My Mom & My Girlfriend
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 เม.ย. 2017
- Introducing my lovely mother! This video is about her thoughts on our relationship, being a parent, and going through menopause...
PS: For all of our Turkish viewers, yes, Derya Köroğlu the lead singer of Yeni Türkü was a family friend of ours.. He was classmates and very close friends with my father. Business Email: sadieandp@gmail.com
P’s Second Channel:
/ @pthebunny2007
P’s MOVIE:
www.openshadowfilm.com/
Sadie’s Instagram:
/ sadie_sedef
P's Instagram:
/ paola.acquamarina
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It is really nice to see your mum & gf together. your mom is so supportive and understanding. Even more interesting is your grandma is cool about same sex relationship, really she is ahead of time.
Love you guyz
the closeness of your GF and your mom is unbelievable, my mom ignores my GF
This is so the opposite of how my gf’s mom acts towards me. She says “Hi” to me and then talks to her daughter the whole time without ever including me. It’s so refreshing to see how they are towards each-other
Annenin konuşmalarını dikkatlice dinledim. Öncelikle şunu söylemek isteyeceğim. Annenin ingilizcesi aynen benimkisi gibi TURKISH - ENGILISH. Yani Türkçe tabiri ile. Türkçeden çeviri yapıyor onu farkettim. Sen İngilizce düşünüyorsun sanırım Sedef. Cümlelerin daha yerinde. Birazda bana öğretsen. :) her neyse, Ailenin çok büyük tepkiler vermemesi güzel olmuş. Ben çünkü açıldığımda ilk anneme 16 yaşındaydım. Hadi ben gene şanslıydım annem Almanya'da büyümüştü. lezbiyenliğin veya bisekseüelliğin anlamını açıklamak zorunda kalmadım. Saygı duymuştu ancak kabullenememişti. Baban gibi bisekseüel olmamı çok istemişti o da. Ama babam gerçekten de zordu. 19 yaşında annemle kavga ettiğimizde öğrendi. Ve üniversite için şehirdışına gittiğime eve gelmememi söylemişti.
Her neyse gel zaman git zaman kabullendiler beni. Aslında tek bir cümle ile kabullendiler. Bir Listag annesinin ben 24 yaşında iken(LİSTAG= LGBT aileleri) Anneme, babama ;"Ne güzel kızınız kendisini hiç gizlememiş ben oğlumun gay olduğunu 40 yaşında öğrendim. 40 yıl boyunca çocuğumu tanıyamamışım. Ne güzel ki kızınız kendisini sizden hiç gizlememiş" diyince bizimkiler 360 derece değişti.
Şu anda 31 yaşındayım. 5 yıldır hayatımda kimse olmadı. Komik gelecek ama onlar bana kız bakmaya başladı. :) Aslında bu durum Türkler'de hep vardı. Kızlara erkek, erkeklere kız bakardı aileler. Bizimkiler bu kültürün cinsiyetini değiştirdi sadece. Çeyizlikler devam ediyor. Partnerimle çıkacağım düşünülen ev için annem ve babam çeyizlik almaya devam ediyor. Gelecek olan geline babamın bir erkek evladı gibi olacağından eminim. Eski sevgilimle babamın yan yana gelişini görecektiniz. Bunun kesinlikle kabullenme ile ilgisi yok. tamamen kıskançlık. "Kızıma bakma haaa "der gibi bir bakışı vardı babamın şahane bir görüntü idi. Zaman zaman babamın eski sevgilimle yarışa girdiğini gördüm bak o benim kızım onu ben daha iyi tanırım halleri. Annem bunu itiraf etmişti eski sevgilimi kıskandığını....Babam tabiki itiraf edemiyor. Babam yalnız başıma eve çıkmamı istemiyor mesela. Bu evden ancak partnerinle eve çıktığında çıkabilirsin gibisinden yaklaşıyor. Ona göre ben partnerimle aynı evde olunca evlenmiş olacağım. Babamın ailesi kapalıdır biraz annem bazen benim hayatımdaki şeylere kılıf bulmaya çalışıyor kafasında. Babam bir gün geldi uzaklaşma kuzenlerinden dedi bana. "Yakın olun diyorum "dedi." Sen, seni olduğun gibi kabul eden insanlar olsun istiyorsun hayatında biliyorum" dedi. "Merak etme kızım, Bir gün herkes seni kabullenmeyi öğrenecek" dedi bana babam.
