Loved it. Most of the time couples loose spark in long distance relationship and things get boring quickly. Luckily we found a fun way to have new topics to talk about everyday, with a couple questions game - lovify. Thanks for giving such great insightful video :)
Me and my girl met through a penpal site while I was incarcerated. We’ve been a couple for about three years now and I’m out of prison. She’s from Scandinavia, 9 hr time difference. She came to visit for two and a half month. We had good times and bad times while she was here. She’s been back home for about 3 months now(In Svergie) and it’s even harder now to be away from her now that we’ve been physical…we text and FaceTime everyday. It’s hard , so hard, to trust and feel content. Long distance can really hurt , depending on how much your “in love”. If the true desire is there, to have a loyal , loving relationship, then it’s possible…but not w/o sacrifice and some suffering. Make sure your BOTH equally committed and loyal.
Back after watching this almost 2 years ago when my partner and I began long distance because I still resonate so deeply with the advice. I identify a lot with Lisa’s POV so it’s great to hear Tom’s advice which helps me understand my partner a lot better, too. I love this channel!!
Went off on a tangent there eh? lol I do enjoy these topics because they are very relevant. Can you add a section for actionable tips? For example, while you answered the question “stay obsessed etc...” there really weren’t examples or actions we can take. I.e what does “stay obsessed” look like on both sides? Especially with today’s technology, it can also get too much right?
Me and my ex are talking again but while we were dating we were long distance and will be going back to it if we start again. I’m in the military and so when we met I was going back home on leave I became instantly enamored with her but I didn’t know anything about her I was lucky and she kinda stalked me and contacted after I left. We obsessed about each other day for 4 months straight. Unfortunately the stress of life came on and I wasn’t as caring and as attentive as I should’ve been so we parted ways. Fast forward a year later and I’m deployed and we’re talking again. She’s still going through a lot in life but I realize now that I just need to be there for her when she wants to open up and talk. A lot happened to her while we weren’t talking stuff that really hurt her and not be able to trust people. I wanna be there for her while she heals and write all the wrongs I made. Even if in the end we never get back together atleast I was obsessed and put my first foot forward in caring for her. I never wanna regret loving someone and so I’ll always love with all my heart
My sweetheart says he cant live without me. But he blocks me everyday when he leavess. Am i stupid? Im afraid hes living a double life. I wish someone could clue me in.
He's trying to stop himself from contacting you knowing that he can't do it if you're visible to him. It is incredibly difficult for a man to ignore a woman he loves.
I’m in a long distance relationship. He lives 2 hours away from me. The last time was when he was trying to take me home but his van died. I haven’t seen him in like a month or two. He misses me a lot, he misses looking at me. I feel unsure of my feelings but I don’t know why. Maybe it’s the distance
@@saaddhillxn I work most weekends. It’s hard being in a long distance relationship. Like sometimes I question my feelings a lot but I don’t know why maybe it’s the distance
I love you Lisa and Tom, you guys are so authentic and genuine and really from the heart. Thanks you for doing shows like this. I so appreciate it. And Tom you make so much sense to me. Lisa you are so profound. I always look forward to your shows.
I’m heading for a 4+ year LDR Gonna be so tough but we are determined to make it work I think if your also heading for that make sure you guys are gonna see each other every other months whenever you can I’ll be in Switzerland and her in Netherlands Not too far but our unis are rlly strict on holidays but idk wish us luck 😅
I feel you, going to do long distance now 9hrs apart but it’s not the first time and we’ve been together for 7years we will try to make this work , I hope yours works out 🙌just stay connected !
