Let's Talk About Marriage
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 เม.ย. 2018
- Would we ever get married? Our thoughts on marriage are definitely affected by our age and life experiences... In this case my lack of experience makes me more open to marriage than P. which says a lot about how painful relationships can really get, when you feel like you have "no way out". Anyway let us know your opinions on the topic and have you ever witnessed a happy marriage? I would love to know. :) Business Email: sadieandp@gmail.com
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/ @pthebunny2007
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/ paola.acquamarina
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Bu kadın çok olgun bir kadın düşünce yapısı olarak çok olgun ve üzgünüm sadece izlenim olarak demek istiyorum “seninle aynı duyguları hissetmiyor “
Sanırım bu kadar yeterdi Sadie
Aynı duyguları hissetmese neden birlikte olsun ki? Biraz mantıjlı yorum yapmak gerekiyor bence.Onlar mutluysa bizim de izleyip onların mutluluğuna ortak olmamız gerekir.Olması gereken bu:)
E Y Hakli ciktin nisanlandiktan sonra ayrildilar P ye fazla geldi bu durum
benim annem ve babam 14 gün içerisinde tanışıp evlenmeye karar verdiler. Bu bir romantik aşk öyküsü değil, daha çok evlenmeye zorunda kaldırlar ve annem ve babam gerçekten zıt insanlar. Zıt kutuplar birbirini çeker gibisinden değilde, birbirinden bağımsız iki insan gibiler ve ben büyürken her zaman onların kavgaları arasında kaldım. Sabah kavga sesiyle uyanıyorum gece yatmadan önce kavga. Mezuniyet törenimde kavga, sınavlarımdan önce de sonra da kavga. Birbirlerine sürekli yalan söylüyorlar ve devamlı bir şey saklıyorlar. Evli kalmaların en büyük sebebi babamın kendi başına bakamayacak olması ve anneminde geçinmek için paraya ihtiyaç oluşudur. Çevremde bir iki tane dışında mutlu bir evliliğe rastlamadım ve bana göre birbirine göre iki insanin(koskoca dünya içerisinde) birbirlerini bulup, aşık olup, kafa dengi olmaları çok zor. Kafa dengi olmak bana göre bir ilişkide en önemli etkenlerden biridir. Büyürken sevgiyle büyültmedim. Ailecek aktivitelerimiz olmadı ve ben ergenliğe ilk girdiğim zamanlarda bu beni fazlasıyla üzüyordu. Bir ailenin içinde olmayı gerçekten fazlasıyla istiyordum ve şimdi de istiyorum. Bu kendi anne ve babamla olmayacağını çok iyi bir şekilde öğrendim o yüzden hayalim aileye dönen dostlar bulmak ve karşılıklı seçebileceğim birilerini bulup macera yaşamak, dünyayı gezmek. Oku, iş bul, evlen, çocuk doğur, öl. Bana göre değil, ben kendi hayallerimi yaşamak istiyorum. Ailem çok korumacılardır ve beni biraz bile özgür bırakmıyorlar. Özgürlükten kastım gece 12lere kadar erkek arkadaşımla dışarda kalmak değil. Okula, alışveriş merkezine arkadaşlarımla birlikte gitmek. Kendi fikirlerimin olduğunu kabullenmelerini istiyorum. Onlar sayesinde dünyaya geldim ve onlsr sayesinde büyüyebildim iyi kötü fark etmez. Ama benimde bir birey olduğumun, kendi düşüncelerimin olduğunu kabullenmelerini istiyorum ve geleceğe baktığımda ailemi benim yanımda göremiyorum. O yüzden evliliğe pek sıcak bakmıyorum sanki evlilik kısıtlanma gibime geliyor. Evet öyle değil ama öyle bir ortamda yaşadığım için istemesemde düşüncelerimi degistiremiyorum. Iki insan birbirine aşık olmasını garipsemiyorum. Ayni cins veya farklı yaşlarda olsalar bile çünkü aşk aşktır. Bana göre aşkın ve dostluğun cinsiyetle ve yaşla ilgili olmamasıdır. Birini sadece seversin nedensizce de sevilir. Aşk her şekilde olabilir. Ilk görüşte aşkın sadece film ve kitaplarda olduğunu inanan ben ilk görüşte aşık oldum. Tek tarafliydi ve bitti. Neden bunu dedim çünkü aşk her şekilde ortaya çıkabilir. Artik benim inancim bu. Size de mutluluklar dilerim umarım mutlu olursunuz❤
Elana Elettra merhaba, bircok konuda benzer dusuncelere sahibiz. Benim de en buyuk isteklerimden biri aileye donusen arkadaslar edinebilmek, dunyayi birlikte gezebilecegim birilerinin olmasi. Istersen tanisabiliriz!