Babam homofobikti ve şu anda tek düşündüğü şey benim mutlu olmam. Ve ben nasıl mutlu isem o şekilde beni kabullenmiş durumda. Türkiye'de evlilik olmasa bile kafasında bir düğün yapma peşinde.
Ailemin tek kız çocuğuyum ve Lezbiyenim. Türkiye'de açık olmak gerçekten çok çok zor. Açılım konusunda yaşadığın "lezbiyen olamam, lezbiyen değilim ben olamam sadece hayranlık bu " dediğim kendime çok oldu benimde. Türkiye'de açık olduğum için kendimi çok şanslı hissediyorum. İş hayatımda kapalı olmak çok zor gelmeye başladı zaman geçtikçe. Ama elimden geldiğince dengesini bulmaya çalışıyorum. Ama elimden geldiğince hayatımdaki bir çok insana açılmaya çalışıyorum. Beni ve eşcinselleri tanımaları için.
Annenle bu videonu izledikten sonra bir baktım ki benim aileme baya benziyorsunuz. özellikle anneannenin size iki tane kahve bardağı yollaması bu da güzelmiş:D Çünkü annemde daha olmayan gelinine üst baş alıyor. Bornoz, havlu(bu arada bunların renkleri özenle seçiliyor mavi ve pembe değil özellikle farklı renkler olmasına dikkat ediliyor), terlik vs. komedi ya...
Türkiye'den ayrılmak istemiyorum, Erdoğan beni kovmadıkça. Kültürüm burda, dilim burda, yemeklerimizi seviyorum, mevsimlerimizi seviyorum. Evet iş hayatı, gerçekten de çok zor bir çok ülkeye göre bende kendimi bu anlamda yetiştirmeye çalıştım elimden geldiğince. Ailemi, arkadaşlarımı ve bir hayatımdan öğeleri sırf "evlenebiliyorum" diye başka bir ülke taşınmak istemiyorum. Kendime güzel ve açık bir hayat yaptım. Umarım Türkiye'deki herkes yapabilir.
Sezil kadıoğlu yaa seni yerim
Nezrin Hesenova :))
Sezil kadıoğlu
tüm hayatını herhangi bir TH-cam videosunun altına yazman ne kadar ilginç
larrie ' bence oldukca doğal..
ahahaha bütün hayatım bu değil.
Brave mom. Brave daughter. Brave P (there were many thoughts in her eyes). I think we all should live today, the real life is not yesterday or tomorrow. Live Love Laugh 😊 Keep going. It's your life 💛
Your mom is great! Love to see that the relationship is accepted and the friendship between P and your mom.
This has to be one of my favorite videos! The chemistry between your mom and P is fantastic! And you look so much like your mom! Lots of love from Spain
Thank you for sharing this. So much warmth and sincerity in this video :)
crushing on P!! you two keep me calm while im diving for lyft and uber. love you both! Thank you for the serenity
this is the cutest video, P and your mom getting along so well and love the way they talk
Your mother has bright eyes.
Nice to see her.
seriously your cat is such a diva 🙆🙆😻😻😻
I do not follow anybody but your stories got my attention and begun to watch them all. I'm now 56, but my childhood was very rough too, I got over depression with a some years of intense therapy and a year of medication, even though its not easy it can be done. I grew up in a middle class super conservative catholic family in northeast Mexico. Macho men and submissive women were the norm. I was a rebellious girl and it cost a lot, from physical punishment to abusive words, I had it all.
I'm telling you this because you are a great young woman and I'm sure you are helping a lot of women to dream bigger to try and succeed in their dreams of freedom and love. I whish I had any hope at that time
So please keep going! Enjoy life one day at a time, enjoy your love, family and friends and don't look back, don't try to get rid of the anger and pain from the past, they're part of you! use them! God will find you when is time. I whish you love and serenity.
