Are your coping mechanisms healthy? | Dr. Andrew Miki | TEDxSurrey

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  • @Tara_Achkar
    @Tara_Achkar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    What a crucial message! Thank you, Andrew, for sharing it! I hadn't previously considered the connection between self-confidence and mental health, but your talk is truly empowering individuals to take control of their mental well-being. I'm grateful for all the insights and reminders you've provided!

  • @dr___gonz5488
    @dr___gonz5488 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Changing the habits to drive better mental health is the key. Thanks for sharing a personal story and tying it to your views as a psychologist. Perfecting timing for me as a new father!

  • @littleupchuckable
    @littleupchuckable 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This just made more sense to me than all of the books or other videos I've watched combined. Thank you. It's giving me a place to start by helping me explain it.

  • @zorananairon6668
    @zorananairon6668 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent talk, Andrew! Really important considerations when raising the next generation and looking after our own well-being!!

  • @chingneo
    @chingneo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    I Just realised i use my phone way way too much when i am anxious about something and i am very very distracted during these episodes. This is my unhealthy coping mechanism which is getting worse day by day. I just don't know what to do. The uncertainty of certain things just cripple my brain. I am unsure what to do next. I have nobody to talk to about this too.

    • @levieleven908
      @levieleven908 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Samething is happening with me …repetitive manner but the only solution I found is keeping busy myself , spending more hours in gym basically you should try each and every activity which you find interesting than only we can change our neuroplasticity

    • @mazare1000
      @mazare1000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Psychologists are there to help us!

    • @levieleven908
      @levieleven908 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mazare1000 are you a psychologist

    • @mazare1000
      @mazare1000 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@levieleven908No, I'm not a psychologist. I'm attending therapy sessions, she listens to me and I follow her guidance.

    • @herasmaia1166
      @herasmaia1166 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too

  • @WaterlooS-fp8qh
    @WaterlooS-fp8qh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great talk Andrew! Your examples really helped to communicate the basic principles of mental health, coping strategies, and learning.

  • @MichaelJTimms
    @MichaelJTimms 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great and timely message that I will be sharing with everyone I care about!

  • @DianaSmith-pr5kz
    @DianaSmith-pr5kz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent talk Andrew! The concepts are clear and conveyed in a relatable manner. I have always appreciated your knowledge and wisdom.

  • @user-dmsh136
    @user-dmsh136 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks! I find this TED talk very useful. I will try to implement advices in my own life.

  • @thisunistaken
    @thisunistaken 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice talk Andrew! Really resonates - you're right that we all fall into these cycles. Thanks for sharing!

  • @martini87c
    @martini87c 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I “absorb” other people energy too much - when someone get upset or angry around me it automatically makes me anxious even though it has nothing to do with me. I wish I could fix this about myself.

    • @davidrbrtsn
      @davidrbrtsn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That empathy might be difficult in those situations, but it's also your greatest strength and what people probably find amazing about you when you channel it in the right ways ❤

    • @martini87c
      @martini87c 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@davidrbrtsn thank you I had few people tell me it’s strength too but I can’t but feel overwhelmed and moody because of that. I don’t know how to manage it in the right way.

    • @davidrbrtsn
      @davidrbrtsn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@martini87c That's where introspection and speaking with people you trust (or a therapist) could help you gain confidence, self-awareness and the ability to manage your empathy better.

    • @joannaniccitinafree
      @joannaniccitinafree 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your awareness and intent is a HUGE first step, and sharing it with us is another. Learning from talks like this is yet another. You'll get there. Keep going.

  • @alanwarburton2719
    @alanwarburton2719 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lots of powerful lessons here, Andrew. Thanks so much!

  • @amandaprelazzi5307
    @amandaprelazzi5307 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very helpful talk Andrew! This message is easy to digest and includes actions we can all put into motion. I'm sure this will help many people, me included!

  • @joshuagreen3545
    @joshuagreen3545 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Congratulations Andrew.

