You mean to tell me that OP never thought of I don’t know pressing charges against her brother for literally stealing $75,000 from her. That is literally grand theft he could be going to prison for a long time.
It's tough to understand why OP didn't press charges but family dynamics can be incredibly complex and sometimes emotions override logic It's clear this situation was extremely painful for her
Ya this story makes no sense, it keeps mentioning stuff unrelated to the story that seems to try and make it about 10 minutes. Very strange it’s almost exactly 10 minutes
@@elizabethwolfgang4017 Actually Legally she could, even though she gave him permission it was only to use for getting some food. He used her card to get into her saving account and drain everything, which is illegal. She has the right to sue him for stealing her money. She might even get more money than what was stole for him, and he deserves to have to pay it all back or more tbh.
@@LuisRodriguez-ky4iv i could be very very wrong but i think since the brother had the card the police wouldn't touch its cuz its a "family matter" but i'm not a lawyer and i quess it also depends on where in the world it would be, still about the backbone i completly agree.
@@andrefolkmann49I’ve had a slight bit of training in this field. This is literally illegal on so many levels. Even with family, authorities would not dismiss that. She would win the case with any amount of evidence and support.
Omg how can one person be this naive? Just take him to court, my god! You would easily win your case cause you quite literally have evidence, and he told you that he did it.
First of all no bank would ever allow this to be done over the phone not that much money, that has to be done in person, and second, no one can 'force' anyone else to do anything they don't want to it's still 'your ' choice no matter what. Even if a gun is to your head, you have a choice, you can fight, you can be quiet, you can go out screaming, it's your choice. So yeah I'm calling BS!
A lot of reddit stories on videos like this are ai or completely made up, so yeah, This one is definitely bullshit. No Bank in their right mind would allow someone to pull out $75,000 without A bunch of confirmation and no person with the right mind will forgive someone that easily that has done something like that.
They can arrest him, but since he already used the money, there is a small chance that they get that back if it was gambling debt from all legal service. She’s not giving that money back
I get what you mean, but taking out charges on family isn't an easy thing to do. And before anyone starts on the 'yes it is it's not that hard grow some balls' or whatever, I can actually speak a little on this cause I'm in a similar situation with my brother. He's stolen somewhere around 30k from me over the last couple years. He makes more money than me and I still pay his car insurance and phone bill. I'm perfectly aware I'm being manipulated and used but he knows exactly how to do it, and whenever I try to confront him over it he starts acting exactly like our dad used to and I just shut down. I've thought about just moving out(yes I live with him rent is expensive and he pays his full half of the rent about 85% of the time) and letting him figure things out on his own but then our mom gets involved and breaks out the waterworks and she's disabled and lives in a care home close to where we live which is a big part of her not wanting me to leave. I've definitely strayed away from the point here but yeah filing charges against your brother is not an easy thing at all to do emotionally. No matter how justified or how much other people convince you, even when you know intellectually they're right......he's still your brother.
@@cheykchey not to be rude but your brother sounds like a dick, your only reason that you keep letting yourself be manipulated is because he's family, that is not what family does to each other, he should be helping you out just as much as you help him out and you need to get your point across to your parents so don't fall for those crocodile tears.
You would be surprised family can easily push you into being something they want it's hard...especially cause I had a golden brother that could do no wrong I still live with my manipulative mom cause I'm not old enough enough to move yet
OP needs to have a backbone and file a lawsuit cause this is BS and no way ill let 75k money gone so quickly Also ive heard someone say : dont trust your family or your closest friends with valuable information and OP did the opposite of that she needs to have a DAMN BACKBONE and stand up for her rights...
The only reason the op didn’t take that down court is because lawyers are super expensive it costs a lot just to have one meeting with them ( not from personal experience some of my relatives told me when they took things to court )
I'm not one for blaming the victim, but wtf?? No way in hell am I EVER forgiving someone who steals my entire life savings to pay off their own gambling debt.
The first stab was made by my mother. Then my dad! They could never truly defend me against their siblings and I’ll probably always resent them for that 🤬
Never trust drug or gambling addicts! Even if they recover, the addiction NEVER goes away. It lays dormant, but never goes away. OP keeps getting burned and fails to learn from it. No sympathy here.
Your family completely abandoned you to keep the peace. Stop letting them have access to you. They are taking advantage of you. Straighten your spine, acknowledge that your trust has been abused and taken advantage of. Jim needs to be charged and your parents don’t deserve to have access to you.
