Parents Forced Me To Live In A Camper On My House Backyard ,So Golden Child Brother Can Move In
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I am a single man in my early 30s, with a younger brother who is 29 and has four children. He had his first child at the age of 22, followed by another a year later, a third two years after that, and the fourth a couple of months ago. Unfortunately, I do not get along with my sister-in-law as she always tries to act superior and get a rise out of me, and when I retaliate, she becomes an extreme self-victimizing drama queen who can cry at the drop of a hat. My parents and brother adore her, despite knowing how she really is. While she is very attractive, her awful personality makes it impossible for me to be attracted to her. Moreover, she refuses to work despite having a college degree, and my mother looks after their children all day, so their finances are entirely dependent on my brother.
Growing up, my younger brother was obviously the favorite, which led to him developing a superiority complex. He was physically abusive towards me on several occasions, flirted with my first girlfriend to the point that she broke up with me, and laughed at my misfortune. My parents would always tell me to suck it up whenever I was upset about it, and I only received equal treatment when they wanted to maintain appearances in front of other people. After moving 150 miles away from them, I was low contact and would only see them on holidays. However, I lost my job and couldn't renew my lease on my expensive condo due to the pandemic, which left me homeless. I sold most of my possessions, bought a $1000 camper, and planned to park it at my parents' house. However, they refused to let me stay without charging me the same amount as a rented apartment, which was too expensive for me. My brother and his wife joined in on mocking me for being homeless and living in a camper. I ended up parking my camper in a store parking lot and feeling scared that someone might break in.
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I moved my family 1,400 miles away from my family and my sister demanded I get an extra room so they can come visit whenever they want. I told her we planned to get an extra room ... Because my partner works from home and needs an office. She was pissed. I was ecstatic.
Now that its just us two, i kinda wish my bro, and his family felt close enough to demand i had room for them to visit me.
Theres room regardless, but its not like it would be considered. Theyre in their own world, but invite me for all the holidays. But i suppose maybe i should be careful what i wish for.
@@PaddyBoyBKLYNq
Partner? Are they homophobic??
I count myself lucky that my own family is as far from toxic as can be, and I would completely trust any one of them in a heartbeat. While our family does have a black sheep, he was booted from the family back when I was still very young (I was only around 8 years old at the time) and he wasn't even a blood relation, he was only part of the family via marriage, and after how he'd treated my cousin (his own daughter) and what he'd tried to do to his own father out of pure greed, he got the boot from the entire family, including my aunt & cousin, really damn fast. He was so bad that my cousin doesn't even refer to him as her "dad" or "father", she just dismissively refers to him by his first name. The guy was such a scumbag that his own father disowned him and completely wrote him out of his will, and when his father eventually passed he was banned from attending the wake and funeral entirely. He's such a pile of garbage that if I ever met him today I'd have an incredibly hard time restraining myself from just hauling off and slugging him in the face....and I abhor violence. My cousins are more like younger siblings to me, and as the oldest out of the four of us, I'm *very* protective of them, even though they're all perfectly capable of taking care of themselves.
I have two younger brothers. The youngest is my Mom’s favorite and my other brother was my Dad’s favorite. I admit it took me years to realize this, but it is what it is. But it was me ( the daughter) who took my Dad to every Dr. Appointment, took care of things needed to be done at their house since my brothers had moved away. I had to call them and get them here the weekend before my dad passed away from 52:23 cancer and I now live with my Mom because she has dementia. ( my husband passed away less than two years after my Dad passed). Even though my mom refers to her favorite son for doing so much for her, she recently changed her will to say that I will inherit the house instead of selling it and splitting it three ways which the original will stated. My brothers were informed of it, and one of my sister in laws had a fit about it. Luckily my brother stood up for me, and said I deserved it since I have been the one taking care of my parents. Thank goodness I won’t have to go thru the crap show OP has had to.
All my mom did for my grandparents you would think the selfish witch would have given her a little more but nope literally her siblings abandoned their mother except for Sunday dinner none helped my gramps when he had congestive heart failure except mom who while working 2 jobs literally was still over there everyday and when gram got cancer I was the one who stayed the nights she was on chemo when mom worked nights the only time one aunt had an excuse first her husband had cancer yeah they found out within a few months of each other and then she ended up in the hospital nearly dying on us but that other sibling of theirs abandoned us didn't come in every once in awhile to help out then it was left up to mom the last 2 years of that woman's life to take care of her the aunt finally pitched in to help the last year when she realized mom couldn't do it by herself and I couldn't do it weak stomach to that nasty spit up she did and she didn't like her caregiver being out of her sight for 5 seconds moms supper went cold everytime and by the time she finally ate we were already done and gone from the table literally couldn't tell her to wait cause all the crap she thought was more important then her daughter eating actually wasn't at all
While I hope that works out for you, a word of caution, don't hold your breath. I and my mom were the primary caregivers for My grandparents. They left my handicapped daughter a home on a small piece of land so that she would always at least never be out in the street since my health is terrible. They left it in a family trust that was "unbreakable". After they passed both uncles ganged up against my mom and I and managed to spend literally thousands out of the trust money to ultimately take my daughters home away from her. These two brothers never got along with each other a day in their lives until then when it benefited them to screw someone else. The sad thing is all of THEIR kids had been given homes and property to live on. BOTH brothers over the years had been given successful businesses as well. Greed has no boundaries when push comes to shove.
