I'm sorry but the whole family, apart the OP, is the AH.
That isn't pity things that's emotional abuse
I can't even pay attention to the story cause whoever is playing is so bad.