wowDr Dart so happy to accidentally discover you ... why? well becuase being a therapist myself .. one of my ongoing considerations was .. how the heck could I have missed it .. and it led me to really research this .. read a great book written by a male therapist who himself was caught offguard and now meeting you here and I have been amazed by how prevalent this is .. and how many people suffer in silence and so I've joined groups, started series on www.karryonservices.com ... so many women get ill literally having endured this type of toxic relationship and men as well becuase it can be a male or female .. and jus thankful that you are helping others and it has helped me as a younger therpist who has been there myself .. thank you and blessings!
Thank you so much. I am on my way to leaving my husband we have 1 year left on our lease rental. I can't wait. I an going through so many emotions and physical issues. I binge watched a bunch of your videos. I get it how horrible the narcs are . Now it is my turn to heal many life coaches are focusing to much on the narcissistis and it triggers me so much. My adrenals need to heal and focusing on the narsisst drives me nuts. It almost like a fuel to the internal fire that I want to extinquish.
Thanks...the ones who find u while still in the relationship are fortunate...I was so uninformed and list...now, after a year of being away from him, I think I am finally understanding it all
I'm glad the videos are helpful to you. Healing after narcissistic abuse isn't easy and takes active working through. It's not uncommon for traumatic memories to resurface for quite a while that still need to be processed.
Dr Dart THANK YOU is not enough. What you are doing is making a difference. For us co dependent empaths with adolescent minors are even more challenging. I constantly struggle to cope but coping nonetheless. Acknowledging our own accountability in a circumstance is a great start. For the relentless effort that you do, thank you.
Thank you so much. I’ve subscribed to your channel and have been listening to it on my move across the country away from a toxic relationship. EVERY WORD hits my heart. Thank you again.
I wanted to update you I have so much strength and I’m focusing more on myself and I rewatch your videos and read the book “Why he does that” by Lundy B…. I’m more focus on my relationship with God and made a support of people and told them what been really going on…. Life feels so exciting and I’m looking forward for my freedom and peace.
Wow.. i have never find anyone like her..only you are giving me confidence to move on..dear mam, i have no family to support, only my sister understands me because she has gone through this with her colleague.. im helpless.. please help me.. no money, no support from anyone.. i don't understand why can't everyone understand this?? Please help me as a human being to live again..
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Be safe.
This video really resonated with me on all levels , my husband has tried every trick in the book to get me back , I hope to get a restraining order soon currently lock down has made it difficult to get a divorce . I am grateful that I am in a safe space and managed to change my number to cut off the contact , lots of people keep telling me I may still have feelings for him , after being sexually assaulted😔 I have been seeing: a counselor ; a psychiatrist and a psychologist
The feelings others say may be there is likely a trauma bond. Sounds like you are doing the right thing to keep yourself safe, break any residual bonds that may be there and move on. 💜
WOW. I just got emotionally abused and blocked a young man I met on Facebook where we became text buddies/confidants, zero romantic interest ever. What's interesting to note is he is intelligent and conversational but moreso that obviously I've learned to put up with crap even with a stranger. LOL NOT
Great information on this video but I wish people would stop always referring to narcissists, controllers, and abusers as men. Women are very much this way too.
Your vids should have more views, maybe a few more hashtags can be added? I see men also go through this, a lot of men...I know it was mentioned in at least one of them, and it can be family members or co-workers, bosses as well. Anyway, I had bumped into these and found them useful to share with people struggling to respect themselves and have courage to either get out or stay out, but for some reason, finding them again was difficult, and these are much better than the ones that did come up via keyword search. I have them saved now, but for others...they’re very well-presented- professional, level-headed, compassionate, supportive, with good information and coping tools. I’d hope to see a lot more views. I think it’s because they aren’t easy to find. I sure see a lot of suffering out there, and it’s not selfish to refuse to engage or feed the egos of these people. It does the narcissists a disservice, actually, to keep in friendly contact with them, or fail to leave, or otherwise allow them to continue unchecked, because if no one ever stands up to them, they won’t ever have the opportunity to face themselves (which they avoid like the plague) and they’ll never grow. We don’t owe them that, but we all do owe ourselves the company of supportive people, peace of mind, and good, solid boundaries...
wowDr Dart so happy to accidentally discover you ... why? well becuase being a therapist myself .. one of my ongoing considerations was .. how the heck could I have missed it .. and it led me to really research this .. read a great book written by a male therapist who himself was caught offguard and now meeting you here and I have been amazed by how prevalent this is .. and how many people suffer in silence and so I've joined groups, started series on www.karryonservices.com ... so many women get ill literally having endured this type of toxic relationship and men as well becuase it can be a male or female .. and jus thankful that you are helping others and it has helped me as a younger therpist who has been there myself .. thank you and blessings!