My aunts and uncle all have a good relationship with my own parents, and when my grandmother passed away on April 2nd of last year (exactly one week to the day after she'd turned 99), they were actually against receiving money from my grandmother's will because my parents and I had been the ones taking care of her for the past 9 years, and they didn't want to accept the money (they eventually relented and accepted the money after enough persuasion from my mom). My mom had to very aggressively and stubbornly try to convince them to take the money since it's what my grandmother wanted (my mom even tried to enlist my cousin's help by getting him to hide the money somewhere in my aunt & uncle's house when we visited them a while back, humorously enough, and we all get a good laugh out if it now). Our family is very close and tight-knit, even though most of us live a long ways away from each other now (in the case of myself and my parents, we all live about 7-8 hours away from them if we travel by car, and my mom hates flying since she's not good with heights, so we only travel by car).
It seems regardless of your brother being one of the favorites he isn't an entitled >insert nastiest insult< like OP's family!
“Why can’t you do this for Dan?!?” Why couldn’t you let OP park his RV outside of your house?
He's not Dan. We all have to do everything for Dan. If you are Dan, you can have it. If you aren't Dan then screw off. It's ALL about DAN!
It was not an RV. It was literally a shed on the back of his truck with just about enough room for a bed, a Porta Potty and a small gas cooker.
@@ACCER The parents might as well have said that to OP, making it clear that Dan is their golden child who deserves the world on a plate and can do no wrong.
I love when entitled parents claim that your success is because of them. The truth is that your success is in spite of them.
Definitely!!!!
my mother was constantly saying I only got into art college because of her. when I said oh I'm not actually good at art you just asked your friend to let me in huh? she said yes so I said I should leave then I'm there on false pretenses and will inevitably show I'm talentless and embarrass you and your friend. she actually backed down with her usual don't be stupid dear of course you can't leave you're getting honors my friend told me. all my life any achievement was hers. I wasn't really sad when she died she'd pretty much already killed what love I had for her.
I don't know why OP didn't call the police on day 1! Those kids deserve better parents! Throw OP'S parents & that pathetic brother & disgusting SIL in prison for all of those felonies and sue, sue, sue! Call CPS to pickup those kids because they deserve better!
I think OP knew that CPS would not only whisk the children away, but also separate them and it's possible that he didn't want that, even if they're spoiled brats. I do agree with you on everything else though. OP should've gone scorched earth on his toxic immediate family.
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly At this point, CPS would do better for the kids than Dan can.
CPS will put those kids in a foster home where there are pedos. so, best not to call CPS and think CPS has the children's best interests. CPS is a Child sex trafficking business.
Incase you read this. There has been updates. Turns out one of the kids wasn't Dan's as the wife was cheating on him. So they divorced and now Dan lives in OP's caravan at their parents place.
Go no contact and stay that way. Dont let any of them near you. Thanks for the video Mr Reddito
Shot gun, backhoe (or hog farmer)...
When Dan and SIL tried to get parents to move into a camper, OP should have said to his parents, “Don’t you just hate it when someone tries to get you to live in a camper so they can steal your home?” Lol
"Original Poster"
Nooo he should have said, just do this for Dan!
I first learned about child favoritism when i met my first girlfriend and she told me how her cousins and relatives were raised, and I was so utterly shocked. My family we are 4 brothers and my parents treated us all equally while we were all very different. I see now how blessed and fortunate I was to have parents like that
If Dan can't afford to live on his own, then he shouldn't be having all those kids. If you can't feed them don't breed them! Also, if the SIL wants to fight OP, I'd tell her punches and kicks to the stomach are fair game!
Amen
Yes! If Dan can't afford to live on his own, then he should at least scrape together the price of a box of condoms.
@@katherinekurzius290 Agree. Or better yet, try to save enough for a vasectomy.
I am surprised she didn't miscarry with all the crying and tantrums she was having. Not that I wish that on her, it's just surprising is all
I’ve always said equal rights, equal fights!!
Pro Life Tip: If you ever find yourself homeless and need a shower...I have found that most YMCA will allow you to use their shower, but since children are there they will take and hold your ID until you come back to the front desk after your done.
I have done this a few times after being homeless due to divorce..
Though some said " technically" I needed to be a member, though they allowed me to anyways. ( I always left a tip)
I know what happened next. I went and looked at the OP's account, and his parents tried to get money out of him for Dan to have an apartment. They thought he was rich or something. And he had a dandy time telling them no, and that he spent most of his money on his mortgage and bills.
Bwahahaha! GOOD! Just like a lot of us do, Pay mortgages and bills. We support ourselves, THEY need to do the same..And the SIL insisting MIL AND FIL buy a camper for THEM to live in while THEY live in THEIR HOME. The IL's telling her NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, NOW they see how OP feels about the entire situation. They were sooooooooo FOR OP giving up HIS home to them but THEIR home is off limits..Oh the hypocrisy! 🤣🤣🤣
Yyk
What the hell is wrong with them !!!! Get protected order against them parents
What country are they from? This is insane.
@@Lily_of_the_Forest it dont matter were its fucking bullshit, but if i had to throw it america
Kind of reminds me of my longest held job some years ago. My boss at the times girlfriend was working with me. She just showed up for work when she felt like it, came in late left after only working a few hours of what should have been among 8 hour shift. Christmas Eve or Christmas day night, I had to be there earlier than normal, was under the weather to boot, so after I had already been working 8 hours, she finally shows up. I was supposed to leave like 5 am, but stayed to finish something an extra hour. Well, she kept saying her boyfriend my boss, wouldn't care or mind if I stayed an extra 2 hours so she could go home earlier, and I kept telling her I didn't feel good, and was staying longer, plus, I started like 4 hours before she finally bothered showing up. I could tell she was pissed. And no, she didn't get her way.