A person with no boundaries tends to test other people to see how much they can get away with before pushing the limit. I would have called the cops on him the first time it happened…no way am I risking my future for some loser with gambling debt
Now normally I would give stories a chance but this is definitely ai written. The way it goes off into rants with weirdly specific and non-relevant details, the long spiels and writing style all point to ai.
You didn't took your brother to Cort and he had the adasiti to do it again took him to Cort even if you can't get the money back(I'm sure you will plus a emotional damage money)don't let him to be at peas
@@kingbobby1st Thank you for telling me the correct way to write the words, and I meant to not let him be at peace, to have the stress of the court, and that I know that you will win in the court😉❤️
Never give people accsess to your card. NEVER! always give them cash. And give it as a gift not a loan, Because itll be a bigger headache to get it back
I have no problem believing this. Sounds like the brother is a criminal that gets enabled by his parents, to his own sister’s detriment. And when she reaches her limit, the parents manipulate her back with these stories and memories.
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You mean to tell me that OP never thought of I don’t know pressing charges against her brother for literally stealing $75,000 from her. That is literally grand theft he could be going to prison for a long time.
It's probably faked
It's tough to understand why OP didn't press charges but family dynamics can be incredibly complex and sometimes emotions override logic It's clear this situation was extremely painful for her
@@WivesStoriesIt's not painful she is just stupid and weak
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You should have had him charged and put in prison for the first time, but again I call BS on this story.
Ya this story makes no sense, it keeps mentioning stuff unrelated to the story that seems to try and make it about 10 minutes. Very strange it’s almost exactly 10 minutes
Yh I agree, just charge and sue them
She couldn't. She gave him the card. She could personally sue him but it's very expensive & her money was already gone.
@@elizabethwolfgang4017 Actually Legally she could, even though she gave him permission it was only to use for getting some food. He used her card to get into her saving account and drain everything, which is illegal. She has the right to sue him for stealing her money. She might even get more money than what was stole for him, and he deserves to have to pay it all back or more tbh.
@@BiscuitbakerTHEY MEANS SHE COULDN'T HIRE A LAWYER
1st time is victim, 2nd time is emotional
3rd time is doormat, family are using doormat well.
Right like I was so mad grow a backbone and get the cops involved
@@LuisRodriguez-ky4iv i could be very very wrong but i think since the brother had the card the police wouldn't touch its cuz its a "family matter" but i'm not a lawyer and i quess it also depends on where in the world it would be, still about the backbone i completly agree.
She is so fucking dumb she should have called the cops immediately
@@andrefolkmann49I’ve had a slight bit of training in this field. This is literally illegal on so many levels. Even with family, authorities would not dismiss that. She would win the case with any amount of evidence and support.
@@L-ghtlessSky oh well, good thing i said i could be very very wrong 😅 , thank you for clarifying 👍
Why is OP avoiding lawsuits like they're allergic?? I would have already sued the brother to financial nonexistence the first time
✨ Lawyer fees ✨
@@X_Shadow_Wolf_Xthat’s a terrible excuse for a poorly written fiction story lol lawyer fees aren’t as much as 1000s of dollars stolen from you
Can I ask, what would she gain sueing her dead beat brother other than more debt from lawyer fees
Also you can get back legal fees ig
@@arjundhaliwal8853 also does she really need a lawyer for something so obvious?
Omg how can one person be this naive? Just take him to court, my god! You would easily win your case cause you quite literally have evidence, and he told you that he did it.
Op obviously can’t afford to take him to court you need 10s of thousands of dollars to even consider court as an option
Yeah sometimes these ai stories aren’t very believable
First of all no bank would ever allow this to be done over the phone not that much money, that has to be done in person, and second, no one can 'force' anyone else to do anything they don't want to it's still 'your ' choice no matter what. Even if a gun is to your head, you have a choice, you can fight, you can be quiet, you can go out screaming, it's your choice. So yeah I'm calling BS!
A lot of reddit stories on videos like this are ai or completely made up, so yeah, This one is definitely bullshit. No Bank in their right mind would allow someone to pull out $75,000 without A bunch of confirmation and no person with the right mind will forgive someone that easily that has done something like that.
this woman pisses me off, why didnt she call the cops the first time and get her money back????
