How to support someone without having the solution | Nash Fung | TEDxUofW

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  • @ErinKalshaw
    @ErinKalshaw หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I appreciate him using this platform not just to entertain but to spread a message of how to help others in such a simple but impactful way

  • @ruperttheprince
    @ruperttheprince หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I think this makes you think on the small moments where we can make a significant impact on others lives. It's not always about the grand gestures but the small acts of listening and being present. I like that.

  • @gabriellehalette
    @gabriellehalette 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He makes a lot of fantastic points, particularly about giving someone the space to empty themselves before going straight to solution mode

  • @NashFung
    @NashFung 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    Thank you everyone for watching my TEDx talk :)
    I hope it was helpful to you and the people you care for in your life

    • @nullandvoid7881
      @nullandvoid7881 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      thank you for sharing this story and your talents! This is just what I needed to see today

    • @irynkairu4467
      @irynkairu4467 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Absolutely inspiring, Nash! You're the best

    • @NashFung
      @NashFung 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@irynkairu4467 :) Thank you "Iryn"

    • @NashFung
      @NashFung 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@nullandvoid7881 I'm glad it was meaningful for you today

    • @sonalisingh1808
      @sonalisingh1808 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I really don't have word to explain my thoughts right now but I really want to thank you
      thanku so much

  • @veganryori
    @veganryori หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have never, ever hesitated to talk to someone going through something heavy. It's not about knowing what to say, it's not about solving problems, it's about being *present* for that person when nobody else will. It's about being human.

  • @Trilogtheking
    @Trilogtheking หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I once shared something heavy with a friend, and they immediately jumped to solutions. It felt dismissive. I wish they had just listened like you described.

  • @bvmecoaching
    @bvmecoaching หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nash- your talk was brilliant. Honestly, it’s now in my top 5 favourite Tedx of all time. So well crafted. Great job brother! 🙌🏻

  • @themighty1174
    @themighty1174 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The way he connected magic with empathetic communication was awesome! It really showed the importance of presence and genuine engagement

  • @alecbaen
    @alecbaen หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’ve definitely been in situations where I didn’t know what to say... it's nice to know I can just listen and acknowledge someone's pain, thank you.

  • @rangerstv602
    @rangerstv602 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was eye-opening! It’s so true that many people are struggling in silence. We should all strive to be more present for each other

  • @lizfalconer80
    @lizfalconer80 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What a heartfelt and warm presentation. The magic of active listening. Empathy is so powerful!

  • @coopercrank
    @coopercrank 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I legit think this is the most beautiful and actually helpful TEDx talk I've ever seen.

  • @danaha5303
    @danaha5303 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I had Nash speak to business leaders at a Chamber of Commerce event about empathic leadership and it was a big hit. He really knows how to connect with the audience in sharing a meaningful message. Everyone loved him! This is such an important message and he shares it beautifully.

  • @betterchapter
    @betterchapter 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    A best friend is the only one that walks into your life when the world has walked out

    • @basharandroun4907
      @basharandroun4907 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      اا٦نننتنهههننز نننن
      خمممنه😮٨٧خم٧٧٨هنظنممنغعععاف​@@hannesRSA

  • @SeashellShimmer
    @SeashellShimmer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Such a beautiful story, I truly think you the two of you crossed paths for a reason that night ❤

  • @nurseD718
    @nurseD718 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    One of the best TED talks in a while. Thanks for reminding everyone to keep the magic with active listening!

  • @discofevernow
    @discofevernow หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh man the 6:30 mark really made me choke up. Just the motioning to his chest... I can't explain it but I really felt it. Maybe I'm a little filled up myself

  • @basilfaulty7643
    @basilfaulty7643 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ahh why am I getting so emotional?? I feel like he is such a sweet and noble man, just the way he words things let alone what he does, it's really beautiful and I was not prepared to be so moved by it all.

  • @cruznow
    @cruznow หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Focusing on empathy is crucial, but the story leaves me wondering how often people really open up in such vulnerable ways in everyday settings

  • @emmatshields
    @emmatshields 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know exactly what he means about those moments when you have to choose to keep playing your role or drop the act and connect on a human level. This used to happen to me all the time in my workplace. It was a shop right next to one of the main train stations in the city and allll kinds would come through.

  • @claudiusandika5366
    @claudiusandika5366 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    "the magic of your presence, today"

  • @ulisseditaque
    @ulisseditaque 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I get what he's talking about around the 3:20 mark. It's like it frees you up to find the solution together and also because you're not coming at them with a "I know all" kind of attitude, it makes you more endearing. That's what I think anyway

  • @nfajeff
    @nfajeff 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    i LOVE this!!! NASH, you are an amazing speaker, magician and human. your message is deep and profound. authentically connecting with each other is so incredibly important. i wish the whole world would know the wisdom in your talk. wonderfully done. thank you...