There’s an update. They invited him to olive garden and asked for money or to co-sign on a new apartment. He shut it down. The parents and Dan embarrassed themselves at the restaurant. The parents started going to church all of a sudden. He rented the two rooms out to two friends. SIL found out and his mom came crying to let them rent it out, which was shut down.
Dan found out their newborn isn’t his. SIL was having an affair. Divorce went in dan’s favor and removed from newborn’s birth certificate lol.
🔥✊🏾W😳w Did This Really Go That Far?…👊🏾💯
Is this true??!!
And, most recently, Dan sort of buried the hatchet with OP and then borrowed the camper because OP's nephew needed his own room and so now Dan is living in the back yard of his parents' house in that camper that used to be too ugly to have in their yard.
Is the new baby black? 😏
@@SWisemanlol no. But baby did have some different coloring. OP, his parents and Dan have straight Black hair. SIL has straight dark brown almost black hair. Baby is a curly blond and so is his bio-dad.
Oh there’s been update FOUR on this saga.
At this point it seems like the parents are finally getting affected by SIL’s toxicity and are SICK TO DEATH of Dan and his family.
LoL Karma. Can you send a link please?
I am almost scared to ask what happens in update 4....... but like a train wreck, I can not help but ask.
Yeah, part 4 was interesting. I agree with your recommendation.
@@Gilhelmi they met in a public restaurant and asked for OP to either lend them some money so Dan can get an apartment or co-sign on a lease because Dan’s credit is trash. He pointed out that Dan makes more than he does and that Mom and Dad are only asking HIM to sign because they know Dan won’t pay it and it’ll bite them in the ass. Dan DID try the “we’re family and family helps family” routine, but OP reminded them that they refused to help him when HE was homeless and Dan and SIL made fun of him and called him a bum.
@@lisadgingersnaps9843 it was pretty satisfying
The treatment that OP received when he was a child was a blessing in disguise.
The favorite child was handicapped. He grew up expecting to be given everything without effort. OP learned the value of hard work and perseverance.
That's what I said. The awful parents were actually abusive towards both sons in different ways; cruel to the OP while spoiling Dan. They actually did more damage to Dan than the OP. Dan's a trainwreck because he never learned about personal responsibility, accountability, that life is unfair and you can't always get what you want, or earning things rather than expecting it all to be handed to him for nothing, values your parents are supposed to teach you. But when you have narcopath parents who never learrned those lessons themselves, not going to happen. The OP is the lucky one, he's the functioning adult who's made a good life for himself.
The treatment that OP received when he was a child was a blessing in disguise.
A very good disguise.
I would tell parents they should “Do it for Dan and SIL” by renting my camper and moving it to their back yard, while letting Dan and SIL have their whole house.
Yes indeed there are
I wouldn’t even give them the camper but buy them a tent 😂😂
OP did.
Of course he’d have to charge them the types of money they wanted from him
I’ll tell them to go pound sand!
I love it. The best revenge on narcissists is to humiliate them in public and social media if applicable. I'm suspecting op's mom was finally sick of her daughter in law never helping out with expenses, barely taking care of her kids and never having the house to themselves because of Dan's kids. That's why she was so insistent making op move Dan into his house.
It's about time consequences caught up with Dan and his hugely immature wife. Dan's wife is literally the definition of a bum. They should tell Dan to get a vasectomy if they don't want to keep supporting and paying for his children. I know it was a joke but I love the sister in law tried to push the idea of her in laws moving into a camper.
I hope the kids wise up to their parents' nonsense someday. Otherwise, I'm proud of how op handled the situation and came out of it on top.
Yup that is why my stepmother does not like me anymore and her sister tried defending her or saying not to post about her. Nope. It is good therapy to talk about the abuse that happened.
Me too. It's always satisfying when the scapegoat children are living well in spite of their toxic family. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if somewhere down the line, OP falls in love and marries a lady who is the polar opposite of his sister in law.
Dude handled it far better than I ever could. At the point where they drilled his lock and changed it, I'd have had both brother and SIL locked up and the kids handed over to CPS. I'm a vindictive prick that way though.ive gone through similar with an older brother and my dad ruined my future because of his favorite junky son.
I'm with you on that 100%
I'm so glad you stood your ground. I don't understand how your brother, father, mother and sil thought they could just kick you out of your home just so they could have more space. I'm sorry your childhood sucked and you had to give in to your brother, my thoughts; your parents are stuck with the monster they created! Good luck, enjoy your life. You worked hard for what you have, and you deserve to be happy and Dan free!
Even so, I believe that OP *SHOULD* have had his parents, brother, & SIL arrested, because then their kids may have been able to be raised by a relative or adoptive parent who would actually raise them to be decent human beings rather than the entitled and selfish filth they're bound to turn into.
I’m going through something kinda similar right now but different. My Mom has her own house and I rent. My Mom lost her damn mind and is convinced demons are in her house and won’t go home. She has taken over my room and won’t leave. She keeps telling me to just move in my Daughters room but I’m not a jerk I don’t want to take my Daughters space away so I’m in the living room while My jerk face Mother is in my sanctuary just fouling it up. I have had 3 preists over her house for exorcisms and she still won’t go home. It’s been since Mother’s Day and she slowly pushed me out of my room and took over now I’m pissed. I’m about at the point where I don’t care where she goes but I don’t want her here.