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They can arrest him, but since he already used the money, there is a small chance that they get that back if it was gambling debt from all legal service. She’s not giving that money back
I get what you mean, but taking out charges on family isn't an easy thing to do. And before anyone starts on the 'yes it is it's not that hard grow some balls' or whatever, I can actually speak a little on this cause I'm in a similar situation with my brother. He's stolen somewhere around 30k from me over the last couple years. He makes more money than me and I still pay his car insurance and phone bill. I'm perfectly aware I'm being manipulated and used but he knows exactly how to do it, and whenever I try to confront him over it he starts acting exactly like our dad used to and I just shut down. I've thought about just moving out(yes I live with him rent is expensive and he pays his full half of the rent about 85% of the time) and letting him figure things out on his own but then our mom gets involved and breaks out the waterworks and she's disabled and lives in a care home close to where we live which is a big part of her not wanting me to leave.
I've definitely strayed away from the point here but yeah filing charges against your brother is not an easy thing at all to do emotionally. No matter how justified or how much other people convince you, even when you know intellectually they're right......he's still your brother.
@@cheykchey not to be rude but your brother sounds like a dick, your only reason that you keep letting yourself be manipulated is because he's family, that is not what family does to each other, he should be helping you out just as much as you help him out and you need to get your point across to your parents so don't fall for those crocodile tears.
why are you pissed off at her?she didn't steal her brothers money and max all his cards out
Op needs a thing called a spine
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@@armored6234 dam auto correct
@@riyadhasan4564😂😂😂
Literally no balls
Imagine your money getting stolen and your parents dont care
Okay, usually I would LOVE your stories but wtf? Why did she forgive him? That is so... Sickening.
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You would be surprised family can easily push you into being something they want it's hard...especially cause I had a golden brother that could do no wrong I still live with my manipulative mom cause I'm not old enough enough to move yet
I know right? This story has to be bs
Cause she’s a doormat
So people Just can't gnc
Op needs to learn what manipulation is. Also, learn what cops, and lawsuits are. Along with how to stand up for themself more.
OP needs to have a backbone and file a lawsuit cause this is BS and no way ill let 75k money gone so quickly
Also ive heard someone say : dont trust your family or your closest friends with valuable information and OP did the opposite of that she needs to have a DAMN BACKBONE and stand up for her rights...
She does not have enough MONEY
For the people from the short 0:53
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Thx 🙏
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Thanks man
Thank you
You can sue for every single penny!
GROW A GODDAMN SPINE GIRL??????
This is the worst thing ever… why did u even forgive him in the first place though.. fell bad for ya 😢😢😢
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No way I’d let 75k slide for some bs memory from my childhood. Get a grip girl.
Feels insane the bank didn't automatically flag it as fraud and op didn't try to get it voided.
The only reason the op didn’t take that down court is because lawyers are super expensive it costs a lot just to have one meeting with them
( not from personal experience some of my relatives told me when they took things to court )
This story is honestly pissing me off shes not taking any action and its just pure “forgive and forget”
Op should have pressed charges
OP should call the police n force him to pay her back for the first time... btw her family is totally biased, that is not even a small amount of money
I'm not one for blaming the victim, but wtf?? No way in hell am I EVER forgiving someone who steals my entire life savings to pay off their own gambling debt.
0:36 for shorts
why even give him a second chance…why was there even a first chance and why is she so weak and pathetic to forgive him it’s depressing
Why you don’t sue him
That shit is expensive
Fr@@AntBoi14
She needs to have proof that he did that she might have proof tho idk
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✨ Lawyer fees ✨
@@X_Shadow_Wolf_Xlawyer fees are nothing compared to 75 k lol
Bro, I swear this can’t be it all!
Honestly because of OPs idiotic behavior i started rooting for jim to keep stealing money
The first stab was made by my mother. Then my dad! They could never truly defend me against their siblings and I’ll probably always resent them for that 🤬
Unless Bro is offering to payback by selling a kidney there is no forgiveness in this one. Sueing him will at the least improve her credit score
You get a confession through recording, and charge him and the parents for knowing he stole and keeping it a secret
If that were to happen to me I would scream my lungs out
Should have just put brother in jail in the first place. Never let people take things from you.
Just sue him 😂
Op should have called the cops immediately instead she decided to
Op really should have sued the brother
0:52
If you came from the short this is where it left off on
Thanks bro
GIRL- CALL.THE.POLICE!
HOW MUCH FAMILY'S DOES BRO HAVE
$75,000 is a huge amount of money! I’m sorry, family or not, I’d have gone to the police.
I had the same thought.
You crazy as hell I wouldn’t even want to see my parents if that happened. I would say run me my $80,000 first.