  • @abhijeetkumar5473
    @abhijeetkumar5473 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Really social media may be adverse effects in our lives but also effect in good way when we use it in right 👍 way

  • @sitirahmah9414
    @sitirahmah9414 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When i'm anxious, i use to talk to my self. The possibility is there, but it's just possibility. Even if it happened, i'm not gonna die because of it. Then I'll take a deep Breathe.. talk to my self.. plan something that i can control to anricipate the worst scenario in my head. Sometimes, this coping mechanism works for me, but sometimes it doesn't.

  • @stephaniedyer2639
    @stephaniedyer2639 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very helpful for me...brought a lot of clarity to how i deal with anxious thoughts...thankyou

  • @kayreeve.author
    @kayreeve.author 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A very inspiring talk. I was creating a video today about talking to teenagers in a way that they change their own mind, without being told No. You said it all perfectly. 👏👏👏

    • @FVS7252
      @FVS7252 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazing talk

  • @oliviameeres1910
    @oliviameeres1910 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic Andrew! Always a good reminder to reflect within 🙌🏼

  • @christophersturdy9536
    @christophersturdy9536 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nicely done, Andrew! Totally agree with you, especially the grunge from the 90s being the peak of music! But seriously, it gives us a lot to consider when we quickly reach for our phone.

  • @joelandes5089
    @joelandes5089 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Good timing on this post. My grandfather was just put into a medically induced coma. They don’t make ‘em like him anymore. To me this is why faith n religion are important because they give us hope for the suffering

    • @pkc68
      @pkc68 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your grandfather is very lucky to have you as his family God bless you and your family

  • @zpooky_x1004
    @zpooky_x1004 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Very interesting!

  • @drunkdadchronicles
    @drunkdadchronicles 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    removing the facebook app from my phone decreased my anxiety significantly

  • @ryanstgermaine5032
    @ryanstgermaine5032 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great talk, Andrew!

  • @jalecf7
    @jalecf7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    MUCHAS GRACIAS POR LA INFORMACIÓN ESTE Canal Es Perfecto ❤🎉lo Acepto ❤

  • @fatimazahraserghini4287
    @fatimazahraserghini4287 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great talk

  • @Ssaphos
    @Ssaphos 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My coping method is taking shower doing skincare or taking a nap

    • @FVS7252
      @FVS7252 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amazing talk

  • @wellbodisalone
    @wellbodisalone 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great speech!

  • @rezarafiie
    @rezarafiie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very useful

  • @deedieducati2272
    @deedieducati2272 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Most adults cope by eating unhealthy foods and gaining weight. Sad.

  • @1gocos
    @1gocos 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me better self talk just didn't help that much. I had to start taking action. I started with the 1% rule. Everyday I'd try and improve by 1%. This helped move me out of depression and my self talk became better. However, I would recommend realistic self talk. Don't beat yourself down needlessly.

  • @lakshaniwasana2142
    @lakshaniwasana2142 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amazing speech ❤️

  • @urielortegatorres5932
    @urielortegatorres5932 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Felicitaciones profe por su video y por su información

    • @bhumisutamajhi4854
      @bhumisutamajhi4854 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @harrypearle9781
    @harrypearle9781 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    HELPING - OTHERS to motivate ourselves, to keep trying...?
    (I believe that sharing ideas and concerns can be a great motivator) TNX MCH
    =================================================================

  • @dewa130
    @dewa130 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:01 *🐦 The connection between pigeons' learned behaviors and human coping mechanisms*
    - Learned behaviors in pigeons can parallel human coping mechanisms.
    - Coping mechanisms like procrastination or smartphone use can lead to anxiety and depression.
    - Understanding and unlearning unhelpful coping mechanisms can improve mental health.
    03:02 *📱 Impact of smartphones on self-confidence and coping mechanisms*
    - Overuse of smartphones can contribute to anxiety and low self-confidence.
    - Seeking reassurance through smartphones reinforces anxious behaviors.
    - Sitting with discomfort can strengthen resilience to anxiety.
    06:01 *🌀 The danger of relying on coping mechanisms during challenging times*
    - Coping mechanisms may fail during perfect storms of stress.
    - Overreliance on coping mechanisms can reinforce negative thoughts.
    - Awareness and breaking patterns are crucial for improving mental health.
    07:39 *🗣️ Breaking the stigma around mental health through open dialogue*
    - Talking about mental health issues is essential for uncovering unhelpful coping mechanisms.
    - Stigma surrounding mental health can hinder discussions and progress.
    - Encouraging open dialogue can lead to greater self-awareness and improved mental health.
    Made with HARPA AIcontinu