Doesn’t brother and sister in law know about birth control? 4 kids need a lot of food, clothing and educational supplies. If they add another they will be screwed. Mom and dad will be willing to kick them out and sis in law might have to get a part time job. Let see how well they can survive in a 2 bed room apartment.
I have an entitled family member whom told me they could move into a home my uncle left me. I was currently living in an RV trying to save money to purchase a home. I was blown away by this request and the fact they also told me I didn’t need all that space and that she could move in with my two brothers since she was housing them. 🤯
Had the same problem ..
Man,entitlement abounds. I feel so bad for those children. No doubt many of the narcissistic traits are painfully handed down from one generation to the next. I think the author seems incredibly in tune w I th his emotions currently. I hope if he has any problems arise from his past mistreatment , he will seek counsel. I know it can sneak up on a person once they have there own children.I am sincerely glad that he held his ground. I say Bravo!
His attachment to the camper made me smile. It reminded me of a favorite children's book series called 'The Boxcar Children.' The 4 children made a home out of an old boxcar on an abandoned siding. Their grandfather had it moved to his property for them.
I remember the movie about them, I absolutely loved it then :)
I loved that series too. Though admittedly the dog Watch was my favorite. 😂
My grandma was obsessed with those books for years
oh i loved that series to i forgot all about it till now
I remember my mom (God rest her soul) telling me that was a book her teacher read to the class at story time. I was in my 50s then. It has many years ago.
Sounds like my family 😂 go bro. Don’t give in to just do it for Dan. I locked out my family 6 years ago and oh it’s so good.
There was a story where OP (female) where the Golden Child brother tried to take her house because "Mommy said I could have it. The difference is that OP's parents lived in a house that OP owned and let them live in. Long story short. Brother didn't get to move in and OP sold the house the parents lived in.
😁👏👏👏 Good, he did this
OP needs a restraining order and security cameras. Get the police report and blast them all over social media. Mummy and daddy need to buy their precious son a big house so that the kids could get the house that they "really need". Those kids are better off without those people as parents. OP could buy them a huge family sized tent for the parents back yard.
The tent one sounds so petty but so good at the same time😈
@@Kumo5980 I mean, OP had to live with a camper for a while. A tent should be ok right? ╮(＾▽＾)╭
These stories can be made up, you know that is a possibility right?
What is OP
@@bonniebloom4953 Means original poster, the author of the post
Even with my degrees I don't even understand the entitlement and audacity of people like this.. What goes through their minds to think this is all ok to do? It just makes no sense at all..
I know right? The entitlement and audacity of people like that is through the roof. I bet even experts of behavioral disorders would be baffled.
I also don’t get it. Whether work hard for your money, a house & personal items , why does someone thinks they can take the other persons home,etc especially when they didn’t work for it.
Hear! Hear!
It is a bit to wordy.
@@florencewatson4240 I definitely feel that way about a lot of posts that this channel chooses. Not the fault of this channel at all for just reading them.. I'm like people, sheesh, you don't have to add so much unnecessary detail.. How they met, how their eyes twinkled, how their 5 dates went, are all irrelevant when the topic is a toxic MIL etc, you know? Lol.. That's why I feel life 99% of these stories aren't real and are just Creative Writing Class practice.. 🤣
My husband and I have a 1600 sq ft 3 bedroom 2 bath home that is for US and our dogs PERIOD. My neighbor next door lives next door by herself, the neighbor on the other side of her lives by himself. We knew a couple who have a 2000 sq ft 2 story home that it's just for them, another former friend lives by herself in an almost 2k sq ft house. WE. OWE. NOONE. A. ROOF. PERIOD.
Here's hoping that karma will thoroughly punish OP's parents, brother and SiL while blessing OP for everything that OP has endured his entire life so far.
You'll be pleased to hear that the parents are finally seeing how badly they messed up because now, they're trying to force their golden child to get his own place for his family.
Just type "Original Poster".
🔥✊🏾It S🤣rt Of Have Fam…There Was A Part 4…They Asked OP To Help Dan Buy A House… Op Told Em He’s Covered His Morgage n Bills And Can’t Help… They L😂st It In Olive Garden…And Dan F🤣und 😳ut Last Child Not His…They Divorced…And OP Rented The Extra Rooms Out…Nuff Said!!…👊🏾💯
I heard this one before. Its only a matter of time until a part 4.
There is a story like this in about every family ... I joined the military back in the 80s to escape that sort of toxic family situation and glad i did and things ended up just as expected and not unlike this one ...Glad I got away and landed on my feet
Sheesh! The audacity of OP's family is astounding! It's hard to believe there are these types of people out there in this world! And then on top of that they call themselves family?!? It's disgusting!
Poor OP. I haven't heard the full story yet but just the stress alone OP went through is appalling😢
Oh man I know this story and man I love the outcome of it
Justice served HARD😈
This has got to be the best story I've heard on here in a long time. So glad OP came out on top! I would have still have SIL arrested for assault though. I think that would've settled her down faster and it wouldn't have gone on as much as it did.
OH, MY, GOD. In so many ways, this was my life. When you think you’re the only one, not that you’re happy someone else had to live this, but that you’re not alone! God Bless this guy 🙏. Oh, how I ❤this
Channel!!