Idk why people doesn't underline the consequences first, wat if it happens again ?
This is the weakest person I've ever heard 😭
Why didn't she just take him to court to get the money back??
op is a fucking doormat. they needed to call the cops and sue long ago. i can't even fathom forgiving a sibling if they've done that. and going back.
Why did she not call the cops
Coz she is a doormat.
Yeah
@@JasonsuthidaSuthidajasonfr i was looking for this comment
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Never trust drug or gambling addicts! Even if they recover, the addiction NEVER goes away. It lays dormant, but never goes away. OP keeps getting burned and fails to learn from it. No sympathy here.
Interestingly enough the parents offered to pay back what he's stole
0:49 for people from the short
I don’t think Credit Cards work that way? She literally could’ve called the card company to refund the whole thing. If not, just sue.
It doesn't make sense to me.
Why did you not call the police? You are the A for letting him back into your life!
Too bad you push over, how could you forgive him
Why dont you sue the crap out of him?
His dept will go to the negative millions
Ever heard of the police??
Exactly thank you
I feel sorry for OP. The first time she was trick but the second time is her own fault. This is why shouldn't forgive and forget so easily
You can never win against the casino, the house will always have an advantage
how do you access Savings account via credit card?
OP should've called for fraud and sued her brother.
If this was real they would have gone to the police
Takeout? No, take out all your money
So the credit card company said “no” to OP getting her money back because the someone, not authorized to use that card, who used it was faaaamily?
Family or no family, thief is a thief. I would go to police immediately. She got used by her family. 😔
just in a room with your parents... AND HAVE A RANDOM ASS ELEPHANT
It’s technically fraud so she could have sued and gotten the money possibly two times
this is rage bait btw
does the law not apply to these people??? because that's what the op surly thinks.
I was really hoping she wouldn't bring the cards to Thanksgiving.
You should have called the cops and sued him
Your family completely abandoned you to keep the peace. Stop letting them have access to you. They are taking advantage of you. Straighten your spine, acknowledge that your trust has been abused and taken advantage of. Jim needs to be charged and your parents don’t deserve to have access to you.
Funny fact, they would have to deny the charges
Y didn't u sue him
He stole ur money
Why did she not sue him‼️
0:50 for people who came from shorts
OP is hella dumb forgiving him twice after he betrayed them twice
You should’ve sued him for all of your money back and even more
I would have left my family for a long time to get right again.
0:50 for short viewers
What country is this in? Because if this is in America you should call police for identity theft
A person with no boundaries tends to test other people to see how much they can get away with before pushing the limit. I would have called the cops on him the first time it happened…no way am I risking my future for some loser with gambling debt
On his grandma’s grave? Bro’s insane
Maybe I’m petty but I wouldn’t had forgiven him the first time
Bro sue him
OP should of notified the police and sued them for everything
We need those settings lil bro 😭
We would be boxing.
Now normally I would give stories a chance but this is definitely ai written. The way it goes off into rants with weirdly specific and non-relevant details, the long spiels and writing style all point to ai.
My parents would get the big fuxk off and press charges against my brother.
i swear these people in these crazy stories are so dumb, call the damn cops the first time and get twice your money back
Can’t u sue him?
u know there is a thing called a chargeback
Bruh this is UNFORGIVABLE
Sue the mtfk
Fr sue him for 10 times the amount he stole
You didn't took your brother to Cort and he had the adasiti to do it again took him to Cort even if you can't get the money back(I'm sure you will plus a emotional damage money)don't let him to be at peas
It’s court and audacity I don’t know what the last one is
@@kingbobby1sti think he means, “dont let the peace continue”
@@kingbobby1st Thank you for telling me the correct way to write the words, and I meant to not let him be at peace, to have the stress of the court, and that I know that you will win in the court😉❤️
@@samafeyzi understandable have a good day
#relatable 😊
If all y’all are gonna say hey, just stop talking, zip your mouth shut and go away stop talking
if they did it once they can and will do it again, sue them
So sad too bad. She is obviously emotionally handicapped if she forgives so easily.
Never give people accsess to your card. NEVER! always give them cash. And give it as a gift not a loan, Because itll be a bigger headache to get it back
0:55
Why do the parents in these stories always suck so much
I have no problem believing this. Sounds like the brother is a criminal that gets enabled by his parents, to his own sister’s detriment. And when she reaches her limit, the parents manipulate her back with these stories and memories.