  • @jhb7230
    @jhb7230 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am watching this inspiring video even on my smartphone😂 and going to scroll down the screen when this video ends to seek assurance. Sigh😢

  • @abuhasan7.2
    @abuhasan7.2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love from Bangladesh

  • @janklaas6885
    @janklaas6885 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    📍7:42

  • @Ffgamer-i6c
    @Ffgamer-i6c 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love you english

  • @jalecf7
    @jalecf7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yo aprendo 100%

  • @aiims_delhi_is_heaven
    @aiims_delhi_is_heaven 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ted talk lovers attendance ❤

  • @sindhipoetry8716
    @sindhipoetry8716 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I want to ask 1 question I'm not use Facebook or TikTok only TH-cam in order to improve my English communication skill it good or bad , only watch English videos and news. It will help me or not please guide me.

    • @faranmustafa6084
      @faranmustafa6084 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      watch more

    • @lodila280
      @lodila280 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's fine. It not coping, you are learning. You have a goal. That 's very different from endlessly scrolling to seek reassurance

    • @davidrbrtsn
      @davidrbrtsn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is such a good and healthy use of technology... For education!

    • @9847155426
      @9847155426 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m same

    • @clairefitzpatrick7183
      @clairefitzpatrick7183 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The more interaction with people talking English the better. Always be confident, never feel like you're English isn't perfect. Mistakes are just a learning curve.

  • @m_lkr
    @m_lkr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    did Natalia agree to be talked about her on stage?
    I'd be infuriated if in her place

  • @trietdocalis
    @trietdocalis 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow wow wow

  • @melodyh4731
    @melodyh4731 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So self soothing is a bad thing?

    • @lodila280
      @lodila280 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      No, only if in the long term it has made you feel worse. Then it is an unhealthy coping mechanism.

  • @ktcooki276
    @ktcooki276 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Poor Natalia!!

  • @WAlidWd-z6u
    @WAlidWd-z6u 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @jalecf7
    @jalecf7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    En español Porfavor

  • @antibreeder1m
    @antibreeder1m 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Be vegan - animals are here with us, not for us. Be very careful with using animals for experiments.

  • @Ffgamer-i6c
    @Ffgamer-i6c 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3:16

  • @Omkar-221b
    @Omkar-221b 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jai Sadhguru ❤

  • @Geetanjali_Presents
    @Geetanjali_Presents 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Talk to whom ? Where everyone is toxic

    • @FVS7252
      @FVS7252 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazing talk

    • @Omkar-221b
      @Omkar-221b 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Geetu ...talk to me ....I will keep my toxicity aside for you and will always be there for you.

  • @SurprisedFlowerGarden-th7pf
    @SurprisedFlowerGarden-th7pf 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some one

  • @Arvkrm14u
    @Arvkrm14u 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting obviously and talking or talk out is tested advice but irony which floats n floating all over is to whom ......and then 1 entity with different names comes in reality n that is GOD......n here we hear what we say and what we say is we hear so the circles repeats....i am we and when we becomes I as whole then no one is alone......

  • @animebln.official
    @animebln.official 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    First one here I want a lot of likes

  • @Ankushtreanding
    @Ankushtreanding 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @joycejones-ivey1236
    @joycejones-ivey1236 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    L

  • @user-il5wo3uy9r
    @user-il5wo3uy9r 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Amazing talk