I remember reading the story on Reddit, and I could not believe the audacity of these people. I’m not the golden child in my family by any means, but my parents never went this far ever I don’t know how those people can live with them selves. And you know there’s going to be another update at some point because this family just will not freaking stop.
Where can I see it?
If it was me I would have pressed charges against them period...
I wouldn't be surprised that OP's SIL gets pregnant again and told that she can either move out or get an abortion and go get a job to get a house for her family
Me neither. Nor would I be surprised if Dan is told to stop having so much sex with her and was forced to get condoms or a vasectomy.
Turns out SIL cheated on Dan shockingly enough. The youngest wasn’t his and karma came down like a meteor for her, Dan divorced her and the whole family kicked her to the curb.
His family is incredibly toxic. If Dan wants a house, he should buy his own house. One day, his kids will grow up and realize how toxic their mom and dad were.
Mmmmmm, not always. Sometimes the kids become exactly like their parents.
@@rhondasisco-cleveland2665facts ✴️👌
I know that he did it for the sake of his nieces and nephews and that is very noble of him but had it been me I would have sued them for as much as possible AND made sure that they were prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law and if that means prison for them and foster care for their brat children than so be it.
Sue’ ing they are flat broke , have them arrested would had stopped this on the spot !!!
I agree. OP was noble to think about the children. I likely would've done the same. At least I would try to avoid sending the children to foster care if I can help it, mostly because I know there's a good chance of them getting split up. But if there were no children involved then they would be charged for everything they've done and that means they go to prison and are forever shunned by polite society, then so be it.
For some reason, I believe this story as true. I don't many of them, but this one rung true. The only part that gave me pause is OP coming back to discover his brother and SIL trying to move in without a by-your-leave from OP. Are there really people this dumb?
I talked to OP
TRUE STORY ! ALSO BELIVE O.P. KNEW PARENTS WERE MONITORING SAVINGS & CREDIT SCORE !!! BASICALLY BOUGHT HOUSE 🏠 2 PAY 💰. FAMILY 2 PRETEND 2 LOVE 💕. O.P. 😊
I am a retired therapist and can answer your question. Yes, there are people like this in the world though I would usually characterize them as in desperate need of intervention from a trained objective person outside the situation (read as mental health professional) as opposed to strictly labeling them as dumb. How do I know? I have treated people like this before. Being “dumb” gives the family a pass because in theory they are too stupid to understand what they are doing and calling someone “dumb” gives them a reason to strike back at the insult. An outsider (such as a therapist) has the opportunity to make objective observations and provides concrete facts about the situation make it much more difficult for the family to attack the outsider with anything other than “you don’t understand” to which the therapist would request them to explain and the explanation can be reframed by the therapist to provide alternative view points. In this case it is unlikely that will ever happen because the parents, brother, and SIL don’t seem likely to speak to anyone who fails to provide an echo chamber for their views. I truly wish OP all the best as he continues to build his life.
You read my mind. I believe nearly every story on here is fake (which is ok if it makes sense, is somewhat believable, and is entertaining), but this one seems to be something that probably is real.
Regardless, this was a very entertaining story albeit very very long lol.
the world's pretty big... after seeing my uncle/aunt's blatant favoritsm of my cousins and another family having a fucking hidden 'family' than the one we know.. yeah.. i think people can be this stupid. documents are just papers afterall..
I mean, the fact that the brother & SIL tried to forge a paper saying they're renting... I've seen forged marriage certificate.. and they somewhat get away with it to some degree... as in, they used it to get married on a different church than the one my cheating uncle was in when he married my aunt... and it worked! and yes the sidechick knows she's marrying a married man. Tho that degree ended when shits are on the court.. unfortunately the shitty uncle's dead (it was a 2nd family showing up on the funeral kind of debacle) already sooo.. anyway.. you'll be surprised how much forged documentation can work on the spot/if its authenticity aren't checked first. Honestly, IF for example... OP's out vacationing and Dan's family moved in.. they could get away with it for sometime but enough to claim squater's rights or something along those lines... and IF there were neighbor & police even get suspicious, they'd just show the forged paper and people tends to accept it at face value...
I'm fortunately grow up in a family with minimal amount of favoritsm.. i'd say we're all equal but mom&dad prioritize some aspects of our lives that need more attention at the time. Like... when my sis's on an important exam, me & sibs are sidelined until she's done.. when my international school need more money than the others (cuz i'm kinda the best at english langguage in our house, so my parents send me on international class).. when Big bro wants to continue on his masters.. and well, traditionally my brother's the only one to inherit the family name but idc abt that anyway .. etc... however, we have this uncle.. who used our yard for chicken farming (due to size and location, long explanation...) anyway.. he has 2 sons. The oldest obviously the golden child.. he even somewhat get away with impregnating his gf before marriage (which's frowned upon where i am) atleast by marrying his wife and assuming 'responsibility'. The thing is, dude's a bum.. couldn't hold jobs for long & lazy af... his wife worked while he play phone all day.. I heard he's working at package delivery but i'm not really sure how he's doing rightnow. The younger at the time had just finished vocational school. Anyway, back to the uncle... My bro/dad were into some business.. they're thinking of taking the younger son on the venture.. as helpers/staff of sort. They spoke to/on the uncle's presence.. this uncle had the audacity to tell my bro/dad to take his oldest instead.. since he (at the time) recently got out of job (that he can't hold) and that he (at the time) had a son to feed. Meanwhile his youngest' still only have a girlfriend and thus has no dependent.