Lulu D....well said..
I think that's the first time I heard P's actual name lol
+aisha oops! 😆
Second time ... ;-)
P, is it okay to call you by your first name or should we just unhear it ?🙈
aisha she said it in another video
aisha there this video that they post it mentioning about P's name. she doesn't mind to be called by her first name but she preferred to be called by p'.
I love your mom she so sweet and kind . I’m touched on her soft heart please don’t make her feel sad any day
This was so interesting to watch! Thank you for filming them Sadie!
Woaw I can't tell enough that how much I liked this conversation. Your mother and GF are amazing. Loves to you all
Wonderful discussion. How beautiful of the grandmother to be so accepting and welcoming with giving of the cups.
Your mom and gf look alike, does that not bother you?
Like in the face
Jazmyn Gold hair,skin,nose,eyes,lips! Look alike I agree
leighleigh not really lol
Jazmyn Gold this is actually comon in people. if you really like your parents you tend to chose people that are somewhat close to them (which is weird, but whatever). since they are closer in age than most people you see it better.
Jazmyn Gold I noticed that too.Anyways it doesn't matter why she is attracted to her as long as they love each other.
Sadies mom is so adorable and sweet, I was smiling throughout the whole video.
Awwww, loved your mom's point of view on your relationship. Your mom seem so nice. I find all your videos so interesting. You should do more videos.
I always really enjoy your videos. The video style. The questions and topics raised. Your videos are a pleasure to watch. Stay lovely 💛
AS turk this makes me happy! Best of luck to all of you, what a beauitful family what a beautiful couple! HUGS TO ALL
bu video beni ağlattı resmen. bu nasıl bir sevgidir, nasıl harika bir anne. kocaman sevgiler gönderiyorum
This is beautiful , how calm and chilled they are...awesome.
Your mom is precious, Sadie!!
your momma is BEAUTIFUL and precious!! most turkish moms are just amazing wise women!
¡This is so exciting! 😄👏 Thank you for share this kind of conversations I like them a lot, Is nice to know that there are other people that have a similar way to see life, It's amazing. Thank you guys for share, Greetings from Colombia. 💜😊
I was scanning random channel and I just bumped into yours. I have to admit that I'm almost done watching all your vlogs. I admire both of you Sadie and P. Much love from the Philippines 🇵🇭😍❤️
+Frae Allyfrae 😊💜
im a fan of yours too Sadie...and P...I dont know but I so interested to ur videos....I dont usually commenting...like this..and I am no one in my country..just a simple clost bisexual woman who have nothing...lol....keep strong S@P...
This is so bizzare to watch but I am happy everything is going well for you.Greetings from your neighbour country-Greece!
Sadie's mom is a gift from the stars.
awww you and your mom have the same smile!
This is so cute! ❤
I want more of Sadie's Mommy, please. Both P and she are special in this. xoxo
Sadie your mom is such a nice lady, i like her , so pleasant to listen to
Muhteşem bi video!!! Çok teşekkürler bu güzel sohbetler için. Özellikle menopoz ve hamilelik/çocuk sahibi olmak hakkında ikisinin de söylediklerini dinlemek çok keyifliydi. Hepinize sevgiler
I love u saddie & P ......❤❤
I was waiting for this..😳
Sadie your mom is so cute..so lovely. God bless her! Big love 😍
Hi! Im turkish too :) i want to say that your mother is awesome for a turkish person. Beacuse she acceptrd you the way you are! Not all turkish people are like her
Does a girl have any chances of romantic love with turkish woman?
@@ninosebiskveradze6403 I was with a turkish woman for 4 years. It's totally possible.
Krr Brr well she is a Jewish Turkish not a typical Turkish
She is like me I would same future mother
@@ninosebiskveradze6403 Unless we're assuming certain stereotypes, or a certain woman, I would have thought it depended on the Turkish woman and the other woman in question? Regardless, I hope you find what it is you're looking for.