@@nayirnolamaz olur
Kendini çok güzel ifade etmişsin 👌umarım mutlu olduğun bir hayat surersin
@@AhsenBetulFan teşekkür ederim ❤ umarım sende hayallerindeki gibi bir hayata sahip olursun
@@hikarii_i Büşra ile tanistiniz mi
"When I look at my future, I see you there." 😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤🌈🌈
Cris Lovely 😊
Hey freak go fuck yourself Sueda Akyuz 🗡
Waiting for my forever to tell me this!! #sanalahat
Yadırgamıyorum ama farklı bir ilişki. Her şeyiyle farklı bir yaşam. Film veya kitap gibi...
Farklı olması onu anılmaya değer kılmaz mı?
Anılmaya değer kılınanlar sadece farklı olanlar mı oluyor?
Hope to hear the bells soon. Love you girls and I wish you all happiness on Earth together
To me, marriage is whatever you make of it in that relationship. There should be no expectations. Your relationship with that person is unique and as Sadie said you're choosing to walk a similar path with them. I definitely have a more positive view on marriage despite the experiences I've seen with marriage over the years. Anything can happen and you can't hope for the worst and potentially miss out on the best.
Why P’s eyes are soooooo adorable and so lovable
I view people's approach to marriage like a gym membership: by simply signing up people feel like they're already on their way to achieving their goals and then when it comes time to put in the hard work, they start procrastinating. It appears as though by simply signing a piece of paper and patting oneself on the back too early with no muscles built, the brain automatically shuts down when it comes to the actual "doing". I agee with P, only celebrate once there is something to be proud of instead of celebrating something that doesn't exist, yet.
For me, marriage is merely a piece of paper, what is important You and your Love, Love each other forever. Thank you for this video. I miss you both..😍😍😍
I really liked hearing both of your perspectives. Definitely makes a person think!
i love all your opinions, your talking and all... you guys rock ❤️
your channel is food for the soul.
When P grabbed the cookie from S's hand I thought that she was going to do something as S burnt herself. But P ate it🤣🤣. & My views about getting marriaged goes with both P's & S's thoughts👍☺. "If 2 people loves each other should they really get married? Why can't they lead their lives like they were leading it for years?" this is the question that always runs in my mind. & later I realise may be marriage is a kind of declaration that they choose to live together🤷♀️. 💕💕💕 guys.
You two are honest to each other. That count's a lot. Keep going. Aum Shanti.🙏🙏
Both are the same meaning. Any way Thankyou.🙏🙏
This feel weird ...never this early to watch your videoes and comment..