Like... idk.. maybe his logic sound to some degree... but saw that it's like he's sabotaging his youngest to favor his oldest. Why not just offer both? like "Oh, you're planning to hire my youngest? can my oldest too?" but noppe.. it's like "Oh, my oldest need job more than youngest, pick him" like wtf? mom said he's just looking out for his grandson... but I saw that as punishing the youngest for not randomly making babies when they're not ready.. and yes my bro/dad's still taking on the youngest than the oldest.. There are other instances where the favoritsm's way too obvious... I won't be surprised if the youngest went low contact with his parents after getting independent (still live in their home, which is normal where I am.. ). Btw, if not for my paren'ts really low rent, the oldest would still live with his parents too.. along with his wife & kids.. They did in the beginning of marriage, but uncle & aunt asked for one of my parent's rent unit at absurdly low price.. like.. i'd think less than 30% than they should. My parents are pushover so they oblidge but on higher rate than the ask.. but still under the 50% market price. My bro's helping the youngest's career too I think.. but we stopped talking about it to uncle.. just go straight to the young cousin..
The OP should do a DNA test, he’s probably adopted and then parents had his brother, may be the reason he was treated so badly.
Maybe he should.
Naah, it is more common than you think. There are families that have that belief that the older child should help and provide for the younger ones it's ridiculous, but it does happen,I bet he was the eldest but also there might be something dark going on like some event or maybe he looks like so.e family member they hate or something,that tends to happen, my mom for example looks alot like her dad and my grandma hated her husband so she always treated less than her other kids because of that oo and expected her to give up her stuff for them so that isthat it is a possibility.
Funny update: Dan tested his own kids in secret and found out that kid #4 isn't his. He did some basic sleuthing to find evidence of the affair as well as tracking down the affair baby's daddy. It didn't help that SIL, now nicknamed *That Bitch* by Dan, made no effort to cover her tracks.
@@danielbrant6740he tested them after noticing that kid #4 had different features than from him and SIL. OP, Dan, and their parents have black straight hair and SIL has dark brown almost black straight hair but the baby had blonde curly hair. At first SIL said that the baby was barely a newborn and that his features would appear and Dan believed here a few months later he noticed nothing had changed and started to wonder if it's his and surely enough he found out about SIL's affair. Long story short, Dan took SIL who was accompanied by her affair partner and the baby's father to court and successfully got divorced and got his name removed from the baby's birth certificate. SIL didn't even want to let Dan remove his name from the birth certificate as she wanted him to pay child support. The audacity of this woman 🤦♂️
Great story. It was nice to have a completely different story for a change.
Using children to guilt family is disgusting. I have family like this. They think have a kid cry an get what you want. Some ppl are just gross
They sure are. As an aspiring mother myself, I absolutely despise people who use children for their own personal gain.
I love this story. There is a fourth update about his parents needing OP's help to get his brother an apartment. I heard the story earlier today. I believe it was r/mr redder with that one.
So they finally got sick of their golden child huh? Well, maybe if they didn't play favorites, they wouldn't be in this situation.
There's more updates since the and it gets even crazier. It turns out the 4th kid isn't Dan's kid and SIL showed her true colors. To summarize what happen: Dan did a paternity test on his first 3 kids and thankfully they were his but the newborn wasn't, Dan and the parents have began trying to make amends to OP and be better people, Dan divorced SIL and got his name removed as the father from the affair baby's birth certificate, Dan asked OP if he could borrow the camper because he's giving up his room at the parents house to his only son so he wouldn't have to share a room with his two sisters, OP has now become an uncle to Dan's kids and has a good relationship with them, and SIL kept harassing and tried attacking OP after the divorce and got a restraining order against her. Read OP's posts for the full context.
A simple no would suffice or threatening to call the cops. I would have said to them the same thing they told you when you asked for help
Dan’s wife ended up cheating on him.
Just an FYI, in the US we may not have public bath houses but you can get a gym membership and use the gym's showers. This is obvious in retrospect but people tend to forget in the moment. The other option that may not be as convenient is utilizing a truck stop. You are allowed to stay there not sure if there is a time limit and most of them have showers you can use. Unlike a gym though, they charge for every time you use their showers.
The gym membership cost money some don’t have
The Golden Child usually will remain so unto death. They will be back.
There was an update. Once he told the truth about his finances about his house and what he's paying in the mortgage, utilities, upkeep and trying to save, that put an end to the begging from his parents and Dan. In my opinion, Dan needs to grow up and figure this out for himself.
I'm speechless. I never knew entitled assholes like OP's brother, SIL and parents ever existed. They kicked OP out and they ridiculed him when he almost had nothing. Why? I effin hate them!
Me too. And they come crawling back, hoping to take everything from him when he makes a good name for himself. Like they enjoy seeing him miserable. Disgusting.
Team "Do it for Dan" needs to go, take the camper, and park at CRYSTAL LAKE. Good luck with JASON 😉
Also, for Dan to be made to get into the sewer grate to get the keys.... He's lucky PENNYWISE wasn't down there! 😉
🤣🤣🤣
I think Dan would have given Pennywise heartburn.
Love the long post! Great story!
To whom it matters to, camper life is definitely a lifestyle change. There are surprising amounts of rv parks around the US, many offer long term parking. I once stayed a a campground for 450/m. It offered water, sewage, electricity, garbage dumpsters, Anda few basic campground rules
Yes! Most of the rv parks also have showers and laundry rooms
I really want to try it but wow it is expensive and tough. Some youtubers I followed have given up and sold their RVs/campers so I can tell it's never going to be easy...