This was cute and cool, seen their perspectives on their life and your guyses love for each other
I have felt so much joy all throughout the entire video knowing how cool your grandma is about you and P. There is just so much love in this video and thank you for sharing it to us. I hope that this inspires more people and think of the better and more positive things. It is the simple things like this that really matters and I am deeply glad for you that you have such supporting family about your sexuality and relationship. Bless you all. 💖
musicalskyrocket hi
your Mum is lovely! I think Turkish people are very kind and friendly. My niece has just married a lovely Turkish man and his family gave my niece''s family little gifts eventhough they don''t have much money. Very generous spirited people. Love and light to you all
Sadie's mom is so cute as well as her grandma 😀
All of you guys are beautiful women! I hope your aunt will accept you for who you are.
You so much alike to your mom! Eventhough I watched your video about your childhood, I assume you have a good relation with her now. I do hope it is going to stay in that way.
Stil, love you guys!
really love your videos.. I think I heard the band live! really talented!
This is the most beautiful video I've seen on the internet, I swear! Please keep making more impromptu interviews like this! You and your mom look so much alike, and I was amazed how your mom and P looked alike as well! It was just so lovely to see two women who have gone through transitions talk about life and this and that. It was so eloquent and just so nice!
awesome video, I love it 💑
Annen çoook tatlı biri insanın enerjisini yükseltiyor❤️❤️
Wow! Quiet simply amazing!
Your mom is a wonderful woman. I love you guys. :)
Sadie, you and your mom have the same smile!
this video is amazing
Love all of it and all of u.... and Sadie, don't be mad at me, but I somehow have kind of a crush on your italian lover ;) AHAHAH love u all! "See ya" on your next video!
Ps. a vlog of a patchwork-family-day would be great!
Sadie, your mom seems so sweet! :-)
Annene bayildim dunya uzerinde bu sekilde medeni insanlar gormek cok guzel.desteklemesine gercekten cok sevindim.bayildim videolar harika💗 my name is also Sedef✌
Oh how I love Daisy :-) very gorgeous person.. That smile and laughter is the best
Derya Köroğlu'ndan bahsediyor çok şaşırdım ve yalnızca iki video izlediğim halde annene aşık oldummmmm
Annen çok tatlı birisi. Seni olduğun gibi kabul eden bir ailen olduğu İçin çok şanslısın 💞
your mom is so cool! Very loving..cheeers to you sadie and paola!
oooooh, been wondering all day what P's name was !!!!!!!
i just found ur channel and im in love with it ! can u do vlogs ? greetiings from germany :)
I love you sadie so much ❤❤❤❤
your mom is really cute , you have to do more videos with her 💕
#from SAUDI ARABIA
This was just great.
Hi Sadie and P
Sadie your mother is lovely 😎🇦🇺
Really really happy to see a different perspective of life through your videos & they are interesting. God Bless you with all happiness. 🌸🌼🌹
Great video, Sadie!
I think they don't look alike... Just a little bit similar for the skin tone and the hair's colour! Btw,
I really would love to have a relationship with the person I'm in love with (we also have age gap) and also would love this person and my mom would have a good 'connection' like P. & your mom do... You all seems to fit good together!
I wish you all the best.
ps: sorry for my english.
the cat is like wtf are these women talking about she doesn't give a damn! :)))
Hi Sadie, I really enjoyed the video sweetie ......you have your moms smile....I am so happy that you have a relationship with your mom and that she loves and accepts you as your are ( your mom has a cute & bubbly personality ) So glad she gets along with P as well. May the Lord bless your family.... Love Amada
Lol, very nice video you have a lovely mum very nice girlfriend and a angelic voice. All THE BEST FROM ENGLAND!
P looks so good / beautiful even with coconut oily hair🙈💟
What is coconut oily hair?