@@nadineharrison751 congratulations for the 7 years! I’m sure no matter the distance you guys will make it if u managed to already do 7 years it’s meant to be Goodluck and thank you so much we got this ❤️🩹❤️🩹
hello im 56 yrs old ,i dont know every relationship is not working,actually i have no experiences much when im young,so i feel hard to handle..im inlove quickly now at my age,there so many guys like me,but were have a month of two or more then suddenly he lost,
Me and my S.O. spend up to 3 months apart. And hes bad at communication. I def just turn it off and work on myself harder. The only thing thats helped is receiving a promise ring. I like the "slaying dragons" quote. ❤❤❤
if you need to work on your "couple" after 20 years of relationship, then is a forced relationship. Forced relationships, are socially constructed, but not healthy, what drives people to be "working so much time" is deep fear to be alone, not real connection. Working on a forced couple, goes against individual development. Get free from forced couples, develop yourself, and correct partners will arrive.
It depends on whether or not your partner is okay with it. If they are, then it's all good. If not, try to avoid it. But honesty & talking about it is key.
Dating long distance? No. Let's be honest. We all need closeness...emotional and physical. The physical is the hardest. Especially for men. It's not ideal obviously and it's not worth it. If you are settled where you are with your job,family, and friends...it's best to find someone in town.
Women can do it for way longer than men because we need to be close, now if he had some friend with benefits until u can see the other girl when she is ready. U won't be all pressed for it
we always quarrel my wife cos member Dating Com,my dates on line,singles,looking partner,find true love ,i always keep secret to my wife bank acct,im liar to her but everytime she read my membership to all Bigo live, moment,games,we always discussion im liar secret all my info social media we.33.years married catholic,what can you advice to me tnks
Loved it. Most of the time couples loose spark in long distance relationship and things get boring quickly. Luckily we found a fun way to have new topics to talk about everyday, with a couple questions game - lovify. Thanks for giving such great insightful video :)
Me and my girl met through a penpal site while I was incarcerated. We’ve been a couple for about three years now and I’m out of prison. She’s from Scandinavia, 9 hr time difference. She came to visit for two and a half month. We had good times and bad times while she was here. She’s been back home for about 3 months now(In Svergie) and it’s even harder now to be away from her now that we’ve been physical…we text and FaceTime everyday. It’s hard , so hard, to trust and feel content. Long distance can really hurt , depending on how much your “in love”. If the true desire is there, to have a loyal , loving relationship, then it’s possible…but not w/o sacrifice and some suffering. Make sure your BOTH equally committed and loyal.
Back after watching this almost 2 years ago when my partner and I began long distance because I still resonate so deeply with the advice. I identify a lot with Lisa’s POV so it’s great to hear Tom’s advice which helps me understand my partner a lot better, too. I love this channel!!
I beleive in LDR as long both of you are honest and have faith in god nothing is imposible
Went off on a tangent there eh? lol I do enjoy these topics because they are very relevant. Can you add a section for actionable tips? For example, while you answered the question “stay obsessed etc...” there really weren’t examples or actions we can take. I.e what does “stay obsessed” look like on both sides? Especially with today’s technology, it can also get too much right?
Me and my ex are talking again but while we were dating we were long distance and will be going back to it if we start again. I’m in the military and so when we met I was going back home on leave I became instantly enamored with her but I didn’t know anything about her I was lucky and she kinda stalked me and contacted after I left. We obsessed about each other day for 4 months straight. Unfortunately the stress of life came on and I wasn’t as caring and as attentive as I should’ve been so we parted ways. Fast forward a year later and I’m deployed and we’re talking again. She’s still going through a lot in life but I realize now that I just need to be there for her when she wants to open up and talk. A lot happened to her while we weren’t talking stuff that really hurt her and not be able to trust people. I wanna be there for her while she heals and write all the wrongs I made. Even if in the end we never get back together atleast I was obsessed and put my first foot forward in caring for her. I never wanna regret loving someone and so I’ll always love with all my heart
I’m so confused, it says to this, a long distance relationship, but then nothing was talked about other than not asking if they want olives…
How do u deal with negative thoughts, they kinda stay in ur mind and u don't want them there and its just irritating to have those thoughts
6:20 the 6 month part it just giving negativity, i regret watching this
Tom thank you , for expressing your feelings as a man on being apart that it hurts , I thot it was just me over emotional, thank you I am ok
My sweetheart says he cant live without me. But he blocks me everyday when he leavess. Am i stupid? Im afraid hes living a double life. I wish someone could clue me in.