Proud of OP. This reminds me of another story where 1st born (son/OP) was stepping stool to 2nd born (daughter), until son finally imploded on his 18th birthday and stood up for himself in front of family. Exposing mom and dad and sister as A-holes
You are right. This is the craziest story. I skipped over righteous indignation for OP straight to constant laughter at the ridiculous entitlement.
Whew, this was a rollercoaster! I'm glad OP stood firm in his stance; and did not let them guilt him into their dumb mess.
Tell them they can rent your camper for there yard and pay rent to you .
For the use of it!
Have read this one before, but in more detail's of how op was treated when younger by the parents and "golden child".
Still the audacity of the parent's, brother and sil demanding his house and actually drilling the lock to move in.
Great story. It's good that you stayed firm and didn't give in. I can't imagine that anyone would have bowed down to anyone who has treated them so poorly all of their life.
Some people still have that childhood dream of having a good relationship with their abusive parents hence why they're not as strong as we observers would want them to be. Sadly, that childhood dream is NEVER going to come true and they're just better off without their toxic family.
personal protection thing from the cops, keeps them 500 feet away or go to jail. had to do it to my own brother, it worked
Sometime I just wish that these stories would be fake...! So crazy, infuriating and sad at the same time!
Get your mortgage documents and put them in a safe deposit box at a bank. Put the key in a safe place. Perhaps give a copy of your documents to your lawyer as well. If your parents, brother and SIL try anything stupid again you at least have proof that the house is actually yours. And if they do try something once again, show no mercy...press charges.
Apparently, the parents were ready for Dan, SIL and all those kids to move out of their house. SIL had five kids. I think he forgot that while telling the story.
After 3 it's time to get snipped
@@808yorkie Well, it technically depends on the person and if they're able to handle more than 3 children usually. But you're absolutely right in this case, OP's good for nothing brother and sister in law should've gotten fixed after the 3rd child because they clearly can't handle a large family.
Can't blame the kid for kicking because of what the adults were saying to him (lies) about having his own room and such. That kid and his siblings are going to have a rough life with the parents and grandparents they have. OP doesn't have a wife and kids yet, but one day may have and needs his home free of parasites.
Hey those of you watching this video. At what point do you think OP should’ve gotten a restraining order?
Before they even tried to move in. The minute they demanded that they give the house to his brother is when I would’ve gotten a restraining order against the bloody a lot of them.
He really should have gotten a restraining order once he moved out. That's how I feel about it.
Going no contact is a beautiful thing ❤️
She was pregnant with #4 I thought it said she had 4. So, unless they changed the way you count it would be #5.
I think he meant to say she was pregnant with baby #5. Probably just a typo.
There was a little time backtracking.
He misspeaks all the time, and he NEVER goes back and fixes ANYTHING in post-edit!
Call your tits on this free entertainment 😂
Btw, kid #4 wasn't Dan's. SIL had an affair
Two words Retraining Order also it's ironic how the parents are too good for a camper but expects the same when it comes to him and his house if it was not from the police then they could of done something to fool them.
OMG! I would get a restraining order listing the parents and the brother and his wife!
If I'm not mistaken, I believe that this is the story that made me subscribe to these posts. After viewing it a second time, I know for certain!
Not too long ago, the OP of the story actually did get a restraining but only against SIL. Why only her? It's turns out that the 4th kid she had wasn't Dan's kid at all and that's when her true colors were revealed. To summarize, Dan did a paternity test on his first 3 kids and thankfully they were his but the newborn wasn't, Dan and the parents have began trying to make amends to OP and be a better people, Dan divorced SIL and got his name removed as the father from the affair baby's birth certificate, Dan asked OP if he could borrow the camper because he's giving up his room at the parents house to his only son so he wouldn't have to share a room with his two sisters, OP has now become an uncle to Dan's kids and has a good relationship with them, and SIL kept harassing and tried attacking OP after the divorce and got a restraining order against her. Read OP's posts for the full context.
Listening to these dysfunctional families males me uncomfortable. *Starting to question my surroundings.
I personally know 2 families this could be.
The fact that this guy had any contact at all with these people after he moved out at 18 is just amazing. Going back to them in his 30's thinking they would welcome him was naive and he should have known better. I wouldn't care that they had kids or not. They would have gone to jail. I would have filed restraining orders on ALL of them. This guy wanted his family to love and accept him and it's sad that it took so long for him to understand that they don't care about him and have no respect for him at all. Blood doesn't always make family. Sometimes you have to go to people you aren't blood related to to find your "family". I feel lucky that I have wonderful parents and family. Every time I hear a story like this it makes me very sad for the person going through it but very thankful to have the family I have. And friends. I also have friends that I consider family. My family embraces friends as family as well. I'm so happy that this young man still had some family who love him.
This story has been read so many times from so many people. Your a better narrator then this. Your stories are so fresh and new why would you do this story?
Why don't you get a restraining order against your parents and brother and sister-in-law
Someone please call the police and get these people out of your house 🏡
Totally having some t-shirts made that say: "Do it for Dan!"
There is Lieutinent Dan in Forest Gump, who felt sorry for himself until he learned not to.
All families will always have a favorite among siblings but not like this is, the parents are narcissistic entitled people are the root of all this being the golden child growing up as a rotten entitled spoiled man and the wife is much much more worst.