Thank you so much. I am on my way to leaving my husband we have 1 year left on our lease rental. I can't wait. I an going through so many emotions and physical issues. I binge watched a bunch of your videos. I get it how horrible the narcs are . Now it is my turn to heal many life coaches are focusing to much on the narcissistis and it triggers me so much. My adrenals need to heal and focusing on the narsisst drives me nuts. It almost like a fuel to the internal fire that I want to extinquish.
Thanks...the ones who find u while still in the relationship are fortunate...I was so uninformed and list...now, after a year of being away from him, I think I am finally understanding it all
I'm glad the videos are helpful to you. Healing after narcissistic abuse isn't easy and takes active working through. It's not uncommon for traumatic memories to resurface for quite a while that still need to be processed.
Thank you, Denise. You've helped me throughout this process more than you'll ever know.
I needed this! Fantastic video, thank you
Thank you Annette. Glad you found it helpful.
Dr Dart THANK YOU is not enough. What you are doing is making a difference. For us co dependent empaths with adolescent minors are even more challenging. I constantly struggle to cope but coping nonetheless. Acknowledging our own accountability in a circumstance is a great start. For the relentless effort that you do, thank you.
+Audrey Ketchum Thank you Audrey for your kind feedback. I am passionate about helping to spread the word about this insidious form of abuse. 💜
Thank you so much. I’ve subscribed to your channel and have been listening to it on my move across the country away from a toxic relationship. EVERY WORD hits my heart. Thank you again.
Safe travels on your freedom ride 💜
Dr.Hart you saved me I’m finally in the process to leave I watch your videos everyday!
I'm so glad!
I wanted to update you I have so much strength and I’m focusing more on myself and I rewatch your videos and read the book “Why he does that” by Lundy B…. I’m more focus on my relationship with God and made a support of people and told them what been really going on…. Life feels so exciting and I’m looking forward for my freedom and peace.
Wow.. i have never find anyone like her..only you are giving me confidence to move on..dear mam, i have no family to support, only my sister understands me because she has gone through this with her colleague.. im helpless.. please help me.. no money, no support from anyone.. i don't understand why can't everyone understand this?? Please help me as a human being to live again..
Thank you
Thank you so much for helping us to get on with our lives. I whis for you to have a continouis healthy and fullfilling live.
Amazing video, thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
You are so welcome Tammie, I'm glad the video was helpful to you! Thank you for taking the time to give your feedback.
the person I left was my dad the relationship was more like I was his wife after mom left him.
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Be safe.
Good advice. When an RO is necessary it's an essential tool for staying safe.
You are a bliss Dr
Thanks a million
❤
This video really resonated with me on all levels , my husband has tried every trick in the book to get me back , I hope to get a restraining order soon currently lock down has made it difficult to get a divorce .
I am grateful that I am in a safe space and managed to change my number to cut off the contact , lots of people keep telling me I may still have feelings for him , after being sexually assaulted😔
I have been seeing: a counselor ; a psychiatrist and a psychologist
The feelings others say may be there is likely a trauma bond. Sounds like you are doing the right thing to keep yourself safe, break any residual bonds that may be there and move on. 💜
Welcome back !
WOW. I just got emotionally abused and blocked a young man I met on Facebook where we became text buddies/confidants, zero romantic interest ever. What's interesting to note is he is intelligent and conversational but moreso that obviously I've learned to put up with crap even with a stranger. LOL NOT
Great information on this video but I wish people would stop always referring to narcissists, controllers, and abusers as men. Women are very much this way too.
I am desperate for help
Your vids should have more views, maybe a few more hashtags can be added? I see men also go through this, a lot of men...I know it was mentioned in at least one of them, and it can be family members or co-workers, bosses as well.
Anyway, I had bumped into these and found them useful to share with people struggling to respect themselves and have courage to either get out or stay out, but for some reason, finding them again was difficult, and these are much better than the ones that did come up via keyword search. I have them saved now, but for others...they’re very well-presented- professional, level-headed, compassionate, supportive, with good information and coping tools.
I’d hope to see a lot more views. I think it’s because they aren’t easy to find. I sure see a lot of suffering out there, and it’s not selfish to refuse to engage or feed the egos of these people. It does the narcissists a disservice, actually, to keep in friendly contact with them, or fail to leave, or otherwise allow them to continue unchecked, because if no one ever stands up to them, they won’t ever have the opportunity to face themselves (which they avoid like the plague) and they’ll never grow. We don’t owe them that, but we all do owe ourselves the company of supportive people, peace of mind, and good, solid boundaries...
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