Love from the UK
Beynini aldirip yorum yazanlari denk geldikce nefret soylemi diye sikayet ediyorum, rahatlatici bir eylem 👍🏻
İkiniz de harikasınız! Çok güzel bir videoydu ve düşünce anlayışın çok güzel. Umarım hep mutlu olursunuz. ^-^
Mariage is getting the acceptance of the whole world that you are in a emotional relationship with somebody (in my opinion)
senin ona hissetiğini en azından aynı yoğunlukta hissetmiyor givi geldi bana çok fazla ciddi değil mi annenin bi alt modeli bilgelik ve akıl verme tavrı ile konuşuyor bilemedim. Yaşı ile de alakalı olabilir çok mantık az duygu gördüm ben. Umarım ona ilgi duyan yanın acı çekmeyi seven tarafın değildir
Wow. Good and necessary discussion. There is no guarantee that people will stay together whether there is a marriage certificate or not. After a 30 year relationship, my partner left after saying she was not where she wanted to be and after we were married. One would think a person would have figured things out after all that time, but I think hormones had a part in it. Marriage is a legal contract, too. Get a prenuptial no matter what. I lost a lot of money....a lot....after my divorce. Divorce laws vary in every state. That money, and earning potential, can not be recreated later in life. Enjoy the love, but protect yourself legally and financially.
RELATIONSHIP GOALS❤️❤️
No one ever can estimate the age gab between you in the first glance. And it's quite interesting that she's really look alike with your mother. In psychology, it said that we choose our mates who look like to our parents. You guys are the proof! I really do like you relationship, you're lovely!
Love Sadies opinion:)
Yassss.......let's do that
Ne güzel açıkladın sedef, "bu bizim aşkımız bundan dolayı gurur duyuyoruz" kesinlikle katılıyorum. Sosyal baskılardan uzak ise hele harika
i agree with Sadie. she is more relaxed about marriage. and i guess it is a useful legal option to protect the rights of people who are living together. love of course can not be limited to rings on finger. but it is super nice that you are celebrating your love with people you love. and i heard someone saying marry to the person that you can break up peacefully.
I don't believe im marriage. I agree with your opinions. I think people marry for the wrong reasons. Nice to see a new video.😘
Sadie do you play any video games? If you do, I would like to recommend a game called "Life is Strange". I think you'd love it.
When Sadie asked p how many years did you have to stay together because you were married and she said a whole 13 years. Sadie’s face expression was the same as mine. That’s a long as time feeling unhappy or not in it 100% with someone and staying with them for certain reasons.
Hidir exactly 🙌 too damn long. But at least she’s happy now :)
Hidir I hope you get accepted into the school and I hope everything falls into place for you. God is with you every step of the way. The sadness will pass and you will be alright. ❣️ sending positivity your way
Marriage is beautiful. It’s not to be afraid of, it’s not to be taken lightly, but it’s not for everyone either. But it’s more than just a ring, or a piece of paper. It’s a very spiritual bound between two people. And everyone has different ideas of marriage. But two people should not get married just because they love someone. You can love someone that is totally wrong for you too. Why would you want to marry them? If there’s doubt then wait. And if your partner isn’t quite ready yet, then wait. But this is something that two people need to discuss, and agree on. But I believe in marriage. I believe in commitment. I believe in love. Peace.
I like these two. subscribed.
" Love has its reasons that reason does not know."
pascal
miss u girls
lion roared at the end of the video =)
YOU TWO ARE ADORABLE
Congratulations!!!
Sadie is very smart about marriage .❤️💕
hiç bir ingilizce dersinde şöyle derin muhabbetlere şahit olamıyorum TEŞEKKÜR EDERİM. altyazı için ayrıca teşekkürler
yemişim böyle ingilizcesini ÇOK KÖTÜ ÖRNEK OLUYOLAR ÇOCUKLARA!
çocuk senin değil mi kapat internetini, sınırla bilgisayarını HERŞEYİ YASAKLA YAŞAMASIN KÖLEN OLSUN İSTEDİĞİN GİBİ BÜYÜT EVLAT DEĞİL KÖLE YETİŞTİR.
Kardeşim ben ingilizceyi ingilterede öğrendim sıkıntım yok elhamdulillah, bu tür ahlak yoksunu azmış insanları dinleyerek ingilizceni geliştiremezsin benden sana tavsiye. Ben ahlaklı bir insan yetiştirbilirsem ne mutlu bana....ALLAHIN KİTABINI AÇ OKU...
sizin gibi dar görüşlü insanlarla tartışmayacağım, ahlaklı bir birey olarak azmış insanları izlememenizi öneriyorum
Allah sizin gibi düşünen insanlara hidayet nasip etsin.