I'm glad the OP stood up to this entitled family, wishing him to have a better life from here on.
It proves that your close friends can treat you better than you own family sometimes
Good video
Should've put his bro and sil in jail, maybe then the kids would go to good adults that would raise them correctly.
What an obnoxious family! His parents are horrible people and his brother is such a taker! No words for the SIL! Parents should buy old Danny Boy a house or rent them one!! Since they think he’s entitled to live for free!!
That's the problem with enablers. They don't want the entitled person to be their problem, so they just try to dump them on the closest thing to a doormat they can find.
Good video to highlight the favored child dynamic in families. In some families I noticed the favored child was the troubled rebellious one, kind of as if the other kids could do well on their own but this child needed extra consideration. And this dynamic did nothing to change the behavior of the child and later adult and the dynamic went on and on. It was mystifying to me that the parents didn't seem to see how they were part of the problem.
And it all seems so weird, but oh so human.
poor guy but at least the extended family has his back now! :) never stay silent! :)
Shaking my head in shock at such entitlement from OP's SO-CALLED 'parents' and 'brother' (along with SIL). But hearing Mr. Reddito narrate "You would think after this entire family drama would end there..."
What there is more?!?! Oh Boy, I need something stronger to drink while listening to part 3.
I'm 2:45 in, and I can't watch another person never standing up for themselves. I had an overload with the husband, letting his wife, pretending to have depression, walk all over him.
OMG!!!! The entitlement of these people!!! OP YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON. I recommend a restraining order against the lot. Good luck. I hope you find a good woman. You deserve it.
Mr. Reddito. Love your channel and the stories of, crazy entitled mothers, MIL, and siblings.
You handled that way better than I would have sir
Lord adopt a new family. Your better off with strangers as a family. Cause I am super happy for you getting that house after all you went through. I would be proud if you were my son. 💖Beni Hanna
Okay. But that 7yo boy... Props for defending his worthless mamma.
The kid is only 7, I don't fault him for anything or blame him for being angry. He doesn't know any better. His parents and grandparents lied to him and made promises to him, like getting his own room in a house they had no right or say to whatsoever, and they all knew it. Shitty thing to do to those poor kids.
Well SIL is actually more worthless than you think because as it turns out that kid #4 wasn't Dan's. SIL had an affair
At first I thought what the hell took so long? Why so long to stand up for yourself? Then I remembered my relationship with a couple of my siblings. Nothing like this, but some bad shit happened none the less. I know how long it took me to break those ties. So I guess I'm happy the courage was finally found, and wish to OP the best in life... with a bit of advice. Family is a funny thing, those on your side can turn in a second. There are others that were raised under your same circumstances as you were, and that type of "child rearing" has been learned from other parents in the family somewhere. Be prepared to cut more ties.
I have got to say this is the first time me being on your page. You are a great storyteller. I have listen to two of yours right now and you have kept my attention on both of them. Bravo. Great storyteller.
I thought my family were jerks, but this left me speechless!
If Dan and sister-n- law want a house, then tell them to buy one.
I wouldn’t let Dan, Satan (SIL) and their spawn live in the camper!! 😂😂😂
I have family just like this and I feel for the original poster. Keep your head up. You're doing the right thing and never let them ever take advantage of you again.
There's been more updates since. To summarize, OP's family began to realize how horrible they were and actually decided to start changing for the better and started to make amends to OP. Everyone except SIL because it turns out she was more horrible than you think. In the updates, Dan began to notice that the appearances of kid #4 were different and off. OP, Dan, and their parents all had dark straight hair and so did SIL but the baby had light curly hair. When Dan first brought it up SIL dismissed it by saying that the features were would come in eventually and a couple months later they never did. That's when Dan got the hint and I'm sure you know were I'm going with this. He secretly got DNA tests for all the kids and as it turns out that the first 3 were his thankfully but, unfortunately, the baby wasn't. Long story short, Dan divorced SIL and took her to court where she was accompanied by the affair partner A.K.A the baby's actual father, he successfully got his name removed from the baby's birth certificate, SIL tried to stop him from doing so as she wanted him to pay child support but obviously failed, Dan got custody of his kids, asked OP if he can borrow the camper for awhile as he gave up his room for his oldest son as he wouldn't have to share a room with his sisters any more, OP and Dan are finally getting along and OP has now become a great uncle to his nephew and nieces, and lastly OP got a restraining order against SIL or now known as "That B!tch" by Dan after she assaulted him in his home after all this happened. OP is doing fine, Dan and the parents are making good progress on their amends, and "That B!tch" went back to her parents with the affair baby defeated.
The nerves of the younger brother and his wife. They treated him like garbage when he was at his lowest now they want his home.let me get this straight the brother should give up his home to his brother and he live in the camper.
Why didn't OP get a restraining order after they first barged into his home, would have stopped things excalating early on. As for Dan's wife she just keeps popping out kids to stop being pushed into getting a job, bet Dan gives her all his money to stop her leaving him.
Guess didn't expect it
There was more🤯🤯 Just get a RO on mom,dad,Dan, SIL and be done with it.
Restraining order. No question.
I'm proud of you bro, I hate when parents divide their children. Thanks for not giving in.
I love how he says, "I've never been camping." BWAHAHHAHA!!!! Dude you were 'camping' for two years.
That's not camping, that is mearly survival.
Camping is fun and relaxing, going out someplace new, being surrounded by nature.
Survival is a struggle to ensure you survive.