How to support someone without having the solution | Nash Fung | TEDxUofW

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  • We all like to be helpful when someone is experiencing emotional pain, yet sometimes we hesitate to offer support because we don’t know what to say or how to solve their problems. However, as a crisis line volunteer, Nash Fung learned that those self-perceived incapabilities can actually help us provide better emotional support.
    Nash Fung is a keynote speaker who uses magic to inspire his audience. Since 2005 he works as a professional magician by day and a crisis line volunteer by night. This unique journey taught him many meaningful lessons on empathy and human connections. As a keynote speaker, he shares these lessons to empower his audiences to create a more supportive & compassionate culture. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @NashFung
    @NashFung 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +121

    Thank you everyone for watching my TEDx talk :)
    I hope it was helpful to you and the people you care for in your life

    • @nullandvoid7881
      @nullandvoid7881 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      thank you for sharing this story and your talents! This is just what I needed to see today

    • @irynkairu4467
      @irynkairu4467 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Absolutely inspiring, Nash! You're the best

    • @NashFung
      @NashFung 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@irynkairu4467 :) Thank you "Iryn"

    • @NashFung
      @NashFung 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@nullandvoid7881 I'm glad it was meaningful for you today

    • @sonalisingh2161
      @sonalisingh2161 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I really don't have word to explain my thoughts right now but I really want to thank you
      thanku so much

  • @betterchapter
    @betterchapter 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    A best friend is the only one that walks into your life when the world has walked out

    • @hannesRSA
      @hannesRSA 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      People will conveniently forget about you or avoid you. I can't tell whether I used to react the same, so it might be deserved to be isolated entirely and permanently.

    • @basharandroun4907
      @basharandroun4907 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      اا٦نننتنهههننز نننن
      خمممنه😮٨٧خم٧٧٨هنظنممنغعععاف​@@hannesRSA

  • @coopercrank
    @coopercrank 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I legit think this is the most beautiful and actually helpful TEDx talk I've ever seen.

  • @danaha5303
    @danaha5303 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I had Nash speak to business leaders at a Chamber of Commerce event about empathic leadership and it was a big hit. He really knows how to connect with the audience in sharing a meaningful message. Everyone loved him! This is such an important message and he shares it beautifully.

  • @nurseD718
    @nurseD718 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    One of the best TED talks in a while. Thanks for reminding everyone to keep the magic with active listening!

  • @claudiusandika5366
    @claudiusandika5366 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    "the magic of your presence, today"

  • @hauvamizo2145
    @hauvamizo2145 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    "The people search for an ear to listen, but found mouth."

    • @Sacred-Lotus
      @Sacred-Lotus 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      True. Mouths in multiple, usually loud and not helpful. 😥

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Follow your instinct ! Listen to yourself not people !

  • @basilfaulty7643
    @basilfaulty7643 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ahh why am I getting so emotional?? I feel like he is such a sweet and noble man, just the way he words things let alone what he does, it's really beautiful and I was not prepared to be so moved by it all.

  • @ulisseditaque
    @ulisseditaque 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I get what he's talking about around the 3:20 mark. It's like it frees you up to find the solution together and also because you're not coming at them with a "I know all" kind of attitude, it makes you more endearing. That's what I think anyway

  • @nfajeff
    @nfajeff 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    i LOVE this!!! NASH, you are an amazing speaker, magician and human. your message is deep and profound. authentically connecting with each other is so incredibly important. i wish the whole world would know the wisdom in your talk. wonderfully done. thank you...

  • @atiegs
    @atiegs 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Nash Fung is one of the most genuine human beings I know. I love how he can inspire by utilizing his talents to keep you entertained!

  • @aliciastach-ottenstror1747
    @aliciastach-ottenstror1747 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Whether on stage or strolling the town, you’re always the most kind, open minded, and non judgmental person I know. Thank you for sharing your passion for connecting on a human level and sharing tools to help us learn how to apply them 💜

  • @lizfalconer80
    @lizfalconer80 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a heartfelt and warm presentation. The magic of active listening. Empathy is so powerful!