I agree with P. As a matter of fact, if we look at the history of marriage we can see that it was created to control people, especially women. I know nowadays people get married because they love each other but I do believe that getting married is primarily due to convenience. What I mean is that if you are married, you are legally entitled to certain things, let's say you get some privileges that you don't normally get when you are not married. For example, you have different citizenship, if you are married, you both get the same visa as you are considered each other's spouse. When you have an accident (this happened to me in Italy) you are not entitled to see your partner unless you have some documents proving your relationship (don't worry I just lied and I got to see my partner anyway). You get my point right?! My ideal of a perfect relationship is a relationship which doesn't need a piece of paper or any rituals to prove it. It is a relationship based on mutual honesty and respect for one another (I'd rather be alone otherwise) but at the same time, my ideal world is a world without borders where passports are no longer needed. I do agree with P though that many people who get married tend to take their partner for granted and no longer travel the extra mile to keep evolving together and a love nest quickly turns into a cage. In modern society, an LGBTQ wedding is very important because it is a sign that society is changing and opening up to new forms of love, however the lifestyle routine seems to be the same for me. In my opinion what matters the most is that you stay in love with one another and anything else is secondary or, as they would say in Italy, just the cherry on top of the cake.
both opinions are amazing ..
Bence çok tatlı ve harikasınız devam etmenizi dilerim
what I cannot understand is why we keep asking the same question again and again. What is wrong with marrying someone even if in the long run things don't work as we want them to do? My ex used to tell me 'well if you want, it doesn't matter for me' whenever I asked him whether we would marry one day... To me, if a person is turning marriage into a philosophical issue, it means that person doesn't really feel connected to the other person -this is especially true when it is obvious that the other person in the same relationship values marriage...Things are simple: nothing should stop someone from doing what their partners value...when questions or hesitance start, the relationship falls apart...that's of course my opinion :) Have a lovely day girls!
I think you guys should talk about with each other about this more.because i see a point that one of u have hesitation about somethings.
jan darc217 yes. i see it too
Yay! Can’t wait both of you get marry.
That’s one of my biggest dreams marrying my soulmate and hoping to find her.🌈🏳️🌈
Oooh I'm like never one of the first comments.
I was just wondering when you were going to post a new video!! It seems that it's my lucky day
yaa neden sizi geç keşfettim ki ulan çok tatlısınız😍🙈💞💞
Tuğba Mira ne purson burda 😂!! Serfsiz beğendin mı ??
Mira김 yaş farki oldugu için biraz rahatsiz edici
Gece Efe homofobik? Şaka mısın ben sadece yakişmadiklarini söyledim ve bunu baska bir cift icinde soyleye bilirim bu benim fikrim
Y’all are so cute!!!
Is Sadie even listening in the beginning?
Çok tatlı bi çiftsiniz 😍🙏
European - Western culture marriage is a public expression of mutual commitment to each other. With that comes certain legal ramifications that are commonly accepted vs not being legally united. Issue can arise at a most inopportune time such as after an auto accident where one of you is seriously injured. Do you want your wife to make decisions or wait for someone who may be a couple thousand miles away because your girlfriend legally can't? Palimony cases have set precedent on straight civil issues (owning a house together) for couples. Its the "I AM her wife" that counts when really serious decisions matter.
How young are you guys?
Sadie, your girlfriend is so pretty!!!! 😊🌈
Why do you use to eat when you post a video ? 😂😂
Sadie kaç yaşında P kaç yaşında? Bilmeyen bir ben kaldım herhalde
My queens
She is really cool and wise. I'm happy for you. i hope you both will be happy forever ❤️mutluluklar
Çok güzelsiniz ❤️
Bu sizin ilişkiniz, kötü yorumlara aldırış etmeyin 💕 bir erkek,kadın evliliğinde yaş sıkıntı olmuyor.Aşkın yaşı yoktur deniyor.