  • @brendamandrak2863
    @brendamandrak2863 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Marvellous speech. So many times I have felt too uneducated and useless when listening to others share woes with me but now I see my quiet listening was at least something for them in that sad moment. Thank you.

  • @atiegs
    @atiegs 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Nash Fung is one of the most genuine human beings I know. I love how he can inspire by utilizing his talents to keep you entertained!

  • @MichelleGrondine
    @MichelleGrondine 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    sobbing this was so so so touching and such a good reminder to stay present in every interaction you have

  • @nahidkhan4306
    @nahidkhan4306 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the best TED talks I'v ever seen...🥰😇
    Amazing

  • @saltypea33
    @saltypea33 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderful talk with a beautiful message 👏👏👏

  • @ImEaBr-qm1pu
    @ImEaBr-qm1pu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are a brilliant magician and a beautiful human being!❤

  • @CroonGirl
    @CroonGirl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The idea that not knowing what to say can lead to better support is interesting, but I'm skeptical about how practical this approach is in real-world situations outside of a controlled environment

  • @aliciastach-ottenstror1747
    @aliciastach-ottenstror1747 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Whether on stage or strolling the town, you’re always the most kind, open minded, and non judgmental person I know. Thank you for sharing your passion for connecting on a human level and sharing tools to help us learn how to apply them 💜

  • @kariparks123
    @kariparks123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well said Nash! Always an OG fan👏👏👏

  • @DrMargaretRutherford
    @DrMargaretRutherford 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This lesson is something I practice every day as a therapist. I so appreciate Nash's support of asking the simple questions or making simple comments first. He's so right that they can mean the world to someone.

  • @liza-zotova
    @liza-zotova 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this so much! It's such a daunting feeling when you want to help but do'nt really know how

  • @meiliho2526
    @meiliho2526 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are an amazing speaker, Nash. Thank you so much for your sharing. It’s so inspiring!

  • @curiositybased
    @curiositybased 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nash! This was magical! Love the personal stories and the way you presented it.

  • @rinanoshinikov
    @rinanoshinikov 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a beautiful message, will be sharing it, thank you

  • @kevinkwong8856
    @kevinkwong8856 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Nash, thank you for sharing your story. You do great things for humanity!
    -J

  • @Demitriscocktails
    @Demitriscocktails 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Magic, but not in his tricks, magic in his words!

  • @hauvamizo2145
    @hauvamizo2145 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    "The people search for an ear to listen, but found mouth."

    • @Sacred-Lotus
      @Sacred-Lotus 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True. Mouths in multiple, usually loud and not helpful. 😥

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Follow your instinct ! Listen to yourself not people !

  • @christinabarone8021
    @christinabarone8021 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    👏 funny, kind, and inspiring. Nash is a magical human being! Thank you for sharing.

  • @KariKeegan-g2x
    @KariKeegan-g2x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Always enjoy Nash's insights!

    • @NashFung
      @NashFung 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      :) Thank you Kari !

  • @aadeshbagmar1
    @aadeshbagmar1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Nash is amazing!! Always love his stories! ❤

  • @harmonylifewithjess1593
    @harmonylifewithjess1593 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just LOVED this so much. Totally relatable in my everyday existence. 🙌❤️

  • @TheFrEd1FReD
    @TheFrEd1FReD 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you Nash Fung

  • @stephaniebriggs1296
    @stephaniebriggs1296 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely magical, 😂, inspiring and educational talk! Thank you for demonstrating genuine leadership is such a thoughtful and entertaining way.

  • @keithtsang522
    @keithtsang522 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nash, ur amazing. Can’t imagine u did it with Ted and u very well deserved. 🎉congratulations

  • @alanglazen9430
    @alanglazen9430 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are truly a magician of the heart Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @jacobdewers
    @jacobdewers หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    While I appreciate the sentiment, I wonder if simply listening is enough in every situation. Sometimes people need actionable help too.