@@meryemswift6893 …. hair…. with coconut oil in it👁👄👁?
wow, what an awesome video and what a beautiful and bright woman is your mom. i didn't expect this 'cos of your early videos about your family story. i've assumed totally wrong but now i feel better. you r so lucky to surround these lovely women like p and your mom. please forget the past, be happy and don't mind this age gap thing so much. love has no age. btw, i'm 48, straight, married turkish mom and love watching your videos. maybe Turkey is a bit difficult country especially about LGBTQ stuff and having tough time as a country right now as u know but i have full support to LGBTQ community and i have so many Turkish friends thinks like me. don't forget we Turkish women r amazing in every way! lots of love:)
I love p so much...
Did her mom say she is 54 ? And P is 49 ?
Kendini gerçekleştirmiş dünyayı ve kendini mutlak gerçeklikle kabullenmiş 3 insan görüyorum. Harikasınız .
marry diamond Bunu sapkınlık olduğunu düşünmüyorsun yani ? (Lezbiyen olmasını kastetmiyorum)
Anne çok tatlı. Böyle enerjik insanlara imreniyorum.
what an amazing mama!!!!
Yeni kesfettigim birisin çok eğleniyorum 👍 keşke ingilizcem daha iyi olsa da her şeyi anlayabilsem diyorum hatta 😇 videolara devam etmelisin ❤
Çok tatlısınız ❤️
Kusura bakmayın ama ben ilişkide bu denli fazla bir yaş farkı olmasını doğru bulmuyorum, neredeyse annesi yaşında bir sevgilisi var bu her iki taraf içinde sağlıksız bir ilişki.
Aynı zamanda bunun psikoloji açısından da iyi olduğunu düşünmüyorum.
Zaten bence Sadie’nin annesi de bu ilişkiyi fazla desteklemiyor.
Yanlış yapıyorsunuz bu aşk değil.
Angelof TH-cam Kesinlikle homofobik biri değilim ama yaş farkı çok fazlaysa problem bence.Annesi de içten içe desteklemiyor gibi geldi bana.
Anne-kız ilişkisini aşk sanmışlar işte hepsi bu
İbneliği onaylayıp yaş farkını onaylamamak kaldı mı böyle
Bu aşk. Ama bu kadar yas farkı anormal
her motto is best motto ever
Senin annen yeryüzüne inmiş bir Melek ❤ sizi çok seviyorummmmmm 😊😊😊
i'm italian and i guessed P's name at first try haha bellissime
Suzy94 lei.e italiana?
si la sua ragazza è italiana! mi sembra vivano in inghilterra
Italian is a very beautiful language. You are beautiful ,too;)
Whoa your mum is awesome. I wouldn’t expect that from your cultural background but man she’s miles ahead!
Very lucky woman you are for sure!
Just a random question. I'm curious what lens and camera you use? It looks pretty great, but also it's good lighting so that helps.
It's a cannon rebel t5i, and i use a sigma 1.4 30mm lens. :)
Congrats mom you are wonderful ❤️
That s just beautiful. Inspiring. Encouraging. Ravishing.
P looks much more younger than 49!
omg her mom was so cool and she's beautiful also 😊...
kameranın markasını modelini ve hangi lensi kullandıgını öğrenebilir miyim? birde hangi mikrofon😊
Sadie and her mum have very similar facial features for sure.
Hayatımda gördüğüm en değişik 3 lü iletişimi izledim, baya baya değişik geldi. Mutluluklar 🐸👍
Hey i wanna be a friend with u
how is her name p ?
Ben str8 erkeğim ama Turk ve Yahudi olduğunuzu ögrenince takip etmeye başladım ayni zamanda gurur duydum bir Turk olarak guzel kalpli insanlarsınız. P biraz maskulen duruyor ama oldukça karizmatik bir kadin. Mutluluğunuz daim olsun😊
how old is p exactly? i thought you were 21
Ohh sadie ilove your mom already😍😍😍
the subtitles are wrong in english
Love from Bahrain
Your mum and P look realllyyy similar !
an awesome acceptance...
Your mummy she is so lovely Sadie
Did nobody else think that that was P's mom???
No. Because we can read ;))
+Lucie Vec HAHAHA
Bc our religions thinking style.. she is jewish thats why she is awesome than us :)
Beautiful people 😊