Neden lezbiyen bir çift için de bu geçerli değil?İnsanlar fazla önyargılı oldukları için anlayış göstermiyorlar.
Dediğim gibi bu sizin ilişkiniz ve mükemmelsiniz 💕
Age gap doesn't matter.When I fell in love with my partner she was 19 I was 25. Around those ages you think like its impossible because there is usually a huge mind and soul age gap. So she was a teenage too and she was the one who came to me. First I rejected because I thought she is just a teenage who is looking for fun and I ve always dated with people older than me. She insisted and somehow we started to date officially. She was younger than anyone around me including my sister. So it felt so weird at first but its been 2 years and we still are together and she is the one who says don't cry like a baby in this relationship. You never know! lol
I want to be like you guys when ı grow up 😍
Çoçuğunuzun ismini lütfen benim ismimi koy.Lütfennnn🤭
bırakın şu yargıları nedense birtek biz türklerde var bu böyle yabancı videolarda gördüm yorum okudum kimse kimseyi yargılamıyor size ne arkadaş insanların tercihlerinden
hi Sadie! i'm from Turkey. I live in Ankara and i'm 18 yo. I need advice. I am a girl and i like girls (%90). But i don't know how to come out to my parents first. Should i come out? :P I am afraid :( I don't know if i am ready to come out. My beautiful but unsympathetic country makes it harder.. What should i do?
+çalış köle I would say only come out to friends and family that you know are supportive or at least accepting of lgbt. If your family isn't then there's no point in coming out since it will only make things harder for you. Hope this helps ❤️
thank youuu
yerim kiz sizleri :) Cok tatlisiniz
It's not just a ring or a paper is also social security rights and another bunch of stuff.
♥️♥️♥️
Anlamadığım şey kim kime sokuyo
Mükemmelsiniz ama. 💚💚💛💛💜💜💙💙🖤🖤
💯 Percent Truth Marriage 💍💒💐
What Y'all is Talkin Abtz ;)
I think Sadie is really sensible for hear age
Altyazı eklersen çok daha iyi olur 💙
Alt yazi eklendi.
Hi! I've got a question for P. If you dated a man, married a man, made a kid, etc. doesn't it mean that actually you are, or at least used to be, bi rather than les? No offence, just out of curiosity )
Yunus Emre Erkan a lot of lesbians get married to men
O kadar tatlı birisin ki.düşüncelerin hayata bakışın. mutluysan devam et bu ilişkiye ama sana yanlış yapmasına izin verme .kendi yaşıtını bul .bunu deme hakkım yok biliyorum ama sana. yazık oluyor
I don't BELIEVE in divorce . A marriage is for Life 😘😍 .
I love your channel i am asexual man
Yall are really two different people i have seen in a relationship. But lets see how this goes. Check *kitch and ree* they are also like this. One is 41 and the other is twenty something buh they great too. Dating matured ones are just super dope to me.
Sadie💯👍
what is the real name of P?
P is just so gorgeous!
Paola
Love is love 🇹🇷
Secil Gul love always win!🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
As mgtow guy who has been monk mode for past twenty years, I enjoy this topic .. I don't tell other guys how to live, yet ..for me, by quietly turning and walking away .. the only way.
aranızda kaç yaş var
You must married in Sivas. Really you will have a lot of unforgettable memories here. 😀 I’m gonna help you about everything for that and I’m inviting you to Sivas. 😎
Ya ama bu çok sevimli 💙💚
Sadie, marry me😋
Video çekerken bir şey yemeyi sonraya bıraksanız veya bu kadar uzun yenen bir şey seçmeseniz. çünkü konuşmanızdan çok kurabiyeyi nasıl yiyeceğinize odaklanıyorum seyrederken.