  • @SeashellShimmer
    @SeashellShimmer 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Such a beautiful story, I truly think you the two of you crossed paths for a reason that night ❤

  • @brendamandrak2863
    @brendamandrak2863 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Marvellous speech. So many times I have felt too uneducated and useless when listening to others share woes with me but now I see my quiet listening was at least something for them in that sad moment. Thank you.

  • @DrMargaretRutherford
    @DrMargaretRutherford 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This lesson is something I practice every day as a therapist. I so appreciate Nash's support of asking the simple questions or making simple comments first. He's so right that they can mean the world to someone.

  • @liza-zotova
    @liza-zotova 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love this so much! It's such a daunting feeling when you want to help but do'nt really know how

  • @emmatshields
    @emmatshields 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I know exactly what he means about those moments when you have to choose to keep playing your role or drop the act and connect on a human level. This used to happen to me all the time in my workplace. It was a shop right next to one of the main train stations in the city and allll kinds would come through.

  • @MichelleGrondine
    @MichelleGrondine 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    sobbing this was so so so touching and such a good reminder to stay present in every interaction you have

  • @kevinkwong8856
    @kevinkwong8856 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Nash, thank you for sharing your story. You do great things for humanity!
    -J

  • @ImEaBr-qm1pu
    @ImEaBr-qm1pu 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are a brilliant magician and a beautiful human being!❤

  • @KariKeegan-g2x
    @KariKeegan-g2x 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Always enjoy Nash's insights!

    • @NashFung
      @NashFung 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      :) Thank you Kari !

  • @curiositybased
    @curiositybased 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Nash! This was magical! Love the personal stories and the way you presented it.

  • @rinanoshinikov
    @rinanoshinikov 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Such a beautiful message, will be sharing it, thank you

  • @christinabarone8021
    @christinabarone8021 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    👏 funny, kind, and inspiring. Nash is a magical human being! Thank you for sharing.

  • @Petra-k2c
    @Petra-k2c 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    psychprofile AI fixes this. Support without providing solutions.

  • @aadeshbagmar1
    @aadeshbagmar1 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Nash is amazing!! Always love his stories! ❤

  • @mem1701movies
    @mem1701movies 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’d love it if someone TRIED to solve my problems. I mean really TRY. Not the laziest thing off the top of their head.

  • @keithtsang522
    @keithtsang522 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Nash, ur amazing. Can’t imagine u did it with Ted and u very well deserved. 🎉congratulations

  • @saltypea33
    @saltypea33 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wonderful talk with a beautiful message 👏👏👏

  • @stephaniebriggs1296
    @stephaniebriggs1296 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Absolutely magical, 😂, inspiring and educational talk! Thank you for demonstrating genuine leadership is such a thoughtful and entertaining way.

  • @harmonylifewithjess1593
    @harmonylifewithjess1593 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I just LOVED this so much. Totally relatable in my everyday existence. 🙌❤️

  • @Sunshinesinthesky
    @Sunshinesinthesky 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Beautifully delivered and inspiring! Well done! ❤

  • @nahidkhan4306
    @nahidkhan4306 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    One of the best TED talks I'v ever seen...🥰😇
    Amazing

  • @meiliho2526
    @meiliho2526 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are an amazing speaker, Nash. Thank you so much for your sharing. It’s so inspiring!

  • @lonjemariesfashions5117
    @lonjemariesfashions5117 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This is amazing thank you 🙏🏾 It always amazes me how we serve an on-time. Perfect God I did support someone right before I clicked on this video. I let them know I’m here for you.