He's trying to stop himself from contacting you knowing that he can't do it if you're visible to him. It is incredibly difficult for a man to ignore a woman he loves.
I’m in a long distance relationship. He lives 2 hours away from me. The last time was when he was trying to take me home but his van died. I haven’t seen him in like a month or two. He misses me a lot, he misses looking at me. I feel unsure of my feelings but I don’t know why. Maybe it’s the distance
2 hours is nothing though? Maybe meet each other on the weekend?
@@saaddhillxn I work most weekends. It’s hard being in a long distance relationship. Like sometimes I question my feelings a lot but I don’t know why maybe it’s the distance
2:14 Let's Goooooo 90iezz
Did anyone else notice how she listens so respectfully but unfortunately the guy is quite bad at interrupting.
I love you Lisa and Tom, you guys are so authentic and genuine and really from the heart. Thanks you for doing shows like this. I so appreciate it. And Tom you make so much sense to me. Lisa you are so profound. I always look forward to your shows.
ill try many times i wish i can find ,its my desire now to have before its too late,if im deserving to find
I’m heading for a 4+ year LDR
Gonna be so tough but we are determined to make it work
I think if your also heading for that make sure you guys are gonna see each other every other months whenever you can
I’ll be in Switzerland and her in Netherlands
Not too far but our unis are rlly strict on holidays but idk wish us luck 😅
I feel you, going to do long distance now 9hrs apart but it’s not the first time and we’ve been together for 7years we will try to make this work , I hope yours works out 🙌just stay connected !
@@nadineharrison751 congratulations for the 7 years! I’m sure no matter the distance you guys will make it if u managed to already do 7 years it’s meant to be
Goodluck and thank you so much we got this ❤️🩹❤️🩹
hello im 56 yrs old ,i dont know every relationship is not working,actually i have no experiences much when im young,so i feel hard to handle..im inlove quickly now at my age,there so many guys like me,but were have a month of two or more then suddenly he lost,
6:30 it’s been 18 months since I’ve seen her. I deployed. Trust me.
Great
Me and my S.O. spend up to 3 months apart. And hes bad at communication. I def just turn it off and work on myself harder. The only thing thats helped is receiving a promise ring. I like the "slaying dragons" quote. ❤❤❤
The only word I kept hearing from this guy was the word "LIKE" that's IT!!.🧐🤔😂🤣💥👊
if you need to work on your "couple" after 20 years of relationship, then is a forced relationship. Forced relationships, are socially constructed, but not healthy, what drives people to be "working so much time" is deep fear to be alone, not real connection. Working on a forced couple, goes against individual development.
Get free from forced couples, develop yourself, and correct partners will arrive.
I give this 3 years
Hahaha 🤣 you guys are awesome and cute. ☺️☺️
Hey
Me and my partner play question card games
He totally forgot her name in the intro 😂😂😂
Hi guys, I'd like to ask - is porn cheating?
Thank you both a ton for what you guys do.
Yes, yes.
No
It depends on whether or not your partner is okay with it. If they are, then it's all good. If not, try to avoid it. But honesty & talking about it is key.
Only if it's affecting your relationship.
Dating long distance? No. Let's be honest. We all need closeness...emotional and physical. The physical is the hardest. Especially for men. It's not ideal obviously and it's not worth it. If you are settled where you are with your job,family, and friends...it's best to find someone in town.
True, that is definitely ideal
Women can do it for way longer than men because we need to be close, now if he had some friend with benefits until u can see the other girl when she is ready. U won't be all pressed for it
Watch 90 day fiancé. Some of these couples are mind-boggling, but inspiring.
Speak for yourself
Normies
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we always quarrel my wife cos member Dating Com,my dates on line,singles,looking partner,find true love ,i always keep secret to my wife bank acct,im liar to her but everytime she read my membership to all Bigo live, moment,games,we always discussion im liar secret all my info social media we.33.years married catholic,what can you advice to me tnks
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