Ben erkek arkadasimla bile boyle bir konusma yapmadim.
Ben çok mutlu bir evlilik yaşıyorum meselaaa❤
hope I find my gf
Çok sıkıcı bir ilişki içim darlanıyor hep karşıma çıkıyor bir de nasıl ana sayfam dan çıkarabilirim bilmiyorum.
Eşcinsellikle sorunum yok ama çok çok sıkıcı ya
Kadın nasıl olsa ölüp gideceğiz bir de bunu deneyelim tarzında sanki genç bir kız için çok sıkıcı
I dont see a point in marrying tbh.
Besides legal rights...me neither. Not that I can where I live tho xD
turkuaz mavisi mirhibi
You don't see a point in marrying, because you have never dated enough to marry@! When you find the one, whom you believe completes you, then you will definitely get married!
Seth Elledge Wouldn’t that be like saying, “You don’t see yourself having kids because you haven’t met the right person to have a family with” to someone that doesn’t like children?
I get the point, It’s just the answer kinda struck me like “You aren’t sure because you haven’t tried it” which isn’t the case in many situations.
For example, I see marriage as something I would need to do in order for my partner and I to have the same legal/civil rights not something I need to do to prove my love or something like that. Maybe Op sees it like that too or just like a meaningless paper/ceremony.
well! I will tell you exactly what I meant by what I had written here! The fact is I dated a girl for 4 years, who had never allowed a man to even hold her hand, much less kiss her! We are 10 years apart! I have dated numerous girls; so, therefore, I know exactly what I want in a lifetime Partner; whereas, she did not have a clue! She is Turkish, just by the way! She never even had a boyfriend! NEver kissed anyone! When she and I finally had the opportunity to date, she had given to me her entire heart. How can anyone sit here and say what he or she will not be willing to do unless you had first gone through it? Seems to be that is quite silly!
Aranızda kaç yaş var bilmiyorum ama ilk başta annen sandım 😯
Yanlis degilsem birisi 23, birisi 50...
Dilan o kadının 50 olduğuna inanmam
ben de aynı şekilde düşündüm kıyamet çok yakın.......
Paula'nın 1967 doğumlu olması lazımdı
Bende sandim
Marriage is part of our life, not our life.....
❤❤❤❤ her nekadar anlamasamda sizi seviyorum
alt yazi kondu yarin bak.
Y. R so cutee 💜💜💜💜💜
Cute😍
click-bait?
Well, they indeed talk about marriage tho...
I don't understand people who get married super young. It's like....you're young and carefree only once, enjoy that shit! The most stressful thing in your life in youth should be your class exams, imo.
how old she?
Tutku Ceren 50
Defne Sedef ablaya göre yaşı oldukça ileriymiş ama aşkın yaşı olmaz❤
Tutku Ceren işte Sadie 22 ye girecekmiş o da 50 ye
Türkiye'de evlilik yasal olsaydı kesinlikle evlenirdim 😁
Ceren Kılıç Türkiye maalesef yobaz ve bağnazlarla dolu gelişmemiş bir ülke.ha şuna izin var.hormonel bir testten geçiyorsun vesaire.gerçekten erkek gibi olduğunu hissettiğini kanıtlayıp ameliyat olup mahkemeye başvurup erkek kimliğini alırsan.evlenebilmen mümkün bkz.Rüzgar Erkoçlar
Rüzgar bile o ülkede bağnaz olmayı başarmış biri :/ . Biri şu ülkeyi kurulduğu zamana kadar resetleyebilir mi?
Ancak ben kadın bedeninden mutlu, kadınlara aşık bir bireyim, açıkçası bu ülkede hiçbir zaman bir şansım olacağını düşünmüyorum ama umut işte.. :)
Ceren Kılıç aha ben :D
Ceren Kılıç ceren bende senin gibi düşünüyorum ben kendimi erkek bedenine sıkışmış bir lezbiyen kadın gibi hissediyorum