  • @kariparks123
    @kariparks123 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Well said Nash! Always an OG fan👏👏👏

  • @zeeshanhanif1403
    @zeeshanhanif1403 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    One of the best Ted talks ever watched ❤

  • @alanglazen9430
    @alanglazen9430 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are truly a magician of the heart Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @Demitriscocktails
    @Demitriscocktails 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Magic, but not in his tricks, magic in his words!

  • @elanchantel
    @elanchantel 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Wow Nash this is beautiful ❤

  • @jarrettstock9082
    @jarrettstock9082 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love Mexican food, I wish I was there to see your first magic, I had the chance to see it when we went to university together, close enough.
    The magic lives on

  • @MovieMelon-Studio
    @MovieMelon-Studio 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    A masterpiece ❤

  • @MadonnaGrogan
    @MadonnaGrogan 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wonderfull insights, active listening really helps

  • @stevenchau8982
    @stevenchau8982 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great performance! I love it!

  • @hclau9511
    @hclau9511 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks for your sharing!it s useful and inspiring !

  • @TheFrEd1FReD
    @TheFrEd1FReD 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    thank you Nash Fung

  • @OlenaFoxyUA
    @OlenaFoxyUA 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Super! So wisdom!

  • @boundlessrob5418
    @boundlessrob5418 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Incredible talk ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @popupsoshealing
    @popupsoshealing 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wonderful!

  • @sheshe5049
    @sheshe5049 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Powerful ❤

  • @ivangohome
    @ivangohome 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Impressive....

  • @kornchanokraksaseri3884
    @kornchanokraksaseri3884 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you! 🙏

  • @saradoolittle9986
    @saradoolittle9986 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Fantastic!!

  • @apolitik
    @apolitik 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amazing

  • @yagneshbhise5717
    @yagneshbhise5717 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wonderful 🙌🏻

  • @binilasebastian4569
    @binilasebastian4569 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Awesome

  • @mem1701movies
    @mem1701movies 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    How did he do that CUBE trick?

  • @raphae-landres
    @raphae-landres 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    pretty fancy shuffling with that card trick

  • @BrassTacksEventsBTE
    @BrassTacksEventsBTE 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    👏👏👏👏👏

  • @Souad-p3m
    @Souad-p3m 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    wow that was great 😊

  • @wickedboy5535
    @wickedboy5535 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Not understand all the things 😢

  • @shreyashraj6906
    @shreyashraj6906 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @mariaantoniettamontella9173
    @mariaantoniettamontella9173 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    applausi

  • @Adarsh_lata
    @Adarsh_lata 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Be careful

  • @Adarsh_lata
    @Adarsh_lata 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Card mix up

  • @Adarsh_lata
    @Adarsh_lata 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Volo

  • @Adarsh_lata
    @Adarsh_lata 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Green house today

  • @pensivepenguin3000
    @pensivepenguin3000 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Maybe I’m wrong, but it seems like bro was more impressed with his own performative good deed and sweet magic trick than actual concern for the lady at the restaurant. The basic message here wasn’t bad but I got kind of a weird disingenuous feeling from the talk

  • @Maria-w9h6s
    @Maria-w9h6s 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I will be forever grateful to you, you changed my whole life and I will continue to preach on your behalf for the whole world to hear you saved me from huge financial debt with just a small investment, thank you Brenda Devore

    • @Sebastian-s9h
      @Sebastian-s9h 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow. I'm a bit perplexed seeing her been mentioned here also Didn't know she has been good to so many people too this is wonderful, i'm in my fifth trade with her and it has been super.

    • @Lucas-j7q
      @Lucas-j7q 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The first step to successful investing is figuring out your goals and risk tolerance either on your own or with the help of a financial professional but is very advisable you make use of a professional.

  • @alanwbell
    @alanwbell 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Whoa I had no idea cold case playing cards were a thing? That seems incredibly morbid. I get wanting to bring more awareness to the cases but whose really going to choose to buy a deck of cards like that?

  • @OneaeBlack
    @OneaeBlack 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Fun Loving Magic.