    • @NashFung
      @NashFung หลายเดือนก่อน

      Though every situation is different, for the vast majority, choosing to be present for someone, to listen, to help them feel understood & heard is a good start. Of course, if we can proceed to help guide someone to their solutions, that's even better!
      The flip-side of that is people hesitate to offer support because they fear not knowing how to help someone resolve their challenges, which renders the other person suffering alone :(
      But what I had learned is, the simple act of reaching out in it of itself is helpful. (I think there's a research that shows people feel 70% better just because someone reached out). So I hope this talk can help someone resolve those "fears" so they can support others in need :)

  • @zeeshanhanif1403
    @zeeshanhanif1403 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the best Ted talks ever watched ❤

  • @boundlessrob5418
    @boundlessrob5418 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Incredible talk ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @Sunshinesinthesky
    @Sunshinesinthesky 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Beautifully delivered and inspiring! Well done! ❤

  • @julianfritzer
    @julianfritzer หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Using a Rubik’s Cube and a jar filled with water as metaphors for problem-solving and emotional support was a clever choice! Even without it being a whole magic trick lol

  • @elanchantel
    @elanchantel 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow Nash this is beautiful ❤

  • @stevenchau8982
    @stevenchau8982 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great performance! I love it!

  • @MadonnaGrogan
    @MadonnaGrogan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderfull insights, active listening really helps

  • @mem1701movies
    @mem1701movies 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’d love it if someone TRIED to solve my problems. I mean really TRY. Not the laziest thing off the top of their head.

  • @SadahamMandiraya
    @SadahamMandiraya 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A masterpiece ❤

  • @lonjemariesfashions5117
    @lonjemariesfashions5117 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is amazing thank you 🙏🏾 It always amazes me how we serve an on-time. Perfect God I did support someone right before I clicked on this video. I let them know I’m here for you.

  • @ivangohome
    @ivangohome 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Impressive....

  • @OlenaFoxyUA
    @OlenaFoxyUA 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Super! So wisdom!

  • @hclau9511
    @hclau9511 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for your sharing!it s useful and inspiring !

  • @jarrettstock9082
    @jarrettstock9082 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love Mexican food, I wish I was there to see your first magic, I had the chance to see it when we went to university together, close enough.
    The magic lives on

  • @kornchanokraksaseri3884
    @kornchanokraksaseri3884 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you! 🙏

  • @popupsoshealing
    @popupsoshealing 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wonderful!

  • @sheshe5049
    @sheshe5049 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Powerful ❤

  • @saradoolittle9986
    @saradoolittle9986 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fantastic!!

  • @yagneshbhise5717
    @yagneshbhise5717 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderful 🙌🏻

  • @Souad-p3m
    @Souad-p3m 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wow that was great 😊

  • @apolitik
    @apolitik 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amazing

  • @binilasebastian4569
    @binilasebastian4569 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Awesome

  • @BrassTacksEventsBTE
    @BrassTacksEventsBTE 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    👏👏👏👏👏

  • @raphae-landres
    @raphae-landres 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    pretty fancy shuffling with that card trick

  • @mem1701movies
    @mem1701movies 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How did he do that CUBE trick?

  • @shreyashraj6906
    @shreyashraj6906 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @wickedboy5535
    @wickedboy5535 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Not understand all the things 😢

  • @Adarsh_lata
    @Adarsh_lata 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Be careful

  • @Petra-k2c
    @Petra-k2c 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    psychprofile AI fixes this. Support without providing solutions.

  • @mariaantoniettamontella9173
    @mariaantoniettamontella9173 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    applausi

  • @Adarsh_lata
    @Adarsh_lata 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Card mix up

  • @Maria-w9h6s
    @Maria-w9h6s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I will be forever grateful to you, you changed my whole life and I will continue to preach on your behalf for the whole world to hear you saved me from huge financial debt with just a small investment, thank you Brenda Devore

    • @Sebastian-s9h
      @Sebastian-s9h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow. I'm a bit perplexed seeing her been mentioned here also Didn't know she has been good to so many people too this is wonderful, i'm in my fifth trade with her and it has been super.

    • @Lucas-j7q
      @Lucas-j7q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The first step to successful investing is figuring out your goals and risk tolerance either on your own or with the help of a financial professional but is very advisable you make use of a professional.

  • @Adarsh_lata
    @Adarsh_lata 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Volo

  • @Adarsh_lata
    @Adarsh_lata 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Green house today

  • @pensivepenguin3000
    @pensivepenguin3000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Maybe I’m wrong, but it seems like bro was more impressed with his own performative good deed and sweet magic trick than actual concern for the lady at the restaurant. The basic message here wasn’t bad but I got kind of a weird disingenuous feeling from the talk

  • @krishnaphirke7458
    @krishnaphirke7458 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Eps 95चे पेन्शन मिळणार नाही एवढं ध्यानात घ्या .

  • @alanwbell
    @alanwbell 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whoa I had no idea cold case playing cards were a thing? That seems incredibly morbid. I get wanting to bring more awareness to the cases but whose really going to choose to buy a deck of cards like that?

  • @OneaeBlack
    @OneaeBlack 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fun Loving Magic.